It's like people like us are a dying breed.

Love yourself too. Love yourself more than anyone else.

Deremi Adeyi Scripture says to love God and to love others (Matthew 22:37). When we do this, God’s love fills our hearts. As a result, we have a healthy view of self-we know who we are in Christ and who Christ is in us. Of course we’re not supposed to have self-hatred, but Scripture does not teach self-love. Love God, love others, and everything else will fall into it’s rightful place-including a healthy identity.

Ambassadors of The Mashiach I’m so sorry to hear of your situation... 4 years ago I met a man who was leading Bible study at church, Sunday School for middle schoolers, and part of a Christian reggae band. I had kept myself for him, fell in love, and got married...4 weeks into our marriage I found out he was living a double life. Downward spiral, and fast forward 2 years, he broke our covenant of marriage. I immediately filed for divorce. I’m 31 years old, I’ve served on missions in Africa and Haiti. I kept myself pure from 17 years old to 28 years old on our wedding night...and he threw it all away. I forgive him but I am forever thankful for God’s deliverance. We know God hates divorce. It tears apart families, people’s lives, their hearts, and a sacred covenant. But God permits divorce in the cases of infidelity because the covenant is shattered, not to mention there is a risk for contracting deadly diseases. Has your husband been unfaithful to you? Something I want to strongly exhort you to do, is to pray and fast. Put aside a day or more and don’t eat anything. Go to God with a broken and contrite heart. Seek His face. Cry out to Him.

true, especially with the modern idea of self love. I mean, self love is ok but people are taking it too far. self love needs to be balanced with self awareness. And nowadays people are romanticizing mental health problems and playing victim or self glorifying, as seen in the idea of self help or development. I feel like everyone feels like they need to keep pushing and improving themselves so they could one up everybody.

Cindy Scott yep

Yep. A quote by Maya Angelou.

AAAAAAAAAMEN: I wish I'd heeded this vitally valuable information years ago!!! 🤔😶😖

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The FULL saying is : When someone shows you who they are ....The first time.... ....then believe them.

So true, I talk about that here: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/qZd_nNWUm9XXqoE.html

So true Amen!!

I was rejected and it is breaking my heart. I thought GOD had given him to me. Married someone else days after his divorce.

Amen

1. Impulsive personality traits 2. Hatred for past acquaintances 3. Only excited when you're about to do something for them 4. Sexual temptation 5. Manipulation

So true and got lost in the abandon. What a bright light was shown on my path.

100% RIGHT!!!!!

This is 💯 on point this is everything my ex narc is thank God it is ended Sept 6,2019 no contact

You are right. Thank you so much for sharing.

Yes Donna, these are All the sighns of the Demonic Demons .. The Narcissists ... Psalms 91.. 3/ Times a day ... Shall Guide safely Through Them . All .. Amen

Amen

BlueDrop5: I said no to a sister n law about a holiday and it wasn't going to work for me i thought i made my reasons clear,and now the family are hating on me big time ive been treated badly because i said No,you are right on the button with your comment.👍

I said no to someone repeatedly and it seemed like he respected me and my decision. What I didn't know is that he was sleeping with his ex girlfriend behind my back all the while pretending that he was dedicated and wanted a serious relationship with me. I fell for the lie but found out about it just in time before fully committing to this person.

PLp

Yes, but. What Gabriella said. Judging people on their apparent feelings is not discernment. Also, selfish people actually say “no” more often, not less often. Context is very important.

Soo true damn

you have to heal & have forgiven & f d peace within it

God says to forgive but he didn't say we have to forget. We have to wise and not allow it to happen again.

gold heart miner yes that is it!!!

Iv been used and manipulated and publicly humiliated. I was only a healthy person to be around when I forgave those people and prayed for Gods will in their lives and the anger was replaced by a Christian love for them. The Bible says angry people are bad. I can confirm this after having been the angry person. Evil always has an excuse but the bible is clear, we are to display the nature of Christ always. Stay blessed.

@@goldheartminer7069 also, forgiveness is NOT restoration, unless the offender repents, according to Jesus in Mt. 18 and Luke 17.

