5 Style Lesson I learned From My Mother!

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Marie-Anne Lecoeur - The French Chic Expert

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In this video, I honour my mother and share with you 5 style lessons I learned from her and which I am now passing on to you. You also get the chance to name the mother figure who passed on her style advice to you in the comments so that we can honour and give thanks to all those who pass their style knowledge on to future generations. Please share this video to your many friends so we can honour as many of these true style influencers as possible.
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@jeannesnodgrass8073 4 жыл бұрын

What a lovely mother you have! My father died when I was four years old causing us to live in poverty for many years. My mother always looked beautiful even after having seven children. She had perfect posture and carried herself well. She was petite but no one noticed because of the way she carried herself. She was able to sew and made clothes for us and herself. My sister and I learned to sew doll clothes with scraps when we were seven. We both grew up to sew a lot of our clothes. My mother had her own sense of style. There were three main things I learned from her. The first one was that beauty and style are in the person not entirely in the clothes. I learned to wear my clothes not let my clothes wear me. I learned to sew and be thrifty while getting the best I could afford and lastly to have my own style and wear it with confidence.💕

@jeannesnodgrass8073 4 жыл бұрын

I want to thank you for your kind words about my mother. The best things she taught me were by example. She taught me to be cheerful and grateful in adversity. She taught us to appreciate and love life in all circumstances. My life has been beautiful because of these lessons. I am fortunate to be her daughter. Thank you for a chance to talk about her.💕

@MagdalenaM71 3 жыл бұрын

Really touchy story. And beautiful. I could relate to many parts of it. Maybe you should also try to write books or short stories because when reading your post for a moment I was moved entirely to your place, your family, your bubble. Amazing! 🥰

@qiuwbr091 3 жыл бұрын

All of this is so motivating. Even though my mother had a pretty serious birth defect she looked elegant. People couldn’t even guess what her arm and hand really looked like. When they did find out they were sometimes very cruel. They didn’t want people to know publicly that in fact their had admired a handicapped woman, and her 2 daughters enough to give them awards. I remember her glee when my father brought her an electric sewing machine. She kept the treadle machine to teach my sister, and me. Mother sewed left handed due to the loss of her right hand strength. Treadles can be used extremely slow- like slow motion. She would pump the treadle very slowly while we guided the cloth under the presser foot. All of your stories are very motivating, and thanks for sharing. I am now inspired by this KZfaq to learn how to use a serger type machine. I have changed all my younger styles into usable older styles.

@wormsquish 2 жыл бұрын

what a lovely story. You sound like a very nice person and yes, you are right when you say that one should wear the clothes and not let the clothes wear them. Gosh, I'm feeling so inspired by all of these lovely messages.

@joannanangle4876 Жыл бұрын

I agree

@anastasiatsiagalis4979 4 жыл бұрын

Georgia, my beautiful mother, gave me the most important style advice that a woman can receive. To stand tall with confidence , respect and love myself with grace and integrity. My mama is my hero. 💗

@isabeltait5679 2 ай бұрын

I did not have anyone to get ideas from and that’s why am watching and learning from you

@conniemyefski7646 4 жыл бұрын

Such a lovely tribute to your beautiful mother. Though my mother didn’t have much money, she did her hair and makeup daily and wore a pretty dress when my dad arrived home from work. She emphasized this to me as I grew up. I try to follow her example even though I’m not wearing a dress. My dad gathered everyone’s shoes on Saturday and polished each pair. After all, we needed to go to Mass looking our best.

@qiuwbr091 3 жыл бұрын

I admire that trait in your Dad. Marie-Anne knows how to bring back the best in us. Thanks to you both.

@jennydunlop5572 4 жыл бұрын

My mum used to wear very conservative and “sensible” clothes (she was a librarian!) , but always looked well put together in good quality suits and tops. She looked after all her clothes and accessories and had them for many years. She passed away many years ago, and I wish I could tell her now how much I admired the way she always looked nicely dressed!

@JennyT101 4 жыл бұрын

I have accidentally turned on the cold water before I get out of the shower...it will definitely wake you up!.... I wish I had a mother who taught me about style, but my mother was not at all interested in these things. That is why I watch your videos!

@lyndawood7937 4 жыл бұрын

Your mother is lovely. I never had a woman to help me with style, ever. I watch and try to pick up advise, etc from women like yourself. I always hang up my clothing. Thank you for the heel demonstration. It is amazing. Thanks so much. What a tribute to your lovely mother. You are amazing.

@MsBackstager 4 жыл бұрын

@@MarieAnneLecoeur You can be my little sister.

@starrbowie8649 Жыл бұрын

I enjoyed this touching video also, but I am concerned that the advice on the correct way to wear heels may be misleading. I have read articles by podiatrists and general fitness experts who contend that the wearing of high heels throws off nature's millenia-evolved balancing of the stresses placed on weight-bearing joints and muscles from neck to toe. The unnatural distribution of the weight of certain body parts on muscles, tendons, vascular passages, and joints which have not evolved to bear a particular weight puts undue pressure on them while other muscles, etc., can atrophy somewhat because they are not used as much as they evolved to be. I understand that digestion can be adversely affected because of the misalignment of internal organs caused by unnatural weight shifts necessary for heel-wearers to keep their balance while moving. Please comment. Thank you in advance, Ms. Lecoeur.

@pjd1147 4 жыл бұрын

I never had anybody, so thank you for sharing your knowledge, and thanks to your lovely mother too!!

@pjd1147 4 жыл бұрын

@@MarieAnneLecoeur thank you!!!!

@deespence8629 4 жыл бұрын

I learned style tips from my grandmother. I always remember what she said about dress heels- invest in good heels and you only need three pairs. One in black, one in cream and one in navy. She said that would work with your wardrobe. She's been gone for many years now but I always remember her style advice!

@karenreiter533 4 жыл бұрын

You are beautiful like your mother, Marie-Anne. I was lucky enough to have both a stylish mother and grandmother. Both women always believed in fixing their hair and having a good haircut. They also both believed in owning a good watch, a lovely ring and nice earrings and wearing them everyday. They loved silk scarves and wore them often under coats or jackets. They truly loved good outerwear. They had lovely coats because they said it was the first thing people noticed. They both wore lipstick all the time because they believed, “ Everything would be alright, just put a little lipstick on. “ I miss them both every single day and keep them close by putting on both the tea kettle, some lipstick and some good jewelry.

@moiracarlo1657 4 жыл бұрын

beautiful memories to cherish!

@MsBackstager 4 жыл бұрын

I just had my monthly phone conversation with a former coworker. She must be close to 80. She was mentioning that her older gal pals dress up for playing cards, dancing, socializing, going to the senior center, etc. What great role models !

