3 Insecurities in a Man that Stop Him from Pursuing You

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Do you know about the male insecurities that keep a man from pursuing you? Why do some men pursue but some men struggle? What can you do as a woman to encourage the man to pursue you without pursuing him? Here are 3 insecurities in a man that a woman should know about.
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@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger Жыл бұрын

As promised, here's part 2! kzfaq.info/get/bejne/a794otSV1b-1f6M.html Thanks for letting me know through the "likes" button you wanted to see this too. God bless! -Mark

@deborahlewis930 9 ай бұрын

This was helpful to me ❤

@valerieferris2646 Жыл бұрын

Healthy women WANT KIND MEN!!! And it’s ok to be shy or quiet or reserved, as long as you are still taking a chance and asking us out!

@rievinebyshauntaemarie9515 Жыл бұрын

Amen to that!! Stay safe and Stay Blessed!!

@nappyfries Жыл бұрын

Agreed. And it’s up to us to be inviting & to seem open to it so they will.

@candicecorbin4690 Жыл бұрын

Not too kind though, too nice is a turn off. I like a man who is thoughtful and cares but not a pushover and can make decision

@beca5035 Жыл бұрын

YES Amen 🙌🙏❤

@isosoriharrison9556 4 ай бұрын

Just make it really easy and make yourself inviting. Being shy is not just being afraid of asking you out, but just not being much of a social person in general. We find it more fulfilling to be a good listener and sometimes this can be very difficult for us to get out of our comfort zone. I would say if you’re interested in a shy guy, you definitely wanna talk to him one on one. If you’re not comfortable with doing that, I would then try to ask him out to lunch with a group of friends. Sitting next to him and start talking to him yourself. That is a form of being on one on one, but it allows the guy to be more comfortable. Even guys get the memo to ask a girl out. Also sometime outside help, this means having another person just tell them that you’re interested. That just gives a lot of confidence to guys that are just not very skilled at knowing what the heck is going on. 😂 doesn’t mean we’re weak or that we’re not good at leading, but we just are not very good when it comes to being social.

@tyronrossouw44 Жыл бұрын

In my short life experience of 30 years, this has taken me much longer than necessary to learn: Gents, men, the girl that wants you to see her, notice her, approach her, will try being around you, in your vicinity or show on her facial expressions and body language that she wants you to pursue her. It can be done from her side in a lot of ways, making excessive eye contact with you (you are noticing her looking at you), laughing at your jokes/supporting your views, trying to take up space near you and around you (this type of thing usually happens a lot in places like school/university, a gym, or shared workspace), but at the end of the day, best thing is to be godly, confident, and know, no matter how goofy and embarassed you feel, God will make it work with the right-person at the right time. He is after all the ultimate match-maker starting from Adam. God bless you, brothers in Christ.

@akisiimireisabella4132 10 ай бұрын

Amen❤

@Kari_Michele 9 ай бұрын

I agree 🥰🙏🏾

@delanodouglas6390 Жыл бұрын

It is important that two persons show mutual interest. No one wants to pursue someone who appears not to be interested.

@gabrielamartiniuc6322 Ай бұрын

Why are you pursuing women that are not interested?

@RobSoVicious 10 күн бұрын

Oh stop @@gabrielamartiniuc6322

@heythere6983 5 күн бұрын

@gabrielamartiniuc6322 Many women sit and wait and don’t make moves, by default they don’t look interested to us but women think they made it obvious somehow that they like the guy by being reserved

@KaylaSteele61 Жыл бұрын

1. Will I get rejected and look like a fool? 2. If I seem too interested and too nice too soon, will she see me as weak? 3. Does she like someone else or is she still connected to her ex?

@delna144 11 ай бұрын

😌

@sunnydazz7 7 ай бұрын

😜hehehe Thankyou

@ddupree9484 5 ай бұрын

A certain community I was in, it appeared that a woman offering casual sex was the only thing the men would accept as a "green light" to pursue them. That absolutely does not work for me, so I got no chances to be inviting in a godly way since the men wanted what I considered desperation from a woman.

