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5 Things a Man Says When He Is Emotionally Attached | Dating Advice for Women by Mat Boggs

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Mat Boggs

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@matboggs
@matboggs Жыл бұрын
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@maddisonmarrufo6430
@maddisonmarrufo6430 2 ай бұрын
he protects me all the time
@maddisonmarrufo6430
@maddisonmarrufo6430 2 ай бұрын
and here’s a update he also says it’s okay
@hjtres7261
@hjtres7261 3 жыл бұрын
A man who isn't emotionally attached to you wont care about your experiences, your life, and even 5 minutes with you will be too much for him. A man who is emotionally attached to you cant get enough of you. Be safe, ladies. ❤
@hjtres7261
@hjtres7261 3 жыл бұрын
@Tracie Lesperance I understand that. Sending love your way. I hope you find peace and ultimately, your soulmate 💜
@heide-raquelfuss5580
@heide-raquelfuss5580 3 жыл бұрын
My ex boyfriend was every day with me. Said.. i miss you. You give me strength... But he said also from the start...i am not interrested in your problems. Did not asks questions. Did not want to hear my past. My present my future. Our future was cloudy. But he wanted me to stay. He said he fucked me over and screwed me over. He said...i should of screwed you even more over. It was all about him. But not about me. Even, if said cute things... Now, i am not even shure how you know, when someone is good or not. Everything in this video he said... But at the same time, he treated me ugly. When he said... i screwed you over all this time and i should of fucked you more over... It means nothing, when a man says all this nice things. He can be a conman anyway.
@marjoryn68
@marjoryn68 3 жыл бұрын
Amen
@AA-bk1jr
@AA-bk1jr 2 жыл бұрын
I’m curious tho. A guy who seems genuinely interested in me and how I’m doing in my life and how I’m handling the things I’m going through…but tells me he isn’t ready for anything at the moment….
@hjtres7261
@hjtres7261 2 жыл бұрын
@@AA-bk1jr I guess it just depends on why. What does he have going on in his life that makes him unprepared for a relationship with you? Or is he just stalling? So many guys like you, they may even love you, the see the best in you. But they don't want you. And they don't want you being with anybody else. Use your intuition and dont wait. Live your life and if it is meant to be, it will happen. Much love 💜
@pritalaras
@pritalaras 3 жыл бұрын
Based on my real experience: 1. I want you to be happy 2. I am proud of you 3. You deserve happiness 4. I can't do all of these without you 5. Thank you for coming in to my life and makes me happy, I love you.
@universe5d176
@universe5d176 3 жыл бұрын
true
@marsyianaahmadmurad8947
@marsyianaahmadmurad8947 3 жыл бұрын
This is true
@thesuccessfulfamily8178
@thesuccessfulfamily8178 3 жыл бұрын
❤️
@vickyedmondson6556
@vickyedmondson6556 3 жыл бұрын
What about if he says all these things apart from number 4.. but won't commit?
@atlantasfaithsmom
@atlantasfaithsmom 3 жыл бұрын
Beautiful ❤️
@joannehauck7610
@joannehauck7610 3 жыл бұрын
It's not what he says, it's how he treats you and acts when you are around. Actions do speak louder than words. Ladies, pay attention!
@richardrivas3294
@richardrivas3294 3 жыл бұрын
Joanne Hauck when you believe that you deserve a good guy,that’s when you will attract him.Your brain will filter out the trash
@aprildutton8868
@aprildutton8868 3 жыл бұрын
Richard, this has nothing to do with her comment. She is giving good advice here. Pay attention to his actions more than his words.
@RM-cw1ix
@RM-cw1ix 3 жыл бұрын
@@aprildutton8868 He's just adding onto the conversation, and they are both related. She's giving step-by-step instructions, while he's giving an overall zen-like frame of awareness. Both are spot on.
@ramieyaharris
@ramieyaharris 3 жыл бұрын
Aww this is true... 💕
@dontemaddox3225
@dontemaddox3225 3 жыл бұрын
Yes, but this is specifically about the VERBAL indicators of love. In case you missed that. 😁
@jolandaxx9446
@jolandaxx9446 3 жыл бұрын
When I told him I was afraid to get my heart broken, he told me he was also afraid to get his heart broken. He said we should just take the chance together and have faith. Now one year later I’m so happy we’re still together making future plans 🥰
@Bodysense369
@Bodysense369 3 жыл бұрын
That’s amazing, how can one say no to that... you two love birds will go far 🤞💗🌹💐
@janineleahy7329
@janineleahy7329 3 жыл бұрын
Hi that's nice that is what is needed two people to be honest because how could you ever go wrong wasn't that way for me some people lie make out don't want get hurt but hurt good people who don't hurt them would never hurt my ex that way very sad you can't win if you know you care have feelings for them I didn't want to get hurt but I did
@maricris653
@maricris653 3 жыл бұрын
Omg. This was my exact words with him when I felt we were getting deeply serious. "I was afraid to get my heart broken" and he said the same thing. All we need was to trust our feelings 2 years later we still do.❤💯
@deekaysen3027
@deekaysen3027 3 жыл бұрын
I'm at the beginning of a relationship, it scares the hell out of me. I had my heart broken in many relationships. I told him that I feel like I am falling in love even though I don't want to risk having my heart broken again....he told me he feels the same. We are on a scary journey but I am jumping and trying to enjoy the book, not be in a rush get to the ending
@sgmermaid3189
@sgmermaid3189 3 жыл бұрын
Blessings to u both..u r both in the right path ... others r not so fortunate whereupon scammers n fake love profiles online relationship r plentiful. the scammers create lot of problems n havoc for online relationships...tat left many broken hearted n poorer, to lose confidence w any true n genuine love, they may meet for online relationship. They spoiled the images for online love relationship n wasted lots of people times too.
@sheritimmons8803
@sheritimmons8803 3 жыл бұрын
It's not any one thing he says. It's when he continues to pursue me even after we're solidly together.
@richardrivas3294
@richardrivas3294 3 жыл бұрын
Really true talk 🥰
@DallasJayCook
@DallasJayCook 3 жыл бұрын
Doesn’t matter what he says observe his actions.
@loneshewolf3309
@loneshewolf3309 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you! Exactly, you hit the nail on the head sweetheart. Actions speak louder than words.
@richardrivas3294
@richardrivas3294 3 жыл бұрын
@@loneshewolf3309 yes miss she’s very correct!where are you from?
@heidi5452
@heidi5452 3 жыл бұрын
100%! That's the true test
@purplelillyx9895
@purplelillyx9895 3 жыл бұрын
1. He says "I miss you" 2. He says "Just stay" 3. He says "How is that?" (understanding you more) 4. He says "Be careful" (evolving feelings) 5. He says "I love you" (opened my heart enough for you to hurt me. caveat: they sometimes wait for you to say it first)
@user-fz7nt5ge3o
@user-fz7nt5ge3o 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you. 😊
@lauraellla3184
@lauraellla3184 2 жыл бұрын
Omg the guy i’m seeing told me the first four, is he emotionally attached ?
@triplehsheartattack8515
@triplehsheartattack8515 2 жыл бұрын
@@lauraellla3184 hes a SIMP
@KatieJCruz
@KatieJCruz 2 жыл бұрын
What about instead of “just stay” he complains that you sat somewhere else other than next to him? 🤔
@dianasherry9903
@dianasherry9903 3 жыл бұрын
My man said , "I'm loving you." So memorable to me that I had it put on our headstone after he passed suddenly 22 years later. Truly set in stone. Present tense and forever...
@dianasherry9903
@dianasherry9903 3 жыл бұрын
@@cahilpeterson4978 fine, and you?