@joanelizabethhall9455 4 жыл бұрын

I learned as a teenager not to throw clothes on the floor - my cat taught me! For my 15th birthday, I got a fabulous dove-grey wool coat with an enormous collar of Arctic blue fox. I threw it on my bed. It slid off and I left it on the floor. The cat had her kittens on it!!!

@valeriamartin948 4 жыл бұрын

How cute! Maybe not for the coat, but kitty had good taste!

@AgeIsJustANumber 4 жыл бұрын

Oh my!!!!!

@dianedebernardo8419 4 жыл бұрын

That's an important use for your beautiful clothes. I'd be honored!!

@ivettie6271 4 жыл бұрын

So sweet !!!!

@mimiduquette8786 4 жыл бұрын

Minou, Minou, Minou....!!😂😂

@susancrowshaw9878 4 жыл бұрын

I learned from my mom to always make an effort wherever you went. She didn't have much money but she was always stylish and well turned out. Lessons to live by.

@songbirdforjesus2381 4 жыл бұрын

I like that. Always make an effort.

@ivettie6271 4 жыл бұрын

You don't need a million dollars to look like a million dollars :) this is what my mom said to me .

@Growstuff70 4 жыл бұрын

Oh the things my mama has taught me! Regarding style- whether one is home doing chores or out and about- always look presentable. Clothing, hair, makeup and jewelry must be given thought and effort to be feminine and chic. And when we look put together, we feel put together and we act accordingly.

@lisapodehughes 4 жыл бұрын

I have loved this video more than any other. Such good advice, and so nice to see you passing on what she taught you. It is a very touching tribute, and as a person who is sentimental about the ladies who were influences on me, I feel lucky to have this glimpse of one who was an influence for you. Thanks, Marie-Anne. (and thanks to my mother, Teresa, and her mother, Elmerilda, especially.)

@karlabritfeld7104 3 ай бұрын

Haha, my mom had no Sense of style. Whatever was clean was basically what she would wear. Whatever isn't in the laundry basket. By the time i was 7 years old i told her that she was not choosing my clothes for me any more. I was tired of all the brown and green outfits she chose for me. I wanted blue, red, pink and purple. With matching shoes. I didn't have the money to buy anything for myself so naturally i didn't get those clothes until i started getting jobs as a teenager and was finally able to buy my own. Too this day i have a colorful, coordinated wardrobe and I'm 66 years old. By the way, I've been watching your channel and following your advice and guess what?! Getting lots of compliments on my outfits. Thank you!

@MarieAnneLecoeur 3 ай бұрын

Bonjour Karla - thank you for sharing your early style journey with us and it certainly sounds like you have settled into your style 😃 I am very happy to have helped 🙏

@utesedlacek9269 4 жыл бұрын

„ Less is more” my mother told me! And I follow this advice in many ways❗️

@helenstauffer579 2 жыл бұрын

Hello Marie-Anne. My mother did not teach me much about style or fashion because she was an orphan and grew up without her parents. So I saved my money and when I was 16 years old I went to modeling school. It was wonderful to learn all about fashion and makeup. I even taught my mom some things about fashion too. We were best friends together. ❤ 💋💋💋💋

@mieczyslawapascoe7234 4 жыл бұрын

The one about choosing wisely is particularly relevant today for ecological reasons. Sustainability is essential to save resources. Vivian Westwood preaches it all the time, too.

@AgeIsJustANumber 4 жыл бұрын

Yes!

@pamcornelius9122 4 жыл бұрын

I’ve worn red lipstick forever. My sisters used to tease me and call me Lucille Ball! 💄😂 My favorite shade is Very Cherry (635) in matte by Maybelline. For a warmer red, I like Carnal (‘Pure Color Envy’ 370) by Estée Lauder. Although I’m brave enough to wear red lipstick daily, I’m NOT brave enough to take a cold shower! Thanks for another great French Chic video. You and your mother are truly lovely ladies with exquisite style.

@carriemoon-dupree7875 4 жыл бұрын

I always knew my Mother was in a good mood when she put on her red lipstick. She wore Revlon’s “Cherries in the Snow” Before she picked up my Father at the train station she applied her red lipstick and felt more like a beautiful woman than the mother of 4 little kids.

@AgeIsJustANumber 4 жыл бұрын

I love that!

@ivettie6271 4 жыл бұрын

Wow ! Red lipstick sounds like a real magic !!!!

@VictoriasRoses 4 жыл бұрын

This sounds so romantical the train station. We do not have trains where I live. I need to try the Cherries in the Snow lipstick.

@alimaalikhan 4 жыл бұрын

Carrie Moon-Dupree my mother always wore that color too. Revlon still makes it. It’s my favorite red along with Ruby Woo by MAC. 😊

@kathyn5337 4 жыл бұрын

My mother also wore "Cherries in the Snow". I bought it recently and I just tried it the other day. I think I could wear it in the winter. She would also use a tiny bit on her cheeks if she didnt have rouge handy. I have one of her handkerchiefs that has her lip color on it. I cherish it.

@TheDailyConnoisseur 4 жыл бұрын

Your mother was so beautiful, just like you, Marie-Anne! What a wonderful video xx

@astorytoldhere 4 жыл бұрын

I was not taught anything about style as a child & young woman...I am from a small town & we had no money for shopping...most of our clothes were second-hand. My mom did, however, always "fix" her hair & apply makeup, even if it was from the dollar store. I am now 55, & for the past 5 yrs. I have made it my business to study style & how to dress for my body shape...that is how I found YOU! You & I are of similar age, so I would never consider you a "mother" figure to emulate....but I do consider you a "style mentor" & I cherish all I have learned from you! Thank you for helping me to navigate my closet & walk out of it with confidence on a daily basis! 💖

@astorytoldhere 4 жыл бұрын

@@MarieAnneLecoeur I feel so lucky to have a French Chic Sister!!

@adeleturner1255 4 жыл бұрын

Oh Marie-Anne, I always love your videos, but this was so beautiful and moving. Your mother looks beautiful and she sounds very wise too. My own mother was always a Tom boy and never interested in style, fashion, skincare or makeup. But her mother, my beloved Gran Margaret, was such an elegant woman. She was born in 1913, and lived until she was 95 years old. She taught me all of your mother's style lessons except how to walk in high heels, because she only ever wore flat or low heeled shoes! (she was 5'7" tall and my grandad was only 5'8" tall so she said it was rude to wear heels! 😂). She also taught me to sit up straight and never slouch. She hated jeans, but was the first woman in her family to wear trousers (she had long shapely legs and an hour glass figure!). She had a beautiful tweed trouser suit. She liked to wear a hat for church on a Sunday. She hardly ever wore makeup, but loved her red lipstick and had her hair "set" at the salon every week. She taught me how to shave the bobbles off woollen sweaters and how to tie a scarf. I could go on forever! She would have loved your videos too Marie-Anne!!! ❤️😘💕

@maureen9635 4 жыл бұрын

I agree with the cold water tip. I have also heard that It’s important to rinse your hair with cold water to prevent frizzy hair.

