Psychopaths are sneaky violent narcissits.

Sounds to me like he’s describing a narcissist which is exactly what my ex-husband is

She found me. I survived while other men in her past are not alive today

Most politicians. Not all but most.

You just described my neighbor. When I moved in a year ago I thought she was a Karen but it’s turned out to be much worse than that. Scared of her.

A pathological liar is someone who lies for their own personal gain. A compulsive liar is someone who lies about everything.

Also, they will always be having a drawn out argument with someone but never be able to explain why. This is because they are the cause of the argument but cannot admit it as they want to play the victim.

I had a woman neighbor like that . I eventually decided to move from her city not only neighborhood ! She was a phatalogical liar. Lied about everything . Hid all her past . All her past !!! Never ever agreed to tell where she lived before . She wanted to know everything about other people in order to use it against them , as she always did with a lot heavy exetarations /lies . If she had to pay some bills she was tearing everything she could & destroy everything she could , put garbage in front of your front door in order not to pay her Bill's. Many people left the building and moved to other cities because of her . She still leaving in that building and is carrying on going through life using and destroying everyone she can . She is so crafty , such a good liar and so manipulative that she succeeds in most cases . She has no conscious what so ever. The police never have enough proves to put there hands on her . In some cases the law isn't good enough. Sge is very macyavelisitic. She is frightening . No concetious , you are just a toy for her to be used as much as she can and if in order to achieve her ends she thinks it's better to destroy you , destroy your life . She will go for it with no hesitation. No second thoughts .Never any real feeling . Never feeling sorry or guilty for anything she did or does .

More red flags: -Something about them or a situations feels...off. Every once in a while things will feel...dark. You will feel like a mouse does being cornered by a cat. Sometimes they might play a "joke" such as hiding behind something and scaring the f out of you, or they might suddenly chase you for no reason. Scary situations. -Another is they might blatantly tell you, such as "You know, you really should stay away from me. I am not to be trusted." or "Yeah, my last ex barely made it out alive. Hee hee" These are times when they are ACTUALLY confessing how evil they are. -Different emotions or confusing actions. For example, you may notice them crying about something but then suddenly 5 minutes later they are fine, like they hadn't been crying at all, when normal people take muchhh longer to stop being emotional. Or if you and the psychopath and another person are talking at a cafe and then a big lie accidentally gets found out, the psychopath may go silent and then get up and leave, only to come back later and deny what just happened or say they "don't even know what you are talking about?? What lie??" They will say "I'm confused. I thought it was this this and this. Not that. You must have heard wrong." They will try to confuse you and you will feel confused.

My Dad who everyone really liked had enough traits that I think he was a psychopath-He was excessively abusive to me and my brother-he just beat my brother daily which he did me as well-but he tried to murder me multiple times when I was young. suffocation, drowning, driving me in front of cars. My grandma told mom “Richard is trying to kill Barbara.”. Mom immediately just told him she said that…but the car accidents stopped at least. The drowning attempts escalated until some man charged at him to make him let me up out of the death grip. I never was sure if the dud landed a punch or not as I was swimming away as fast as I could. But he was insidiously cruel to me every day. Psycho freak. He had my mom snowed until the day he died this year. She is still proud of him actually. If I was complaining to her about his abusive treatment of me she would always turn it around so that he was the victim. I was “dramatic.”

100% my ex and kids dad... and his charisma everyone falls for it without hesitation. He lies like it's a language he starts every conversation with a lie with new people to see how far they can go with lie with you immediatly and if you catch him he will contort what he was saying to mean something else. It's soo messed up when you watch some one do it and people just don't even see what he didm

Jim, you’re amazing. I thank you so much for your wonderful videos. They’re helpful to those who like me have dealt with at least one evil narcissist and psychopath. Thank you again, and may God bless you.

This is my ex..very vindictive...lied about everything!!!...very charming...very secretive about his past...but listened attentively to everything about my past only to use it against me later in therapy & conversations...holds grudges to later get revenge...very insecure...passive aggressive...took no accountability for anything he did wrong....gave false apologies...very emotionally withdrawn...lacked empathy...emotionally abusive...high strung...and manipulative

Like, lie, till the day you die. Deny,deny, till the day you die. A psychopath told me that.

The Inability To Put One's Feet In Another's Shoes! Definitely No Conscious!

All psychopaths and sociopaths are narcissists - its the baseline of the personality disorder and then it builds from there to psychopathy.

I have been the target for my sister in law. I moved an hour away, a small town. A few years later, she moved to the same town when I stoped speaking to her. She literally turned what I thought was friends against my children, husband, and I. This is a small community, I don’t understand how she was able to do that. These are people that I have known for more than 18 years! I thought they knew us. We bought a property 30 minutes away to build a house and get away from her and her children, as they also attack my children and I. I just found out she just bought a lot less than five minutes away from that same location. Nobody seems to understand nor see how she is literally following us! I still don’t understand how everything turns out so fine for her. I feel so helpless.

Chilling realisation that my late husband had all 5!!