@bananarae9207 Жыл бұрын

I honestly haven't done much dating, but I did the 'inviting' and he would just look at me whilst around the office, and chat to me a lot. Everyone could tell but me. But I liked him back, so after a long while of chatting at work, I asked him if he had a girlfriend and he said no, so I asked if he'd like to meet up sometime and that was it... He started to 'pursue' me after the 'green light' was given. He really thought he'd get rejected if he asked first, which I had to shut down bc he's such a sweet guy...and I reassured him that I liked him and enjoyed being in his company...💯

@eclipsos8187 2 ай бұрын

I'm not expecting your situation to be the norm but theirs a lot of hurt guys out their not even from girlfriends but their mothers. A dysfunctional christian home for a young guy makes every relationship scary.

@sherryeasterling8544 Жыл бұрын

No.....not at all, the bad boys just pay more attention to women and make their interest in them known. Good guys can be quiet to the point the woman thinks he is not interested in her.

@becreative9440 Жыл бұрын

Just remember one of my favorite quotes "If you never ask, the answer is always "No"."

@pattypatty1484 Жыл бұрын

Yeah, not always easy especially if you are shy or afraid of getting rejected by someone you like.

@becreative9440 Жыл бұрын

@@pattypatty1484 True, but you can get it over with and move on... : D

@eileencb Жыл бұрын

I believe another issue regarding women going after the "bad boys" Rather than nice men is that it's not just about the masculinity that they Exude, but also that these kinds of men are usually the only ones that pursue women in a way that we understand. They are more Likely to express desire And interest from the beginning, where the more quiet, shy, and nice men leave most women feeling ambiguous about things.

@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger Жыл бұрын

that's a great insight

@wojciechj2102 Жыл бұрын

Well if they get constantly rejected, it takes time to restore confidence

@hg3895 Жыл бұрын

Yes, sometimes months and months of ambiguity. But I don't like "bad boys" either.

@Kari_Michele 9 ай бұрын

Exactly this! 🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯

@pappa_panda 9 ай бұрын

Im a 'bad boy' by nature, i cant be a 'nice guy' to save my life, idk if its a good thing or a bad thing lol 😂

@cassybeauti Жыл бұрын

Yes please talk more about the masculine and feminine balance and how it ties to the Bible!!!!!! That would be great!

@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger Жыл бұрын

Thank you for this feedback!

@horschiday9449 Жыл бұрын

Yes please

@reubengj Жыл бұрын

Mark, please make the part 2 to this video Your content has been greatly encouraging Praise God for your ministry

@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger Жыл бұрын

I appreciate this feedback Reuben! God bless!

@horschiday9449 Жыл бұрын

I second this

@ethanhuntakabobturner4285 Жыл бұрын

Getting rejected is only unpleasant for the ego I think. Putting yourself in the position to get rejected is good for your character.

@candicecorbin4690 Жыл бұрын

Amen amen

@LiyahLova Жыл бұрын

I totally agree with talking more about the damage of the feminist movement on traditional masculinity. 100%

@hokusei90 Жыл бұрын

I was trying to explain this very thing on a Facebook page. Men do have insecurities too. Not only is it dreading to pursue a woman who might not reciprocate, but then once in the relationship questions like " Am I strong enough for her? " or " Am I going to make her happy? " Come up to mind also.

@georgealexandru7557 Жыл бұрын

Hi Mark, I'm a teenager from Romania and I wanted to thank you very much for the work and time you put into these videos, they are very helpful for people like me and my friends from church because these topics are not often discussed in our community. God bless !

@faithchristian4330 7 ай бұрын

I agree. That's why I am Roumania and suffer from our church lack of wisdom. Hold on, God covers you. 8:27

@JAKEBrakeModel94 Жыл бұрын

Love the 2nd and 3rd points. Reminds me of a conversation I had with a woman recently. She was frustrated with men who linger around too long without asking her out, and never pursue, but also expressed that it was a red flag if they move too quickly. I was trying to let her understand that this is a struggle for guys and often times the guys who are lingering don’t want to come on too strong… because if they did, they’d be a red flag guy bc they moved too quickly. You can’t have it both ways 😂 But, You have to be tactful as a guy. You can’t move too fast and you can’t move too slow.

@ladyursala 9 ай бұрын

Right. A lot of the time it’s intuition.

@yuhz1m1 Жыл бұрын

Honestly, it often simply is that the "bad boy" types are the ones more likely to approach a woman, express interest in her and boldly pursue her. "Good guys" often just don't make a move, or don't do it confidently.

