1. Be attractive 2. Let him come to you 3. Show affection 4. Set boundaries

I'm a guy and I watched this anyway :) Agree with a lot of this... Yes, when it comes to playing hard to get....sure....we'll persue you and let you know we want you. But...if you are playing hard to get or not showing any interest we will just assume you're not interested. As for the point about us being little boys who want to be loved by our mommies...... Sure. To a point. But as a masculine man, what we also need to feel is that we are needed/wanted/desired......our need to protect and provide for you guys is huge. And as a man, when you like a girl and she shows she needs/wants you, it feels amazing...

2:40 you shouldn't need a guy that you've just met anyways. mind blown. that's an amazing comeback for ppl who say playing hard to get is wrong in the beginning of a relationship

Let me tell you girls, if a guy dosent want you he doesn't want you, whatever you do, but if he does you have to do nothing for that. Besides its not that hard for a lady to find a man.

*The key is to be authentic and let a connection evolve naturally. These steps provide a great guide on how to do just that. Let's use this advice to build meaningful relationships based on respect and genuine attraction.*

I'm a guy and I agree to a lot of this, specially the part where she tells not to play "hard to get" for too long. It works for the first 3-4 times and that's enough for to make most of the guys to fall for you. That guy might not tell you but he's definitely into you. But even after that if you still play like you're hard to get, then that guy is gonna question his self respect and gonna think that you're not into him and he's eventually gonna leave you . So, do play like you're hard to get but DON'T TAKE IT TOO FAR.

If he isn't a chaser he isn't gonna chase ... but careful with chasers cause they chase many preys at the same time ;)

As a guy i can tell you, if a guy likes a girl, all he wants from the girl is signs of interest and affection. if you give him enough positive signs (good eye contact, smiling, initiating conversation etc) he will make a move. you don't need to do anything else. no mind games, no playing hard to get. i find them so pointless and unnecessary. and many times they are off putting even.

He's consistent. Consistently disrespectful and consistently who comes and goes lol

AS A GUY (and I'm very self aware) If you want only to hook up: you don't need to make us chase and you don't even need to be pretty. Just be as easy & direct as possible and dress provocative. If you want a relationship: Dress a little less provocative. Make sure you are pretty and in good shape. Play the psychological "games" as in the video explained but don't overdo it. Very important: Act a little bit shy and feminine. Kiss on the 1st date but don't sleep with us before the 3rd or 4th date. PS: When we say we care about your Job and carreeer we are lying in order to look good. When we say we don't care about your body count again we are lying. Also confidence is ok, but it doesn't turn us on or anything. We mainly care about looks and a warm feminine personality when it comes to relationships. And we lower our Standards for hookups immensely. You are welcome.

Guys....keep your life simple!!! Don't go for such stuff, whether it's a girl or boy, if you aren't meant to be together, no matter what you do, you're not gonna get that person!!! Let me give you some tips: 1.Just be yourself 2. Be confident 3. Focus on studies/work The person who belongs in your life, will organically come to you!

This was something important I learned early in my life: for some people we're just not compatible and that's ok! It don't have to mean that we have something wrong, or even them! And I just love that! The world is different so everyone can find its best for ourselves. ♥

The “cute pie” slip… priceless 😂

I have aspergers and have no idea if a guy is flirting with me or not. It's very hard for me to find the line between friendly and flirty.

You are gorgeous, thanks for posting🌸

1% is high value guys who are aware of the mind games and if You don’t fix it, You’ll Lose a great person for a guy who can be manipulated. Lol, seriously educated man can read through it like a charm. High value woman doesn’t need cheap mind games.

Damn she is just so beautiful

I find you fascinating. At times, I really agree with what you say. Other times, I find your perspective to be a bit a bit "off" in a way, but yet really respect the reasoning behind it.

Happy holidays! Great video.

1rst step if you are beautiful probably there are plenty of dudes attracted to you ! 2nd just be a kind person and that's it

"ask him for directions" "If he doesn't come to you after you showed interest, he's not interested" Me as a guy: What?????

You have a very nice energy ❤

Great advice! Thank you for your videos :)

As a guy I will these 2: dont play games plus be fun and kind to be with. As a bonus, just be straightforward. Don't say thing in codes or twist things and such,we want you to tell simple and plain what you want.

really realistic advice

These are very true. People can fight you on it, but it's just not meant for them.

