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Thanks for this, Jeremy. I'm 62, and yes, I look back on being in my 40s and reflect on what an idiot I was sometimes. The main things a guy in his 60s has figured out: Every person we meet knows something we need to learn, what we think matters way more to us than to anyone else, and we've lived longer than we have left, so we can't afford to spend time doing useless stuff like worrying about what other people think.

Yup, 100% agree on all of this. It took a long time for me to understand that people will dislike me no matter what and that I should just live how I want to live my life. Have been happier ever since I adopted that mindset.

Perfectly timed. I'm getting out of a nearly 25 year marriage to a narcissistic woman and this video hits on multiple layers while navigating this process and rediscovering who I am. Thanks you!

Great video! My #6 would be “No one is coming to save you.” Be ready, be accountable; physically, financially, etc.

Realizing that I’m a man and that I’m responsible for keeping my family feeling safe, secure, and able to lean on me was the greatest thing I’ve ever been told when I was in a deep, deep slump that I almost didn’t make it out of. I could’ve lost everything but it wouldn’t been at my own hand. I wasn’t allowing that to happen anymore. Don’t wish it were easier, wish you were better. Keep that chin up, kings. #boldfortune #tiegehanley

I needed this. I lost my father a few years ago and I miss getting these bits of truth from him. He was a veteran and one of the best people that I ever knew. Your "be nice until you're not" comment hits home that was one of his lessons as well. We called him "Mr. Perfect" not because he was "perfect" per se, but he worked hard and never complained. He got the job done and never whined about it. That is what I truly miss about him. At any rate, I find your videos and wisdom are down to earth and people need to hear this worldwide. Thank and have a merry Christmas. #boldfortune #tiegehanley

Coming from a military background and having times of bad headspace I can always count on you Jeremy to upload a video that just makes people feel good and relatable. Thank you for being you and making amazing content brother. Happy holidays to you and the family!! #boldfortune #tiegehanley

Your video explains exactly how I’ve been feeling lately and it is also how I aim to raise my kids. It took me 36 years to realize this and looking back at 20 years old me, wow !! It’s amazing we make it past 20 when we think about it. Great video, very inspiring and I must say, nice beard !

Awesome video, Jeremy. My Dad shared similar things with me growing up. One I always try to abide by is “The less you worry about what people think of you, the happier you’ll be”. Keep the bangers comin. #boldfortune #tiegehanley

Thank you for putting this video out. I have 2 boys aged 14 and 10 and I raise them to understand these truths every day. This video reminded me of a quote that I think was Mike Tyson, "Too many people got comfortable talking shit behind a keyboard and not getting punched in the face for it." Hey, Merry Christmas, Happy New Year and a wonderful holiday season to you and your family. #boldfortune #tiegehanley

I don't know how I just came across you're channel but glad I did. It's so nice to hear people speak the truth about how life should and could be if people quit worrying about what someone says or what they can get for free. As another northeast Florida guy keep up the good work and thanks for the great content

The last one is important. I grew up in a religious family and was always taught to be obedient and to disregard my own needs/feelings in favour of getting along with others. Also my father was a bit overbearing and volatile so i learned to walk on eggshells to avoid trouble. These qualities are dangerous around the wrong people and if you're this kind of person you may attract people who will take advantage of your good nature. I've had a friend who I eventually figured out was a narcissist, he was controlling and abusive and he knew how to get away with it. Normally if you dislike how someone treats you, you just distance yourself and eventually they are not part of your life. Narcissists refuse to leave, they won't let you go but they won't treat you right and you can become trapped in this situation...until you accept that YOU HAVE TO BE THE BAD GUY. Now, its obviously them that's destroyed the relationship but you have to take the blame.

Wise sage advice my brother. People these days get too caught up on hating each other and being “triggered” instead of being themselves and letting others be their own person. Hope you and yours have a great Christmas. #BOLDFORTUNE #TIEGEHANLEY

Amen brotha. Hard work and persistence is a big thing that people miss. I'm in my 50's and pretty happy with where I'm at but with that said there's always room for improvement. I still remember growing up my Dad asked me one day when I was job hunting "Did you get the job?" (He was a baby boomer) When I replied no he asked me how much effort I had put in to it. We had a long talk and the thing he said to me stuck even to this day. "If you want the job then don't call. Get off your a$$ and go down there. Show up. Show them that you want the job and you're willing to work for it. They'll either give you a job or they'll get a restraining order." When I was in my 20's I had worked fast food, factories, roofing, etc. but I wanted to get in to computers. For six months I would drive or make contact with the company I wanted to work for. I still remember the day I was hired. My A/C was out in my car and it was 100+ in the Texas sun. I showed up though covered in sweat and upon talking to the manager he learned that I only drove an hour just to see if they were hiring and then turning around to head another hour back home. He went and got the owner of the company and apparently expressed what I was doing. I was hired on the spot and after 8 years with that company I've been in computers ever since. The gist is if you put in the work then people notice. It doesn't always get you what you're shooting for but at least you make a positive impression.

