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4 REASONS HE “SUDDENLY” WENT COLD ON YOU!

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Derrick Jaxn

Derrick Jaxn

2 жыл бұрын

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@domt4588
@domt4588 Жыл бұрын
Total red flag. I’m just moving on. He told me he wanted me to feel safe with him and be open. I did…a little…and he has now gone cold. He lied…😢
@elarisa10
@elarisa10 9 ай бұрын
Damn. Mine said he dont want to make me upsat and that he has feelings for me then the next day ,gone with the wind. We use the same karaoke app,I see him there when he s online,but he doesnt say a word to me,I don t either. On Whatsapp I cant see when he s online or when he was. I didnt send any message , didnt block him yet but I will soon,if he sends any message,I will tell him that I dont talk to ghosts and block him .I dont want to veg for his atention when he clearly was playing with my feelings.
@sherriflemming3218
@sherriflemming3218 6 ай бұрын
Likely an avoidant attachment. When they add no value, subtract.
@dulcejoao5465
@dulcejoao5465 2 ай бұрын
Same. The minute I listened and did just as he said he switched up
@joannagomes1547
@joannagomes1547 2 жыл бұрын
EVERY REJECTION IS A PROTECTION, let him go, u deserve so much more
@fgr617r9
@fgr617r9 2 жыл бұрын
💯💯
@robyndismon394
@robyndismon394 2 жыл бұрын
I'm gonna remember this forever. Thanx so much.
@jillmyrie1864
@jillmyrie1864 Жыл бұрын
Just like that☝🏿
@malaysiarodgers4928
@malaysiarodgers4928 Жыл бұрын
What about if they leave you while pregnant. And don’t want anything to do with the baby?
@aprilsunshine7565
@aprilsunshine7565 Жыл бұрын
Exactly 💯👍🔥
@a.b5625
@a.b5625 2 жыл бұрын
1 - because he got what he wanted. 2- because he feels he won't get what he wanted. 3- he's simply engaged with / interested in someone else. 4- he was put off during an exchange. Nothing more nothing less.
@Kermit_the_DILF
@Kermit_the_DILF Жыл бұрын
Nough said 🧐
@LittleMissHoop
@LittleMissHoop Жыл бұрын
Not a complete list but ok
@pep472
@pep472 11 ай бұрын
You don't know men psychology at all
@DubaiiMakavelii
@DubaiiMakavelii 8 ай бұрын
He told me when I went to see him he don’t ignore my text me he’s just shy & depressed bc he lost his bff.
@TapoutT
@TapoutT 4 ай бұрын
Those are the only reasons I stop taking to girls. You nailed it.
@Keana43
@Keana43 2 жыл бұрын
I dont play with red flags, once i see them I'm gone no time wasted.
@passionatebliss4591
@passionatebliss4591 2 жыл бұрын
I match energy. I ghost in return and I ignore permanently after 3 days. Consider it a favor if you get ghosted. Eliminate him from any consideration for anything serious if you even still want to be bothered at all.
@roberttyler5808
@roberttyler5808 2 жыл бұрын
Is this before after sex
@fgr617r9
@fgr617r9 2 жыл бұрын
💯💯 gotta move on
@fgr617r9
@fgr617r9 2 жыл бұрын
@@roberttyler5808 not everyone has sex right off or at all without a commitment.
@shedrickwallace9363
@shedrickwallace9363 2 жыл бұрын
It saves time.
@passionatebliss4591
@passionatebliss4591 2 жыл бұрын
@@roberttyler5808 typically before sex. By the time I have sex it’s a relationship. In which case I go to where he is and ask him what’s up. How do I know he isn’t dead? I make them face me.
@jspin6871
@jspin6871 2 жыл бұрын
Umm. Cuz he's with another woman. Come on, ladies.
@arethaboddy7490
@arethaboddy7490 2 жыл бұрын
With another lady and lil Wayne the rapper can get away with having 4 women.
@kirbykipling9515
@kirbykipling9515 2 жыл бұрын
@@arethaboddy7490 wtf?
