Shout out to you Kevin , after working on myself i learned how to avoid toxic woman. I finally found my FBI and as of today we are on the way to Bali for vacation 👍🏾

Femininity is our true power as women. It's sad that a lot of women don't realize this.

5 Red Flags 🚩 1. Cursing In Public 2. Poor Hygiene (Breath & Hands Smell) 3. Poor Diet 4. Financially Broke 5. Aggressive- Quick to Fight 6. Competitive with Men

For those who are interested... He starts to discuss the topic around 12 minutes FYI

My first instinct is to smile and keep it moving. I definitely don’t argue with men. I’m a quiet and gentle person by nature and I don’t not like confrontation .

This is helping me see how I’m naturally feminine but the women around me are so quick to tell me how weak I’m showing myself to be... THANK YOU!!

You can been feminine without a lot of money or expensive items. Poor behavior is unacceptable. Don’t knock people who cannot spend thousands on a purse.

He’s 100% accurate about the “Quick to square up” being a very subtle tell... how a woman responds to perceived aggression from a man lets you know she’ll put you in danger to feel emotionally satiated... self defense and self delusion signals should NOT be ignored fellas 💯

You’ve changed my perspective on profanity. Thank you ❤️

Having money has absolutely nothing to do with a woman being feminine

"The secret to being smart is knowing when to play dumb."

I feel severely flawed after watching this.. I want to be feminine so this is helping me learn more about myself.. I am from NY so this is hard. I've never met a real feminine woman here.

My daughter is so feminine at 13 and softly spoken and quiet and I tried to change her to 🤦‍♀️be more tough because she kept being bullied at school 😭So thank you Kevin for this, I have told her that she is a natural woman this way and never to change. I apologised x

I feel like being feminine is being replaced or confused with being provocative.

One thing you missed in if you can tell if a woman is truly feminine is how she interacts and talks about OTHER women. A fake feminine woman will say she’s feminine but will talk down on other women or dislike them over petty things. Real feminine women embrace and support other women without vitriol.

You’re pointing out many things I’ve experienced in life that pushed me away. Very well articulated.

Only 1 I disagree with is going to dollar store for my cleaning products-- I'm a professional but I also value my dollar & some of these dollar places have Clorox, Ajax ect

That’s so funny you said women pull in. 😂 my husband always backs in all the vehicles. You can tell who drove what car that day by the direction it’s facing in the driveway.

Great points here Kevin. There are times I thought there was a personality conflict between myself and certain women but in retrospect, we butted heads because they were in their masculine energy. I can sense some women fighting with themselves between the two energies, it's interesting to watch.

I don't drink when I'm out, I don't stay still closing time, I check exits, and I'm 6'9 and work out. It's no reason why I should be more safety conscience than our ladies. They be high and black out drunk and be surprised when it goes poorly.

I've thought about women who try to fight men, like are you serious THATS A MAN!! Stop playin girl!

I encourage women in my life to back in park for bug-out purposes. I’m not connecting masculinity with backing in at all.

If a man was yelling at me in the parking lot..if be scared..would leave quick..wouldn't say anything..

Women need to understand that femininity is just as if not more important than looks!

I lived in downtown Los Angeles for 4 years. the area has come up to the point it is considered a mini NY but its still a little rough. I hardened myself in order to avoid harassment after I was grabbed up by random man as I was walking down the street. I used my femininity to get the guy to let go of me. But after that I started carrying myself in a different way. This video was helpful in reminding me that I don’t have to harden myself all the time.

This channel has showed me how many women are masculine out there. Its more than I thought and it's alarming.

#2 Kevin, I would never try to physically fight a man, but I do carry because I've been assaulted at gunpoint before. 🤷🏻‍♀️

Femininity = Humility!

Great video, glad you address this topic. I used to get picked on or teased from women in my family and some friends because I was polite and proper. They used to call me stuck-up or thought I was better than them because I didn't cuss and act rachet. I agree too many of our women too quick to fly off the handle. Why not assess the situation first before going off.