Lol yep right here. When u have no family or friends life becomes a game of survival. I've done everything in the name of winning and survival.

That sounds like my narcissistic husband!!! I do not trust him at all.

identical twin sister, who is a narcissist and a psychopath I had noticed, even as we were as young as 9 and 10 years old, she enjoyed what would be machiavellianism, gaining pleasure from hurting others, causing others pain, embarrassing others. she punched a neighbor boy about our our age but in fact, a couple of years older in the face making his nose bleed and laughed about it. he ran away stating "my father told me I can't hit girls". some 40 years later after he was convicted of murder, shooting a man that he worked with in feigned self-defense, she commented, "I wonder if what I done to him made him do what he did". documentation from The Trial, the judge made several solid and clear statements pointing to him being a true narcissist.

Casual cruelty and elaborate disproportionate revenge plans?

Sounds like my ex. The type to piss the bed and blame the blanket or in his case murder his fiancee and blamed me for it. Yeah if i hadnt left him he wouldnt of met her or murdered her.. rip diane nichol

Often these red flags can go unnoticed...and can be totally deceptive

Thank you for helping me. I don't get how these people can stand themselves. You are helping so many people.

Damn you telling me my coworker is a psychopath? I just dismiss her as crazy.... She is four out of five of those things. Wow thanks for the information

And never never let on that you’re figuring them out. They will do absolutely anything to destroy you and end you if they think you have the ability to out them. And I mean anything.

Cruelty to pets especially if it causes slow painful death. I know two outwardly nice people like that and they are obvious criminal-class psychopaths.

Wow. I met someone that way. Needless to say it was a super short time spent together. I was gone FAST! LOL

That 100% sums up my brother. It takes a goid while to get over being brought up with a psychopath and not being protected from him by your parents. So sad that his now wife and her kids are suffering under him... if they are still together that is because once every so many months he is ready near the front door with his suitcase threatening to leave.

this is closer to sociopath honestly

True ! This happened in my life while I was involved with my former narcissist girlfriend at the time we probly had been together for 14 yrs a huge tree fell on our lake mobile home at 4 am on my grandsons bday in 2019 it destroyed the place but it fell ontop of her God was truly looking out four us I honestly though she would change after this nerdeath experience but she still kept attacking me. ! I finally got away from her over nine months ago Thank you

my current teenage son. pray for me 🙏🏻

Right to the point. I’d also add need to hurt others and then enjoying it, having an overdeveloped sense of self.

Dark Triad of shared traits in Cluster B disorders: Narcissism, Sociopathy and Psychopathy

They lie about everything & have NO empathy!

Excellent, mine for sure is psychopath as he is Narcissist and I found article he hide for 20 years Title Beyond Machiavelli. I lived with this man 27 years without knowing him. Now I know. Exit.

You just described my supervisor at my previous job.

My "uncle". I would be very surprised if he didn't have a body count on him. He died before forensics could catch up to him. He helped raise my mom. She had serious issues of her own.

I like this format. Lovely little garden too.

They try to get info for manipulation.

The way he keeps looking to the lower left makes me think hes reading what to say

Loved this!

These videos have helped me make crucial behavioral changes. Thank you.

Sounds like previous president

Indeed they want to know everything about your past while not speaking about their own life 😊😊😊

Omg...you described my narcissistic husband...he constantly hurts me every chance he can

When you look into their eyes and see no spark of light or life dead eyes like a shark's. Like all the lights are on but ain't nobody home, because nobody is home they have no Soul.

I love your garden ☺️💜✌🏽

Thank You! All of these red flags have been present in a suitor for the past 3 1/2 years. I am very grateful I am still alive!

This video is pointing at me ... and i dont even wanna kill or hurt anybody

He is describing the ex. Malignant narcissistic personality. I found out the hard way.

He just described my sister.

The main identifying trait I feel is a cold, scary lack of empathy or concern for others, people and animals….a complete lack of conscience. They are always malignant narcissists too which makes them VERY cold, calculating, violent people.

Sounds like my younger son, whom I no longer will have contact with

I've seen these traits in people usually only an individual trait rather than a cluster of them in one person ..does one of the traits still mean a possible psycopath?

I know so many people with these traits 😅

This sounds 100% like Narcissist! This is exactly what I dealt with 3 years ago and finally stopped about 6 months ago... I hope!

That all applies to my sister,, now I know where her bad behavior comes from,, she is a psychopath

Well, that gentleman doesn't seem too normal either😄, his eyes look is a bit scary

Watching this video I felt like I was being diagnosed

I thought my ex was malignant narcissistic personality disorder..he's actually a psychopath. Favorite saying was the end justifies the means.. I had to tell him who Machiavelli was.

