What ever you have said makes sense, the only thing, bone broth is better for skin than Teige Hanley. #meathead !!

Those products are shit

@@gurpreetkhera8266 How do you know?

Courtney, someday you should check spam comments in your comment section that redirect us to telegram for potential crypto and romance scams. You are owner of your channel and every day i get same telegram crap stuff. Hoping you will look into this properly.💢

well if I be a good guy. She takes my money If I be a bad guy. I will get arrested. So I guess I have to do nothing about it and not care about anything that doesn’t interest me. Still doesn’t work but I am amazing at minding my own business

That's not true, you can show interest without creating an imbalance in the behaviors of both sides, all you have to do is express it periodically with your words, and obviously express it with your actions; you don't even have to say too much but certainly don't do it daily and don't be obsessive.

I feel you sometime you gotta just let them do the work just to know that it’s 100% legit even if that means staying single and sexless at 4-6 years at a time I’m just not gonna put in effort and move the world just in hopes anymore.

Insanity? THIS IS WOMEN!! **kicks dude down the hole of solitude**

​@@theastuteanglerWell women are insane.

Yeah, I feel like such an autist... but I really need someone to clarify this. The "instructions" seem so vague and contradictory. The conclusion I'm leaning towards is... If you're good looking or rich... you can probably be nice or rude or attentive or inattentive and it doesn't matter. Anything works. If you're ugly/poor either way is gonna backfire.

Then log offline and go outside bro

Get off the internet, go outside, hang out with friends or by yourself, do things that you want to do. Talk to people you haven't met before.

There is no chance with western women. They aren’t worth it. The sooner you accept and realise that, the better off you’ll be. Look o/s

I don't think that is the goal of her videos. She's only trying to provide advice/help. Some things you take and improve on, and other things, its not like you have to. Even men with GFs /Wives don't follow all of this advice, but maybe some parts stick and other parts don't. This is all her perspective anyways.

Consider why you feel depressed and what you can do to manage your emotions. Feel how you need to feel, but then try to be solution oriented and focus on what you have control over. Courtney doesn't have all the answers and can't do the work for you. Please don't tie your sense of worth to having a gf. Focus on your self-improvement journey and appreciating the community you have around you. Or take small steps to develop one based on your interests and values ❤️

Welcome to the last stage of grief... acceptance.

Good job man. Much of the content you see on here doesn't help with that. Such as redpill content or political grifters. Much of the issues they talk about does not affect you in your day to day life, so there's no point getting worked up over it.

Dying alone never better than alternative

You didn't use Tiege Hanley.

Don't worry buddy! I'm in the same boat. I just gave up. Working hard and doing what I want before I die.

Exactly. For a significant amount of men (around one-quarter to one-half), they are already out of the dating game before it even started. Mainly being one or more of short, ugly round face, small "d", etc.

@@coolnut99 Not exactly true, people can make themselves viable options, just like people can disqualify themselves. It's not so black and white, things change. Short buff guys are more attractive than tall noodle limbed guys. It's all about what you do with what you have.

Jesus Christ, how pathetic.

@@coolnut99 You're kind of crude, Aren't you? The fact is, being short, ugly, having a round face, or having a small dick - might as well be an adult and spell it out - aren't deal killers for every woman. The truth is that many men who go through life without a relationship are in that boat because they gave up. I'm short, 5' 6", but there are PLENTY of women shorter than me. I don't know if I'm ugly, *** but I'm going on a second date with an attractive woman who said I'm attractive. There are other things she really likes about me, and some of them came about as the result of watching Courtney's videos. Unless you're gay, bisexual, transgender or a woman, keep your stupid comments to yourself. For the record, I'd be delighted if a gay man, a bisexual man or a transgender woman found me attractive. I wouldn't take them up on any offers, but I wouldn't be offended at all by the compliment. Oh yeah, I'm happy to be complimented by cisgender women, too. Call me, ladies. I don't know if I have a round face, but I don't think I do. Even if I did, there are women that prefer round faces. If a guy thinks his face shape is wrong, and he's able to do it, he might want to consider growing a beard. (Or growing a backbone.) Some women like beards, some women hate 'em. As for having a small dick, all I'm going to say about that is I checked and it's within what's considered the normal range for Americans. I'm no prize when it comes to physical appearance - I'm half bald, I'm saggy from years of weight gain and weight loss, my beard is white and my hair and mustache are almost white. But somehow enough women on dating apps find me attractive enough to go on at least one date. What's important is my personality. I'm a gentleman (there are lots of components to that), I'm funny and I'm intelligent. *** Here's a video that's going to put a lot of you to shame. Robert Hoge developed a tumor inside his skull while he was still in the womb, and as a result he was born with a severe facial deformity. He endured years of bullying, and (I haven't watched the video in awhile) underwent at least one corrective surgery. The last time a surgery was suggested, the risk of blindness was too high, so he chose not to proceed. He's married, and as of 2015, had a 15-year-old daughter. He wrote a book called "Ugly," and he's more successful than almost everyone here. So if you think you're ugly... kzfaq.info/get/bejne/h8ionNGGr8mwd5s.html _STOP WHINING!_ Get to work on yourselves and don't give up. Juat don't give up.