Life isn't fair. Been needing to hear that recently. Its easy to get stressed out because other people are "ahead" in life and it seems you are stuck in a rut. Thanks for the pearls! #BOLDFORTUNE #TIEGEHANLEY

I love this video. I know it posted about 5 month ago but I promise you it will still be relevant today, tomorrow and 10 years from now for all those who truly believe that anything worth having is worth butting in the work.

I really enjoy these little "man to man" chat videos you do. They remind me of my favorite Lynard Skynard song, Simple man. It's the type of wisdom I try to pass on to my son. It's important to be reminded of these simple truths from time to time. Merry Christmas to you and yours, Jeremy. #boldfortune #tiegehanley

I have some in-laws that live off gossip and negativity and it drains the life out of me. All of their relationships with parents, kids, and siblings, friends are toxic and it’s sad. I’ve been distancing myself from them and I feel so much lighter less angry and strive to not judge others for being different. judging others and talking bad about EVERYONE is toxic and I am committed to fight that temptation the rest of my life

Been away from the channel for a while, came back today looking for some cigar advise. This was a great video, well said. My kids should watch this video. Thanks.

Thank you very much for speaking truth! Merry Christmas!

I follow over 100 channels in YT and your content is by far what I find myself most excited for. Specifically this one - hit the damn mark. Thank you for motivating me to level up in my thinking and all around dude skills for life, Jeremy. Keep this stuff coming, brother 👊 Merry Christmas!

Well said! As I man about to become a dad in a few weeks I have been reflecting more on what it means to be a man and how I can be the best dad I can for my new little girl. These are some great reminders. #boldfortune #tiegehanley

Love the content brother! I absolutely believe these are the talking points all Father’s should continuously have with their kids… and spouse/partners for good measure! This was a very timely message. Keep up the great work. 👍🏽🤙🏽🍻

Love it! Good to have a little sit down sometimes and speak the truth!

Well said! As I approach my 30’s with a new daughter. I not only have to become the man that I want to be, I also have to show my daughter what a man should be and how she should be treated later on in her life. Merry Christmas from my family to yours! #boldfortune #teigehanley

These truths are for everyone, men and women both. These are the same things my dad instilled in me and I am a woman. He also taught all of his daughters to be independent and not 'need' a man to survive. My mother never had an 'allowance' like most of the women on our block. She was on the checking account, new what their budget was and made decisions about how to spend the household money. Big money decisions were made by them together. And she worked outside the home when we were all in school because she liked to work. Something not done often by their generation. I feel I was very lucky to be raised by such 'outside the norm' parents.

This is just good advice for everyone. Hell yeah, brother.

This video was spot on..finally it needed to be said

Merry Christmas everyone! Jeremy you have become a big inspiration to me when watching your videos. The KZfaq lifestyle and the extreme man shit you talk about hits hard with me. Thank you for being such an inspiration to me man. Happy holidays!

Rediscovered your videos after a long time of them falling off of my radar. As a man in his late 30's, it wasn't until I was in my 30's that everything you said became relevant and hard wired. My life isn't perfect nor is anyone else's, so I put in the work and get what I need and occasionally the things I've wanted for years. Keep up the good work and my the gods smile upon you. #boldfortune #tiegehanley

Truer words brother, keep on keepin on...

There's a lot in this video that can be applied to everyone not just men. Be who you are and get along if the situation allows it. Thanks for sharing.

People are entitled to their own opinions, but not their own “facts”; especially, based on lies, false narratives, or the “straw man” argument.

Being 20 and raised without a father, lesson videos like this are always very much appreciated by me. Cos I gravitated towards videos like this at the age of 13 and they really taught me how to be the man of the house. I know how valuable hearing this info is and I'm thank you for sharing it so more disaffected young men can hear these lessons. #boldfortune #tiegehanley

Thank you for this cool video,best advice I've heard in a long time.Happy New Year

I found your channel not too long ago while researching cigars and I really enjoy the refreshing masculine vibes that is lacking in our world now. Keep up the great work and Happy Holidays!!! #BOLDFORTUNE #TIEGEHANLEY

“Bubba, that ain’t how shit works” should be a shirt. There is a lot of people who are never taught that.

