How Social Media Is Hurting You

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John Fish

John Fish

Күн бұрын

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My IG: / thejohnfish
Chapters
0:00 Introduction
0:53 Notion Advertisement
2:05 The Origins of Social Media
4:13 Billions of $ Fighting for Attention
5:20 Is This Good For Us?
6:43 Where Social Media Does Harm
8:06 The Solution
9:11 Conclusion

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@---zg7ex
@---zg7ex Ай бұрын
fish is still alive1
@goatpepperherbaltea7895
@goatpepperherbaltea7895 Ай бұрын
I hope that changes
@7_veritas
@7_veritas Ай бұрын
@@goatpepperherbaltea7895 ? why the hate
@dianawang9085
@dianawang9085 Ай бұрын
@@goatpepperherbaltea7895honestly with his healthy habits and great attitude it’s more likely you die before him😅
@MarioMastar
@MarioMastar Ай бұрын
I would hope so... kid's way younger than me. XD I was just like him when I was his age in college, trying to figure out the "Formula" and thinking I had all the answers, but really once you live in the real world for awhile, you start to actually implement those ideas and realize "no....social media is sh*t.... I just don't have time or patience for it" instead of just telling yourself that's how you feel. XD
@baberkhanbk
@baberkhanbk Ай бұрын
​@@MarioMastar After he graduated, he started uploading lot less. He also stated that he's starting a business. He shifts time and energy into his business but idk what "businesses" he has. He's doing the right thing
@soomar.7249
@soomar.7249 Ай бұрын
Bro finished the game and then chose to come back and help us. I knew when he disappeared that it's because he has truly no time to waste on social media, he was busy with life ❤️ But he decided to come back and help
@chronos5457
@chronos5457 Ай бұрын
I use your videos to learn English and improve my pronunciation.
@juanmanuelborgmann4387
@juanmanuelborgmann4387 Ай бұрын
Me too!
@BrendaPerez-gb3zv
@BrendaPerez-gb3zv Ай бұрын
Me too! :)
@redalertlaserbeak7244
@redalertlaserbeak7244 Ай бұрын
You should read this essay called “Attention Shoppers!” It’s all about the attention economy
@thejohnfish
@thejohnfish Ай бұрын
will check it out, who is it by?
@yaeli_i_guess
@yaeli_i_guess Ай бұрын
@@thejohnfish michael goldhaber i think, i found a pdf
@eleanorhenderson9896
@eleanorhenderson9896 Ай бұрын
@@thejohnfishplease also read Stolen Focus by Johann Hari! It’s about how due to things like social media our ability to focus deeply is being degraded and how that’s eroding society because we’re less productive, all exhausted, more frustrated etc!
@shirsh1273
@shirsh1273 10 күн бұрын
@@yaeli_i_guess do you have a link perchance?
@EmitPeace4Love
@EmitPeace4Love Ай бұрын
Miss you man! My wife and I love your videos! Glad you’re resting and having time for yourself 😊
@seeing_inexpressible
@seeing_inexpressible 28 күн бұрын
Thank you for bringing this theme up, it’s really important to remind people about significance of simplest and base things as walking, live conversations etc. The life is too short to spend it on social media
@yes24__
@yes24__ Ай бұрын
thank you so much for making this video. more people need to be aware of how toxic and harmful social media is... stopping the use of social media is very hard. i've been trying to be more intentional and not mindlessly scrolling.
@ThePrimetimeballer
@ThePrimetimeballer Ай бұрын
I caught myself scrolling on social media while watching your video. My ability to focus on one specific thing for an extended period of time has greatly reduced. My brain is constantly looking for that next quick hit of dopamine that social media has conditioned into me. I need to ditch social media and reclaim my life
@loulou785741
@loulou785741 Ай бұрын
Try doing a dopamine detox! I can recommend a few videos if you're interested
@ThePrimetimeballer
@ThePrimetimeballer Ай бұрын
@@loulou785741 I’m all ears
@matiasortizxxi
@matiasortizxxi Ай бұрын
I think a better spot for the sponsor segment would've been right after 3:42, haha. Good video, John, as always.
@lottiemclean2584
@lottiemclean2584 Ай бұрын
You're a good influence, man. My reading pile and I are glad you're on my feed.
