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@peterchan5097 Жыл бұрын
Men who can communicate beyond sexual needs are praiseworthy gentleman
@wahoo4uva3 жыл бұрын
A man actively pursues what he wants with no ambiguity and in no uncertain terms. Mixed signals is the equivalent of a NO, ladies. Move on and don’t (continue to) waste your own time.
@heidigburski26723 жыл бұрын
probably right
@berthaantoinettamason92072 жыл бұрын
Wish someone told me that before I had to realize from experience
@galxy30672 жыл бұрын
👏🎯exactly
@josephang99272 жыл бұрын
Well, I'm too tired sometimes when she pulls back so it is natural fot thr man to not be specific.
@cristinaxo2 жыл бұрын
Yes 100% men really are this simple.
@cydoniemiles15353 жыл бұрын
That’s so true. Little moments give it away. I had a lightbulb moment when I was talking about films with a man who I was not yet dating, but just working with, and we got talking about the films that always made us cry. I told him mine and he went and watched it that afternoon, just to see what it was that effected me so much. He told me how he felt a couple of months later. There are good ones around, promise!
@lamuel40043 жыл бұрын
If he takes you out , spends his money , prays for you , fights and comes back , do dumb things because it makes you happy He loves you. Mine only fought with me.
@bulgarianchick893 жыл бұрын
Easy, don’t sleep with him quickly. That’s how I made my boyfriend fall in love and trust me I spent a lot of time praying to meet someone like him
@indianprincesstarot3 жыл бұрын
How long did u make him wait sis? is 6 months good enough
@Kweenb863 жыл бұрын
Natasha Kalyan Until he commits! I’m going though this now for the first time in my dating life. If you want different you have to move different
@indianprincesstarot3 жыл бұрын
@@Kweenb86 so true!
@deadlifts_steaks.3 жыл бұрын
@@indianprincesstarot, after tying the knot.
@comfortboakye73933 жыл бұрын
U are very right. You don't have to be too vulnerable to him. Don't act like you need him. Just don't be so cheap.
@peterchan5097 Жыл бұрын
Men who wants to wait before sex is highly praiseworthy and honourable!
@ruthwells39903 жыл бұрын
If he provides protects and profess to others about you, he is a keeper.
@dellchica23733 жыл бұрын
Why am i checking this? I dont even have a man😩
@MissSaraJan33 жыл бұрын
Knowledge for when you do!! 🤗
@supermanfan13153 жыл бұрын
Saaaaame sis 😩
@zaklinazaklina87803 жыл бұрын
😁
@gordonsmom38613 жыл бұрын
Dell Chica ... me either. Lol
@Angel-nk4jm3 жыл бұрын
Same 🤣😂🤦♀️
@IdentityByKT3 жыл бұрын
I think men get really nervous when the woman he has been chasing starts paying attention to him too Their insecurities come alive and they worry about being good enough
@bipolard00d173 жыл бұрын
This is actually true. It's a weird thing how a guy can have so much confidence when he thinks that he doesn't actually have a chance with anyone he likes. Things get scary when he realizes he might actually have something to lose. But this is short-lived so if you really like him just stick with him and he'll get back to feeling comfortable soon : ) actually more confident after all is said and done.
@timefliesaway9993 жыл бұрын
So men are basically a childish version of women
@bipolard00d173 жыл бұрын
@@timefliesaway999 If that's how you wanna look at that then that's fine. It's not always that way, but if it's not then it's possible he doesn't like you that much. I think it's natural to be nervous around someone you like, and we all have insecurities. I think also when we're looking for a life partner one of the things we value is compassion, and for the space to be transparent. So I think, even subconsciously, it's a part of the process to let our guard down a bit to see if this person is able to help build us up and not further tear us down. No one is a finished product and if we feel like we're better off continuing to work on ourselves and our confidence on our own, then that's going to be a turn off.
@timefliesaway9993 жыл бұрын
@@bipolard00d17 wdym? I never mentioned a man liking me or me liking a man... also never said that he might be nervous around me or anything?! Maybe you answered to a wrong channel?!
@Valoelify3 жыл бұрын
@@timefliesaway999 But why did you watch this video then? Lol
@t33ny763 жыл бұрын
You’ve perfectly explained the dating experience of single women. Men only agree to casual sex first “then see how things go”. I know this dude is trying to help inform and educate about men’s behaviour however after 12 months attempting to date online, needing to connect with someone sexually first is beyond problematic and quite shallow and dangerous.