Hey Jeremy! I've really been enjoying the content, especially the "man talks", I think it's sad how our society has taken a steady decline over the past few years. Change starts one person at a time! I hope you enjoy the holidays with your loved ones and keep up the great work! #boldfortune #tiegehanley

Beautiful human right here. Nothing but a treasure of gems. Thank you. And I appreciate you.

Outstanding !

I've spent my whole life being reserved and being nice to people. I kept my mouth shut and basically tolerated everything. Only recently have I started standing up and saying how I feel. I absolutely feel liberated. So now every time I'm eating my pineapple pizza and someone makes a complaint or says eww, I simply say don't eat it and stfu about it because you're not changing my mind about how good it tastes. Lol.

watching this as a 21 year old hoping for the best really trying to change some habits, all of this spoke to me so much.

Like your video and the stuff you were talking about. Holiday greetings from Germany.

Needed to hear these today, thank you. Subbed.

Spoken like a true rogue scholar! I think it was on point and probably what we all need to hear especially lately. #boldfortune #tiegehanley

Excellent and well-delivered advice for everyone--even this 61YO woman. Thanks much for it. Happy new year, Jeremy!

Thanks for the video mate.

I hope everyone watches this video with open ears and eyes shut so they absorb the 5 harsh truths.... Growing up in the 80s was a privilege to this new "I'm offended" era. Thank you Jeremy and Mrs. Siers for doing what you do and hope you have a Merry Christmas and Happy New Year. By the way, I love and cherish the Whiskey and Cigar Bibles! #boldfortune #teigehanley

That second point that nobody owes you anything, I wish my former coworker could hear He was lava level mad that I had a week booked off the week he came back from paternity leave. I’d booked a cabin six months ahead, he kept extending his leave from 6 weeks to 8, then 12, then 16. He had an absolute hissy fit that I’d booked the week off his first week back. The level of entitlement was off the charts 😅

Thank you for making this video 👍

Great video brother. Spot on with every point!

While I agree with the sentiment, it's always people who had well-off parents who gave them a bunch of money or a house (at least!) for nothing who go around preaching how you're not entitled to any help in life... I'd also like to add that the entire point of this thing we've evolved over the millennia called "society" is necessarily to help support each other in a civilised caring manner, looking out for one another as collective and furthermore constantly trying to improve that support and stability as a collective. Now, suddenly, we seem hell bent on going backwards and dismantling anything we've worked so hard at for so long to support others. Since the corporate world has become so bloated and greedy, with an increasing number of billionaires holding more than 1/3rd of the entire world's wealth and still going up, we're all being conditioned into following some ideology of self destruction, hatred of anyone who supports social collectivism and supporting one another and an endless rabid greed for personal status and wealth while poverty in our own countriees and around the world is increasing on an unprecedented scale and hardly being talked about in the news. The media (all of it owned and influenced by these billionaires btw...) seems far more desperate to constantly make you angry with your neighbours for being "woke" or "millennial" or "bleeding hearts" or "commies" or "nazis" etc etc. I find most people of all views and walks of life are generally great people, and the media cherry pick a few neurotics and/or play up certain situations or views to wind you up. So...considering YOU, sir, were given a lot of money and support by your fortunately well-to-do parents, it's pretty rich you preaching to everyone about entitlement and hard work while merely using this as a platform to pose in your expensive big house and to advertise dodgy products on yet another billionaire's social media cash cow - the very same social media platforms you deride for helping cause everyone to become so "entitled". It sure is a trendy fashionable aggressive point of view to preach for money on youtube, that makes you sound all manly and tough and successful. No doubt all your mindless hipster followers, mostly also sporting daft beards to desperately feel more "manly", will get offended by these facts being pointed out and start trying to defend such weird double standards, arrogance and corruption.

Si, great content as always!

Wise words, my friend. The beard speaketh the truth! Merry Christmas to you and the family! #BOLDFORTUNE #TIEGEHANLEY

Pineapple pizza is the best 😄

Killed it. Well said. Keep up the great content.

Loved this man. Thanks for the pep talk! 🤘🏽

I love the truth! And you are spitting some truth. The beard kicks ass. Love the channel.

My guy greetings from Bronx NY this was SPOT ON. These mental jewels are gold man and more people should listen to this video. Maybe create some merch with this written on something.Well done brother cheers!!!