@fatoumatabrenner-fatajo4315
@fatoumatabrenner-fatajo4315 3 жыл бұрын
This brought tears to my eyes.
@aryanpatel647
@aryanpatel647 3 жыл бұрын
Most painful words to hear that someones mother is no more...,really painful...
@dlynch1898
@dlynch1898 3 жыл бұрын
So sorry for your loss💐😢
@sockydotson9580
@sockydotson9580 3 жыл бұрын
@@aryanpatel647 l
@lidyalao9544
@lidyalao9544 3 жыл бұрын
5 things 1. He said I miss you 2. Just stay 3. How is that? 4. Be careful 5. i love you..
@macanoke9920
@macanoke9920 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you dear🙏
@lovelylovely1232
@lovelylovely1232 3 жыл бұрын
He is !!!!!!!!
@Mamimifoli
@Mamimifoli 3 жыл бұрын
He said 3 things of this... but he said he wasn't ready for a relationship.... he pulled away.... :(
@mukimbacarol3704
@mukimbacarol3704 3 жыл бұрын
@@Mamimifoli too hurting but that's life and maturity
@nancybuscemi6933
@nancybuscemi6933 3 жыл бұрын
He said 1-4 but not #5 yet. But he keeps showing up.
@ShlomoJesmerRelationshipCoach
@ShlomoJesmerRelationshipCoach 3 жыл бұрын
When you believe that you deserve a good guy, that's when you will attract him. Your brain will filter out the trash.
@kimpetri6750
@kimpetri6750 3 жыл бұрын
I believe you!
@annamarie3288
@annamarie3288 3 жыл бұрын
Yes !!!!
@ShlomoJesmerRelationshipCoach
@ShlomoJesmerRelationshipCoach 3 жыл бұрын
@@annamarie3288 Haha love the passion! 🙂
@ShlomoJesmerRelationshipCoach
@ShlomoJesmerRelationshipCoach 3 жыл бұрын
@@kimpetri6750 Awesome. Now it's time to believe in yourself? (if you don't already)
@justicejoycetv
@justicejoycetv 3 жыл бұрын
How long is this belief suppose to take to will the *good guy? Because I’m still filtering.*
@arckocsog253
@arckocsog253 3 жыл бұрын
I’ve been watching these videos for years now, looking for clues. Now I met a man, who expresses his feelings, likes to spend time with me. I don’t need to use any tactics, he just likes me:)
@ArtsyMegz_On_Etsy
@ArtsyMegz_On_Etsy 3 жыл бұрын
My goodness, I feel ya! I finally found a man like that after many years of kissing frogs instead of princes (or guys who either didn't really care about me, or couldn't really connect with). After so many years, I have finally met someone who actually wants to buy me dinner and gifts, and is hesitant to accept one in return (when I want to give back after he keeps giving me so much). 🥰 So here's to hope and faith that us ladies will keep going strong in our relationships 😊.
@Liz-dragon-street.
@Liz-dragon-street. 3 жыл бұрын
These are not tactics that you learn.. its a way of living and being! Because you saw them all those years you know hoe 2 behave and have bounderies and respect for yourself
@shayk.393
@shayk.393 3 жыл бұрын
Lord, please let this happen for me, tooo
@planetwalker798
@planetwalker798 2 жыл бұрын
@Arc Yay, isn't that refreshing?!
@brittneymcknight3166
@brittneymcknight3166 2 жыл бұрын
Bless ur heart. Real love can not be cloned
@ingridkhajeh8982
@ingridkhajeh8982 3 жыл бұрын
We live at a distance so one evening I was at the gym when I got an unexpected text. "Sky !!" The sunset was gorgeous and he wanted to share it with me. That one word made me smile the whole night
@janineleahy7329
@janineleahy7329 3 жыл бұрын
Hi oh how lovely that is nice that's how it should be sounds like you have agood one
@ingridkhajeh8982
@ingridkhajeh8982 3 жыл бұрын
@@janineleahy7329 Haha we pretty much just text. He works a lot and does drag car racing although the season is over. I've been on two-morning coffee dates one year apart. Yes you read that correctly Lol My patience will pay off. I am unshakable
@richardrivas3294
@richardrivas3294 3 жыл бұрын
When you believe that you deserve a good guy, that’s when you will attract him.Your brain will filter out the trash
@janineleahy7329
@janineleahy7329 3 жыл бұрын
@@richardrivas3294 hi that's right I've always believe I deserve good guy but some make out they are good but they are not
@richardrivas3294
@richardrivas3294 3 жыл бұрын
Ingrid Khajeh Yh thats right miss.Are you single?
@peterhoatson
@peterhoatson 3 жыл бұрын
As a man, I can say that is all so spot on, ladies! I'm here to learn more of how to show up as a loving man
@a.b.2850
@a.b.2850 3 жыл бұрын
That is such a nice thing for you to do! good luck
@peterhoatson
@peterhoatson 3 жыл бұрын
@@a.b.2850 😊
@JuuC
@JuuC 3 жыл бұрын
That's a nice thing to do, well done! Sadly, plenty of us don't believe them anymore as we've been told all those words but they were all lies to get what they wanted and then leave. Never misuse them, they can really hurt when used without honest intentions ❤️
@allisongallant374
@allisongallant374 3 жыл бұрын
When someone loves you they will at least meet you HALFWAY, I lost my job due to covid19 and there was someone that I really cared about, and someone I actually did fall for they both know who they are. If someone really wants to get get to know you they make an effort, if there is no effort on their part, I will give up I am having a hard time right now, I could really LOVE having someone good in my life right now, but I don't want someone I have to take care of does that make sense, I don't want someone who is controlling either.
@sunitafisher4758
@sunitafisher4758 3 жыл бұрын
🌸 that’s so very sweet 😊
@gusmonster59
@gusmonster59 3 жыл бұрын
Apparently, you have never dealt with a narcissist. They say all those things and mean zero of them.
@priyaverma2346
@priyaverma2346 3 жыл бұрын
yeah shallow people with good packaging
@ojala5555
@ojala5555 3 жыл бұрын
I have dealt with a narcissist. They just say these things too early, but if you are wise enough you will realize that it is not sincere. Their words and deeds do not match. -That's for sure.
@royalisrael7475
@royalisrael7475 3 жыл бұрын
Exactly. I was thinking the same thing. "I miss you", but they never stay, "I love you", but their actions don't line up with words.
@cheleamerica1st87
@cheleamerica1st87 3 жыл бұрын
I just broke up with somebody like this but his actions did match he still says all these things to me WHEN he talks to me 😭
@ojala5555
@ojala5555 3 жыл бұрын
@@cheleamerica1st87 So why did you break up with him?
@AimeeCVaj
@AimeeCVaj 3 жыл бұрын
I know there are scammers, cheaters, and liars out there but trust me when he truly loves you and vice versa, it's a blessing. There are still good guys out there that will genuinely say these things. We need to pray for wisdom to discern the good ones from the bad ones.
@planetwalker798
@planetwalker798 2 жыл бұрын
Yes - trust is hard especially if you've had a few relationships to "really" know. I remind myself of alignment actions+words ( in that order )
@leighcarlson87
@leighcarlson87 2 жыл бұрын
“I had such a good time with you today. I love you 😘” This was his text after I accompanied him to a dental appointment and we ran two errands afterwards. For that to spark declarations of fun and love means a lot about the simple comfort level of this relationship. I don’t need fireworks, just every day shared experiences and openness (We’ve both been married before and suffered heartache.)
@nicky_bee
@nicky_bee Жыл бұрын
That's so sweet!
