Thank you for giving real advice. I love the idea of not coming at your work with the idea of making money but rather to think about what you enjoy and how you can help solve something for others. One of my favorite videos from you!

What’s the best deep cut bra? I can never find one.

I’ll take those cowboy boots. 😊

Please, where is the dress from?

Hey Alyssa, could you share from where the top you're wearing is from? It looks amazing on you

Thank you! Part 2 would be great. If you already did it, would you please give me the link? Love the tip about full tuck for fitted top!

Omg where is your top from? ❤

Furthering my style identity ......thankyou

Compared to the videos 2 or 3 years ago, you seem and look so harsh, so hard and so unhappy. even the tone of your voice and your mimic has changed. I really hope you will step back into your feminine energy and become happy and soft again.

Love the Bag lesson, fully subscribe to this! ... And you got the second puzzle you wanted yay 🙂 (My bags are no more than ten in total ever, this includes a work bag, travel bag, backpack, clutch and a couple of across body's as well as my favorite bag of all time - my mulberry Daria which is now 8 years old). I'm fully on board with if you find the right bag you won't need more.... just need to stop buying clothes, stick to my three words and not get sucked in to pretty patterns or peer pressure.

Another great video Alyssa! I don't usually comment, but you nailed so many things in this video and not just about our clothes, we can apply these lessons to every area of our lives. I love your videos and what you stand for.I look forward to continuing the slow fashion journey with you. PS I have learnt sooo much from your videos, changed my life in so many ways! Thank you!!

Watching this year late, but: so helpful with my own declutter process, thank you! 😘

Yep, we may have the pieces, but it's the putting it together to make the best.🎉🎉

So what don't you not like about your cowboy inspired boots? LoL! Because they so versatile when it comes to even wearing them with shorts or miniskirts. That style of boot is like rocker chic. I don't really wear my cowboys boots too much during the warmer temp because it could be too hot with the leather and socks. It great to think of a new way to look at something that you have not been wearing.

10:50 - I totally get you, "but" i find i wait and wait and wait for that "perfect" item, meanwhile i don't have a good option. I "have" to buy "just for now" clothing (the best i can find, so i can wear them as long as possible; i have things for 10 years or longer!) but I am so picky, i can't find what i need in a reasonable amount of time, I give up, I make do. I "make do" most of the time, because I am 60 and the cost of things is HIGH (in my mind). I would love that puzzle bag... 😆 Thanks for the fun video! Have a good week!

OMG! Loved this video so on point with me… I am currently going through two walk in closets… of accumulated, just in case…I need wardrobe syndrome… and starting to make wiser, choices and I thank YOU, for insights and all you share… 😊

Still looking for the perfect bag! I recently purchased a vintage Hermes silk scarf. I thought I always wanted one, it's on tons of people's bucket lists. It's beautiful, but I found out that I HATE wearing scarves! I tried it in my hair, on my bag, as a top....bugged me. I am selling it.

This concept of Emotional Durability is so fascinating and helpful. I’ve discovered over time that I really enjoy investing in a high quality handbag or wardrobe piece while traveling. That piece winds up having a huge amount of emotional durability because it reminds me of a special experience and I know I supported a local shop in a place I loved. One time we were on a great trip to a favorite city and I hesitated to buy a bag that seemed too expensive. I wound up purchasing a similar but cheaper version online and I just never enjoyed that bag and it quickly lost its appeal. The more expensive bag I originally wanted would have been emotionally durable and had a reasonable cost per use because I would have loved it for years. Lessons learned! Love your insightful content! Thank you!

Definitely, definitely don’t need cowboy boots in my life!

I get twisted into day dreaming about what my life will be like or being enticed and seduced by a particular aesthetic. I love Alyssa’s videos on that topic and how to figure out what is is actually calling to us and how to recreate it with what we already have. Hannah Poston here on the Tubes did a great video on how to assess lifestyle as well as one on the fantasy self, to also help align, in case the proportions of what you have are problematic.