@brendajackson7903
@brendajackson7903 Жыл бұрын
Most definitely with another woman.
@LittleMissHoop
@LittleMissHoop Жыл бұрын
NOT ALWAYS
@BriRichmond-ui7hn
@BriRichmond-ui7hn Жыл бұрын
Exactly ❤
@tracyherman7967
@tracyherman7967 2 жыл бұрын
I chose me. I let go, and had all the closure I need.
@JoeMoss83
@JoeMoss83 2 жыл бұрын
Sounds brave, but without the full learning experience you'll find yourself having to let go a lot.
@whosyourdaddy4579
@whosyourdaddy4579 Жыл бұрын
good for you! I'm dealing with some real pain... 😢
@aleayh
@aleayh Жыл бұрын
@@JoeMoss83 no she won’t because if she’s DECIDED to let go of men altogether, there’s no need for her to continue to ‘let go’ 👍🏽😁
@JoeMoss83
@JoeMoss83 Жыл бұрын
@@aleayh Maybe, but she didn't say she let go of men altogether
@tumimokoena2184
@tumimokoena2184 2 жыл бұрын
Once you go cold on me I let you know straight that this is not what I wanted. So do you I'm gonna go ahead with my journey on my own looking for what I need. Then I cut all ties completely
@mariamoncadajamaicamelovet3995
@mariamoncadajamaicamelovet3995 Жыл бұрын
Then they say you want too much. Men want women they can control and manipulate. As soon as you pop off, they gone.
@Relaxinwealth
@Relaxinwealth 7 ай бұрын
If they say you want too much, it’s because he doesn’t like you enough… go get somebody else to do it
@heaven12345100
@heaven12345100 2 жыл бұрын
Mental health is real! I was dating someone and he fell into a deep depression and that ended everything between us.
@koreylife5757
@koreylife5757 2 жыл бұрын
Same here
@whosyourdaddy4579
@whosyourdaddy4579 Жыл бұрын
Awe...that's so hard on everyone involved. 😢
@UltimateD755
@UltimateD755 7 ай бұрын
Damn sorry , maybe you didn’t seduce him
@Traveling_Banditz
@Traveling_Banditz 2 ай бұрын
Yep, so did I. It was hurtful cause I didn’t know what I had did, on the end I knew it wasn’t me he has issues!
@quatriciajohnson858
@quatriciajohnson858 15 күн бұрын
Exactly what I'm going through now. But he voiced that he is in grievance.
@Rokinevythng14
@Rokinevythng14 Жыл бұрын
All a person has to do is say it. Doesn’t matter if they’re interested or not, just open your mouth. It’s not that serious.
@robertjones8260
@robertjones8260 2 жыл бұрын
Derrick has proven that no matter how screwed up you are, if you continue telling people what they want to hear they’ll forgive and forget. It’s really quite remarkable.
@novembrluv
@novembrluv 2 жыл бұрын
Fascinating. What, exactly, is he even saying?🤔
@lc2014
@lc2014 2 жыл бұрын
@Mercutio Anthony and I wish you weren’t born 😬
@krokantekip
@krokantekip Жыл бұрын
@jimmydean wtf
@leely577
@leely577 Жыл бұрын
He's attractive. These women are on here loosing what little mind they have. One woman is asking to contact him privately. Some of these women are nuts.
@bernieoconnell5515
@bernieoconnell5515 Жыл бұрын
And Derrick should know.
@km1526
@km1526 4 ай бұрын
I match energy & move on gracefully. ✌🏽No hard feelings move on they are simply not the one for you.
@deanabrown7930
@deanabrown7930 Жыл бұрын
I literally just got done going through number 4, it was such a huge shock and hurt like hell! You have given me some peace and understanding, thanks so much!
@mariamoncadajamaicamelovet3995
@mariamoncadajamaicamelovet3995 Жыл бұрын
If he’s not talking to you,, he’s talking to someone else, or making a baby with her.
@Endlzz
@Endlzz 2 жыл бұрын
I’m glad he’s back making these videos, no one breaks it down like him in such a small amount of time 😇
@hilo5901
@hilo5901 2 жыл бұрын
Naw you are right. I put it on the line: if he can’t handle it; then he can’t handle me. No matter how good our “friendship” may be.