@zhangying4581
@zhangying4581 28 күн бұрын
Truely Thank you John, I had followed u for more than 5 years, you are being constantly reflecting on topics and things where most of us caught up being paralysed and numb, everytime after watching ur video I feel reflesh and clear somehow, tho I can see myself someday definitely gonna be snatched again by the f*ng social media algorithum, I still thank you for being there and being our best internet smart friend
@MDobri-sy1ce
@MDobri-sy1ce Ай бұрын
Great video Jon. I feel the same way about gaming to an extent. Like, their certain benefits like escapism, improved hand eye coordination, and problem solving. However, too much creates the illusion of achievement to an extent. I usually just make a schedule that I stick to.
@lucasrambert6327
@lucasrambert6327 Ай бұрын
Great to see you are back, keep those videos coming and thank you for talking to us!
@stefan3876
@stefan3876 Ай бұрын
Thank you for the video! I am glad you are here with another important message. And the fact that you make less videos, is a proof that you keep social media at a distance, and that's very good in itself. I try the same. Thanks again! Stay happy and healthy. ☺️
@7EV1N
@7EV1N Ай бұрын
John has a point; I need to put more intention into "Notion" so I can better prioritize the limited time I have and bring fulfillment to my everyday life. :)
@EneaColombo
@EneaColombo Ай бұрын
I can feel some Cal Newport's wibes in this video, so glad to see that so many young people are realising that a step back from social media is needed!
@Sirrajj
@Sirrajj Ай бұрын
Yes completely agree with you Social media is doing more harm than any good we escape our everyday life for momentary artificial pleasure
@michaelmcclurkin9690
@michaelmcclurkin9690 Ай бұрын
My guy welcome back!
@Martz7
@Martz7 Ай бұрын
Thank you, really needed this today!!!!
@williamphanz
@williamphanz Ай бұрын
word. thank you, john!
@mypradasatthecleanerss
@mypradasatthecleanerss Ай бұрын
Great video. I’m currently watching this in what I term my ‘internet downtime hours’ between 6pm and 9pm. Between these times I have access to all social media. At all other times, I only have access to LinkedIn. I use a DNS service to enforce these rules. This is the only thing that works for me. Limits of say 40 minutes a day on KZfaq never worked for me, because there was still the option of blowing through most of these minutes late at night, after waking up or during time I was supposed to be doing other tasks. It’s so important to protect your time as you say.
@sagarvankwani2746
@sagarvankwani2746 Ай бұрын
Thanks for sharing John, happy to see you be back! Can you share what system have you put in place and one that has worked for you?
@KristianTBV
@KristianTBV Ай бұрын
Okay i hear whatchu sayin my boy, I'm glad decided to up your swag, my boy lookin clean
@mitalishinde6890
@mitalishinde6890 Ай бұрын
I'm loving your book app so far !
@johnpulawski35
@johnpulawski35 Ай бұрын
welcome back brudda
@klone57
@klone57 Ай бұрын
He's back!!
@vontaylorco
@vontaylorco Ай бұрын
Control your attention and your control your life - well put John, take all the time you need before videos
@kairatramazan4249
@kairatramazan4249 Ай бұрын
very thoughful video made me think to do something useful and not distract myself from important things study,sleep,exercise
@rosamariajimenez7760
@rosamariajimenez7760 Ай бұрын
Thank you for your content and for your advice
@anuraghalbe699
@anuraghalbe699 Ай бұрын
When I needed him the most, he came back.
@janglad9136
@janglad9136 Ай бұрын
Other than the time aspect having an impact on sleep, as a complete layman I do also think that the escapism/almost sedative qualities are a big factor in declining mental health. Social media killed boredom, and boredom is IMO one of the best stimuli there is. We often don't do things that are good for us cause it requires some level of discomfort, but when you're truly bored there comes a point where that outweighs the discomfort. Think starting that side project you think you might fail at, finally getting started on reading that book, or meeting up with friends despite your social awkwardness. These are all things that you'll learn from and look back on with good memories or a sense of achievement, but they're also way easier to avoid if you're never bored. Same goes for being alone with your thoughts. Everyone knows the concept of "shower thoughts" because it's basically the last place we're ever alone with our thoughts. We watch a KZfaq video when cooking, scroll through Twitter on the subway and listen to a podcast or music when walking from point A to B. I personally genuinely find that just doing nothing and staring at a blank wall can be great for mental health (I guess it's just lame meditating lol).
