Asking God about this person BEFORE entering into a relationship. Not every Christian person is suited to be with you. The Lord knows best and taking it up in prayer is definitely the best choice.

The signs 1.If the relationship is helping and hurting your relationship with God 2. If you feel closer to God when you're with that person. Basically When you're with someone god bless you to be with ! 3.when you feel free to be yourself and not pressure to be someone you're not! 4.if the relationship is stretching you in healthy ways 5.if you can see a healthy future /ministry with that person

YT family. I have found a Godly women who checks all of these boxes. Please pray for us to keep doing Gods work and keep building a love built on Christ! Her name is Gabriella and my name is Stephen. Love you all!!!

LOL Everytime I watch I'm like "CONFIRMATION"!!!

Feel like these signs can also apply to Christian friendships

Deep joy and deep peace in a relationship that i can openly talk about my love for jesus is what i pray i hope i find. Good tips

Believers should be equally yoked with believers!! Not non-believers!!

Both my girlfriend and I got 5/5 on this! Wow moment! That being said we will still continue to trust God's leading in our relationship. I believe this is really good advice though! Blessed by your channel!

I’m 36 yet I feel so disappointed in myself. 😞 I’m just starting to walk with Jesus and I feel like I’m here walking alone. I am talking to someone online that seems to be a follower of Jesus but because of a lot of bad relationships I feel like I have to hide a lot about myself when I really just want to tell the person this is who I am, this is what I want and I want to include Jesus in every conversation. I spent 6 years in a relationship and it made it so much harder to connect with God. I’ve also let God know that I want to get married, have kids, be a missionary, help out my community, join a church, etc.

Being older I am very cautious. I have been alone for a long time. I am independent and I have no problem with a potential partner being the same. I refuse to be controlled and manipulated. Everyone including Christians need to watch out for this. Don't want anyone to go through what I did.

Thank you brother, I've felt the Holy Spirit spoke to me thru you. God bless you.

Really wise words! Your videos have been helping me especially now that I’m getting to closer to my good friend from church, and our friendship is leading up to be more than just a friendship, like you said in this video I feel a great peace when I pray about him to God.☺️ And through your videos I have come to understand what it is to be in a Christian relationship and putting God first above all else. So thank you for talking about these subjects! Please continue to make more!

Amen to point 5... The most amazing thing that a person seek a partner supporting a full time ministry ... Cause at the end of the day it's the great commission of Matthew 28 we are to keep.. :)

I receive this message! OMG #4&5 yes !🙌🏾

Nice job!!! Iam 18. Never been in a relationship. (Mostly becouse i knew i wasnt ready for this) But God has called me to be an overseas missionary. So I wonder if i will ever get married due to the difficulty of my calling. But i keep what you say in my heart just in case. Thanks

Thank you for the confirmation. I really enjoyed this.

I enjoy your practical application of God's word. You have a gifting in translating God's word/concepts in the bible in a relatable way that makes it easy to practice.

Amazing how on point these videos are! Holy Spirit inspired! Bless you, Mark!

This was a really good and helpful video! Thank you for making these kinds of videos - your channel is really encouraging, and I am blessed to have found this on KZfaq. God bless you!

Very good! Glory to God!

Brilliant video Mark. You always have a more spiritual insight into the ACTUAL scripture as opposed to dogmatic literal interpretation. Amazing stuff. Like all your videos.

Mmmmm that was a real good point you made. When you said sometimes we feel that it will be easy when it is God.

Excellent guide to follow, whether you are wanting to meet someone or are already getting to know that person.

Hehe I bought the book 👌🏾 Literally waited to finish all my assignments for the year (finish today) so I can read. Thanks Mark, GOD bless you!

Wise words. and teaching. Thank you Brother Mark..💒

Such a blessing to hear this message. Thank you.

