#1: she doesn't initiate anything 80%of the male population: well, shit

I'll take the honors away this time: 0:57 she doesn't initiate anything with you 2:05 she won't hang out with you 3:54 she flakes last minute 4:53 The 24-48 hour rule And bonus tips on the menu this time!! 6:10 NEVER beg for anyone's time, effort, or attention 6:39 Do not try to be manipulative or play mind games 7:55 Do not be the aggressive, irate person. Feeling angry or upset is okay but these emotions should be handled without aggression or making the other person uneasy. Thank you for sharing this, amazing content as usual!

Number 1 advice no women will tell you because they don’t know about it. Hold your seed, focus on yourselves king’s 👑 🙏

When a girl ignores me I assume it's because she is so nervous by my good looks that she can't do anything. And that's ok.

The worst feeling has never been being turned down, even with admittedly one-itis. It has always been the cycle of teasing attention every now and then, followed with ghosting, then scheduling to do something and not showing up.

_"Never, ever, ever, never beg for someone's time or attention."_ Courtney with the quotable one-liners. I wish these videos were part of a required course when I was in college.

Sometimes the attraction for that woman can be very strong and I've made that mistake of either feeling obsessed or chasing with the hope that something good may happen. It's tough, thanks for the advice.

3:24 I hate when girls do that. If you're not interested in me, just tell me. We're all adults and getting rejected is a part of life. If a girl isn't straight about that, I know it's not a good match. Great advice, Courtney!

I experienced this with two different women in the past three months. I didn't try reaching out, just walked away. Nice to be reassured I made the right move.

You’re spot on Courtney! I love how sharp you’ve gotten in your niche lately. Love to see you succeed and grow.

Whoa.. I've never been this early to a video drop. "What you allow is what will continue" aka "we train others how to treat us"

This hits me in the feels.. I been through it and got stuck in the middle of it.. playing games is always bad no matter which side you are on.. both people lose if both decide to play the game..

There is nothing more enjoyable than having a cup of coffee ☕ with a dessert in peace 😌

Courtney is right Guys! "What you allow is what will continue" Fellas Walk away from the BS!! Being respected is way more important than being liked! Great video Courtney!!

When she realises you are a good man is when she loses interest.

This is great info Courtney... its good reminder info even for us older guys who have been through almost everything. Keep up the good work.

This video has come at just the right time for me. Courtney has so much wisdom

Courtney, if you read this, I’ve been watching videos on your channel now for about a week and let me tell you you are the best relationship channel out there. Your advice is amazing and you obviously have our best interests at heart compared to other channels like marni kinneys. Please keep making great content.

My older sisters never gave me the same advice you give your followers...I wish they did, it would have saved me from a lot of grief! Take care and keep up the good work!

Thank you for taking the time to make these videos for us! I find them all to be very helpful!

This video is very well "SEASONED." Your WORD CHOICES are very rich and authentic, and I truly appreciate them. Definitely distinct from other channels out there. I've been watching your videos for a few months now. You are very well-versed in your material and calm about it. I am currently in this situation as of now, and trying hard to take the "Gentlemen's Road."

Always nice to get a good piece of advice from my big sis Courtney. She's the best!

I’ve watched many coaching videos and I think Courtney and Coach Lee are my top. Advice seems solid, experienced and not so cynical.

Courtney, as you are introvert and so am I, it will really be great if you can make a video about traits that introverted guys do that girls love or things that introvert guys do that makes them attractive🇵🇭

I respect what you do young lady. You are saving my grandson from depression. You are saving the young mens lives. You are a good mentor to these young men. You Are like a mother figure to these young men. Generation z needs you.

You have to pay attention to the little details and patterns. Thank you!💚

You described this one girl I'm kind of talking to now who wants to text all day but has flaked on plans I've made to get together multiple times. Thank you so much for your content Courtney!

I just discovered your channel.It’s so refreshing to see a young attractive lady with intelligence and who speaks common sense.That seems to be rarity these days.

180K subscribers, wow Courtney congratulations! Bravissima 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

you are the greatest Courtney, we needed your advice!

I appreciate your words; they're said with equanimity, and candor, a rare quality among the youth at present. You exhibit admirable characteristics for young women to imbibe should they choose to do so. You have my support.

Class and kind advice as always...and correct as well. We may not like hearing it but need to hear it...at the end of the day we should be honest with ourselves.

I got rejected today so thank you for the bonus tips of handling rejection with grace and not be aggressive

Courtney!!! please do a video on signs she’s losing interest in you but for those in a long term relationship 🙏🙏🙏

Courtney girl. You rock! Thank you for your honesty. Keep up the good work!!