​@tylerwerthmuller2005 I would say more often then not your wrong there's plenty of videos were they have skinny average looking 6ft guy and a muscular 5'5 guy side by side and ask girls which they would choose and more often then not its the 6ft guy

you have to excite her and give her the tingles

Exactly. She has to physically attracted in order to be emotionally attracted in the first place.

Do you want an ugly woman?

Same thing goes for men. Physical attraction then personality is where the meat of it all begins.

What women are physically attracted to varies a lot more than what men are physically attracted to. A great quote I heard once was "women don't really want good looks, what woman really want is a man." You can have many attractive masculine traits without being physically attractive

What is better, harsh truth but honesty or good vibes but limited love? I think it's fair to say that girls are more about good vibes and guys rather are harsh but straightforward. So IMO if girls tried sugarcoating in relationships less and guys would take a more relaxed approach, relationships would improve for both sides

100 percent agree. And online dating just messed up everything. There's always the illusion of something better just around the next corner. I got ghosted recently after a month of dating this girl and everything seemed to be going great. Im not sure what i did wrong or if someone she thought was better just happened to show up. Then one day the texts are slow and the next she just stops speaking to me. Pretty harsh when people ghost someone they've been dating for a bit.

Yeah, just manifest it right?

I've been through the same thing. I would dump dating apps. Their toxic and it's all just a game (for women).

Your problem is the apps. They are useless. Women are only swiping right 5% of the time. Which means they aren't reading profiles and trying to get to know you on a personal level. It's all purely based on looks. As a man your looks are important but only 1 aspect of attracting girls. Get out and meet women in real life. that's always going to be your best bet.

Don't do dating apps brother. Those are bottom of the barrel ppl and the naive ones starting out only to find out they're bottom of the barrel.

You have to change your mindset, the girl doesn’t know u at all so it’s not personal. Dating apps is a numbers game so u need to harden your mind or it will break you. However if you can do this then it’s a useful tool. Keep in mind: maybe 5% or less of girls will actually match w you. Of those girls maybe 1% will actually talk/lead to a date. Of those girls maybe 50% will cancel. Don’t take it personal bro, on to the next! If anything the fact that you are getting this far shows progress

Dude, forget it, if you're just starting at 32 go your own way or get your passport. Western chicks are broken.

Women absolutely need to be putting effort in too.

@@CourtneyRyan I honestly got so frustrated with what you said about men needing to put in an effort I didn't even finish your video. Look as a man who was in a marriage that ended because my exwife was selfish and claimed that I was not putting in effort because she couldn't be lazy but I was killing myself trying to help her and doing as much as her. Ultimately this ruined our marriage and I was actually relieved a little bit when she cheated. It still hurt but I now had a good reason to file for divorce. The concept that men don't do enough really is offensive. Men make the first approach. We take all the risk and all women provide are hints and signals. We're not mind readers and how are we supposed to know if it's a green light or just the woman being polite? After we make the first approach and break the ice we then have to initiate the first date which we have to plan. We pay for the first date. We keep the conversation going on said date because all women say is one word or otherwise short answers. We initiate the second date which more than likely we plan. We have put in the majority of work. Now if she wants to keep dating us she answers our calls if not she doesn't even put in the effort to tell us so but just ghosts us. We don't even know until we see her out and about with another guy who can be just as frustrated as we were. If things continue we keep making effort until the relationship that's now considered a success is to move to the next level. I am of course talking about marriage and even there we're the ones to buy a ring and plan the evening we're gonna pop the question. We ask and the lady says yes or no or whatever. In the marriage we have to work to support the family but be there for the family. We try to keep the wife happy all while doing our professional job that supports the house. Our money goes into the joint account while anything she makes goes into her account. She spends her money on herself until she runs out of money then she spends "our money" on her too. Saying men need to make more of an effort is offensive. We're making the effort and have been since the beginning. Women have been complaining that they can't find men. Well it's time for some equal effort from women. You want love? Deserve it. Stop blasting men and saying we need to make an effort when we are making the majority of it. What I think is funny is that women haven't figured it out yet. We are unhappy and if we're unhappy we are not asking women out. Did it occur to any of the women complaining about men not approaching them to approach men? No, because they don't really care about us just what we do for them. Women need men but don't actually love men. They only love what they get from men. They only love what they themselves ultimately. We men need to take care of themselves and take a break from breaking their backs to please women. If women don't like that then maybe THEY should actually put in more effort. We have a raw deal lady and we're fed up. Now I am not saying that women are evil or anything. I don't hate women and don't think men should go their own way or whatever. I am just saying that an equal relationship demands equal effort. We're not getting equal effort and we know it. Things aren't going to be fixed until we acknowledge that. But it's not all bad for women either. Women taking the initiative for example means they're a greater moral agent and they have more choice in their lives. If you like a guy don't drop hints but ask him out. Just don't insult him or gross him out. I have been on the receiving end of that and it doesn't feel good and isn't flattering just infuriating. I am a human being too dang it. I may be stoic and keep things contained but it's not like I don't feel. At our root we're all the same just socialized to be different. I am expected to be cold and stoic but inside I'm hurting but won't make it anyone else's problem. But for a relationship if the benefit isn't greater than the cost then I am not going to bother and more men are coming to the same conclusion. Bottom line it's a two way street and not a one way road. It takes two to tango so stop blaming us. We're not going to just keep going on with things the way they always were.