Very good brother, your a wise young man! Unfortunately I got 5 crosses plus many more, I made a very big mistake marriaging my wife, I was a young Christian and believed God was steering me towards her, now after 7+ year of praying and trying to make it work.... I can now look back and see that God was trying to steer me away! Moved way to fast if only I was more patient and mature in my walk and waited I would have seen she wasn’t for me! Move slowly take your time let God show you! Lesson learnt thank you Jesus.... forgive me ☺️ Blessings!😊

Thank you - God is putting us through something. The best I can figure is it’s our time of discernment. May God continue to bless you and your ministry

Thoroughly enjoyed this.I video as it reflects my current relationship. Point by point.

Amen!!!!!! So true..u wud want to be wd someone who wud challenge you

Always good advice. Thank you.

He speaks truth , amazing God Bless...

This video was really helpful. Thank you!

you know when is the right person, becouse every pain every hurting.. disappear with that person.. (it May be the same person who has hurt you the most in the past) THAT'S THE ONE FOR YOU (the more the devil want to. separate the more he attacks, temptation.. humiliation.. just name them) THE MORE HE ATTACKS THE MORE YOUR DESIRE FOR THIS PERSON!! (the more you hate your enemy.. the more you crazy love him🔥)

God bless you Mark 🙏

Thanks a lot very good. Blessing to you and your family.

Wow! So true....God bless you Mark

Extremely helpful and clear.

Wow.. awesome video. Thank you for sharing

Hello Mark I would love to thank you for this video according to Christian teaching we are taught to pray for partners n been praying for a partner n the qualities I want in my future husband. And here comes a guy he z interested in me n wants marriage so I tell him u know the Christian ways to pray to God to give us confirmations or signs to prove whether we r meant for each other or it's God's will for us to be together. We have been having prayer and fasting about us but God is not speaking anything to both of us. So the time I was interacting with him I liked him and fell in love with him so we are in a relationship n courtship the time I have been with him he has all the qualities I wanted in my future husband I feel at peace and comfortable with or around him. Infact Wat u said in your video I see them too cause he loves God we pray together he encourages me spiritually he rebukes he supports ministries within me I feel it that he is the right man for me my instincts tells me he is my husband but the problem he wants God to speak to me or him whether in a dream vision or hear his voice he wants us to do God's will but not our own will. So Wat advice do u give me I need a counseling about this cause he truely loves me and I love him too but God hasn't spoken to us yet please need help Thanks God bless you as you help me

Your videos are great.. countless blessings Im on it. Thank you

Mark, I Love your Channel and you are doing an Amazing work!

Excellent and helpfully video.May God continue blessings you in different ways.

Another amazing vid, Mark. Thank you.

Amén. I praise the LORD 🙏.

Awesome!!! thank You so much

Blessed Guy indeed keep up God bless you

I’m So bless in this video 🙏🏼

Another great one, brother. By no means an all-inclusive "litmus test" (is there such a thing? lol), but it does stress 5 of the most important, Biblically-sound, and practical connection points and fruit indicators! If these 5 are there, it's very likely the other things will be falling into place as the Lord leads and the two people grow together. Likewise, if these aren't present, the other things won't make much difference in living out a relationship that truly honors God and is to be: spiritually, emotionally, and psychologically healthy for both people involved. God Bless!

lol @ my age I'm not looking just to date. #5 is the key one for me. My last 2 realtionship , 1 from church definitely bought me closer to God - I was on my knees more. But I knew in my heart that how is this You God? Now I am going forward what God has called me to do not look for her. When God is ready He will send her into my life

I see some good signs about This girl I’m dating right now! I know me and her are 19 so we have a lot of time and I already see good things we want to start dating this January possibly but not taking it to far having Boundaries set in place me and her love the lord and this could be a door opening moment

I like that you offer reasonable advice as well as you have a clear understanding of the entire Bible. Impressive

It’s helping Feel peaceful

My relationship is bad I'm sad because I feel like I can't serve God for him I mean he is not helping me come closer to God 🙏 I feel like he is a hindering spirit and a blocking spirit

I started dating my bf about two years ago. We have had many hard times and he exposed my unhealed wounds challenging me to face them head on. Hope it’s a good sign for us.💗🌸💞🦋

Good video, God bless you more.

