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the second guy is envious of his wife's career and is dedicated to making her miserable for it. quitting his job was indeed a forewarning of his shenanigans

Doctor needs to hire a nanny, put him back to work & get the house on the market. When the house sells, move into a rental. He resents her & he’s punishing her. He wants her to file for divorce & he’s looking for a big payout as the house husband. She needs to start planning her escape.

They’re far too logical to notice when the floor needs to be cleaned.

It's always so funny to me when men insult women only after they don't want them. I remember walking down the street as a preteen in Brooklyn and I heard some guy say something to me. I ignored him. He knew I ignored him. As I am walking away, I hear him scream: "that's ok you ugly anyway!" So by his own logic he couldn't even get an ugly girl stop for him. How tragic. lol.

The more I keep hearing these stories the more I don’t feel bad about these men’s loneliness epidemic. It’s self inflicted and it’s no shock why there is more men in shelters than women.

“He only showered or brushed before going to work” cleanliness is not just about health but also showing a level of respect towards people- that’s why he did it for the job, and not for you. He had respect for work colleagues and boss, but not the person who would have to kiss him and lay next to his filthy self in bed. Good for her for having respect for herself. Edit: those people who were saying it could be a mental health problem, are missing the fact that he had no problem bathing before going to work. He has the ability to bathe when he deems it important. I believe mental problems are not a factor in this.

I am a freshly divorced doctor who had an ex who was just like that guy, but he called me a "nag" instead of micromanager. It took me 2.5 years and $70k in lawyers to extract this nematode. She needs to get out NOW.

This guy hates his wife for being the breadwinner and having an important career. He feels she doesn’t need him so he’s not going to do anything for her. I’d be surprised if he’s not cheating on her to be honest.

12:04 Some men really believe that staying at home with the kids is a vacation lol, now that he sees it takes a tonnn of work he is playing dumb. “How was I supposed to know you’d be hungry after a 12 hour shift????”

Surgeon's husband wants to be an ex. Surgeon would be better off finding a really good nanny or a live-in carer.

So the surgeon in the second story has to tell her stay at home husband that she needs to eat when she gets home? After 9 years he can't anticipate that she'll probably want dinner after 12 hours of work? Noe! Men in the comments would be freaking out if HE was working 12 hours and came home to no food AND doing the child care as soon as he got home..... It's not that she's not communicating.... He doesn't want to do it and will find whatever reason he has to, in order to NOT do it

Women need COMMUNITY. We need EACH OTHER 😢

S2: So if roles were reversed all these men would be saying there should be food on the table blah blah blah.. where is her food? The husband is punishing her and a pos frankly

Starting to realize that the huuuuuuuge gap between males and Females is that F have had to become competent at every single thing just to survive the world of M and M are only just starting to realize that F are human and their exploitation of/entitlement to F has negatively impacted their own competency in life

If the wife stayed home , dinner would be ready. You would have clean laundry and a clean house. What are you talking about.

That first story was just gross. 🤮 Second story, if it was reversed, it would be expected that she would make food for him and wash his clothes after a long day. He would lose his mind. She also better be careful since she’s the one working. If they divorced, she will have to pay alimony and maybe child support. She better be careful.

They’re too busy being good leaders, curing cancer, helping elderly neighbors, volunteering at the cat shelter, and learning developmental psychology to be better fathers.

Ive worked in hospitals - i can’t even tell you the number of male doctors that I know - who have had meals from their wives. The good ones also help out at home because it’s their home… I can’t even imagine this poor woman being so exhausted and coming back to this crap

Second story: This is a narcissistic & toxic tactic. My ex used this ALL the time. 🤦🏻‍♀️ He'd get mad at me for expecting my "loving husband" to anticipate my needs. Let's us Valentines Day as an example. It's common knowledge that women love Valentine's Day. Especially in relationships where the man hardly does ANYTHING throughout the year to show love and appreciation ~ the holiday is an opportunity to show love. Duh! 😅 My ex would forget about VD and I'd be emotional and upset. THEN he'd say: "well, you didn't TELL ME that it was important to you!!!" So then the next time, I'd speak up and he said I was pressuring him and he didn't want to GIVE in that way. ???!!!! THEN, the next time I waited until after midnight on the NEXT Valentine's Day and when I spoke up about my hurt, he said "DAMNIT! I _HAD_ something special planned but you bringing it up RUINED IT!!!" So then I'd be crushed and shattered, mad at myself for saying ANYTHING!!! This merry go round continued until I stopped needing anything from him and that's JUST how he wanted it. Period. He wanted a wife with NO NEEDS. And too afraid to speak up. I left. ❤ It's a lose-lose situation. You cannot win. At all. EVER. Run!!!! And this is also a huge red flag: someone who cannot or will not abide having regular, normal, healthy adult communications. She's married to a man-child. 😢