@prrr446 4 жыл бұрын

Lovely video! My dear mother ( 1922- 2016) was not very much occupied with her looks, although she was a natural beauty and always was well dressed. She did not think it to be that important. She did not like perfume and make- up ( she only used lipstick like your maman) and jewelry and she hated silk. At parties she did wear some jewelry though. She could make our clothes herself when we were young and we were always happy with what she had made. It was rather trendy in those days ( 50's/ 60's) so we were very proud ;) My father had a very good job ( dutch railways) and my mother ( who later in life had a good job herself) accompanied him to foreign countries for international meetings. From the Netherlands to France, Italy, Germany and other European countries. She spoke four languages. They had official dinners at these occasions and my mother also often made festive clothes for herself and she looked beautiful. She made one shiny paisley top that her daughters including me later did wear until is was worn out. ;)) She also had a great cognac colored suede jacket that i wore later in life. In daily life my mother looked more casual with much dark blue and brown and burgundy , not my colors. I always wear light colors and pastels. Her mother, my grandmother ( 1895- 1985) , was much more chique and elegant in daily life. She spend much money in expensive shops on clothing and perfumes and jewelry. She always wore high heels. She loved alpaca and cashmere and silk. Her father had textile shops so she was raised with knowledge about good clothing. My grandmother never used any make- up. No lipstick for her. My mother and my grandmother both influenced my taste. I can make my own clothes ( sewing, knitting) and clothing for my children and grandchildren and love lipstick like my mother , but like my grandmother i prefer precious natural fabrics ( addicted to cashmere) and also love perfume ( always Estée Lauder) and beautiful soap like Roger & Gallet ;)) Forgotten: my FATHER also was a role model because he loved beautiful fabrics like tweeds (Harris tweed jackets) and lambswool and he did wear brogues...which i all love too!

@LaDonnaMills 4 жыл бұрын

My mother taught me how to walk in high heels... she taught me to take care of my clothes and shoes and respect them.... I was NEVER allowed to have clothes on the floor... my mother taught me to always blot my lipstick... just a few memories from what you shared.

@saraG100 3 жыл бұрын

Oh my mom taught me that too! Teens have nothing on our moms...

@jvarner7088 Жыл бұрын

Darling woman then and now. Some people, as some things, are timeless in look, in attitude, and in perceptions. 💋

@pennywheeler2598 4 жыл бұрын

Hi Marie-Anne. I was able to watch at a decent time today. Your mother is stunning.....just as you are. I love everything you teach and I do 99% of it. EXCEPT FOR THE COLD SHOWER. I tried this several times and I cannot tolerate it. I think I would rather eat a worm. Your such a beautiful, elegant lady. ❤x❤x❤x❤ My mother was fantastic. She taught me: The manners and etiquette of the British people. The style of the French people and their natural approach to skin care. And the the passion, romance and the way they eat in Italy (my family roots are from Italy.) She also taught me about art, classical music, and ballet etc etc. I know that you are a great mother and teacher. Take care Marie-Anne💜x

@songbirdforjesus2381 4 жыл бұрын

Wow! A wonderful example for us all

@alicecoppa2083 4 жыл бұрын

I love this! Your Maman is beautiful! My father wore a uniform also. My mother taught me so many things. She dressed well until her final year and the staff at the memory care unit called her The Queen. She wore Love that Red lipstick. I wear it sometimes but I feel self conscious in it for daily wear. I remember lessons on taking care of my clothes, wearing little makeup, polishing my shoes, buying the best you can afford. She said cold water would make your hair shiny and close your pores so you didn’t have breakouts. She didn’t want me to wear heels because of my height. (I am 6’ and she was 5’3”. )However I did get some lower box heels in the 70’s and was so happy. She also sent me to a local department store for a course on being a young lady. We learned makeup, walking correctly, manners and flattering hairstyle. I miss her daily.

@janicereeve1473 Жыл бұрын

When I was at Grammar School in the 1970’s we had a French Assistante called Madame Elisabeth Bouziane. Although married, she was only a few years older than us. She made an incredibly powerful impression on me with her chic French way of dressing. I couldn’t wait to get to class to see what she would be wearing. Today I still try to dress following her rules, for example matching my shade of eyeshadow exactly to my outfit (she was big on purple)! Needless to say, she caused a sensation in the small town in the north of England I grew up in. It’s undoubtedly down to Mme Bouziane why I have always been interested in following French chic! I was delighted when I discovered your KZfaq channel. Best wishes, Janice. 😘

@lindariddle2276 4 жыл бұрын

My mother taught me to always take care of my clothes and everything else. She said that a V neck and A- line shape dress or skirt are the most flattering. She told me I don’t look good in chartreuse. Also that after five clothes are for evening wear only. At that time it was true, no bling during the day. She hated to see evening wear in a daytime casual setting. I do always wear lipstick. However red makes me feel like I stand out. I have always felt that red lipstick is too bright for me. I do have dark brown hair and eyes. I have never heard of the cold water rinse, perhaps in summer I will try. I have short hair. It is very special to have such sweet lessons from your Mom.

@305tricia 4 жыл бұрын

All great lessons! My mother taught me what elegance and femininity was, like yours, my mom had her signature red lipstick lol She was a stay at home mom for 5 kids and yet I never recall seeing her looking frumpy or like a slob, she is my female role model.

@teresaareces4995 Жыл бұрын

Beautiful pictures and sweet words of your mother🌹 I was raised by my fraternal mother ( mami I adore) she was a beautiful, simple lady, never wore any make up and keep her clothes immaculate - but I was told that my mother used to always look fabulous ( I only met her twice 1 I was 14 years old and 2 I was 42 years old) she was petite, slim with very fear skin and red hair - I did love my high heels 👠 and yes I do take good care of my clothes, all black some off white blouses and linen 😊

@lauragonzalez328 2 жыл бұрын

Marie-Anne, Thank you for your videos. I have just started watching them and find that I can relate to them quit well, though I was raised in the Southwest part of the country, USA, where things are very casual. As I watch I find that this style is what I have always been attracted to. Could be because my Grandfather was French and my Grandmother was part French. My grandmother and my mother both loved their lipstick, (lipy sticky) as my grandmother called it. My mother was very big on caring for her clothes, she always emphasized never throw your clothes on the floor. Caring for your shoes was a must, never going out without your earrings and lipstick. I do slack in many of these aspects however I am excited to get back to caring for myself. Thank you again.

