5 fears that are holding you back as a new coach

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Every new coach struggles with different fears while they build their confidence and competence as coaches. But do you know exactly what is holding you back? Here are the 5 most common fears that a new coach can experience and exactly how to overcome them in just 4 steps.
KEY HIGHLIGHTS:
00:00 How These Common Fears Show Up
02:30 Fear #1: Not Being Good Enough
05:24 Fear #2: Judgment
08:38 Fear #3: Being Seen and Heard
10:22 Fear #4: Fear of Asking for Money
12:37 Fear #5: Fear of Bothering People
14:41 4-Step Coaching Technique To Overcome Fear
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@mindvalleycoach 2 жыл бұрын

Which of these fears is holding YOU back? Share it in the comments below! Become a highly paid, impactful & sought-after certified coach trained by Mindvalley. Explore our certifications 👉shor.by/I5B5

@aleavitt81 2 жыл бұрын

Omg Ajit! I’m crying because every single point you make is healing me! It all makes sense now! Thank you!

@allis4566 Жыл бұрын

All that you are saying am going through now but am still pushing

@allis4566 Жыл бұрын

Noo

@allis4566 Жыл бұрын

SO TRUE THANK U, THANK ❤❤❤

@aleavitt81 2 жыл бұрын

You are amazing Ajit! I’ve done more healing by listening to this video than ALL THE YEARS I have been in therapy. Please PLEASE keep posting videos! As a child of abuse I am finally breaking free! Im SO APPRECIATIVE of the strategies for action and your suggestions for working through to the new identity. This video is the perspective shift I needed! THANK YOU SO MUCH!!

@mindvalleycoach 2 жыл бұрын

WOW ❤❤❤ We're so humbled this video was so powerful for you, Andrea! Thank you for your kind words and we're here for you ❤

@sharongerry6140 2 жыл бұрын

not wanting to be seen or heard, hit me. As a female/little girl in family of males (5) I was not given a voice, not until collage did I learn I could have a voice. I was also loud when I spoke, not so much now. Thanks for the awareness.

@mindvalleycoach 2 жыл бұрын

What a journey, Sharon! Thanks for sharing ❤

@cynthiaoseguera8244 2 жыл бұрын

I found this very relatable because I grew up on a bullish Indian reservation with people who were/are quick to judge me, and find pleasure hurting me. As a returning adult I thought my skillsets and education would better prepare me to handle the jealousy, mean spirited people, but it still exists. In my application I put a statement that I feel like I have been a life long coach using my experiences growing up. My career has taken many twists and curves but now I suppose I want to actually implement all of it to effectively share what I know by helping other people. The historical patterns can be changed and reenergized or reinvented. All of this is individual. My specialty was Diabetes patients and I used that to coach each patient. Do not compare yourself to anyone. Just some brief thoughts. Lastly, I have done so much volunteer work and services that I DO have a problem asking for money.

@mindvalleycoach 2 жыл бұрын

Amazing journey, Cynthia! Everything we learn and do in life helps us be better coaches and human beings, and self-awareness is the starting point to everything. Thank you for sharing and keep up the good work ❤

@curioussurvivor-bradthiess2352 2 жыл бұрын

I skipped past the coaching content to the main framework, so I can get a better model to help my clients overcome fear. The process Ajit outlines is powerful -- clear and really helpful, for my clients and for me!

@mindvalleycoach 2 жыл бұрын

So glad you found this valuable, Brad! Thanks for sharing ❤

@sheilaflynn3209 Жыл бұрын

This was very generous. thank you!

@mindvalleycoach Жыл бұрын

So glad you found it valuable, Sheila! Thanks for sharing ❤

@melissagreen7519 Жыл бұрын

Thank YOU. This is so amazing! ❤️❤️❤️

@mindvalleycoach Жыл бұрын

So glad you found it useful, Melissa! Thanks for sharing

@fulfillmentlifecoaching3855 Жыл бұрын

Thank you very much may God bless you and your family.

@mindvalleycoach Жыл бұрын

❤❤

@darlenebassey6554 2 жыл бұрын

Thanks Ajit. Watched this early morning & has made my day.

@mindvalleycoach 2 жыл бұрын

We're so happy it did ❤❤❤ Thanks for sharing!

@joannfoxworth4778 Жыл бұрын

Very helpful

@mindvalleycoach Жыл бұрын

We're glad it was, Jo Ann! Thanks for sharing :)

@elskar1 2 жыл бұрын

I love the content that you have in this video!!!