He'll sue her for alimony. I would never divorce him .we would just live apart

The second man needs to go back to work. They can put the child in daycare or hire a nanny. To the wife, my dear your so call husband doesn’t like you! He has zero compassion for you and most likely gets a rush out of your pain and your frustration with him. You don’t want to end up paying alimony. He doesn’t like you!

I've commented here before about a couple I used to be friends with. The husband had health issues then got a brain injury; all this was before he met his wife. He couldn't work, he was on disability and he was very capable of taking care of the house. However, due to his brain injury, he did need prompts and reminders or he couldn't really "notice" what needed to be done. So, the wife started making him a "Honey Do" list that he would look at several times a day until he'd gotten the household tasks done. He realized he needed those reminders and didn't see it as "micromanaging", even when the kids put down the things they needed him to do. He literally needed a specific kind of help and the family acted accordingly. No resentment at all🤷🏻‍♀️

1st story, Eww! 🤢🤢 2nd story, OP is a single married mother. Her husband resents her for having a successful career. She does housework & childcare anyway, so what does she need him for? 🤷🏾‍♀️

I worked with autistic children and adults for years. They are overtly direct with confrontation, or avoidant. Not A**holes.

SAHD knows exactly what he's doing. He knows she needs to eat. He's chosen to to be the one who doesn't feed her.

Why do we keep telling an English speaking person talking to another English speaking person that they are not communicating after she explicitly states she has been communicating for 9 YEARS. Women don't have to be told to have dinner ready. We already do. Even when we work.

Surgeon wife: get a meal plan and a couples therapist. He is classic passive aggressive. He is lying to her and punishing her. For now just tell him he is incompetent as a homemaker. Write it down. Ask for a post nuptial agreement because there is a difference between using someone and actually doing the job well enough to justify his pocket money.

Every time I think men have reached the ultimate level of having the audacity, they manage to take it up a notch.

Hes not even doing "everything" alone. The wife comes home and takes care of the child herself until he goes to bed. So, she's an active parent. They could work together to come up with a routine that works for them BOTH. So, that wouldn't even be her micromanaging, they'd be making a plan they BOTH take part in.

It's so weird to see social media posts where the original poster clearly lays out that they have had conversations about what's bothering them, and have asked for a very specific change. And one of the first things people will say is "you really need to communicate." In instances like these, not only has the person with the problem communicated about it, the other person has communicated right back by defying or dismissing the issue. Altogether. Behavior is a language. Behavior is communication.

Sad part on the surgeon, if she divorced him, then she would get stuck paying alimony since he doesn't even work outside the home.

It sounds like she did tell her husband. She said I'm hungry when I get home and I'm hungry before I leave. It's him being poor at listening and not holding his own.

I have an adult cousin who doesn’t bathe or brush his teeth. He never has. His bedroom when he was a teenager smelled like rancid feet. He would always say, “I’m a boy, we are supposed to be smelly.” Our whole family went on a trip, for an entire week, where we did a lot of hiking. He didn’t shower the entire week. His mother never addressed his hygiene problems at all as he was growing up. He smelled so bad on that trip, and his mother was shocked when she discovered he hadn’t bathed the whole week, and chastised him for it. I don’t know why she was shocked, because this is how he had been his whole life. She was just embarrassed when every member of the family was complaining about how smelly he was while we were all trapped in the car and airplane with him. Moms need to step up when the boys are young and make them have better hygiene. They do it with their daughters, you can be sure of that.

Nobody wants to do unpaid labor.

When a man says a woman is a "bad communicator" or "needs to communicate" it seems to always be his way of saying "you need to keep track of the mental load, not me, and also I will NEVER put energy or thought into anticipating your needs. Get used to it." 2nd lady should schedule a text that automatically gets sent every day saying "I'm exhausted and hungry for dinner today.💋"

6:06 he hates her. She should leave and get herself a house keeper and nanny. He's gas lighting her. He really hates her and likes to see her upset. She better get out of there before she ends up with a chronic illness.

