This guy is good looking. If he can't get a girlfriend then there's no hope for me.

Yeah I feel you. I’m 25 and never had a gf, I haven’t even kissed someone. I go to the gym every day and I’ve been trying to work on my social skills but nothing seems to work. It’s kinda hard because I really want to feel loved by someone

so im 22 and never even been kissed, i just dont care anymore.

22 here and no gf either, never had..who knows what the future holds

I greatly appreciate all the support I got (and getting) from you guys and girls, it really means a whole lot in this struggle I'm still going through. For those of you in the same situation: We're in this together.

I feel you bro. I'm going through the exact thing you are. I'm 24 years old. While I would never wish this on anyone, it is nice to know I'm not alone and that there are people out there who are experiencing the same thing. Keep punching, wishing nothing but the best for you.

31 years and no girlfriend :(

I'm 18, also got no girlfriend, i was just that person who wasn't really talking to people in high school, whenever i say hi to a girl, i just get anxiety, i do got friends, but whenever it come's to girl's i'm just to nervous in-front of girl's, high school was just tuff for me! just hope for the best for all you guys that are struggling in this world, just have hope in yourself..

All I can say is the realest type of guys who can offer great love are the ones who can't get a genuine one. Based on experience.

I'm almost 22,no kiss,no sex,no freaking girlfriend

you are a good looking guy

This situation sucks so damn much. Tomorrow is fucking new years and it’s just the yearly reminder again that nothing has changed. Another lonely year of my early 20s I’ll never get back. I don’t even really care about sex anymore, just want to experience a loving relationship.

21 no girlfriend

25, same position, except I have social anxiety too.

Your video and reading the comments make me feel better to know that I'm not alone. It also reaffirms that we guys can depend on each other much more than anything in the world!

I am 20 no gf. Pls help me im really desperate, impatient and out of control about this

23 never had a gf also, my goal is like 68 without gf.

This really hit home. I'm currently 18, about to be 19, never been kissed by a girl, gotten laid, or had a meaningful relationship with a girl in my life. I had a brief summer fling with someone but, she was absolutely unbearable. Good thing is, I am actually talking to a girl that i am very interested in starting a relationship with and that i genuinely like a lot. It hasn't gone insanely far yet, I don't even know her real name or even where she lives, but we get along fine when we text. It really is hard to put yourself out there, and communicate (especially to women) when you have insane social anxiety and just general social ineptitude. Really hope you eventually find that special someone Jack.

I’m 18 and only have had ONE girlfriend that lasted only three months and it was honestly the worst experience ever she would ignore me for a week str8 then message me the week after explaining she was “stressed” but yet she would always post on her snap and Facebook having the time of her life...even when all I wanted was to hang out with her or take her out for dinner she would make up some lame lie as why she can’t. And that’s only the little part of it she honestly ruined me man...just don’t rush into it bro make sure you find the right one man cause females are honestly so horrible bro.

Almost 28 and still no girlfriend, everyday I’m feeling useless and contributing to society or my family at all

Im 23 &I can relate 100% to you .my stress levels are so high like you

It's a state of mind. I'm 23 too and I never had a girlfriend because I can't speak with girls and I walk all day around town and set on park benches waiting for a girl... and everyday my anger and sadness grow up. Some time I think I should just go ahead and tell'em but at the end I can't. I'm doomed bro; doomed

Yeah brother same as myself and I’m 20. I have good looks, so I’m told, so do you. But my depression keeps telling me I’m ugly and worthless. Everyday is a roller coaster and I just don’t know how to go with getting a gf.

Currently 19 and never had a girlfriend. This video makes me feel better that I'm not alone in my struggles, I hate it tho. Just want someone to hold hands with, you know? I hate it.

Hey bro I'm in the same exact hole in life I can't come out of. I started to realize man it don't matter thinking about it won't change nothing. Just be yourself man you look a great dude and hope for the best. All is bullsht man either it happened or it doesn't.

You don’t want a gf, “They’re ugly and they stink!” - Craig South Park

I can totally relate mate. Enjoying life by myself until someone wants to be a part of my life. "Never had a GF before either Jack, we are not the only ones..

I'm 22 and never had a girlfriend too my life is full of depression,anxiety😒😒

My brother is 26 and never had one.

Dude, we are living the same exact life. Like verbatim it's crazy!

