5 Ways To AVOID Boring Text Conversations | Say This To Your Crush
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Күн бұрынWant to send text messages to your crush that get them to respond instantly? Here's how you can avoid boring text messages that ruin conversations. Chances are you're making these 5 mistakes and fixing them will make your crush SO much more excited to talk to you!
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⏱️Timestamps:
0:00 - Introduction
0:48 - Tip #1: Don't send the same greetings every single day
1:47 - Tip #2: Switch between asking questions and telling stories
3:17 - Tip #3: Make sure to tease them and flirt with them
5:12 - Tip #4: Don't stay in texting limbo with them forever
7:31 - Tip #5: Don't be overbearing, give them time to respond
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@hutao9892 4 жыл бұрын
The fact im searching this up is straight up SAD
@robwestb02 4 жыл бұрын
Jack :3 nah I’d say it’s respectable it shows you care
@dishwasher-vk1hd 4 жыл бұрын
Jack :3 when he sends mixed signals and is a dry texter :( anddd he's cute :(((
@moonwarrior1227 4 жыл бұрын
Ikr same
@rvsh8184 4 жыл бұрын
Sad bois fvr
@staceysinclair342 4 жыл бұрын
Woah jeez u didn’t have to attack me lmao
@chasecieslar3785 4 жыл бұрын
I’m taking relationship advice from a guy with dozens of action figures in his room
@Lak3baby 4 жыл бұрын
Chase Cieslar 🤣💀
@majinchu6938 4 жыл бұрын
Your comment tells me why you need the advice
@a.2223 4 жыл бұрын
Lmaooooo we desperate
@marcussmith5186 4 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣🤣
@blackmarketmike3673 4 жыл бұрын
Man in saying🤣🤣
@aeliusdawn 4 жыл бұрын
"Meet them in person" CRIES IN QUARANTINE
@thisaccount7632ijn 4 жыл бұрын
LAUGHS IN NOT CARING. Me today lol
@courtneynaylor3825 4 жыл бұрын
*cries in social anxiety*
@natixlogan 4 жыл бұрын
*Cough* long distance realationships
@thisaccount7632ijn 4 жыл бұрын
potato_amv_ girl cough cough meets twice in person
@violethmyovela1291 4 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂
@dead.. 4 жыл бұрын
The fact that we are all so awkward that we have to search a tutorial on how to socialize.
@mifdxn 3 жыл бұрын
So true
@ooofoolgaming 3 жыл бұрын
Lol
@ehxon4615 3 жыл бұрын
i feel that
@hecatium4473 2 жыл бұрын
This got recommended to me lol
@the.3290 2 жыл бұрын
*right*
@pizzaboi8196 4 жыл бұрын
Since when did texting get so difficult😩
@Kevin-Musa 4 жыл бұрын
Its not difficult but don't be boring while doing it
@ezequiellopez5702 4 жыл бұрын
Ikr
@Veryraredxvid 4 жыл бұрын
When people got sensitive
@josmoov1323 4 жыл бұрын
Wassup pizza boy
@pizzaboi8196 4 жыл бұрын
Pork Pizza ayyyy
@irrelevant283 4 жыл бұрын
Me: what's your fav movie? Her: *_k_*
@markellgrisby3947 4 жыл бұрын
Irrelevant ongod 😂
@shweepa2061 4 жыл бұрын
Yeah *k* is a great movie
@Gabriel-oi5wx 4 жыл бұрын
TRUE
@glooce_ 4 жыл бұрын
TBH??!
@bracefacemarmar5511 4 жыл бұрын
omg I hate when they be boring.
@i8chickennuggets 4 жыл бұрын
me : hey her : heyyy me : wassup her : nm wbu me : I was doing some origami her : ok gtg bye
@i8chickennuggets 4 жыл бұрын
@@alienboy555 thank you for telling me that
@i8chickennuggets 4 жыл бұрын
@@alienboy555 can I know the logic behind it tho
@i8chickennuggets 4 жыл бұрын
@@alienboy555 hmmm thanks a lot anyway
@animalemadretaco 4 жыл бұрын
Exactly
@trinity3254 4 жыл бұрын
interesting conversation starter
@Mnyu 4 жыл бұрын
1. Don't send the same greetings every day. It is recommended you skip "hello" and jump into number two so that way your conversation has purpose. 2. Switch between asking questions and telling stories. Open ended questions give more freedom. However, though he didn't say this, make sure they actually lead somewhere and aren't totally random or you could seem weird. 3. Make sure to tease and flirt with them. If they seem defensive about any teasing, cease immediately. Also don't use the same one word compliments, attach them to situations you had with them to know you mean it. 4. Don't stay in texting limbo forever. Meet them in person. (though COVID-19 makes that real easy right now. I'd say have a call date.) 5. Don't be overbearing, give them time to respond. People are busy and if you're placing all your energy into another person constantly it usually indicates you need to work on yourself.