@deeangulo2266 4 ай бұрын

Yes, but those bad boy types generally have no respect for women & see them as an object for their own gratification & never a genuine godly relationship. From experience, most are or will eventually show their abusive side, either mentally, emotionally, verbally, physically, or sexually. Then there are those whom are all the above! I have known guys who have been through this with “bad girls” too. God wants us to have a spouse aligns with the Bible! ❤

@heythere6983 5 күн бұрын

This is why women go for narcissists and psychopaths. A normal guy who isn’t approaching dozens of women all the time is probably a more healthy man than a guy who doesn’t have social boundaries or hesitance anymore. A man can be very confident and masculine and just not used to pursuing random women enough to diminish the weirdness of approachIng someone you don’t know to show desire Women tend to overlook that Confidence in approaching a random person for intimacy isn’t really the same as genuine confidence. Then they ask “where are all the good guys”. The problem is women are turned on by guys with risky patterns, it doesn’t actually have much to with how confident they are. They can be a mans man and also not be a guy who’s wasted time trying to be Casanova

@iwantfoods1652 Жыл бұрын

It's always on both parties to communicate and create a relationship. Whether the man or woman's role, one cannot be successful without support from the other.

@oneisone2841 Жыл бұрын

your most recent video's on pursuing woman, insecurities and the one on trust god's timing and plan have really hit and spoken to me on a different level to be honest bc i,m currently going through these phases ur speaking about its always helpful and on point. God bless

@loressavargas2020 Жыл бұрын

Brother Mark! Always at work for the kingdom of God. Hallelujah Bless you brother mark and those you love

@jasminealexia Жыл бұрын

I know that this is true Mark because my own brother who is a nice guy has always been so terrified and/or calculated when it comes to approaching women. His girlfriend that he is with now actually left her phone number on the dashboard of his car. While I’m not that bold to do something like that, I think us women may need some pointers on how to INVITE a man to pursue us. Like what are some green lights we can give to let a man know it’s ok for him to approach online, offline, at the grocery store, etc without being too bold.. also definitely interested in the dating to relationship process video. Guilty of point # 3 lol great and super helpful video per usual Mark! 💜💜

@citizensister Жыл бұрын

I rarely hear it discussed that women often go for "bad boys" because they come from a history of abuse and have a broken understanding of what respect looks like. Even if you are healed, you cannot totally heal until you have a healthy relationship. The quiet, Godly man who is pursuing me did a few things (or more accurately did not do a few things I expected to see) that made me wonder if he even liked me at first or if he was too passive, until the Lord quietly spoke to my heart and revealed that he was actually treating me with dignity and respect. That is part of why I appreciate these videos so much. No matter how much healing I've done, I have still never walked out the beginning of a healthy romantic relationship before and I am not always sure how to read what is happening or how to respond appropriately.

@jarrettsoon6123 Жыл бұрын

Hi Tracy, not sure if you'll see this or if you're comfortable replying, but I was wondering if you might be willing to share any specific details on how the man pursuing you was treating you with dignity and respect? I'm currently trying to pursue a female friend and would appreciate a female perspective if you're willing to share.

@evelinemtj Жыл бұрын

this topic is the exact topic my mom told me few years ago. but, i never heard from my father, so i happy to heard it from man. Thanks!

@heaterdawg Жыл бұрын

Definitely would like to see both a part two and a video on women being attracted to masculinity! Thanks so much 😊

@ChristopherDebski-zx6yu 11 ай бұрын

You are an awesome teacher Mark! God bless & thank you!

@36summers Жыл бұрын

Excellent words, Mark. Thanks again for all your ministry work.

@Ministeriomujervirtuosa 6 ай бұрын

I did not know one of all the points. Thank you so much. YAH bless and save everybody who is reading this 🕊️

@horschiday9449 Жыл бұрын

Point number 3 was just perfect timing 😬. THANK YOU JESUS… GOD bless you brother Mark for those advices.

@natewwc2741 Жыл бұрын

Thanks for telling it like it is, Mark. Appreciate you for putting this info out for people to process.

@alisoncanty1894 Жыл бұрын

Wow! You have no idea how timely this message was for me, Mark! Thank you so much and I would love for you to do a part 2 or talk about masculine vs. feminine energy in a man.

