I was happy once, I graduated but than,it was like where do I go from here? The three things, I learned: 1. The path you start may not be the one you stick with long term. 2. School doesn’t define your character but should help build upon it. And doesn’t make you better than anyone else just a more informed person (this is subjective). 3. The only certainty is that no matter if my path branches off I want to remain a life long student.

John, you sincerely have been so inspirational to me going into my first year of college. You encouraged me to read daily even as I strove to keep up with school work; I really have felt more fulfilled intellectually.

Thank you for the video after half a year🎉🎉🎉

1½ month after my graduation I am still unemployed, I tried to apply to many companies but so far within that time only 1 answered and had interest on my application but in the end I was not accepted. This video has enlightened once again. To those who are like me and is anxious Do not think of being hired so easily after your Graduation, take your time, explore, and do the things you weren't able to do ever since you got very busy from school. Learn new skills from the internet or something, Work on your self, Play your favorite game and rank up, Go to the gym or read books. Put in work on your own pace and always stay positive

I'm a 32 year old mother of two who just earned my associates this year and am planning to go on to pursue my bachelor's but struggling to decide what I truly want to do. I've recently realized that I limit myself constantly, thinking I could never do this or that. Ever since I've started being kinder to myself and working on my own limiting beliefs, a whole new world of opportunities has opened up to me. I'm still not sure what I want to do yet, but inspiring and positive videos like this help a ton. Sure, these things are often obvious, but we are forgetful and also need to hear it from other people and explained in different ways. So thank you for what you do

How dare you deliver this much value in a "list video". Rock on dude, this resonated with me even though I graduated over 10 years ago.

The point about being your best friend resonated with me, I hadn't heard it talked about like this before, monitoring how you talk to yourself in your own head. Whole video was very insightful, thanks John!

I came across your channel while I was still in highschool (so around five years ago) you were pivotal in inpsiring the very first changes I wanted to make for myself acedemically. However, it wasn't just education you inspired in me- it was also developing a sense of responsibility that I saw in you. I am so proud of myself today and you were one of the few in my life that I aspired to be like. Many appreciations dude.

Any time I see you've posted a new video it's an instant watch. Your videos are always super inspiring and make me feel more hopeful. Keep it up John, can't wait to see what you do next!

John, thank you. Thank you for everything you've done for us.

Hello John Fish! I want to start by saying that I'm a big fan of your videos and they inspire me to be more organized and planned in my daily life. Your advice is valuable and has helped me a lot, especially the video about '3 Lessons for Life After Graduation'. Even though I'm only in my first year of computer engineering, your videos motivate me to pursue my goals with discipline and consistency. Your message reminded me that success doesn't come overnight, but it's built through hard work and perseverance. I want to thank you for sharing your experiences and wisdom with the world. I hope you continue to produce amazing content to inspire us all. Keep making a difference in people's lives, hugs from Angola! Thank you for being an inspiration to me and many others. You are awesome!

Nice to hear from you - choosing your own path is the one I have the hardest time with. Reckoning with the adult notion that if you want something to happen, you have to make it happen - in SO many areas.

Believe it or not, it was around the 4th quarter of my freshman year of high school when I watched a couple of your "day in the life of" videos. I know that some people think epiphany moments don't actually exist, but those videos truly caused an epiphany in my life. Prior to that, I had never done "bad" in school, per se, but I truly started investing in myself and my education. I started realizing who I was and who my friends were, but also what I was capable of. I was just in Algebra 1 at the time, but I decided to actually study for my last exam. I got the best grade in the class. Ever since then, I haven't stopped. Now I'm nearly done with my 2nd year of undergrad, and to see one of your videos pop up after so long made me experience quite a few emotions. Keep doing you. You'll do great. You taught me so much when I desperately needed it, and you showed me what I am capable of. Good luck in your future endeavors.

hey john, as someone with graduation coming up soon, this video happened to come at just the right time! glad to see that you're doing well. crazy to think that I started watching you years ago.