@mevalan1085
@mevalan1085 Ай бұрын
Still my favourite KZfaqr that gives me something to think about every video👍
@kwekuaggrey622
@kwekuaggrey622 Ай бұрын
Tim Wu's book, Attention Merchants..., is a more expansive text on the subject. Thanks for the insight, John.
@sajademad117
@sajademad117 Ай бұрын
Great one John!
@TheYvetteJasmine
@TheYvetteJasmine Ай бұрын
Missed you!!
@tiramisufm
@tiramisufm Ай бұрын
JOHN IS SO BACK
@rafaela19324
@rafaela19324 Ай бұрын
Você é uma inspiração pra mim. Tenho boas sensações quando assisto seus videos. Gosto das suas postagens pontuais. Do “minimalismo” do seu instagram. Das reflexões que você traz, mas acima de tudo, do exemplo que você da. Você me parece viver o que você fala. Obrigada pelo video. Decidi hoje usar as redes sociais apenas um dia no mês. Não tenho duvidas que isso me fará bem. Até uma próxima.
@anabellarivolta
@anabellarivolta 23 күн бұрын
identify the things that build you up and protect your attention around those things❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
@dami9186
@dami9186 Ай бұрын
It fills sai peaceful hearing u
@pranjalibarman920
@pranjalibarman920 Ай бұрын
I don't know but you are the only youtuber now who i watch Btw i had i question can i make the vantilator same as you did 4 years back in a video? Pls telll
@eleanorhenderson9896
@eleanorhenderson9896 Ай бұрын
100% to this!!! It’s degrading the rest of our lives by taking up time we should be doing other things. However, what we watch is extremely important. Yes, you might be watching positive content but we know that the algorithm shows your things that are controversial. That you’re likely to interact with etc. Teens get shown more extremist things. We get shown things that make us angry so we interact etc. the algorithm is designed to be bad for us. It’s also degrading our attention span - it’s not jsut taking time away from other things like sleeping, but we actually have less ability to pay attention over longer periods of time. Please read the book Stolen Focus by Johann Hari! It’s amazing
@FrankBott
@FrankBott Ай бұрын
Big advantage given i am 67. First, nothing in my life at night beats a good book. You knew that. Second, i am only addicted to Instagram .. if you call 20 minutes a day an addition. And yes of course.. those amazing book reviews by that guy John Fish. Yep.. i watched all of them to the end..
@zart8478
@zart8478 Ай бұрын
Well said. Watching this before sleep lol
@cecilereyna
@cecilereyna Ай бұрын
We missed you!
@creativecomputers6060
@creativecomputers6060 Ай бұрын
Hi John, could you please make another video about bookshelved and the books you were reading this year?
@aminebelhoucine
@aminebelhoucine Ай бұрын
I also think it’s destroying our reward system and making us incapable of focusing on important task in life
@HalfGermany100
@HalfGermany100 Ай бұрын
Missed you John
@tanishksingh8443
@tanishksingh8443 13 сағат бұрын
Hi John, kindly make a tutorial on using notion efficiently , it will be super helpful.
@AaronCruz-sh2sn
@AaronCruz-sh2sn 29 күн бұрын
Hey John I really appreciate your help me. I was able to make through my first year of architecture school Growth book was awesome. I wonder if you could create a digital one since I have become digital I use less paper. Thank you.
@joseperez-ig5yu
@joseperez-ig5yu Ай бұрын
Hey John, love your new look! Even though you have a different look, you still sound the same. Upload YT content on a regular basis so we can see what you're up to. We would like to hear your perspective on the advancement of AI in our lives.🎉😮😊
@ROCKSWOT
@ROCKSWOT Ай бұрын
You got my attention😅
@fitofficial6510
@fitofficial6510 Ай бұрын
The most important video for nowadays
@annaluisacruz1296
@annaluisacruz1296 Ай бұрын
missed your videoss
@Z3NITH11
@Z3NITH11 Ай бұрын
Nearly 1m...