@jordan-uk1qb 3 жыл бұрын
• 111 • same 😤 i always think im being weird i need stuff to talk abt
@dua6521 3 жыл бұрын
Yeah, he works a hairdresser when I'm always at home, and I get upset when he doesn't answer
@fuckoffihatepeople7309 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks!
@yes-kg5xk 2 жыл бұрын
is it ok to randomly ask if he plays roblox 💀
@RajdeepDas. Жыл бұрын
@@jordan-uk1qb yeah man 🥺
@fabianvilla5390 4 жыл бұрын
MY CRUSH IS DRY ASFFFF
@blxdetv2999 4 жыл бұрын
Fabian Law same thats why I watched this video its like fuck I carry the whole convo and then she will answer with a two letter answer and then its just super dry
@Hobo323 4 жыл бұрын
@@blxdetv2999 same
@yazanalshahaf1290 4 жыл бұрын
My crush has a Bf☹️😭
@redemption9671 4 жыл бұрын
Twitch_ Yazan mine too I feel you dude.
@memechannel1458 4 жыл бұрын
Twitch_ Yazan fucking same
@anita-tt6zk 4 жыл бұрын
*gets crush’s number, never says hi just goes:* me: “i almost just got ran over” him: “ok” ...
@alexsawh8840 4 жыл бұрын
Sad He's not interesting in you As far as i can tell
@yoitsblade2180 4 жыл бұрын
@@alexsawh8840 lol
@alexsawh8840 4 жыл бұрын
@@yoitsblade2180 😂
@xero8865 4 жыл бұрын
@@alexsawh8840 you and that girl that commented should date based on your pfp lmao
@alexsawh8840 4 жыл бұрын
@@xero8865 lmfao bruh far away relationship doesn't work out I'm a very loyal guy and I'm afraid she won't be But i hv my gf 😇I'm 14 she's 12😁
@wyattknowz3813 4 жыл бұрын
Me : "hey kangaroo girl" Random Australian girl : "fuck you say to me little shit"
@Anna-qx9rt 4 жыл бұрын
I literally had to come watch this bc I can’t start a damn conversation 😭
@lesslymartinez. 3 жыл бұрын
ONG
@persidacojocaru4191 3 жыл бұрын
Me neither
@donjr7850 2 жыл бұрын
Yh same here
@iambatman41 2 жыл бұрын
Hey Anna u can practice with me if ur interested ☺️
@ainaibukun1591 2 жыл бұрын
hello
@dylancruea7542 4 жыл бұрын
Starting a conversation is like a thesis statement
@helixfelixii7637 4 жыл бұрын
dylan cruea Too damn hard
@reddrumfishing5271 4 жыл бұрын
I always ask my teacher what a thesis statement is
@someonejohnson5774 4 жыл бұрын
Yooo 😂😂😂😂
@michelleyes2959 4 жыл бұрын
I always mess up
@kaelynhall8733 4 жыл бұрын
sTOp😂
@speedissped1483 5 жыл бұрын
Jealous to people who actually have their number...
@TheJoshSpeaks 5 жыл бұрын
you can get it too, all you gotta do is work on building a connection with her
@KickAssBill 5 жыл бұрын
KacperM just go for it bro. Like I got a girls number a while ago and now she’s my girlfriend and it’s because I just went for it the second I got an opportunity. It sounds hard but it’ll benefit you i the long run. 👌🏻
@TylerWilson2004 5 жыл бұрын
What I did is write her a note that said everything if felt. I ran away right after. My number was on it though. If your shy to actually ask her you can do that if you want.
@gcampos77 4 жыл бұрын
its really easy tho. If you met her already, the day you meet her start talking to her on instagram or snapchat (its better to ask her directly than asking a friend of hers). Dont lose time. If you wait too long after meeting her to start texting her, she will lose interest. Dont overtext and overuse emojis. Also dont be insecure over text... just send that shit man. You may want to ask her some questions to find both interests but dont turn that shit into a fucking creepy questioning. Talk about the day you met, something funny that happened in class but just dont be insecure. Most girls prefer GUYS WHO MAKE THEM LAUGH. You can be the most handsome man but if you're boring and social awkward that doesnt go well. Social awkwardness cant be an excuse my friend... talk to people. Acknowlage that you should speak to cute girls the same way you talk to your girl friends, dont treat them differently. I hope I helped.
