The issue I am dealing with is the sudden death of my husband, then learning he was unfaithful. It’s just too much. The overwhelming sadness and actual physical pain is unbelievable. How can i ever get through this?

I am not getting what I need from my husband. He won't do any heavy lifting for our reconciliation. He just wants me to act oblivious to the affair and act happy as if it never happened. I am not healing, nor are we fixing anything just pretending to be ok. that is why us betrayed spouses get stuck, when the wayward wants us to do everything yet we aren't the ones who stepped out! I need my husband who is the one who claims he wants this marriage to show me that he's willing to tackle his issues and that he is invested in doing something proactive in reconciling our marriage. I can't do the heavy lifting for us its unfair for me.

Oh yes... I was in that anger/rage phase for about 7 months. A friend told me that I'm stuck in my "righteous anger". That loneliness and abandonment is horrible. So thankful for these blogs. Thank you Samuel and Samantha!

Right now I’m angry at myself.. how could I have been so blind.. 30 years of deception. I feel like my whole life was taken from me. I’m so lost I don’t know what to do .. I’m beyond depressed

I feel like this right now, but I don't have the anger. All I have is the sadness. I'm stuck in the same cycle but I have no idea what to do with myself.

I cant express enough how helpful these videos are. 13yrs of marriage and 4months ago i found out my Wife had a short affair in December. We're trying to work through it but she is so secretive at times it makes me question if shes really committed. The pain, the emotional ups and downs during the grieving process is so hard at times. I/We are dealing with the trama and depression from the loss of our 6yr old Son who passed away just a year ago then adding to it the discovery of her affair has been emotional hell.

I wish all of you a successful recovery. I'm ten years into this daily nightmare.

Whenever I turn away from my anger my husband takes that as everything is ok. He is unable to really see my pain and tries to make it about himself...he doesn't even want to seek help from anyone but a counselor. He's told me it's never helped and neither did SA groups. I guess he just doesn't want to get help...

I'm my case, IT'S NOT ABOUT SHAMING, EMBARRASSING OR ANY OTHER THINGS THAT ARE NEGATIVE. IT'S ABOUT LETTING THEM KNOW HOW MUCH AND HOW OFTEN WHAT THEY DID NEGATIVELY AFFECTS ME.

For the past 6 months I have been shaming and guilting. I reached a point of extreme rage, no physical violence or throwing things, just very harsh and cruel words. I understand that she cant understand the entirety of my pain now. Even when she justifies it and rationalizes it for herself to avoid anymore inner guilt and shame. I understand it's a defense mechanism and maybe she's not purposely trying to ignore me or my pain. But what you said about how the betrayed needs to grieve and mourn the loss. That I think is actually the answer. It's for me. I do believe the rage and the anger is an attempt to gain a false sense of control over the pain. I started to think about it and broke down. I mourned the loss of her and relationship in that moment accepting that was gone forever. It hurts but after I felt a sense of freedom and less anger. I felt like I can let go and felt a little closer to actual forgiveness.

Literally me right now.

true. but sometimes it is soo hard to even fathom and accept that ur spouse has done this to you when....id rather die than hurt him like that. i keep asking myself how in the hell can u think so little of me to do this...? it makes us betrayed feel like we always way loved our spouse More than they loved us. thats just from my personal feelings. ive dropped it finally. but boy it took me awhile to let it go. move on. forgive. and be more mindful now.

I was unfaithful, I feel completely shattered, by what I've done. I'm done with the lies and the cheating. I've lost so much weight, I can't sleep, eat. I'm depressed. My husband is stuck, angry. He's not sure if he can stay, but doesn't want to leave. Now he's drinking. I'm not leaving him ever. I want our situation to get better. I hate myself! I'm committed ill never allow myself to ever be vulnerable with another man other than my man. Any suggestions is welcomed.

Your clarity is phenomenal. You and Samantha are so generous to share your process.

15 months post D-Day and on my off days I oscillate between simmering rage and heart stopping waves of hurt.

It's amazing how these vlogs pop up at exactly the moment I seem to need them and with content I need to hear. Thank you for your continued diligence on the subject of infidelity. Your videos are making an impact on me and I assume many others as well. I'm only a couple of months in from disclosure day and riding and emotional roller coaster. These videos are really helpful. Thank you again!