What do you expect? She preaches all this stuff and then… low and behold… married a multimillionaire. Her channel is a ruse.

@@CourtneyRyan Are theses six universal truths or are these your "truths"?

@@CourtneyRyan how the hell do women put in effort when women play a passive role in the whole courtship and dating process? it should be obvious as to what i'm talking about, guys always being expected to start an interaction and do the asking out, plan and set up the dates, go in for the kiss, be the one to initiate sex for the first time, men having to take the god damn lead in everything, so how the hell are women putting in effort? women for all time, have basically always been passengers in the whole dating process, thats why for all time, there will always be more male wizards than female wizards.

Don´t you want to die alone? Become a bus driver :D

@@Gorbi1985 lmao

Problem is online statics show the women are only swiping the Top 1% to 3% of the best looking guys. Then they wonder why the hot guys keep leaving them as they have 10 other women waiting to go out with them at a drop of a hat. These same women are ignoring the other 97% of men and this is the result.

@@franciscoaguilar123I know so many “ugly” guys in relationships. I work with the autistic population. One of my students refuses to wipe after using the bathroom or shower. He has a girl who’s crazy about him. She’s also autistic. I think a lot of men miscalculate their attractiveness in comparison to the women they want. Men decide what’s attractive on a woman in a romantic/sexual way, and women do the same for men. If women are rejecting you, you’re not attractive to them

That's when you stop dating, reinvest in yourself, then re-engage. If I'm running a dungeon that's too hard, I don't quit the game. I review my build, my kit, and I level up. Then I try again. Rinse and repeat. You can win, you just have to figure out how.

It's a self-fulfilling prophecy then. Take a break. Unwind reload

This!

Is that what dating is reduced to for you? Shopping for clothes? This is the source of women's misery: They can easily find something and someone that fits them well, but they will ALWAYS be unhappy about it, convincing themselves that is something and someone that fits PERFECTLY! It's a moot point anyway. Regardless of what the purpose of dating actually is, more are simply walking away from the practice as a whole. The standards are impossible.

69 likes da heh huh

The purpose of dating is to find a wet hole that isn't surrounded by a person that's too annoying

@@BoonsesThat’s crass, juvenile, and I love it.

Men don't care about pursuing long-term dating until they're in their late 20s or early 30s and after they're done throwing their community dick to as many people as possible that will catch it. And women recognize that, so they decided to go outside and have their fun too rather than wait around as virgins only to be the 57th person a guy sleeps with before he's decided to settle down. We're in this current state of the dating world because of whore choices by men and y'all need to stop acting like y'all don't know that. "Men can't be whores, they're supposed to have sex with 300 people! They only have to be providers!"....."A man can't be a whore because the penis is like a key and a vagina is a lock!" This mentality got us to this point. And I say that as a tall, educated, outgoing, and good-looking man who has had zero problems even talking to women, but doesn't care to have a laundry list of bodies. I had a friend in college that made it his objective to fuck 50 women in one semester and had the audacity to say he really likes women that haven't been with a bunch of people.