@angelahertle682
@angelahertle682 2 жыл бұрын
Even before he shared that he loved me and wanted to spend the rest of his life making me happy, I asked him to promise not to break my heart because I would be devastated. His response made me cry - he said that he would protect my heart in his and keep it safe for always. I knew right there that I loved this man so deeply.
@SaystheTruth3
@SaystheTruth3 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you Matt for this 💗 I just recently connected to a guy I dated 24 years ago we lasted 2 years. He was the love of my life. Well he moved away a long time ago and we lost connection due to our careers, life ect... Well, found him again. I've been looking for him since my divorce 10 years ago. He said he had been looking for me too but never found me. We've been together since this December. Our relationship is better and stronger than ever before. Last week he told me that he loved me 24 years ago and still to this day... It really is an amazing dream come true ❤️
@dianalereve5402
@dianalereve5402 2 жыл бұрын
awwww 🥰 how beautiful 💛
@cleggett3410
@cleggett3410 3 жыл бұрын
"I GOT YOU" - which means whatever you need I'm here. I love this from my man.
@cheleamerica1st87
@cheleamerica1st87 3 жыл бұрын
My friend w/bene’s says this to me lol we are ride or die but I wanna be more 🤦‍♀️
@daubiejohnson7516
@daubiejohnson7516 3 жыл бұрын
My man always tells me to “Drive safely” and asks me to let him know when i get home safely
@melodybythrow7163
@melodybythrow7163 3 жыл бұрын
I love that my man does that. I truly feel loved and cared for because he does this.
@TeacherYe.
@TeacherYe. 3 жыл бұрын
I told him that I'm getting vulnerable around him and that we should stop talking. He said, nope you can't get rid of me easily like that cuz i'm going to stick around and annoy you. 😂 I'm speechless.
@krowmother6970
@krowmother6970 3 жыл бұрын
My God that is the sweetest thing ever!!!! So happy for you both.
@user-cw8om2lr7v
@user-cw8om2lr7v 3 жыл бұрын
Soo sweet
@loryjones7220
@loryjones7220 3 жыл бұрын
Yeah, my guy said something like that. Didn't last long. If your guy's sentiment lasts, good for you.
@lorna197
@lorna197 2 жыл бұрын
What I love about my man is he doesn't say I love you often, however....he shows me he loves me in his actions everyday in various ways. I am 56 and I have learned from all bad relationships I have been in and the most important example of love is action. Many people throw those 3 words around by saying them, but don't show it in their actions. I am grateful my man doesn't say it all the time...I know he loves me by his actions. A precious gift, one I've never had until now.
@Cori-P
@Cori-P 3 жыл бұрын
I don’t know about this… some (not all) men are masters at selling you a dream. They say all of these things without ever having any intention of following through. Trust actions, not words ♥️
@jasonbryan9056
@jasonbryan9056 3 жыл бұрын
Hello how're you doing?
@jqb18
@jqb18 3 жыл бұрын
He called me Queen or texted, "Good Morning Beautiful" at the start of the day. I also think when men care about you they cook for you, want you to meet their family/ mother, go on long trips or even weekend getaways, and invite you into their home without any expectations.
@cheleamerica1st87
@cheleamerica1st87 3 жыл бұрын
Every man I talk to does that text it’s not special
@drama2u
@drama2u 3 жыл бұрын
That could be true for men who don’t truly love you as well. Been there done that.
@Ifidreamitidoit3566
@Ifidreamitidoit3566 2 жыл бұрын
@@cheleamerica1st87 yes they can throw out the hello beautiful text but it's only when they are truly attached that they will message you good morning pretty consistently
@rbuk001
@rbuk001 3 жыл бұрын
Heard all those words several times from different guys and turns out they were all lying. Men will tell you whatever you want to hear.
@Lauren_Fields
@Lauren_Fields 3 жыл бұрын
I said the same.
@anitoaeromina21
@anitoaeromina21 3 жыл бұрын
Same.
@richardrivas3294
@richardrivas3294 3 жыл бұрын
Amethyst Sia Coach when you believe that you deserve a good guy,that’s when you will attract him.Your brain will filter out the trash
@indiraanandjit1172
@indiraanandjit1172 3 жыл бұрын
So very true... they tell you what you want to hear!
@richardrivas3294
@richardrivas3294 3 жыл бұрын
Indira Anandjit Yh miss!very correct are you Single?
@carolyn8769
@carolyn8769 3 жыл бұрын
Watch the video because you need the context but ... In a nutshell: 1. I miss you 2. Just stay 3. How is that? 4. Be careful 5. I love you Your videos are awesome Mat, thank you for such clear information ⭐️💜 My man has said 4 out of 5 of these ...
@brucecadmus4841
@brucecadmus4841 3 жыл бұрын
hello beautiful
@richardrivas3294
@richardrivas3294 3 жыл бұрын
When you believe that you deserve a good guy,that’s when you will attract him.Your brain will filter out the trash.
@richardrivas3294
@richardrivas3294 3 жыл бұрын
Carolyn Coach when you believe that you deserve a good guy,that’s when you will attract him.Your brain will filter out the trash
@victoriazelano7645
@victoriazelano7645 2 жыл бұрын
How about I like you a lot after the second date?
@shawandapatterson7197
@shawandapatterson7197 3 жыл бұрын
Don’t agree with the “I miss you” part because I have experienced that as part of breadcrumbing. This line has been used as an entry back in to a relationship that is one sided.
@sgmermaid3189
@sgmermaid3189 3 жыл бұрын
Agreed... sometimes these r tools used by online scammers
@Dragonfly_magictarot
@Dragonfly_magictarot 3 жыл бұрын
The hoover move, narc 101
@80sfanjk
@80sfanjk 3 жыл бұрын
I agree
@LalaineLalaineLalaine
@LalaineLalaineLalaine 3 жыл бұрын
Agreed👍💯
@catherine9808
@catherine9808 3 жыл бұрын
Completely agree, just ended it with a breadcrumber he regularly tells me he missed me , at first I bought it but saw through it thankfully. Opted not to even give him a reason for my absence and just ignored his last text , guess what he didn’t try contact me again 🤷🏻‍♀️
@zairamartinez5509
@zairamartinez5509 3 жыл бұрын
words my man says to show me he loves me: "how can I help you to be happier?"
@v.89G
@v.89G 3 жыл бұрын
❤️
@brucecadmus4841
@brucecadmus4841 3 жыл бұрын
hi
@cathycampbell5939
@cathycampbell5939 3 жыл бұрын
People say that 😂
@Icon_of_Design
@Icon_of_Design 3 жыл бұрын
That doesn’t say he loves you. It says he’s worried about you and troubled by your unhappiness.
@SatumainenOlento
@SatumainenOlento 3 жыл бұрын
Ooohhh...that's lovely ❤
@angel007sherm
@angel007sherm 2 жыл бұрын
The guy that I am seeing said "I love you" to me very early and I did not respond, for awhile... He kept saying it, and kept pursuing me, even though I told him constantly about my emotional distance, my reservations, my expectations. Last weekend I finally said it back, and thanked him for continuing to say it despite my lack of response. He told me he wanted me to say it when I meant it but he had to tell me how he felt anyways...
@survivingtothriving1053
@survivingtothriving1053 3 жыл бұрын
My ex phscopath boyfriend told me all of this almost every single day. Finally I understood his agenda, he just interested in my green card, not me. Lol. 😂 It was painful in the early stage, but when I look back at my self that I managed to survived a massive manipulation. God saved me!
@ZiggyLu-og3zp
@ZiggyLu-og3zp 2 жыл бұрын
Yep! Went through that too! Was his name Ian? lol. He was totally scamming. He knew just what to say and how to act. Know a narcissist and you will never have to deal with them in a relationship again.