How can I stop with trickle truth and bombs dropping all the time. Now dealing with an std n cervical cancer for the 2nd time I don't even know what stage I am yet. Infidelity has destroyed my life on so many levels.

I lashed out at my children today. I feel mental. I feel hopeless.

Good timing for me. I'm struggling with recovery; thoughts and feelings still swirling. I am learning from the Bootcamp and videos. I'm trying to learn how to take care of myself and be kind in this process, and be steady, committed. Thank you.

I do the first one almost daily.. it just flys out my mouth before I even think about it

Samuel, WoW I'm doing all of these things we have been on this journey for 2 yrs and I know now we need better resources. Thank you for this vlog.

Samuel how do I learn to grieve and mourn. I don’t know how. I’m right where you said as a Betrayed. No I have not had an affair. Where does Complex PTSD come in. Idk where one stops and the other starts. PLEASE HELP ME!!!

He refused to disclose all information over four years which continued to perpetuate a cycle of trauma for me to the point where I wasn’t even myself anymore and I stopped liking who I was becoming due to the trauma. So I left him to keep myself from falling apart any more.

Never thought in a million years I would be subscribing to an affair recovery channel yet here I am #betrayedspouse #2022

My pain was so deep it destroyed my health badly. Then, I realized these built up anger actually can kill me. I started forgiving my past and him slowly (didn't mean that I'm accepting him again) I was able to get better in me. Now, I'm not as furious as before when I see him. In fact, my feeling of empath is growing bigger and bigger for him. In order to Love yourself you have to forgive..

Its been 3 months since my husband cheated and we r recobciling but this channel helps me alot as im going through so much pain and anger. Hearing from u being the unfaithful spouse actually makes me feel better

This whole exact thing happened to me today after my husband and I blew up on each other. I mourned, finally, and grieved the loss of my marriage. I also had alot self pity mixed in and because I tried to hit him because I was so angry he called me a f-kn phyco. Which I'm not but I totally lost it. He hasn't apologized, but I have twice. He had the affair, and I was just trying to talk to him after he asked where I was going. I said I don't know, just put of here. He got upset because I didn't know where I was going! A whole fight because he questioned me about my plans? So much love and respect that we gained and earned in the last two weeks seems like its down the drain. Really need to pray about this one.

My husband refuses to take responsibility for his actions as a person, berates my 5 year old for being 5, won’t communicate with me, puts blame on me for not having a sex drive while I’m angry, over stressed, and 12 weeks pregnant with his baby, and tried to leave me behind my back. I have heart problems and am sick often on top of being pregnant. Stressing too much can send me into a heart attack, and it’s like he doesn’t care. I’ve been nothing but open and transparent, and all I ask is the same in return. Instead, he emotionally abuses me passive aggressively without putting any effort except for excuses and blame into the relationship. I’m at a loss.

I don’t think that having anger or lashing out or mourning has anything to do with forgiveness. If my husband cut off my arm, I could forgive him, but I would still have to heal. I would mourn the loss of my arm, and probably have anger, pain and frustration because of the situation itself. But that doesn’t mean I haven’t forgiven him for it. I think that everyone needs to understand that both body and spirit needs to heal after a trauma. I forgave my husband, but I still mourn for the marriage we had, and I still hurt from memories of the affair and things I saw. Im working on healing and I may get frustrated and lash out, but that’s part of the process.... doesn’t mean I didn’t forgive him. If I hadn’t forgiven him, I would have never come back and go through this torture of trying to get myself well again. Just an analogy. That’s just the way I see it Sam. But thanks for your words of wisdom. I listen to you a lot and it helps tremendously.

I’d swear this video was made for me. I am 1-4 and was contemplating 5 but I just couldn’t bring myself to do it. It’s not who I am and I’d NEVER want to make anyone feel how I am feeling. I’m 6 months in from discovering and still could go either way at anytime. Half the time I don’t even know who I am anymore.

I wish to God that Infidelity never existed!! I hate the range of emotions I’ve personally experienced. It’s grueling.

I am 2 years post my husband's affair and I'm still struggling. There are days that I don't want to break our marriage and then there are days where I want i to just leave. I just don't know what to do. I want to go through counseling but he doesn't want to because it's been so long and not to mention it's expensive.

I was just betrayed last week 😢 I don’t know what to do but this video has helped. It was sent to me by one of my best friends who I can tell anything too! Thank you Mike 😢

In October 2022 I just discovered that my trust husbandof 29 years has been cheating with younger women since 2018. I nearly most my mind. Iam still trying to come into terms with the information. Thanks for these videos.