Well said 👏 🔥 especially with the Madonna Reference line. Are you in the U.S. ?

@@youngbrandz6283 sadly yes…

This channel: "Rejection is a part of life..." 90%+ of men: "Yes, we know... we know." This channel: "you have to put in a little effort..." 100% of men: "That means all the 6's". (you know what I mean.)

I don’t believe you cannot meet conservative women in early 20s. Marry early and secure a good woman

I'm in the exact same boat and it sucks I just had an anniversary pass but it's from the last time I had sex and that was 10 long year's ago sucks to be a man in these dark times

Thank you for the summary!

Thank you for the roundup!

You're both welcome! Good luck, fellas!

Yeah, but if you want children and are in your 40s.....you'd better hurry or else you'll be a new father as an old man.

Since when do (Western) women do their "fair share"? The ratio seems to be (at least) 60/40 more like. Relationships where it's 50/50 seem to be few and far between. Men have to do bend over backwards doing just about everything because it comes across as "more attractive" so women don't have to do it while they mostly sit there making their next Tiktok/Instagram post. The dating game in the West is broken and the proof is in the pudding. Just look around. Women make the rules and fancy themselves the prize (most of them) that aren't worth it. Better to skip the game and look elsewhere. Just about everywhere else the women are better than what we find in the West

​@@hamilton9651You're replying to a bot, h - the one that's infesting the comments here, underneath many of the comments from real people. Best tegards

taught me to stop trying why waste effort on something that's never going to happen

@@nathanpoirier7200 EXACTLY!

That's one woman's reaction, not all women would do the same. Be happy you weren't stuck in a relationship with a kid with her! The majority of women do appreciate a gentlemen, don't give up, the right woman, a proper lady, is out there for you. Go find her.

There's an entire trend of women telling others to break up with their boyfriends if you don't like or want to watch Barbie, one of them self proclaimed she isn't a feminist because she believes women are better than men. There is no chivalry warranted.

People change. They learn. Learn languages, learn playing piano and learn speaking in front of big audiences. And so, the majority of men learns about the shallowness of nowadays women. Be it in relationships or business: Life forms us to function! Shallowness and hypergamy turns the majority of men into cynicists - which is good: Nature protects most of the men from a) suicide and b) going postal (though both, suicide rates are 4x higher among young man than among young women, and the number of mass shootings out of frustration seems to grow). However, the majority of men just - rightly - turns away from women, keeps being friendly with them at workplaces etc., but does not feel much respect for women any longer. That is alright and makes perfectly sense. How would most male sea lions feel, if they were able to write books about their lives as loners? One male of a population procreated with all females at the beach in that species. Internet and modern dating apps turn human society back to nature, back to the last 4000 years of Stone Age (where a study on gen-data has revealed: Up to 17 women have procreated with just one - obviously very attractive - male, before man-made moral based societies and religion have changed this at the cost of oppression of women: This era is now ending). If you tell people to reflect their use of plastic about pollution in oceans, then they will agree. If you tell people to reflect their emission of CO2 about climate change, then they will agree. If you tell people to reflect their meat consumption to save water, then they will agree. ...but when telling people (women) to reflect their dating behaviour (also for their own sake as aging singles), then hell freezes: "HOW DARE YOU not respecting female preferences". This is bigotry of modern society that we have to accept.

You have to turn that around. You have to not be so nice on the outside, but you are allowed to be nice in your own head. People think being nice equals weakness, including women. If you do not act nice all the time, then people will not take advantage of you. But once people pick up on you are not "nice" and state what you want and be confident, then that gives you the room to be nice to people on an individual level. Watch any Clint Eastwood movie for an example. Everyone always thinks his character is a gruff mean guy on the outside, but then he does something extremely nice for someone and it is totally unexpected by the other character. Be a jerk in public, nice in private.

​@@bobross1829and your part of the problem in this world

The term. Nice guy has been bastardized to mean a con man. So be a good man. Justin Waller put out the idea that a good man should be able to hold a baby and slit a throat in the same day. Something to ponder

Wow - this comment blew me away. Thank you so much for your kind words. I’m so happy you’re here! 🤍🥹

@@CourtneyRyanyou’re welcome! Happy to be here! 😁

@@joebarlow4064mmmmm does she tell the truth though? Since she likes to drop truths maybe she could start with how much her, some what odd looking, husband makes.

JOE LETS GO WHAT HAPPENED IN THAT SUPER BOWL I CAN TELL A GUY NAMED AARON DONALD DOMINATED YOUR O LINE AND YOUR UNIFORM IN YOUR PROFILE LOOKS LIKE TOM BRADY ANS NO ONE WILL BREAK HIS SUPER BOWL TITLES NOT EVEN BELICHICK

Absolutely right. It's all a game for women.