I’m 19 and I’ve already realized it’s over for me. I mean, every single girl I’ve expressed interest in has rejected me. And no other girl has expressed remotely any romantic interest in me. On top of that I’m socially awkward and have a very hard time keeping up a good conversation and talking to new people. It’s really hard living without any sort of affectionate connection and knowing that I’ll probably never get to experience it. I asked a female acquaintance of mine to tell me whether or not I’m ugly and she told me that I’m an 8/10. I realize now how big of a mistake it is to ask someone that question because nobody wants to be the person to tell someone they’re ugly and potentially kill their self esteem. But anyway I ended up asking a girl for her number a short while after that and the girl looked at me with an expression of disgust on her face. Obviously I’m ugly. So I get no matches on tinder and since I’m socially awkward I have no chance of making good conversation with a girl and meeting someone that way. I’m completely screwed. Seeing cute girls and stuff just makes my head hurt because I have that urge deep down to try to talk to her but I know I don’t have a chance. It’s a fucked up life sometimes

Never give up we all gonna make it brahs! Be the best you can be

59 and no girl friend ever i dojt even know how to talk to girls

I have a hard time approaching girls too ,I’m 22 years old ,I’m doing my best .The worst part is make mistake in this process ,that’s what hurts so bad .Its so embarrassing,my friends are far head with experience.

Jack, the problem with social anxiety (myself) is overthinking everything. I did try to date a few people here and there, but I didn't enjoy these experiences because they were too much for me to handle. I can't assume I know you, but my main issue is my gay asexuality. It wasn't easy for me to accept it at first. Just cuddling and kissing, but no sex. Most people don't understand this, and this is the reason why you have to really ask yourself what it is exactly that you're looking for either sexually or romantically. I'm as old as you, and thankfully I know myself better now. I'm telling you, it's not easy, but there will always be people who do care about you or are interested in being your partner. I wish you the best of luck because you seem an amazing guy to me!☹️

19 year old still no girlfriend, just afraid of rejection ,its more worse when your friends have one

I find it’s very hard to find girls these days, and most people don’t want to be seen as creeps

I know how you feel man. I’m a 22 year old woman and never had a boyfriend. It sucks.

Keep it pushing. A lot of men are in this situation. I've had some intimacy here and there, but nothing in a long time.. It happens to everyone. Keep investing, head up.

Same, I'm seeing a therapist about it.

I’m bout to turn 25 with no gf. I’m physically attractive but the looks never matter it’s the charisma that i lack. Fwb or hooking up with a girl is even tough for me, women get so turned off because i don’t talk much i have social anxiety disorder

You don't know how much watching this video meant for me. i'm 17 (yeah I know you're all older than me, but this has been on my mind too lately) and I have never had a girlfriend. So I totally feel you man. i know you're 6 years older but I can already feel the 6 years going and I'm in the same situation. i blame social media for that but I guess that's no excuse for it. Having to snapchat a girl instead of talking with her face to face is just so annoyingly uncomfortable. And all this game stuff that people do nowadays, it just sounds so dumb! The "game" is just so mechanical and it could be called a "Social Discussion Simulator". i've been trying the text game, but girls just don't care, no matter what I say in snapchat.

I feel you man. I'm 23 years old too and I have passed throught some pseudo romantic relationships (something like just talking a lot but never really doing things any far). I don't know if it's just me, but I'm afraid of kissing, that's the main reason I can't just try something further. Anyway. This video has been 3 year by now. Have you find someone? I hope so.

I'm 40 years old and only had one girlfriend for 6 monts and that was 15 years ago. Recently I attracted one girl on the job but she was unavailable. But I played it smart by researching and taking all around courses on how to improve as a better man. Being Absant gave me unlimited time to think instead of giving up. Plus it was fun. Gentlemen use that time to improve yourself instead of feeling sad or getting bitter. When you finally learn these things not just you improve to be a better man but will attract more women than you can handle because to them your different from the others. Be patient and don't worry about getting a girlfriend; for now. Investigate your problems, learn and improve and watch what happens.....

