7 BIGGEST MISTAKES Guys Make on the FIRST DATE!

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@LoveSamanthaLee 5 ай бұрын

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@insomicraiddict Жыл бұрын

1. Listening to a fish about how to catch it.

@dmills06 Жыл бұрын

Yeah she is a beautiful girl with all the seemingly right things to say about girls and guys…does make you go hmmmm 🤔…what’s really the problem? This seems like an onion with layers to peel back. 😊

@faith4today Жыл бұрын

I like how she said "some" guys. Much respect for not saying all guys.

@georgetheanimalsteel Жыл бұрын

This is the thing about getting dating advice. The guy can't be too this or too that because it's not natural but the woman has a literal checklist. Once the guy picks that his date is going through a checklist how do you act natural after that?

@LoveSamanthaLee Жыл бұрын

🤔❤️

@sidchase9244 Жыл бұрын

Facts💯

@jamesrgriffinjr8282 Жыл бұрын

Sam, I don't do any of these, but find todays women have their own issue 1. Talking about a ex on the date BIG issue for me 🤔 2

@jimsullivan2813 Жыл бұрын

Thirsty? On the first date? Seriously sad.

@LoveSamanthaLee Жыл бұрын

Lol

@jonsabo8849 Жыл бұрын

We wouldnt have time to talk, we would be dancing.

@richardcarr5241 Жыл бұрын

Don't let them establish that they have something you need. -- because you're not going to do it.

@dwaynelewis6185 Жыл бұрын

Well, I’m just going to be myself! Don’t tell my date EVERYTHING about me, leave some MYSTERY keep her in the dark! Lastly, we need to pay ATTENTION to each other and that means we BOTH turn OFF OUR PHONES! Simple as that!

@kevinmitchell8650 Жыл бұрын

It’s about you initially. No phones etc. Great presentation.

@toneysteel812 Жыл бұрын

😄😄 I'm not thirsty and I got plenty of conversations . 1-5 has never been my M O. Sigma man here💪🏽

@LoveSamanthaLee Жыл бұрын

☺️

@p9a9r21 Жыл бұрын

With all due respect Ms. Lee here is the actually list of the seven biggest mistakes men make in dating today; 1. Dating a modern woman 2. Dating a modern woman 3. Darting a modern woman 4. Dating a modern woman. 5. Dating a modern woman. 6. Dating a modern woman. 7. Dating at all....

@LoveSamanthaLee Жыл бұрын

😮 lol

@grnpsp Жыл бұрын

That last one goes either way I know females who love to do this

@MrJaysweet1 Жыл бұрын

You are absolutely drop dead gorgeous and sexy with your motivation and your smile and the way you are so natural. Keep up the good positivity be blessed.❤

@airportvans Жыл бұрын

do you know who this woman is

@jasongates- Жыл бұрын

On a previous video, someone said "why the yelling." I actually find it funny and entertaining. Also, it's to get our attention. Thanks for this list.

@yeahididit9054 Жыл бұрын

I don’t understand how someone can think 🤔 it’s a good idea to “act super busy on their phone “. I would have to call it a night if I was out with someone playing on their phone. Nope That’s a big flashing neon sign they aren’t feeling it Bye Felicia ✌🏼

@IHateStupidity Жыл бұрын

Super busy on the phone doesn’t mean not available to you. If someone needs to focus more than likely they’re trying to hurry and get it done to get back to you.. Go for the multitask. Add, answer, phone.

@IHateStupidity Жыл бұрын

*video plays* *Samantha Lee* : SPEAKING FROM EXPERIENCE FAMILY! 😭

@Daniel-yd1ed Жыл бұрын

First mistake taking her out in the first place

@swati6848 Жыл бұрын

Not having a plan is a big No No

@IHateStupidity Жыл бұрын

May not have a plan, but do got the will to achieve it.

@IHateStupidity Жыл бұрын

Only talking about yourself shouldn’t be bad tbh. What else is he supposed to know. You? Is he supposed to ask when you know? It can show he cares but if he’s with you then. If he’s talking about himself it’s good. He’s open, and gives you room to learn your partner if you’re into that. Still always nice to add more to the feeling between you. What’s the wait. 🤷🏽 Now or never.

@IHateStupidity Жыл бұрын

If he’s sharing why don’t you. Different points he brings up can be a reminder of things about yourself you can add, relate, communicate. Eh I could be ignorant. What if you had nothing to share. And if you live life, shouldn’t you be happy of the things you do, if you were to leave it in the past, how could you share it?