@@Shah-of-the-Shinebox It's become more of a game than at any time in history - and often you are only playing someone else's saved game.

It true that women don't approach but have you ever thought about how hard it is to be the one that has to do the rejecting? Especially rejecting someone that can overpower you, and might get shitty.

​@@aliadeeb6859practice makes perfect. No one ever said that it wasn't hard to do the rejecting. But it's the difference of deciding what to eat from a buffet versus trying to convince someone to give you a bite of food from their plate.

Mmkay. What would you suggest as an alternative?

@@exothermal.sprocket Hookers and blow

@@exothermal.sprocket just emagine that one day all women disappeared from the word. What would you do? Do that.

@@AugustSchroif I have to strongly assume by that comment that you believe most or all of the problems in the world are stemmed from the female sex? If this is not what you meant, please explain.

This. Tack on that boys are taught by society and women to be ashamed of their sexuality, so they get into not only the mindset you described, but also the mindset that if you have any sexual desire at all, you're a disgusting POS. At least a few of my dating failures came from discomfort over my own sexuality inhibiting me from making any move that could steer me away from being friend zoned.

My mom always taught me to respect and never hit women. Unfortunately, she left out the part that some women can be POS and very complicated.

​​@@gk_zone4274 Exactly. Both of my parent and grandparents taught me the same. Only after seeing real life spoiled toddlers in grown womans body I saw the other side. Also when I've seen in person people I know having their lives ruined by females with malicious intentions, interested only in getting free house, free experience stuff even if the husband's hobbies and life gets destroyed. Being a gentleman also means being very strict about something and having strong moral and values, not just being polite to her and give her flowers every time you see her. In modern terms it's not accepting BS behaviour from anyone, especially the wife. The last one I learned it from both of my grandparents.

Well said

Your right about getting out in the real world. In high school, never went out because I was painfully shy. It wasn't until years after I got out of high school that I started going out and it was always by myself.

Cliques is what you're describing. They still very much exist today, but in businesses and politics and churches. Not sure cliques are as much a thing in the 30's and 40's somethings looking for love.

💯

I agree. If a gal likes you, they do make it easy. If you have to pull with them, forget about it.

I've learned a lot about women from becoming close friends with women. We're nearly different species. You don't gotta take their dating advice, but you can look at similarities many women share, and act accordingly when it comes to seeing someone new. What sort of things make them uncomfortable, their boundaries, what they like to do in their spare time, what makes them respect someone else, what makes them write off someone else as irredeemable. You'll often find yourself in situations where over-aggressive guys hit on them right in front of you. You get a front row seat to see what NOT to do, and they'll laugh about it after and say why.

AS as woman who is married I can say THIS is phenomenal advice . These are men we want.

If that's how most people describe you as, don't change for anyone. You will meet the right woman that deserves the nice guy in you.

@@shekool18 thank you. Hope so too.

Basically, yeah. How dare you have expectations of women. Just keep shelling the big bucks, and prostrate yourself with a big smile, and don’t think I owe you jack sh*t because that’s what you’re meant to do. Know your damn place, swine.

Never bring the nice guy or gentleman into the bedroom.

Take photos of yourself outside, not in the gym. Change every profile photo to your best one in the most relaxed, comfortable, natural setting. Don't mention the gym, job, cars or money on your bio and have no photos of any of it. They want you, not your stuff. Ask more questions with girls, listen more, talk less. Be mysterious, but honest. Don't tell them everything, let them work on finding out. Tease them, focus on not just laughing, but being relaxed and open with them. Offer a hot drink local to them, call it a first date, nothing else, have an hour's chat with them. They'll like you more.

@@PenguinHealth I really appreciate the advice, thank you. I do have several photos of me outside and not just the gym of course but that's one of my main passions outside of my career. The issue is I start conversations off very well with them, I do ask questions as you've mentioned but several minutes later I get ghosted. I have no control over that. I only speak when it's time to speak. All the time what happens to me is that I get ghosted, ghosted ghosted, left right and center and to be fair I've gotten to a point where I really don't give a fuck anymore, I used to before.

