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My hubby said my looks, then boobs, figure, hair…then eyes. After date one…personality, femininity, humor, smarts, positivity, confidence, kindness. He said he fell in love with me by 3 rd month, engaged @ 6 months, married @ 1 year. Still makes my heart flutter at 45+ years❤️.

My divorce after 40 years was a blessing in disguise. Sooo happy and PEACEFUL!! Found myself since divorce .. I love me ! Lol

As a woman, a man who is GENTLE with people and animals is an immediate attraction for me😊

As a woman I alsoo watch to see how someone treats others that they would have nothing to gain from. It speaks volumes about their true inner character.

If you have to fake any of this he'll be able to tell and there will be no connection. Stop focusing on doing these things to attract a man, start focusing on doing these things for yourself and then see who you attract naturally. Works 💯

The more I watch videos like this, the more I’m affirmed of what a catch I am 😂

Omg I guessed vibe. I don't know why youtube put this video in my path since I've been married so long but as a psychology student, I enjoy videos like this. I can tell you, I had my husband's attention over a VERY beautiful girl/women (we were young) who liked him a lot. At first it felt like I was in the Twilight zone. I believe the difference was, when she came into the room she said "Here I am." I said, "There you are." I made my husband FEEL good about himself. I gave the vibe that he was as funny, strong, respected and smart as I saw him. THAT gave me the edge.

So, I walked around with "soft eyes" and approachable as you suggested, and I attracted some dangerous characters.

Great podcast, very refreshing to hear a man’s point of view and their reality! … I went on a date last week and I know more about his ex-wife than I think he does about me, and to give him a second chance, we had a couple of phone conversations throughout the week and I still know more about his ex-wife so now I need to let him know that we just aren’t a connection….

I've noticed that when you're just getting to know a guy, they often just talk about themselves. I do ask them questions But they don't ask much about me. Yes I will interject something about me, but sometimes I will just say, "you seem to be a very interesting person, you've told me a lot about yourself & that's good. Do you have any questions for me?" If they don't, then they are either totally self-absorbed or just not interested in me. There should be an exchange of info if you want to get to know each other.

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For all the women and men out there looking for someone: I was taught to find someone with the same VALUES. You can always find someone with the same hobbies to do things with.

A woman who is confident is attractive.

I love this! Physical attraction is fun, but I need a deeper connection - talking, laughing, cooking a great meal together, kindness and must be kind to all animals and people. No show-boating to try and impress me. I’m impressed with what is in your heart and soul! Open up to me and let me in, and I’m yours! ❤️

Men notice pretty women and the rest tend to be invisible. So, yes, men tend to be superficial. To get to emotional attraction, men have to get past that superficial attraction. Very few men take the time to talk to someone who isn't 'pretty enough' or 'young enough' for them. As a women gets older, she is noticed even less. We become invisible unless we are some fantastic beauty. I don't take much stock in looks, I'd rather be with an 'ugly' man who has it goin' on inside (character) than a superficial man who is 'pretty' on the outside.

A man has to be emotionally available to have emotional attraction. Would LOVE to know one ...

Being yourself is the best bet. We all have good and bad days. That is reality. No one can be happy Hannah every day.

There is nothing wrong with men being attracted to women’s looks the problem is that when they don’t go beyond looks. Getting to know people for who they are is what makes all kinds of good and great relationships.

My ex-husband’s use of his phone way way too much until late hours of the night, and declining social events offered to us… oh my gosh. It killed our marriage. Because he would not let me go to the events on my own.