Family before friends. I have experienced what you have with your partner. And i have experienced the same with friends. Family will stick together no matter what.

Same! I'm just starting over my life. Lesson learnt, we move on wiser

same here 18 yrs gone in 1 day...had to sell everything even my pets..and was broke and almost homeless.......

@@Gibonsli Non necessarily true. You should be aware even in that case, don't rely too much on others

When I put my eggs into my partner a baby came put

Thank you ❤

A partner should be a part of your life, not all of it❤

I am a HSP and definitely see myself as being alone for the rest of my days. Left my 35+ relationship last July. People suck. All I need now is my furry four legged friends. And PEACE.

And this interviewee, seemingly, has good advice.

Excellent advice.

I like that “recovering goal oriented person” ♥️

He sounds like he needs a beer

Agreed 💯 Great words of wisdom right there

Can you elaborate a bit on how you mean you’re “recovering” and what the transition from being that more-so before to less now has meant for you and how that has caused you to live a happier life as it sounds?

@@lucassimon9779 hello and good day. I used the term recovery to encapsulate the adjustment I’m making after striving for lofty and difficult goals. I dedicated a tremendous amount of time, energy and resources to achieve things in two professions as a lawyer and accountant. It was a drain. I went without vacations, lived substantially under my means, and didn’t enjoy the simple pleasures in life as much. Now, I’m enjoying activities and a nice lifestyle. To be honest, I believe obtaining what I needed and wanted helped me to relax and smell the roses. I hope that helps.

Same

No. It is BS. Period.

I put a dislike to your comment 👎

@@sadikadhaan4595 Asking in a good way but how is it BS?

​@@sadikadhaan4595 bozo

are you glad you chose to be a doctor?

Wow, love this!

What is your biggest regret as a 30 year old?

Practice safe sex/abstinence.

@Gemma It's not "just a job" when you've invested years of your life, and hundreds of thousands of dollars, into it. On top of that, if she got into it to save lives, or make them better through eliminating pain etc, it's also not "just a job". It's a career, a calling, a lifestyle.

How did you retire at 32?

@LiamM Drugs

@@Gibonsli What type of drugs?

@@LiamMill He didn't

Facts! That’s financial freedom Congrats

I fully agree, having pushed too hard to assure as a single mother for providing more of a material life for us...now that she is grown my biggest regret is sacrificing our time together. She grew up so independent that now she has little time for me😪 I didn't realize at the time, that her every materialistic wish was provided, but we had limited one to one time! I worked long hours & 6 day work weeks...when home I was exhausted bc I had her at 40...BTW, her father walked out as soon as the pregnancy was verified... she now has her wish for family having built her own. I believed providing was the highest priority, but she didn't realize I worked hard bc I loved her so much💞

@@BeverleyMiller_ 😢

You are so right on… I worked at one company for 30 years. I mentally checked out and retired abruptly at 55yo. I started working part time and met someone special and new acquaintances. The best part, I like my job, but I’m not committed to it and I have the freedom to quit anytime without worrying about finding another job! I’m at my happiest.

@@BeverleyMiller_ I’m so sorry… What a sad way for your love to be perceived… You did the very best you could with the hand that you were dealt.

@@slimtee2 That’s beautiful! Now it’s YOUR time!

Love it. The three things to have Diverse money flow Diverse relationships Diverse interests

Naw, if you are not truly devoted to your family, nothing else really matters. love them with every fiber of your being.

​@@missybelmont9830 depends on the person. If you are agreeable, you are people oriented. If you are disagreeable, you are more goal oriented. If a goal oriented people spends all of their attention on relationships, they will become very miserable to be around

4. Invest in your own mental and physical health. I focused my time and energy too much on my career and only eat to survive without really mindful of what I'm putting in my body. Just like this guy business and side hustle don't go as expected and my health suffered as consequence. It really made me realize how much I took health for granted and how truly important it actually is. Success will take some time and you'll encounter challenges and failures along the way, make sure to take care of yourself always successful or not if you don't want to regret things later.

Remember happiness is a illusion contentment is real.

Burned out, over taxed workload & responsibilities all for $14.00 an hour at the highly successful corporation of SCI Dignity Memorial. Add in toxic co-workers *who are LAZY = M I S E R Y Yet it's considered a good job in this God forsaken state of FL. America is f@#&ed!

@@KaliHunter Wrong. Burnt out just means you're not progressing at a pace you should be in that field, you need to go and remedy that by studying more about the field and then you will be inspired to work again.

💞

I’m finding 50 is quite an age of reckoning. There is still time for change, but it is harder and slower than when I made big shifts when you get. Wishing you the finding of a more fulfilling and peopled path, if that is what you wish for.

True. I agree 100%.

Yup 40 soon too and I work in a field where working yourself to the ground is celebrated by more money a better "title" but at the expense of what? Non stop stress and no personal relationships bc you dont have the time to devote to building strong relationships

As someone that's 29, it's reassuring to know that even around 30, it's not too late. I'm right where this man in the video is the last few months, and it's a defeating feeling.

Wow, I realize I am the youngest here. Actually my science teacher back when I was in school adviced us a similar thing- "even if you get a full time job, even if you're a full time student, you MUST do all the other things (aka explore more. Seek out more options)" I was 15 when I heard that. And that advice ringed in my ears from back then till now, when I've become 20. Currently trying to get a job but I've already planned this job won't be everything for me.

Each person should decide what matters to them. For some a family is burden not blessing

What would you have done differently?

So simple but so many of us do mess it up

Yes

You got it ❤

Yeah. I learned the hard way. I am still trying to start life at 42

Me too

I came here looking for that comment lol

Unless you're an emotional masochist, that gets a kick off of finding new ways for people to disappoint you, good advice. 😅 (I was hoping someone would've commented about this man's excellent taste in fashion and football)

Why do you say " my family "? Shouldn't it be our family instead of my..I have serious concerns when people use language like that