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@domt4588 Жыл бұрын
Total red flag. I’m just moving on. He told me he wanted me to feel safe with him and be open. I did…a little…and he has now gone cold. He lied…😢
@elarisa109 ай бұрын
Damn. Mine said he dont want to make me upsat and that he has feelings for me then the next day ,gone with the wind. We use the same karaoke app,I see him there when he s online,but he doesnt say a word to me,I don t either. On Whatsapp I cant see when he s online or when he was. I didnt send any message , didnt block him yet but I will soon,if he sends any message,I will tell him that I dont talk to ghosts and block him .I dont want to veg for his atention when he clearly was playing with my feelings.
@sherriflemming32186 ай бұрын
Likely an avoidant attachment. When they add no value, subtract.
@dulcejoao54652 ай бұрын
Same. The minute I listened and did just as he said he switched up
@joannagomes15472 жыл бұрын
EVERY REJECTION IS A PROTECTION, let him go, u deserve so much more
@fgr617r92 жыл бұрын
💯💯
@robyndismon3942 жыл бұрын
I'm gonna remember this forever. Thanx so much.
@jillmyrie1864 Жыл бұрын
Just like that☝🏿
@malaysiarodgers4928 Жыл бұрын
What about if they leave you while pregnant. And don’t want anything to do with the baby?
@aprilsunshine7565 Жыл бұрын
Exactly 💯👍🔥
@a.b56252 жыл бұрын
1 - because he got what he wanted. 2- because he feels he won't get what he wanted. 3- he's simply engaged with / interested in someone else. 4- he was put off during an exchange. Nothing more nothing less.
@Kermit_the_DILF Жыл бұрын
Nough said 🧐
@LittleMissHoop Жыл бұрын
Not a complete list but ok
@pep47211 ай бұрын
You don't know men psychology at all
@DubaiiMakavelii8 ай бұрын
He told me when I went to see him he don’t ignore my text me he’s just shy & depressed bc he lost his bff.
@TapoutT4 ай бұрын
Those are the only reasons I stop taking to girls. You nailed it.
@Keana432 жыл бұрын
I dont play with red flags, once i see them I'm gone no time wasted.
@passionatebliss45912 жыл бұрын
I match energy. I ghost in return and I ignore permanently after 3 days. Consider it a favor if you get ghosted. Eliminate him from any consideration for anything serious if you even still want to be bothered at all.
@roberttyler58082 жыл бұрын
Is this before after sex
@fgr617r92 жыл бұрын
💯💯 gotta move on
@fgr617r92 жыл бұрын
@@roberttyler5808 not everyone has sex right off or at all without a commitment.
@shedrickwallace93632 жыл бұрын
It saves time.
@passionatebliss45912 жыл бұрын
@@roberttyler5808 typically before sex. By the time I have sex it’s a relationship. In which case I go to where he is and ask him what’s up. How do I know he isn’t dead? I make them face me.
@jspin68712 жыл бұрын
Umm. Cuz he's with another woman. Come on, ladies.
@arethaboddy74902 жыл бұрын
With another lady and lil Wayne the rapper can get away with having 4 women.
@kirbykipling95152 жыл бұрын
@@arethaboddy7490 wtf?
@brendajackson7903 Жыл бұрын
Most definitely with another woman.
@LittleMissHoop Жыл бұрын
NOT ALWAYS
@BriRichmond-ui7hn Жыл бұрын
Exactly ❤
@tracyherman79672 жыл бұрын
I chose me. I let go, and had all the closure I need.
@JoeMoss832 жыл бұрын
Sounds brave, but without the full learning experience you'll find yourself having to let go a lot.
@whosyourdaddy4579 Жыл бұрын
good for you! I'm dealing with some real pain... 😢
@aleayh Жыл бұрын
@@JoeMoss83 no she won’t because if she’s DECIDED to let go of men altogether, there’s no need for her to continue to ‘let go’ 👍🏽😁
@JoeMoss83 Жыл бұрын
@@aleayh Maybe, but she didn't say she let go of men altogether
@tumimokoena21842 жыл бұрын
Once you go cold on me I let you know straight that this is not what I wanted. So do you I'm gonna go ahead with my journey on my own looking for what I need. Then I cut all ties completely
@mariamoncadajamaicamelovet3995 Жыл бұрын
Then they say you want too much. Men want women they can control and manipulate. As soon as you pop off, they gone.
