GIRL IS THAT U IN YOUR PRP?

@@sillygoosearoundtown xactly so prettyyy

Me rn

I have felt that a lot, deleted most of the pictures I had of myself while I was a teenager, would regularly scream and cry and hurt myself due to that. It has taken a lot of time, patience, and work, but it has evolved. Focusing on the inner beauty does really help. I started noticing how I look when I feel "Haggard, droopy, depressed, ugly, etc." Vs when I feel "generous, lovely, bright, kind, etc.." And I noticed my entire physiology changes. Even now sometimes I'll look at myself and think "holy shit I look like a troll" but then I try and snap out of it, and smile, and say beautiful things about myself, and it changes. Letting myself know that it is okay to have baggy eyes and a puffy face, especially when I first wake up. I hope that you can begin to love yourself, no matter how your outer shell looks. Sending you a hug ❤

me too

This reminded me of The Bluest Eye by Toni Morrison.

Agreed!

Thank you for reaching out lovely. I really want my KZfaq channel to be a safe space for everyone so I think it is important to acknowledge my privilege. 💖🤗 Lots of love x

@@noziphotshabalala5018 🤗

Same here girl but let me tell u if you feel like growth is hard staying the same is also hard choose your hard I'm going through the same situation as u start loving yourself start working out not because you hate your body but u love it start prioritizing yourself set healthy habits just for 6 months do everything you know which would cause you to see a different person in yourself after those 6 months. Girl I believe in u do it shock everyone much love❤ And always remember no matter what you believe you are beautiful because God has made everyone Pretty no one is born ugly it's just a judgemental society we live in❤

Exactly

Thank you for sharing this with me. I am so sorry you are feeling this way. You don’t deserve it at all. Please fill free to message me on Instagram and we can chat privately. My Instagram - alessia sutherberry

I’m black too and I refuse to let this be a thing BUT THE NASTIEST COMMENTS I HAVE HAD A FROM BLACK MEN!!!

i use make up and filters to hide my ugly face :(

@@stargirl3459sameee 💔 i hope we have are glow up soon

Hey. It’s been five months but I am absolutely aghast at the treatment you have been receiving by some people. It is horrific and it is absolutely cruel. It is a horrific twist of fate that you have been exposed to shallow, empty, insecure people who feel the need to attack your beauty as a human being to uplift themselves. I am aghast. It’s so soul-crushing. I am the opposite age of you, just a young woman in her high school who is trying to get by while feeling these absolutely devastating feelings of ‘averageness’. I spent my baby years being exposed to movies and magazines and social media where girls talked about their sculpted bodies and eurocentrically beautiful faces and all their friends and all their loving, adoring dates. And what a letdown it feels like that my teenage years are dull, empty, not lonely but not exciting in comparison to my expectations. Boys don’t really approach me. I don’t get compliments in the hallways. I feel horrible, I hate my clothing and my body and my wide, fleshy native american (but not the pretty kind of native features) face. I have many good friends, but I compare myself to them and others. I feel rotten inside. Disordering eating and body dysmorphic disorder rule my daily thoughts. And when I feel better, it terrifies me, because I feel like I don’t have the right to feel attractive, enticing, beautiful, desirable. It’s a hole of despair. Everyday is horrible despair. And I pray that when I get older, I’ll just magically get more stable, but I just don’t know anymore. Some people are truly so cruel. And I am so, so sorry. I hear you. Though I may not relate fully to you in all aspects, I am listening. I appreciate you. I believe you are beautiful, and your vulnerability is beautiful. Thank you for sharing these experiences with us here, for us to read.

Aw, I'm so sorry hun. I feel you. And it hurts to always be the lesser than or last resort. I don't want to say some platitude to make you feel better, but I just want to say you are loved and I love you.

@@nyx7829 Thank you beautiful soul I really appreciate it and wish you all the love in the world .. this means a lot to know there is kindness here❤️❤️❤️

@@umsirifazendobarra00 I’m absolutely disgusted by what you’ve been through.. I’m so sorry.. I can relate to the eating disorder and dysmorphia and it hurts me that you’ve been hurt and that you’re hurting too. Somewhere in these awful experiences we have found each other to share our experiences. I just want to say that a few months on from my original comments I am working through a lot of stuff. Journaling and trying to look myself in the mirror 🪞 every day with some level of acceptance. It’s TOUGH REEEEALLY TOUGH and I don’t always believe what I see.. but day by day and some days are worse than others but some are better. Thank you so much for your sharing your story too darling and I hope that we both and others like us can achieve the best love of all.. self love and acceptance. Sending you a massive hug ❤️❤️❤️🙏