@AgeIsJustANumber 4 жыл бұрын

Your mother is a very wise and beautiful woman!

@Mainnoza_23 Жыл бұрын

This video is so emotional for me. My mom was stylish and always recommended that I wear more dresses than pants. Stalkings was part of the deal. I started trying her red lipstick but I have come to realize red isnt my color so I look good with a stain of red/hint of it than a full splash. The one thing we didn't see eye to eye on was to clean up spring cleaning. On this day I would suddenly have a diarrhea and spend the day in bed 🙈🙊 she was grooming me to be a better person who can look after herself. When it came to birthday gifts she preferred user friendly items, like towels not cards. Flowers she picked from the garden that she planted. All my sisters have the same fence flowers she planted on the fence....Good memories indeed 🤗

@vilmabean9533 4 жыл бұрын

Your mother is lovely and the wedding photo is beautiful. Thank you for sharing all this great advice. My mother chose wisely because she could not afford a lot (she was in her 20's during the depression) but she always looked good and well groomed. When I was a teen during the 1950's, I didn't have a large wardrobe but it was nice and I felt stylish.

@pixie3760 2 жыл бұрын

We give thanks for French Mothers and French Grandmothers They knew what they were talking about. Always quality clothing , and quality fabrics

@chiarascura7574 2 жыл бұрын

For me , no one compares to Queen Fabiola from Belgium. Her beauty , elegance , style , compassion , intelligence , knowledge and capacity to put others at ease … true class , true elegance , high calibre lady she was . So strong and assertive , yet extremely gentle and poised . And her husband was the same , exactly the same … but the male version .

@bevsines876 4 жыл бұрын

Hi Marie-Anne. I love that photo of your beautiful mum. And the wedding photo with your handsome and tall father. Many of the lessons you have spoken of i can relate to with my own mother. Mum however didn't wear true red but more coral/red on her lips and a face powder. She wore this everyday right up until she passed away at age 96, 3 years ago. I was always so proud that she cared about what she looked like. And definitely slow fashion with attention to quality not quantity. I never ever saw mum or dad throw a piece of clothing on the floor. Not ever. I remember when i was little admiring my mothers shoe collection. Beautiful heels and strappy slip on wedge heels for summer. So I have had a very good teacher. I am lucky. Regards Bev xx

@gwcclips 4 жыл бұрын

As I have watched you, Marie Anne, I realized that my mom, who was Mexican and American with a French/German ancestry, knew the things you are teaching. She even looked alot like you, which makes me smile since she is no longer with us. I remember going to the mall when I was about 12 and having her explain about coordinating colors in outfits and other things that turned out to be timeless, classic and very French Chic style tips. She was often asked if she was French, in fact, and epitomized French Chic in every way. As I grew up and experienced life and some personal tragedies such as my mom's death due to cancer, I forgot alot of the things she taught me and got lost in terms of how I dressed and carried myself. I want to thank you for helping me to remember how to have classic chic style that is timeless and to remember to love and care for myself again. Also, thank you for reminding me of her every time I watch you. All the best and God bless. I look forward to your videos every week when they come out.

@deniseherud 4 жыл бұрын

You look marvelous! Beautiful outfit!💗 Lovely video and tribute to your mother💐💗 My mom taught me to love myself...she tried to give me confidence I lacked. When we’d shop, she’d pick out things for me or she’d buy me things and say “It’ll look good on you!” I can wear pretty much anything bc she gave me confidence.💗

@deniseherud 4 жыл бұрын

Marie-Anne Lecoeur You do!! When we wonder, will this look good?- we just remember all u taught us💐 #wiseWoman

@rrhines3151 2 жыл бұрын

The pictures of your Mother are lovely, as is your tribute 💕! My grandmother, born and raised in Paris, until she married my grandfather and came to the USA at a young age, taught me about the cold water on my face and to use fresh cucumber on it to help keep it clear from blemishes! Haven’t thought about that in years! I recall Grammy wearing lipstick 💄 but I don’t remember if it was red… my coloring would not support red lipstick but does a burgundy count? I prefer a more natural look as my professional career is behind me and I am more comfortable, at this stage of life, to not draw attention to myself. Merci Marie-Anne, as I access your past videos to continue my new style journey 🙏🏻

@moiracarlo1657 4 жыл бұрын

My mom taught me how to shop second-hand for stylish clothing. We had so much fun shopping for bargains and buying gifts for others!

@anariley2981 4 жыл бұрын

My mother in few weeks to became 104 years old, she is steal have manicure and pedicure, Love lipstick, use scarf e take care of her hear. She always smell great.My daughter and I trye to keep up with her.

@kaydixie5727 4 жыл бұрын

Would like to see Marie in various colors of lipstick, in addition to the bright red. Maybe we could vote on our favorites.

@ivettie6271 4 жыл бұрын

What about peony rose ? It is a lovely color for a brunet.

@valeriamartin948 4 жыл бұрын

What I learned from my mother: 1. I shop alone. Shopping with my mother when I was a teenager was an exercise in frustration. She tend to poo poo my choices and there was always conflict. Therefore I couldn’t make up my mind because I had no confidence in my decisions. It wasn’t until my 40s that I began to develop that confidence. I’m not into shopping with friends. I don’t need anyone’s opinion. If I make a shopping mistake, it’s my mistake. 2. Don’t buy a too-small outfit thinking it will motivate you to loose weight. My mother did this years ago when she struggled with her weight. I tried it once. Of course it didn’t work. 3. Don’t buy ugly shoes. I don’t know what my mother was thinking. Year’s ago (1970s) My mother special ordered a pair of oxfords. Black wet-look leather with a chunky heel and round-toed. They were well-made and comfortable, but they were butt ugly and frumpy. She still has those shoes. A friend calls them Mean Teacher Shoes. Actually my mother was a fashionista in younger years! She made most of her clothes!

@sugarplumk2381 4 жыл бұрын

Valeria Martin You did make me laugh. I’ve never heard patent leather being called wet-look leather! That makes it sound horrible but I really like patent leather, if used in a stylish shoe. Maybe in the traditional black isn’t for you. It was a bit out of fashion for a while but seems to be around more now and there are some nude court shoes that look perfect in patent, in my opinion anyway. You might like those. I agree about shopping with friends. Some people find it helpful but I don’t generally, unless they’re particularly stylish themselves.