I got $5,000 and I got a new house for me and my daughter thinking that I could out love anything that was wrong with her. the day after we moved in, she got drunk. she didn't like what I had to say about that and beat me up pretty bad. I had barricaded myself in my room. she called the police and said I tried to stab her with an eyebrow razor. she was cold and calculating and they believed her. I lost everything. Everything. I'm facing 15 years for this. I was crying and my 16 year old step son said to me, "you know she's a psychopath, right?" I started to laugh when I happened to look up at him. The smile faded from my face really quickly. He was serious. He meant it, and he meant to point out my obvious denial. The moment we locked eyes, my heart dropped. She doesn't love me or anyone else. Please, if you're a parent of a psychopath, sociopath, or form of narcissist, don't make the same mistake I did. You cannot fix them, they are not fixable and you will be little more than a martyr in your own life story. I lost 60lbs from the stress. I don't eat much bc I'm physically sick over this, and when I do, it comes back up, gross sorry, just trying to highlight the severity of the effects this has had on me. In addition, most of my hair has fallen out or is broken. I really had catatonic depression. It got so bad that I was calling the suicide hotline nightly. It was all I could do, everything I did felt like I was moving through quicksand. I remember vividly that I would cry if I had to do the smallest thing. Just realizing that I was going to have to use the restroom would bring me to tears bc it was physically exhausting. Again, you cannot fix this. It doesn't matter if you love or hate that person, your feelings are irrelevant here. I eventually had to be hospitalized. I have lupus and the bumps where she was pummeling me with punches got super inflammed and it took multiple rounds of IV steroids and other meds to get control before the inflammation spread down my spinal cord and throughout my joints and body. I loved my daughter. Past tense. She destroyed everything and the person who you are struggling with will do the same. Unless that person is engaged in an intensive multi- pronged therapy program, and you're seeing tangible, permanent progress, RUN. No person is worth your life or your liberty. Both of which are at stake if you decide to keep messing with these types. Don't be stupid. Don't be me, it could cost you everything. Her and her two boyfriends (they are poly) ruined the house & never paid the rent. I'm in over 17k dollars of damage and an eviction on the place. I was there less than 24 hours. My life is in utter shambles and abject poverty does not accurately describe the suffering she has caused financially and otherwise. Protect yourself at all times friends!❤️Please. At the very least, I'm begging you to do some research about these "dark triad" personality disorders. Educate yourself so you know exactly what is going on and cannot be gaslit or emotionally manipulated. A good therapist is integral for anyone who has regular interactions with people like this. Often, these people know exactly which words and actions are going to make you lose your sh*t and a good therapist can teach us how to have good boundaries and good self esteem to combat the negativity.

Yep I was with one. He has all these traits.

😮😊 well I'm learning to understand the terminology now and oh my God I've wasted so much of my life dealing with these kind of people thinking I could help them in some way all along not understanding the character assassination

I know a person like this for REAL.😢

Aww I love this guy ❤ subscribed I look forward to seeing more of him.

Good to know! Thanks for this info!😊

Well said, best description about yourself thru experience

Nailed it 💯 Jim!

The red flags you say is basically a shortened biography of mine 😂. But yeah, I am a psychopath. Many of my family, employees, neighbor love me, but I do not give anF to any of them at all.

Sometimes I talk about my childhood but not a lot cuz my mother doesn't pay attention to me

Paranoia is one, speaking bad about cops too or making justifications for someones crime....laughing at your pain ridiculing you if you are hurt those too, thats coldness i think

My father...😢

The final thing you were saying was cut off.

He’s talking about Herschel Walker

Bro basically just described me😂 The only difference is I don’t lie about little things, it makes it easier to lie about big things.

They talk about how wonderful they are, wack conversations which are inappropriate, want to know everything about you, but won't tell you anything about themselves, will lie on you, and say you want them, and you get a sick feeling whenever they talk to you.

Can a narcissist also be a psychopath?

Sounds exactly like my sister.

Thank you ❤️

pathological lying is funny as hell cmon

Preying on you, being on top of you, taking such position above you. Trying to find your buttons, pressing the buttons. Inflicting pain. You not trusting the person to be safe.

My dad is like this

End of video is cut off. Same for some of your other videos.

This describes me😭😭😭

💯💯💯💯 and they have never been single you die they will be in another relationship within a week

True, thank you

Condensing years of learning in a YT Short is really professional...

Lack of empathy or feelings of guilt or shame

That's sounds very confusing to me, all that things are also narcissist traits, so please anyone explain what's the difference? Thanks.

Right at the end his thought pattern got cut off. What are they looking for by inquiring about you?

Hey Jim…what if I can’t spell machivilinism ..am I a ciclepath ?

Wow that’s my ex girlfriend to a tee. Was aware she was a narcissist when I broke up w her but she also had every single of these traits - and very strongly so! So happy I got away from that crazy experience 🤡🎪

So are all narcs one then? Because mine was. And he liked inflicting pain.

That sound exactly what my brother is going right now:)...destroying my life and still thinking that he is doing it right :)

How would this not be sociopathic? Doctors, lawyers, politicians..etc

Also if a person tortures or kills animals that is a sign of them being a serial killer or psychopath

*WHOA!!! He just described my wasband 💯%!!! 😮 This TOTALLY explains so MUCH!!!*

What coloring book did you get these “signs” from?