I came across your video and I’m so glad that I took the time to watch it because it resonates with what I’m going through right now. In the beginning things were great and now she’s changed it’s gotten to where she doesn’t text me unless I text her first it’s gotten to where I’m the one making the first moves and also planning things. I’ve always been someone who listens to and trust my instincts and intuition. So watching this video helps me to decide that maybe it’s time to move on to someone new and not continue on putting more time and energy into what I have now because no matter how amazing I am to her it’s never going to be enough so it’s time for me to let it go and find someone who’s more valuable and will value me in return. I’ve gotten to the point where life is too short for me to be investing time with someone who isn’t grateful or thankful to have me in their lives. This day and time it’s tough trying to find that special someone who will accept you for you. I’ve also learned that if a relationship didn’t bring me what I want then it teaches me what I don’t want.

Damn Courtney! Your channel is blowing up! Great job and thanks for your vids!

Love your advice and hard work keep posting again love your advice 💯

Genuinely appreciate you saying “Do not get aggressive.”

You're a treasure of humanity ❤️

Keep up the good work! Love the content and your open mindedness!

I wish I had this video over the last 10+ years. It could have helped to prevent all the heartbreak over a dozen women who had no interest in me.

These videos are a godsend! Thank you!

I have been watching your videos for awhile. You give amazing advice!

Always right on time with these vids. Was wondering the same

So very true! Whenever I have ever reached out to a girl, ones that know me too, not like I'm just messaging random strangers, it always feels as though its an interview and I'm the interviewer. Yeah they answer my questions (sometimes) but they certainly dont ask me anything and NEVER initiate contact

When you wake up next to her and she has a ring....she's losing interest

The real question is do I have any interest in this girl at all. Haha but correct never be obsessed or aggressive and sometimes us guys tend to overthink and at times overreact when a situation with a woman doesn’t go are way. Best thing to do when a girl starts losing interest I to go do things that make you happy completely forget about the person your interested in go fishing go hiking in the woods talk to more women if she’s not interested gents there’s plenty of beautiful women like Courtney and the will appreciate a gentleman like you just keep working on yourself men when you stop focusing on these women who lose interest in you and doing things that make you happy that’s when women start looking at you say damn Juan’s got a glow his happy doing something different and these will chase you. Haha great video Courtney I hope read this it’ll make my day ❤️

Thanks Courtney! Very helpful.

I know a true friend or partner when they initiate a conversation and ask me out too, not me them. And I've kept some good people in my life despite being drunk, upset around them etc. I am glad they exist.

Amazing advice once again, thank you 💪🏽😎

This is EXACTLY my situation, had to great dates with this girl and we were planning a third, but for some reason I can't figure out the energy dropped off a cliff. I tried to rescue it, but the conversation became platonic, she stopped flirting and asking me questions. I've stopped trying now and I'm focussing on other girls, but there is still a part of me that wishes I could rekindle what I had at the beginning with this girl

You just opened my eyes @Courtney Ryan

It could also be a sign of someone who likes you a lot & habitually sabotages anything on the verge of a healthy relationship. If she truly liked you, they’ll often let you know by sketching art designs into your car as a farewell present after you break things off.

Great advice Courtney - thanks x

Another very Timely video from Courtney. I swear, sometimes Courtney maybe peeping my life! lol

Great great job Courtney!!

Thank you for the advice and tips

Bruh Dating in 2021 in a nutshell.... Hyrergamy and stuff the moment she fels no attraction shes gone,no interest shes gone 😂

If someone says that they don't deserve you, you are too good for them. Just accept it without being cocky and don't try to change their mind. They are literally saying you that they can't be the person you want, that they can't give you what you want. Believe me, I tried to change her mind and it was of no work at all.

This is why I would rather break their hearts than let them break mine. Pull their tactics against them to yield results.

She sends you an invitation to her wedding.

Good suggestions, will keep them in mind

Courtney really relate to my own problem but I will overcome it

If she looses interest, drop and move on. She is not worth the effort. Women have a biological clock.

Good afternoon (here at least), another round of good advice. The one with you always being the one initiating any and all exchanges, even if she replies, is probably one of the easier red flags to detect and maybe still overlooked due to her replying.

There's a difference between losing interest and lost interest. Courtney is framing this in terms of early interactions and dating. This is the period where the girl still has her guard up and is still sniffing a guy out and for this reason she's most likely to exhibit behaviors such as blowing hot and cold, shit testing, flaking etc. It's important to see these behaviors for what they fundamentally are, lack of interest/attraction. Then there is the question, is it recoverable? It's a absolute truth of attraction that once a girl decides she isn't attracted to you there is NOTHING you can or should do to change her mind. That energy is much better spent cultivating the next relationship. Next thought - do I like this girl? Is a lack of attraction or very inconsistent attraction (especially if there were ever some real highs) a red flag? Am I dealing with a girl who has mental issues or is simply too immature to straighten up and fly right, and again, that energy is better spent elsewhere?. Remember, the most attractive guy in the world can't keep a crazy chick. Final thought - are you still in the gray zone? She has low but not negative attraction. Only here does your "game" actually matter. Here is where you have to exhibit high- value behaviors such as keeping it light and funny, not chasing, ultimately not caring. Definitely not lighting up her phone but putting the ball in her court communication-wise and just having the balls to state your case, go quiet and see if SHE re-engages. Girls expect men to chase, especially if that girl is attractive. NEVER do that, be the ONE GUY who doesn't. You know your value and you know other women would see it too. If this chick can't, her loss. Online, this is where having good IG game helps. If she has any positive attraction to you she's checking out what you are doing on IG, or she'll find a way to check you out IRL. It's really easy to "spike" a girl's attraction with a bit of game in a social setting if you know how.

