That was good. Thank you!

Hi Candace, love your channel name. I have been married for almost 38 years. Yep same here hubby has no interest in decluttering but I do help him out sometimes and go through his clothes of what I think he might want to get rid of then he goes through the pile and say yes or no etc. i just found Candace's channel.

Aw thank you!

Wow amazing!!! Good for you!!! I love your idea of how to use a little box!

That's what I did with a few items I didn't want to part with. I found a new purpose for them.

YES!! The container concept!! Keeping only what you'll use is an amazing way to enjoy a clutter free home!

I love that!! Growth is a process...YES!!! I look back and can't believe some of the things I did and the habits I had formed, but it was a learning journey and I'm grateful for it! Thanks for the reminder!

The 5 second rule is a tough one, but you just get better and better at making fast decisions the more you practice!

We just came out of a LONG winter here in Utah...I seriously thought it would NEVER end...but Spring came last week and gave us all new life!! Hoping the sunshine comes your ways soon!! And YES on the timer!! It's amazing how fast you clean when you're racing the clock!

@@FancyThatwithCandice Lol. I guess the groundhog never lies. 😂😂 Yeah. I think last night was the last cold one. I’m in GA so idk. Seems cold to me for what’s typical down here. Already May and it’s like 45 degrees at night. Insane. Now it’s gonna be some rain with slightly higher temps and then looks like we finally get to move on. Lol. So true. The timer also helped me see how quick a task really was so then I was more motivated to knock it out (and not procrastinate) since I knew it only took 5 minutes or less. 😅😅

Thanks, Terry! So glad my videos are helpful!

Honestly, I would lovingly put all those albums in a couple of containers, put your husbands name, “John’s” Family Photos on a neat label and stick them in a corner of the attic, basement or garage. Then, lovingly let hubby know where they are when he wants to deal with them and forget about it. I am married 43 years and I now know when enough is enough. Your husband probably has no real understanding of your need to declutter and make these positive changes. You are making good progress and you do not need these unexpected setbacks like this. Good luck!! 😊 (Also, I do not use “lovingly” in a flip manner. I believe everything must be done with love and respect for the other, especially our spouses!) ❤

Oh Lawd. That would also infuriate me. I’d make him keep them on his “turf” and I’d refuse to have anything to do with them. But that’s just me. I can be a b*tch. 🤣🤣 I guess my rule of thumb is that I can’t control what others do, but I have a right to control what I keep in my turf and I can also refuse to “tend to” some crap someone else wants to keep. I’m single so idk the “marriage rules” but it might be helpful to just have a few defined zones that are exclusively yours and some that are exclusively his. I know most would be shared space, but I’m just of the opinion that just Bcuz someone marries, they don’t have to mesh EVERYTHING together and you never stop being your individual self. Some things can still remain “separate” imo. I’ve found this to be true with roommates also. It helps keep the peace a lot better.

My husband put all those inherited photos in a tote and put it in his closet. Win/win for both of us. Occasionally he looks thru them.

I love that...see through containers that are labeled!! Thank you for your suggestion!

Awww thank you!!!

I need to start including it in the description of videos!! Now I can't remember!

Thank you!!! I actually got it at TJ maxx a couple years back!

@@FancyThatwithCandice ok thanks for getting back to me 🙂

I listen to a lot of decluttering and organizing professionals and read a TON of books.

ohhh I'll look into that! Thank you!

@@FancyThatwithCandice thanks can you post the recipe for dishwasher cleaner i cannot find it

Yes!!!!

Thanks for watching!