Once you start to wake up and step back and observe everything you start to realize and see the real reality and that from birth we are manipulated from evil disguise as good as our parents have been deceived and lost trying to find their way thinking they are leading us down the right path school systems are government.its crazy how it's all a illusion filled with corruption and wicked and misleading and twisted it is. Becareful and observe everything and don't get distracted from the chaos they influence upon society .look out in society and look for yourself if this is not truth of what I said

That is true

Nope a certain name popped into my mind

charis

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Amen! Yes he did and its always for our best. God bless, take care.

I get you.

Amen, God's grace is sufficient!

I'm glad that it's over for you. It's so difficult, God still have to remaind me constantly how bad my ex is. Playing mind games and even tried to sell my body for drugs. I managed to escape after understanding what's going on. Today I saw one of those men again that was in that apartment. Thank you my heavenly father for protecting and loving me. God bless you all 🙏

Angelica Poldre thank you. I’m glad for you too. I realized that when you are starving you’ll accept the crumbs off anyone’s table 😔

And don’t return to confirm it over and over. Once you know, you know. Don’t return thinking they changed unless they show they really have changed from a heart posture. Usually, they just want to set you up bc they secretly hate you and need help with bills.

Amen I agree 💯

@@annewilson9301 you're a lost soul

@@gunman3153 Hi brother or sister Omar I just wanted to tell you that instead of responding in this manner you should respond in such a way that the person will understand. Saying they are a "lost soul" isn't really helping them understand your point of view. It can also give them the wrong interpretation of how God's children should act. If you going to correct someone please correct them with kindness and humility. 2 Peter 1:7 Have a good day, afternoon, or night! God bless!

His first sign was breaking my wifes ring in half, i fixed it and then found out that she broke our vows. I eventually had to cut the band myself to break the vows and connection. Second was rejecting her sexual advances something told me for along time not to engage with her. It was because she had affairs and was lying to me. Three u heard the premonition and foresaw the coming deception, i ignored it and then her manipulations went full force and took undeniable truth to break the toxic pain she caused

He does, but it’s up to listen and I didn’t from the start…I just wanted what I wanted like an absolutely moron, going back time and again for more.

Owww. Don't worry, hunny... Everything will be ok... There is a time and season for everything as Ephesians says. Just take your trial moments as training seasons for growth and fight to keep your faith and obey God. Submit to the spirit and let Him lead you.. If it gets too hard, pray for Strenght, peace and contentment in every situation... #Psalms 91:1 Whoever goes to the Lord for satiety,(whoever) remains under the protection of the almighty.

Sure thing bud

I am praying for everyone to have blinders removed from their eyes so they may receive the salvation God has so freely given to everyone who will believe that Jesus died on the cross and rose three days so that we may have forgiveness and be reconciled to our Father in heaven. I am praying in Jesus name for the enemies hands to be removed off of finances, mental health of God's people and to break strongholds of any and all addictions, Amen.

I will pray that god will step in my dear...

Know that God is always there for you. Sometimes he shows you people’s true intentions so that you can protect yourself. Trust Him and believe that God got you...always!

Boy oh boy you speak truth here!

The same could be said towards a female. Especially the passive aggressive ones. Maybe it's time to stop being one sided??? Says one sexist to an obvious sexist.

@@wik4037 Thank you Mike. I will work on that. :)

Thank you

I am trying to build myself again after being in an abusive relationship with someone like that. I feel O have become him and now I have ruined my heart, my soul, and my current relationship. It is si hard. I need help, and just want to stop hurting and hurting the people and the man I love.

Archangel Revelations But their actions show there heart!!!

Jesus tells us we know them by their fruits. We can know enough about a person by their actions and what they say that will protect us and those we love. God knows all of our hearts 100% but He gives us wisdom, intuition and discernment to avoid traps and evil intentions.

@@bl8680 Amen soul sister and now more than ever must we use our God given gifts and that discernment.

Amen

That's right!

Micah7:7-13

I find listening closely to what they say is more telling than anything. I call it the "third ear" you will train yourself to catch little slip ups they make. I've also noticed God will give me an actual physical reaction to these wicked people. If you are in their presence and you have an increased heart rate, feel anxious or have the sensation of just wanting to get away.....run....and don't look back.