My dad taught me to drive. I always parallel park and back my car in LOL. But then again these are generalizations 😊

Protecting myself is not my job it's my man or another representative of the Masculine to protect me. Haaaaaaaa...wonderful reminder Kevin! That was the gem right here!

I wish I learned this earlier in life. I turned 25 yesterday so I still have time to make finding feminine women a habit. The thing is if you are a naturally aggressive man you cannot deal with a woman who is always confrontational. You already have to deal with the bs of the world. Why would a man with his life together want to come home to chaos? Great video!

😂😂😂 at the parking comment. I went to Whiskey Mistress last week with a friend and we had a blast. At the end of the night, the guy I had been flirting with walked my friend and I outside to wait for our lyft. And as a disclaimer I am using the word friend loosely, well she ended up making comments about being from nyc and how she’s bout that life blah blah blah. How she don’t need no man to wait outside with her because she can take care of herself. I was so embarrassed 😩 I know her behavior reflects back on me. I have to distance myself from her because I think she became obnoxious because she didn’t have a guy showing her chilvarous (yep, I made up a word) attention. I made a rookie move and I know better. Her and I hang out occasionally but after last week I have to re-evaluate that association. Kevin can you talk about how keeping the wrong company will keep a woman single?

Hi Kevin, the Smiths Driving system teaches that Reversing in avoids accidents/incidents and allows a quick exit for women traveling alone. I reverse in wherever possible including in my garage. It’s the practical and safe thing to do. This is also reinforced every two years in industrial training. I work in the oil and energy sector.

“How you gone stop him?” Glad you asked... that heat baby! Period. You’re right she would have not been a proper match for a fight with a man. But that’s what that steel is for. No fight is needed!

I love how Kev fell down in Atl and set up shop like it was nothing. I know it took effort, but he made it look easy

The only way to train soldiers is through battle. - Winston Churchill

If education and her money doesn’t matter to a man with means why does it matter if she’s broke??

Lol, some of these pointers are hilarious. I never back my car in, I'm not even good at it.

You missed one...a girl that tries to GET YOU into fights

Growing up I seen my Mom be aggressive and independent, unfortunately I ended up like her. I was never submissive. It was my way or the highway. My son's father wanted to marry me, he's a respectable millionaire who would've gave me the world and instead of me doing as I should have, he got the blunt of my ignorance.( I walked away because I wasn't always in control.)😳 Looking back, it was my fault for being selfish. The past seven years I've been working on rewiring. I'm remarried now, and my husband is reaping the benefits. My life is full of joy and peace now. 💕

Thank you brother for these tidbits. They're very relevant and true! I'm 48 but I'm still learning from your channel!! Keep it going blackman! Peace and love from Chicago!

Lol. My dad taught me to drive. Backing in is a way of life.

I disagree about the the last one. A woman looking or acting weak just makes her a target for predators. Predators prey on on the weak. They typically won’t go after anyone who they think is gonna give them a run for their money. I’m not saying a woman should be quick to pop off. But if her life is being threatened she has every right to defend herself even if it mean using deadly force. You can be feminine without looking or acting weak.

How does enjoying a bargain? Mean she's less feminine. 🤔

Did this man just say if a woman backs her car in she’s masculine.... that’s just idiotic

I used to teach my ex to put her shoulders down, stop trying to compete with me, we're on two different levels, I don't compete with females... She never got it... I started to make preparations to leave after so much BS...

26:20 you probably scared the poor woman. Activated fight or flight

Ok my 3rd video! I love the realist views he is covering. I am 40, originally from the hood and moved to the suburbs where I was taught etiquette, grace and class. I am proud to say I have never in my life had to fight! I will work on my FBI even this late in life.

Kevin, you opened my eyes to a that i have and i didnt even know..i am quick to anger if a man says something that I dont like. Thank you for making me realise how masculine this is. I will work on keeping myself calm under pressure. Xx

This is great information. Thank you so much.

I am always sorry(1)-and it keeps me safe.

First instinct is to ignore, then go about my business.