@Relaxinwealth7 ай бұрын
If they say you want too much, it’s because he doesn’t like you enough… go get somebody else to do it
@heaven123451002 жыл бұрын
Mental health is real! I was dating someone and he fell into a deep depression and that ended everything between us.
@koreylife57572 жыл бұрын
Same here
@whosyourdaddy4579 Жыл бұрын
Awe...that's so hard on everyone involved. 😢
@UltimateD7557 ай бұрын
Damn sorry , maybe you didn’t seduce him
@Traveling_Banditz2 ай бұрын
Yep, so did I. It was hurtful cause I didn’t know what I had did, on the end I knew it wasn’t me he has issues!
@quatriciajohnson85815 күн бұрын
Exactly what I'm going through now. But he voiced that he is in grievance.
@Rokinevythng14 Жыл бұрын
All a person has to do is say it. Doesn’t matter if they’re interested or not, just open your mouth. It’s not that serious.
@robertjones82602 жыл бұрын
Derrick has proven that no matter how screwed up you are, if you continue telling people what they want to hear they’ll forgive and forget. It’s really quite remarkable.
@novembrluv2 жыл бұрын
Fascinating. What, exactly, is he even saying?🤔
@lc20142 жыл бұрын
@Mercutio Anthony and I wish you weren’t born 😬
@krokantekip Жыл бұрын
@jimmydean wtf
@leely577 Жыл бұрын
He's attractive. These women are on here loosing what little mind they have. One woman is asking to contact him privately. Some of these women are nuts.
@bernieoconnell5515 Жыл бұрын
And Derrick should know.
@km15264 ай бұрын
I match energy & move on gracefully. ✌🏽No hard feelings move on they are simply not the one for you.
@deanabrown7930 Жыл бұрын
I literally just got done going through number 4, it was such a huge shock and hurt like hell! You have given me some peace and understanding, thanks so much!
@mariamoncadajamaicamelovet3995 Жыл бұрын
If he’s not talking to you,, he’s talking to someone else, or making a baby with her.
@Endlzz2 жыл бұрын
I’m glad he’s back making these videos, no one breaks it down like him in such a small amount of time 😇
@hilo59012 жыл бұрын
Naw you are right. I put it on the line: if he can’t handle it; then he can’t handle me. No matter how good our “friendship” may be.
@keshiapuran14712 жыл бұрын
Love the insite from a mans perspective!!
@frahelis_betzaida84662 жыл бұрын
I agree with you Derrick . I’m the one who goes ghost & now I just simply to people I’m not interested so don’t waist your time .
@poweidethompson72562 жыл бұрын
Simple and short
@tamaralandreneau8005 Жыл бұрын
#4 No! That doesn't apply, either! He's so scared of the feelings he started having for me . He's trying to convince himself, that he doesn't really, truly love me.
@randombarb Жыл бұрын
This ‼️‼️‼️
@DubaiiMakavelii8 ай бұрын
Is this possible?
@kerrymillar12676 ай бұрын
Stop fooling yourself. If he loves you he won’t let you go.
@tamaralandreneau8005 Жыл бұрын
#2 No, sweetie! That doesn't apply, either ! He's scared of being hurt, again or abandonment!
@How.Dare.You.2 жыл бұрын
He controls the pace that way
@bridgetgullison88482 жыл бұрын
Bc he never truly loved you
@shondahamilton7522 жыл бұрын
Mental health is Wealth. Go cold 🥶 on me. Imma leave you right there with yo winter ❄️ coat 🧥, mittens 🧤 and snow ⛄️ boots 🥾. I understand depression. I am familiar with it. It takes time to heal. If I love you 😘 Imma see you through. If not imma let you and yo therapist work it out. You decide to patch things up with someone else. Bless y’all. Have a happy 😃 life. Dueces ✌🏽!