@@MrSemro12345asking questions is sort of the wrong answer at the same time. The conversation must flow naturally and be fun. That’s the biggest problem. While I know that’s how it must go I have no idea how to drive it to be such. Also, many MANY dating profiles on apps are fake these days. They make their money of men, that’s their biggest consumer. Also why women get 20billion matches on them. You are literally a needle in a haystack on a dating because even less attractive women get HUNDREDS of matches in a very short time. Going out and putting yourself out there has always been the best way. As horrible as this sounds it forces them to actually talk to you and not immediately write you off with a swipe of their thumb for some arbitrary attribute she saw or read in your profile (as a short man, this happens to me constantly. If I change my height even two inches I get a stupid amount of more matches because I’m good looking…. Just 5’6”)

Get locked up, shave your head, and get some prison tattoos. You’ll get a lot of women when you get out. Treat them bad, and you’ll attract even more.

all of those things you listed are external. You can be the most fit man, with the fastest car, and dress flawlessly, and still be an absolute shlub. Laughter is a good thing to break the ice, but its not the be all and end all of conversation. Work on yourself internally, like having thoughts on various topics having hobbies, having a good personality, and things will change.

As a woman I don’t believe in that quote. I’ve had hobos approach me and I’m an attractive woman with a career and apartment, so I live somewhere lol. I think it’s not who you attract but who you keep

As fucked up as it is. At least with gaming if you pay money in hopes of enjoying something and don't like it; you can get your money back via refund. If you pay for a girls meal, and everything else towards a date, you just validated her attention and there's no refunds after you realize they are only replying with one worded answers and look at their phone. The next step is watching ads from an engaged girl who does it for promo ad code cuts while telling the same sex that historically does all the work to "put in work" as if its a revelation.

Gay sex with bear >>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>> Dating Sorry gals, but that's the harsh truth!

I agree. The environments you hang around, also play a part in they type of people you attract. If your a decent dude with your stuff together, and hang out in scummy bars, there's gonna be scummy people attracted to you there.

Bars are usually the places where people go to alter their consciousness with alcohol. What are the kinds of people who are looking to alter their consciousness with alcohol? The atmosphere in bars is usually dark/dim, usually loud upbeat music, usually lots of TV screens, usually noisy talking people trying to compete with the other noises. What sort of accuracy does all of this produce in assessing the sort of person you might meet there?

No one can guarantee you success, they can only offer guidance to increase your chances. And there are other benefits of the process. It's not just about being someone a woman likes, but being/becoming someone that you like.

@@jeneeskinner7481 I quite agree. your chance of success is much more a function of where you live and the amount of like minded people you come into contact with than effort. For example, I spend the vast amount of my time as a digital nomad living out of a van. No matter how hard I try the constant travel makes it nearly impossible to date. While traveling to various National Parks I meet people who live in remote areas. They are great people who work hard on themselves, are adventures and kind, and exude confidence, but are single for lack of options in their area. I am a lawyer by trade and know many other lawyers who moved from large cities to rural towns to help out their families. There are enough people but no one similar to their morals. Putting in effort can make someone in an already good scenario successful but will not help someone where other more important factors supersede

Some people delay their growth to find a partner due to loneliness. It's not neccesarily a bad thing to self improve as that outcome will help you grow on a larger scale. Finding someone in a relationship is all chance and encounter, and that's okay. Not everyone in the world will be right for you, so when a person finally comes around, it's good to have that positive energy that draws people near. I'm telling you, the world could use more positivity.

That's why men on dating sites rate women on a bell curve and are willing to be with someone near their looks match while women swipe on only the top 5% and will accept a date from only the top 20%, right? I'm sure every single woman on every single dating site would be rated at an 8+. Now what is your heuristic for those people able to get into relationships other than rejecting the undesirables and fantasizing about their betters.

@@pace1195 Don’t talk to me about dating websites, dating apps, hookup apps or anything similar in attempts to refute me: Reason 1: My statement is what is based off what has been true for hundreds if not thousands of years. Your silly little apps and sites are not relevant to the large majority of mankind that has ever been coupled up with someone. Before the 1980s absolutely no one was dating virtually, by the end of the 90s still

You and me both

Backfires are due to spark timing that is usually too much advanced. The mixture combusts too early before the piston reaches top-dead-center. The result can often reverse crankshaft rotation, open the intake valve, and blow the burning gasses back out the intake.

Not to be that guy but the actual quote is " It Takes Six Men To Carry A Man To His Grave, But Only One Woman To Put Him There".

@@Marcus-gw4bb don't be that guy.

@@michaelbasgall8924 lol I hate myself for that but I also value accuracy XD

Have the salesman attitude of 'NEXT' to a failed relationship. Don't look back, wish how it could have been, focus on the next one, it could be fantastic. And save you from an early grave, due to happiness!