Very good ❤❤

Don't play hard to get until you show affection. Change the order. Approach the guy. Show him affection Play hard to get, let him cling for affection. Then show it back. Once you have approached, he may not like you at all. He may start liking you after showing him affection.

Thank you for this 🙏

Men can sense if you are so desperately in need of emotional validation. This is a major turn off. Validate yourself.

I lose all my interest the moment a girls start playing hard to get.

So crystal clear❤

"You play hard to get." Stupid non-advice. Men start seeing through that garbage and will find someone else.

Very smart! quality content 🌹

I Rather chase for kfc meal , its more cheaper and it yummy 😋 😜 😊

if you play it too long. He will think you are using him for just ATTENTION and giving FREE VALIDATION. it's your fault he thinks that way!! Then you will think 'he isn't that much into me'...WRONG..he WAS.. but lost that attraction because you had bad behaviour!

Thank you I’m trying to get this creepy girl to stop talking to me and your videos are helping me make her leave me alone thx!

Thanks a lot!!

One thing to keep in mind is if you're dealing with a man that has experience, these steps won't work. The guy will disappear like the Lochness Monster.

Very good video

Great 😌

That’s me out then at step one - I’m physically grotesque 😢

What is your accent, Swedish? I love it and you are gorgeous. Thanks angel

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Playing hard to get is probably the dumbest thing anyone can ever do. You’re playing games and it’s immature. We could die at any given moment, life doesn’t give second chances after death.

hi baby!! what are the things he should be doing at the beginning?? sorry I don't get it and I am just meeting a guy. i don't know what to expect from him at this stage. i feel insecure sometimes so i don't know when it is normal or when it is mean he isn't just into me and I should move on... thanks!

There's a difference between playing hard to get and being hard to get. Playing hard to get is supposed to be playful.

Yes , girls today play this flirt games and for a guy is a must to know them, but if you look at how s people get with each other decades or even hundred years ago, you realise that today people live in an never ending adolescence, which is a sign that people din t grow up. In a healthy society this flirt games would be play only for adolescence 14 17 years old, not by adults

I stuy psychiatry, and let me tell you that these are just childish narcissistic games to protect your ego because you are afraid to show your vulnerability and become attached due to fear of losing someone you got attached to and the fear of being rejected. There's no sincerity in these games, you're always scared of losing control, you don't follow your true feelings and you're repressing them, you're only following your ego, you're always isolating yourself, you develop paranoid thoughts if you finally get with someone in a relationship, you treat your partner like a doggie to whom you give candy every time he behaves well. etc. And when your ego is hurt because your partner didn't behave the way you wanted, you hurt them by depriving them of your presence and your attention or by taking revenge in some way. That's how you fall into sadism. And thinking like that is the best way to end up alone or never be happy in a relationship. This way of thinking is the exact opposite of religion. This is how bad people act. Be sincere, show your vulnerability, be ready to lose the person you care about or be manipulated and communicate with him/her if that happens. If the relationship doesn't work out, be proud that you showed your vulnerability and that you showed to someone your sincere feelings. This is what real strength and true love is.

Its not "lose interest at some point" Its give up

As a guy I don't think playing hard to get or pretending to be busy is attractive, I think you should show that you are interested and I think neediness is attractive but only if the girl is attractive. If I were to be approached by a girl who wanted to date me, the way to do it is to be direct

Beautiful 😘

Yeah.. im a guy and kind of used this reversely to make it work for me.. cuz we all know men and women are mostly alike just as you said aswell..... Also damn right Frank was ! Guys are like little babies that they just need a mummy(not mommy) to take care of them and love them.Girls are the same as that .... Im getting better cuz of you, girl

0:53 I know you meant “warm”, but worm works too… if you’re Heidi Klum.

If you are playing hard to get,you become hard to want

Why can’t I chase women? It’s definitely not that I’m not confident enough, because I talk to everyone. I’ll start a conversation with people randomly, yet it’s never “chased” it’s just natural. If it comes by it comes by, if it doesn’t then 🤷‍♂️

🤣🤣so the men who won't chase you can't love

It’s called choosing singles … that way he knows you are interested, and he starts the chase..,

4 simple steps for women not having to do a single thing and not having to put themselves on the line, while getting free attention and ego boost and wasting men's time.

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Games. Useless. Know your high value as a woman … simple. Men are magnetised.

5. Hypnotic long-drop earrings.

he will laugh and chase the monjey. Noone needs you.