@crazychristmas100
@crazychristmas100 2 жыл бұрын
@@ZiggyLu-og3zp this happened to me, too. I believe mine was after the same and maybe money he thought I had. Once he sensed I knew he was manipulative he ghosted me. I do miss him sometimes but it was never going to work.
@holleylafary6594
@holleylafary6594 3 жыл бұрын
The "I" in I love you makes a huge difference. He is claiming ownership of his emotions, claiming the words and makes a huge impact. When you are friends a simple " love you " allows lack of attachment and ownership of the emotion.
@ugochimonica4557
@ugochimonica4557 3 жыл бұрын
whatzpp her I was like this be'fore I know who can he:lp you out....... text her now on WhatsApp she can sol:ve your pro:blem:: don't waste your time here........❤❤❤
@Emm-lp7of
@Emm-lp7of 3 жыл бұрын
My guy told me last night that he wants to be the first to go when it’s time to leave this life because he doesn’t want to know life without me. 😩
@richardrivas3294
@richardrivas3294 3 жыл бұрын
When you believe that you deserve a good guy, that’s when you will attract him.Your brain will filter out the trash
@sherrylee6475
@sherrylee6475 3 жыл бұрын
My dad always told my mom that statement too. He did pass 14 yrs prior to her😭
@richardrivas3294
@richardrivas3294 3 жыл бұрын
Emm am really sorry about that miss but are you single?
@richardrivas3294
@richardrivas3294 3 жыл бұрын
Let me know ok,I’ll like to talk to you ok
@libra33327
@libra33327 3 жыл бұрын
My guy eveyday telling me that words. But we are not dating. He is not going out. Only house and work. Taking care of his old parents. So i have to understand that. At least he never stops messaging everyday. Morning afternoon and nights before he sleep.
@mariatheresagomez2540
@mariatheresagomez2540 3 жыл бұрын
Scammers are very good at all these emotional attachment methods. Trust me, I experienced it.
@royalisrael7475
@royalisrael7475 3 жыл бұрын
So true, and the love bombing, one must pay attention and be aware of these fake love scammers.
@christinelee4780
@christinelee4780 3 жыл бұрын
I am so sorry for what happened to you.
@ben2008able
@ben2008able 3 жыл бұрын
😀😀😀
@joyceyolandastorch8964
@joyceyolandastorch8964 3 жыл бұрын
There are many men out there that are so into themselves or their work , or hobbies, that they dont do what you are saying. some cant wait to take off after spending the night with you etc. Some dont think to ask how you like something, say i love you, miss you or be careful. Ive met many like this over the years. Some might only do this at the start of a romance. THERE ARE ALL KINDS OF MEN OUT THERE. I think my only serious boyfriend after i was divorced won me over because he called me alot and said i love you alot. Called me " baby doll". But as time went by some of that kind of dissipated. But he was different than others ive met, and he was Italian. When an Italian guy loves you its a whole different ball game.
@friasuntjojo1855
@friasuntjojo1855 3 жыл бұрын
Ikr..... no wonder they seem so into us, they've been subscribed n watching this... lol
@alesacrawford941
@alesacrawford941 3 жыл бұрын
I met my man right before covid struck!! So we have seen each other maybe 5 times over these past few months. We talk everyday!! I feel that we are getting to know each other deeper because of this. We love each other already. Patience is important. We are both in our 50's. I think our age has helped. I dont think I could have endured this if I was younger. Maybe the reason we have endured this is because we have a very strong connection!
@jennyblair331
@jennyblair331 3 жыл бұрын
I'm in the same boat! We haven't ever met, but we are talking so much that when we do meet it will be liking meeting an old friend...but with romance lol
@michellemoffett9458
@michellemoffett9458 3 жыл бұрын
Does he have a brother or a friend for me to meet? Lol
@DiraMcClintock
@DiraMcClintock 2 жыл бұрын
Did this relationship ever go anywhere? 5 dates in a few months isn't a good start?
@TheMargotGaliart
@TheMargotGaliart 2 жыл бұрын
@@DiraMcClintock depends on circumstances I think. The distance can be a challenge. Or work.
@tintinpenaredondo6531
@tintinpenaredondo6531 3 жыл бұрын
He said to me, "I want to see you" even we're far from each other. "Can I call you, I want to hear your voice" When we're talking he wants to listen than talk, but when he felt comfortable after few minutes he already becomes vulnerable and told the story when he was young, when he was studying, telling about his family in everything.
@marilynesperat5063
@marilynesperat5063 2 жыл бұрын
my man always says i love you sweetheart, ill always stay by your side... and i believe him because i can feel his love and sincerity..
@victorymavis2403
@victorymavis2403 2 жыл бұрын
±2347030812148⏯️⏯️⏯️⏯️ Hello it's works I can't believe am with my love again after so many years of break-up.,
@victorymavis2403
@victorymavis2403 2 жыл бұрын
Chat on the number above the comment
@quicknotesmedia9540
@quicknotesmedia9540 2 жыл бұрын
My man does all the actions that shows he loves me, but he hasn’t said “I love you” yet. He said there were a few times he was close to saying it, but he’s scared. He said, like Matt mentioned, it would put us on whole different level. However, he repeats the words “passion” a lot. He refers me as his friend and partner. He’s a mature, established and high value man and I am the same. We get each other. He said, you have met your match. We have a deep soul connection that ignites when we’re apart of together. Like we had a previous life together. So, powerful. It’s undeniable.
@anneamoroso1387
@anneamoroso1387 3 жыл бұрын
Tonight he said “I hope you know how much I love you”. It was so endearing. I’ve never had a man say it in this way before. We have both had terrible colds lately- mine worse than his-we were both COVID- tested and are negative, thank goodness. But we have both been sleeping in separate beds this week bc I have a terrible cough that keeps me up at night. So things have felt more distant in the intimacy sense. So he said that tonight. And he said he missed me. ❤️
@Huntressrayz
@Huntressrayz 2 жыл бұрын
I want to fall in love once again and experience all those wonderful emotions associated with it..but I'm afraid to trust. Ive gone through pain, rejection and humiliation for so long that I've actually forgotten how it feels like to love and be loved in return..
@crazychristmas100
@crazychristmas100 2 жыл бұрын
Me, too. It's tiring.
@emilyb1438
@emilyb1438 2 жыл бұрын
Yep. I realized I was in love 7 months in and once I could finally get past the infatuation stage. Lol. He hadn’t said it yet, but I had a hunch. All his actions were there. I resigned to not worry about whether or not he said it and just enjoy everything. Two months after I’d come to that conclusion, he said it at the absolute best timing in our relationship and in the sweetest most perfect and meaningful way. I was so thankful not to be at a place of frustration (b/c he hadn’t said it) but a place of more go-with-the-flow. And thankfully I had already done my work so I could easily respond that I loved him too. First real love here at 37yo! Absolutely worth the wait.
@dianalereve5402
@dianalereve5402 2 жыл бұрын
awesome- all the best !! 😊
@Tara-kt5ll
@Tara-kt5ll 3 жыл бұрын
Mat, your heart is so genuine! I’m so grateful for the ways you share your gifts with the world. Your insight and care is gold 🙏🏽❤️
@ShlomoJesmerRelationshipCoach
@ShlomoJesmerRelationshipCoach 3 жыл бұрын
He really is excellent. How long have you been watching his channel?
@crystal1555
@crystal1555 3 жыл бұрын
When he drops the "love" word in casual conversations. Also when he brings up songs with "love" hidden in the lyrics.