@arethaboddy74902 жыл бұрын
That's funny 😄
@shondahamilton7522 жыл бұрын
@@arethaboddy7490 Funny 😁 lol but my truth.
@tawnimarie14022 жыл бұрын
Point blank
@kglarkin11556 ай бұрын
Where’s your husband at nowhere to be found
@sierraparson19762 жыл бұрын
Right on time with this message Derrick! Thanks 🙏🏽
@dorisfashion2 жыл бұрын
This video came just in time 🤔.. I guess I will take this as a sign
@MS-sr3co2 жыл бұрын
Same.
@Vanessa2578882 жыл бұрын
In this situation, he told me he is depressed and I don't know what to do.
@islip3762 жыл бұрын
Tell him get therapy and see what he does.
@shreeshiva94212 жыл бұрын
What would you have expected him to do if u were in his position??
@UltimateD7559 ай бұрын
Ride him tf
@BeatifulAestheticss Жыл бұрын
My husband went cold & could careless what i do. Emotional ghost
@carmelbrnskin11952 жыл бұрын
Nothing but truth all the time! Love your videos!
@patharris56032 жыл бұрын
You said a lot now I get some understanding as of why but Communication is key to all healthy relationships
@Tieseclothesandotheroddments2 жыл бұрын
Yes, brother-en ! Glad you're creating videos like this again. I gain lots of wisdom and sound info from them. God bless you and the family.
@aminabesmilin46912 жыл бұрын
I experienced the last one. After I miscarried and I ended things with him, he jumped into a relationship.. like what?
@WesWessey2 жыл бұрын
LOVE this one. neva disappoints👍🏽
@lindabennett13942 жыл бұрын
So True
@jenniferpronovost3808 Жыл бұрын
Not the phone being dead for 9 days straight tho 😮😅🤦🏽♀️
@candyforeman60532 жыл бұрын
Makes so much sense!
@tyana82152 жыл бұрын
U are so knowledgeable I appreciate men like yourself 💯💯💯
@LittleMissHoop Жыл бұрын
You mean Men like you (not "yourself")
@OutSidrQQn2 жыл бұрын
Glad you didn’t stop sharing your knowledge.
@kristabistaify2 жыл бұрын
Me too... I don’t have to be in a high vibration to talk to people about being in a high vibration, he Learned from his mistakes and continues to spread the light regardless
@lc20142 жыл бұрын
Thank you Derrick for keep on going and you are a inspiration to me really I’m anonymous here on KZfaq but in the Netherlands I’m quite famous and I will recommend your channel to my friends and colleagues
@achwakhachim423011 ай бұрын
He went cold and i call him didnt answer and didnt call me he unfollow me on instagram and i block him for good i deeply like him but i don't want someone to treat me that way on beginning so i choose me😢
@elarisa109 ай бұрын
Idiot. Never unblock him
@UltimateD7559 ай бұрын
Ride him tf
@xsuzannex4 ай бұрын
He is cruel, you don't deserve to be treated like that
@MeekMeek7772 жыл бұрын
Wow! Thank you. You’re so right!
@ekaly232 жыл бұрын
Yes, totally 4 happens often
@liztowers20586 ай бұрын
Mine was mental illness ....too much for him.
@user-cl6uj5bn2fАй бұрын
I swear Derrik you dun met my ex🎯💯😅 the way you bring the insight
@cx5_11 ай бұрын
I do everthing for my friends, If I meet a girl that is chill imma treat her the same way but I'm not flirting I'm just built like that. Whenever I think they get the wrong idea I go cold because I get uncomfortable with them. I'm not meant for relationships I belive ;-;
@802lioness8 ай бұрын
Well duh! I'm a woman and even I know that when he goes cold, his interest is elsewhere.
@aweleo.12202 жыл бұрын
Derrick have you gotten the help you need?
@mariejeter97052 жыл бұрын
That can be true for mental health
@karolinah1211 ай бұрын
Hey mental health is real, don't forget he could be on the spectrum . It may not always be that obvious
@Amythestheartxoxo3 ай бұрын
Thanks you for that message
@carmentheabaartman355 Жыл бұрын
Resonated with reason 3
@scarlett-fg2hh5 ай бұрын
I’m so glad I found you. Thank you so much!
