I got everything I needed in the first 7 mins! "When a woman puts herself beneath a man who is not enough and if she is more than the man is, she limits her potential and stifles her own growth." Let the church say AMEN and take up the offering.

"A man's circle is always an indication of his level" Teach on.

“You can help a man, but you can’t build a man.”

Popcorn ✅ Remote for rewinding ✅ Coachable spirit ✅ Pen and paper ✅ Listening heart ✅

"A man with potential is not enough to cover a wife" .... powerful 👌

"A man should have the capacity to make his wife better". Amen

Most women have been polluted into ‘believing they should help a man reach his potential’.... the myth of the ‘down woman’... her focus becomes all HIM and She makes him her GOD!

I’m 32 and I feel nowhere near meeting the right husband let alone partner anytime soon. I had been comparing myself so much to all my friends, who are either married or onto their children. Now I’m realizing that just because someone is married doesn’t mean it’s the right person or will last. I need to stop comparing myself and keep working on becoming my best self. In that space is the only way I’ll find the mature man I hope for.

Your wisdoms is such a blessing in my young life. I’m 21. My father has NEVER sat me down and counselled me on men ever. I’m grateful and I appreciate you. God bless

Queens don’t marry potential! R. I. P. to potential! Where is your fruit??!!

Why should a relationship be so difficult? I failed big time in the compatibility area. I feel safe being a single woman but desire having a mate. 😔

This is just confirmation. It's been 6 minutes. Summed up an entire fiasco of a marriage in 6 minutes. Thank you God. Just bcuz he's in "PURSUIT", does not make him suitable. Amen. Confusion, GONE, KA BOW!

This right here wasn’t nothing but the simple TRUTH! Don’t let being stuck on “potential” complicate your lives ladies!

A woman has to know herself, a woman has to take her time to learn the suitor man and she must not talk too much, too soon and too everything!

Potential has messed up many a persons!

I am in tears because I wasted my time & love on formless men all of my life. My biological & step-father were/are formless men. Farrakhan said a woman's uterus is God's workshop. We cannot allow just any man with a good game in. I'm going to save this for my daughter & son. This is important! A Christian woman cannot submit to a man if he isn't right with Christ. Thank you Pastor Blakes.

I can't express enough how much of a blessing it is to have someone teaching about relationships and discernment in finding the right mate. I wish someone had taught me these things 25 years ago, as I just turned 51 and am still single. Thank you Bishop. And I thank God for you!

Yes...I do not want a project. Potential is a project.

Its good dealing with someone who knows God but some use it as a disguise in the beginning spiritual discernment required

You got that right! I gave up my ‘Build a man Bag a long time ago’! I can’t ‘build a man’ like ‘build a bear’!

I love your relationship videos. But I swear even thinking about a relationship gives me a headache. It's a whole lot. Thank you for sharing your wisdom.

Thanks, Pastor Blakes, for this timely and valuable teaching. No longer will I waste time on a man who is a form of a man. “A woman can help a man, but she can’t make a man.”

A man that has no God Awareness or Self Awareness Cannot Lead bcz he is in Spiritual or Emotional Limbo = He is not ready to be your Husband!!!!! Dont Settle or your your days can be shorten.....

yesss I'm a High Caliber woman & I need someone equally yoked with me 😀

Bishop, the way you broke down Adam's needing time to be complete BEFORE Eve was taken out of & presented to him was mind blowing for me. I've read Genesis so many times but that truth never hit me until now. Thank God there are shepherds like you in the Church. Topics like this really matter. The institution of marriage is seriously under attack, so this is so timely. Please keep it up!

GREAT message, I think also fasting and prayer and asking the holy spirit to confirm this. THE HOLY SPIRIT is never wrong.

Invaluable information for all single women. Excellent!

Thank you for this. My hudband is trying to do the love bombing thing again and I'm not having it. I married potential and it took me years to come to my development as the Queen that I am. We both came to know one another not entirely whole. I grew, developed and matured and tried to help him grow and I see him being so more much the form of a man with his circle. It hurt to listen to this, but it was so needed. It just confirms that my choice to end things is the right choice. I dont have a partner that can maximize my growth. I wish him well and I hope he does grow, but it will not be with me. Thank you for following the gift on your life. You've radically changed my life in a short time with the word and the power of the Holy Spirit. God bless you and your beautiful family. 🙏😊💖

You can tell about a man from the company he keeps. That speaks volume.

Eve didn’t prove Adam but her father did. It would be nice if our elders, fathers and pastors assisted in screening potential spouses to eliminate the hazards that are a by product of dating.

“A man’s circle is always an indication of his level” WOW!!!!!!🤯🤯🤯🎤

Yes! I married a man who was not enough and I thought that we would grow together. After he pulled himself together as a result of my support, he dumped me and married another immediately in order to "upgrade". Now I can come into the fullness of what God made me to be which is the real upgrade!

Then there isn’t really many real men out there that I can see so far..