@keshiapuran1471
@keshiapuran1471 2 жыл бұрын
Love the insite from a mans perspective!!
@frahelis_betzaida8466
@frahelis_betzaida8466 2 жыл бұрын
I agree with you Derrick . I’m the one who goes ghost & now I just simply to people I’m not interested so don’t waist your time .
@poweidethompson7256
@poweidethompson7256 2 жыл бұрын
Simple and short
@tamaralandreneau8005
@tamaralandreneau8005 Жыл бұрын
#4 No! That doesn't apply, either! He's so scared of the feelings he started having for me . He's trying to convince himself, that he doesn't really, truly love me.
@randombarb
@randombarb Жыл бұрын
This ‼️‼️‼️
@DubaiiMakavelii
@DubaiiMakavelii 8 ай бұрын
Is this possible?
@kerrymillar1267
@kerrymillar1267 6 ай бұрын
Stop fooling yourself. If he loves you he won’t let you go.
@tamaralandreneau8005
@tamaralandreneau8005 Жыл бұрын
#2 No, sweetie! That doesn't apply, either ! He's scared of being hurt, again or abandonment!
@How.Dare.You.
@How.Dare.You. 2 жыл бұрын
He controls the pace that way
@bridgetgullison8848
@bridgetgullison8848 2 жыл бұрын
Bc he never truly loved you
@shondahamilton752
@shondahamilton752 2 жыл бұрын
Mental health is Wealth. Go cold 🥶 on me. Imma leave you right there with yo winter ❄️ coat 🧥, mittens 🧤 and snow ⛄️ boots 🥾. I understand depression. I am familiar with it. It takes time to heal. If I love you 😘 Imma see you through. If not imma let you and yo therapist work it out. You decide to patch things up with someone else. Bless y’all. Have a happy 😃 life. Dueces ✌🏽!
@arethaboddy7490
@arethaboddy7490 2 жыл бұрын
That's funny 😄
@shondahamilton752
@shondahamilton752 2 жыл бұрын
@@arethaboddy7490 Funny 😁 lol but my truth.
@tawnimarie1402
@tawnimarie1402 2 жыл бұрын
Point blank
@kglarkin1155
@kglarkin1155 6 ай бұрын
Where’s your husband at nowhere to be found
@sierraparson1976
@sierraparson1976 2 жыл бұрын
Right on time with this message Derrick! Thanks 🙏🏽
@dorisfashion
@dorisfashion 2 жыл бұрын
This video came just in time 🤔.. I guess I will take this as a sign
@MS-sr3co
@MS-sr3co 2 жыл бұрын
Same.
@Vanessa257888
@Vanessa257888 2 жыл бұрын
In this situation, he told me he is depressed and I don't know what to do.
@islip376
@islip376 2 жыл бұрын
Tell him get therapy and see what he does.
@shreeshiva9421
@shreeshiva9421 2 жыл бұрын
What would you have expected him to do if u were in his position??
@UltimateD755
@UltimateD755 9 ай бұрын
Ride him tf
@BeatifulAestheticss
@BeatifulAestheticss Жыл бұрын
My husband went cold & could careless what i do. Emotional ghost
@carmelbrnskin1195
@carmelbrnskin1195 2 жыл бұрын
Nothing but truth all the time! Love your videos!
@patharris5603
@patharris5603 2 жыл бұрын
You said a lot now I get some understanding as of why but Communication is key to all healthy relationships
@Tieseclothesandotheroddments
@Tieseclothesandotheroddments 2 жыл бұрын
Yes, brother-en ! Glad you're creating videos like this again. I gain lots of wisdom and sound info from them. God bless you and the family.
@aminabesmilin4691
@aminabesmilin4691 2 жыл бұрын
I experienced the last one. After I miscarried and I ended things with him, he jumped into a relationship.. like what?