@JaxnVideos5 ай бұрын
Hi @scarlett-fg2hh, I am so sorry to hear that you're going through a tough time right now. Breakups can be incredibly difficult and it's completely normal to feel lost and heartbroken. Remember to be kind and patient with yourself during this healing process. Take the time to focus on self-care and surround yourself with loved ones who support you. And always remember, you are strong and capable of getting through this challenging time. If you want further guidance and support, I invite you to check out my new master class on relationships. It's filled with valuable insights and strategies to help you navigate through heartbreak and emerge stronger than ever. Take care and believe in yourself. You've got this.
@omarnarcisopena86342 жыл бұрын
Yall still listening to him
@deborahanderson42112 жыл бұрын
he's speaking about himself
@kandiceduckett9032 жыл бұрын
He is not a honest person
@kandiceduckett9032 жыл бұрын
He is not an honest
@Sofancykelly Жыл бұрын
Yeah the first one is what broke us 💔😢
@francenealexandre5572 жыл бұрын
Yes you’re right🙏🏼I’m going through that right now, you first reason🤔
@daniellemims46152 жыл бұрын
All facts! Thanks D!
@Jazz-jn7dq7 ай бұрын
His not worth it just leave his a$$. Move on someone better will come to you who values you for what you are.❤️
@reginadillings97892 жыл бұрын
Should I ask for an explanation?
@ahantoine2 жыл бұрын
Why not? He'll either tell you the truth or he'll tell you something that makes you realise he's talking BS.
@maryamzizi20232 жыл бұрын
I love you guys so much ❤️❤️
@lisaofthelodge2 жыл бұрын
Superb content D 👌
@nataliatorkhova87932 жыл бұрын
interesting. but why cannot they.discuss what is acceptable and what is not, with good reasoned ground why not. it happens when a.couple probably.may not understand where they.are in a relationship. like she thinks is real love and seriously cares and he is not.that serious and keeps her in a friend zone. or she does not see any.signs of real relationship and he decided he is going to marry. both.just percept the situation from their dellusion of what they.think about the partner.with no understanding how their partner sees it.
@15secondsofgame Жыл бұрын
Work then goes Derrick. You have thrown them off completely
@kristabistaify2 жыл бұрын
Amen.
@maryamzizi20232 жыл бұрын
I love you so much Derrick ❤️❤️
@mariejeter97052 жыл бұрын
Yes we do it too and goes both ways
@tinamariecobb48462 жыл бұрын
Amen u so on point🤔🤔
@wandaalleyne5651 Жыл бұрын
Ur so right on.
@AprilSunshine8 ай бұрын
Because. He. Was. Lying.
@tamaralandreneau8005 Жыл бұрын
#3 Didn't apply, either !
@Notbothered13 ай бұрын
Honestly this is why the birth rates are dwindling.. this is why the b4 movement even exsists..
@selfhealingremedies2290 Жыл бұрын
Your link to your class doesn't work
@Livelearnapply2 жыл бұрын
On point
@tamaralandreneau8005 Жыл бұрын
#1 didn't apply .
@lindseyphillips10955 ай бұрын
Cause he wants his cake and eat it too
@2710TK4 ай бұрын
Or he has BPD and he painted you black and suddenly changed on you
@lc20142 жыл бұрын
🙏🏽❤️
@nplatt915 ай бұрын
❤
@JaxnVideos5 ай бұрын
Hey @nplatt91, I just want to say that I hear you and I see the struggles you're going through. It's okay to feel lost and confused in relationships, but know that you are not alone in this journey. Remember to be kind and patient with yourself as you navigate through these challenges. I believe that with the right guidance and support, you can overcome any obstacles that come your way. If you're looking for more personalized advice and strategies, I highly recommend checking out my new master class. You can find the link to it in the description below the video. Keep pushing forward and never give up on finding happiness and fulfillment in your relationships. You've got this! 💪🏼