@ajourneytosuccess_ 4 жыл бұрын
KacperM slide in them dms
@angelsubs282 4 жыл бұрын
Me: Hi Him: Hi Me: I’m bored Him: Thats sad .....
@_sunnielizz_4278 3 жыл бұрын
Maam..
@Someone-he1ss 3 жыл бұрын
OMG FROM WHERE IS YOUR PROFILE PICTUREEE
@manuswe5372 3 жыл бұрын
bruh ahahhaahaha
@JC-vi7gg 3 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂
@ooofoolgaming 3 жыл бұрын
Man that's me
@heywoodjablowme2351 4 жыл бұрын
My convos are dry on text, but I'm a lot more interesting on calls and it's annoying
@triplethreatnba5514 3 жыл бұрын
i’m opposite. any help on what to do or say on call
@yerrman9797 3 жыл бұрын
Lmao same
@lavalu1137 3 жыл бұрын
I suck at both bc of quarantine and my crush chooses now to express interest in me🥲
@djflapjack4744 3 жыл бұрын
you are my crush in a nutshell
@That196 4 жыл бұрын
So basically say “hey kangaroo girl”
@churassica 4 жыл бұрын
😂😂
@shaynasupreme9824 4 жыл бұрын
Lmao I died
@alexajames2225 4 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂
@gia8703 4 жыл бұрын
Yikessss
@notadrian5711 4 жыл бұрын
okay, I'm on it
@gibby2951 4 жыл бұрын
Texting just keeps getting more complicated
@Blackcat-kh5cc 3 жыл бұрын
444 nice
@nwabisamalimba4395 3 жыл бұрын
Like it gets awkward very quick
@the7thhokage404 4 жыл бұрын
Me and my crush were talking about animals and she said she liked dogs. So I called her dog girl. She blocked🤨
@mogomighty102 4 жыл бұрын
Rex The Ninja try to get her back with “doggystyle girl” works like a charm👍
@xoitsmaria 4 жыл бұрын
call her a female dog bro it really works 😃👍
@brahmaputramoskva1215 4 жыл бұрын
Lmaooo
@calisthenicsnextgen777 4 жыл бұрын
Rex The Ninja Felt
@Sn1w4 4 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂
@rainyytapestry 3 жыл бұрын
Me with my boyfriend: *Hey how are you doing?* Him: *im fine hbu?* Me: *im fine* After a few seconds *Silence* My brain: **i hate everything-*
@blessie9047 3 жыл бұрын
omg same
@rainyytapestry 3 жыл бұрын
Blessie like how we gon keep the convo alive-
@marithegamergurl6082 3 жыл бұрын
No cap
@audremontero 3 жыл бұрын
My Crush Said to me your f******g boring Me: Sleep
@the_.real_.mikayla8706 3 жыл бұрын
same😭😭
@theguyalex 4 жыл бұрын
Mission failed:I got blocked and her cousin threatened to beat me up next week
@allanmwangi2022 4 жыл бұрын
Alexis Duarte That's sad😢
@weebone5530 4 жыл бұрын
Damn wish i was their i beat his ass id dead helo you bro lol
@nogoodgod4915 4 жыл бұрын
Wth did u do hahahahah
@amankwahappiah6217 4 жыл бұрын
Heheeeheeee it's just hilarious. May be you really screwed up
@hobokelamikael9682 4 жыл бұрын
@@amankwahappiah6217 ohhh poor you,,,
@moonwarrior1227 4 жыл бұрын
When your crush asks who your crush is...
@jarrahtomlin9153 4 жыл бұрын
Moon Warrior1 that’s happened to me
@ethanmorrow4241 4 жыл бұрын
If that happens, oh s***
@citygaming8995 4 жыл бұрын
that happened to me so i ended up saying it was her then she replied with ‘awww’.... rip me 😔
@moonwarrior1227 4 жыл бұрын
City Gaming Same mate xD GL
@citygaming8995 4 жыл бұрын
Moon Warrior1 Dont worry king, we’re gonna find the right one soon🤧 👑
@siddhantagarwal7956 4 жыл бұрын
Interviewer : what are your skills Me : I'm a dry texter Both of us : Hol up
@mrgbomb3001 3 жыл бұрын
Im such a dry texter. And im quiet in person most of the time but with some people i can make a great conversation
@gabrielabbah4288 2 жыл бұрын
I feel your pain
@isaacaidoo2528 2 жыл бұрын
Me too
@secretvideos7057 2 жыл бұрын
Fuck it's hard to be a man.