I’m 17 and have been dating the same girl for the past three -ish- years. It can be difficult at times to know just how serious to take our relationship. We’re both working on finding work, I’m working on getting my license, and we’re still only 17. But at the same time, we’ve known each other for practically our entire lives, we go on mission trips with each other (and our youth group) every summer, we both love God, and we can definitely see an awesome future together. She’s expressed that she’s eager to support me in whatever God’s called me to do, I plan on going into Deaf ministry, becoming a licensed interpreter, and getting teaching credentials. She’s strong in her faith and has a amazing love for the Lord. My worry is that I’m still uncertain if this is what I need to be doing or that I’m just worrying too much. Your video about making sure your intimacy levels are the same as your comment levels raised quite a few questions for me. Namely, what’s a good way to know how committed you are to a person? What’s a good way to tell?

Thanks for this teaching!

Thank you so much for your Video. It helped me a lot. ☺

Enjoyed this thank you

This helps alot thanks for this ❤️

Another great video thank you so much 😇

Thank you sir for this video, it reminds me a lot!

Love this channel so much help and facts ❤️

Aaaaaaaamen, Love this video❤❤

I know you talked briefly about how difficult times in a relationship does not always mean that it's the wrong relationship. Can you maybe make a video that goes more in depth about this topic and about your personal experiences? What were the challenges that you had to go through and how you and Bethany overcame them? I know a big issue for me is that at the first sight of a problem/conflict, my immediate reaction/response is to run and not work through it because it's too hard. I base it a lot off of feelings and not logic. Meaning, I believe I'm in the wrong relationship because it's not easy at all times. I would like to hear and understand how to better cope with this, if possible. Thank you!

Thanks for this

recently i met a woman that was christian and u believe in god and I'm not religous necessarily but i have christian values of course raised that way and she is almost 27 I'm 19 I'm a virgin i never looked for love but then one day i just met her she wasn't what i expected i have become a better person we tried to be just friends I'm an ambivert and she is an introvert and i tried texting her that was a first asking her if she had feelings cause she definitely was she showed it but she said she found me funny and interesting and she said she was seeing someone and i said good to know she asked if i want to be friends i said i try to be friends with everybody we both have a bad past and what pushed us away was the fear that we were being manipulated i told her I'm scared she was manipulating me and she showed her fear that i was manipulating her we are still nice to each other but this experience i told her to keep her distance and we both need time this experience has helped me grow me and her are so alike yet so distant because we were both scared of love i am more honest and straightforward but I'm not as physically loving as i used to be this feeling of love truly wanting to be with her she said you can't force a conversation and i said you can't resist it either i told her I'm not leaving you you will have to push me away and we tore down walls that we both had she was more physically loving and compassionate i believe as in she is more willing of intimacy in the physical sense while i am more open to intimacy in the physical sense i found myself continuing to ask where is this going are we friends she is hinting at dates etc. but when we stopped and blocked each other we said no hard feelings but i did confess my feelings for her she never did exactly confess her feelings she didn't want to open up we were using each other's lingo finishing each other's sentences when we just met it was a few days and I can't help but ever since i met this female she is the most beautiful girl ever to me when before that would not have been the case ever since she choose to sit close to me and be so nice too me i even said she was to nice she brought out this lovey dovey side in me this love side in me again she didn't want to talk about her past i usually speak what's on my mind i try to be be grateful for challenges in life but i know this is no coincidence that we met we met to tear down each other's walls that were guarding our hearts i have come closer to god and in this season of waiting i am at peace i will do my best i know the next opportunity i get to make up and say hey we both were pretty insecure and just let it go from there the devil was keeping us from love scaring us away i believe i told her I'm not in your league i will make you in my leage she understood but then i backpedaled and said i can live without you i don't plan to pursue these feelings it just happened but we got into arguments over the dumbest things we have let our fear consume us but in two weeks at least i will see her again if god wants it to be so that moment i will know my move

This is a very good advice esp fr introverted like me. Tell us how to find the one for an introvert person too who is strong in his relationship with God./ a good christian. Esp like in my circle..a christian guy quite hard to make move on us although we have some the chemistry. When both people are too scared to make move it hurts and sometimes we just ignored it. And one im too confused also they keep asking God whether are /thatperson is the chosen one God choose for him or her. Thats what i feel is happening in my churchcircle including among the young adults😧

God I pray you reveal who you want me to marry in who is going to be that man that's I"m meant to be with 🙏🏼💛

You're awesome!!!