I’m a sigma male and we don’t chase women. Show them interest they take you for granted what’s the point

1) be into programming 2) know how to build a pc 3) dont be easy to get as in impressed by everything you hear just cuz a guy is cute or funny. 4) able to accept him for who he REALLY is and not just for his looks nor money or whatever. (can be vice versa) Because what if he gets bigger or gets any imperfections? what you gonna leave him cuz he has a daddy bod or has a hair style u don't approve off. Yeah make sure you accept him for who he is and not what he looks like.

YOU SHOULD BE needy and clingy right AWAY. I mean not takng with him the WHOLE day and everyday. But you must interact with him pretty long and then end it. Its about respect! Menaing both parties should and MUST interact wth eachother and bot must make a start oe else he will lose interest bevasue he sees you as 'Immature, dont know what you want, strining him along!!' WOman are way to affraid of rejection!! Then they act stupid. sorry but think and handle simple. DOnt LIE/JOKING when he say if you like him. The hard to get game is actually a turn off for MOST men. Men are direct and woman are INDIRECT'

I started watching advice for women to be aware of some of the sometimes ridiculous advice/tactics that are suggested. (the equivalent of PUA tactics for women) I can guarantee that one and two won’t get a reaction out of me, and I sure as hell don’t want affection from someone I am not/could not be interested in. As far as psychology goes, the average person does not often realize that much is generalized and not always absolute, we are all different, and as an extreme example, the psychology of a a simp and a Sigma are no doubt very different, and so is what it takes to interest them.

“Let him come to you” - so what does that look like, is it when he starts a conversation with you?

You will show your vulnerabilities, when the guy shows he has worth. But as for playing a game about being in control, I'm not in favour of it.

a man who really cares wont ever rsk cancelling a date or play games that diminish their chances

can you do same but for boys?

Me as a guy watching n taking notes🤓

Make a video for me how to impress you, I like you so much 😊❤

Thank you

Sorry for double post: About playing hard to get: I actually tend to view playing hard to get as you showing low self-esteem, rather than you trying to show interest or make me chase you. I tend to get really annoyed and get the "oh my fucking god ANOTHER woman who tries this fucking bullshit with me". Disclaimer: I'm a 31-year old guy, who has been unhappily single for almost all my life. I want to find a girlfriend, but it's very difficult for me for some reason. I am thus extremely self-sufficient, i own my own house and car, i'm financially independent, have a great job and i can basically live this entire life alone. So what i look for in a woman, is someone who is able to be in there, and to make things EASY on me. If you are deliberately trying to put PROBLEMS in my life, and take my time away from things i would rather do, i tend to get really annoyed with you. And no, it has nothing to do with how attractive you are. I will be annoyed with the woman whether she is a 10/10 or a 5/10. If i like you, i will want you right now, and i want it to be easy, and i don't want any games. I won't play any with you, and i expect you to do the same and just tell me what you want. I sure as hell will with you.

Good tips but it doesn't work with sigma males tho.

Step 1 be pretty Step 2 be alive

In English language there is a difference between "chase" and "pursue"

Damn why did i click on the video then. I'm stupid.

Yes , girls today play this flort games and for a guy is a must to know them, but if you look at how s people get with each other decades or even hundred years ago, you realise that today people live in an never ending adolescence, which is a sign that people din t grow up. In a healthy society this flort games would be play only for adolescence 14 17 years old, not by adults.

As a guy I can tell you ladies: 1. Be hot. The end.

It was a nice video but in my opinion I want someone to be in my life with physical ways without drama and analysis and accept me for who I am

It used to be him chasing me, now it's the other way round, think I should stop looking for him but I'm afraid he thinks I don't care anymore so I don't know really what to do I don't like playing games

The real Veronica is not dating meeting anything a guy. No, I need a lawyer.

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How can I make men stop bothering me?

Hi 👋🏻 I'm from India. I like your nature very much. 🧡

How set attract bpd lover set boundaries and how to addit them

I really struggle with boundaries or being firm when a guy is fairly nice and respectful for the most part, but does certain things that makes me uncomfortable or pouts/defensive when I call him out. I avoid the confrontation, but it feels like a compromise.

Cool

The life is already hard to live in this world. Why would anyone make it more hard? Better stay away.

But how do you get a guy to stop pursuing you even after you tell him to stop.

So where's for the boys version?

The video starts and ends at 0:42

How much days busy in our life

How do you do this in a long term relationship when the guy he gotten laid back. Please make a video

She is right in so many ways. So its thumbs up and am a guy.

Video:for girls The comments: lol

The guys watching this : 👀