Dear sir am bloody 63 now and a batchelor i quite understand you its always been a struggle for me i hate it i get such a negative responce from girls like ( what are you looking at ) so you think youre having a hard time you still got time on your side i wish you well bob

A similar thing happened to me... I'm 25, never had a girlfriend before, to be fair I actually rejected a couple of girls back in High School and College. My problem is that I'm suffering from a severe undiagnosed gastric illness since 2016 (used to be a completely healthy guy before) so...I really don't know if this disease is going to kill me before I'm actually able to get a girlfriend ☹️

I'm also 23 never had a gf so l can relate when I saw this video I was like meeeeee.

same here dude, shit is on my mind everyday and it’s annoying, it’s consuming my life

I am 23 and in the same situation bro. It’s all about looks money and status. Acquire currency, disregard women.

In two months I will be 30 years old. I have yet to get my first girlfriend and I am a celibate as well. How does it feel to be kissed? I don't know as I never had a kiss. Never have been hugged by a girl. I am German and especially in Germany it is very hard to get a girlfriend because the girls have high expectations. In Germany the rejection rate is also very high. It tears me into pieces and I don't know what to do. I fell in love a few times but all those girls were already taken. I don't have any friends because back in my school days I was harassed. Because of this I was avoided by all my schoolmates and thus I never made friends.

23 here and nothing yet☹️ it just hurts to see couples and you just sitting there and getting your heart torn by the mere sight of it. Plus i feel like im born in the wrong era cz being a good guy sucks in this generation.

I’m turning 19 next month and a lonely future frightens me. I’m here before his reality becomes mine..

So yes we are in the same boat 23 and I haven’t had any girlfriends I changed myself I lost 11kgs Nothing changed, got rejected by my crush :(( Thinking about it causes depression, I read books or playing games to reduce it.

Dude idk how I found this video, guess I got sucked in by the blackhole of yt. But, I just wanted to let you know that you aren't the only one who is in their 20's and never had a relationship. You should try to get a wingman to help you intiate a relationship when you're going out. Social networking helps alot. Don't think you're not accomplished bc you've never had one. It's cool dude, you're still golden. Nothing is wrong with you. Just keep an open mind and when you least expect it it will happen. I've never had one and I'm chill rn but open to have one. As long as we are good ppl. we will find someone. Best of luck and blessings :).

Be proud , own what you got . Be a man . I don’t have one so what. Thinking about it only make you blue . Having a gf doesn’t make you you

Right now I’m 27 and I’m on the same boat. I don’t know what to do.

The idea I run with is if the desire is starved long enough, it will eventually die. Eventually.

3:52 how the music perfectly stops

This is going to be me in a couple years. I can already feel it. Whenever I am around attractive girls I always get extremely uncomfortable. Almost as if I feel inferior. I immediately think that I will never be with any of them, because why would they settle for a uninteresting, reserved piece of shit like me. Very rarely, if anyone does show interest in me, it's someone for whom I don't really have an interest. And even then if I start talking to them, they end up dropping me anyways. I just need to come to terms with the fact that it will never happen for me, and learn to live out my life alone.

I'm 33 and scared of women I never even try to get one because when they see me in public always got rude things to say about me call me gross all the time all my confidence is gone and I don't believe in myself anymore.

I'm 22 yrs old and I'm still single... I never had a gf.... So what.... It's all right bro... U will find your soulmate sooner

It's overrated you're ok. That doesn't define you.💛

I've been in this situation for a quite a while 😕 Years later I dated a friend and eventually we got married 5 years later°° Women today are so Shallow and I've noticed how much worse it's gotten! God speed my friend ✅️ Best of luck to you.

Something gone wrong with society and women. You must live good life. Focus on the money and success. We need a great communication.

I'm 19 and same,never had any success with girls,I had more than 200 rejections... lots of people tell me that the problem is not looks and that I am really attractive,also i'm really shy around girls but I can't figure out why not a single one showed interest in me...

I feel you bro

Same here. And 24... Well, comments shows me that at least in one thing I am not alone)) (sad joke :( ) Good luck to you all guys! I will hope you all will find love you are looking for

Dude, you're gorgeous.

18 same here. Never had a gf still a virgin. Don't know how to talk to women at all

I'm 25 and I never had the chance to kiss a girl. It's a little sad but I hope someday I could find my soulmate.

i am sure you will have your time to shine my dude !Dont get discouraged cuz girls nowadays are brutal and savage ...Do some reps at the park or go to a gym,its really healthy for both your body and mind and just let it all go until it happens by itself :) Cheerz from Bulgaria!!!

I’m about to be 25 and never had a girlfriend and I also am a virgin. This shit sucks tbh I feel like I’m meant to be alone and by myself, when I’m such a good guy. Now I’m just like fuck it, imma die this way.

