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5 Simple Decluttering Habits For a Well-Edited Closet

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Alyssa Beltempo

Alyssa Beltempo

Күн бұрын

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Today I'm sharing 5 easy and simple decluttering habits that will actually lead to an edited closet. These simple wardrobe decluttering tips will help to find your personal style and maximize the clothes you already own!
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On this channel, I share #slowfashion​​​​​ and #sustainablefashion​​​​​ tips that center around how to #shopyourcloset, and restyling pieces you already own. I also spotlight brands that I believe in every now and then. I believe in #creativityoverconsumption​​​​​, and that we all have the power to be conscious consumers.
Slow fashion looks different for everyone, and I'm so grateful you share this space with me!
Alyssa
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@user-xh1wu9iw6h
@user-xh1wu9iw6h Ай бұрын
I have lived a long time (72yrs) loving clothes! I sorely regret getting rid of clothes bought during my 20's and 30's as they were either vintage from the 30's 40's made out of exceptional fabrics or from designers who became iconic (Mary Quant, Biba, Ossie Clark). Luckily, I held on to a couple of YSL pieces from the 70's. I never imagined that quality fabrics would become a rarity otherwise I would have kept everything I owned and had them re-purposed! With that in mind, I no longer get rid of anything that is well crafted in beautiful fabrics. If one day I want to wear them again, I reckon that I can re-purpose. Also, if I come across a beautiful piece that I fall in love with, I buy it! What I love has always fitted into my wardrobe. My style is classic with a twist, so the love bombs are often the "twist" that keeps on giving. I would say that having a wardrobe that fits your lifestyle is key. Now retired, living in a seaside location, I need lovely sleep and home wear. Great summer and beach outfits, in addition to a couple of capsule wardrobes to cover spring, autumn, winter in european cities. Your video has been great food for thought. Thank you so much for you continual inspiration!!
@cltinturkey
@cltinturkey 9 күн бұрын
I'm glad you kept some treasures from the past and have a keen eye when you find others. These are wise words, and I imagine you are beautifully and uniquely well-dressed. Brava!
@melindaferreira9879
@melindaferreira9879 Ай бұрын
Oh my gosh.. im pausing because... Thank you!! Ive strugggled to edit my black pencil skirts.. i have multiples.. but they are in various lengths, weights, fabrics, slightly variated.. and i love them! They are my favorite wardrobe item!! Ive decluttered a few but have regretted it.. i keep adding them when i find them.. i also have multiple striped button downs but they are all different!!! Ive decluttered them as well and tegret it because i wear/ wore them but because ive watched so many edit your closet videos i started to believe i shouldnt have so many.. anyway.. yes! Who is the internet to tell me i have too many!! Thanks Alyssa!
@AlyssaBeltempo
@AlyssaBeltempo Ай бұрын
aw i'm so glad this was helpful to you xx
@marilyndoering2501
@marilyndoering2501 Ай бұрын
Yes, for me it’s black pants! I have many, each a different style, shape, fabric and I wear them all the time in different outfits and for varied occasions. I just declutter those that no longer fit.
@conniepleasantnails
@conniepleasantnails Ай бұрын
My self-soothers…food, makeup, costume jewelry, shoes, clothes. I have not yet mastered the balance with food. It has taken me years (about 5years) to learn my way through decluttering my wardrobe. I have made many mistakes and learned from them. I like blue, so my closet has tons of blue in it and I don’t feel bad about it. I just find the shades of blue I think look best on me and that goes for any color I add in. Do I look at makeup, jewelry, shoes and clothes anyway. Of course but I have become so good at finding the right fit I now rarely donate or give away anything. I am at the last stages of selecting all my handbags (adding at least 2 more) and that feels really good. I donated a small black bag and a small red bag and realized I need bigger versions of these two colors. ❤ I am now going to work on using your tips when adding food into my day…asking the why. 😔 Thank you, your tips go beyond the wardrobe whether you realize it or not. ❤❤❤❤❤ 😊
@seriouslyinsanediva
@seriouslyinsanediva Ай бұрын
Same here with black skirts. Though this summer, I've managed to declutter one because the lycra is gone. 😊
@rosethorn0232
@rosethorn0232 Ай бұрын
Yes! It kind of drives me nuts to see some youtubers say you don't need multiples of stuff like...basic white or black t-shirts, or a white button down, or jeans. Girl WHAT? If those are staple items that you wear as a base piece in your wardrobe all the time, why wouldn't you have multiples?! If it's something you know you wear constantly, multiples are actually a good thing!