@valeriamartin948 4 жыл бұрын

Sugarplum K Actually, I love, love, love, black patent leather shoes! Especially flats! During the 70s with the wet-look, the leather had a crinkly shiny texture as opposed to the smooth sleekness of patent leather. My mother’s sensible oxfords were just plain ugly.

@sugarplumk2381 4 жыл бұрын

Valeria Martin Valeria Martin Hi Valeria. I’m not familiar with the crinkly patent. Sounds, um, different I must’ve missed that trend. Not that i was trendy 😂

@valeriamartin948 4 жыл бұрын

Marie-Anne Lecoeur You’re welcome, Marie-Anne! Another thing I learned from my mother: she taught me how to wash my face with my hands instead of using a washcloth. Also use a separate soap for the face. From my pre-teen years thru my 20s I had a battle with super oily skin and acne.

@africanprincessmaya 4 жыл бұрын

Like me and my new channel. Which is what we would also be talking about...sense of style.

@ginettemcdougal6529 Жыл бұрын

I was taught all of these hints since I was very young. Thank you Maman.

@davidcsolano7269 4 жыл бұрын

No doubt your mother is a remarkable and wise adorable lady. Just look at the gorgeous daughter she has! My first muse was as you know my grandma Mary. Among many lessons I learned from her these are my favorites: -Don’t follow trends, have your own style. -Always wash your face with cold water and keep it moisturized at all times. -Take care of your clothes and they will last for years. -Wear perfume just for yourself even at bed. -Walk elegantly because otherwise you will ruin what could be an elegant and chic style. As you can see these beautiful ladies had so many things in common and I’m so happy we honor them every day. What a beautiful and touching video Marie-Anne you certainly took after your mother in style, elegance and beauty. And we really owe her the gift of having you in our lives! A bientot!

@lynnayres9466 4 жыл бұрын

A beautiful tribute to your maman. I grew in Montreal, Quebec. My mother wasn't French but she dressed like a French woman. She looked wonderful. But my father was French and had 3 sisters. And they knew how to dress as well. They would say one has to dress "comme il faut.

@lilychiarella9082 Жыл бұрын

Everything you mentioned is sadly not practiced here in Australia. I believe we are a style- less culture which saddens me. When I was growing up, my mother too, taught me how to be a lady and to carry yourself with style , the same thing I taught my own daughter. I’m 52 and still wear my high heels much to the shock of my peers of the same age. Thank you for your video. Xxx lily

@chimerat8012 Жыл бұрын

Ah Lily I think you are too harsh on Australia & Australians.But we agree on the sage advice of Marie-Anne Lecoeur.

@mariasorial1861 4 жыл бұрын

Hello Marie-Anne, wonderful inspiring video, so let's do the comment accordingly: 1.red lipstick-I would call it the most powerful weapon of a woman, if the woman is aware of it; all my life I had red lipstick and I was very sad that my mother had pink. My favorite is venetian red. The woman that I admired all my life since 4 years old was my aunt, sister of my mother, she was a model for me, her cloth always the best! She teach me not to have more then 3 colours at once. 2.cold water-after I clean my face I put warm and cold water 5 times alternating, I feel very fresh after. Very good advice for cold water in the end, my aunt did it also. 3.I totally agree with slow fashion, classic is the best, less is more, you are so much correct. Unfortunately today people have no education regarding this and go into the first shop, buy some cheap coloured cloth. 4.I never throw my cloth on the floor, I think this is not the appropriate thing to do, because down the room the energie is not the best. 5.High heels are pretty much ok, but if I have high heels I am taller then my husband, so....no for now. 6.Thank you Marie-Anne, always great to hear you, greetings from Romania! Many kisses and hugs!

@deborahbenjamin4490 2 жыл бұрын

This was such a lovely video! Yes my mother to this day, (85), always looks perfect! Growing up I was always proud of the way she looked. She is also very outgoing & when I was a teenager & boys would come over I noticed they enjoyed talking with my mom as well...lol! She sometimes would make us clothes, & I remember a particular night she stayed up sewing all night so I could wear a special red satin outfit to school the last day of school before Christmas break! I have worn red lipstick at least since I was 16, but only when I feel it goes especially well with my outfit. Then my husband will sometimes remark "Look at those red lips!"...hehe! I sometimes do a cold ending with a shower & always after washing my face. I am enjoying your videos!

@bethmoore-love4223 4 жыл бұрын

Ah! So sweet to remember our mothers! My mother had very good taste, which of course, didn’t listen to until I was an adult. I remember her trying to tell me that clothes should never fit skin tight! And that less is more, and to stick to classics...now I know she was right! She used to knit and sew, and she was very good at it!

@hazelcoate9203 4 жыл бұрын

my son does the cold shower at the end of his shower, he says it is good for your immune system, my mother made our clothes and we had beautiful clothes , she also taught us about skin care cleansing, toning and moisturizing , thanks for the good advice

@Print229 3 жыл бұрын

Your mother was so beautiful and graceful. Your father is so tall!

@knut982 Жыл бұрын

My Mom was an elegant lady (poverty notwithstanding). She was always properly dressed and had a great sense of style which has greatly influenced my life. She always advocated the 'less is more' motto- plain is better than printed , vertical lines to make one look tall, horizontal to increase width, plain top with printed bottom; plain botton with printed top and the list went on and on. I do appreciate your vlogs a lot and I keep on learning from you and wish you well in all your endeavours.

@dianedebernardo8419 4 жыл бұрын

My mom, now almost 83, still wears red lipstick and for much of her life, it was her only makeup. For much of my life, lipstick of an earthier tone and tinted acne coverup has been mine. (My skin has never been super clear). In more recent years I added a small swipe of under eye cream, and that's it. I love that you did a tribute to your mother. I adore my mother. Like so many from past generations (and present), my mother had to sacrifice a lot for her family and she did the best she could with limited resources, time and energy. She worked part-time, earned a degree, and raised us all at the same time. She wasn't exactly stylish. She cut her own hair and bought inexpensive clothes. But she wore slacks, a blouse, and nice shoes, not sloppy things, which had already become common in the US, and she always looked dignified. I didn't appreciate this growing up in the 70s and 80s but I do now. Now she has a fantastic wardrobe and wears a bit of eye make up and powder, and still red lipstick. She always looks great.