He might not be there when you want him but he's always on time... God is good... Great teaching, continue to help through your teaching. 😊

The form of the man describes my ex to a tee! So sad! And he sees nothing wrong with himself! I however did have the strength to leave that relationship! Thank God! 💯 ❤️

Yes indeend..I am a high quality woman from the beginning...I made some big mistakes.and did not realize i was always enough..But i am truly whole now..And God is truly restoring..me in such a magnificant way...Thanks for reaffirming that...Awesome...

Wish there was a “Love” button to click on! Thank You Sir!!

Great message for the soul. My 17 yr old daughter watched this along with me. We have subscribed! Thank you so much

the FORM of a Man...

I found you on you tube December of 2016 when I was going through a lot (separated from the father of my kids , we weren't married but living in fornication ) it was hard to face that truth but God destroyed that illegal structure ; from that time I listen to your messages I make sure that I take notes I've books now full of your messages and I've realised that there was a lot I didn't know about relationships mainly because I never had a father or mother in my life not because they were dead but they just chose to be not part of my life .I grew up feeling rejected and ive come to a point of forgiving them and move on with my life .I listened to your teachings of father daughter talk and that helped and matured me a lot .being single now I thank God for all these messages you are taking your time to teach .For me it's pure gold .finding you and Mrs Lisa Blakes has been a blessing we appreciate you .

'Prove a man before you approve a man'.... I recieved that! 🙌🏾

This is MAJOR transformative type teaching! So, glad to be able to listen in. So much rich, biblical knowledge being dropped here! Thank you sir!

Stumbled upon you Rev in 2018.....as I was separating from my narc husband. Our son was only 5 months old but with God's strength, Grace, mercy, help and your teachings.....I've happily moved on and haven't had to get professional counselling. God bless you Rev...keep teaching us women as most of us now Queens had no dad nor stepdad to guide us when we were growing up.

What you're doing is absolutely incredible! Please keep it up. Thank you & God bless!

when i was younger my aunt use to share ith me these lessons. i thought she was being to hard on men. but through hard knock life. i saw for myself that what pastor and my aunt say are totally true. now i go in like earl flin asking questions . no longer a silly woman. chicago speaks

Bishop, my Lord you are so in order and on point. This needs to be part of a woman's understanding so we can be better and do better. To God be the Glory.

Love it ! Please reboot this one! This needs to spin the block one more time !

Amen an Amen. Another great teaching by Pastor RC Blakes. Thanks for sharing your knowledge and wisdom. God Bless!

Hi Brother R C. I don’t remember ever adding a comment to any of your playlists. However, you have become part of my family and have been the father, brother, and most honest man that I never had before, even though I’m 69. I’ve been married to 3 abusive husbands. I’m single by choice and I’m not desperate. I always knew in my gut when I made wrong choices but I didn’t listen. Your messages have helped me more than you can possibly know and I want to personally thank you from the very bottom of my heart. I have said “no” to many men in my past several years because it isn’t right in my conscience mind and heart. I finally value myself more than casual sex. I won’t go into public details about my life from childhood to the present but I’m very blessed to have found you and your honest, truthful, and knowledgeable messages. May God Bless you, yours, and all who find you. I’m positive that you have helped many. Thank you for having the courage to speak the truth.

A WHOLE WORD Y'ALL!!!🙌🏾 This is life saving message. Share as widely as possible!!!!

Love this so much. Incredibly helpful and beautifully illustrated. Thank you.

Thank you so much for this channel and your messages. I didn’t have a father growing up and when I gave my life back to Christ and started to love myself and have standards watching you and others helped me so much to be able to set standards in my life for my future spouse. You are truly like a father figure for women who grew up without fathers.

God bless you good teaching and thank you! every woman need to hear this message.

Absolutely felt the message loud and clear. I've given 14 yrs and was blessed with a child but I can't live any longer with disrespect, verbal, and emotional abuse. The man claims he knows the lord but has tried to tear me down. Now I see that the comments are also being directed to my daughter with no awareness of how this affects her self esteem. Enough is enough and so true about the friends this man surrounds himself with.

Come through with the Jordan shoe analysis! I'm so here for this message!

Amen Pastor, this was the Word right here. Great message and dissemination. Put on the whole armor of Christ so that you can discern a Whole man/woman.

Great word...more women need to hear this !!!

Great message pastor Blake first timer. I really enjoyed the message

I will buying your books for myself and my daughters. Thank you for sharing your wisdom

This is such a powerful truth, thank you for doing what you do. I'll see you Friday night in Orlando.. I'm really looking forward to it!!!! Queenology!!

Amen, thank you thank you for your message Pastor!!! You are full of goodness and wisdom. 🌟🌟

This was excellent, even as a non-Christian this gave me a lot of information to think on and apply.

You are changing my whole mindset on myself, my life, and men. Lifechanging messages for me at just the time I've decided my life must change. God bless and thank you.