@MissAllaCinderella3 жыл бұрын
I’m sooo glad you mentioned all the effort some men may put in, just to obtain “Option A”. That’s not talked about enough! I have a man in my life who does all the listening, making me happy, chasing me, overcoming obstacles, caring about my life and comfort, etc... JUST to have the chance for “Option A” with me. And for years that threw me in for a loop because his actions were that of a person who loved someone!
@yvasquez24493 жыл бұрын
That’s a bit crazy, isn’t? I mean what type of guy does that? Not a very honest one I think
@icanisa3 жыл бұрын
yeah I've met two of this type of men. Fortunately while I was still rather young (early 20s) so it kinda make me wiser now & save a lot of pointless dating. But of course, women who never experience this would never believe there are men who would go to such extent of being a "husband material" just to sleep with us & accuse me of being negative (or I was at fault for my past relationship) whenever I advice them to always have some doubts on men they're dating. Turned up I always right.
@noemie18732 жыл бұрын
@@yvasquez2449 all the men do that with their girlfriend until they find the one.. because this is the best option they have AT that moment. Boyfriend means for a woman that he IS a candidate for marriage Girlfriend means for men a way to have sex on a regular basis. That's all.
@jocelynflowers2 жыл бұрын
it’s never happened to me and that’s because i cut off all guys who i sense just want to talk to me to keep me as an option. women need to tap into their intuition more. it will help save us from these type of men. stay grounded in yourself and feel the energy in your body. you will know when the guy is just trying to keep you as an option. also the way they react when you reject them for it is so funny😂.
@infinity17263 ай бұрын
This!! So true.
@nikikalanovics44603 жыл бұрын
It happened the exact way, when i was emotional the first time. I was cyring, trying to hide it, but he noticed and asked me about what happened, if he said or did something?. I was unable to talk about the problem, so i was just silent, but he continue to asking, and hugging me. He was sooo sweet, that after i felt sorry for him to worrying that much for me. After we talked about the problem, it seems it was nothing, i was just exaggerated something... but still he was so understanding and kind. I think he really loves me, and don't wants to risk loosing me.
@ninajones66223 жыл бұрын
No matter what I'm doing I always stop when Brian Nox uploads a video. They are always amazing and so informative. Thankyou Brian xx
@waitwhat60563 жыл бұрын
I met a man last year who put in an amazing amount of effort for Option A. When I realized this, and told him flat out I was leaving him be (and not giving him Option A at all), he ghosted and I never heard from him again. 😂
@sweetsue42043 жыл бұрын
Thank him for that. He did you a favor. Now there’s space for someone better focused on the wonder of you.
@waitwhat60563 жыл бұрын
@@sweetsue4204 He certainly did. He actually ended up pursuing my co-worker, and that did not end well at all.
@EbbyGerl6 ай бұрын
Whst if sex came on the wedding night then years later it is found out that spouse A was actually gay and using spouse B? There is no perfect science even when ypur partner claims to believe in God and prays with you.
@gailwood32482 жыл бұрын
I think it is true that there are definite signs of emotional attachment in the course of things. However, keep in mind that men, like women, can 'act' and 'put in effort' of emotional attachment, in heavy doses when they want to or initially to get into favor, but as with narcissists, this can be a way to draw you in for the 'use of you'. SO, if a person you are dating or getting to know can keep up the emotional effort with consistency for a longer period of time than say about 6-9 months, you may have the real thing. I do think you are also right about the initial period - you don't want a 'love bomber' but you want to see if he is interested in getting to know the real you, and puts in some effort there first.
@SamElle3 жыл бұрын
I find that you know truly how someone feels about you by how they treat you after youve been physical with them. If they have no interest in you, they tend to phase out and stop talking to you right after being physical. If they are actually interested, they will stick around after those bedroom activities
@bea29able3 жыл бұрын
Especially if they want more bedroom activities!
@laurabarber66973 жыл бұрын
Are you kidding me? You had better know what he really thinks and feels about you long before you ever get into bed with him!