@attilathehen1555 4 жыл бұрын

I don’t wear high heels because I have a growth defect in my spine and also 20 years of illness has made my muscles very weak, but I do wear 2”” heels a couple of times a week, so I’ll try your tips and see what happens. I’d like to look incredibly elegant for the tiny bit of walking I can do in them! I don’t really have a mother figure for style, more like sister figures, including you and my friend D. I had a nice experience yesterday encountering a lady trying on dresses who is the same size and body type as me. We had a fun time advising each other and swapping dresses. I didn’t buy one but I did find a beautiful White Stuff skirt in a charity shop that is still on sale on their website. I think my love of a bargain did come from my mum, though! Love your parents’ wedding photo, so elegant and beautiful!

@peaceonearth8693 4 жыл бұрын

Just in general, if a person decided to use a cane. It would seem like a cane that is designed by an artist could be just as elegant of an accessory as heels. I'm imagining inlays and with a beautiful handle and tip. Just for ideas sake, very fancy pool cues could give an example of what an inlay is. Then a good metal color that suits you as part of it too, perhaps. I would also consider crystal as part of a handle. Consult an artist to find something perfect. I would find this accessory to be very impressive.

@Teverell 4 жыл бұрын

@@peaceonearth8693 There are some really nice vintage/antique canes out there, too, so it might be worth looking at Ebay and some of those vintage/antiques/bric-a-brac places, too. (My Nan nearly always wraps her walking stick with tinsel at Christmas just for the fun of it!)

@NatalieEa100 3 жыл бұрын

I told my husband about the cold water after the shower - he thought it brilliant and offered to put the hose on me outside :O x

@Jubilee33382 3 жыл бұрын

That gave me a good laugh.

@ladyperle0n250 Жыл бұрын

A very nice tribute to your mother. My mother and grandmother came from the Philippines. They did not have much money to spend on clothes, however they both still were able to dress elegantly. My mother had told me that they would buy fabric and have a seamstress make their clothes. Into her 90's my grandmother continued to dress elegantly even though she was mainly in the house. She would wear a blazer , a dress, lipstick and simple colored nail polish. My mother would always wear tailored shorts, skirts and tops. My siblings have learned a lot from both of them on how to dress and look elegant.

@bernadettejavier8184 4 жыл бұрын

Own your walk esp. when one is wearing high heels.Thank you for a lovely video!

@maryjobalve6290 3 ай бұрын

My mother was an interior decorator and designed beautiful rooms. She was stylish in everything she did. Janet knew how to sew dresses and coats and her Aunt was a seamstress at Bergdorf Goodman. I loved to smell her subtle fragrance, especially the way her closet smelled, and how neatly she organized her Ferragamo shoeboxes with triple A size 8 1/2. I hope to carry her legacy and she also taught me how to iron blouses correctly and to always wash whites separately from colors For Janet, hanging clothes out in the sun on a clothesline especially white clothes was very important. I also use lingerie bags for my delicates. What a nice tribute to mothers and role models

@MarieAnneLecoeur 3 ай бұрын

What a lovely tribute to your dear mother Mary Jo 🙏

@muchelleeaton6131 4 жыл бұрын

First of all, I have to say that I love your skirt, it looks like something that I would wear to work. My mother taught me to choose quality, to take good care of my clothes, and also about walking in heels. She also taught me everything about skin care and makeup. She stressed the importance of no matter how tired I am, never go to bed with makeup on my face, and to take good care of my skin. She also taught me to be a lady, and present myself as someone with decorum and dignity. She was, and still is, a very beautiful woman, even in her 70's. She is my number one fashion icon. Thank you so much for sharing this, what a wonderful sentiment to all the ladies before us that taught us style, and all of the most fun aspects of being a woman 😀😀😀.

@gilldachada8079 4 жыл бұрын

So beautiful Marie-Anne...my Mum definitely passed on well groomed hands and silk scarves

@vallis1469 4 жыл бұрын

Now I know where your beauty comes from...your mother. My mother, too, taught all your mother has taught you, including the red lipstick. She also taught that ironing clothing was a vital part of being well dressed. Never would we be allowed to go to public places in casual clothing. There was "play clothing, day-wear, and Sunday Best". Each served its purpose and was part of becoming a lady. Thank you for sharing your experiences.

@qiuwbr091 3 жыл бұрын

For religious reasons, my mother struggled with choices. So, I dressed her very, very, very elegantly. I always admired her really petite physique, and square shoulders. Many women were jealous of mother. I loved the 1980’s revival of the 40’s look with padded shoulders. My mother was dynamic. She taught me about Italian cobblers. She said you NEVER wear your shoes down at the heel, and wear them to formal places or work. She taught me to use cedar wooden stretchers in my boots. I oil the soles on my boots, and I resole them way before they wear out. Also, she taught me to ALWAYS wear support hose at my work no matter what people say. Voile; I am in my 6th decade of life and I have NO varicose veins, and only 1 tiny spider vein on my legs. THAT saved me thousands, and thousands of dollars, and pain in my older years. I can still wear shorts on the beach without now needing support hose. Thanks to God for mothers who pass on really smart ideas. See how it enhances their daughters? This lady has her own web site, because she followed her mother’s advice. Brilliant thinking, Marie-Anne. Thanks much.

@lisebjerring9197 Жыл бұрын

How nice to hear about your mother. I suppose as a women that is the first women you learn from. Red coral lipstick, tweezers to form her eyebrow,, a little mirror to be able to see her shape and looks from behind was my mother's, never leave the house without. As she grew up during second World War she learn to sew, you know make changes, repair, etc. That is my legacy today. Above all my lipstick. It is nice to hear about our mothers what they did. Thank you for sharing. From Stockholm lots of regards, Lise

@jeancathey366 4 жыл бұрын

First, thank you for your quick and kind reply regarding makeup! I love this video! My mother wore red lipstick - she was always so chic. And she always made sure that I was all dressed up before we went out. I have been wearing red lipstick since my 20s. I’ve also been finishing my showers with cold water for over 30 years. I let the cold water run over my face so it tightens the pores. And I only use cold water to clean my face. I’m 70 now but people say I look much younger and can’t believe I have a 50 year old son! People are always complimenting me on how beautiful my skin is. People always thought my mother was my sister - so guess I got my good genes from her and my father who also looked young for his age (he was French). Where I fail is with my clothes. But your video has inspired me to declutter my closet and take as good care of my clothes as I do my skin! Thank you for your inspiration. ❤️

@lourdesrangel5836 4 жыл бұрын

A very beautiful lady. You take after her.