@tamunoitarimwintinharrison1942 Жыл бұрын

I feel ya on this one

@IHateStupidity Жыл бұрын

Nun wrong wit a boast. It’s either boast or say I’m rich politely. 🤷🏽

@nodozhit Жыл бұрын

That is insightful.

@talias7533 Жыл бұрын

And this. Why I do not go on any date

@devinclark7869 Жыл бұрын

Love your hair 😍

@gregniceville Жыл бұрын

Some ladies that I have dated make those same mistakes...

@IHateStupidity Жыл бұрын

Aight. I seem pretty good at this. Let’s go out. 🤷🏽

@mysty0 Жыл бұрын

Yea nah, its women who treat dates like its an interview.. and thats why guys will run their stats, job, success, wealth etc.. because they're used to being interviewed

@STARSENMT Жыл бұрын

Word. I went over to a chick’s place and it was interview style. It’s a red flag. Like damn do you want me for me, or what I potentially have?

@IHateStupidity Жыл бұрын

It is a natural conversation. Want me to tell you hi, or how beautiful I think you are which is what I feel not how I think this should go. Plus we’ve got our whole lives to legit talk about anything we find under the sun. Outside of us and inside.

@zacharymitchell3986 Жыл бұрын

Right having a meaningful conversation and vibing is key to getting to know someone as well continuing a relationship and can lead to other things

@LoveSamanthaLee Жыл бұрын

Yes

@zacharymitchell3986 Жыл бұрын

@@LoveSamanthaLee always worked for me

@angelabasby2532 Жыл бұрын

Absolutely 💯 💯 💯 💯 💯 💯 💯 Facts

@RRR-ox9ud Жыл бұрын

Basically, show up, be yourself and hope that the woman is a Ho or not a Ho (pendingbon what you want).

@Michael-ez1nb Жыл бұрын

It goes both ways not just the men out here it goes for the women to

@teemoney94 Жыл бұрын

We hear you . But what mistakes the woman makes on the date. I would like to hear both sides.

@JohnMoya-np6kh Жыл бұрын

They tell me that it will be hard to find a woman strong enough to love my own strength and independence, and not worry about being miss ,

@erikdlt Жыл бұрын

Can you explain "the need to perform"?

@IHateStupidity Жыл бұрын

Know what’s better than Samantha Lee videos? Samantha Lee in real time. 24 hour content, I’m down to no life.

@IHateStupidity Жыл бұрын

In real time one of the ways you can feel me. 😈 Love me. 😈

@IHateStupidity Жыл бұрын

No Kizzy, this shower finna suck without you. This the cons of knowing you, and getting you late. *cough* big confidence in the snag fullyyyy

@IHateStupidity Жыл бұрын

On my soul do it Lie again Witcho lying ass I can’t believe you lied I ain’t never think a lie a come out u till it didn’t *splashes holy water* SMH Proverbs women wow

@IHateStupidity Жыл бұрын

This too much love Say it to my face so I can walk away into the cosmos Imma walk pass your ass like 50 blades of grass

@IHateStupidity Жыл бұрын

The more you keep it inside.. The more powerful it is when it’s outside… I WILL NOT FALTER.

@Starmaker908 Жыл бұрын

You must just left a date like that😂😂😂..go on a date with me its going to be an interview...backgroud checks, credit checks, references, Im bringing an application too...

@davidb1096 Жыл бұрын

Id like to add medical records/surgery to make sure I ain’t falling for the okie doke lol

@Starmaker908 Жыл бұрын

@@davidb1096 you can look at a woman's skin tone and tell plus her hands always being warm is a good indication.

@BC-pl3df Жыл бұрын

The last one is for good girls only. You can’t get that easily.

@waltersmith7156 Жыл бұрын

There are ways to find out the information you want to know without it seeming like an interrogation. Open ended questions are one way. I’m not so sure about the performance part because you are being judge on the things you do and say. Indecision comes from not having a plan A or B. The sex part will usually take care of itself if the vibe is right. Leading with your wallet will put you in a position of economic vulnerability.

@timothyhowell8780 Жыл бұрын

I disagree with the job interview statement. When I date a woman I am interviewing her to see if there is chemistry and seeing if she might be wife material.

@STARSENMT Жыл бұрын

Seeing any woman as a wife before getting to know her is going to leave you heart broken. Trust.