@sweetspice91203 жыл бұрын
Not really. He can keep sleeping with you while he waits to get someone else
@sherripuckett45373 жыл бұрын
I slept with my second husband on the first date. Some men want commitment! He and I worked together and saw each other daily! We longed for each other. Sadly he wanted to control.
@louisetaylor69522 жыл бұрын
That person may just like having sex with you so they don't have to start a whole new relationship and also you are not high maintenance...most men like to get what they want with the least possible effort as in "Why drive to pick up a pizza when you can have it delivered"
@ozzyoz52103 жыл бұрын
I think Love finds us. I don't believe a person should chase after anyone to obtain it!
@jashcullen42353 жыл бұрын
really felt my heart beats fast while watching this vid. I'm actually dating a guy who's emotionally attached to me. And while you are talking about actions, efforts and everything, I really felt the sudden gush of my blood to my face lol he's exactly the man you are describing! and tbh, i'm also falling for him 💙 thank you for making this amazing vid! now, i'm really decided that I will say "yes" to him soon
@lei41033 жыл бұрын
Was talking to this guy who seemed to “fight” for me, I was confused by the way he’d call/msg knowing I’d tell him to kick rocks, it made me sad the way he’d politely accept defeat and try again in a couple months, I admit there were times I accepted him out of admiration for his “effort”, and questioning whether it was me just rushing things, he drove through heavy snow, rain, and even to another city and back for me, most times for company, a cuddle, and of course sex, and it was ALWAYS ALWAYS at night. There was a brief moment in the connection where he kicked it into high gear, did the things I’d been wishing him to do, it was a beautiful couple weeks and that was it. This went on and off for 2.5 years. I was so confused, what man puts in this much time and energy if he only wants sex? What man drives an hour in sleet just to hang out in the car if he doesn’t have feelings for me? It was in his eyes, I’d catch him stare at me with joy written all over his face, he started opening up to me, he loved to hold me, he’d listen to me talk and talk and talk happily. I convinced myself he was silently in love and now I’m realizing that he enjoyed me for emotional comfort. I was a safe haven, and we were definitely attached, probably just two lonely people with aligning standards, but it was going no where. I had grown to love him and hopeful for us. He had his own shit going on, he attempted to be transparent but in a masculine/logical way, I needed more clarity on feelings. Its not on him to know what’s best for me, though I wish he’d had been man enough to tell me he was unwilling/unable to give me what I deserve. I adored him and am faithful to a fault. I say this bc this video helped me realize why I misinterpreted his “effort”, I was young, still am. It was a lesson for sure.
@Sans21new2 жыл бұрын
I am somewhat in the same situation now, it absolutely baffles me the amount of effort he put at the beginning and I was just getting pulled into his indecisiveness of his feelings. I guess I have to end things and move on.
@Mari-lv1rd5 ай бұрын
@@Sans21newthese guys may have feelings but they are just not ready. they may feel they have to work on their own self more...
@gypsydee93 жыл бұрын
At any age, we women have a hard time understanding the mind of a male. Thanks Brian for giving us real insight into understanding men better.
@meiwang29213 жыл бұрын
Feels so hurtful. Yet this is a bit comforting.
@quaintlittlethingsonlinesh931 Жыл бұрын
You will feel understood in that relationship. 💚 Love that. 💚
@rileyhoffman66297 ай бұрын
Seriously wish I'd known this fifty years ago.
@leiarose40743 жыл бұрын
I think every guys pursuing a girl is very different. They may like you in the very beginning and put a lot of efforts in a way of getting to know you better. Sometimes, guys also do afraid of getting hurt or rejection if the efforts they put in and did not receive any reciprocate/response from the girl. And then they will slowly reduce the efforts and that’s when the girl will start feeling the guy is giving them a mixed signals. I see guys and girls both are equal, if one doesn’t feel being wanted or loved, they will walk away.
@Valoelify3 жыл бұрын
This is so sweet, I'm melting just thinking about him. Thank you so much for your help Brian!