@mietoe7582 4 жыл бұрын
U dont want to end up interviewing them lol
@yo8989 4 жыл бұрын
HAHAHA NEVER DONE THAT HAHA
@yo8989 4 жыл бұрын
I mean in 50 shades of Grey it worked.
@666.xoxo33 4 жыл бұрын
Mie Toe yea when I ask my crush questions randomly he’s just like “ why are you asking me this¿” but he’s okay with it
@yo8989 4 жыл бұрын
@@666.xoxo33 maybe you should tell him you want to know him better with a 😉 emoji~~
@merz97 4 жыл бұрын
I died LMAO
@panicwolf474 5 жыл бұрын
This guy is really wise. Idk why he's not giving important conferences in places like TedX
@TheJoshSpeaks 5 жыл бұрын
thanks for the support, I'll speak at TedX one day
@somerandomlakersfan9464 4 жыл бұрын
Lol he will make it textX
@jordonnelson5002 4 жыл бұрын
@@somerandomlakersfan9464 bruh 😂
@Mario-xk7kh 4 жыл бұрын
The fact I searched this means I'm trash
@cainkun338 4 жыл бұрын
samedt
@eachandeverything4022 3 жыл бұрын
Don't say that! You're not trash! You're wonderful!! 💖💖💢💢
@caydonleecloete8313 3 жыл бұрын
lucky you,trash gets picked up every second. some hot irresistible piece of trash you are then :]
@vivicanegumbo2045 4 жыл бұрын
1. Ask open ended questions (so they give their opinion) 2. Tell a crazy story 3. Tease and flirt (try inside jokes avoid offensive remarks) (Compliment but it should be specific and don't repeat the same comments) 4. Try to get into the idea of hanging out 5. Don't be overbearing, give them time to respond
@GloryBoyybill 5 жыл бұрын
He’s so underrated 😭 he’s spitting so much game rn
@gagefaul3629 4 жыл бұрын
Her: Hey Me: Hi Her: Hi
@ultrasans8507 4 жыл бұрын
u don't messed up
@ultrasans8507 4 жыл бұрын
when i say hiiiii twice i expect a whole rows of hiiii
@gagefaul3629 4 жыл бұрын
Gacha wolf cool but did I ask😂😂 Jk
@Loneassassin13 4 жыл бұрын
I hate when girls do that crap!
@obsessedme1041 3 жыл бұрын
@@Loneassassin13 but my friend does that to me, he started with a "hi" I said "hi then it'll become an endless loop of "hi"'s
@east8891 4 жыл бұрын
For some reason, talking to my crush in person makes me more comfortable.
@yessi2067 4 жыл бұрын
Don't go out on dates
@Chrisr-je1tw 2 жыл бұрын
@@yessi2067 ??
@xv1hr 2 жыл бұрын
Same for me
@crooxifire8714 4 жыл бұрын
i honestly see myself pathetic for watching this video... It's super hard for an introvert to start a conversation..
@cainkun338 4 жыл бұрын
Relateeeeeee:(
@dua6521 3 жыл бұрын
I'm an extrovert and I'm watching this not able to open a damn conversation. Love is hard
@Getartsgaming Жыл бұрын
FR tho my crush is my school mate. We always text in an normal conversation but the thing is iv'e never met her since a yr ago. Always wanted to meet her in person but at the same time not. As an introvert myself it found me hard to decide whether to see her or not lol cuz i cant think a word to say. So should i go and see her in person ? Or maybe not this time. PLS HELP ME!!
@howIing 4 жыл бұрын
Watches video Texts her: hi Her:hi Me: *types** **delete** **types** **delete** Me:i like pizza wbu?
@tiggystardust4405 4 жыл бұрын
raquo Cant qUal omg same 😂😂😂
@thecrayola7494 4 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂
@roderickjoseph1884 4 жыл бұрын
Lol
@xxxacu 4 жыл бұрын
Meeee
@ebonya1952 4 жыл бұрын
I’m suck
@zane8182 4 жыл бұрын
I'm actually talking with my crush while watching this vid :v
@itzjczz7612 4 жыл бұрын
Samee
@umadbro9576 4 жыл бұрын
almost same
@mukaiclipz5951 4 жыл бұрын
Same
@zen2480 4 жыл бұрын
Yo same
@kevinpascual7504 4 жыл бұрын
Same here 🙋♂️
@idubby7 4 жыл бұрын
Me: "what's the craziest thing that happened to you today?" Him: "idk" Me: "oh come on you have to have done something everyone has a little flare in their everyday lives" Him:"ok" bruhhhhhhhh I am not the problem RIGHT?!??