@WesWessey
@WesWessey 2 жыл бұрын
LOVE this one. neva disappoints👍🏽
@lindabennett1394
@lindabennett1394 2 жыл бұрын
So True
@jenniferpronovost3808
@jenniferpronovost3808 Жыл бұрын
Not the phone being dead for 9 days straight tho 😮😅🤦🏽‍♀️
@candyforeman6053
@candyforeman6053 2 жыл бұрын
Makes so much sense!
@tyana8215
@tyana8215 2 жыл бұрын
U are so knowledgeable I appreciate men like yourself 💯💯💯
@LittleMissHoop
@LittleMissHoop Жыл бұрын
You mean Men like you (not "yourself")
@OutSidrQQn
@OutSidrQQn 2 жыл бұрын
Glad you didn’t stop sharing your knowledge.
@kristabistaify
@kristabistaify 2 жыл бұрын
Me too... I don’t have to be in a high vibration to talk to people about being in a high vibration, he Learned from his mistakes and continues to spread the light regardless
@lc2014
@lc2014 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you Derrick for keep on going and you are a inspiration to me really I’m anonymous here on KZfaq but in the Netherlands I’m quite famous and I will recommend your channel to my friends and colleagues
@achwakhachim4230
@achwakhachim4230 11 ай бұрын
He went cold and i call him didnt answer and didnt call me he unfollow me on instagram and i block him for good i deeply like him but i don't want someone to treat me that way on beginning so i choose me😢
@elarisa10
@elarisa10 9 ай бұрын
Idiot. Never unblock him
@UltimateD755
@UltimateD755 9 ай бұрын
Ride him tf
@xsuzannex
@xsuzannex 4 ай бұрын
He is cruel, you don't deserve to be treated like that
@MeekMeek777
@MeekMeek777 2 жыл бұрын
Wow! Thank you. You’re so right!
@ekaly23
@ekaly23 2 жыл бұрын
Yes, totally 4 happens often
@liztowers2058
@liztowers2058 6 ай бұрын
Mine was mental illness ....too much for him.
@user-cl6uj5bn2f
@user-cl6uj5bn2f Ай бұрын
I swear Derrik you dun met my ex🎯💯😅 the way you bring the insight
@cx5_
@cx5_ 11 ай бұрын
I do everthing for my friends, If I meet a girl that is chill imma treat her the same way but I'm not flirting I'm just built like that. Whenever I think they get the wrong idea I go cold because I get uncomfortable with them. I'm not meant for relationships I belive ;-;
@802lioness
@802lioness 8 ай бұрын
Well duh! I'm a woman and even I know that when he goes cold, his interest is elsewhere.
@aweleo.1220
@aweleo.1220 2 жыл бұрын
Derrick have you gotten the help you need?
@mariejeter9705
@mariejeter9705 2 жыл бұрын
That can be true for mental health
@karolinah12
@karolinah12 11 ай бұрын
Hey mental health is real, don't forget he could be on the spectrum . It may not always be that obvious
@Amythestheartxoxo
@Amythestheartxoxo 3 ай бұрын
Thanks you for that message
@carmentheabaartman355
@carmentheabaartman355 Жыл бұрын
Resonated with reason 3
@scarlett-fg2hh
@scarlett-fg2hh 5 ай бұрын
I’m so glad I found you. Thank you so much!
@JaxnVideos
@JaxnVideos 5 ай бұрын
Hi @scarlett-fg2hh, I am so sorry to hear that you're going through a tough time right now. Breakups can be incredibly difficult and it's completely normal to feel lost and heartbroken. Remember to be kind and patient with yourself during this healing process. Take the time to focus on self-care and surround yourself with loved ones who support you. And always remember, you are strong and capable of getting through this challenging time. If you want further guidance and support, I invite you to check out my new master class on relationships. It's filled with valuable insights and strategies to help you navigate through heartbreak and emerge stronger than ever. Take care and believe in yourself. You've got this.