@marinakrasova61142 жыл бұрын
Thank you very much! My heart is so full that I can’t find the words. It is a true happiness and a blessing to meet such an intelligent, wise, kind person and a professional who knows the subtleties and intricacies of the human psyche. Your advice is inestimable and much-needed, and I am very grateful to you, thank you for your work. I`ll be looking forward to new videos from you.👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍
@sherripuckett45373 жыл бұрын
Thank you for approaching this tough subject! Knowing we don’t think alike but not understanding how they think puts us at a disadvantage when you genuinely care for a man and want to know if you are being understood. You just 100% summed this up for me! Thank you! Happy New Brian and Good Luck Everyone 😊
@kristalyntorres68833 жыл бұрын
this is very helpful to us to determine between the Bedroom Activities & Emotional Attraction. Thank you so much Brian! what a beginning Year 2021 with your tips, lessons & being our Coach. ❤️🥂🎉
@scorpiosunrising79643 жыл бұрын
I'm opposite I want to sleep with him fast to see if I'm even bothered to go any further. If the sex doesn't work from the start then I wont be emotionally interested. Haven't we all tried to be all in love first and then sleeping with them makes you fall out of love quicker than anything. Such a waste of time. Must have been so sad in the old days were people would marry first and then find out they were completely incompatible in bed.
@ayuodagiri15773 жыл бұрын
hahaah i love your alpha female atttitude and i freaking agree with you, since when must men have the all the choices and priorities?!!?
@davinacarrell24273 жыл бұрын
If it’s all you know I guess you can’t complain.
@BigBabyBoo3 жыл бұрын
I feel like sex is a skill and is based heavily on communication. I wouldn't leave a relationship if my sex life with my partner is mediocre, however, I do agree if you both have mass different sex drives then yes that is something that wouldn't work out.
@tdatda4103 жыл бұрын
What a scorp!
@gabriellagrace47343 жыл бұрын
Scorpio rising here and I agree
@arielklay233 жыл бұрын
I'll tell you what, my sweetie is NOT a track a kind of guy (thank God!) And he is definitely putting effort into our relationship.
@monicaswavel60743 жыл бұрын
This is really good! I sent this to my 2 beautiful daughters!
@Dryellee3 жыл бұрын
Oh, thank you for this video! That's exactly what happened last week and I got option B from him and all the doubts desappeared.
@nataliemeansnice3 жыл бұрын
i just feel like it’s all so impossible and complicated. i just don’t think it’ll ever happen for me.
@bellakim94043 жыл бұрын
It will happen for you. What you think and speak becomes reality. Think positively and Manifest better for yourself in 2021. Optimism will create more awesome. I promise ☀️
@annahedman16453 жыл бұрын
I’m thinking about giving up. Imagine the feeling with the acceptance of it after the greif period. Like everything is FINE and GOOD and nothing is missing!
@stefaniemcgivern45193 жыл бұрын
I know what you mean and how you feel
@theycallmevitch2 жыл бұрын
Tbh that seems like a limiting belief of yours. I would really look at that and try to reword it to invite possibilities into your life!
@angelinasamson6996 Жыл бұрын
He likes to sit with me and watch tv , lay together on the sofa, I’ve never been In a relationship with a man that didn’t want to be constantly physically touching me . He loves to give me an hug and a kiss when I get here . Then he cooks me dinner or gets us a take away . ❤
@lilredhaze72 Жыл бұрын
❤ Nice
@miriamshelton67553 жыл бұрын
He has panic attacks when I'm not around. But at times during my visit to see him, I feel I need to turn around and go home. Sometimes it feels toxic. He just dont get it.
@Itu3103 жыл бұрын
"I wanna try not snore for at least one day in the week." I would like to hear my boyfriend say that
@MsLee-oh7hy3 жыл бұрын
The guy I am dating snores. It’s not extremely loud so I think it’s 🥰 cute.
@triumphscorner76433 жыл бұрын
First time watching your video, and am already loving your personality. Love from Nigeria 🇳🇬
@deborah49593 жыл бұрын
Imo
@saira48473 жыл бұрын
You are amazing Brian. I so wanna give you a big hug for this 🤗
@amandavictoriasewell73936 ай бұрын
Amazing. Totally right. My guy has gone from 'A' to 'B'. It took him nearly 4 years! xx
@MeS-xn2nf Жыл бұрын
My partner still have chemistry for me and after 40 years he wants me even more
@ChristianZiya3 жыл бұрын
This channel is addictive . Happy new year everyone ♥️♥️
@JewelBlueIbanez3 жыл бұрын
“In the olden days”. Those days still exist with women who value themselves.