Yes NPD is very real, and it is on the rise.

Yep

This is narcissist ways

Yes they are crawling out the woodworks

e__e video legit reminded me of my soon to be ex husband

very similar for sure

I had my heart broken by my teenage daughter today. We were celebrating my birthday and she left, saying she wanted to cut me out of her life for her dads new girlfriend. I decided to watch this video and could check all 5 off about both my previous marriage and my daughter. I'm still praying for her redemption.

@@katwohlgemuth3536 I'm so sorry.. Never stop praying. One of my children have broken my heart too. I turn every tear into a prayer. I stand on Isaiah 54:13 All my children will be taught by the Lord and great will be their peace. Happy Birthday

@@cathie621 thank you so very much. That verse will be in every prayer I pray for her.

Sounds like someone with demonic oppression or outrightht possession

There's nothing wrong with that. Who would want back stabbers in their life? It's only when we hate people because they would not let us use them that we are at fault

I also back stabbed by a friend and she made it looks like everything is my mistake and brainwashed people in my environment

I could see how you feel like that.. I feel the exact same way

Natalia Ye that is hard to go through. I’m sorry that happened to you, but please remember, stay strong in the Lord, in prayer and in simply talking to God. If those people are going to turn on you that easily, it is quite possible that God is getting them all out of your life in one move. I know it’s hard. Stay strong.

Christ Lift Exactly!

Ok. Here we go bro...... You have the power to save your marriage if you really want it. You are the man of the house. You don't need anyone to pray for you concerning your marriage, well perhaps on your wedding day, family members and loved ones should have prayed for you guys. But now you are married, so you take control spiritually in your home through prayer and reading God's word. I am assuming you are a Christian, born again in Christ, crucified with Christ. The old nature has to die every day and Christ lives in you everyday via His Holy Spirit. Pick up your cross and follow him. A Sweet journey of a hard road because this world is evil and we are commanded to be light and salt in this world. It's not an easy thing to be. But our power and strength is not from us or any power or any philosophy or any motivational sentences etc. Our strength must be from the Lord and Savior of this world, Jesus Christ. That's the only way to have peace that surpasses all understanding despite whatever storms comes your way. So.... You want a real blessed wife, my humble advice is below ( all God's word). The hard work (not really if you have faith) and trust God as He loves Christian marriages) on your end is to pray with faith consistently till you get results. But there are changes on your end too that must be made. You ain't perfect bro. We husbands have our issues and our wives take a lot of nonsense from us. Lol 1. Proverbs 18: 21-22 The tongue has the power of life and death and those who love it will eat its fruit. (Use your tongue) He who finds a wife finds what is good and receives favor from the Lord. ( A promise from God, tell God his word back to Him, God can not lie. Linked to point above - Your tongue) 2. Ephesians 5:21-33 ( God's view of how marriages should operate, not how the world marriages operate) Submit to one another out of reverence for Christ. Wives, submit yourselves to your own husbands as you do to the Lord. For the husband is the head of the wife as Christ is the head of the church his body, of which he is the Savior. Now as the church submits to Christ, so also wives should submit to their husbands in everything. Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her to make her holy, cleansing her by the washing with water through the word, and to present her to himself as a radiant church, without stain or wrinkle or any other blemish, but holy and blameless. In this same way, husbands ought to love their wives as their own bodies. He who loves his wife loves himself. After all, no one ever hated their own body, but they feed and care for their body, just as Christ does the church for we are members of his body. “For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh.” This is a profound mystery-but I am talking about Christ and the church. However, each one of you also must love his wife as he loves himself, and the wife must respect her husband. 3. Mathew 7:7 ( Some prayers have to be asked many times) Ask and it will be given to you; seek and you will find; knock and the door will be opened to you. 4. Hebrews 4:16 ( The way you should approach your Heavenly Father, you can't command Him like He must do this or that, nope you go to with in humility) Let us then approach God’s throne of grace with confidence, so that we may receive mercy and find grace to help us in our time of need. 5. Psalm 24:3-4 (you must seek forgiveness of your sins, to be clean before God before He will answer your prayers if it's according to His will. I told you, you have a lot of work) Who may ascend the mountain of the Lord? Who may stand in his holy place? The one who has clean hands and a pure heart, who does not trust in an idol or swear by a false god. 6. Mathew 9:1-7 ( Only Jesus has the power to forgive sins) Jesus stepped into a boat, crossed over and came to his own town. Some men brought to him a paralyzed man, lying on a mat. When Jesus saw their faith, he said to the man, “Take heart, son; your sins are forgiven.” At this, some of the teachers of the law said to themselves, “This fellow is blaspheming!” Knowing their thoughts, Jesus said, “Why do you entertain evil thoughts in your hearts? Which is easier: to say, ‘Your sins are forgiven,’ or to say, ‘Get up and walk’? But I want you to know that the Son of Man has authority on earth to forgive sins.” So he said to the paralyzed man, “Get up, take your mat and go home.” Then the man got up and went home. When the crowd saw this, they were filled with awe; and they praised God, who had given such authority to man. 7. When you pray, you must do it thankfully, don't worry whether He has answered your prayer, just thank Him like He has already done it because He has if you are genuinely repent. Offer Him songs of Thanksgiving daily. Phillipians 4:6-7 Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. 7 And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus. 8. Finally, it is impossible to please God without faith. Hebrews 11:6 And without faith it is impossible to please God, because anyone who comes to him must believe that he exists and that he rewards those who earnestly seek him. Your wife is a great reward full of favour over your life, home, children and family. You may not see it, but it's true. Damnnnn.... I didn't know I could write this long. I was touched by your comment. A good friend of mine just has his marriage annulled today, it pains me that I hadn't given my life to Christ when his marriage problems began few years ago. Plus I know what Christ has done in my marriage, totally transformed it. I was the annoying and terrible one in the marriage. Your wife is about to see changes in you, her and your marriage, she will not know you went to battle in the spirit as the head of the family. God speed bro, we need fruitful, productive, peaceful and joyful Christian marriages in the world. One final point - Please, please, please read, study your bible every day, it's one of your spiritual weapons of warfare ( Ephesians 6:10-20) Peace. L

