5 Instantly More Attractive Habits That Anyone Can Do
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Күн бұрынDo you want some subtle tips and tricks that can make you appear more attractive? Sometimes the strangest things can draw us to someone. And there are quite a few habits that can make someone drawn to you. Here are five easy habits that make you instantly more attractive.
Writer: Michal Mitchell
Script Editor & Manager: Kelly Soong
VO: Amanda Silvera ( / amandasilvera )
Animator: Krisha Que ( / @macchiusmoriatostudios07 )
KZfaq Manager: Cindy Cheong
References:
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@Psych2go Жыл бұрын
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@cupcakewilliams7291 Жыл бұрын
Can you pls make a vedio on lgbtq+ community and how take care of our mental health if we are a part of it ? It would really help :) thanks
@love_bug. Жыл бұрын
it's been neat to see your channel grow you even have two named characters now psi and sci
@prabhuvip3948 Жыл бұрын
Please make some videos for Introvert
@gcstudios9091 10 ай бұрын
I am an idiot and I unconditionally hate myself until I become someone worth loving :D
@rozabinzer4731 Жыл бұрын
I love how they put yuzuru as an example for a person with an androgynous side
@alphagt62 Жыл бұрын
A study from 1983, seems androgynous musical acts did well around that time. Perhaps it was more relevant in ‘83?
@sara_fem3 Жыл бұрын
YES
@robbins_8468 Жыл бұрын
Same
@K_rangan007 6 ай бұрын
Xiao😊
@GetYourLifeBetter Жыл бұрын
Everybody has something that is uniquely attractive about them. The problem is that most people don’t know how to activate those qualities within themselves just yet because the barrier to becoming more attractive is the fear they have inside them. Fear shuts you down. It prevents your desire to do attractive habits and share interesting experiences, and because of that, it makes you less charismatic, less memorable, less powerful, and less attractive. What you need is a mindset shift. You are in control of how attractive of a person you can be, which is why you 100% can learn to become more attractive.
@tracyso6567 Жыл бұрын
@@kainickname usually the kind ones aren’t cherished / treated properly. Cuz they know how to respect others and would try not to disturb others by spreading their negative energy to those they care and love
@tracyso6567 Жыл бұрын
@@kainickname those gals aren’t what people really want :) a spiritual person can always see someone through their heart ♥️ physically appearance is never as important as being kind
@tracyso6567 Жыл бұрын
@@kainickname most people are superficial ☺️takes time to explore and build real relationships with the amazing ones!
@annabelle.mae.333 Жыл бұрын
Correct my attractiveness is probably my looks I have blonde hair and blue eyes 👀 and probably my wealth aswell but some say it's my personality I care about everything and I'm a perfectionist I am very patient with things to go perfectly 🥰 but ofc I have my ugly
@annabelle.mae.333 Жыл бұрын
@@kainickname ok first u don't need to write point of view just right pov (not really keep doing what ur doing it's nice to see that once in a while)
@gracenicole9288 Жыл бұрын
The animation along with the narrators voice is so sweet. When the new friends were laughing so hard one fell off the couch! Cute stuff. Thank you for your uplifting content. 😊
@Psych2go Жыл бұрын
This is one of the best! We love it ourselves too! Krisha did such an amazing job!
@XxLUIGIxX56 Жыл бұрын
Steps 1 - 4 sounded great for me as I feel I can confidently improve on those. 5 is the one that gets me, I definitely need to work on my self confidence and not rely (too much) on my friends/family in public spaces. Great video as usual!
@Psych2go Жыл бұрын
Why do you feel your self confidence is lacking?
@xxxzombiekillerxxx6079 Жыл бұрын
I feel the same with 5 with my extreme anxieties of meeting new people, its like I never want to say
@XxLUIGIxX56 Жыл бұрын
@@Psych2go For the most part, I feel like I was decently confident back a few years ago when I was in a retail position. But after leaving that job, I think most of the confidence was due to the fact that I had friends as coworkers and so many regular customers that it was so easy to strike up personal conversations. Moving to a new city, getting hit with COVID restrictions etc. made me get work where I work from home now, so now that we can (for the most part) go out in public with no restrictions, I noticed I have trouble making conversation in general out in public. It's something I've definitely been working on, but I can't help but feel uncomfortable sometimes.