Thank you for these. 27years married. Affair in year 2. Didn’t tell hubby until year 10& 3 kids later. We never got any real counseling and are still dealing with flooding and me defending myself. I’m finally seeing where I’ve been going about this all wrong but I think it could be too late. We love each other and our life but he is still in a lot of pain and the devastation rears it’s ugly head at random times and ways. It’s really hard and we are exhausted.

I think as a betrayed husband why is it always mentioned that the betrayed has to carry some of the burden in relieving the pain. Why do we always have to do our part, we did our part by being faithfull but yet still need to be a part of our own healing!?this is really eff up

You nailed at least 5 A big one too is transparency w\ a kind willingness to answer their questions honestly ONLY to help betrayed gain an understanding

Hi, I found out about 15 months ago about my husband's sexual addiction problem and all his affairs, one night stands and so on. Except the ironic thing about this is that it happened nearly thirty years ago when we were only 20 years old. This April we have been married 38 years. I knew something was happening when I was younger, we lived overseas and where in the United States Navy at the time. Every single woman my husband had an affair with was my friend, in my close circle of friends. So this makes it a double betrayal in so many ways. These blogs are absolutely dead on for me. I realize you're probably saying it's so long ago Let It Go, I can't because my life was such a mess at that time and I was pregnant and he was so cruel to me. All the puzzle pieces now are filling in except the way my disclosure worked was that it has been a trickle down effect. In other words over 15 months now I have learned what happened little by little because first I got a lot of BS and then I get the truth and then more BS and then the truth it has been a horrible 15 months for me. We have seen a sex addiction therapist and she was pretty good although very slow in the beginning and it was driving me nuts I need it to dive in and get to the bottom of this crap not talk about constant forgiveness. I'll get to forgiveness but let's get to the bottom of this crap first. The biggest obstacle I'm facing now is that my husband wants to act as if everything is fine because we have lived nearly three decades with me not knowing this dirty nasty Secret well the fact is he has known all these years I have not. For me the pain is fresh as if the Affairs and sex addiction just happened yesterday. I'm logical enough to realize it did not but the pain I feel,the heartache and the betrayal feels as though it just happened I'm still hurt, devastated beyond comprehension, and not really understanding what the hell happened. He says he wants me to heal yet he's not willing to do any thing in my healing process. I actually want to walk away most of the time and yet I think I have lived 30 years not knowing what a fool I've been and how humiliated I feel so why not leave? I wish he would sit down with me and tell me the truth A to Z in one sitting. Why do you think Samuel that my husband will not Step Up and help me, by doing the right thing by me after all the years I have given him. Good years, but he just won't step up and help me. His verbage is right on and he says the most beautiful things to me, but he won't come forth and do what it takes to help me heal he, just goes on everyday as if life is normal, is he in denial still or is it that he really just doesn't want to be bothered since it was so many years ago? I don't care if it was 30 years ago those women were my girlfriends and they all slept with him and one had a 15-month affair with him and I remember what I went through for him to get out of the house. My heart is bleeding and my mind is going insane. He acts as if it's just another day. I really am lost and don't know what to do. Thank you.

What if it’s not anger but just sadness…feeling defeated and constantly, for lack of a better word, “bummed out”

Amazing video! Thank you!

I really need help. It is roughly 8 months since “d-day” and I’m feeling pain that is searing. Anger that burns. We went though several months of a program at our church that is designed to biblically save marriages and I can say that it was successful at keeping us together. My husband totally committed himself to a measure of humility and devotion to repair our marriage after his affair. I was so totally desperate to save it and was totally in....we finished a few months ago and it felt great. But, I feel like I’m in a stage of relapse now. I feel so many emotions daily that ravage my psyche. I literally feel like someone with PTSD. So many things initiate thoughts of what happened and my emotions are overwhelming. I almost feel like I’ve become hyper-paranoid and I recognize that a portion of my thoughts and fears would be irrational to a leveled thinker but they still overwhelm my mind daily. I have thoughts of giving up, ending everything, including my life. Sleep is a joke and anxiety rules over every aspect of my daily life’s rituals. I try to bring myself down from those kinds of reactions but they seem to prevail over all part of my life. The act of being happy seems foreign to me. Joy is something I feel will never be attained. Part of me wants revenge- mostly in the form of having an affair of my own or ruining the life of the person who he betrayed me with. I feel isolated. No one in my family knows what happened. Hardly any of our friends know. It was a well kept secret as my husband is a well known, influential person in our area. I can testify that affairs will ravage the lives of those affected, no matter the social or economic status of the couple. It is literally eating me up from the inside out. Please, someone.....provide me hope and encouragement. I feel so totally alone.