Micah7:7-13

lol only 2years

I believe in the restoration of godly marriages and that should be the first step, however there are people who are narcissistic and sociopathic who you simply cannot help no matter how much prayer and devotion you expend to "fixing" the problem. You can also call these people " reprobates." So do yourself a huge favor and look into narcissistic personality disorder and sociopathic traits. If your wife fits these, pray for a way OUT, not back in!! Hard lesson I learned with my ex husband who is nothing but a malignant narcissistic demon spawn!

If you're trying everything and open to improving and growing but she's sabotaging her end and destroying you there's not much you can do to save it nor should you be expected to. The comment above sums it up.

God bless as you follow Jesus

Try it please again.

Do you mind me asking, what happened? How did he treat you like?

Me too girl 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

I remarried myself. Happiest, cleanest( no dirty intentions), cupcakes and rainbows even beautiful when its raining all day life I've EVER known. I have a sponge spirit and do better alone. Divorce saved me.

ABSOLUTELY...AMEN AMEN AMEN🙏..✊..✌💨🏃

Amem i have also experienced this warning from god! About my ex-boyfriend.

This is true‼️

Amen

I’ve experienced the same. As Oprah said “If people show you who they are The 1st Time, believe them.”

Dearly beloved of the LORD. Your story is my story also. I can totally relate to you. I hope you are doing well and prayers for you in all this and discernment as you mentioned. How we need it badly in these last days where seducers are waxing more and more. Praise God that He turns all our ashes into beauty & does not waste our pain. Thank-You Jesus. If you read Psalm 55 you will see that this also happened with King David and of course Jesus too with Judas. We are in the same company as them and partaking in our Lord's suffering. Phillipians 1:29 It's very painful indeed to go through such a thing but it also lets us know who really cares for us and who doesn't. Not sure if you will see this but wanted to stop and write you. Blessings to you.

God bless!

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Yes He does but in the meantime, Increase and improve yourself even more work on your God given Gifts, Jesus Blessed

As I too am working on my God given Gifts

Hugs and kisses from above 🙏 KEEP ON SMILING 😊 7777-8888 Great abundance Awaits JUST FOR YOU 🌻

He is the only entity I truly and totally trust !!!