@bong_water3 жыл бұрын
and here we see a incel
@wfkellogg3 жыл бұрын
I took it as a joke: "Waaayyyy back when telephones had cordes....."😉
@genericname70202 жыл бұрын
@@bong_water What are you talking about?
@Liz-dragon-street.3 жыл бұрын
Ohh my God!! He likes me ... 😊♥️ Afther 5 months of dating he became a big of an asshole one night and i confronted him with his behavior .. first he was aweful and really tried 2 put me down! So i left! And stayed away!! He started texting me ... i didnt send anything back.. and afther some days he wanted 2 talk.. again i was like "fuck off"! In those weeks he understood what he did and he really showed me his softer side.. he opened up 2 me and now we are happy 2 gether and he is giving me all the respect a woman deserves and i give him all my love (in a healthy way) It so worth it 2 respect yourself and never let a man bring you down!!
@ninachicana3 жыл бұрын
I could really use your advice Brian!😭.. Long distance connection..talked almost everyday for 9 months hes recently divorced I visited him in texas last month around my bday. He got me gifts. We had an argument night before I left. We talked about it said we were good. When I went home he was hot cold. Few days later he said it waa the argument that he was being distant. I was so confused. Now he said hes going thru something and is drained. I call him NYE. He mesaaged next day and said he will call. Still nothing. I dream of him all the time even when we were talking before I visited and 1 of my dreams came true. I do love this guy. I'm lost and being patient. Truly trying to keep myself strong.
@bluelotus13633 жыл бұрын
He has a girlfriend/wife
@ninachicana3 жыл бұрын
@@bluelotus1363 he doesnt.
@Pjenkins_okc3 жыл бұрын
@@ninachicana he does. If he is hot and cold...he doesn’t want you really.
@tarotbymadeline55953 жыл бұрын
I have a question for you, Brian Nox. Do you not find it to be a generalization that you say, men can sleep with a woman, and still remain friends? I’ve seen women do this same thing, and hearing others verbalize these generalizations, puts me at unease, since it’s this kind of divide that breeds the toxic mindset of, well “boys will be boys “ and only have a “one track mind “ I don’t think all women are emotional creatures and that all men are disassociated from feeling. I think we should refrain from those types of stereotypes, don’t you think? All else aside, I think your videos are informative and well thought out.
@crystaliz86633 жыл бұрын
Nice to see you Brian !
@icysnow57cold643 жыл бұрын
I have a question. How do males and females bond with each other? I don't see how men and women can bond (especially romantically) with each other. Women can build incredible friendships and become very close to each other in a way men can't bond, and science shows that women can bond very well with each other. Generally, women are even more social than men are. After something bad happens, a woman quickly rushes to talk to all of her female friends to get support, whereas a man can isolate himself and grief alone. Women tend to be more emotional, more caring, more empathic, more compassionate, more affectionate, more loyal, more nurturing, more understanding, more sympathetic, more sensitive, more kind hearted, more peaceful, more calmer, more gentle, more expressive, more intuitive, and more outward than men are, and thus bond more with other women in a special way that they can’t with men. Men, on the other hand, are not that emotional, and thus can’t bond with other men in a special way. Women are more comfortable being around with other women than they are with men. They have a type of bond that usually men with women won’t really have, or with men and men. Most women like to do affectionate things with their female friends like cuddling with them and holding their hands and be touchy-feely towards each other, while most men would never do affectionate things with their male friends (especially not cuddling with them or holding their hands or be touchy-feely towards each other). Men are usually much lonelier than women are. Men don't often talk about their personal problems with their male friends like how women do with their female friends. Females produce a lot more oxytocin than males do. And that's a reason why women tend to hug a lot more and be a lot more physically affectionate than men do.
@deadlifts_steaks.3 жыл бұрын
I am a woman and I don't have any friends to run to. I have been lonelier my entire life. Lucky now that I have a husband to share everything with.
@icysnow57cold643 жыл бұрын
@@deadlifts_steaks. You and your husband have a very strong bond and connection with each other?
@deadlifts_steaks.3 жыл бұрын
@@icysnow57cold64, of course. That is why I married him.