Are you saying the bracelet doesn't come off? - Michelle

I so enjoyed this video! I love how passionate you are and not afraid to say what you really think. It felt like having a conversation with a really good friend! Thank you 🙏

Everything you said resonates with me ❤ Especially the advice of learning the lessons and not feeling regret. I try to reflect on absolutely every piece of clothes I don't wear to learn: why? what's wrong? But learning is always a cost. And to minimalize the cost of learning I buy second hand clothes. And I sell what I don't wear. That way I've learned to select what I like and to be a little bit picky and selective.

I have had lots of bags over the years and then when I changed jobs I bought less but better quality bags. However now over 50 I've moved to the country and changed jobs and feel I could sell or donate most of them as they no longer work for me.

You are so amazing!! 😊

When could you talk about the beautiful patterned sweater that was on the rail with your impulse buys? It is gorgeous!

Such a great video - you are always so practical and helpful. How we turn it around onto ourselves really resonated with me - thank you for bringing that to our attention!

Inspired by this I now have four outfits ready for the coming workdays. I often do that while watching you; see an outfit, set on pause, fix an outfit, continue to your next outfit. I am deeply thankful that I found your channel about two years ago, it totally changed how I think about clothes, dressing, and shopping 🤩

You make it much better than Lola 😂

Love, love, love these ideas

I absolutely love your silk skirt and the way you styled it with the black boots and jean jacket ❤ Thank you for your video! I learned a lot!

Love it! I also learnt of the Loewe Puzzle from the Anna Edit back in 2018, saved up & bought my bag online in a Selfridges sale 🎉 really enjoying your channel from Melbourne Australia 🇦🇺

Wonderful 🎉

OMG this was the video I realised this is not a Louis V(uitton) Puzzle bag :o

Thank you very much for the Summer Style ❤😊

Great lessons, thank you so much! I agree the most on the famous lists of garments everyone should own. I was on the hunt for the one perfect pair of jeans until I realised I don't like jeans at all. Have not owned a pair the last 15 years so why now? And no to dupes or substitutes in garments, make-up or even furniture. Save up, search second hand ... and get the real deal. Dupes are the most expensive decisions one can make.

I've been saving for that same Loewe bag....I may just get in 2030 🤣

I had a long leather trenchcoat once but a colleague said I looked like Darth vader in it. So I never wore it again.

Big help. I am watching thinking, mmmmm, ok the black dress can go, 2 bags can go some more shoes. These items will be in my to go basket today. I've already done some downsizing. Still plenty to go. I'll watch this video daily. Moral support 🎉🎉

I cant believe you thought of decluttering that camel suit and the tods jacket Feel deeply offended and might unsubscribe because of that LOL I am joking of course I would never unsubscribe my dear Alyssa

I could never, with a bag with this limiting irritating opening and "flap".

I've never thought of competitive consumption. Interesting.

How do you actually consider the vibe of an item? Seems like a subjective thing to try to nail down.

Where can we get the brown leather oval buckle belt? It’s @3:55 in video I’ve looked all over for one and can’t find this belt!!! I love it!!!

Oh no! 🏃 I said it out loud… 🙁

If I had a dollar for every time I have tried to buy less expensive substitutes of expensive shoes and bags I am craving, only to be unsatisfied or disappointed, I’d be able to afford the original item!

My lesson…. I shouldn’t buy items that don’t fit MY body perfectly. Falling for an item that doesn’t fit perfectly means that I won’t reach for it when getting dressed and thus waste the money. It’s difficult leaving behind something cute in the store, but it’s for the best.

Great video. I've made this mistake with blazers and a top handle alma bb knowing I prefer a crossbody bag but my western boots I wear daily ! 😅

Am I the only one who wants to see you know the jumpsuit? Also, that Puzzle😍!!!! (I thought you had a navy one?😉) Thanks for another terrific video!

So helpful. I love your perspective on regret. I feel the same way about not regretting things but I totally believe in learning, like you said.