So right. I am stuck in a saddness filled pain cycle. I am so so sad.

Thank you! Very helpful

I'm sooo stuck. i feel you just described me .and the JEALOUSY is killing me.i need help .can you help me

I’m stuck in the same circle of fury. We make it a few days maybe even over a week and a trigger ignites me like a bomb. We are 5 months out from me finding out I wasn’t enough and wasn’t meeting needs as good as her coworker. We had date night with our four year old last night. I pushed hard to make it a good night. I go to work today positive on the up and up and pass him in his police car. A person with his own wife and three kids with instant fury that just won’t go away. It’s so hard not to want to rip him from his police car and just battle to the death knowing he hasn’t a care in the world what’s been done and my wife remains in saying “I just needed someone to talk to”. Counseling has been damn near impossible to get her to and when we finally arrive together our counselor is taking a new job and referring us over another month out to someone else. I’m tired of the roller coaster. I’m tired of feeling nuts and I’m extremely tired of feeling in adequate for my family. We’ve now lost two almost three businesses bc it has killed my ability to function and feel like I have any value in doing such. Operating a tow truck as my primary job has me constantly on alert for the next call with this sorry pathetic hero. Yes I’m bitter. He didn’t pay bills, he didn’t sacrifice anything for us, he didn’t contribute a single positive way all while I unravel like a sheet in the wind. My wife says she’s here because she wants me. She wanted me, then wanted him and now “wants” me again. Whose to say she wants him or some other guy again. Right now with my state of being why the hell wouldn’t she. I’ve sent her two links to videos. I’m trying to get self help but hoping some how we end up side by side watching you for inside trying to heal. She truly would be better off with me just gone given the craziness I currently feel and it’s driving me insane

Great video’s !

I am 7 months passed discovery and my husband seems really remorseful and to be a completely different person. Is he just playing me? He’s seems to be really trying but I can’t help but question him or let my guard down. Some days I feel so extremely happy we are doing better than ever before and working things out for my family but then there are days I just want out, revenge or am just so angry with resentment and feelings that He and the affair partners just got away with this and now I’m left broken to deal with all the hurt everyday. Seems like he got the better end of this deal. Ugh I just want someone to tell me for certain that I am doing the right thing and that it won’t ever happen again. I know that’s impossible but thats what I want. Am I just scared to move on and lose my children everyday or the life I built? So confused and extremely hurt still. I don’t know how much longer I can feel this way.

Omg thank you!

It’s been almost a year. I can’t say I’m staying yet. We had a horrible 20 year marriage, full of anger and lies. He says he’s changed, but how do I commit again when I’m not sure the change is genuine? The roller coaster of “yes I’m staying, to no I’m not” is draining me, but I just can’t commit. Is it okay for more time? Time to see if the angry, distant and unloving person is coming back? I can’t be stuck again, his affair set me free in Gods eyes, but according to my husband it ‘changed him.’ Personally, I’m terrified to be stuck again.

While I was deployed for 4 months my spouse cheated on multiple partners. I found a years ago and still I’m in pain and even don’t know should I still stay with him. I sometime think that I had to die while I was deployed. It’s so painful.

What can a betrayed spouse do to recover/heal if the spouse will not admit not only did they cheat but they continue to lie about minor things. If they won’t admit the truth, no one can heal. It’s been almost a year and there is proff but they still deny!

I think that the Betrayed who has an affair in addition to the spouses affair is the worst thing that can be done to the marriage. Taking the hurt to another relationship would be tramatic to the other people involved. It would be a hot mess and then some. Staying to go through the process of grief and anger with prayers and counseling would be great to have and to restore the relationship between the two of the spouses and not add another person.