@getawaywithpam Жыл бұрын
Yes…Efforts to be with you and what makes you happy
@RC-ic3br3 жыл бұрын
Missed you 😊Happy New Year
@friendship66683 жыл бұрын
So I'm a single mom. And I've been developing a relationship w a neighbor for about a year & a half. I get mixed signals, he is always around for major holidays, he actively engages & plays w my son, we can have deep convos, the way he looks at me sometimes!, the 3 of us usually spend 1-3 days a week hanging out. Its confusing, especially when the dynamic is very "family unit/nuclear family". I'm not even sure if I'd call us friends because of how much tension there always is (sexual/anxiety). There is a emotional aspect to it all for sure, we are all getting emotional needs met to a degree w the dynamic. But nothing physical eventhough there is obvious sexual tension. It's so intense & can be overwhelming
@charlenebosiak89363 жыл бұрын
He's probably scared to make a move and unsure of your feelings. I'd just have a sit down char with him and tell him your feelings.
@friendship66683 жыл бұрын
@@charlenebosiak8936 it was just his birthday & i wrote him a story about how i found a treasure box going into detail about this amazing treasure find & then saying he as actually the treasure. He responded well & said he cared about me too. We shall see
@charlenebosiak89363 жыл бұрын
@@friendship6668 It's difficult to say. He may be commitment phobic, gay, avoidant of intimacy or on love. You need to come right out.
@aleynaleslee3 жыл бұрын
Thank you. This came just in time.
@maysaraali57723 жыл бұрын
Love this guy’s content
@xxXUnderworld123Xxx3 жыл бұрын
YES, this is happening to me right now :( This guy at work is sending mix signals and i feel lost like he does these little things that no one else does like making sure i'm safe, I'm looking after my health etc. but he wants me to find another guy on this dating app, and to tell him when i go on the date, day, time etc.
@mindytaylor49503 жыл бұрын
Girl unless you’re ready to deal with the heartache don’t pursue anything until he’s been clear with what he wants. Same thing happened to me. Guy at work put in the effort for five months. First time we hung out at my place as "friends” he even said I should check out other people on dating apps and tried to sleep with me at the end of the night. Said he’s moving closer so he could start walking home with me three times when I didn’t even ask or bring it up. The moment I gave in he was pulling away and one day (two months later) was like hey I hope we don’t text like this anymore cause I like someone else and I’m like, “What...?"
@xxXUnderworld123Xxx3 жыл бұрын
@@mindytaylor4950 Which is why i only talk with him when must at work and focusing on moving career from retail and into Security. Yeah, he still wants to hang out after work when the weather gets better as i owe him a race so he says and he's still protective over me, which is cute. I'm still new to all this with guys as i'm 30 this year and never had anyone.
@jenniferlynch37263 жыл бұрын
@@mindytaylor4950 😀
@yvasquez24493 жыл бұрын
I read the story for you...guy is cute, so attentive but make no move to a relationship, actually encourages you to find a date? it is because he is not thinking about a relationship with you, sorry to say but he only wants bedroom activities...the true is just because a guy is not in love with you doesn’t mean he can’t be cute. They often are when they realise you like it and gets results with you
@JB-yd9nd3 жыл бұрын
Run. Sounds creepy to me.
@cambriastephens52393 жыл бұрын
I'm trying to understand myself but I find myself overwhelmed and overthinking over the men that come into my life. I'm always left guessing and in my head. Reallly I just need someone to make effort and to not leave me out in the cold. It takes time but I need to be open to giving and receiving love in general. I'm trying and I'm being patient
@khensley73826 күн бұрын
I feel the same like you, it sometimes stress me out, being single is more happy and simple, life is complicated enough. But I do wish you can find a man who can show you that love isn't hard to get and just enjoy his love for you. ❤ Be happy
@jorgelherreraojedis36143 жыл бұрын
🤭Gosh... You are so original on how you say things! Comparison are excellent. Thank you for your time and effort. Happy new year! 🎉💚😀🌴🎊
@sayeedakhan50333 жыл бұрын
Hope to see you too, in another video, Brian Nox. Thanks and have a great day
@moubhattacharyay68913 жыл бұрын
Nice ... It's All About Efforts By Given A Real Man Towards His Only Woman In His Life🙂👍❤️
@wsidegurl66313 жыл бұрын
Thats true don't give it up un he's ready to commit.
@enelrahcreivaj3 жыл бұрын
Hey, Geert! Glad to see you upload!!!