@allthingswavy6420
@allthingswavy6420 Ай бұрын
As an actual life-long writing editor, culling a closet is EXACTLY the same: focusing the 'main idea,' removing 'unnecessary wording,' streamlining. It's all about streamlining and a clear focus. AND, as with one's writing, there is most often an emotional element involved, why we don't want to let go of wording, phrasing, or an idea that 'doesn't fit' with the 'whole'. What an excellent analogy you've offered! ❤
@AlyssaBeltempo
@AlyssaBeltempo Ай бұрын
thank you for this :)
@Dittygirl89
@Dittygirl89 Ай бұрын
I own multiples of the exact same pieces sometimes. Not different colours even. Exact same duplicates. And I love it, because those are my favourites and this makes them last longer and I can wear the same style more often. I don't regret it :)
@tplayspiano
@tplayspiano 20 күн бұрын
Thank you. I cannot relate to your videos very often because I’m not a minimalist. This one however, made a lot of practical sense to me. Thank you.
@cristinapiano6190
@cristinapiano6190 Ай бұрын
I do agree. HOWEVER i have pieces that i might not wearfor a season or two and then i go back and pick them up again. That said i never ever ever worry About saying goodbuy to clothes i dont like anymore. They just go🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
@sparklie962
@sparklie962 Ай бұрын
Another consideration is the remorseless race to the quality bottom. I rehomed a number of pieces during the pandemic that I wish now that I'd just taken to the tailor for a style refresh. I'd thought so blithely "oh I'll just buy a new one that's more current," but when we were free to mingle in public again - I was shocked by how crap the quality of literally everything had gotten. Synthetic winter coats that won't keep you warm or dry; things now unlined that need to be lined to be durable and hang right; silk pieces with shoddy overlocked seams already fraying etc etc. Long story short: if the main reason you're editing is that something isn't "in style" maybe put it in storage for a season or two. Can it be tailored? Once the piece is gone, it's gone and you may not be able to replace it with something you can really live with.
@katrussell6819
@katrussell6819 Ай бұрын
I keep a bag for donations of things that I want to give to someone who needs them. It feels good to release pieces of clothing or other items that I don't use. The stuff goes to a Free Store that helps refugees and other folks who really need these things. No guilt. Just a sense of helping others.
@canukmrsben
@canukmrsben Ай бұрын
Another source one can consider donating to is a woman's shelter that even appreciate (gently used) undergarments.
@justinebarton2931
@justinebarton2931 11 күн бұрын
My black blazer collection: A thick heavy wool blend for winter a black faux leather blazer a bog standard midweight (polyester) blazer - mostly worn for funerals a tweedy black blazer - mostly worn for evenings in the winter a black linen blazer for summer, especially good for travelling in as it's lightweight and doesn't show the dirt! All serve a different purpose.