Amen Amen!

God Bless

I really like you said with #5 and still like to grow in this issue and since I'm 40 years old and I still need help with this what should I do as a Christian man like myself with a disability

I know now and I agree with all of the signs i know the man i want in my life and I can choose him based off what kinds of things will he do that helps me grow or is stretching me in Healthy ways

Lol. Def a LOT of growing pains. We shall see. So far so good-but def the pains of growth. 🤔

thank you

Wow sounds like me and my friend we argue like a married couple wow 😯 this is really interesting...

Thanks GOD am in right Christian relationship

And here goes Mark on time!

🙏“Padre, sé que he violado tus leyes y mis pecados me han separado de ti. Realmente lo siento, y ahora quiero alejarme de mi vida pecaminosa pasada hacia ti. Perdóname y ayúdame a evitar volver a pecar. Creo que su hijo, Jesucristo, murió por mis pecados, resucitó de entre los muertos, está vivo y escucha mi oración. Invito a Jesús a convertirse en el Señor de mi vida, a gobernar y reinar en mi corazón desde este día en adelante. Por favor envía tu Espíritu Santo para ayudarme a obedecerte y hacer tu voluntad por el resto de mi vida. En el nombre de Jesús oro, Amén "

All of the things said here apply to the one that I love. Thank God & please forgive me, I’m sorry it took me a while to get it 🙏🙏🙏

Yes i can see the signs

Watch and listen for their desire for God. Are they really seeking God? Do they love Jesus? Do they want to live a godly life? Do they have a relationship with Jesus Christ?

So, im getting to know someone, he is christian and we've been talking/ getting to know each other for like 3 months and for many reasons i feel like he is "the one" God has for me (but im not sure), but he has some insecurities about not been succesful and not been able to provide like a good future for us if this gets any farther, cause he isnt studying at college and at his work he doesnt win enough, so he thinks he is a failure, and now those insecurities are getting to me as well, of having a future, a family, being able to provide to them and all those things... and i dont even know what to do😪

CONFORMATION!!!!!

When watching some of ur videos I feel am in right relationship..but this one am confused ..whether to think of immediate future or not ..bcz in immediate future we will be seperated by distance in terms of our job..hope we could immensely love our Jesus with each other ...thanks for ur guidance

Thank you always for the work you put into the ministry God has called you to do. What if she believes that women can preach and lead over men and I disagree with her on that? I dont wanna start an argument on wether or not a woman should preach and lead in church. Rather that we have that essential disagreement even if I am wrong and she is right about it. The question is, is it God's will even with this type of disagreement? is the yoke truly equal? thanks God Bless

I feel so happy when I'm alone and not around him he is do toxic and crazy

very good Mark! i need to checkout ur book the one. i think i need a wife that wants to be ready for the end times with me.

Praise the lord brother!! Is it not healthy relationship if she wants to be a missionary and I am still studying hospitality but I told where you go I will go and support you and I will always support you no matter what the situation is!! But she does not really want to continue this relationship because she has a calling to be a missionary and I am not!!

How do you deal with cultural differences when the person God has for you comes from a different culture than yours????

There’s one person who fits all of these to a T but he hasn’t actually pursued me yet

If you’re a practicing of prayer, reading of the Bible and a fasting Christian you’re sensitive to the Holy Spirit and can sense when GOD is speaking to you otherwise you’ll be confused by the lukewarm fleshy Christians and. Ant see the blessing HE has for you as dating/marrying your future other half!!!!!!!

How to get the book? I love this by the way

What should we do if the relationship is all opposite of what you mentioned?

Please brother Mark , can you give me the link to get this book. Thank you

I don't need someone to help me get closer to God but sometimes I get tired and need help but he is talking me away from good I'm do mad at myself he is the 😈

Mark what if that man or woman that you might be dating has a positive view and are willing to hear or more than willing to pray at dinner or are very open to it..willing to know more

Please pray for me I feel I'm not sure I'm in the right relationship