Did your dating advice dude (who I assume you see as a low value guy) ever care what the women he plowed through did for a living before he moved on to his next conquest?

I don't agree with what you say but okay!? 😳😬😏

That's a Pick Up Artist, not a dating expert. There are plenty of men in committed relationships who give dating advice. Nick Freitas Casey Zander Rollo Tomassi A lot more but I don't feel like making a long list. I do think a woman's perspective can be useful, but you simply don't learn how to fish, from fish. You learn from successful fishermen. So even a PUA can teach you how to find a woman. You simply use what they teach to find "the one," instead of acting like a modern woman who wants to get ran through

@@pace1195 not that I saw

I think sometimes it helps to remember you're not alone. I'm right there with you, and from what I can tell... a ton of guys are. Might also help to remember, some dudes actually have it even worse. Sadly, I don't think that desire ever goes away... but it's not like everyone is getting over and you're the only one left out in the cold. And there is a little value in this experience too. I've heard the best way to know who your friends really are is to fall ill. If you've got people there for you in these hard times, always remember them. Also, be aware of those (girl)friends that mysteriously show up when times are good.

Agree with the guy above. It'll pay off to one day be able to focus on the positive experiences we've had in dating rather thrash holding on to the resentment of defeats and other perils. Seems a matter of retraining our perspectives and moving past the hurt and leaving it in the past

@@FxUznilo I guess but I can't even get anyone to go on a date with so it is hard to even feel half way decent about anything.

> I don't meet anyone irl that is single Don't take this the wrong way, but you really can't be meeting many people then. As a guy, one of the best things you can do to increase your chances is talk to tons of women. Doing that also decreases bitterness too.

@@mitchell2075 cool thanks for the super helpful info

Men don’t owe society anything. Men don’t owe anybody anything. Men have one duty, and that is to themselves and themselves only.

exactly

A "nice guy" is usually a guy who is nice but just not physically attractive enough to a particular woman.

And "boring" usually means "stable"

@@rhysh2639 That too^

"Nice guys" are the ones for long-term (aka "female bailout plan") Bad boys to blow her back

Stop it.

Yeah. I dropped out of dating in my late 20's when 5 ex's and old flings recontacted me out of the blue. I figured out what was happening. They were hitting the wall and looking for a husband to bail them out of student loan debt and/or their soul crushing job. It disgusted me beyond belief. If i wasn't good enough for them in my early 20's, they don't deserve me in my late 20's. I don't want leftover women. And yeah i understand i'll be called leftover too but shame doesn't work on me so the leftovers can call me whatever. I'm fine being single. The longer men remain single the harder it is for women to convince men to get romantically involved. Men who spend their 20's with constant rejection will throw in the towel. The thing that worries me is how many Western men are sexless and hopeless. No society lasts for long when 50% of men are sexless and hopeless.

@@Andrew--SAmen

Someone needs to start a new civic organization called something like the Order of Fellow Nobodys. It would have 50 million member men within the year.

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Be a gentleman and a good person to everyone and anyone you do not want to have a romantic relationship with. She will choose the career criminal with four other baby mamas ahead of the nice guy standing in front of her.

Words can have different meanings depending on the context. Here the word "nice" is usually put in quotes to denote men who are basically people pleasers. They desperately need validation from others, so they always deal with other people's needs while suppressing their own. They lack boundaries, are pushovers and can easily become very angry and frustrated because they bottle up all negative feelings and frustrations. This does not make them bad people, however, and I don't even think they are consciously aware of how manipulative they can come across to other people; but there's a clear distinction between such a person and someone who is genuinely nice and not wanting anything in return.

No. Good can be defined as "for you". Nice can be defined as "through you, for me." It's not about the action itself, it's about how you go about it. Nice guys are the wrong kind of safe. Learn to be a strong, good man. Not a boyish man looking for validation from others.

​@@vlada131 People that call nice people manipulative are people well versed in gaslighting and overall just users. In my experience, being nice to these users leads them to asking for more, and then more, and then more. The asking becomes demanding and "we're friends" is uttered frequently by these users. All the while the user treats the nice person worse and worse. Finally the nice person says no. The user makes them out to be an asshole and manipulator, which is just projection. Don't be a user.

Go look up her husbands net worth and see if that changes your opinion

@@DudeGuy82 Not married yet, just engaged but big day is soon I think. "Teddy".

@@x-man5056 they got married awhile ago my dude.

@@DudeGuy82 I get where you’re coming from, maybe she’s somebody who preaches but not practices herself. What is more pressing is why make all this effort if it has zero relevance for her own self.