@addysonwade5906 4 жыл бұрын
That's tough, but I'd say drop him
@de_light641 3 жыл бұрын
Nah boys who do that have huge egos
@Starry_Dupree 3 жыл бұрын
Let him go. Don't even waste your time.
@Extrisified 3 жыл бұрын
he doesnt like u thats what it means
@peterramapulana6652 3 жыл бұрын
No you're not the problem.... The guy just has 0 interest in speaking to you
@cutmylip21 3 жыл бұрын
Imagine if the person u wanna text is watching this vid too lol that would be perfect
@florese4804 4 жыл бұрын
I don’t like reading the comments and knowing others are watching this with me.
@TheJoshSpeaks 4 жыл бұрын
It's ok JellyBean, we're here to help each other out!
@getlostinmyeyes3713 4 жыл бұрын
My crush flirts with me alot She calls me baby,sends me '😚😘😙' Im very happy But she does it with all her friends too WAIT SO IM JUST A FRIEND!?!?!? 😟😢
@Charlie-ql1dg 4 жыл бұрын
she’s just waiting for someone to try to escalate it try to one up that and get more flirty
@spicymama4894 4 жыл бұрын
Only have crushes on aesthetic people
@getlostinmyeyes3713 4 жыл бұрын
@@zy2790 I actually might do that
@brianbaeza6862 4 жыл бұрын
Hmm you can make it so she only calls you that
@camfabrizio8923 4 жыл бұрын
Yup your just a friend
@simona7699 4 жыл бұрын
Me: Hi Him: Heyy Me: Um.. do u like bread?
@anuskamukherjee7887 3 жыл бұрын
😂😂
@tennenjin 2 жыл бұрын
Lol
@addisonwalker2614 4 жыл бұрын
Me: watching all these videos knowing I’m still to awkward to start a conversation 😂
@showmeyourtittiesbitchjohn2102 4 жыл бұрын
This helped so much she blocked me😂😂
@kennethwells6979 3 жыл бұрын
Bruh 😂😂
@tavspapucis748 3 жыл бұрын
Aight , than I’m leaving this video😎
@loveeraelin 4 жыл бұрын
a guy just called me dry and i’m confused on why bc he’s the one who is confusing as hell 😂
@JothamBilly 3 жыл бұрын
Bro im trying to spice up the conversation with quirky messages, nifty things, interesting questions.Stuff like that but half her responses are *LOL*
@NoName-dq9xf 3 жыл бұрын
I swear exactly
@steve-eg1ge 2 жыл бұрын
nah man it mostly is *k*
@ccaelem 4 жыл бұрын
I’ve been talking to this guy and I really want to get to know him more, with the coronavirus I can’t meet up with him or do anything with him that we can talk about so I’m worried that things won’t work out, which would be terrible because there are so few gay guys that I feel attracted too.
@MrQawesome 4 жыл бұрын
Banana bread same boat except it’s a girl
@yessi2067 4 жыл бұрын
Lmao it's sad huh
@cadenshighlights51 4 жыл бұрын
Banana bread inv them to your house and then do boom boom
@osielt1935 4 жыл бұрын
yo same 😂😂
@babysenpai3883 4 жыл бұрын
Same here ☹️
@eliteditss9574 4 жыл бұрын
You telling me I should open a text with my crush with “do you believe in ghost?”
@weebone5530 4 жыл бұрын
Lmfao
@mphochidi4534 3 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂😂
@mariamshariff6436 3 жыл бұрын
I wonder😂😂😂
@Sj-hr8pf 3 жыл бұрын
I’m literally about to try this 😂😂
@michellekahlez2105 3 жыл бұрын
@@Sj-hr8pf how things goin???
@user-iu8cq1of9o 4 жыл бұрын
My crush told me that her ex dumped him on Valentines day then 3 months later she wants to be with him again and i'm like wtf PLEASE BE WITH ME Edit: um I dont remember having a crush on someone im so confused who tf is.
@Zaptrap101 4 жыл бұрын
So sad
@stanexe 4 жыл бұрын
αιѕнα i read that as “humped him” HHAHH
@Kawhinot0 4 жыл бұрын
αιѕнα you ain’t nobody’s plan b either they choose you or they loose you
@kitsuneking4573 4 жыл бұрын
I asked my crush out on the anniversary of her finding out her ex cheated on her. She said no
@jj-pm7wm 4 жыл бұрын
@@kitsuneking4573 why would you do that
@Jerry-yy3ye 3 жыл бұрын
Me: hey ms.kangaroo girl. Her: hi mr.rejection. (Gets blocked) 💔💔💔
@spyderskier9429 3 жыл бұрын
When you realize you've been texting this person for years and you missed your chance and you going down hill. You realize that there was a period in time when they were really interested in talking to you and you missed it. Now you getting one word answers and you want to revive your chance. You've spent so much time texting and not enough time hanging out, but your staying home cause of COVID...Ngl I don't think I have a chance anymore.