I read the story #2. He only cooks or order food for himself, only does his and the baby laundry. When she's home, she still does ALL the cooking, household duties and parental duties. He behaves like she's her roommate. He hates her and is being passive agressive.

My sister has been a great provider. Her husband wanted more kids. She did not. He BEGGED her and promised he would be a stay at home dad. I think he thought she would want to stay home again (she tried with the first child, and he was a HORRIBLE provider). He tried to not be a stay at home dad even though he knew daycare was off the table. He then tries weaponized incompetence (he would ruin boxed macaroni and chz for an example). When that didn't work, he made her pay! Her house was like an episode of hoarders, the kids misbehaved all the time, he parentified the eldest, and he never supported her career. He is bitter and resents her because she is an overachiever, and he is just average. She wanted to divorce because her youngest is off to college. He vowed to make ut messy and costly. My sister just had a mental break. She took a LOA from work. They are still making her take care of EVERYTHING!!! They are high school sweethearts. He is also considered, the nice guy 😒

I got a low EQ score in my autism diagnosis and have empathy but a harder time with social stuff. Even if I had zero empathy, I could deduct that insulting people for not replying is not it.

The husband in story 2 sounds hella petty. It takes actual effort to only make enough food for 1 person. When most people cook, it's usually enough for at least 2 people. He's TRYING to not have anything for his wife to eat when she gets home.

He should just being making food for the whole family, it should not be up for discussion. Women who are SAHM or even working come home make meals for the whole family. This man is using weaponized incompetence. Why is this even up for discussion when we know women have been taking up this role for ages?

As someone who’s been treated for clinical depression yes, poor hygiene can definitely be a sign of poor mental health; but if that were the only factor in this case, it would imply that this man’s mental health fell off a cliff as soon as he got married. I doubt that was the case. To me it sounds more like “i have her locked down now,” because if it was mental health related, he would likely have struggled with it while dating, also. It’s the flip of the switch, for me. Story 2: you’re surprised your wife is hungry after a 24 hour shift as a frigging surgeon?! Come on my dude. You aren’t that dumb

I always tell women who are dating to leave a man on read or take a day to respond to a message during the texting stage. You want to see if they’ll flip out on you like this.

Story #1 - women usually have a legit reason for "letting themselves go" because we don't often get time to take care of ourselves. It's 99% not on purpose. However, dudes like this woman's ex-husband just be nasty and unkempt on purpose. Yikes. 😫🤮 Story #2 - How often is that women make food, give massages, ask about his day, make food, etc. This guy is trash. He's just throwing anything hurtful at her. She might as well divorce him.

“Seems you’re not shy as your profile says” 🚩🚩🚩 predatory af.

Yeah, autism ain't causing all that. Regardless of if anyone's neurodivergence attributes to their behavior, good or bad, going off on someone like that boils down to people taking things way too personally and wanting to cause harm because they are hurt.

19:41 yeah he just HAD to insult her and her children because..... Autism.... 🙄

Most of the time when there’s a situation where the man is like “have my food ready” the context is problematic overall. I think it’s a power play and resents her for being the “man” in their relationship. Instead of *communicating* that and working through his emotions, he gets mad at her. It’s weird how the commenters were chastising her. They don’t seem to realize how different it is in the reverse. It’s as if they think him helping with the baby is already a big thing, so he must need reminding to cook because that wouldn’t occur to a man 🥺 “Spell it out for him” WHY?! He doesn’t leave a list of what to do for the baby. I bet he thinks cooking and having a meal ready for her would make him a “b”. What does he eat all day??

Story 2 he is low key resentful of the fact that she is the breadwinner and can financially provide in a way he can’t! That’s why he opted out of working to stay home! His salary was prop no comparison to hers as a surgeon. I don’t know any real men that are okay with their women making more than them! This guy is no exception. ☹️

If it is a sahm and she didn’t have everything in order (especially something as basic as food for her and her laundry) then these husbands would lose their minds.

Hygiene...wtf is wrong with these men not wanting to take a shower, brush their teeth, or wash their clothing? I am so glad she divorced him.