Dr Glover is still doing books...

nice guys are simps in orbit trying to weasel their way into a woman's pants.

Actually all serial killers get tons of marriage proposals from women....its called Hybristophilia

He was also, obviously, sociopathic. One characteristic of sociopaths is that they are often very charming, and Bundt was no exception

@@devilsadvocacy Charisma is nothing more than having regular social skills . if Ted bundy dint have his looks his “charisma” wouldn’t work

@@devilsadvocacy - if Ted Bundy is a sociopath and had women throwing themselves at him, but Courtney suggests "we attract what we are", does that mean all those women too, were sociopaths?

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all garbage. LOOKS >>>> everything else

@@MMAengineer If it's garbage for you, why are you reading, and watching the content?

@@lesamar8611 because the video is called "harsh truth", I thought I give you the real harsh truth as a man, and not as courtney ryan who is trying to build a big followership

@@MMAengineer With all do respect to you, we both didn't ask you for your opinion. But there are some other things which aren't garbage. And when we decided to hear your for opinions, we will ask you.Thank you for understanding. As for Courtney, I can say that with some things we both agree, and with some things I disagree. And let me just say that with hating comments, you're helping me get more suggestions, views, etc. And that goes for either likes, and dislikes believe it or not. That's quite her thing how is she going to build a big followership. I have my own channel, but I don't talk about it all the time on Courtney's videos, cause it's quite normal to have your own interests in things that you desire, and you're finding interesting. I did write some suggestions, cause some people like my suggestions (and yes some suggestions aren't for people, which is normal). But let me just say that I respect men, and women when they are behaving as normal people. Also there are things that I do respect, and that I don't respect at people. I respect success of people if they made an effort of their own, and also working it as well. But I don't respect the people that made the success by stealing someone else's effort and work, and I don't like how someone is humiliating someone's progress, effort, success, and work, that they have invested. Every people will eventually show their real behavior (one way or another) when they either hear or see what was the progress of our work, no matter is it Courtney Ryan, Novak Djokovic, Victor Troicki, Nikola Jokic, Michael Jordan, Tomas Edison, Nikola Tesla, Albert Einstein, Michael Pupin, Angelina Jolly, Bred Pitt, etc. Some of them will support us, some of them will be jealous, but one way or another they will eventually show their real behaviors.

dirty secret that I have learned the hard way - give a girl respect, honesty, loyalty, commitment, security, consistency, reliability and she / they will cheat / lie / game / ghost to go get / chase the exact opposite - she / they will reward and seek the Bad boy that is disrepectful, unstable, criminal, toxic, most often abusive ... AND BLAME YOU FOR IT. *FFS*

It sounds like you are this 'nice guy' that was being talked about and that struck a cord with you. Being rejected for being nice is rough, but it happens to all of us. Don't expect things because you are simply nice because it is EXPECTED to be nice and kind, but EXPECTING a reward for simply doing what is necessary is vain and shallow (it doesn't represent pure intentions and shows an ulterior motive that you could have, i.e. not being real). Don't take these words as an attack, but rather use it (and Courtney's video) as a chance to look inward and see what works and doesn't work. Maybe you aren't receiving what you want, but remember: sometimes no feedback is feedback!

@@Hunter-zb5wl You realize you just proved his point, right? It’s not taking it as an attack. Rather, how about you consider this video and your words from outside your perspective. “Men, work hard because that’s the bare minimum. If it doesn’t work out, tough titty, you just weren’t trying hard enough. Don’t hate the player, hate the game.” -You and Courtney But of course, there’s really not much you can say or do to make dating and relationships seem at all sensible or appealing to men. I guess you’re more than familiar with the phrase, “there’s a sucker born every minute.”

@@b-0220 I mean if what you are doing isn't working, surely seeking outside advice/perspective could help? I'd imagine that's why you and this person are here, no? I appreciate your input but I'm still lost on both you and E's perspectives; did you expect the outcome to be easy? If you want to win, play the game in a way that YOU can have success in. I myself don't have a relationship or the life that I want, but I know for a fact it's because I 1) am not putting myself out there and 2) I don't really have a purpose to fulfill my life; basically I'm not putting in as much effort as I know I could(why I'm in these comments LOL). I understand your point on the dating market, it is rough for men and men's mental health, on top of needing to be the one to go out there and make things happen. But until women start going after men and making the first move, good luck to you. I wouldn't call it being a sucker, rather having hope or being optimistic. To each their own; like you said it is my perspective. You seem very smart friend, I have faith that you will succeed in finding the person you want!