My dad taught me to always back in for safety reasons, but it makes sense because a man taught me to do that.

I never heard that backing into a space is masculine. I was in my first and only car accident backing out of a parking space my second day having my license, so I always back in to lessen the risk of it happening again. I guess I will have to learn that adjustment.

I was raised by poor example of women on my moms side. Smoking, cursing, argumentative, loud and boisterous. I was picked on for being feminine and girly. I have kept my current date under wraps from them. It is like they secretly hate men. Dads side is more balanced.

Unfortunately, we live in an era of the feminine man. Gratefully, there are still a great amount of masculine men still out there. Most, men today don’t realize when he is being/acting feminine .

This man got me in here smelling my finger tips! 😭😭😭 I eat alot of curry and ginger.

I will not curse a man out in that parking situation.. but I’m not gonna say sorry for a parking space that was free to all. What am I sorry for.. who are you!?

My dad would always tell me not to curse. He really doesn’t like when women speak that way. I understand why. It’s so masculine. My friends would make fun of my for using alternative words lol.

Wait! So, I can't be professional, and be frugal about my cleaning products!?

These type of women get on my nerves the most.

I disagree. Backing a car in to park is a convenience, not a reflection of masculinity in women. I do it because I have a rear camera, so it's easier. 🤷🏽‍♀️

The “stare test” and parking observation is 💯% FACTUAL!!!! 🤣😂🤣😂

I love this guy! His giving me Game for free and his making me laugh.

THIS stuff is DEEP!! Mr. Samuels is going all-in on this one! These are damned near interrogation techniques!

I can't tell you how many women berate me for suggesting they not step to a man or talk crazy to man because you don't know who will actually take them up on a fight.

I don't understand why a man would aggressivly engage a women on a dark parking lot, for research purposes in the first place. That is not something that man should do. I certainly would have been trying to get away from a man who is approaching me on a dark parking. But being surprised that a physically weaker individual would try to scare off a predator is unfounded. Science flight or fight, people are hard wired for one or the other. When hiking and one encounters a black bear one is taught to stand up tall and make noise to try and ward off the treat. I heard alot of taking about women being stomped and otherwise physically assaulted and no rebuke for that type of behavior. May God heal your heart.

*"I don't need to why you stank"* 🤨🖐🏿

Question: Do masculine men augment their cursing around feminine women? I notice men who curse regularly when they socialize around me, they clean up their language. Some don't but they still don't do it as much in the conversation. Men should watch their language around feminine women as well. A man cursing alot is a turn off to feminine women as well.

I don't care about name brand clothing, but my cleaning products, hair care, skin care, perfume and make up have to be magic hahhaha

I would be afraid to confront a man at night in a parking situation. The juice isn’t worth the squeeze in that situation.

Red Flag tattoo across her chest, cat paw's, writing etc.

I love to hear a man’s perspective!

To answer your question: My first instinct is to avoid altercation, confrontations, tic for tac, needing to have the last word, and anywhere, anyone, or any job that put my safety in japordie. If it is to make money at night or during questionable hours and in questionable environments, I would rather teach English online to chinese in Hong Kong and eat dry bread... or enroll to one of those international programs and relocate to a village in Uganda. Both cases seem to be a better alternative than verbal / physical confrontations.🏃🏿‍♀️🏃🏿‍♀️🏃🏾‍♀️

Some things I agree with what you, but somethings seem a little materialistic.

In the words of the Immortal Honorable Patrice O'Neal: "Women don't respect the bicep."

Thank you Kevin. You are describing the Proverbs 31 woman. Stay strong.

Kevin Samuels Aka The Black James Bond 💯💯💯

Watching on the replay!! Great video Mr. Samuels thank you! 🌷

This is beyond silly. How can men define femininity but women can't define masculinity?!? Stop with the inconsistency

Thank you for your perspectives and those are great highlights. Number two is definitely a flag; when you take into consideration that we are mothers and must transfer healthy practices and good behaviors to our offsprings. Poor hygiene is detrimental. No-one should be comfortable with oneself to the point of neglecting the essentials of good hygiene. This is beyond finding a good man. It is also to keep your family on a right track.