When I was a SAHM, dinner was on the table, everyone had clean underwear, my husband didn't have to get up for anything once he was home, I did bedtime with kids. Yes, if the roles were reversed, people would call the woman a lazy gold digger.

All he has to do is make more than enough food so she can just warm her food back up. My kids are 12 (son) and 18 (daughter). They make enough for whomever is home. Lol.

It seems when most husbands become a sahd they don't do anything really

Every time he needs something she should say he's a bad communicator and that he should idk maybe write a list or something.

Re: Grody Ex -- why do so many men think that once they've "hooked" you, they can let themselves go? There are ones out there who literally don't wash their own butts because they think that it's "gay" to touch your butt. Or care about personal cleanliness.

The doctor’s husband doesn’t want to care for HER. Your discussion was right on.

House husband; if she had a wife non of this would have been a problem. Food would be ready and laundry would be done.

To the surgeon, if she knows he's not going to do anything, then order food for yourself only, get a housekeeper/nanny, and he gets his ahhs a job. Problem solved. He doesn't get to stay home. Get off his ahhs and pay these damned bills.

Soooo when women are stay at home moms it’s a given that we’re supposed to have food ready for hubby when he comes home. The 2nd guy knows exactly what he’s doing

My Bible is a little rusty, I seem to remember Jesus says something about judge not lest you be judged. The story with the surgeon, she probably works long hours. Yes she's hungry and yes she needs clean uniforms. He needs to be told that you need clean clothes for work and at the end of the day you're hungry. Passive-aggressive!!

I'm more and more convinced with each story that it's just impossible to be happy living with any man 😂 I love being single, I have no stress at home

Also he didn't know she wanted to eat? Really? She's human, she needs sustenance! 🤦‍♀️ Damn!! He doesn't know she needs food? He doesn't think she eats?

That house husband is playing in the doctor's face! He's giving diabolical, covert narc vibes. I hope she and her baby make it out safely.

Do the commentors completely read the story? She SAID she made a list of meals and he called her a micromanager. Did they just miss that part?

My niece and my younger brother have these same problem the stink and the funk for days on end holding my breath(disgusting)

So, my son is on the Spectrum and has only ever blown up at his father. This is because his father can drive even the most patient person to want to attempt homicide (thus a main reason for our divorce). There has never been a report from anyone that my son has been problematic or imbalanced. He's never been mean to anyone as well, even when it might be warranted. It's just not who he is or how he was raised to be. My children were raised to know that all emotions are valid and are a part of living as a human being. We especially stressed that males have the same emotional makeup as females and that all humans can express the full range as they go about living. We taught how to manage anger, disappointment and other things that too many people don't know how to handle at any age. Unfortunately, this caused some issues with other males when my son was in school. Because he wanted to resolve conflict with his words, some boys thought that he was afraid to fight. They had to learn the hard way that this calm, quiet boy would wax your arse across the floor when necessary. Because I, too, am a quiet nerd, people make assumptions and have found themselves swallowing fists and feet when they pushed things too far. Explaining to your children that some people will force them to physically defend themselves, then teaching them how to do so, will take them far. After others witnessed his fighting skills, they left him alone. He's not expressed interest in dating or romantic relationships, so I've no idea if he'll try it at some point. I do know that he'd never do something like this. One of the reasons for this is his upbringing and the fact that I told him that I will end him if ever he mistreats a girl/woman. Fortunately, I remain the one person on the planet of whom he is afraid. People really do need to stop trying to find excuses for males when they act like themselves. They are choosing these behaviors so that they can continue to hate women and blame us for their misery. Males, in general, never want to take responsibility for what happens to them. This is why they're the ones who go on violent rampages, rather than deal with the realities of life. They want to bring up their "mental health" to use as a weapon against women and won't do anything to improve conditions for themselves. This way, it feeds that delusional loop they're on and gives them more excuses. Even if they do have mental health issues, they aren't doing anything about it and just want to weaponize any empathy that might be extended in their direction. Let's call it what it is: Effery. Do not give males, or their worshippers, the benefit of the doubt. Doubt is all they get as we move far, far away. Now, the other males in these scenarios. Glad the woman rid herself of an actual pest who thought that being gross wasn't a dealbreaker. I've met guys with hygiene challenges who got upset that I was blunt about it. One showed up to a date looking like he'd bathed in a vat of melted Crisco and I couldn't stop laughing as I exited the restaurant post haste. The pest who's taking care of the baby is mad jealous if the surgeon and wants to sabotage her in every way possible. As one commenter suggested, she should get a nanny and then give him two weeks to find a job. Getting a male nanny would really get his guff, and reduces the chances that he'd try to either sleep with or intimidate that person. After he's gone, she can switch to a woman working for her as a nanny. Add a housekeeper to the nanny and ensure that the housekeeper or nanny will also cook. Even if this costs additional money, the surgeon won't have to worry about anything like this and will greatly reduce her stress, angst, and feelings of disappointment.