@rainboweyeslmao5895 Жыл бұрын
@@Psych2go social anxiety, introvertion,fear of public speaking , emotional trauma, that's basically it if you exclude depression that I had for 3 years
@vitorhugobacicpessoavidal5448 Жыл бұрын
@@XxLUIGIxX56 Something that get me was the "believe in the me that believe in you" quote in Gurren Lagann. It's like to carry the beliefs that you're friends have on you within yourself. Forcing yourself to be the one they believe you can be. I know it looks kinda shitty, but sometimes, if well used, it can help
@kimmienguyen1944 Жыл бұрын
1. Show your androgynous side 0:18 2. Be Around your group of friends at first 1:19 3. Work on your emotional intelligence 2:20 4. Listen with the intent to really understand the other person 3:17 5. Introduce yourself and talk to someone new often 4:36
@Psych2go Жыл бұрын
Thanks for putting this together. You are so kind!!
@lei8155 Жыл бұрын
omg I'm so happy seeing Yuzuru Hanyu in one of your vids!! 0:46 he truly is attractive!💞
@hugo1593 Жыл бұрын
I practice the first four habits quite often. I got this part time volunteer job as an emotional coach which gives me great confidence on the parts of emotional intelligence and active listening, and my regular job as a floor manager dealing with all kinds of customers where I get to show I can be tough and gentle, serious and playful, etc. I still find it really really hard to walk up to people my own age (not just the ones I find attractive) and introduce myself, get to talk to them and so on. I don't understand why but 9 out of 10 times I feel like I am interviewing someone instead of having a conversation; they just don't seem to be interested at all! I don't have that problem with someone that's older than me though. (I am in my 30s and all my friends are 50+) I can get so frustrated by all that sometimes.. Anyway, thnx for the video, I often come to your channel and appreciate all the vids you post. It helps :)
@justis192 Жыл бұрын
Love the Yuzuru Hanyu reference 🥰
@TheTavern2024 Жыл бұрын
Such a simple and beautiful art style. I love how it just sucks you in with a calming voice to top it off.
@nineangels7572 Жыл бұрын
Great content. We're all a bit rusty after being isolated & locked up at home during these past two years. Some of us need to watch these tips & get back out there. Just like riding a bike, I hope we can all jump back into a socially full & healthy life. Thank you.
@kageyamatobio7542 Жыл бұрын
0.51 YUZURU!!!!!!!!!
@angela_roy2440 Жыл бұрын
That was Yuzuru Hanyu!!!!
@ryukisai99 Жыл бұрын
My experience of being a good listener and confident is that it only makes you more likely to fall into the friend zone. It helps connecting with people but never helped me seduce anyone. But at least thanks to that skill i was able to help friends, so i'm happy with it.
@rwt5678 Жыл бұрын
"introducing yourself and talk to someone new often" is a lot harder with social anxiety
@perry6712 Жыл бұрын
Definitely
@samanthahernandez4234 Жыл бұрын
El Yuzuruuuuuu 🙆💖💖💖
@lucam7790 Жыл бұрын
I like the mixture of your soothing voice and the background music. The video feels like an ASMR but is also informative. Subscribed!
@nadiahalim06 Жыл бұрын
Ok I paused it at the first thing bc HOLY FRICK THAT'S YUZURU!!!!!!
@im.violet96 Жыл бұрын
Yuzuru is and always will be a total icon
@cryxl4312 Жыл бұрын
I love how u animated yuzuru hanyu on the ice ring, with the audience throwing those bears
@amyliu4104 Жыл бұрын
yuzuru hanyu
@manciajr2805 Жыл бұрын
This channel is so psychologically comforting and I love it!!
@Psych2go Жыл бұрын
Glad that we could comfort you! Let us know what videos you would like to see next!
@elizabethpeterson7979 Жыл бұрын
I’ve been with you guys for about a year now and I love everything I watch and this has actually helped me so much 😘❤️❤️
@Psych2go Жыл бұрын
Aww. Thank you for that. How do you feel about our content as of late though? We've been testing new ideas..
@elizabethpeterson7979 Жыл бұрын
@@Psych2go I love it as all of your content
@SY_0712 Жыл бұрын
OMG YUZURU 💙 😍 I love your videos, they're always so interesting & your voice is so comforting. Thank you so much for the Yuzu reference. He is absolutely out of this world amazing 😍 Love him 🥰🥰
@zhshsG7 Жыл бұрын
Thank you guys for doing this!
@GamerBoy.1761 Жыл бұрын
Yo, thx Psych2go I need these types of video when making friends in high school of my upcoming sophomore year. (Oh and also can y'all make a hold another on androgynous people?)
@Psych2go Жыл бұрын
Good luck! Do you mean videos about androgyny?