@zandra7966
@zandra7966 Ай бұрын
I have a blouse that I really love but always wore it a certain way. This year I have lost a LOT of weight and the only clothing that fit were my socks! I had to declutter and purchase new things. I kept the old blouse because it’s an easy alter to bring the size down and knowing this I kept on reaching for it to see if it would work with the new size me. Each time it would go back into the hold section, I was stuck. I was surfing youtube looking putting outfits together and saw a similar blouse styled a way I hadn’t considered with trousers I have in my closet. My beautiful altered blouse has lovely old memories and new ones. I get compliments on my new blouse and no one realises it’s my old blouse because of how I style it. So if you are having a hard time integrating an item do a search of how others are wearing it. Thank you for your videos ❤
@kingafrankiewicz374
@kingafrankiewicz374 Ай бұрын
In my closet and in my life I always use this "algorithm": 1. start bold (like get rid of all the clothes you don't like) and then 2. improve it day by day, consciously To do that: Understand where you're heading. Learn from your mistakes (or others mistakes), take time to have some reflection. There is this philosophy Kaizen, take small steps to improve. I have the feeling either you know it Alyssa or just reinvented it (this is me also: I find out what I was doing was described 😊) Love ❤
@kingafrankiewicz374
@kingafrankiewicz374 Ай бұрын
And... It I don't feel like bold I run something like "first try", to get to know what next
@leashgang1
@leashgang1 Ай бұрын
On shopping to self soothe: after experiencing my first earthquake in San Jose CR, I immediately went out and bought 3 pairs of shoes!
@donnajones542
@donnajones542 Ай бұрын
Thank you for posting. Guilt and shame about letting things go, about money spent on this you do not use or wear can become such huge obstacles to overcome and become so overwhelming that you just turn away from the closet clutter. Learning to accept yourself, to admit the money is already spent and that it's OK to let go are all such wonderful tools in the battle between mind over matter....Thank you for these positive reminders!
@lorisalvatore9103
@lorisalvatore9103 Ай бұрын
Love your message here. A well-edited closet does take time but is so worth the effort. My closet now feels like a boutique and brings me joy instead of anxiety. Thank you so much, Alyssa!
@minnesotamiki
@minnesotamiki Ай бұрын
Consistency, intentionality & reflection are great for editing our closets… and our lives! Also enjoy being part of the Studio Community… love your white blouse, too!😉
@AlyssaBeltempo
@AlyssaBeltempo Ай бұрын
Thank you for being part of the community Miki! You said it so well! xx
@stephaniehinds1481
@stephaniehinds1481 Ай бұрын
Instead of the black blazer that you used as an example, I have 4 faux leather black jackets which might sound excessive, but they each have different proportions and are unique. I enjoy each of them. I enjoy your videos on editing and elements of style.❤
@user-rn4je4ct5u
@user-rn4je4ct5u Ай бұрын
I think denim jackets are similar. I have different washes, lengths, vibes, etc and I reach for them often. I rarely remove one from my closet unless I find I never reach for it.
@ginkodragon
@ginkodragon Ай бұрын
I can relate! I love jackets and coats! I have several black faux and real leather jackets. They are all different and I love them all! I look forward to cooler days when I can wear my jackets or coats! I was thinking that maybe I needed to get rid of some of them, but they are all different, weights, lengths, styles and functions. I love that I can throw a jacket and/or coat over something simple and change the look! Thank you for the validation.
@bastelkiste2242
@bastelkiste2242 Ай бұрын
I really like the idea of being the editor of my closet
@dorotaazzopardi8718
@dorotaazzopardi8718 Ай бұрын
Today you helped me make a number of difficult decisions - I ended up parting with trousers and skirts, which I was keeping “just in case they will fit one day” and I feel lighter. 😅 My friend who will potentially like at least some of these, will be glad, and so will the environment 😊I also tried on some styling options and I found a few new and fresh ideas when shopping my own closet! You are an inspiration. Thank you, Alyssa😊
@AlyssaBeltempo
@AlyssaBeltempo Ай бұрын
Wow thank you for sharing:) grateful to be a part of it dx
@elfriedeschmidt4033
@elfriedeschmidt4033 Ай бұрын
This video is just what I needed after listening to your excellent podcast SUSTAIN THIS of April 23rd titled “Is it a “fit” or is it just Pinterest? Why your outfits never look like the inspo photo”. I’ve been taking those lost leaders in my closet and finding new ways to wear them by figuring out what I can wear with them so that they emit a certain feeling I want to exude. Your numerous tips on how Pinterest can help me figure this out has been so helpful. Now, if something doesn’t feel like it can work with other pieces I already have and if it doesn’t makes me feel really good about what I see in the mirror, then it needs to find a new home. That podcast has forever changed how I look at the clothes I already have in my closet, duplicates or not (and I do have a number of duplicates!). Thank you to you, Signe and Christina. 😊
@GoldenTherapeuticStyling
@GoldenTherapeuticStyling Ай бұрын
I'm totally with you on the idea of being my own editor as I go along. Gone are the days of big thrift hauls and big declutters for this style enthusiast. It's all about intentionality and a slower pace.