I’ve been with a man for 17 years and we actually lived apart for 1 yr but continue to work on the relationship but he was actually acting different and then began binge drinking and telling my daughter he don’t even know who he is , then I did a little of detective work and found out he has a really nasty sex addiction, porn addiction and has been with woman I know recently and when I approached him I went crazy and attached him , he doesn’t know everything I know but only thing I brought is the recent affair and it’s been 1 month and he still hasn’t even reached out to talk, and I’m so lost for words I don’t even know what to handle first or how to deal with my anger !

I know Samuel is going to save my life. Being betrayed is overwhelming. I cannot breath or think or function. I just catch myself looking off into space then trying to remember my task. I get jolted back to reality, back awake and suddenly feel immense pain as i remember she is gone and is happy having fun with her new man. Its as if my body is folding itself onto itself and I am going to die.

I think I'm here. I know and understand the addiction my husband is going thru, tho he isn't in my eyes trying to help answer questions until I ask them. He only wants to say "I'm here for you " tho in my eyes isn't 100% there, only when I show i need it. I honestly feel as if he is playcating me again alot of times. To get it to stop. Today is 1 year from the first true sign of his betrayal. I've been chewing him out, as you said in this video "if you would have never did this" I have said alot in 24h span of time. How besides grieving, and morning which I have actively done, can I start to move to my next part of recovery? I know I'm tired of asking the questions, and him never offering any info until then. I am tired of feeling like he needs me to babysit him where he wont be tempted to do this all over for the 3rd time. I do look forward into hearing some techniques and advice you might have. Thank you for doing these videos.

Hi it’s been 1 yr and a half and I am getting stuck again. Doing hurtful things such as digging through his previous conversations

This exactly how I feel

I struggle with this I am having a hard time. What else is going to happen when they continue to lie and not be truthful? Always lying and always avoiding the truth and what really went on? After 2 years of hiding and then continued actions of doing the same thing what am I supposed to feel and think? He never wants to take accountability for what he did and what all he did. I’m hurt and I’m numb

I hated him. I always do. 4 years now and it is hard. Anyways, the good thing we dont talk anymore. Which is the best thing ever happened to me. I found my soulmate. the new man made me forget about him

Can't help pain

Have you read Susan Anderson' s " Journey from Abandonment to Healing"? She explais how those of us who were betrayed in childhood ( in my case by an abusive big time alcoholic father) have a different set of neurochemicals released after being betrayed by a spouse. Not that I had the option, as my ex-wife never confessed or apologized( and we are 25 years post my discovery), but I wonder if forgiving her was just too insurmountable, in light of my background. And, strangely, I am extremely forgiving in general.

Hello how to recover from betrayal 2019 overcome betrayal Now video

Can you do a video (or point me in the right direction) about how to confront your spouse if you have proof they’ve cheated but haven’t confronted them yet? How do I confront and what do I say?

Do you have any information about grief and morning?

He moved a stripper gf into his dads house while we were married and taking care of a church. I left due to his lying and cheating over and over. I’m still technically married but moved 3 hrs from anywhere near him. His actions never said anything remotely close to what his mouth said. He will never change because he doesn’t want to. He turns my stomach when I hear his voice and that pain still here it’s been 3 years

I cheated and didn’t know what to do but I stood in there and find out she’s cheating now and left. And she is so angry and I can’t reach out to her

I'm stuck in the rumination phase. But it seems that not a week goes by that I do not find lascivious material or suspicious emails for accounts that were supposed to have been deleted. Then I'm right back in the rumination treadwheel. Can't go out together anymore because every place we stopped there is a trigger or there is a female of the type he said he preferred over me. Many times will be driving and they'll be someone jogging and he even loses where he is on the road so that he can continue to stare and then tells me that it's all in my head. How can the Betrayed spouse move forward if the perpetrator does not feel that his actions are hurtful or that they mean anything? It's gotten so bad that I went to his job To meet hi co-workers and then for us to go to lunch as planned. I did not even touch the door handle before he fussed at me to go in the door he was telling me to go in. When I looked inside what was on the other side of the door I was about to open was a group of women that are his preferred ethnic group. I shut my mouth and still followed him in as he started to berate me and tell me that I said something to those women as I walked passed them. Which I did not and they were quite a distance off from me. Then he changed the story that I could have said something to them. Then he said that I was an embarrassment in front of his co-workers. One of his co-workers asked "is this guy is this guy handful". I jokingly said yeah he should probably sit somewhere with his nose in the corner. We both laughed and continued to meet a few other people and then we left. He degraded me so bad that day that I don't know how to trust. This is been going on for 37 years and he's always made it my fault and my problem. If I would not have said anything to his coworker he would have told me I was rude. I went with the flow and joked with his coworker and that made me an embarrassment to everybody there. Mind you this is the guy that went around groping, pawing, massaging and touching women underneath their breasts and above their butt cheeks at work right in front of me. Unfortunately we worked at the same place for many years. And he calls me an embarrassment. And then he wants to know why I can't get over it because this happened about two and a half months ago. And since then as, I said I keep finding lascivious material and other indicators that he is back out there surfing the net looking for the next person. So yes I also have the knee-jerk reaction of leaving or staying. I know this is long but I wish someone would tell me where I can look for help. PS. He has taken me to two psychiatrist to get me help. And they told me it wasn't all my problem. So we went to marriage counseling. Then he said the doctor and I were both ganging up on him because the doctor did not agree with him on certain points.