Wow. John Fish does negative self-talk. This reminds me that we are human and we are harsh to ourselves. Thank you for reminding us that we must be gentle with ourselves. This video is so timely since I'm approaching graduation and started thinking of my next step. Thank you, John, for being there since my 1st year of college!!

Hey John, idk but how I got unsubscribed from your channel a while ago and found your channel again after a few years. This video for me was needed as I’m hopefully graduating next year with a Social Work degree and then fingers crossed I get my chance to enter the X- Ray technician program at my local community college. I loved the small but important lessons especially the last one. I legit have that mean side talk in such a negative way and do not give myself the credit I deserve when it’s needed and is filled with self-doubt. I truly thank you for this video and it’s lessons. Thank you again from Boston 🙏🏽💯🍀

We missed you bro ❤ You have always been my inspiration.

John, thank you for your insight - this video came at exactly the right time for me. I'm excited for you and to see what bookshelved will be like. I hope you're enjoying the process of creating it!

Yay! So great to get an update from you!

Been watching your journey for years now and it's really helped me along my own college and leaning journey. I started positive self talk thanks to John Green's video which he released a couple of years ago by that name. I can't tell you what a difference it has made for someone like me who is always anxious. Thanks for always sharing ~

Glad to see a vid from you, my guy! I just finished my first year of college! Appreciate the advice!

Wow I was just thinking about how nice it would be to have a John Fish video again, and this is such a pleasant surprise!!! If you ever read this, I just wanted to say that you are someone I really look up to; thanks for being an awesome person!

Very nice to hear from you. Thanks for keeping us in the loop.

Hi John. I don’t comment often but this was an incredible video. I am 22 and graduating college this semester and resonate deeply with your points and have been using them for the past few years. I think it’s the bravest thing to do is to be strong enough to actually try to get to know yourself and what you truly want out of life and ask those deep questions. For me, I want to travel and experience all these different cultures and eventually end up in the sustainability field, even though I majored in business administration. This past semester I spent in Australia, Fiji, and New Zealand. I want everyone to know once you start asking those deeper questions and pursuing your interests and desires, you meet others who inspire you to continue on your path.

Your videos never fail to amaze me. As a foreign student living in a country with a completely different set of beliefs and culture, it is very hard for me to find a community. Oftentimes, I get tired of having to translate my soul over and over again to people who don't speak my language (figuratively). I have longed to find a kindred spirit, and there you are, thousands of miles away. But the mere fact that you exist is enough for me to keep moving forward and have faith that someday, I will make lifelong connections and find a community where I truly belong. Don't stop making videos. Watching you feels like having a wise and supportive friend. And as always, thank you for taking the time and effort to create quality content!

Great to see you again John! Best of luck for the future! Awesome video as always.

Damn, i just graduated with my final semester being my worst, completely detailing the plans I had envisioned for myself. Really need this video, thank you

the part about speaking to yourself positively hit me right home, I need to remember and practice this more often.

Hello, I relate so much with lesson 2. You really have to cultivate community. I was a quiet person during college but it didn’t affect as bad as it did after college. Here’s the thing, you need CONNECTIONS to get you jobs and help you get to your chosen path. I’m currently learning it the hard way. I left my programming job 3 months ago and I’m struggling to find a new one. I’m 28 years old. It’s hard to compete against so many applicants on indeed. On the other hand, my first job was easier because it wasn’t really advertised, I just knew a friend that knew another programmer there, and they both helped me. So in summary, if you’re currently employed don’t take your professional future for granted. Always try to meet new people.

This style of video just hits different, thanks John!