@33Jenesis
@33Jenesis Ай бұрын
I like the recommendation of putting out items that are hard to style. It is a visual reminder why they don’t belong in the rotation. I have items I love but hardly wear for various reasons. I almost always ended up returning them (shoes especially). I don’t take down tags and always keep my receipts for future return.
@user-st1nm8cf7z
@user-st1nm8cf7z Ай бұрын
I love your insights about editing our closet. It is less overwhelming than other decluttering advices and journaling about the why is a good idea. Thank you
@lynnereust5140
@lynnereust5140 Ай бұрын
I ordered AG1 thought it was a little expensive. 3 days in I could feel the difference and taste was good. Will keep using it.
@AlyssaBeltempo
@AlyssaBeltempo Ай бұрын
Ahhh I'm so glad you like it - I tend to allocate more budget to things like nutrition and health!
@airstreamer
@airstreamer Ай бұрын
YAY! I'm the first comment!! We use the Rode microphones too. I have had to downsize so much because we live full time in our RV. I feel I can still get rid of more.🙃 But we got rid of so much, that I do have some emotional attachment to what I have left. -Michelle
@AlyssaBeltempo
@AlyssaBeltempo Ай бұрын
Thanks for sharing Michelle xx
@airstreamer
@airstreamer Ай бұрын
@@AlyssaBeltempo I always enjoy your videos! 😊
@donakot2763
@donakot2763 29 күн бұрын
You look fabulous in this top🎉 this color suits you so well
@karencroft9773
@karencroft9773 Ай бұрын
I have learned a lot about myself just watching your videos. I really appreciate the viewpoint and help in understanding the methods of making clothing choices.
@AlyssaBeltempo
@AlyssaBeltempo Ай бұрын
thank you so much that means a lot :) xx
@susanalsembach6026
@susanalsembach6026 Ай бұрын
Thank you for this video, I’ve never felt comfortable with the idea of declutterring in a short period of time. Will definitely use the idea of keeping those unsure items in view, maybe it will be a good surprise
@AlyssaBeltempo
@AlyssaBeltempo Ай бұрын
so glad it was helpful xx
@Agz7zb
@Agz7zb Ай бұрын
thank you so much for this video. I am going to try all of the tips about editing your closet. I am one of the people how declutter their closet twice a year, but always got overwelmd by the task, getting frustreted en tired. I never knew there was a other way, till now.
@cathyh6218
@cathyh6218 Ай бұрын
My huge collection of black blazers thanks you ......i always feel so guilty many of them are secondhand and I wear them all! 😂😅
@sadel21
@sadel21 Ай бұрын
I’ve become more mindful of my purchases, and your content has contributed to this awareness. By the way, the soft pink blouse looks beautiful on you❤
@kittykittoon
@kittykittoon Ай бұрын
All good ideas. Regular reviews & garments straight into the give/sell/donate bags is what I do. Need to do it more. often than
@AlyssaBeltempo
@AlyssaBeltempo Ай бұрын
thank youf or watching!
@clarathordiss3663
@clarathordiss3663 Ай бұрын
Great video, Alyssa! Love the idea of having a rail/space for maybe items.
@stalkingcrane
@stalkingcrane Ай бұрын
Tip number four was invaluable! This was a great video. Thank you!