We need the signs for us in long term relationships

Bigfoot stole my precious girlfriend in the middle of the night.😒

This is the reason why I don't get into relationships anymore. It's far better being single than being in a half ass relationship where you own self worth and self esteem is compromised, and being constantly gaslighted for asking the bare minimum.

Yeah pretty sure this is my sitch! Oh well, next! Thanks Courtney 👏

Another sign I received of a lady losing interest was that she hinted at how out of my league she was. The rude thing about it is that she did so when we met in person after chatting online.

Awesome love it 🔥🙏🏽

Excellent information

Knew a girl back in college. Developed feelings for her based on she was the only girl EVER in my life to text as much as she did. Held on to such feelings for YEARS before coming to terms with they were not worth after seeing how flaky she was with me only a year ago. Now I am focusing on my career & getting in shape so I will find a girl better than her IN EVERY WAY. Looks AND personality... ... ...assuming such a girl even exists(not likely).

I agree with the 4 signs of her losing interest, but really, there is only one thing you can do that is the correct answer, and that is to let her go suddenly and without explanation. Of course, if you don't do this, all you've done is tried to repair a dying relationship with a band-aid and some gauze, but this stay of execution is only temporary, guys. Soon, it will be something else, and often, someone else. Never be afraid to leave. And don't take her back, later. This is the sort of behavior that is too deeply ingrained and is often encouraged. Just let them go.

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Every scenarios happened in my life @Courtney Ryan

Your quite the advocate and therapeutic to hear our Congrats you gotta new subscriber here ✔️

Ms. Cristine i didn't do my homework from last class😬, that's why i bring you an apple🍎, an apple a day we all scream for ice cream or something like that, keep up the good work.

You will both be drawn together easily if it's real mutual attraction. You know when this is or isn't happening, don't get emotionally invested if it's not.

It’s happens to the best of us good video.

Remember y’all she didn’t leave you on seen, you left her speechless. Stay up everyone 🤙🏽

Tons of common sense - always worth watching Courtney’s videos.

I find it interesting in different cultures how women respond differently I married a woman from a vastly different culture, she firmly believed it was totally inappropriate to ever ask personal questions of the guy she was interested in. Even after I married her she never asked me personal questions. Now looking back after our divorce, I see this is a really big red flag. A hard lesson to learn, but I learned it well.

The best thing u can do if u see any of these signs is drop back and be sparse. Disappear. Make her seem unimportant to you. Make her wonder what YOU'RE doing, who YOU'RE seeing, etc. The natural instinct is to text her and try to win her heart with being nice and telling them your feelings and nonsense like that but this is the final nail in your coffin if u do it.

I would love a video on how to tell she has little to no self-worth, which would've saved me wasting all of that energy and time and passion on my ex who just gave up on herself, telling me she feels she's standing in the way of me being happy and had no faith essentially in ever being able to give back

Good advice

Never thought I’d be here. But here we are, things were going great with this girl before New Year’s Eve. Now I can’t get the time of day, so I opened her text and went ghost.

2nd point,/sign kinda destroyed Me, years ago. So sad i didnt realised it at the time

She starts to lose interest, say bye bye to her and that's it

When she lies to you and you catch her in the lie. While I have not had that in a relationship, I have had it happen in friendships. I had a "friend" tell me one thing, and later told me the exact opposite of the first statement. Throughout the time that I have known her, she has continually said, "I am not a liar."

I really appreciate your perspective. How do I email a question?

Your tips have literally helped me step my game up without being a total fuckboi. Thanks for being the big sister I never had 😂

I feel like accepting the fact that she lost interest although you felt it coming from a mile away is the hardest thing. To then just Walk away seems even harder to me, yet what choice do I have I hate dating nowadays man

Hey Courtney, I just wanted to ask if you can do a video about “reacting to tiktok haircuts”

Could we get a version if this that applies to longer term relationships?

All these signs I've seen in my previous relationship. It felt like you punched me in the gut 4 times.

Love from India 51 vids under 1 min last vid was the golden Jubliee 🥳🥳🥳

It's amazing how many couples of older generations stayed married for years without all of this advise over the internet. It's just absolutely amazing.