@cheeseballsnorter5494 Жыл бұрын
@@Psych2go i would lovee a video abt everything abt androgyny and how to be more androgynous i love ur channel so much
@GamerBoy.1761 Жыл бұрын
@@Psych2go like the psychology of androgynous ppl.
@haregabeje2381 Жыл бұрын
Good luck
@GamerBoy.1761 Жыл бұрын
@@haregabeje2381 thx bro
@tomtamjimjams Жыл бұрын
OMG YUZURU HANYU AND THE POOHS 😩❤️
@zacf6609 Жыл бұрын
Love the new artwork!
@chengc1007 Жыл бұрын
I love Yuzu!♥️♥️♥️
@sarth_shanbhag Жыл бұрын
Thank you for always motivating and helping me to love myself the way i am...be comfortable in who i am inspite of many flaws 🙂
@bawy Жыл бұрын
1. be like Yuzuru Hanyu. so true
@yetersanki657 Жыл бұрын
Haha, love the references in your vids! I feel like we are simping the same things in secret. 👀
@valck5507 Жыл бұрын
I love how their little leaves 🍃 clap it’s sooo CUTE!!!!
@coarsecape3001 Жыл бұрын
can we talk about how sweet and comforting the narrators voice is
@nazihahere Жыл бұрын
July 3rd, 2022 Wow, that opening scene was so beautiful!! Tysm for the tips ♡ 1.) Show your androgynous side. (omg yuzuru hanyu!!!) 2.) Be around your group of friends first! 3.) Work on your emotional intelligence. (Taking a moment before reacting strongly would be ideal for me.) 4.) Listen with the intent to really understand the other person! 5.) Introduce yourself and talk to someone new often (the hardest one 😭)
@torrinstaplesmusic6142 Жыл бұрын
All of them. I love this channel!
@_sofiyahh._ Жыл бұрын
Your videos are really helpful I'm glad that I found your channel ❤️❤️
@Psych2go Жыл бұрын
Glad to hear that :) Which habits would you like to try out?
@Real_Mick3y6 Жыл бұрын
I just like watching these for the psychological component of these. It's really cool.
@Psych2go Жыл бұрын
Any suggestions for the next vid?
@Real_Mick3y6 Жыл бұрын
@@Psych2go What about something like helping others deal with grief?
@Trevor-kc6zv Жыл бұрын
U guys got an amazing animation person/squad. The little marshmallow-y people r so friendly looking. Chill vibes video all around
@Psych2go Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much! Is this your favorite animation so far? :)
@Trevor-kc6zv Жыл бұрын
@@Psych2go well if I’m being honest, my YT watch history is basically funny stuff and gaming stuff. I’m not into psychology and the like, so this is ur first and only vid I’ve watched. Not my cup of tea, but still objectively well done, from a gamer’s pov 😂
@Leslieee.14 Жыл бұрын
CUTE ANIMATION!! LOVE YOU PSYCH2GOPIPS
@Psych2go Жыл бұрын
Glad you like ti!
@absoluteandro6382 Жыл бұрын
Really all of this is extremely effective stuff if you're trying to peak someones interest. I unintentionally did 4/5 (I wasn't with a group of friends) of these tips back in May and now I have a girl who works the cash register at a store I frequent staring at me with the most geniune smile and a starry eyes despite me fumbling my confession and finding out she has a boyfriend. And still when I tell her to have a nice day and end it with her name (another tip i picked up from this channel) she blushes. Sometimes if you want a better outcome its best to learn how to handle your emotions and maybe you'll still have a chance in the future.
@dreamseeker2346 Жыл бұрын
I already do some of these habits, I'll try to put into practice the other ones I was unaware of 🤔
@deborahedelman2659 Жыл бұрын
I always something new snd essential from ur videos...Love u guys!!!
@neofulcrum5013 Жыл бұрын
This channel exists to give many of us the hope to go get our interested gal/guy out there.
@Psych2go Жыл бұрын
Yes, when are you nailing that down?
@amra101 Жыл бұрын
Understanding is the most important tbh When understand the other u let them talk and talk and talk and talking is the most important feeling comfortable in the first ❤️
@nick27march Жыл бұрын
Your videos help to become a better version of self day by day. Thank you Psych2Go ❤️
@Psych2go Жыл бұрын
Happy to hear that. Do you have any requests for topics?
@starchki Жыл бұрын
@@Psych2go I have one- I know its not what you usually do but I was wondering if you could talk about Iike different genders maybe like you did with sexualitys? Idk just and idea ^^ Really love your guys's channel btw, have a good morning/afternoon/night!!