@lamoon1525 4 жыл бұрын

I rarely use base or other makeup...I do use cold water on my face. Red lipstick...yum, always. I always choose basic classics. Fads...never. I keep my slacks in black, grey, and blue jeans (indigo). I always keep a black dress...one in short sleeve, one in long. I accessorize and even there...I rarely step outside of classics. I keep my clothes hung up or in the laundry...there is nowhere else. I had to give up high heels a few years ago after an accident to my foot. I can use a low (2" heel) or a flat. I always wear at least the low heels in a dress. I don't have a lot of money to invest in clothes...but in classics...so not necessary. As my grandmother used to say: I am not poor; I am merely without funds. She and my mother (like your's) were clever girls. :)

@careyareaparanormalenergyr9355 2 жыл бұрын

Your Mother taught you well. I especially liked Taking Care of your clothes! Reminded me very much of meine Mama who has passed on. She was adament about hanging clothes up, taught me to mend clothes and darn socks, clean and polish shoes! Always had a clothes brush handy to brush that lint or hair away. Mom was born in 1931 Vienna, so grew up during difficult times, sometimes nothing to eat. You value what you have under those circumstances. Love ❤️ to you, your Maman and Mothers everywhere!

@nrgpokemon5158 2 ай бұрын

This video has inspired me to try red lipstick again in my mid 50s. I gave it up in my early 40s because I felt that it was such a strong colour and aging. My grandmother lived through WW2 … and every piece of clothing you had was valuable and needed to be cared for. A new dress for her and for my mother were very special. They taught me that clothes are not disposable fashion, but to be chosen carefully and well, and then cared for. She also taught me the joys and elegance of a ‘signature scent’. Sometimes I buy 4711 just to remember her. I find I flirt with many scents, but each decade I have a ‘signature scent’ that is always on my dresser… and for some reason many times it’s the house of Givenchy. From my teens I sacrificed to buy the good stuff.

@MarieAnneLecoeur 2 ай бұрын

Your dear Grandmother and Mother sound like they were very Chic NRG 🙏

@tonipope3164 4 жыл бұрын

Good Evening...MarieAnne!! My Grandmother was my maternal influence and she as well never went out without her lipstick on!! She felt finished and turned out and ready to take on the world with those lips. Your Mothee and my Grandmother were of like minds as the rest of your advice was mine too! Thank you for bringing a wonderful memory back to me... along with a smile, I do so miss her! Grandma Rose.... my hero!

@Alyssa-qp7io 2 жыл бұрын

I have fallen in love with Marie and her channel. I have found a huge shift in my mood, lifestyle, and energy by becoming more elegant. I find elegance today people associate it with "bouje". Where true elegance is modelled by Marie. Thank you!

@gailfotheringham6150 4 жыл бұрын

My chic 87 yr old mother always has said “ we can’t all be beautiful, but we can all be smart.” Very true

@giovannaplacci4520 4 жыл бұрын

Your mother was so beautiful. She looks so sweet and elegant...My mother too, she didn't use a lot of make up, but she always wore a lipstick. She had different shades of red. She teached me that skin looks luminuos and perfect with the right shade of red, and not to go out without a lipstick in my bag. I miss her. This video is useful but also a tender idea, and one of your best. Thank you.

@TheBeautygarden 2 жыл бұрын

Delighted to hear about your lovely mama. My mother was not elegant, I had to learn all on my own. But I taught my daughter to be poised, well-groomed and well-spoken. And she is more successful because of it at work and at home. Thanks for all you do for us!

@FruScarpia 4 жыл бұрын

Well, my dear Grandmother celebrated her 100th birthday last year and she owned and managed (together with my grandfather) a big shoe store, focusing on classic style and quality... as a small child I remember running around the store, choosing whatever I liked to wear! We siblings never bought shoes, we always got them from the store... I have SO many pairs of classic and CRAZY shoes from different centuries in my wardrobe, all from my Grandmothers collection... black velvet plateaus, knee-high white laced boots, blood read clogs... you name it! All in excellent quality. I can never ever buy cheap shoes; that’s a huge NON! for me.

@lourdesrangel5836 4 жыл бұрын

My mother is a very elegant woman. She likes linen and simplicity. I love her style. Thanks for this video.

@sharonfarnsworth3325 2 жыл бұрын

Bonjour, Marie-Anne. Lucky you learning all of this from your mother. I can’t say I remember any from my mother. I will do the cold water on my face & I really take good care of my clothes. Thank You!💕

@ivettie6271 4 жыл бұрын

About cold showers it is true , they help to firm the skin , blood rushes to the surface of the skin and makes it glowing and nourished and firmed . in Russia we go even further - we jump into an ice cold water or snow after sauna:) Your mother taught you right lessons , I admire her advise about how to walk in high heels .

@jsmum196 Жыл бұрын

I'll have to wear red lipstick more often. I do feel more beautiful with it. Agree about knowing your style and colors so you can have a wardrobe just for you. No need to buy more each season. Cold water..we have to be careful if we have sensitive skin. It can make your capillaries burst and get red lines in your face, neck and chest. I do not leave my clothes on the floor. I take good care of them and they take care of me. I wish they lasted longer. Clothes here in the US are not made well anymore. I must have learned to walk in heals very young bc I can run in them no problem. I wear sandals more often but some with a heal all year since I live in Florida. Thank you Marie-Anne!

@arelidelong1188 4 жыл бұрын

Your Mom was BEAUTIFUL!!! 😍

@hollygolightly8048 4 жыл бұрын

This was a very bittersweet video for me, because my mother had many of the same dressing/style philosophies as your mother did, and I was always in awe of her fashion and make-up sense. Sadly, she passed and I miss her very much. She was beautiful...as you and your mother are. Thank you!

@pavla2055 4 жыл бұрын

How lucky you were to learn from your mother ! I don't remember any type of discussion of any kind about fashion or appearance from my mother . I had to figure out most of the things you are discussing on my own . Watching your videos has helped me to know I'm on the right path . I've been wearing a couple of shades of red lipstick more often the last couple of years - one is a little more orange red and the other a blue red . Previously I kept to more nude shades of lipstick . It's way toooo late for me to learn to walk in heels but I really enjoyed seeing the instructions !

@pavla2055 4 жыл бұрын

@@MarieAnneLecoeur :D merci

@rmkpilates 3 жыл бұрын

All good advice...one other thing...a beautiful smile will take you anywhere...💝💝💝

@wormsquish 2 жыл бұрын

Marie-Anne, your mother is stunning! When I lived in Rome, I stayed with my aunt Margherita for a while before I found an apartment. She was widowed many years before and had to raise my two cousins on her own. She worked as a janitor in a school. She had to mop floors, empty trash bins, dust and polish, etc. Never once did my aunt ever look the part of a traditional janitor. She was always elegantly dressed. She never wore trousers, always a skirt and modest heels. She only wore lipstick and her skin was so dewey and fresh. She just knew how to put herself together. I admired her so much. I used to wear a lovely Chanel red lipstick way back in the 90's. Maybe it's time to start again? Splashing cold water on the face is classically good advice. Thank you so much, Marie-Anne. After seeing your mother's photo, I can see where you get your good looks from!