@oaxacanboi9318 3 жыл бұрын
That happened to me. I moved on tho
@spyderskier9429 3 жыл бұрын
@@oaxacanboi9318 I think once I’m not quarantining anymore. I’ll ask them to go do stuff and eventually I think I will ask them 🙂
@_Gandalf_The_White Жыл бұрын
@@spyderskier9429 How did it go?
@antonijegaric1910 4 жыл бұрын
This guy be having all the toys in his room and looking so nerdy, and that doesnt make him stop knowing all those texting things. There are no excuses!!!
@kodycastellanos 5 жыл бұрын
Just noticed the creepy villager on the shelf😂
@TheJoshSpeaks 5 жыл бұрын
haha that's a Mister Rogers plush but it DOES look like Villager
@Amaijackie 4 жыл бұрын
The guy I’m talking to is so dry all he says is “okay, yeah & lmao” 🙃🙃
@amiyaanthony2319 4 жыл бұрын
Sameeeee I could say something to start a conversation about and he’ll just “lol, oh ok , yea,no, or put an emoji” shit is so boring
@zyl5521 3 жыл бұрын
that might be me
@marianna380 3 жыл бұрын
omg me tooo he initiates convos everyday/every other day but is sooo boring. Today he literally said "hey we can talk today for sure because i'm free" and i said cool ok and he asked what i have been doing and i said all the things i have been doing, then i asked what he has been doing and he said "literally nothing" and I said "oh comeon have you watched anything new?" and he said "no" like... tf did you wanna talk to me for then? i tryy to keep a conversation but he's giving me nothing. None of my girlfriends are like this are guys usually this bland over text? because this is the first time i have encountered such dry convos so frequently
@ochs9266 3 жыл бұрын
mach ran As a guy myself I can confirm that we are very bland over text.
@michellekahlez2105 3 жыл бұрын
SAME BRUHHH SAME 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
@FBIAgent-wc3iu 4 жыл бұрын
I called my ex kangaroo girl once and now I’m single. Thanks for the advice!
@jasminyiddysulaiman9807 3 жыл бұрын
😂😂😃
@ooofoolgaming 3 жыл бұрын
xD
@youngaamez3550 5 жыл бұрын
I've recently started using these kind of texts and they've worked! Sure some people are dry even though you send actual good texts and won't engage in the conversation, but it'll work on the right people. Great video btw 👍
@TheJoshSpeaks 5 жыл бұрын
Very good point, not every attempt is going to work with every type of person. It's important to read a person to see how they respond to things
@ahmadopicshah8412 4 жыл бұрын
Yt , vin + liner
@Al_MustafaHaider 4 жыл бұрын
Fr!
@Zaptrap101 4 жыл бұрын
So what did you send, those in the video?
@marginalbiscuits3962 4 жыл бұрын
Literally just had a awkward text conversation 😂😂
@savior1604 3 жыл бұрын
I started laughing when he stated talking bout flirting
@GeniesMag 2 жыл бұрын
Josh, your self-confidence is sky-high. For all your hard work, I thank you. Keep up the good work.
@guyguy2782 5 жыл бұрын
i was litterly watching ur other texting videos today and u upload this
@TheJoshSpeaks 5 жыл бұрын
haha what a coincidence!
@un7ovable 4 жыл бұрын
AAAHH UR PFP
@scottmillar8737 4 жыл бұрын
girl fav animal was a whale so i called her whale girl (hasnt spoke to me since) :(
@madman814 4 жыл бұрын
scott millar give her a cute name dude cmon man even I can’t blame her
@pasteladelicore7806 4 жыл бұрын
Oh noooo....😂😂😅😅🤣🤣😭😭😭😭😭
@maggie-mr3sb 3 жыл бұрын
😂😂
@mphochidi4534 3 жыл бұрын
LMFAO😂😂😂😂
@ooofoolgaming 3 жыл бұрын
Lmfao
@ratatouillestan1815 4 жыл бұрын
my crush and i just started talking, and this helped a lot. thank you! 😁
@khvina7476 3 жыл бұрын
So uh what happend
@ratatouillestan1815 3 жыл бұрын
@@khvina7476 they ended up ghosting me lmao
@anuskamukherjee7887 3 жыл бұрын
R u together now?
@zarinsotelo 4 жыл бұрын
Did this man really just start the video by saying "hey there playa" done.