@meemeethecat73912 жыл бұрын
Love your channel, got one after me, I thought I had gave up, but this guy sure has been consistent, I'm going for it, I had to subscribe to you, you tell it like it really isse, if I get married, you sure will be invited lol thanks for all you do
@joanadias74493 жыл бұрын
thank you for sharing! Probably your "best" video, to the point and so useful.cheers
@teardrop46783 жыл бұрын
I got dumped on New Years and it’s been an emotional wreck for the last couple months, but I want to admit to him what’s going on and seriously try make it work but I feel so helpless.
@t33ny763 жыл бұрын
He dumped you. “He’s not that into you”. There is nothing for you to work through. You deserve better
@pammmerz81533 жыл бұрын
Consider it a blessing that he's out of your life. The world is ready to offer you someone better if you're willing to graciously accept.
@misscurious76633 жыл бұрын
Have shame and move on. NEVER take him back.
@janeallison7833 жыл бұрын
Why? He dumped you.
@Calidore12 жыл бұрын
He might have made the mistake of his life! If he hasn’t then don’t let him back, unless you absolutely adore him, but do be careful. This is a while ago now. What happened in the end, or is it still going on? I was dumped three years ago. It was great while it lasted, and I’m wracking my brains to work out who is going to float my boat now,, I feel a little cynical maybe.
@grabbelton2 ай бұрын
Don't need proof, he tells me every time. 😊
@kateroth7154 Жыл бұрын
Love this man.
@chesneectp Жыл бұрын
I had a FWB and we didn't really make eye contact until the last day we saw each other...crazy but I felt him getting feelings and I think he felt the same because he blocked me the day after lmao..oh well
@maggiewanjiru28073 жыл бұрын
Cool learning. Thank you Brian
@anacletarodrigues53383 жыл бұрын
Your readings helped me a lot
@jorgelherreraojedis36143 жыл бұрын
Missed your valuable help. Still Addicted to your channel! 🎉🌴🎊💚
@bushraat3 жыл бұрын
Love your videos ☺️. Can you do more videos on online/distant relationships? Especially now during COVID lockdown.
@pramatkat3 жыл бұрын
Ur advices are the best!!👍 Helps a lot Brian💐👌
@angelinpdx22973 жыл бұрын
Amazing advice. Can you do a video on that last piece: “for as long as the relationship lasts”? I’ve been dating a great guy for 7 months but he hasn’t asked me to be his girlfriend. He’s newly divorced and that has given him an Avoidant attachment style. :-( He is pulling away. Without chasing him, I wish there were a way for me to draw him back.
@Mayfloweralways3 жыл бұрын
I would say two things. I think we spend too much time giving guys these psychological outs. Reasons we should give them a break. The cold truth is, they don’t give us any breaks. They expect us to adjust to them and not the other way around. Ironically, I’ve found that most men respond a great deal more positively when you don’t accept their crap. Second. You can only draw him back by being very direct, but then letting him alone after you are. “Hey, I noticed you’re not around as much, and I’m not sure why. I enjoy your company. But if you’re having doubts, I understand. I’ll give you some time. When you’re ready to come back, I hope I’m still there. But if you’re just not ready. I understand.” In my time, I’ve learned, be kind and civil but not accommodating. Guys will completely take you for granted if you baby them and accommodate everything they seem to want. Don’t overthink that he went through this or that. Require out of him being a loving partner regardless.
@nancyduffy1990 Жыл бұрын
@@Mayfloweralways you are so right, kind honesty goes a long way and usually gets the right , real man
@EasrterRising1fan3 жыл бұрын
In the old days? It is still common for many people who practice virtue to wait until marriage.
@sansadrake41333 жыл бұрын
Its rare trust me
@laurac68953 жыл бұрын
And it's actually one of the best ways to create commitment
@sansadrake41333 жыл бұрын
@@laurac6895 not sure. Some guys don't even care about virtue.
@laurac68953 жыл бұрын
@@sansadrake4133 yeah but some still do even if they are minority, and believe me it's beautiful
@mitakagnestai513 жыл бұрын
For sure there are not many nowadays, sigh
@yeeeeeyy3 жыл бұрын
Brian Happy New Year 🙋♀️😀❤
@katia607073 жыл бұрын
thank you for this :) you're the bestest Brian!