@@umsirifazendobarra00 I’m absolutely disgusted by what you’ve been through.. I’m so sorry.. I can relate to the eating disorder and dysmorphia and it hurts me that you’ve been hurt and that you’re hurting too. Somewhere in these awful experiences we have found each other to share our experiences. I just want to say that a few months on from my original comments I am working through a lot of stuff. Journaling and trying to look myself in the mirror 🪞 every day with some level of acceptance. It’s TOUGH REEEEALLY TOUGH and I don’t always believe what I see.. but day by day and some days are worse than others but some are better. You’re younger than me and have I hope many many years ahead of you. I hope these years will be kinder to you than they were to me. Talking to a trusted person, talking to yourself with kindness when you feel brave enough to muster some. Thank you so much for your sharing your story too darling and I hope that we both and others like us can achieve the best love of all.. self love and acceptance. Sending you a massive hug and thank you ❤️❤️❤️🙏

That makes me so so happy babe.💓 Thank you for sharing this with me. I can tell you’re a beautiful soul (inside and out)! People like yourself that spread so much love and positivity will receive so much back. Good karma ! One day you will see yourself as the beautiful goddess that you are !! I know it 💓💓💓 xo lots of love xo

Hey lovely, thank you for being so honest and vulnerable. I'm so so glad this video has helped you 🥰🥰🥰❤❤❤❤

awh

@@tani.q why did u click on it?? U should learn to love urself.. even tho I don’t love myself lol I’m just tryna spread the message.. anyways ur gorgeous

​@@kendall__ thanks 🥺🥺❤️

Aw you are so lovely. I am so so glad you liked the vid! Lots of love ❤❤

Babe you’ve made my day🤗❤️ Hope you’ve had an amazing week! ❤️💚 lots of love x

Aw I love you too🥰🥰❤❤ I'm so so so happy you've enjoyed my videos lovely. Thank you for commenting xxxxxx

I'm sorry you're feeling this way. I could do a video about why we feel ugly - where it may stem from - what do you think? Obviously our insecurities vary and they come from different experiences but I would love to speak generally about the topic. Maybe that would help you xx

@@alessiasutherberry Thank you! Definitely would be interesting to watch

@@alexisCalled10 Amazing !❤❤❤

Hello Mabel, I'm so sorry you're feeling unhappy. I remember not feeling good enough for guys when I was at school. I doubted myself because I thought I didn't look beautiful. I don't know what stage of life you're at but if someone really cares for you, what you look like shouldn't matter to them. I know it's hard to think like this. I'm sure you're beautiful, but making deep meaningful connections with other people happens because of matching energies (who you both are deep down). This isn't me invalidating how you're feeling, I totally get it. There is a HUGE pressure to look a certain way, to impress guys by means of your appearance. Women are shallowly valued in this society. But I value you for opening up and starting this conversation with me. Thank you for your trust. I can tell you are a beautiful soul, and that in my opinion is the most important thing. You will find your person ❤❤❤❤

@@alessiasutherberry Thank you:)) you’re honestly about to make me cry this is really nice that you care so much about some random person. I’ll try to remember this Everytime I feel down about my looks.

@@mabelccr1000 Awh thank you girly. Talking to wonderful people like you is exactly why I do KZfaq. Please feel like you can always pop me a message or comment on any of my videos 🥰 big hug Alessia xxx

@@alessiasutherberry Ty and what you’re doing is so amazing❤️❤️

@@mabelccr1000 Lots of love babe 🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰 thank you xxx

Sending you a big hug my love xxx

i feel sorry for you but i feel bad for your son he didn't deserve a parent like you or your ex husband , i mean just because you wanted the marriage to last you had a baby but thats not how it works , now you dont love your son enough but what's his fault , this is the reason so many children grow with so much trauma that they struggle their whole life how can you even say ' all for nothing'? children's aren't supposed to fix your relationship if you didn't needed one you shouldn't have had one please work with your problems and feelings and dont let your child suffer just because you are a self- centered person

Hey there! 🌟 I'm so glad to hear that you appreciated the video, and I want you to know that you're not alone in how you're feeling. Let me just say that your self-awareness and willingness to reach out are incredibly impressive. It takes a lot of courage to open up about these struggles, especially as a young teen. Self-image can be a real challenge, and it's something many people, including adults, grapple with. Remember, you're still growing and changing, both physically and mentally, and what you see in the mirror doesn't define your worth or who you are as a person.❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