Excellent teaching. Thank you very much! I am learning a lot. God bless you and your family .

Thank you Bro Man. Blessings to you , American King and your Jamaican Queen.

Love your channelGodBless this message ...Beautiful message well executed !!!

This is gold for men also. When i listen i dont think of him saying this for me, think of what i need to be to have the queen of my dreams. these seminars work for both sides. For example, as a man after watching this, i understand that i should not even be chasing relationships and marriage and children without first FULLY establishing self, and then cultivating my own potential. only then can i love serve and cultivate the wife i was meant to have. These videos work for both sexes guys...just a matter of perspective. Thank you Pastor Blakes. its crazy how 30 minutes a day can begin to change the entire trajectory of your life.

I've listened to many of your teachings...this right here...this is profound!

Been watching your video's for a while now. Great advice! Keep up the good work and God bless

"You should Prove a Man BEFORE you Approve a Man!" perfectly stated..thank you so much for your wisdom..I am learning so much from your teachings

His teachings keeps us "awake" Thank you Sir

Dynamite information, King! Thank you sooooo much!⭐⭐⭐⭐

Thank you so much for your God given revelation Pastor Blakes. You are such a blessing to men and women who are seeking the face of God in matters of relationships. May God continue to bless your ministry and your family. Peace.

Thank you Pastor Blake's! God bless you! Powerful word of God! I was one of those women who married early and didn't know who I was. Now I know....who's I am. Praise Jesus! I'm going through a divorce...was married 24 years. I thank God that I will be free and focused on getting my life where Jesus wants me to be. I'm on top and going higher!

You have been a blessing to my life. Truely. I am learning and growing.

Wow, this video has helped me more than you will ever know! God bless you and your family, Pastor Blakes, Jr. I’m so grateful for you! There is LIFE in the Word!

RC Blakes you are a great messenger of God. You deliver God's word In a very digestible way. May God continue to BLESS YOUR FAMILY AND YOUR MINSTRY.

Been there, and done that. This is so true, I thank God FOR YOU AND YOUR WIFE WISDOM. I wish I knew; what I know now, I would have never gave myself so freely.

This is so good and very helpful 😊👍. Thank you!

Great message, I receive it and thank you very much. Amen 🙏🏽

This is Blessing me sooooo much this morning! Bless you Bishop Blakes!

Pastor Blake, this is great teaching! God right now has me in hiding and I am loving it. I am taking in this teaching everything and applying it to my life. I have made wrong choices in my past life and this time it will be a right choice because God is preparing me to do things right. Thank you so much! I liked when you said God will not send his man until he is qualify. New York

Great message.Needed this confirmation!

Praise God! Tremendous God-given insight on Adam. Now it makes more sense! The rest is fabulous as well.

Woowee! This is so good. God bless you Pastor!

I wish more priests and pastors would say it the way you did in this talk. Thank you and God bless you for all your work on this topic. This has been so helpful

Pastor Blakes this is one of the best, I mean the best sermon I have heard about this topic and believe me I have read many books watched many videos/Tv shows. I just wish somehow you could make this a cover for your conferences. This have taught me so much, but what is so remarkable about this video is that God answered my questions. I wonder do you really realize how many lives you are changing/saving.

Very Excellent word Pastor RC J BLAKES thanks you change my life forever.

This reminded me of my ex husband. This is good lesson. Thank you, Brother Blakes

I love, love, LOVE your teachings. Bless you Pastor! 🙏💕

“The form of a man”...where were you 8-9 years ago when I really needed to hear this 😔 I thank you for your teachings and I am going to make sure I applied it all for my next relationship/marriage if it is in God’s will!!! That’s another thing I grown to learn “God’s will” but that’s a nothing subject/video, lol!! Good bless you & your family ❤️

God bless you for your teachings. This message was graciously received!!!

On point as always Pastor! Blessings!

Real Talk! 💯 Excellent message! 💯

Wow Pastor R C Blakes, you are an amazing man of God.I have learned so much from you. I just thank God I ran across you on KZfaq. Thank you for your helpful information. I really feel like I know something now. My dad is a powerful retired Pastor/Preacher and we have a great relationship, he has many credentials across the board, but sometimes we need to hear more wisdom outside of our normal atmosphere!

Thank you for the massage I got it loud and clear perfectly well put... God bless you ☺👍👏

Thank you Pastor, Blessings to you and your beloved wife Liza. Happy Holidays.

Amen I am praying for a whole Godly man enjoyed you!

Dear Pastor Blakes, Thank you for all your sound advice, every single word you said is so true, I’ve been married to fan empty man for 34 years, he destroyed my life and the potential of my children, I’m trying to rebuild my life now, the children have done well despite the hardships. I hope to find a safe man and I’m taking in all your good advice. Thank you again and may God bless you and Lady Lisa🙏🏽

Pastor Blakes thank you so much for your teachings and wisdom. I am very grateful for them. God bless you always!