Same.... 23 and never had a girlfriend and never tried since i am a shy guy...

I’m in the same boat. I’ve only ever had one gf and that only lasted about 1 week in sophomore year of high school. I was to nervous to even hold her hand down the hallway. I’m ok though. Truckin makes me happy and is the only thing that makes me feel manly lol. Btw I’m 20.

This guy looks way too damn handsome... Girls should date him. 💯

Did you try talking to them when you went out or even ask for a number, insta or snapchat i bailed on it the other day but i still talked to her and realised I stopped talking and didn’t ask for anything you don’t get rewards for risks you don’t take

24 and always have been single

I'm almost 26 and it's the same for me :(

Im 25 and i know exactly what youre talking about, i recently started hitting the gym, im trying to get shredded and i think that will get women attracted to me.

I had 2 girlfriends when I was in both elementary and middle school but sadly I didn’t lose my virginity with either of them. It didn’t really matter because we were minors at the time so we were too young for sex anyway. I’m also a 25 year old sexless lonely virgin and my hopes of losing my virginity certainly isn’t up at all. I already know that I’m gonna be alone “forever.” I never had my first kiss and I don’t have any kids. I’m disabled and I don’t have a job. I’m also autistic. I don’t know 🤷🏾 if I should bring a child into the world that’s full of toxicity, negativity, bullying, police brutality, anger, violence, sadness, hate, overrated population ETC. plus I have very bad social skills and I have worked really hard on it. But sadly it never really improved by my peers so I decided to be antisocial. I still don’t know how to talk or communicate with others. I already know that my dreams 🪣📜 isn’t gonna come true with this pandemic still happening. Last but not least, I don’t have a vehicle.

We are the chosen ones my friend

Same reason, the only reason I got laid and at 23 mind you, was because a girl kind of coerced me into it given I was drunk.

Girls don’t like quiet guys that’s why sadly that’s one reason, I’ve gotten hookups from being more loud and outgoing , and more daring and risking friendships

27. And I've had several girlfriends but been single for 6 years.

I'm 21 never had a gf. Idk I tend to shun having one due to fear I guess. What's more insulting ha ha is my 18 year old younger brother is in a committed relationship. Idk part of me would like a gf but the logic side of me says it's a waste of time. And the anxious part of me is deadly afraid of breaking my current status quo.

27 going 28 never kissed, or gf , abused as a child i just want to die i hate this world, i wish i knew how love felt even from family let alone a woman

Yeah 21 and currently no gf. I had short term Dating no official gf. It’s hard to keep girls, let alone talk

36 year old male here. Never had a girlfriend. I've never felt any interest in women or girls. So I have never even given little, if any, thought over girls.

21, same story as you. I feel like I’m wasting my life.

Same age as you but I've stopped caring and giving a fuck. Channelizing the love into hobbies and career has been far more satisfying.

I'm there too, nearly 23 years old, never had a girlfriend or sex, not even a lip to lip kiss. Had in fact a meltdown about that recently, which sucks... Just wondering if anything changed for you?

26 here, autistic, and only had 4 girlfriends. I didn't get my first girlfriend until right after high school graduation. Lasted about 2 years but I had to break up with her. With all honesty only 2 out of the 4 were good and loyal to me but never clicked me in marrying them. Now I'm single but I'm more interested working on my music and myself than being in a relationship.

Love is not sought, it is found. You will find it one day

I´m 22, never had a girlfriend too. I started investing in stocks and I work all day and saturdays too beacuse i gave up life

Bruh you good looking asf u got this

Its better to not be in a relationship than be in the wrong relationship.

I can fully understand you i have exactly the same problem.... I dont know what to do... I have depression and i think ending my life

This dude sounds like Moist Critical. I had to do a double take because I thought I had one of Charlie's videos on in the background. Any update on the girlfriend situation? You are good looking dude, man! Hope you found some success with it.

As a woman, we usually expect men to approach us. If you want someone that is into the same things you are, go to some type of group activity that you’re interested in. You’re likely to find someone genuine and you can slowly open up starting with a hi.

I know this hurts man!! But just as a humble observation, you just seem needy! I know what you feel and you r just trying to put it out! As a stranger-friend, I would say just keep your feelings low-key because most people like to ignore needy people! Just try your best to stay subtle!