@williamjames808
@williamjames808 2 жыл бұрын
Hello
@williamjames808
@williamjames808 2 жыл бұрын
How are you💓💞💓💝
@williamjames808
@williamjames808 2 жыл бұрын
I can help you attract your ex back to you in two days❤❤💝💝
@emilyngo
@emilyngo 3 жыл бұрын
What Mathew said isn't wrong, however, people could use these words to trick you into thinking that they are into you. So, a man telling you what Mathew just shared doesn't necessarily mean he is attached to you. You have to also add the CONTEXT factor. For example, a man could call you around 1am and tells you that he misses you, yet he may miss some other parts of your body...
@barbarahammer9037
@barbarahammer9037 3 жыл бұрын
true,
@SaeedNeamati
@SaeedNeamati 3 жыл бұрын
true and insightful
@roselahuerita
@roselahuerita 3 жыл бұрын
I agree on that
@tonyasmith8502
@tonyasmith8502 3 жыл бұрын
Exactly!!
@Izycaspel
@Izycaspel 3 жыл бұрын
agree
@ginabartlett7038
@ginabartlett7038 3 жыл бұрын
A man I’m dating that I’ve known for years sends me songs relating to love.. he told me once he loved me when we were children and he loves me now.. I’m special to his heart and always will be... he is my future husband 😊 knew it as a child, know it today 😊 I will marry him ❤️
@1STBUCKLEY
@1STBUCKLEY 3 жыл бұрын
Then let him go and grow and he'll come back. Get together too soon and often you grow apart
@planetwalker798
@planetwalker798 2 жыл бұрын
Awwwh, nice to hear that can actually play out 😊
@billegeto
@billegeto 3 жыл бұрын
my man, after a pause of about eight months when he saw nothing of me, grabbed my hand and told me, "you should never ever disappear from my life again!"
@leynajaneify
@leynajaneify 3 жыл бұрын
My love shows me every day how much he cares and loves me. Sometimes my thoughts and insecurity gets the best of me
@relebohilesm3270
@relebohilesm3270 3 жыл бұрын
We're in a distance relationship and he always says "Lets stay positive." Once said, "I miss you." "You are one of the people I care a lot about." And recently, "Keep safe."
@williamjames808
@williamjames808 2 жыл бұрын
Hello
@williamjames808
@williamjames808 2 жыл бұрын
How are you💖💖💖💘
@williamjames808
@williamjames808 2 жыл бұрын
I can help you attract your ex back to you in two days❤❤💝💝
@relebohilesm3270
@relebohilesm3270 2 жыл бұрын
@@williamjames808 I am doing very well Mr James, thank you for asking.
@williamjames808
@williamjames808 2 жыл бұрын
Ok💖💖💖💖
@carmenghersi1070
@carmenghersi1070 3 жыл бұрын
He said “I appreciate you”
@jennifermayer2708
@jennifermayer2708 3 жыл бұрын
My husband was a traveling salesman. His mistress always stayed with him all night in a motel room. "Don't leave" and "Stay" worked for both of them. They were together for more than two years.
@debbiedyer9318
@debbiedyer9318 3 жыл бұрын
You're right. Paying attention; being aware; being interested all help us to see he's actually showing up and making an effort. The one thing I heard that meant more to me than I realized was "You saved me". That was impactful. Unfortunately the relationship failed over a miscommunication that was never resolved......
@lydiahcrochetandknitting4871
@lydiahcrochetandknitting4871 3 жыл бұрын
He says everything apart from "stay" because I haven't visited his house yet. Still building up our relationship
@mariasobey1107
@mariasobey1107 3 жыл бұрын
The 3 words that a man truly love a woman will say “you complete me!”, it’s what my husband told me! 🥰
@pitzuri
@pitzuri 3 жыл бұрын
The example of City of Angels is soooooo beautiful! I even forgot that's one of my favorites movies!
@williamjames808
@williamjames808 2 жыл бұрын
Hello
@williamjames808
@williamjames808 2 жыл бұрын
How are you💕💕💓
@williamjames808
@williamjames808 2 жыл бұрын
I can help you attract your ex back to you in two days❤❤💝💝
@TheSharronW
@TheSharronW 3 жыл бұрын
I must have gone through lots of pain and considered worthy.. God and The Universe have brought me a totally loving man. We have both lost our partners to death. We have a common desire to restart our lives happily. I have been truly BLESSED .. and yes, I'm totally IN love with this guy who has old fashioned values, doesn't come with an agenda, is helpful and generous. **Dazed**.... but just wonderful appreciation for each other. He travels 2.5hrs to see me and was here last night.. this morning he says "I don't want to go home" (however he had to go home for other important reasons) . Can't believe my good luck! 🥰😍🤩
@a.b.2850
@a.b.2850 3 жыл бұрын
🥰
@TheSharronW
@TheSharronW 3 жыл бұрын
@@imooyeohiolebo5047 How does this relate to my post? Should be a general comment? Thanks.
@husniyahashim4591
@husniyahashim4591 3 жыл бұрын
@@TheSharronW geeze..sometimes ( people needs a listening ear).allow others a platform to speak..without henpecking
@bekind1297
@bekind1297 3 жыл бұрын
Happy for you, praying it is the one that God sent you to spend your life with 😊
@janineleahy7329
@janineleahy7329 3 жыл бұрын
Hi that is so lovely to hear that good luck to you both how long it you don't mind me asking did you look for love again after your partner's died
@kaydykes9916
@kaydykes9916 3 жыл бұрын
I feel like men have just as many dating struggles as women and while I feel like I do get some thing out of all of these dating videos I do kind of feel like all these coaches should emphasize more that most of us struggle with things like communication etc. and that’s why we are in this situation. It seems like Women are more likely to watch these videos but we’re still pursuing men who struggle to communicate.
@RosannaMiller
@RosannaMiller 3 жыл бұрын
I have never said "I love you" first. And God forbid I say it first. I wait patiently. Thankfully I have not gotten impatient. It can be difficult.
@a.b.2850
@a.b.2850 3 жыл бұрын
I’m not impatient to hear them say I love you, simply because I know when they do, I see it and I can feel it. I don’t need the verbal confirmation.. What I will need though is to share my feelings.. whenever I’m sure he does, I’ll wait a few mores weeks and I’ll say it at one point. Was never wrong.. 🤷🏻‍♀️
@annab7632
@annab7632 3 жыл бұрын
Very to the point message! Four months together and within the first month, during a very emotional tight hug, my man leaned back with his arms around me and said “I love you too!” I hadn’t said a word and he explained that he could feel how I felt just by the way I was hugging him. Amazing and he has proven four out of the five statements you’ve shared here. The only thing he hasn’t said is “just stay”. Difficult to stay at his home since he has two young adults living with him and has not stayed with me tho I have mentioned it...says he’s not ready yet...hmmmm...otherwise everything is wonderful...not complaining, just a bit confused...time will tell I guess! Thank you for your videos Mat...spot on! 🤗
@pp6663
@pp6663 3 жыл бұрын
That is great that he is not ready. (Both persons should be ready). Making that step is HUGE. Both bodies are precious and should be treated as such. Be grateful for that. Take your time.
@brucecadmus4841
@brucecadmus4841 3 жыл бұрын
hello beautiful
@ShlomoJesmerRelationshipCoach
@ShlomoJesmerRelationshipCoach 3 жыл бұрын
You are very lucky. But I'm sure he is too if that's how he treats you.