@karlabritfeld7104 3 ай бұрын

The 90s is way back???

@katiekatie887 4 жыл бұрын

Beautiful photo of your parents , you have a bit of both of them , I see your Father's eyes and your Mamma's smile .❤️

@nadiamar9339 4 жыл бұрын

My mother taught me a lot as well, but when I was young I was a rebel. Now I miss her a lot and I'm trying to follow her style, which was simple, but always elegant. Thank you

@songbirdforjesus2381 4 жыл бұрын

I will be 69 in July and can truly relate to most of the comments because our mothers and grandmothers were from a different era. My mother was a beauty queen from New York City and I was a July calendar baby in the most popular calendar of babies that everyone bought in New York City, well mostly mothers. My grandmother worked a department store called Gimbels which was a competitor of Macy's. She was always breast beautifully but as a kid and even as I got older I felt she wore too much makeup. Her clothes shoes jewelry hair everything else about her was Immaculate and perfect stylish and the epitome of a New York City woman. While my grandmother did not wear red lipstick my mother did. She hardly wore any makeup but everyday had powder red lipstick her eyebrows done, her hair immaculate and dressed lovely for the day. I am the oldest of seven. So as my mother had more and more children she didn't dress up as much but always had her hair done and a bit of makeup on and dressed appropriately for taking care of the kids. I remember when she would go out at night and it was magical watching her transform herself into a vision of beauty. I wore red lipstick when I was younger but not a lot. I was a teenager in the 60s when everyone walk hell lipstick and then in the seven days everybody was into Earth Tones. I never like my teeth so I did not want to call attention to them. Although everyone told me I had a nice smile I was self-conscious. Medium pink is darkest I wear. Although my teeth are nicer now I will have to give red a try. Over the years I was very much into fashion until I turned forty and let myself go, due to poor health. So, I am making a comeback! I have my own sense of style which is kind of romantic and feminine just like my mother. Being taught how to sew a hem, buttons that have fallen off a blouse and some basic mending stitches are what our grandmothers and Mother's knew how to do and passed them on to me as I passed them on to my daughter and granddaughters. I was taught everything you shared including how to walk in heels but I quickly forgot and I'm so glad you have taught me now even though I can only wear 2-inch ones it helps. So many wonderful comments that were a joy to read. I could relate to most of them and wished we had some of the old ways more often in our culture. Everyone seemed to be so civilized!

@Cng0308 4 жыл бұрын

Wow! Your mom is *very, very* beautiful! No wonder why you're so beautiful yourself. You look so much like her! ❤️❤️

@cdavham Жыл бұрын

We were fortunate in our mothers I think, you and I. 💖

@alcoveoffice 2 жыл бұрын

My mother was adamant about lipstick! She never left home without red lipstick (when she was younger). She changed to a more vibrant pink shade as she aged, which I also wear (red is too harsh for my skin). She always looked beautiful

@ca6177 2 жыл бұрын

Everything you said about your mother I learned from my much older sister in law. She is quite an elegant lady, refined and always respectful and just lovely. I am very fortunate to have been married into my husband's family because my own mother has not any of the qualities you mentioned, sad, but true!

@joycemartin4273 Жыл бұрын

My mother was gorgeous! She was elegant. modest, and unaware of herself but always aware of others. She grew up on a farm in Montana hauling 100 pound sacks of potatoes. She never considered herself pretty (though she was striking) but knew she looked acceptable when she did her hair and make-up-which was done every day. Never mind that she had 4 children in 4 years. What she cared about was character. And she had/has a beautiful heart and soul. She always told us, "Pretty is as pretty does."

@vassilikiyiannou728 2 жыл бұрын

Everything is wise told! I follow most of them : I didn't knew that advice about high heels and I don't usually wear red lipstick ( I don't feel comfortable with my teeth shape!). My mother is very chic, still at her eighties and never neglected herself and her silhouette. She always taking care of her shoes and clothes. This is her style heritage to me!

@carolbohn5900 4 жыл бұрын

My mother had a wonderful sense of style and took very good care of her clothing. She always wore lipstick, had her hair "done" and her nails polished. I remember two beauty tips she always told my sister and I. Always wear rubber gloves washing the dishes, because the hot water and soap will ruin your hands. The other was stay out of the sun or at least wear a sunhat. Good solid tips from decades ago!

@annfairfax9797 4 жыл бұрын

My mother gave me the same advice. After she died in 2008 I wrote in a notebook many of the things she told me so I wouldn't forget them.

@MsBackstager 4 жыл бұрын

@@MarieAnneLecoeur Don't forget to use hand moisturizer having washing your hands and doing the dishes.

@carolbohn5900 4 жыл бұрын

@@annfairfax9797 What a good idea! My mom died in 2009. We must be similar ages.

@ivettie6271 4 жыл бұрын

Priceless advise ! I stay away from the sun too , wearing hat and sunscreen !

@chowes41 4 жыл бұрын

Don't forget to buy a dishwasher 😉

@judithjohnsonnigh5757 4 жыл бұрын

Thank you. My mother taught me that ‘less is more.’ She said, “Alway look in the mirror before you go out and see if there is anything you can take off that will make you look better.” She taught me how to iron correctly, how to wash and hand block sweaters and how to hang and fold my clothes. She sewed for me and inspired me because....she was beautiful. My grandmother taught me to sew and fit clothes. She learned the old school way and her motto was, “make it as beautiful on the inside as it is on the out.” Thanks to all the mothers.

@daniel596061 4 жыл бұрын

Votre maman est vraiment adorable, très jolie. You ressemble your mother. My mother sew our clothes, so she teaches us how to take care of it, so the clothes can last. Thank you for sharing this beautiful moment of your mother. My red lip stick is YSL Rouge #1.❤️

@neringapukelis4031 3 жыл бұрын

I was born and live in the U..S. My mother was born in Lithuania and taught me many of the same habits you are talking about: frugality, take care of your clothes, don't show off or be excessive, find who you are and develop your look. In the US. these habits are taken over by excess and the look is in some cases horrible. Also, lipstick, natural or red, nails too! As for cold water, every morning I pour 2 buckets of cold water over my head after my shower. It makes me feel alive. I am so happy I discovered you channel!