I'm happy you're back with a new video. You are a real inspiration and provoke lots of reflections :)

Seeing the 4th years at my school graduate gave me a sudden shock of anxious feelings. Thought about it myself and then seeing your video was a great summary of how I felt and plans on what to do. Thanks John. Hope we can meet one day!

don't usually comment on KZfaq videos but this one really resonated with me. Incredibly meaningful content, thanks John

Such a good vídeo and advices. Thanks for that one, dude! Hope you're going great with your projects/goals.

It great to come across this video when I will be graduating next semester. I haven’t really think what I will do after graduation, and this video is a reminder that I should probably do so.

Hey John. I just wanted to thank you. I really needed this. ❤️😀

It is really nice to see you back. We missed you!

I was subscribed to your channel since I’m a freshman and I graduated the same year as you. Your channel keep growing ❤

thank you for your timely video that help me know what I want exactly this period💛

Dude I'm proud of you for what you've done. I'm excited about what you are going to do in the future, and yeah I recognize that it's scary and ambiguous right now, but guess what I believe in you! I'm in your corner, I'm with you all the way and we're gonna figure it out! 👊 Also, good luck with your new project already signed up!

This video both destabilized and comforted me. In one way, you just remembered me that I actually don't know where I wanna be in the future, and at the same time, you showed me that somebody else had these thoughts. I'm at the last year of university (in Italy for most degrees is 3 years of a "major' and then a 2 years specialization. I'm on my third and last year of major in philosophy). I hope I'll find something that will inspires me

This is actually great advice! And it's even more impactful that it's from someone who graduated about a year ago.

Youreysuch wish young man bro, I’m glad to see you back and that you’re doing ok 😃

I think I'll download this video, and hear/watch it for a week. I want these lessons to stick in my mind.

Needed to hear this! Going through a lot right now. I finished school not too long ago and entered the workforce for what I went to school for. I quickly realized this career isn’t for me, however. My mind has been spiraling because I can’t believe I went to school for 5 years for this, just to not like it. I loved what you said at the beginning about envisioning what you want, and doing your best to connect the dots. I still don’t know exactly what I want, but I do LOVE the outdoors and hiking. So, I put my two weeks in at my job and I’m going to work in our National Parks next week! Still no idea where life is heading, but I do see it already aligning more with what a want! Wish me luck 😅

Thanks for this! It's been a little over a year since I graduated college and I am feeling unable to move on. I was intending to go to grad school but I always thought I needed a break and that I was unable to do it like I just stare at a blank document when trying to write any PS or SOP. Also I am still not working still as I didn't really try to apply😅 I took an intern position at my school as a Research assistant since spring, and even though I'm writing the paper I still doubt my self sometimes :(. I am hoping to get a couple of my grad school applications done by end of fall before decisions rolling but my head just goes on hold 😅 Thanks John again for this any little help and boost is appreciated! It's nice to see you after a while and good luck with everything!

Im graduations from my master’s program soon, and I haven’t had time to be excited because all this fear. This video was a huge help, and eased my anxiety. Thank you.

Amazing video Brodie you rocked that one!!!!

concise video John! Thanks for sharing.

john i really admire you :) thanks for your videos

Great lessons. All the best on your platform! Sounds interesting. Signed up for the beta 😉.

It’s always a good day when John Fish upload a video🔥

I have been waiting for this for 6 months, finally back

Thank you men I needed this so bad.

Omg only a couple of hours ago I was thinking about your channel and tried making my own vlog. And I didn’t even watch your videos too much, idk how I thought about you today. What a coincidence!

Thanks man, i needed this!

I was wondering where you were Jon glad to get an update!

You are really such a very good person. You motivated me again to do my work which I skipped.

I thought I was alone in talking to my self negatively. Thank you for the valuable lessons.

Hey John, you have created three bullet points that will get us thinking on how we conduct our lives. I get what you mean about beating ourselves up instead of praising our accomplishments. The old saying goes like "we are often our own worst enemy." That is why sometimes we have to step back and analyze how and why we are conducting ourselves in the manner that we are.😅

I am from Saudi Arabia and I just want to say I love you from the bottom of my heart

Thank you for this video🥺💗

Boutta graduate this year, really appreciated this video :)

I saw Death's End on your shelf...I am just finishing it now. What an incredible trilogy.