@avazbeksayidahmedif1403
@avazbeksayidahmedif1403 Ай бұрын
Wow i wonna your vidios and you are optimis
@EcomCarl
@EcomCarl Ай бұрын
Spot on! Balancing the benefits of social media with the challenges of the attention economy is crucial. Staying intentional about how we engage can help create healthier digital habits. 🌐
@c3realpt
@c3realpt Ай бұрын
99' crew :)
@joe7663
@joe7663 Ай бұрын
I was up til 5 am on my phone last night 🤦🏽‍♂️🤦🏽‍♂️
@HsinTsungChu
@HsinTsungChu 25 күн бұрын
"You got a dream, you gotta protect it." - Will Smith, 2006 "You got a dream, you gotta protect your attention." - John Fish, 2024
@4pfdattu605
@4pfdattu605 Ай бұрын
Jenny Odell has a good book on this
@khooalh
@khooalh Ай бұрын
I feel i grow up with you
@shreyashdwivedi4971
@shreyashdwivedi4971 Ай бұрын
wake up babe , fish bropped
@maynavarro1929
@maynavarro1929 Ай бұрын
Walk us through your notion usage if you will 😁👋
@twomcdonalds4923
@twomcdonalds4923 Ай бұрын
Social Media is destroying you with too many "recommandation" to subscribes to apps
@redalertlaserbeak7244
@redalertlaserbeak7244 Ай бұрын
Hey man how you been
@VeerDaVlog
@VeerDaVlog Ай бұрын
you are completely changed man
@syna9999
@syna9999 12 сағат бұрын
❤🎉🍀🧘😶‍🌫️🙏👉👏👏👏🧠thank you very mutch
@goatpepperherbaltea7895
@goatpepperherbaltea7895 Ай бұрын
I don’t think I respect you as a person I’ve been subbed for years because I can’t believe you’re a a real dude that actually exists 😂
@ashleysentra
@ashleysentra 11 күн бұрын
What does this even mean
@goatpepperherbaltea7895
@goatpepperherbaltea7895 11 күн бұрын
@@ashleysentra I’m pretty sure he’s a scumbag it’s interesting to see
@arthurmaghanoy18
@arthurmaghanoy18 20 күн бұрын
Are you still working on your book?
@chronos5457
@chronos5457 Ай бұрын
With all respect but you look so handsome in this thumbnail pic 👍
@baberkhanbk
@baberkhanbk Ай бұрын
You could also keep uploading. build a community of like minded people 😊
@andrewdavidsonofficial
@andrewdavidsonofficial Ай бұрын
A great book on these topics is Stolen Focus by Johann Hari
@MikaSinghLookalike
@MikaSinghLookalike Ай бұрын
Brother what are you doing these daysss?? Where do you work
@kristasmith8614
@kristasmith8614 Ай бұрын
Remember offsa
@take2studio187
@take2studio187 16 күн бұрын
And of course you are from la
@jasminericegirl
@jasminericegirl Ай бұрын
hi i love you
@stevensong8784
@stevensong8784 Ай бұрын
At 5:40 - 5:50 Doesn’t rabbit hole distract you?
@sofiehuang8265
@sofiehuang8265 Ай бұрын
First comment seat
@sajjadmahdi1242
@sajjadmahdi1242 Ай бұрын
he is back yet his growth book isnt.
@gayakola3
@gayakola3 18 күн бұрын
I propose mass quitting for the good of all-
@sofiehuang8265
@sofiehuang8265 Ай бұрын
:)
@Yunkai_639
@Yunkai_639 Ай бұрын
Grandpa u Subscribe channel finally update.(你爷爷,你关注的up主终于更新了)
@vincentxie3090
@vincentxie3090 Ай бұрын
I want all Social Media to disappear except for KZfaq that should stay alive
@manuelagranjazanetti3683
@manuelagranjazanetti3683 Ай бұрын
jesus i thought he was dead
@syna9999
@syna9999 12 сағат бұрын
😢😢😢no Jésus is vivant ❤❤❤❤🙏🫶👉🧘👌
@user-bo3ji3ii8c
@user-bo3ji3ii8c Ай бұрын
What’s hurting us is your silence on Gaza genocide, shame on you!
@HoldLeadersAccountable
@HoldLeadersAccountable Ай бұрын
This topic is old!!! Before social media there was TV before that it was radio.
@turistsinucigas
@turistsinucigas Ай бұрын
No longer hurt by social media. The second I heard "why I love Notion" I said bye to your channel. Unsubscribed.
@milossiljko6819
@milossiljko6819 Ай бұрын
Lakers has been swept last night by Jokic and Marry 😆🙃😉
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