@tamelacartercarter8837
@tamelacartercarter8837 3 жыл бұрын
Fout months together he hasn't ask you to stay the night or you haven't stayed over night at his place he isn't ready might want to reevaluate this relationship
@brucecadmus4841
@brucecadmus4841 3 жыл бұрын
Hello beautiful
@jenabril6947
@jenabril6947 2 жыл бұрын
It took a month before my bf told me that he loves me too long after I told him so..at first, I thought that he just told me that for me not to feel down.. but through time, I have learned that Mat was right.. once a guy is already emotionally attached to you, that's the only time that they mean the words "I love you" 💞
@cassandrablauberg7518
@cassandrablauberg7518 2 жыл бұрын
This video touched me on so many levels. I’m going through a break up and this goes to show he hasn’t been emotionally connected to me for a very long time. He protects himself by not allowing himself to be emotionally connected. Thank you for sharing! 😊
@williamjames808
@williamjames808 2 жыл бұрын
Hello
@williamjames808
@williamjames808 2 жыл бұрын
How are you💞💞💘💘
@williamjames808
@williamjames808 2 жыл бұрын
I can help you attract your ex back to you in two days❤❤💝💝
@Claribel42
@Claribel42 2 жыл бұрын
Yes I’m agree with you. So sad because mine after three years now he is back and doesn’t want to be emotionally connected and even though he says he loves me he just doesn’t want to be committed to me or emotionally attached
@carlabarlow1409
@carlabarlow1409 3 жыл бұрын
Once my husband asked me to go with him to pick up some supplies for a job. While we were waiting for an order, a sales man, who was also there to pick up supplies, started a sales pitch to my husband concerning the company he worked for. My husband said he wasn't interested. The man asked if he had a family, children, my husband told him how many children we had and that he wasn't interested. That man turned to me and asked if I was with him implying he thought I wasn't the wife or mother. My husband never told the man different, I wondered why at the time, then I realized that man gave me a compliment and my husband liked it. I know what we wear and how we sit, stand, or act matters to our men.
@josephinetizon7314
@josephinetizon7314 3 жыл бұрын
We are in a long distance love relationship..he said..i miss you..just stay..be careful and i love you.when we are talking and chatting we feel we are beside with each other and thanks we have a quality time staying online..thanks matthew boggs for coaching and dharing some of your experiences..I am a marriage counselor too..God bless
@brucecadmus4841
@brucecadmus4841 3 жыл бұрын
hello beautiful how are you doing today
@melissareding5830
@melissareding5830 3 жыл бұрын
This is amazing. I’m in a new relationship and he has said the first 4 phrases. I kind of knew what these phrases meant as each occurred and didn’t want to put too much stock in it (because I’m guarded right now), but this helps solidify it. Thank you, Matt!
@Claribel42
@Claribel42 2 жыл бұрын
Yeah ! In a new relationship in the beginning you gonna hear more than that. They get so excited that they can’t stand it being with out you. Time pass and start to slow down till they they get so used having you around. When you get emotionally attached to them is when they start pulling away 🥺
@Hawelufamily
@Hawelufamily 3 жыл бұрын
Yep, my man is finally emotionally attached to me as I am to him. I tend to over think these things. Thanks Matt ☺️
@emilyrobben9102
@emilyrobben9102 3 жыл бұрын
When my guy playfully asks "Do you miss me?" Or "Do you love me?" I know he is feeling it for me. I know deep down he's needing a bit of validation too. It also shows his vulnerability, which he does NOT do often.
@kimasp7482
@kimasp7482 Жыл бұрын
I've been Married/divorced twice......"It makes me happy when we can be so open with each other". Words I've NEVER heard before ....until now!
@mindingmybusiness4846
@mindingmybusiness4846 Жыл бұрын
This is it
@ratukatak
@ratukatak 3 жыл бұрын
He has said all of the above. He also says “Please stay safe for me dear, I can’t bear it if anything happens to you”, “I love you with my life” and our private joke statement “If another man/woman hits on you, tell him/her your sweetheart owns a chainsaw” 😂
@mgsol3316
@mgsol3316 3 жыл бұрын
Love this!
2 жыл бұрын
Too cute ❤️
@alexandraemmanuelli9826
@alexandraemmanuelli9826 3 жыл бұрын
About 7 months ago I reconnected with the love of my youth (me:16 him:18) after 29 years of losing contact. I thought based on him chasing me non-stop, that he wanted something meaningful with me but he pulled the old “I’m not ready” routine after I had several visits with him (we are long distance). He just got out of a 13 year relationship less than a year ago (he indicated it was on and off throughout that time). He never wanted to marry her even though they have a 4 year old daughter together. He wanted me to move to his town and even to move in with him and I put the brakes on that idea. What I don’t get is that after my ultimatum about me feeling like I was just a rebound chase, he tried to reassure me I was not. I have purposely faded away yet he keeps calling me constantly and seems to think we have more than we do. I feel like we can only be friends but sometimes I want to abandon that thought too because he seems to think I don’t have other “options”. I chose not to date anyone right now although I have him serious consideration. Now I’m just flat out pissed.
@jasonbryan9056
@jasonbryan9056 3 жыл бұрын
Hello how're you doing?
@sadiewolf2881
@sadiewolf2881 2 жыл бұрын
Well, i have had a similar experience-down to the same two year age difference. What is super hard is that this was one of my very best friends and I missed the friendship terribly. At first all was wonderful and then suddenly, brakes were put on. It has crushed my self esteem and made me feel so bad about myself. I know, I know- before everyone comes at me for being needy-I am just not a perfect person. I did not want to lose our friendship, but am so tired of games. So tired of not being on sure footing. So tired of feeling bad about myself. So tired of the loneliness. Just thinking there is nothing left for me in life at this age except more loneliness. I am keeping u in my thoughts and prayers. Good luck.
@alexandraemmanuelli9826
@alexandraemmanuelli9826 2 жыл бұрын
My solution was to cut off all communication with my old flame and move on. I put my relationship with God first, went on a few dates and about a year later, I met the man I will marry. We have done the courting thing the “old fashioned way”, this means “no sex” until we get married and no living together before marriage. We have talked about everything good, bad and ugly from our past, our expectations and our faults/strengths. We also share the same faith and values, which was MAJOR for us to establish from the beginning of our relationship. We are currently planning our lives together and will get married in a few months. I didn’t expect to meet him and I was ready to live life alone, but I was actually ok with that! I was truly satisfied being alone, although God knew my heart’s desire was to marry again. My biggest piece of advice based on my Christian perspective is to put God first, ask for His help, wisdom and guidance for your life. He will help you to feel complete and whole with YOURSELF. Once you are content, either you will be ok being alone or He will bless you with your intended love. Do things “differently” and see how God will bless your life! 💖 @sadiewolf28
@alexandraemmanuelli9826
@alexandraemmanuelli9826 2 жыл бұрын
@@sadiewolf2881 please see my update, Sadie. I pray it blesses you and offers you a little hope. 😊
@sadiewolf2881
@sadiewolf2881 2 жыл бұрын
@@alexandraemmanuelli9826 thank you so much! It DOES help so much! That is a wonderful story and I am so glad that you found the perfect person. Once again, I see that putting God first, then yourself is really the only plan. Thanks again for this really encouraging update! 🥰
@KimWiter
@KimWiter 3 жыл бұрын
When were were beginning our relationship he told me, “I don’t think I’d miss you if you didn’t come around.” (He played in a band and I only saw him on weekends.) I decided to stay away and spend my time doing other things. He lasted two weeks before he was looking for me. He missed me - a lot. Forty years later he still misses me when we are a part. Staying away back then was one of the best things I had done in our relationship. It gave him the opportunity to find out if he’d miss me and it showed me I was strong enough to protect myself. It’s been a wonderful ride.