@@alessiasutherberry 💗💗💗

You are so lovely, taking the time to post such a heart warming comment, says a lot about your character. 🥰 Thank you so much! 🥰❤️

I am so glad you loved it!!! Thank you for your kind words. Lots of love xx❤❤💘🥰

Awh thanks so much my lovely ❤️❤️❤️

Aw thanks lovely girl 💙❤️💗💙❤️💗

Aw thank you for this comment lovely !❤❤❤ Lots of love xxxxx

Thank you so much Jane❤️ You are a kind soul x

There is no such thing called confidence u become that way when u feel good in your body and to feel good in your body u need to accept yourself and to accept yourself u need to be aware that u look good and to be aware that u look good u need to look good if u are ugly u wont enjoy life as attractive people as u are aware that u dont feel comfortable in your body as u look ugly and i hate all gorgeous people saying they are ugly that is just being fucked up look up how real ugly people look like

I'm so sorry to hear that lovely. Nobody deserves to be treated like that. I hope you know you are not alone and that you have me and this channel. We appreciate you 💘💘💘💘💘💘💘

aw thank you for commenting ❤

Awh thank you so much for being so lovely 🥰❤ I hope you have a lovely day babe 🥰🥰🥰 xxxxxxx

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That’s music to my ears ! ❤️❤️❤️ Thank you! X

That is music to my ears, I am so sorry you are going through this - there is light at the end of the tunnel xxxxxxxxxxxxx

Thank you so much dear ❤️ actually I was very depressed these days because my boyfriend broke up with me because I was not very beautiful 🥺😭

@@Poojakhanuja20 I am so sorry that’s awful - you are beautiful, sometimes people don’t recognise beauty when it is right in front of them because they’re blinded by their own ugliness - I am sure that was the case with your ex boyfriend - being nasty is the ugliest trait xx

@@alessiasutherberry thanks dear your motivation and tips helped me so much that I am going to marry my bestfriend Jin He is Korean we are getting married in 2 weeks thank you so much 💜😭💜😘 🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺 I wish I could invite you in my wedding 💜😘

@@Poojakhanuja20 oh my gosh that is incredible!!!! I want to know how the wedding goes! Congrats 🥰🥰🥰

How have I only just seen this comment. I am so sorry it took me two months to get back to you lovely! How are you doing? I loveeeee what you said about all flowers being beautiful just in different ways. I so agree. Beauty comes in so many different forms. Sending a big hug your way. xxxxx

as a black woman it’s crazy how much my hair is a determining factor in how attractive I feel…when my hair is long and straight or I have extensions I get attention from guys but when I wear it natural…nada. I have the more “desirable” hair texture too (3b/3c).

Babe I'm so sorry to hear this. Thank you sharing this with me. ❤❤ You don't deserve that treatment. I don't think you're a bad person AT ALL. I hope you feel valued by other people in your life. You're so special, some people are so blind sometimes. xx

That is amazing ! Thank you !! ❤️❤️❤️ Also Feliz Navidad! X

thanks lovely 🤗

Thank you for watching my love x

This is good to hear:)

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I am !!! 🥰

@@alessiasutherberry thanks for replying ✨ I really like that accent of you people. Greetings from India💙

@@Natalia-cm8ez hello !!! ❤️❤️❤️ lots of love

God is not real.

@@Lalla-cy2zd Girl that is a pound of makeup and a filter. Don’t let pictures deceive you 🤣

@@paytonworkman1715 I’m sure you’re beautiful even without it 🤍

Everybody's ugly.

easier said than done. As an ugly woman life is harder. wether you agree with that statement and or it sounds harsh it doesnt matter. There will always be a standard no matter what generation your in- and the majority of humans will follow and believe in that standard and alienate those who don’t follow since its human nature to do so. People dont feel alienated they just are.

Yeah and even if you get something fixed, it’s not always going to turn out the way you want. I got a nose job several years back and I haven’t felt myself since.. :( I feel like I look worse now than before.

🥰💘❤ lots of love lovely xxxx

becouse even when u are attravtibe u can feel ugly

@@qwuantum but its just a feeling, they aren't getting made fun of all the time for their looks

Everybody's ugly. Those ppl you think are beautiful? They're really not

Aw thanks lovely🥰❤️💗💜

I am sorry you feel insecure about your ams and spine, that must be super hard. If you want to chat in more detail please fill free to message me on instagram (healing Alessia) x