@robrobben6066
@robrobben6066 Ай бұрын
Totally agree that big declutters aren’t the best solution most of the time 👍
@KarenMckeown-ng4kd
@KarenMckeown-ng4kd Ай бұрын
Love this video and agree with everything you’ve said.
@bridgetthibert3802
@bridgetthibert3802 Ай бұрын
Merci beaucoup tu as toujours de bons conseils!❤
@user-yx8fi3ff2r
@user-yx8fi3ff2r Ай бұрын
Les sandales ananas 🍍😍😍😍😍 trop belles 🤩… je change souvent de coupe de cheveux et je m’habille différemment en fonction de mes cheveux alors bon… c’est un défi 😂😂😂Merci Alyssa pour ton travail 🎉
@AlyssaBeltempo
@AlyssaBeltempo Ай бұрын
oui elles sont trop belles:) bonne idee de changer le coupe de cheveux!
@dianecyment1715
@dianecyment1715 Ай бұрын
You offer very useful ideas. I have been sorting through items I have not worn and hanging them in a separate closet. I occasionally look at them and wonder why I purchased them in the first place and if I can utilize them at all. I did "save" a pair of black linen shorts and actually wore them a few times already this summer. Thanks for your wisdom.
@joanbegun1009
@joanbegun1009 Ай бұрын
Thank you !As always very helpful and motivating advice.
@AlyssaBeltempo
@AlyssaBeltempo Ай бұрын
I'm so glad you liked it thank you for watching xx
@ericag2233
@ericag2233 Ай бұрын
Great approach.
@AlyssaBeltempo
@AlyssaBeltempo Ай бұрын
thank you for watching xx
@lindascull6327
@lindascull6327 9 күн бұрын
Excellent ALWAYS❤
@KatarinaMB1
@KatarinaMB1 13 күн бұрын
Im listen you and doing decluttering in my kitchen 😂❤
@gloriamillner4322
@gloriamillner4322 29 күн бұрын
Please consider making a video focused on duplicates. Like many others in the comments I have struggled with the duplicate issue when decluttering AND when making purchases. When I find a perfect jean, I always want to buy two pair, although I am concerned that it may make my wardrobe boring. Oh, but wait: could duplicates be part of a “confident, pulled together uniform”? I want to have fewer, nicer things. Can múltiples ever be part of this strategy? I have six white t-shirts!
@pamelakeys6190
@pamelakeys6190 Ай бұрын
Thank You! I needed this advice right now. I love you style and sensibility 😘😻
@nicoleduhamel1218
@nicoleduhamel1218 14 күн бұрын
I am constantly editing. It's a continuous ongoing process. At this point with shoes that if I get a new pair I need to get rid of pair. If there is nothing to get ride of then maybe I don't need a new pair of shoes.
@nemesisanna
@nemesisanna 15 күн бұрын
what about pieces that hold sentimental value. Like a piece of clothing that used to belong to my late mother or my late sister? How do you let go of those if you are not wearing them?
@kathysteele3071
@kathysteele3071 Ай бұрын
I’m going to go back to decluttering as I peruse my closet. I need to get that box out again and ask those hard questions. There’s no way I can do it all at once
@barbiec4312
@barbiec4312 Ай бұрын
Thank you. ❤
@ItalyPaola
@ItalyPaola Ай бұрын
Amazing video, thank you!
@queenlucy1611
@queenlucy1611 Ай бұрын
Thank you for this. I have mutiple black trousers and black cami. I just change my blazer or button down for work. I think it became my uniform. So mutiple is a must for me for certain items. Btw, I also like your top. Where is it from? Thank you in advance.
@AlyssaBeltempo
@AlyssaBeltempo Ай бұрын
it's vintage!
@gardenhappy4
@gardenhappy4 Ай бұрын
Enjoyed this content! (btw, Did you see that Birkenstock is opening its first company-owned store in Paris, France 'nestled in the heart of Paris’ historic Marais district? Maybe they eventually break the style barrier.)