@db4419 Жыл бұрын

And hey Mark, YES PLEASE do a video on "masculine energy" and how good men can show up with that. The "players"/"bad boys" make their videos on that but of course the motive is different, and so the approach ends up being different, even ungodly. So would love to see you do such a video.

@noracastro510 Жыл бұрын

I completely agree with you Pastor Mark!

@christinebragg8986 Жыл бұрын

Please make the other video

@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger Жыл бұрын

Thanks for this feedback! It helps me a lot!

@hannahhaynes1048 Жыл бұрын

Definitely share part 2!

@stephanief3506 Жыл бұрын

Yes please do a part #2 So many of these things you shared are hitting home! Much to gleen here! God bless you Mark

@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger Жыл бұрын

Thanks for this feedback!

@dolly3856 8 ай бұрын

🎉Your messages are so clear. You're gifted with the right articulateness! You're fulfilling God's purpose in you. You are helping me a lot. I have a 99% different situation from other women, though but it resonates with me a lot.

@nanettegordon Жыл бұрын

Great subject and helpful for me to understand men better. I have been listening to you for several years. Thank you.

@papupaturbo Жыл бұрын

INTERESTED IN THE NEXT VIDEO!!!

@takahammah Жыл бұрын

Everything you said is on point 🎯 You definitely need to make that second for us please 😬🙏🏻

@davidionashku2500 Жыл бұрын

Way to lay it out man, I appreciate your work and your videos and I’m not sure you get that enough.

@christanner1797 Жыл бұрын

MARKKKKKK!!!!!! I’m going through this NOW!!! Omg you are ALWAYS ON TIME!!! 🙏🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger Жыл бұрын

So glad this was timely! God is good!

@malcolmthomas6198 Жыл бұрын

Yes mark please do a full topic of number 2 I been learning a lot from your video God bless✝️🙏😇

@Tony-DWK-56 Жыл бұрын

Yes please create the new video! As for todays video you're on point thanks.

@dr.sammypryor Ай бұрын

You are right about the masculine energy!

@beastwolf7 Жыл бұрын

Thanks for doing this video Mark. Everything you said in this video is right, and a lot of women don't get it

@InHisSservice Жыл бұрын

Mark, keep up the godly work.

@brandipittman9084 Жыл бұрын

Hey Mark! Pray all is well 🙏🏽. I would really like to see a part 2. Like another viewer mentioned, every video may not pertain to me, but I may know of someone who could benefit from it. TIA, God Bless☺️!

@ezerk Жыл бұрын

Great timing and yes, would love part 2. I want to be prepared 😄

@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger Жыл бұрын

So glad this was helpful and thank you for the feedback!

@ItinerarySweat Жыл бұрын

Your doing an amazing job for Jesus Christ yes I want to hear part 2.keep shining bright for Jesus.

@getreadygetreadygetready4534 Жыл бұрын

If I could like this video more than once I would, great content Mark! Part 2 please 😅

@camilliecollins9486 Жыл бұрын

This was SUCH a great video!!! Thank you for this!!

@darkflowerchild8620 Жыл бұрын

A VERY good and timely message...thank you so much for sharing.

@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger Жыл бұрын

You are so welcome, God bless!

@ToliseMarie 10 ай бұрын

Great points, especially about women being more attracted to the man with his masculinity.

@rutht7974 2 ай бұрын

Good point about masculinity 👍👍

@Mariaaaleo Жыл бұрын

So on point !!!

@irmarosario676 9 ай бұрын

I love your videos. So different from other videos, great tips and info that is not heard in other videos.

@lavished2lovedance509 11 ай бұрын

Very good points. Thank you!!

@elizabethmyers1380 Жыл бұрын

Honestly any videos you make I watch. Even if it doesn't pretend to me I will forward them to other people that I know might benefit from them. I'm a 40 year old woman who has a 19 year old son and a 13 year old son and I Urgent to watch your videos because this is something stuff it would been nice to know at Their age. Thank you for making these videos I really do appreciate it.

@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger Жыл бұрын

Thank you Elizabeth! It's always amazing to hear how God takes this content and uses it and spreads it through people like you :)

@pamelav.5699 Жыл бұрын

🌈Yes interested in more of this topic! ThankYou🌻

@emmanuelameyaw9735 Жыл бұрын

Nice teachings.