The dude isn't cooking for her because he doesn't like her. Let's stop beating around the bush and call a spade a spade. People do for people that they like... period

Agree! The commenters really weren’t behind a woman breadwinner (and a surgeon for god’s sake!!) coming home and having her needs met by a husband. He probably thought he didn’t sign up for that part of being a stay-at-home dad

My stbx husband had incontinence issues. Not sure how bad they actually were medically (he hid all this from me till after we were married) and how much was just him being lazy and not wanting to get out of bed to go do his business. Got to the point he'd lay around in bed all day in nothing but a diaper(leaking!). He also never apparently grew out of the little boy hiding the evidence of a wet bed stage and decided that as a grown man he needed to HIDE dirty diapers and soiled pants and underwear around in random places for me to find. No trash bag even. This man was the only one with a drivers license and also never went to the dump with trash(rural area, no trash pickup). Somehow it was still my fault the house was a mess. It's a whole damn long story and gets so so SO much worse. I'm still trying to figure out my life. He's dragging his feet on the divorce but hasn't lived on my property in over a year now, I still don't have drivers license, vehicle, any support network.... Honestly its a clusterfuck. Maybe I'll do a story time soon. Theres a lot to the story. I live alone in a cabin in the woods now that I built with my own two bare hands. I have dogs and pewpews so I guess I'm safe. But I have no support network and it's definitely not easy. Much easier than before I finally got x to leave tho. He left a rat problem behind the tier of a nightmare horror movie too. I was getting bit in my sleep and everything and let me tell ya, the rat infestation was easier to get rid of than my x. UGH.

Brush my teeth twice a day, sometimes three times if I eat something strong or I’m going out with friends. Shower twice a day especially in our Washington, DC heat.

As an Audhd woman i dont get to use my diagnosis as an excuse ans it irritates me when it gets used for men

The house husband hates that he would be expected to serve his wife (a woman). He will do for his child as a parent should and is expected to but sees serving any woman including his wife as denegrating.

Girl, hygiene is a major deal breaker, I don’t EVEN MUCH play. Agreed, sorrows, sorrows, prayers.

S1: my PH balance would never allow this b.s. to fly. This is a Switch Up; maybe it seems "innocent" in comparison to other Switch Up scenarios, such as when the husband becomes violent or emotionally aboosive, but still he did not show his true self and intentionally entrap her. S2: he hates her. All the commenters saying she should communicate better are practicing willful ignorance. And ofc, if it had been a SAHW with a surgeon husband then she would be dragged like she is trying to sell her baby for crackk.

He expects you to do both. I suggest crock pot meals and to meal prep on the weekends then you don’t have to come home to nothing. By pass this man

Story #2: He’s so jealous of her that he’s actively sabotaging her. Imagine the day she’s so tired from crying and fighting with this loser that she makes a mistake on a patient, and they eid? She needs to tell him to get a job, hire a nanny, and file for divorce.

*drives by OMMDCH* "There's an...aroma"

The wife should hire a cook. She can afford it. Tell the cook to make a breakfast and dinner. And a housekeeper for cleaning and laundry. The husband will get mad but oh well. If he doesn’t like it then he can step up his game.

He's punishing her for still being successful post partum. She was supposed to sit down and be "kept"

The second she might as well get a divorce. He is useless she will be better of on her own

So gross! At least get in the shower and take a quick 20min wash up.

Second story, the husband is jealous of her and resentful - period. He wants to be "the man, but isn't. He doesn't want to be controlled, and him doing these niceties for your is just that.... you having control over him. What a lame, immature douche....