Good Talk Jeremy and Love Your Gig! Keep it up man! Good Shit!

A saying that my old principal/ teacher had was "Life's tough, its tougher when your stupid." He was the kind of guy that told us how it was without the sugar coating that people today use. He would also critically challenge us on what we believed in whether it was something stupid or a serious subject. The way he thought about things always fascinated me to a degree so I would occasionally just talk with him about stuff, anything really just to learn how his thought process worked. I can honestly say he was one of my major role models in my early and late teen years that has made me who I am. leading to what I wanted to say, every one of these truths he taught me over the years. Ive gotta say I was pretty lucky in that aspect to learn them when I did and didn't have the growing pains of maturity like others do. I took it for granted then but as Ive grown I see it more and more the lessons he taught me. seeing you teach these things in the same no bs manner gives me hope that my future kids and grand kids will have the same role models we did. Thank you.

Love this. Sharing with my Sons

From one Kentucky Boy to Nother I’m proud of you! I appreciate your advice…. it’s much needed in today’s world! #BoldFortune #TiegeHanley

You rock Jeremy, ‘be kind, be true’ take care, cheers

This was a very refreshing video. A plain speaking man is a delight.

Amazing video. Absolute truth bombs.

Merry Christmas and Happy New Year! 2023 will be great.

WORD🤘 those words made my day and direct me the way to have a good christmas... i wish u and your family the best

Like your advice and the way you present it.

spot on Brother. I really like this video. oh heck, i like all your videos. y'all have a happy holidaze.

Thanx for this Jeremy! It's nice to hear a corresponding and refreshing opinion from a guy that also enjoys a good drop and toke.... I'm 20 years older than you so..... expletive you for that!

Jeremy, this vid is going to age like a fine wine. Such great points and so many things to grasp hold of.

Loved this! Very nice info

Thanks brother. VERY well said. One of my favorite sayings: Hard work beats talent, when talent don’t work hard. Has served me well.

Great video and reminders, some well needed tough love 😁🎅

Well said brother!

I'm enjoying the great utility oil from the beard club. Thx

Great video, well said!

This was Awesome! Ty!

Excellent advice! Very timely!

Thanks Jeremy, Could not have said it any better! The 5 Brutal Truths are straight up rules and should be carved in stone!! Keep fighting the good fight Brother! #BOLDFORTUNE #TIEGEHANLEY

Keep doing you Jeremy✊🏾

Amen brotha!

Thanks for the tips! Keep on making that great content so we all can become better 💯 👍🏾👍🏾

Thanks Jeremy and Hello 👋🏽 I just came across your KZfaq channel and I wanted to see what you had to say about the title of your video. And I’m impressed 😎 I started growing my beard and having a shaved bald head at the start of the 2020 pandemic and the family couldn’t stand it. My wife, my kids, my In-Laws but I was committed to growing it because I have connected with several Men that are younger, same age group as me and older men like Rich Cooper and have bald/ shaved heads like me. I just turned 38 years old in October and I’m gearing up for my 40’s after 39 but definitely getting prepared sooner is key. I’m definitely going to order some Tiege Hanley products from your online store. I was always a fan of smoking cigars since I was 18 but that was in my smoking weed blunt days. I just connected with a guy that is a small business owner that owns a cigar store in my area called “The Cigar Quarters” you should Google him and connect with him on Alignable. I’ll definitely checkout your other videos on your channel. #BOLDFORTUNE #TIEGEHANLEY

I really appreciated this video. TY sir,

Damn you Jeremy, I needed to hear this, this morning. Thank you.

Win or Lose! You have a Merry Christmas Sir! And cheers to 2023! #BoldFortune #TiegeHanley

I’m not a man and I found this informative. Thank you for a good laugh as well, and the Beard is on point.

Spot on brother!

Great video. You are spot on.

Dope video my boy 🤜🏾🤛🏻 keep crushing them videos let’s gooooo!

Some truths transcend all walks of life brother. I've had to learn these the hard way over 40th years and wish I took them on when I younger. Thanks for wisdom and advice on skin/beard care! #BoldFortune #Tiegehanley

Solid points made! Wish I knew this sh!t ten years ago, but hindsight is always 20/20. Keep on keeping on! #tiegehanley #boldfortune

You are speaking the truth!👍👊

Good talk. Solid truths. Merry Christmas and Happy New Year! Have a great 2023.

Thanks big brother

Good stuff Mr. Siers. Thanks for spreading the truth.

Respect and Salute. Good Video.