@omarnarcisopena8634
@omarnarcisopena8634 2 жыл бұрын
Yall still listening to him
@deborahanderson4211
@deborahanderson4211 2 жыл бұрын
he's speaking about himself
@kandiceduckett903
@kandiceduckett903 2 жыл бұрын
He is not a honest person
@kandiceduckett903
@kandiceduckett903 2 жыл бұрын
He is not an honest
@Sofancykelly
@Sofancykelly Жыл бұрын
Yeah the first one is what broke us 💔😢
@francenealexandre557
@francenealexandre557 2 жыл бұрын
Yes you’re right🙏🏼I’m going through that right now, you first reason🤔
@daniellemims4615
@daniellemims4615 2 жыл бұрын
All facts! Thanks D!
@Jazz-jn7dq
@Jazz-jn7dq 7 ай бұрын
His not worth it just leave his a$$. Move on someone better will come to you who values you for what you are.❤️
@reginadillings9789
@reginadillings9789 2 жыл бұрын
Should I ask for an explanation?
@ahantoine
@ahantoine 2 жыл бұрын
Why not? He'll either tell you the truth or he'll tell you something that makes you realise he's talking BS.
@maryamzizi2023
@maryamzizi2023 2 жыл бұрын
I love you guys so much ❤️❤️
@lisaofthelodge
@lisaofthelodge 2 жыл бұрын
Superb content D 👌
@nataliatorkhova8793
@nataliatorkhova8793 2 жыл бұрын
interesting. but why cannot they.discuss what is acceptable and what is not, with good reasoned ground why not. it happens when a.couple probably.may not understand where they.are in a relationship. like she thinks is real love and seriously cares and he is not.that serious and keeps her in a friend zone. or she does not see any.signs of real relationship and he decided he is going to marry. both.just percept the situation from their dellusion of what they.think about the partner.with no understanding how their partner sees it.
@15secondsofgame
@15secondsofgame Жыл бұрын
Work then goes Derrick. You have thrown them off completely
@kristabistaify
@kristabistaify 2 жыл бұрын
Amen.
@maryamzizi2023
@maryamzizi2023 2 жыл бұрын
I love you so much Derrick ❤️❤️
@mariejeter9705
@mariejeter9705 2 жыл бұрын
Yes we do it too and goes both ways
@tinamariecobb4846
@tinamariecobb4846 2 жыл бұрын
Amen u so on point🤔🤔
@wandaalleyne5651
@wandaalleyne5651 Жыл бұрын
Ur so right on.
@AprilSunshine
@AprilSunshine 8 ай бұрын
Because. He. Was. Lying.
@tamaralandreneau8005
@tamaralandreneau8005 Жыл бұрын
#3 Didn't apply, either !
@Notbothered1
@Notbothered1 3 ай бұрын
Honestly this is why the birth rates are dwindling.. this is why the b4 movement even exsists..
@selfhealingremedies2290
@selfhealingremedies2290 Жыл бұрын
Your link to your class doesn't work
@Livelearnapply
@Livelearnapply 2 жыл бұрын
On point
@tamaralandreneau8005
@tamaralandreneau8005 Жыл бұрын
#1 didn't apply .
@lindseyphillips1095
@lindseyphillips1095 5 ай бұрын
Cause he wants his cake and eat it too
@2710TK
@2710TK 4 ай бұрын
Or he has BPD and he painted you black and suddenly changed on you
@lc2014
@lc2014 2 жыл бұрын
🙏🏽❤️
@nplatt91
@nplatt91 5 ай бұрын
@JaxnVideos
@JaxnVideos 5 ай бұрын
Hey @nplatt91, I just want to say that I hear you and I see the struggles you're going through. It's okay to feel lost and confused in relationships, but know that you are not alone in this journey. Remember to be kind and patient with yourself as you navigate through these challenges. I believe that with the right guidance and support, you can overcome any obstacles that come your way. If you're looking for more personalized advice and strategies, I highly recommend checking out my new master class. You can find the link to it in the description below the video. Keep pushing forward and never give up on finding happiness and fulfillment in your relationships. You've got this! 💪🏼
@lc2014
@lc2014 2 жыл бұрын
❤️❤️❤️❤️
@Soprano1Brooke
@Soprano1Brooke 2 ай бұрын
Thank you. I needed to hear this. 🫶🏻
@lc2014
@lc2014 2 жыл бұрын
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