@gbgoscar7837 4 жыл бұрын
Came here so the person who likes me won’t find someone else cus Im a boring texter
@rogerpunk8132 4 жыл бұрын
Me: HI ❤️❤️❤️ Her 3 hours later: Ok Me 0.01 seconds later: A 3 page reply
@locatingleigh7632 3 жыл бұрын
No lie, this might be the most resourceful video I’ve seen on the internet. 😫 Thank You! 👏🏾
@aryandhande 3 жыл бұрын
Seems like you are more single than we men who are watching this video😂
@emilyphillips6181 4 жыл бұрын
Ok I realize this is late but I like this guy and we have A LOT in common, but he always starts the conversation, like you said, in the same way by saying good morning everyday but that just leaves me scrambling to have something to talk about. I find that it is usually just me that tells a story, or makes a comment or asks a question and he gives me shorter responses. I’m not sure what to do because he seems interested enough to talk to me everyday but he doesn’t say much
@user-ft7zg5ec5t 4 жыл бұрын
That's what happens in my case. 😐😐☹️
@jimpickles282 2 жыл бұрын
If you slept with him that might have something to do with it
@jimpickles282 2 жыл бұрын
Are you even with the same guy😄? I'd like an update
@yoongisugaagustd7418 2 жыл бұрын
Omg i'm literally having the same issue like you now. How's it going on your side? Can you give us an update lol
@juniblessing3875 2 жыл бұрын
Sameee, what did you do about it?
@aarronortiz4178 4 жыл бұрын
Need more videos like these I love how you show what to actually text!
@fhdhejeh63 2 жыл бұрын
I never really understood the texting game. I never been able to find the balance between not texting too much and texting enough. I've failed many times and still am.
@rayejohn79rj11 Жыл бұрын
Me too..if I like a girl I text or call her you would think that would be enough
@sergi0jordan807 3 жыл бұрын
This helped so much I used this guide to talk to my crush and we’ve been married for 6 months thank you
@steve-eg1ge 2 жыл бұрын
so spongebob is married?
@jayhuncho 4 жыл бұрын
Just called my crush kangaroo girl: :She blocked me
@SeibaCaliba 4 жыл бұрын
F
@lilwhatever9812 4 жыл бұрын
Lmfaoaooa!!!
@jasminyiddysulaiman9807 3 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂
@patrickredmond4130 3 жыл бұрын
Same bro I said it to see what she’d say didn’t even get a chance to explain
@djkaleb1533 5 жыл бұрын
excuse me josh how can you talk to your rush on a date
@TheJoshSpeaks 5 жыл бұрын
I would try out my 20 ice breakers which you can find here: www.thejoshspeaks.com/ice-breakers
@itsinteresting4201 4 жыл бұрын
Okay Robux man
@noureddali8785 4 жыл бұрын
He is speaking super CLEAR!!!!!!! ILY btw
@justinobial100 3 жыл бұрын
bruh i needed this no cap, ive been message this girl the i’ve liked for so long and we’ve kinda stopped
@j_marq2 4 жыл бұрын
Hey all people I don’t get it I am told that my crush likes me back but I just can’t believe it. I try to text her then she always just responds with something that I can’t respond back to. I really want to and enjoy talking to her, but it’s impossible. And somehow I am always the one talking to her or texting her and stating the conversation. Idk if she is shy but doesn’t show it or just doesn’t want to talk to me. 😢 Thanks for reading this I appreciate it You actually don’t know how much it means to me 🙃
@lucasgonzales210 5 жыл бұрын
My crush knows I like them and they find me okay but things have been awkward and I don’t know what to do.
@TheJoshSpeaks 5 жыл бұрын
Hey, if things have been awkward it might be a sign that you need to either work towards getting closer to your crush or focus on someone else. What do you want to do deep down inside?
@blocnytro402 4 жыл бұрын
Well my crush is 1 year older than me and they are moving to another campus of my school My friend asked them what are the chances of them liking me and she said that i’m nice but she doesn’t like me because we won’t see each other much next year
@alishaaa6192 4 жыл бұрын
MasterHackerZ welp🥴
@jeo-meso-whasian9565 2 жыл бұрын
bro i love this guy i confessed to my crush 2 days ago and used your tips and it worked thanks bro!
@meepcityhouses9576 2 жыл бұрын
Makes so much sense but very frustrating when your going down the dip.. And then realize..