@jyotsnadeka6953 жыл бұрын
This really makes sense
@annefelice47913 жыл бұрын
Happy New Year Brian!
@alelidorado3 жыл бұрын
You are right, I'm glad to hear U!
@anasalas20653 жыл бұрын
happy new year Brian
@KradianKrad3 жыл бұрын
Happy New Year Geert!
@nitakalisingh94453 жыл бұрын
HAPPY NEW YEAR BRIAN
@eusebiabulac18493 жыл бұрын
Really relate this reading 😊Thanks!
@DennettDanielle Жыл бұрын
These are fantastic observations
@io100x100 Жыл бұрын
Thank you, this was really helpful... And confirmed my thoughts...
@Starsnits903 жыл бұрын
Tell more about when a man says lets just be friends but kisses you up...
@Bookooky3 жыл бұрын
That's fwb most likely.
@Valoelify3 жыл бұрын
That would be "effort A" like he told you about in the video....
@tk-oo9ob3 жыл бұрын
It's so easy for you men to judge, what about all of us women who grew up with fathers who critised us and put us down at every opportunity ... don't blame us blame the men like my misogynistic and chauvinistic father who still treats my mother like shit! Thats why any man who was a teeny bit nice to me I fell for them, that's why a lot of us fail at relationships and fall so easily for "the bad guys" - it's our fathers "brainwashing" us that we'll never be good enough! Ask your subscribers if how many had a father figure like I had, putting all his efforts into making my life unhappy and breaking up the only good and loving relationship I had when I was young (as he always said he'd never married my mum if she hadn't been pregnant with me). Please take into consideration "bad" actually "very bad" fathers. Thank you. It's not our fault but the fathers and our mothers whom they control and abuse as well.
@angeramirez253 жыл бұрын
I clicked like and Inturned it from 3.1k likes to 3.2k likes 😆
@Rubiastraify2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for another insightful video!
@lataisha603 жыл бұрын
i like your presence in these videos
@IAmRoshniKhanna3 жыл бұрын
So beautiful and true ...what if u both like but its a rebound but u both wana be friends forever
@annacenkova53753 жыл бұрын
Thank you, this was so good..
@goodvibes75193 жыл бұрын
I surely get my person I believe it
@jworksdatecoachingsinglesp76002 жыл бұрын
Brian I really like your KZfaq videos. You make a lot of sense and you say it quickly which is wonderful and very clearly and easily understood. Thanks so much for this which is another great video and keep posting them up for us ladies! One question I have for you I believe that men very rarely if ever can be a friend to a woman without having ulterior motives, can you tell me your belief on that?
@dawnmuckle28473 жыл бұрын
I love your videos they always make so much sense. I believe you are bringing a new book out....when will it be coming out and what will it be called?
@YGb-1273 жыл бұрын
Effort 👍
@A.Hanaais2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much 🙏👏
@annmampaey31493 жыл бұрын
Enjoy ur explanations 😊thank you
@shondamillion39733 жыл бұрын
My boyfriend that was committed to me for over a year told me he wasn't ready for a relationship. Here we are 6 months later and we still see each other.. at least once a week. He still shows me this emotional intimacy.. he cries with me about our relationship - they aren't alligator tears.. this happens at least once a month if not twice a month... but he still insists he can't be "all in".... sooooooo I guess take him for his word but this action makes me think he is really trying to get to a point that he can give me what I am looking for... thoughts?
@Fiiii45673 жыл бұрын
Shonda Million...run. you deserve ALL in not any part timer.
@citizn-xh7rv3 жыл бұрын
Sounds like he's manipulating you. A guy has done the same thing to me. If he really wanted you he'd be all in to give what you need.
@loveishappiness73302 жыл бұрын
When a man says he cant be all in, you need to trust he is being honest. And believe him. And also ask him to say more about that to you, for your own clarity of mind, and peace.
@anna.318 Жыл бұрын
He’s trying to get the benefits of a relationship without committing to one😒 Like make up your mind. Don’t commit to him until he commits to you
@mariefricchione43710 ай бұрын
Dump him for your own preservation. He’s a liar.
@joer82312 жыл бұрын
How do you differentiate between putting an effort from both sides and commanding effort when the couple are equals? Like gay couple?