@marilyncolon8696 2 ай бұрын

Thank you for this!

@GodsmanonYoutube Жыл бұрын

Mark, make that longer video you speak of in this one. It's needed.

@vernvilar6922 Жыл бұрын

Good stuff, thanks!

@caroline8sight781 10 ай бұрын

that was very useful, thank you!

@kimvroom310 9 ай бұрын

Dear brother Mark, thank you so much for your videos ❤🙏 They are such a blessing and a guidance to me. I would love for you to make the other two videos; the one you suggested in the beginning of this clip and the other one you suggested later in the clip about maculine energy and 'the bad boys'. Thank you very much in advance and may God continue to bless you in your ministry 🙏🤍 Kind regards from the Netherlands 🇳🇱🥲

@Jeweliedear Жыл бұрын

agree..its.not bad boys per se but rather for some of us in past, the initial attention given to us, the risk-taking and perception of putting pride and fears side to pursue a woman and try to gain her favor.

@pcb9134 Жыл бұрын

Thank you Mark! I love your videos! It would be great if you make a video about guys who have many women friends, and they are knowing many girls as friends at the same time. Nowadays, christian men are following that, but later women don’t know if the man is interested in pursuing or not. Women then only feel like options but really confused if the man is interested on pursuing or not.

@chill6863 Жыл бұрын

Fantastic video Mark. Absolutely spot on and timely as usual 😎. As a male about to pursue a Godly women this has helped so much! Edit: So I pursued and received clarity that she just wants to be friends 😂

@Northwesternforcefield28 Жыл бұрын

It’s so funny because I’m a female, attractive. Personable, outgoing, I’ve been rejected a bit in my life, but as a woman I have the courage to reach out and make the first move, put myself out there, if a woman can do that… why would the lack of bravery from men have an excuse of insecurities? Everybody, has insecurities… men need to step up, and lead from a love based place. Have courage…also, nice guys are so attractive. Nothing looks worse than a spirit of control, ego, and pride. Nice guys finish first… always!

@dfxdarrell6734 4 ай бұрын

As a male, I would have to disagree with your statement, with an explanation. In my experience being nice meant being a pushover or a doormat which doesn't command respect. Once I figured that out things got a lot better. I changed from being a nice guy to being a "good guy" who was kind but not a pushover. Who took the lead and was firm when needed with a woman. This was all from God and I've been happily married now for 18 years! Be blessed!

@renatajoseph6399 Жыл бұрын

Yes Mark plz talk more about that masculinity topic

@vania698 3 ай бұрын

Thank you!

@Melanie-zm4jb Жыл бұрын

💯 masculine energy, straight men.

@gabrielnadia1085 Жыл бұрын

Obviously we are interesting!!! Interested in part 2

@D464J Жыл бұрын

Great video bro. Would like to see that part 2 as well 👍

@lummecelli2297 Жыл бұрын

It´s an amazing video, txs a lot Mark, may our Lord keep inspiring you to record such blessed videos like this one.; all you taugh is so useful in the season I´ve been living nowadays. God bless and prospers you🙏

@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger Жыл бұрын

So glad the content has been helpful! God is good!

@princessserwaa6304 Жыл бұрын

Yes Mark. Please make a video on the part that most woman want men who portray a more Masculine nature. Thanks 😊

@dianaaavula4306 Жыл бұрын

Waiting for you Master .

@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger Жыл бұрын

God bless Diana!

@user-fv6eu7zc2d Жыл бұрын

🙌🙌🙏🙏👌❤️🌈Agree. And please share more

@divinelyblessed2322 Жыл бұрын

Would love the part two please 😊😊😊

@eac-guy7272 Жыл бұрын

IMO👇 Bad boy= headache=stress=toxicity =negative energy=sleepless nights = under eye bags= ulcers= falling hair=wrinkles=bad skin= inflammation. HELL NO!!!. A" badboy "could never be a masculine man to me especially if he thinks flaunting his money impresses me

@lisanethers3680 Жыл бұрын

Hey Mark Ballenger I REALLY APPRECIATE THESE VIDEOS❗🤗 & Yes I would like to Try to View a Video About Topic : Masculinity & Etc! & I Agree As A Woman Because I Am Experiencing This Myself!