@mindvalleycoach 2 жыл бұрын

We're so glad you found it useful, Elskar! Thanks for sharing ❤

@jackynkuru3334 2 жыл бұрын

much needed encouragement, always good to kow, I am not alone with fears

@mindvalleycoach 2 жыл бұрын

We're so happy it was valuable, Jacky! We all have these fears, you are definitely not alone! ❤❤❤

@elskar1 2 жыл бұрын

Thank your for An extra special video that really resonates with me On many levels 🙏❤️🙏

@mindvalleycoach 2 жыл бұрын

❤❤❤ We're so happy about that. Thanks for sharing

@spiritualascentionsociety9394 2 жыл бұрын

This video was brilliant! IT forces me to look within and see how past experiences are affecting my thinking and limiting me . Ty so much for this video!

@mindvalleycoach 2 жыл бұрын

That's the only way to grow ❤❤❤ Thanks for sharing, Deanna!

@silviabedeschi 2 жыл бұрын

separate the feeling from the judgement, great! Thanks a lot

@mindvalleycoach 2 жыл бұрын

Such an important takeaway, Silvia! Thanks for sharing ❤

@robinfrederick5855 2 жыл бұрын

I just wanted to say Ur amazing. thank you!

@mindvalleycoach 2 жыл бұрын

We appreciate you, Robin! ❤❤❤

@isabellevalente5658 Жыл бұрын

Ajit you thought of everything. Great helpful info as always!! xo

@mindvalleycoach Жыл бұрын

We're so happy you found this video valuable, Isabelle! Thanks for sharing ❤

@deborahorman9807 2 жыл бұрын

Love this video ! This is just what I needed right now . Your videos are brilliant . Love stretching self into creating associated habits for my new identity . I can so relate to so many things you said . Grateful for you . Your program sounds amazing !

@mindvalleycoach 2 жыл бұрын

We're so happy you enjoy our content, Deborah! Thank you for your kind words and support ❤❤❤

@rachelquigley370 Жыл бұрын

Your videos are incredible thank you busting through all my fears 🥰👌🙋‍♀️

@mindvalleycoach Жыл бұрын

Thank you so much, Rachel 💙

@baldishkaur4304 2 жыл бұрын

Absolutely love the Certified Life Coach Program, only 4 weeks in and already opening new doors to mind body and soul growth. Thank you Mindvalley and Evercoach 👌

@mindvalleycoach 2 жыл бұрын

We're so happy you're enjoying the program, Baldish! Thanks for sharing ❤❤❤

@LetsGetItTogetherTV 2 жыл бұрын

This was a great video! I agree with everything you said. I’m not a new coach, but I just recently relaunched my practice. Just one thing, the Bible says, “the ‘love’ of money is the root of all evil.” I realize you weren’t trying to quote the Bible. Thank you so much for this video I will watch it again and again for sure. Thanks for your transparency. That really helps!

@mindvalleycoach 2 жыл бұрын

Yes, that wasn't a quote, but thank you for sharing that! :) We're glad you found this video valuable. Thank you for sharing ❤❤

@manmeetsingh231 2 жыл бұрын

No matter how great our corporate or business careers,we all have some fears in our daily lives that slow our progress. I have so much energy and a positive mindset but still, due to my surrounding, I tend to doubt myself which is nothing but fear of judgment. I loved this video from Coach Ajit, a great analysis of all the fears . Understanding & accepting your fears is half the battle won, and with consistent practice and actions, we can overcome our fears and achieve our dreams. I am so much looking forward to the Certified Life Coaching course starting 14th Feb.

@mindvalleycoach 2 жыл бұрын

We couldn't agree more, Manmeet! We're thrilled to have you in our certification program.Thanks for sharing ❤❤❤

@estellecorbel4676 2 жыл бұрын

Hi ! My fear as a new coach: not being able to get a full wage from it !

@mindvalleycoach 2 жыл бұрын

Totally normal fear for many coaches! We have a new video coming out this Thursday which addresses your fear - you won't wanna miss it ;)! Thanks for sharing ❤

@estellecorbel4676 2 жыл бұрын

@@mindvalleycoach looking forward for it then ! ;) Thanks for sharing too !