So glad it was relevant to you!

Yes it was a grave reminder to not look back

Oh yes definitely

@@maritimesteak8540 i agree i feel like God is speaking to me about a guy i just met i need this message God is always right on time thank you God and mark great message.wow Amen.🙏

Yes, that is easy to do. God bless as you follow the Lord

It's good advice.

God bless

They so hide very well. Painful but thank God,now we know better.

All glory to God!

Amen girl!! I stand in agreement with you 🙏

Agree

Also the opportunity to interview with the hiring process for the next couple weeks now so great mostly because even though it was so great that truth is that way galaxy

Genesis 3:15

Oh yes this true. I am going to share something so personal that I will not speak of this Ever again. Once they asked me to set 'Evil Spirits' to these people that gave them a hard time irl at Work. He claimed that they threaten to kill Him with ill intentions. I blindly did so by playing the sound clips of the Notorious Aztec Death Whistle wrote down their names when I closed the window upon playing it I had a window with metal edges at the time I accidentally done a Blood Sacarfice. When I cut myself from shutting it. Those people never bothered him again afterwards. I'm trying to make sure this will not come back to haunt in the Afterlife. The Spirit World is no laughing matter if you do Anything with it!

Yes agree 💯 I been through this as well

Singing Isaac

God will bless you. You deserve an holy matrimony 🙏

Good for you, Evan, I'm glad you stood your ground and did not give in!! God has got something wonderful in store for you!

Yeah dawg don’t be a kook

Remember the scripture " not everyone who says Lord, Lord...."

The same thing happened to me this year and I am so much happy I ended the relationship.

No! Never! Those kinds of People are never or truly ever want to declare themselves to be Christians.

I can't judge where someone is spiritually. This person could have actually been a believer who just had not matured spiritually or whom is harboring secret sins.

Too many people out there claim to be "Christian". You can tell if someone really is by the way they treat others, not by how much scripture they quote, or by them being judgemental.

Also a lot of ppl have been physically, verbally, mentally and psychologically abused by others. That’s where the anger is coming from, not bc they can’t use the person.

Don't hate them Sister. Stay away from them and love them from a distance because we can't enter the Kingdom of God with hate in our hearts, Christ Jesus Bless You

Forgiveness is huge with God. He forgives us for sinning right in his face, not intentionally sinning. I tell him what I've done, or what I'm feeling about someone and ask for forgiveness. He shows his Forgiveness in Mercy. I pray one day you can find in yourself thru God not to let evil fuel your hatred on people that aren't even in your current life. In the Mighty name of Jesus. Amen

Extreme anger is a normal natural feeling but we are not to hate anyone, hate what they did to us but we are not to hate them.

Some people just hate the actions of someone. Some just hate the person for there character,religion,politic opinions,and the big race card. IDK, I've never hated anyone. Definitley have had disagreements. For myself I've always felt if I hold onto hate with anything. It blocks love coming in and my live going out. Just sayin....

Yes, it's best to move on when we see these things in someone you are considering dating

Yeah. You can't show them anything. Chances are they know who they really are. They just refuse to change for the better.

Same 💜🙏

Father God Deliver me from this place and the circumstance I am trapped in!!!

They judge themselves by their own actions, it's not judging if you see it, woe unto him who calls Good evil, and evil, Good, when you see their actions you call them out on it and that's what that is. THE Homest Truth,

Yes call a duck a duck why are we to stay silent?

I hope you have a healthy church community

@@andria9746 No worries... God is with you. Keep searching and let the Spirit lead you. Bless you. All the best💫

I invite you to tune in and worship with us this Sunday. My local church (Cornerstone Baptist Church) will be having a "God and Country Sunday". Sunday at 10:30 am (worship), 11 am (morning service) and 6 pm (evening service) - live stream and uploaded to watch later at www.cornerstonefallbrook.org cornerstonelive.tv kzfaq.info/love/SOGEYlwan3bsmvNXV2uWyA God bless 🙏

@@andria9746 All you need is healthy relationship with the Lord and Savior Jesus, read the Bible and only invite Honest Good people to join you, where's there two or three in Jesus name He will also be there in the midst, that's what you need

I left that house and those bitter angry ex cons fresh out of prison. They didn't even pay rent. I was only one not wearing ankle monitor and had no idea what that old house was for. I escaped and survived the ashes. Thank God!!