@retromarcky 4 жыл бұрын
What should I say after they reply to message after saying “oh my god”
@un7ovable 4 жыл бұрын
god my oh
@demarcustv5661 4 жыл бұрын
@@un7ovable how about "lol"
@un7ovable 4 жыл бұрын
Demarcus tv loud out laugh
@senortocino2416 4 жыл бұрын
Retro Marcky “what did u see my dick pics”
@mahnoor9971 4 жыл бұрын
Lmao, I don’t have a crush. Although, I texted him (my best friend) ‘I witnessed a murder’ because I saw someone run over a bird the other day. After that, we got a whole conversation on the best ways to kill someone and dispose their body.
@GameyTrack 4 жыл бұрын
😳
@isabellabrown4996 4 жыл бұрын
those are the convos i want
@DVRK316 3 жыл бұрын
FBI OPEN UP!!😂😂
@michaelscott5145 3 жыл бұрын
This is all I needed, THANK YOU SOOOOOOO MUCHHHHH!!!
@jacobvoils7889 4 жыл бұрын
I feel sad knowing I just looked this up and watched it! Also sad realizing I'm in those stages... of being disliked..
@swayzecrapdog5004 4 жыл бұрын
You’re getting so much more Pham and I love your videos so much I’ve been watching you since day one love you
@tey1027 3 жыл бұрын
I always start the conversation so I think it's obvious to him that I like him but he never says anything about it 😅. Maybe he thinks I'm clingy??? I start conversations with him with a meme, who wouldn't like thattt
@FroggieMaggie420 4 жыл бұрын
I'm needing this because of the corona viruse, now I can't see him at school or hang out. He is so dry, and I'm super shy. It's been so hard to talk with him, thank you for telling me not to interview them because that's kinda what I've been doing bruhhh😩
@bm_m4in215 Жыл бұрын
Honestly I've seen a bunch of videis like this (as sad as it may sound), but this has to be one of the most helpful from what I've watched. Thank you, josh!
@TheJoshSpeaks Жыл бұрын
Glad it was helpful!
@killnaomi 4 жыл бұрын
ok josh thank you for the texting advice for my crush and i, by the way those dolls in your room are super cool! :D hope to get some more advanced relationship advice in the future!!
@ethanfergus1434 4 жыл бұрын
This guy is extremely helpful and out ideas into my mind that are so hard for me to come up with, you earned a sub
@rubabkazmi2794 Жыл бұрын
dude share those ideas ?
@drupadbaiju5166 3 жыл бұрын
Right After i got rejected by my crush, I get this on my notification...great
@tb8644 2 жыл бұрын
I thought this was the stupidest thing until it worked! I always talk to this girl and she doesn’t really respond until hours later, but as soon as I asked her this question she responded immediately and we talked for like 30 minutes and when she started to stop I just asked a different question and talked to her about a bunch of other things for an hour!! Thanks man 👍
@justarandomcheesydorito4652 3 жыл бұрын
I cant talk to people because Im so scared of being judged so I'll just be really mellow and not talkative at all around people, but I really wanna say what I think, but Im too scared so it just comes out being really awkward... this actually helped me thank you
@Fakeprophets Жыл бұрын
If your single, send me a text in this profile. I won’t judge you I promise.
@justarandomcheesydorito4652 Жыл бұрын
@@Fakeprophets You’re*. Dude, this was 2 years ago. I forgot I even said any of that and I’m gonna delete it too. I’m not interested in you either.
@Benni259 4 жыл бұрын
I can chat to her now. Now the problem is I can’t talk to her in person 😫😩
@jasonebroamann7283 4 жыл бұрын
You just saved my hopes for me to actually be able to get closer to my crush than rn
@calimaree30 6 ай бұрын
Omg I wish every guy heard this video!! So on point! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
@s0brandn 3 жыл бұрын
Ain’t no way a guy with action figures just gave me a gf
@isaacs.hokama5008 4 жыл бұрын
I like your videos. You just give the right vibes bro
@deidragray9265 4 жыл бұрын
Good advice. I text him about ghosts and he actually just called me instead of texting back. We had an hour long conversation. It was pretty cool......and I learned some new things about him. Thanks for the advice
@TheShadeManGuitar 4 жыл бұрын
That text flowchart is good! Makes things a bit clearer
@lemon0189 4 жыл бұрын
My crush told me that we should meet once the community quarantine is shut down. The problem is she's drinking that night. I'm starting to feel that she didn't mean it and feel like she's just drunk. 😂😂😂
@douglasoliver569 4 жыл бұрын
Hey Josh thank you! u helped me with my crush😂
@jaidynharrison6266 4 жыл бұрын
omg, this is actually really helpful! thank u Josh!
@mussieabraham2662 2 жыл бұрын
where was this video when i needed it😩😩😩😩😩
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