@mindvalleycoach 2 жыл бұрын

@@estellecorbel4676 Did you get a chance to watch the video? Let us know if it helped ❤

@tahanialshamlan3080 Жыл бұрын

👏👏👏👏👏👏exactly most of them reprent me

@mindvalleycoach Жыл бұрын

You're not alone! It's what you do with it that matters ;)

@soothingrelaxationwithnatu7168 2 жыл бұрын

You are simply amazing. but I have a question

@mindvalleycoach 2 жыл бұрын

Sure! Ask away ❤

@darlenebassey6554 2 жыл бұрын

Money is not evil but the LOVE of money. Money rather solves everything but the love of money is the root of all evil. I want money in my coaching biz

@mindvalleycoach 2 жыл бұрын

We suggest watching this video on money mindset for that ;): kzfaq.info/get/bejne/bMCIlNWdyLmZZps.html. Thanks for sharing, Darlene ❤

@ginteskarelyte7680 Жыл бұрын

Insightful video! I actually smiled to myself when you mentioned family judging you. But you did not touch on my number 1 fear though. Fear of running out of things to talk during a session. I terrifies me to stumble upon a client that's not too chatty and then 30min into the 60min session there's silence. Any tips? Perhaps a video or a post? x

@mindvalleycoach Жыл бұрын

Great question, Ginte! Thanks for bringing it up. Silence can be a powerful tool in a coaching session. So we'd like to ask you first, why do you fear silence? :)

@creative.catharsis 2 жыл бұрын

Feeling not good enough is a big one that makes me feel scared to take action

@mindvalleycoach 2 жыл бұрын

And it really is the thing most people struggle with! We think you'll love this video to understand more about this and how to navigate that feeling: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/hMB9ZpBy0cjHf5c.html. Thanks for sharing ❤

@carengroce4226 Жыл бұрын

Ok, so I really related to the first 3 on the list.

@afenton32 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for the great video. I really want to help people with mental issues to heal and become better people. I started off wanting to be a life coach, but realized that this is not a good fit for me. Instead I want to use the avenue of nutrition and a holistic lifestyle to help people. Because this is what I've been living for most of my life. But I do have the fear that I don't have enough knowledge. I also feel lost, as I don't know the direction to move forward with getting clients. So, I may start with ebooks and courses for starters. Any suggestions to deal with these issues?

@mindvalleycoach 2 жыл бұрын

Great question, Aldean! It's normal to have those struggles, every coach has them especially if they're new! The 2 biggest challenges, as you mention, are 1. knowledge and 2. clients. The lack of knowledge might happen if you don't have a solid coaching model or methodology to follow that is proven to create results. In that case, we recommend taking a course or certification (for example: www.evercoach.com/holistic-coaching) that can give you that backbone which you can merge with your own personal experiences, and start practicing and creating results which will increase your confidence as well. And regarding getting clients, there are many strategies and approaches you can try. We curated a playlist with our best ways to get clients: kzfaq.info/sun/PLLz6vjpxFbXjZJM-KqAjZzPYvMU0I0Cah. Let us know if this helps! ❤❤

@allis4566 Жыл бұрын

Yessssss 😅😅😅

@mindvalleycoach Жыл бұрын

Glad you resonated, Allison! ❤️

@thetangiblecoach Жыл бұрын

Judgement - Yes but this feeling is coming from me thinking that they will judge me. I have nothing to do with many of the people whom I believe will judge me, therefore it's an irrelevant fear, and yet it is so strong it stops me from doing so much! 1 of these judgements is also a fear, that judgement will come from one person I am very close to as it has been shown in the past that they have not been happy with my actions in the past and now she looks at me as a silly old person. both of these judgement fears stops me doing so so much especially putting myself out there. Irrational and yet so debilitating....

@mindvalleycoach Жыл бұрын

Thanks for your vulnerable share, Cherie-lee. This is more common than you'd think but you're already one step ahead because you are conscious about it and know where it's coming from. Now the question would be, what will you do with that information? ;)

@marwanaguib1742 Жыл бұрын

Fear no 2 Yes yes yes😁😁😁

@mindvalleycoach Жыл бұрын

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@allis4566 Жыл бұрын

Omgggg you talking to meeee

@mindvalleycoach Жыл бұрын

❤️

@annee5582 2 жыл бұрын

Money is the root of all evil. I said this once in my life as a truth. I know money is NOT the root of evil but I understand why people believe this. And from that perspective I get it.

@mindvalleycoach 2 жыл бұрын

It's about what we do with that information ;) Thanks for sharing, Annee ❤