@ryanlee6985 Жыл бұрын
hey just wanted to thank you for these sort of content
@Psych2go Жыл бұрын
Thank you for watching Ryan!
@emilsongomesjunior7223 Жыл бұрын
good morning! thank you!
@animegirltitanic6552 Жыл бұрын
💯 I love this Chanel.
@george1weiss Жыл бұрын
Adding a plan to meet people is a good plan. Maybe a hello, and more in settings where earlier I was more often silent.
@slandris7977 Жыл бұрын
1. Show your androgynous side 0:18 2. Be around your groups of friends at first 1:17 3. Work on your emotional intelligence 2:18 4. Listen with the intent to really understand the other person 3:18 5. Introduce yourself and talk to someone new often 4:36 keep up the good content Psych2Go :p
@Psych2go Жыл бұрын
Thanks for putting this together. You are so kind!!
@newta5578 Жыл бұрын
I love your videos, thank you so much! 💗😄
@Psych2go Жыл бұрын
Thank you! How do you feel about the more recent vids?
@newta5578 Жыл бұрын
@@Psych2go I like them! Both the information and the art that is in the videos 😄
@urmomssecretaccount.4837 Жыл бұрын
0:45 YUZURU HANYU!!
@kitty2365 Жыл бұрын
I love you 💓 you helped me a lot
@crystallai_art Жыл бұрын
Thank you for putting Hanyu Yuzuru as an example for having androgynous side!! I'm surprised that my favourite athlete is mentioned on your channel !
@gargisingh4977 Жыл бұрын
I have been a subscriber since a long time.. Ur videos are so cute and cool.... All the best and keep Making more beautiful videos 💕💓💓
@chloerivera9380 Жыл бұрын
I love your advise 💕💕
@Psych2go Жыл бұрын
Glad they could be helpful! Do you have any requests for topics?
@aliceng1682 Жыл бұрын
the yuzuru reference xD
@sincerelyalex_ Жыл бұрын
Lol I was looking for a comment that noticed too😭
@DrummerSwagger Жыл бұрын
Great animation
@cristypadilla4394 Жыл бұрын
The animation is so good😊
@Psych2go Жыл бұрын
Yes! Its' one of the best!
@smarthousetech8593 Жыл бұрын
It's sad how we as adults have worst communication than children. Children have no problem saying, " HI my name is ... what's your's?" Like seriously?? We as adult's have a tough time doing that SMH🤦♂️
@gabeslaymaker708 Жыл бұрын
love ur vids!
@layla.idk.345 Жыл бұрын
Hi omg I’m early for the first time and it’s my birthday this is the best birthday ever 🎉🥳🥳🥳😁 I love your channel ❤
@SP0NGIE Жыл бұрын
HAPPY BDAY!! 🎂
@layla.idk.345 Жыл бұрын
@@SP0NGIE tysm 😊
@PS-qv1eh Жыл бұрын
her voice gets me everytime. ought to get myself a girl w that voice.
@user-vg3wm4hy4b Жыл бұрын
I love the animation of Yuzuru in this video,thanks! 视频里有羽生结弦，好评！😊
@Chubbydorkycat Жыл бұрын
the drawing is so cute
@VidyaSimran Жыл бұрын
Hi. Very useful suggestions. What would you suggest for people who are starting over or middle aged ? Do same techniques work for all ?
@hope856 Жыл бұрын
I wish I saw these videos 4 years ago while joining in college
@berrysnow9984 Жыл бұрын
i have a crush and omg hes perfect, everything about it, when he achieves something i feel so proud and happy for him. I want to hang around him but my anxiety wont let me talk to him because i think if i talk to him i might say something wrong and he will remeber it until the day he dies, atleast that how i see it
@antoinelanglois8587 Жыл бұрын
I have a sincere question. Im aware of all you said. Ive been "using it" or maybe it was natural? I don't even know. does it make me manipulative or something? since my very young age I analysed humans and understood a lot of stuff by myself. and honestly almost 3/4 of psychology videos don't teach me anything, it only confirm my own theories and make me feel smarter but at the same time bored. I don't even know why im asking this here, maybe I need to see a psy? but your calming voice soothed me and I felt comfortable opening myself. (sorry english is my third language maybe I typed bad at some places)
@sambamnoham9946 Жыл бұрын
Great Informative 🌱 Video 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 ShaloM 🕊️
@dawnstonerock4253 Жыл бұрын
Love how the little beans are so wiggily!!!