@pamelakeys6190
@pamelakeys6190 Ай бұрын
And, my black blazers and boots , say …. Whew
@cyndyh2160
@cyndyh2160 15 күн бұрын
Great video, but missed seeing your kitty! :)
@arivlearivle9169
@arivlearivle9169 Ай бұрын
Vielen lieben Dank und Grüße aus Deutschland 🇩🇪
@pamelakeys6190
@pamelakeys6190 Ай бұрын
Your style. 👌
@kateparker3421
@kateparker3421 Ай бұрын
Please tell me you bought that taupe long sleeved balloony crop top at about 2.3 mins in. Stunning on you!!
@AlyssaBeltempo
@AlyssaBeltempo Ай бұрын
aw I did not! but it was really cool!
@user-st1nm8cf7z
@user-st1nm8cf7z Ай бұрын
@@AlyssaBeltempo it was cool but i have the feeling that it was ok not to buy it...or wear differently. What do you think, Alyssa?😃😎
@dorsarahimi2106
@dorsarahimi2106 Ай бұрын
How do you get such white and pretty theet? 👌
@laurapardini6045
@laurapardini6045 Ай бұрын
what type of jeans are you wearing?
@AlyssaBeltempo
@AlyssaBeltempo Ай бұрын
agolde!
@szfrj
@szfrj Ай бұрын
@kew04weil72
@kew04weil72 Ай бұрын
Weeks ago I was hoping she would answer where a dress was from in her video. Why does she not give that information unless she’s making money off it? Unless it’s sponsored content, she won’t say.
@ConserveMore
@ConserveMore Ай бұрын
She often tells us, but it's usually from a thrift shop so probably not that helpful to you.
@gailwilliams5278
@gailwilliams5278 Ай бұрын
Also, the focus of her videos isn’t ’where to buy these items’. It’s ’how to achieve these looks using similar items you may already have - or can thrift.’
@AlyssaBeltempo
@AlyssaBeltempo Ай бұрын
Great question - I'm not able to catch all questions in the comments, and I don't usually share where I get my items from because they are either very old, or thrifted. Primarily though, the purpose of my channel is mostly to help you generate ideas to shop your closet vs. buying something - I hope this helps make sense!
@drnicolebeaumont7884
@drnicolebeaumont7884 Ай бұрын
Very interesting. Your shirt? It is perfect for you.
@AlyssaBeltempo
@AlyssaBeltempo Ай бұрын
it's vintage! Than you!
@holkangel
@holkangel Ай бұрын
I wish that we could also talk more about what to do with the edited things. The risk of this approach is over editing, heightened consumption, and more clothes in landfill. Not everything is prone to be donated, exchanged, returned or sold.
@AlyssaBeltempo
@AlyssaBeltempo Ай бұрын
100% this is another big topic altogether!
@CherrieForest
@CherrieForest Ай бұрын
I have noticed your labels show through some of your clothing why don’t you cut them out 😉
@christianaboli
@christianaboli Ай бұрын
The *why before you buy* for most women are the trends which the influencers impose on us. Jeans, white shirt and a blazer with black slingbacks for winter, striped t-shirt with wide leg pants and sambas for summer, for instance. So we all wear the same uniform with minor differences. That being said, how do YOU propose that we avoid being the same, since you all influencers propose the same capsule wardrobes of neutrals and statement pieces. Where is the originality in this? I'm asking you, because I admire your aesthetics. Thank you.
@AlyssaBeltempo
@AlyssaBeltempo Ай бұрын
thank you so much for the question! What I was getting at here, was not necessarily about the aesthetic "why" but the psychological "why" - is it because you're feeling elated? Feeling fear about a new experience and want a boost? Panic shopping for an event? Need to self soothe? It's more about understanding your shopping habits vs. understanding your aesthetic here. But when it comes to understanding your own personal style, that is a much longer process ... it's about figuring out how you want to FEEL in your clothes, thenpicking which elements of style give you that feeling.
@rosamundwalkley2041
@rosamundwalkley2041 Ай бұрын
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