@faithwilliam4092
@faithwilliam4092 3 жыл бұрын
This really works for me
@faithwilliam4092
@faithwilliam4092 3 жыл бұрын
I just got my ex back now
@faithwilliam4092
@faithwilliam4092 3 жыл бұрын
I can also help you bring back your relationship back now
@faithwilliam4092
@faithwilliam4092 3 жыл бұрын
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@faithwilliam4092 3 жыл бұрын
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@codeladylee
@codeladylee 3 жыл бұрын
Been with a few men and I only hear these phrases from my mother 😂😂😂😂😂
@cocosmith12
@cocosmith12 3 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂 May God send you a right man
@mariemswissi9514
@mariemswissi9514 3 жыл бұрын
your comment made me laugh I had a terrible day, thanks to you and your mom for this smile on my face, I wish you meet the man who deserves you and be happy together
@codeladylee
@codeladylee 3 жыл бұрын
@@cocosmith12 Amen 🙏🏽 Thank you!
@codeladylee
@codeladylee 3 жыл бұрын
@@mariemswissi9514 Awww sorry about the bad day, happy my comment added some brightness to you. Thank you for the kind wishes 🙏🏽
@erikamartins5659
@erikamartins5659 3 жыл бұрын
Matt, can you do a video about DIVORCED man - and why you should let him go if he wishes to be single after DIVORCE? - Thank you so much!
@geraldinecaletina8445
@geraldinecaletina8445 3 жыл бұрын
Stay strong
@veronicastewart3162
@veronicastewart3162 3 жыл бұрын
He has begun to ask me for input when making decisions if what he is about to do will impact our relationship. He is showing that he is considerate of my feelings and my enjoyment of our connection.
@user-mk6ud5cn8d
@user-mk6ud5cn8d 3 жыл бұрын
Been with a man for 6 weeks. We've both saying I love for constantly. What he said in a text yesterday was " Im grateful and appreciate you" How sweet is that?
@ShlomoJesmerRelationshipCoach
@ShlomoJesmerRelationshipCoach 3 жыл бұрын
Happy for you! How did both of you meet?
@user-mk6ud5cn8d
@user-mk6ud5cn8d 3 жыл бұрын
We met on a dating site. Our connection was almost instant. We both are so fortunate.
@ShlomoJesmerRelationshipCoach
@ShlomoJesmerRelationshipCoach 3 жыл бұрын
@@user-mk6ud5cn8d That's awesome. So happy for you. Hey, I don't want to sound spammy but I have a channel that Inthink touay enjoy. 😀 I would love to have you join me if you lime it.
@libbylandscape3560
@libbylandscape3560 3 жыл бұрын
I have heard “I Love You” so many times in the past in an attempt to get in my pants by men with no interest for a relationship, just making the score. Years of distrust followed. It’s nice to find information, simply put, how men work when they’re serious. Thanks.
@richardrivas3294
@richardrivas3294 3 жыл бұрын
Coach when you believe that you deserve a good guy,that’s when you will attract him.Your brain will filter out the trash
@AxelSituation
@AxelSituation 3 жыл бұрын
Nope. Wrong. Clearly, you have never dated a player. I can assure that they say allll of these things too.
@pamelasunmer4575
@pamelasunmer4575 3 жыл бұрын
But they don’t DEMOSTRATE.
@foreveryoungpisces7426
@foreveryoungpisces7426 3 жыл бұрын
Even players fall in love!
@berrychowchow4978
@berrychowchow4978 3 жыл бұрын
lol
@yumiii7271
@yumiii7271 3 жыл бұрын
Yeppp
@brittany1484
@brittany1484 3 жыл бұрын
Totally agree. They will lie to your face and not bat an eyelash
@SanisahSalamun
@SanisahSalamun 3 жыл бұрын
Hi Matt. Thank you. I think I found my true love since early October. I'm 49. He is 42. Last date, he said "I love you" many times. I don't remember how many times when we chat. Coz it's first time a man said I love you many times in one night. And I so grateful.
@ramonaphillipsteach3284
@ramonaphillipsteach3284 2 жыл бұрын
Beautifly said. He has said, “you are so beautiful!” Like 3 times at one time, with all this emotion, sort of like an outburst. So cute. I was a little stunned, then I told him that he looked nice. And we instantly gently grabbed each other’s hand. It was like our hand had a brain of it’s own. We paused and stared at eachother. A beautiful moment.😍😍
@reina6271
@reina6271 3 жыл бұрын
Been hanging out with him for a month... 4 out of 5! We got this, girls. 💪🏼😊
@williamjames808
@williamjames808 2 жыл бұрын
Hello
@williamjames808
@williamjames808 2 жыл бұрын
How are you💞💘💘
@williamjames808
@williamjames808 2 жыл бұрын
I can help you attract your ex back to you in two days❤❤💝💝
@jennahudson3420
@jennahudson3420 3 жыл бұрын
My man told me he’s lucky to have me because he knows I could replace him easily. Good sign right?
@suzanneemerson9787
@suzanneemerson9787 3 жыл бұрын
No, means he knows he’s not worthy of you and you could replace him easily. Move on. You can do better.
@cherylanncupw6974
@cherylanncupw6974 3 жыл бұрын
My long distance guy did all that. Though he is far away...I can feel the genuinely. Since I tried to break it off so many times he still pursues me tirelessly. I really love that about him...
@JR6191947
@JR6191947 3 жыл бұрын
He said, "you deserve the best of me" and then changed his unhealthy habits and began strength training He also moved to ge closer to me and began a new business venture....and we haven't yet met. However now the business has taken him over and he seldom is in his intimate zone. This is hard for me. I understand he has goals for us but where did the love language go??
@williamjames808
@williamjames808 2 жыл бұрын
Hello
@williamjames808
@williamjames808 2 жыл бұрын
How are you💞💞💞💞
@williamjames808
@williamjames808 2 жыл бұрын
I can help you attract your ex back to you in two days❤❤💝💝
@dawnevans0602
@dawnevans0602 2 жыл бұрын
I had a man say and do all these things and, he was playing with my emotions.
@queensharon1202
@queensharon1202 3 жыл бұрын
My man said "love is love no matter who you are and what your age". He's 25 years younger than me. 🤷
@williamjames808
@williamjames808 2 жыл бұрын
Hello
@williamjames808
@williamjames808 2 жыл бұрын
How are you💞💞💞
@williamjames808
@williamjames808 2 жыл бұрын
I can help you attract your ex back to you in two days❤❤💝💝
@nej1237
@nej1237 2 жыл бұрын
If a man will support you all the way with your life no matter how difficult it is he is there for you. And when you told him that you are falling for him because he is the man you can rely on but he will just say please not me just find someone else who deserve for your love. I don't want to hurt you. I am happy of what we are right now....so confusing!
@laurievia8344
@laurievia8344 3 жыл бұрын
He surprised me one day and sent me a text msg that only said I need you, not want but need. He tells me he loves but but this was a new one.
@chemnrd4404
@chemnrd4404 3 жыл бұрын
“You get me”
@Vsg-ng7ll
@Vsg-ng7ll 3 жыл бұрын
You are not broken. Just because he (ex) didn't recognize your beautiful soul, doesn't mean you don't have a beautiful soul
@ancientpathwalker9490
@ancientpathwalker9490 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you
@GiGi-sx1ru
@GiGi-sx1ru 3 жыл бұрын
Lately I felt like the man I like is not emotionally invested on me. Instinctively, I tried to win him over. But I felt like I am becoming emotionally toxic for him. I am pulling him towards me by force. So I sent him a message this morning telling him I will be needing time for myself. I need to reflect. I need to evaluate my actions. He responded, "Relax Gigi. Take your time. Don't try to get ahead of yourself. I'm always here. I am not leaving." To give you a short background, he and I are in long distance relationship, he is in Busan and I am in Manila. We started as friends and after 9 months, it blossomed to something special. What do you think am I being over dramatic only? Do you think he is a keeper? I like to hear the point of view of men especially.