The second lady has bigger problems than just food and communication. I have a nasty feeling about the husband. Here's what I would advise: 1) Man goes back to work 2) Both parents hire a nanny 3) Lady thinks long and hard about her sad marriage 4) Lady gets a divorce and lives happily ever after. That man is more than just a dad. He's a husband as well. He might be a great dad, but he's a lousy husband. Cut him loose while you still can, lady.

#2 How about texting/calling him when you're NOT hungry? Since op is a foodie, and he is using weaponized incompetence to make sure NOT to care for her needs...then close the window. Don't ask him for...tell him when not.

JOI: "I'm going to inbox the person who says she's shy and ask her to sxtalk me." Sounds pretty creepy from here....

These gaslighting husbands need to get right or get out!

1st story- a family member told me about her boyfriend who she lived with that he didn’t shower everyday and reeked of alcohol because he was a heavy drinker. She said the only time he took a shower was when he wanted sex🥴. Admittedly I asked the same question “is he going through something? Is it his mental health? Did you notice anything before you lived with him?” It was none of those things! He was just nasty and once he got her, he didn’t feel the need to do anything else 🤷🏽‍♀️.

Story 1: I come from a Brazilian background and the idea of not showering at least twice a day is so foreign to me, it's crazy! In Brazil, most people shower at least two times a day. Hell, if I can get home for a quick shower after lunch, I do it. In Brazil, I learned to wash with a Luffa gourd (which if you get a whole one, you can use it to wash your back like a washing cloth), if you apply enough pressure you can exfoliate really well until your skin gets reddish, and then I usually moisturize. And the bad breath for not brushing his teeth? Disgusting! This story reminds me of the story you told about the man who stopped washing his a-h0l3 after some time married too, at least this woman is leaving her husband, that other woman was asking for advice on how to get her husband to start washing his behind, I keep remembering your words on that post, "love is not stronger than poop" and laugh! Story 2:That woman needs to divorce her husband, she's doing more than her share of the work, working 12 hours a day, and taking on the parental night shift, and he can't even cook her dinner and her scrubs when he's washing his own clothes, or cook for her while he's cooking for himself. She needs to check the laws in her estate to see how much alimony he would be entitled to, my guess is not much, since most women who get divorced get screwed over by the courts. Or she could move her money to a separate account, hire a cook and a housekeeper, and reduce the amount of money he has access to a nanny's salary (since that's all he does!)

I literally stopped showering regularly when I was in the deepest most intense throws of depression and I fought to get out of it, like I did not want to exist at all at that point 😭 but even when I was at that low I used wet wipes, sink baths, etc to stay okayish. I can’t imagine just…. Getting funky and expecting my partner to deal for no reason 😭

She would do better to dump the husband and higher a live in nanny and subscribe to a meal delivery service.

Autism is no excuse for filth & terrible behavior in a relationship. If your symptoms really are that extreme, I feel for you and you need to stay alone forever because no other person deserves to be subjected to that.

#2 He's punishing her with weaponized incompetent until she gives in. He wants control and wants her at home. With his logic I guess their baby conveys its needs daily with a signed request form right? Because otherwise how is he to know the baby's hungry crying isn't a good enough indicator according to him, being told that I'm hungry when I get off work isn't a good enough effort at communication. He sounds like a narc trying to punish you for overtaking him

Oftentimes SAHD’s want to pick and chose their responsibilities. I have known multiple coworkers and even a family member in this situation, it never worked and led to divorce.

If someone's is a stay at home person ,you should be supporting the bread winner. He's gonna lose a WHOLE doctor. My husband works 12 hour shifts, and i also work, but since im there in the morning, it would kill me to watch him come home and have nothing to eat.

20:06 it's also an insult to those (like myself) who are actually neurodivergent, I know not to do crap like this, I have caught myself when I'm about to go into a pointless mean rant as it's either unneeded or not worth the energy

The surgeon mom is literally purchasing all the food, paying the mortgage, and covering all his financial needs. Yet she can’t get a meal. He doesn’t like her and she’s being set up for the okey doke. He stopped working. When they get a divorce she’ll have to pay him alimony and child support. She needs to go see an attorney, get a nanny, send his ssa back to work. He’s setting her up.

Some people really don't understand autism. Being a jerk and being autistic is not the same thing. I didn't see a single autistic trait on display there.

If the house husband doesn't want to cook everyday, he could cook big batches of dinner two or three times a week for both of them. And make some breakfasts ahead too (like egg burittos or overnight oats).