Amen! God is good :)

@@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger yes He is 🙌🙏

Well are you talking about judgment or discernment? Sounds like the latter

@@mattstevens7601 Discernment is Judgment. I think many people use "Judgment" to be synonymous with "condemnation," which is more like a past, present, and future Perfect Judgment from GOD. For example, GOD'S Judgment on the wicked is that they are condemned. Great question, though. I can see why and how you would ask that. :)

This is what I'm talking about. Proverbs 20:5 and 25:2: 'A plan in the heart of a man is like deep water, But a man of understanding draws it out.' -NASB 'It is the glory of God to conceal a matter, But the glory of kings is to search out a matter.' -NASB GOD can allow satan to send a devil in disguise. We Christians can summon forth intentions by being shrewd as serpents, yet gentle as doves...by being sober and sound-minded because Our adversary roams and prowls...by relying on GOD, WHO Created Wisdom and all things [thus, HE Knows all things], HE can tell Us that devil and that disguise.

Dear Adam: You are highly anointed and favored by God (seriously).....you back up your statements with pure spiritual truth. I dated this guy years ago and started having genuine feelings for him and introduced him to my family. Do you know that when I went to get him a drink and came back to give him the drink, I caught him looking at a woman's photo and asked who was she and he embarrassingly said it was his wife (honest to God). He felt so bad that I was introducing him to family that he finally decided to be honest with me.......that was God looking over me. I did NOT make a scene but I told him he had to leave and he did.

You are exactly right. --- I believe that the speaker in the video is making broad assumptions. The individual in this video states that someone with "resentment towards a lot of people, means that they has a trend toward using people," which does not equate. Having a lot of resentment toward a lot of people means that they have been rejected, bullied, hurt, gang-bullied, and possibly the victim of mass informants paid to do them in making it appear that everyone is out to get them, as they were all hired on to do so. This is a blame-the-victim mentality, and is not based in good counseling advice. If it is "God," that is warning you of someone, it is good to note His "still small voice." Even law enforcement agencies have pointed out that women should listen to their "inner voice," that is someone makes them feel uneasy, get out of the situation quickly. This does mean, however, to begin passing judgment on everyone, then pretending it is God giving them insight! -Carrie Geren Scoggins

So glad this was helpful, all glory to God!

Amen!

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I agree with you i feel the same way i learn my lessons.

Me too😢 it was a chapter of my life that I has to go through

Don't worry dear...GOD has your back

It hurts My Sister because we're dealing narcissist demonic Souls that look human but controlled by a darker force, engulf Your Heart into JESUS, and follow His teachings it helps and yes their karma is coming but get busy helping God with His Kingdom on this earth

So glad this was relevant to you!

Its demonic, if you feel victimized and are you will attract abusive spirits in evil ppl

I don't believe in the attraction rhetoric.. but rather our past abuse made us perfect candidates to be victims of abuse. We don't attract them. However, they are able to peep that we were easy prey. We have to learn to have and use boundaries. There are more bad fish in the sea than good fish. We have to throw the bad fish back out. Much love and no victim mentality ever.

Me too

@Stephanie Windler many blessings to you and yours for this

@Stephanie Windler I agree. I have been vulnerable all my life through childhood abuse, wanting love and affection but ended up being used. I have ended a relationship recently and am now slowly learning to love myself with the help of Louise Hay’s books. The relationship made me ‘needy’, which I realise now I am no longer in it. We have to work on loving ourselves because once we do, we can attract the right soulmate. Or, to be honest, all I need is God, he never lets me down and fills a spiritual void that no human being ever will. Blessings, Karen, UK.

God bless! So glad it was timely!

I'm so glad this was helpful!

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I watched at the same time. 🙌🙏

So glad! All glory to God!

Yes you are exactly right!! Family members can be brutal. Evan the ones who profess to be Christian!! In fact they can be worse! But I never want to retaliate and completely turn them over to God! God delivers complete Justice!!

So glad you found this video helpful