@tammyhoward7960 Жыл бұрын

I always listen to every short & video you make. I feel I've received a lot of good biblical information weather it pertains to me at the time or not. I trust what you have to say. I have been divorced officially for three years now. I've only gone on one double date to church and lunch. I have no interest in searching for someone to date. It's really hard when your older. Believing for God to show me a man when the timing is right. #attractedtoallthewrongmen

@Plans4YouJer2911 Жыл бұрын

Depending on your past experiences and marriage Yes it's really hard For myself, I am striving to be true to myself and foundational beliefs Have a job and pay bills and be frugal Attend church regularly Give time and money to God's service and kingdom In the Word daily or ( almost ) Prayer in some form daily about many different subjects Active in men's group Listening to good videos like this one and on other subjects Blessings to You on Your Journey 😊

@n.ee.h Жыл бұрын

Always great videos and soooo timely!

@dewey-gavinobeatricel.2912 Жыл бұрын

Part 2 please!!! ❤❤❤

@jamesdrinkard2751 Жыл бұрын

Mark, you are the first person that got this right about the "bad boy" syndrome. You can have the same attraction as the bad boys, if you a godly man and if you are masculine.

@dianagentile7636 Жыл бұрын

Smiles 😁 Please make other video as I have been out of the “Dating Error” 4 a long long long time!!! Thank You 🙏🏽 Brother Mark Stay Blessed Always & Peace 🙏🏽🙏🏼🙏🏽❤️❤️❤️‼️‼️‼️

@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger Жыл бұрын

Thanks for this feedback Diana!

@petervogel3556 10 ай бұрын

Please talk more about male masculinity

@christoffeljongwa192 2 ай бұрын

Facts facts facts🙏

@LatinafortheLord Жыл бұрын

We DEFINITELY need that part 2 follow up to this video ABSOLUTELY! Like.....like like this video fam ☺

@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger Жыл бұрын

Thank you! This is helpful to know!

@landonpraught9170 Жыл бұрын

Thanks Mark This a great lesion I learn a lot. God bless you.

@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger Жыл бұрын

So glad it was helpful Landon!

@jessicadeluna6484 Жыл бұрын

I would love for you to talk more about how women are more attracted to "bad" guys because they project themselves as more masculine.

@jeh-ruhd4466 Жыл бұрын

You mentioned men being masculine vs being nice - this is a topic I struggle a lot with, because even though I am masculine, I naturally have a lot of character traits that may seem "too nice". This makes me feel very insecure in the pursuit of love and marriage, knowing women don't seem to like it, and insecurity hurts my chances. I'd really appreciate a video on some biblical guidance on that, because God calls us to love, peace, gentleness etc. Which are all traits that are "nice"

@jeh-ruhd4466 Жыл бұрын

And thanks as always Mark for your videos, and your service to us in your ministry, I have a feeling you're helping way more of us than you know, and in great ways. God bless you man

@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger Жыл бұрын

Amen, I actually have this topic written down to make a future video about being too nice. God bless!

@mackes3683 Жыл бұрын

I (woman) give my 50 cents: Be yourself! Nobody can put on a persona consistently to achieve a certain goal. Women notice when something is off and will be skeptical. There is a wide range of different personalities in women, enough to make it likely for you to meet the right one. As an example, I know a very masculine police officer who is interested in design and gardening, traditionally feminine interests. I'm into manly men and he would definitely fit my perception of manliness.

@CarlosC77 Жыл бұрын

Be who God wants you to be, and someone who is pursuing God as you are will come along from God. Women don’t matter, God does

@jkpow93 Жыл бұрын

Please don't change who God is making you into for anyone because He comes first:)

@angieb8679 Жыл бұрын

Great video as always Mark. I always like your videos before I watch them.

@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger Жыл бұрын

So grateful for your support and to hear that you enjoy the videos!

@NeilMacKinnon Жыл бұрын

Do it! Do it! Do it! make the video! They are awesome 🎉🎉🎉

@QueenKelleyz Жыл бұрын

Make ALL of the videos. Please and thank you.

@joselynnschmidt5795 Жыл бұрын

He should know that God should be his and hers number one choice.

@SimplyLivingInFaith Жыл бұрын

The last point you said is true for me right now. A guy I was interesting in brought up his ex 2 times. Like he was remembering the fun things did they when as a group we did that activity that day.