@enescam9302 Жыл бұрын
watch collecting will make you buddy magnet
@asmaadam5936 Жыл бұрын
I loved the circle-shaped faces characters more ❤🥺
@berrysnow9984 Жыл бұрын
i love these vids
@dollysneverland4651 Жыл бұрын
I saw Hanyu Yuzuru at 0:48
@aydenbaeza4016 Жыл бұрын
thank you Psych2Go you have help me with so many things to who I like and helped me in my worst times
@delldellete9325 Жыл бұрын
I love her voice
@ankaplanka Жыл бұрын
I think it's the person themselves who make some of their habits attractive. We all have our preferences, so it might be hard to be objective about this. Practise on stuff you need, but with the intent of bettering yourself, for your own sake. If you only focus on what you think others are attractive to, you might lose yourself in the progress. Being forced to conform to normalcy shouldn't be the key. The video never said anything about conforming to anything, I just wanted to say that. Never ask "is this normal?" Instead, you should ask yourself "is this good for me?"
@markusguadalupe2461 Жыл бұрын
I found the cheerleader one interesting because usually I get more attention when I am alone but it might be because I’m the shortest in my group or something.
@pizecat4211 Жыл бұрын
Yeah, the Cheerleader effect doesn't really work for me too because I am like the most unattractive person in my friend group. So my crush ends up crushing for one of my friends ;^;
@hyamete Жыл бұрын
Ommgg is that yuzuru Hanyu?
@brizziethewolf9178 Жыл бұрын
Great video Psych2go! 👍🎉😁 Could u pls do a video on how to be more self confident around other ppl? I have a rough time talking to new ppl.
@Psych2go Жыл бұрын
Yep! We definitely can!
@brizziethewolf9178 Жыл бұрын
@@Psych2go Thank u ❤️
@winnie900 Жыл бұрын
Lol, Yuzuru Hanyu on 0:48 -0:54
@retro3188 Жыл бұрын
Sweet.
@you-lf2uj Жыл бұрын
0:54 yuzuru hanyu 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
@solshroom Жыл бұрын
remember that you are perfect the way you are, dont change yourself to get someone to like you!
@Psych2go Жыл бұрын
For sure! We should always work on loving ourselves more!
@mikahist4155 Жыл бұрын
1983 androgyny study is linked to the new wave/ dark wave era, androgyny was very popular then.
@sigmamale6920 Жыл бұрын
Yes
@Someone-xy3ng Жыл бұрын
*5 Instantly More Attractive Habits That Anyone Can Do* 1. Show your androgynous side. (0:16) 2. Be around your group of friends at first. (1:19) 3. Work on your emotional intelligence.(2:17) 4. Listen with the intent to really understand the other person. (3:16) 5. Introduce yourself and talk to someone new often. (4:34) Hope you have a great day/night ahead! ❤
@loszhor Жыл бұрын
Thanks.
@Someone-xy3ng Жыл бұрын
@@loszhor You're welcome! (:
@YUVRAJ_CHAUHAN1410 Жыл бұрын
Please add chapters to the video ! ☺️☺️☺️
@jackarthur4673 Жыл бұрын
A huge magnet
@susannatries8314 10 ай бұрын
Yuzuru 😭💖 with his pooh bears 🥺😂
@CLSGL Жыл бұрын
That “androgynous side” one reminds me about the Dave Chappelle bit when Charlie Murphy was talking about Prince
@parthbedekar9847 Жыл бұрын
How many more videos on this topic
@hughmungus8439 Жыл бұрын
actually, we shouldn’t care what people think of us. lets just be ourselves and genuine people will love us.
@shubhanswain5015 Жыл бұрын
We are just checking if we are attractive or not We do care and its reality Accept it dude
@EtSmilee Жыл бұрын
HANYUUUU
@AllenM.Ponsen Жыл бұрын
1 $$$🤑 2 Social status 3 Good Hygiene 4 Height & Fitness 5 Smarts
@keithstevenson418 Жыл бұрын
1july22 I agree and like all of them Keith Stevenson
@imoralista Жыл бұрын
are you reposting videos? I have the feeling that i already saw the last videos the channel is posting
@malabedchristian2597 Жыл бұрын
My 3 Most Favorite Channels Psych2Go, Deep Look, Kurzgesagt💛
@pahoellyyy Жыл бұрын
Mine too omg
@Dr.Bright17 Жыл бұрын
For that last one, what if I come off a little too strong? My sense of humor plus some of the stuff I say can be a little... morbid, dare I say, and it’s usually just me trying to cause the funny or to be a bit sarcastic every here and there.
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