@paulabrown1624
@paulabrown1624 3 жыл бұрын
If he is patient and caring about what you need, he sounds like a good man. All the best to you! 🙏🏻💕
@debbiem214
@debbiem214 3 жыл бұрын
Wow...I love your videos. I watch them often, I usually don’t comment but I always enjoy them. I find them very enlightening. After watching this this video I actually cried, my husband and I will have our 30th anniversary in December and every thing you say is absolutely true. To this day my husband says all of this to me , every day. Thank you Matt.🌹
@richardrivas3294
@richardrivas3294 3 жыл бұрын
When you believe that you deserve a good guy, that’s when you will attract him.Your brain will filter out the trash
@Jenitza82
@Jenitza82 3 жыл бұрын
I've only heard: be careful, you've been in my mind. You're a special person to me. You're beautiful inside and out 😒 I guess not emotional connected to me 🤷
@louiseboyd8896
@louiseboyd8896 3 жыл бұрын
my guy never says any of those things....if I ask him about it, he says why do women always have to be reassured. He says "I'm here, aren't I". Most men have options....can act like jerks....and get away with it....what planet are these men on that are so polite and considerate?...
@richardrivas3294
@richardrivas3294 3 жыл бұрын
Louise Boyd Coach when you believe that you deserve a good guy,that’s when you will attract him.Your brain will filter out the trash
@garycrossman9067
@garycrossman9067 3 жыл бұрын
Hello Louise. The end part of your statement really cracked me up. 😄. Sorry. Well I believe a man that loves his woman should love hard inside out, with that he’ll not have to struggle saying “I love you “ because then he’ll just be expressing in words what he’s feeling.. it’s quite and amazing to see the looks on a woman’s face after saying those words .. I miss that a lot. A woman deserves better , she need all the love that she can get and even extra. LolZz Hope you’re safe out there. ?
@richardrivas3294
@richardrivas3294 3 жыл бұрын
@@garycrossman9067 how are you today miss?
@therealhellkitty5388
@therealhellkitty5388 3 жыл бұрын
@Louise Boyd… may I respectfully suggest you find someone else? “I’m here, aren’t I” means he’s just showing up for dinner and won’t ever contribute to the meal without grudging effort. He’ll let you know what a burden it is and expect extravagant praise for sitting on his arse holding the cushions down. You will do ALL the heavy lifting and yet it will never be enough. You’ll always be reaching out for some hint of praise or affection and he will take two steps back so you have to do more, and more, and more. He takes but doesn’t give. It’s the manipulation of a narcissist…trust my words, please, I was married to one for 23 years and it nearly (he nearly) killed me. You are a beautiful woman worthy of respect, having your needs fulfilled and to swim in an ocean of joy for the rest of your life. Sadly, this dude is the turd in the water. Be safe, well and happy…you’re strong and can do this thing. Goodwill and best wishes.
@srijadas9709
@srijadas9709 3 жыл бұрын
@Louise Boyd I can relate to every single word you wrote, my ears also crave for some appreciations or assurance but have accepted that he wl never say any of the above to me may be I am not good enough! 🥲
@Emy53
@Emy53 3 жыл бұрын
Not every man will express himself using those comments, so just because you don't hear them, doesn't mean he's not feeling you. There are so many ways a man or woman express how they feel. I have never heard anyone tell me any except one, "how are you"....and I don't feel any less loved.
@hoilen
@hoilen 3 жыл бұрын
My guy chose to help me with my second job during covid times, because he rather spend time helping me than being by himself at home.
@terrismith4493
@terrismith4493 3 жыл бұрын
I HAVE BEEN TOLD ALL THEM WORDS MANY A TIMES. IT WAS ALL LIES. NOT BY ALL BUT SOME.
@Sanjana21080
@Sanjana21080 3 жыл бұрын
May be true at the time they were said. Situation and people change. Believe it when it was said, most times.
@fiorellaserrano6732
@fiorellaserrano6732 3 жыл бұрын
Well, you feel when its true, according to me of sure, and also the TIME it has lot to do on it, NEVER believe to someone who says I LOVE YOU in the second date, it's hard to say, no one can say it that easy and be really sure about it, just saying... 🤷‍♀️😁😅
@brucecadmus4841
@brucecadmus4841 3 жыл бұрын
Fio hello
@agnes6969
@agnes6969 3 жыл бұрын
We are unique individuals, we differ in so many ways so those dating tutorials cannot be applied to everyone...it still depends
@brucecadmus4841
@brucecadmus4841 3 жыл бұрын
Delphine Nyirahabimana, MD hello beautiful
@danettefuller5334
@danettefuller5334 3 жыл бұрын
Call me when you get there.
@olgafuentes9434
@olgafuentes9434 3 жыл бұрын
This!!!!!
@marylynnhuggins9832
@marylynnhuggins9832 2 жыл бұрын
Besides telling me that he misses me and that he loves me, he also said that I mean the world to him.
@ramonak2497
@ramonak2497 2 жыл бұрын
I'm so happy having back my ex fiance back, after being separated for 4months . All thanks to Mr Ali whom help me to get back my ex again, I will suggest y'all get help from him and it works within 4days
@ayanaj1006
@ayanaj1006 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks, Matt, great video! The pandemic has made it tough for relationships, but I still plan to put some of your good advice into practice. Keep safe!
@Bop89
@Bop89 3 жыл бұрын
He said to me sarcasm is a sign of love after I made a comment about him giving me approval that I play bingo...so I asked him, Are you saying you love me? His response was, there is love for you...We have been texting for a year. We had a child 30 years ago and he reached out and found me on Facebook..not sure what to think about all of it?? I did go and see him where he lives. Shared pictures of our son as he was not part of his life at all. He moved back to his home town. This is the strangest connection I have ever been in.
@chrisnapoli8386
@chrisnapoli8386 3 жыл бұрын
Sounds like you deserve better.
@pp6663
@pp6663 3 жыл бұрын
@@chrisnapoli8386 I agree with you 30 years, at least. ???? He is not the only available (if he is) male on this planet. See ya later fella. 💔
@janineleahy7329
@janineleahy7329 3 жыл бұрын
Hi I think if I had loved a person a long time ago and as long as he was a good man to me I would think yes he was a man to me loved me cared for me I would oh hell yes maybe faith and meant to be it's like say you left a man wasn't very nice and talk and talk and put none of those words in to action not good but in the time your gone and your not there and they truly love you they come back bit like that saying you shouldn't miss a good think till it's gone through death just not together respect that person when they are there I didn't have that lol didn't fix what he broke wasn't for me
@pinkymagpayo9721
@pinkymagpayo9721 3 жыл бұрын
He said he is happy when I am happy....sad whenever I am sad. He really wants my blissfull happiness. I believe in him bcoz it shows in his actions. He treats me and respects me extremely well.
@dawnrefinoglu709
@dawnrefinoglu709 3 жыл бұрын
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@dawnrefinoglu709 3 жыл бұрын
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@DesiLu4Life
@DesiLu4Life 3 ай бұрын
You hold a special place in my heart.... I've never met a woman like you.
@naomigatthisbackup8090
@naomigatthisbackup8090 3 жыл бұрын
Oh well, I guess he’s not emotionally attached to me lol
@garycrossman9067
@garycrossman9067 3 жыл бұрын
Hello Naomi. How are you doing?
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