Thank you for your videos John! We're actually the exact same age, and I've been following your channel on and off since I was a college freshman. There was a lot I disagreed about with you back then, but your cozy videos, your work ethic and wisdom have always inspired me. It's been great to see how much you've matured at the same time as I was going through a lot of the same things, even though we live in completely different parts of the world. So again thanks for everything! Also, are your growth books available somewhere or if not, will they be? I've dismissed the whole thing a bit back when you started selling them, but now I kinda feel like giving it a shot after all these years.

Woohooo super excited about bookshelved!

Man did I missed you Please upload atleast one a quater year. Love uuuu

John is the wisest person on YT I have ever listened to :)

Fun fact: I've watched John's CS video before entering college and right now I am grad waiting. Thank you for inspiring me pursue this degree! :)

Wow I haven't seen your channel pop up since you got accepted into Harvard. Now you're graduated!!! So happy to see you're still growing.

Dude. This video is so fucking crazy to me. I just finished going through the process of setting my life goals after graduation. Literally yesterday, I JUST did exactly what you were talking about when you said to “be your own best friend”. Like, the same exact shit. I was feeling super sad about my first SAT score and just about myself in general (in regards to my “success”, then, suddenly and for the first time ever, I stopped MYSELF. I went to the mirror, and just like you, I talked to myself in third person: “you’ve got this Nina. I have your back, but it doesn’t help me when you insult me like that. You’re capable of doing what you want, and what you work for will find you. You are NOT an impostor. When it feels like no one does, I have your back”. Also like you, I really suffer from anxiety, and since dropping out of college (have since re-enrolled), I’ve also been feeling a weird sense of loneliness despite having friends. It’s just what you described; not having community is not something you can really identify as an important factor to the social aspect of your mental health, especially when it’s been taken for granted for so long (school). I’m rambling and this comment has zero structure, but I just wanted to rant about how eerily similar I think we both are. this now sounds egotistical to say, but thank you John; you’re a really great dude.

thank you your words are genuine

this was really helpful for me, thank you

This is real good advice I think I'll take a tip or two

you write so beautifully

the timing of this video couldn’t be any better i literally graduate college tmr and i’ve been going through so much anxiety about it😭😭

That is the same feeling after my graduation, I really need to choose a path for myself

That seems interesting. I will check it❤

Love this🔥

Truly a masterpiece. Literally me video.

I'VE MISSED YOU SO MUCH!!!😭😭😭

you´re on your own, kid - Taylor Swift 2022

John, you got any books about the things you mentioned in this video. Amazing reflections. Help me a lot. Sometimes you need to have that good positive self talk.

Welcome back 🙌

I've been watching you for years

Adulting is hard. I just realized too that the world is so unstructured. You have to find your goal. Day one or one day...

"Anxiety is the dizziness of freedom." -Soren Kierkegaard

Amazing

CANONIC SHAVED JOHN OH MY GOSH!!!

Hi John! When it comes to picking your career path instead of others picking for you, I've struggled coming up with the final endpoint especially since AI is going to drastically change the job market. Do you have any pointers for this?

Omg thank you for sharing

I’ve been undervaluing community lately. Thought job, grades were paramount. Now I know I have to put as much effort as I can. Just don’t overplease ppl.

Thank you so much this really lowered my anxiety for what after university Ps: you kinda look like noah schnapp

I missed you so much man... :´)

i love the best friend bit best

John you have great skin, you should wear sunscreen everyday if you don't already!

There is no path it's an illusion, also you are not your thoughts, also you don't have control of it.

BABE WAKE UP JOHN FISH POSTED!!!

Yay John!

Hey, John! Do you plan on taking a graduate course? Hope all is well!