Spot on point regarding cursing...the WORST...then loudness

Our subconscious has been bombarded with so much information I pray me and my sisters wake up to who we truly are ❤️

I agree. “let your adorning be the hidden person of the heart with the imperishable beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit, which in God's sight is very precious."

A lot of times, some black women have been through a lot. It doesn't matter if they can't beat a man, the instinct to protect yourself is strong when you've been through some things.

This was the old me. Getting drunk and being loud like it was cute.

Lmaoooo “you backing your car in cause you a dude.” I’m crying cause I’m guilty. It is what it is.

Don't forget cigarette and pot smoke smelling like also. Lol 😆 Gotta quit that to level up because those drag down any good hygiene attempt. PS. carry an unscented hand sanitizer gel and hand sanitizer wipes. When you can't get to a sink to wash your hands.

If a man tripping off laundry detergent I don’t need him...

1 OG you be preaching and women who are masculine hate to hear this type of stuff. It triggers them to the core

👏🏾👏🏾👍🏾 Bring back FEMININE WOMEN!!

So with the protection part. 1 comparing a woman in a parking lot by herself at night to a woman that is in a bar that not only came with 2 men but is in a bar filled with people its like you just want the black women to look bad. I don't know much on the white race but I do know as a black women and little black girl I was taught by my uncles and my 4 brothers of different ways to try and protect myself when alone. Now I must say when was 17 I wasn't the type to jump straight to fight I did try the smile and continue to walk away. Until the day I was raped by a man when I was leaving Walgreens after work. Most of the times people will pretend to be friendly to get close enough to harm you. They're not going to let you get to someone or call 911. Im no longer approachable at night in any parking lot when I'm alone. If you did this what you call "bark" thing to me I will get myself in position to protect myself. Because you are a stranger being aggressive with me for zero reasons. I have no idea of what you're trying to do or going to do. I can try to reach for my phone but you can easily knock that out my hands. Like you stated your a man and can over power me. So no going for my phone 1st when your already coming off as a person that may want to harm me is a no. knowing multiple ways to protect yourself like mace,teaser, knifes,a gun and even your keys can be what stops you from dying. Also acting crazy in that type of scenario was something they taught me also. Being loud draws attention to the situation it also gives you a little time to set up whatever defense you may have. If you were to attack. After the situation I went through canceling,group therapy and self defense classes. No a woman may not be able to over power you but she can scratch you to have your DNA under her nails so you can be caught. All this to say you put the black women at a disadvantage by putting her in a situation where she felt she had to protect herself ex in a parking lot by herself at night but you gave the white woman the advantage of being in a protected situation ex with 2men she came with in an public place where people are all around you.

My first instinct would likely be one of confusion. *Looks around nervously thinking I've made a mistake*, "AM I parked in his spot?" But I definitely wouldn't be looking to square up.

Jessica is 100% correct, "Femininity is true power for women."

28:58 making that my ringtone 😂😂😂

I have 2 channels and support you on both. Patreon on one. Soon to be on both. I don't need a wrench to support you bro. Respect is respect and the truth will always speak for itself.

So wait, saving money by buying ‘ affordable ‘ things is cheap and not feminine??? Okay 👍🏾

Well if a man says “ so you just gonna take my spot?” I’d think he was flirting because men say things like that all the time. I’d just laugh it off knowing that was a way for him to introduce himself in some corny way. I’m def not ready to fight..... that’s craziness.

I’ve been calling myself working on my femininity, other than the backing in of cars (a police officer told me I should always back in [he did say it’s for safety]), I’m more feminine than I thought. Thank you for this insight. My parents would be proud. Though I would like to add that guys tend to look at me as if I’ve lost my mind when I apologize. I had a guy say to me that he doesn’t know what I was apologizing for and I shouldn’t when I’m not actually sorry... but it was an honest mishap and I thought it was only right to apologize. I was confused by his anger.