7 months and I'm still angry.

Can you recommend a good book or source on grief and grieving?

Is there a book for the grieving and mourning

I’m so stuck it’s extremely difficult

Pls Dr.i need help I betrayed my boyfriend and we hv stay 4yrs now but thing aren't working anymore wat can I do

What does a man do that resorted to a revenge affair that was constantly betrayed and lied to...how the h do I recover from any of the traumas

I don't know what to. My wife wont even admit that shes done anything wrong. I practically caught her in the act yet she still says I'm just crazy and its all in my head. I do accept blame as I have walked away before but we got back together without her taking responsibility because I thought I could just put it behind me. Now I keep catching her in little lies and it just brings back all of these feelings from before and she obviously doesn't care if I leave or not so I'm stuck in limbo not knowing what do and knowing that if I do leave she will have another man in my children's lives. Its driving me absolutely insane.

I am so stuck. I can’t seem to get over what she has done. My wife is very remorseful, cut ties to the AP, in a Mental health facility. She is reading the Bible in there. She has bipolar with psychotic tendencies. I feel she will just have another episode and cheat again. It’s hard to trust when I feel like I do. We have 2 kids. I had to get an injunction against her as she has abused me and our children. I almost feel that I have to leave to protect our kids. As she can stabilize and at a flick of a switch turn brutally manic.

If you are watching this, to my partner, please help me to rebuild our relationship

Calling it "stuck" is a judgement.

I am so angry

Hi Sam, I need help. I betrayed my husband. He is willing to work on it. I wasn't before when I admitted but I think I want to give my all efforts to make it work. But now my husband has all these boundaries of limitations on my movements outside of home, limiting my social media exposure and other stuff. I am ready to do at this time but I don't know how I feel about those restrictions in future. I miss me. I am ambivalent.

Okay so what do I do when my partner has had two years to fix themselves and fix this relationship and even show some empathy she put more work into finding a job then she did her affair recovery and now that she has a job she only listens to affair recovery videos when she gets home before she puts it on cartoons cartoons. I feel like she's watching the affair recovery videos just for my benefit cuz usually within 6 hours of watching a video she will ask me for something. It has become so predictable now that I put it in my journal, "she is listening to affair recovery videos in the shower loud enough for me to hear she will most likely ask me for some kind of anxiety medication within the next 12 hours" and sure enough about ten or twelve hours later she asked me for anxiety medication. It's ridiculous because she went through all of her medication alrighty because that's how she copes she's an addict.

I really like Samuel, but don't they have any betrayed spouses that work for them and can do videos?

If it were just the affair, if it were just addiction to porn, i feel like both situations by themselves, it'd be easier to tackle. I know i need help, i feel i recreate d day every time i relapse. I want so badly to rid of this pain. She wants to leave me and all i can think to do is each out to seek therapy and the 12 steps program

I forgave him and then he relapsed the next day. It feels like he spat in my face and went back to hiding behind his addiction. I do all of these things listed except have an affair. Im really in love this time and I don't want an affair. I also have so little confidence I doubt I could if I wanted to.

how to recover from betrayal

At 7:26. Yep

I had really high hopes for this video. Sadly, the title is extremely misleading. "A REASON - a cause, explanation, or justification for an action or event". This video does NOT talk about reasons, only WAYS. Big difference. Very disappointing. Only the fourth one is a reason. Failure to grief. The rest are by no means REASONS for being stuck in recovery.

If your man is on his way out, there’s only one thing you can say to pull him back for good. @t