@IHateStupidity Жыл бұрын

Ji be feeling my life over lol. Like God like Hey Chase what u want Ur too damaged to be amongst the now Find your happiness If you avoid it you’ll run out of time (he gone shmoke me) Especially on bad behavior 🤷🏽 Like anti love and hate Cos then that’s all I’m making out of what’s given But chase love to get it Love to love. If life ends at least I was in love. I got to spend some time, maybe get a kid, make a woman’s life good, better than apart and the greatest I can give. I was loved. I truly loved. I influenced nature, and showed it love to help sway or make daily energy as such. Idk bruh. All I want. Beautiful woman like Samantha Lee. 😪 Everything else is love. But.. you are LOVE..

@ivorianking6942 8 ай бұрын

Don’t listen to women about dating if they like you they like you

@carolinedaoud Жыл бұрын

Yes, this scares me to death!! Dating is so scary!! 😂😂. Those thirsty vibes are a BIG NO for me too!! 😂.

@dumbass3770 Жыл бұрын

Go with the flow. Enjoy the time don't go in with an agenda. Oh yeah put that phone down.

@SareBear2000 Жыл бұрын

This is pretty much common sense 😊 when I go on a date with someone, I literally just want to feel as though we could be friends. Like I would be comfortable bringing them around my friends and family.

@shanenolan5625 Жыл бұрын

Thanks Samantha

@LoveSamanthaLee Жыл бұрын

Sure Shane

@IHateStupidity Жыл бұрын

Wee bit overwhelmed but just what da dr prescribed

@shadowwolf9909 Жыл бұрын

Y'all are getting first dates?

@IHateStupidity Жыл бұрын

Feeling the need to perform? Gotta get shit right? Why not do more than what could be.

@IHateStupidity Жыл бұрын

I mean it’s certain experienced point a person might be trying to get at.. maybe it might feel like you’re passing or failing how someone can handle u, when if it’s a date you should feel secure and getting known. I want to feel my partner. I can stand beside you and love you empty headed but I want to really stand beside you. Who you are. I gotta know. I gotta know the woman you are just to recognize your soul whenever my eyes see. Idk.. shit like that. Not that easy to let go, but be for the best. Tmk. LANK. LET A NIGGA KNO.

@Roflmao3486 Жыл бұрын

lisen to this old lady, girls u gonna be happy just like her in her years lmao

@IHateStupidity Жыл бұрын

Yeah I just took a screenshot. Actually 4 bar wifi and in a better position to my router than usual, yet the comments lagg okkkk. I must not type comments often to have this in hindsight. Cannot recall this problem till I deal with you. Oms some bullshit always tryna make me mad lol. I’m mad it worked. I actually cursed out loud.

@IHateStupidity Жыл бұрын

🤣 soon as she start talking about the phone take a pic of her lol. Kiss her and take a pic. 🤣 “Cry less”

@jrkustomz5538 Жыл бұрын

You would not want to know my 7 ideas for a first date 🤣🤣🤣🤣 today's women would get destroyed in the first 5 minutes

@haleechrisman Жыл бұрын

😂

@sidchase9244 Жыл бұрын

Let's hear the 7 😅😅😅

@jrkustomz5538 Жыл бұрын

@@sidchase9244 I'm old school. So not very many of those women running around anymore. But Here goes..... Now mind you this is for a first date. And as you read these you might ask yourself who TF asks these things....I did and the last time I did it was decades ago. 1 no makeup ( no coyote ugly syndrome) 2 dress how you feel comfortable as if we were married 3 we're going to dinner somewhere cheap nothing fancy 4 leave the phone in the purse 5 tell me about your past without hesitation (I rather be hit upfront with the truth than find out later which could be drastic to a long time relationship) 6 have you been around the block(if you know what I mean) 7 can you cook as well as you'd like to be fed Now maybe you're asking yourself again what in TF. Does that work? Well yes. Yes it did. Hasn't failed me. Still in it. Now you may ask yourself why Simple. When a person reveals their most vulnerable past ,it allows you to enter or chose not to enter. They can also make the decision to continue or not. The problem we have nowadays is honesty. No one wants to be honest anymore. As far as makeup goes, listen I'm a car guy and I prefer my cars like my women , original equipment only. OEM. We're all gonna get old and saggy ,so the foundation you build in the beginning will let you know if you got a solid foundation for the long haul,or if she's just a throwaway car like an old Hyundai...

@IHateStupidity Жыл бұрын

Granted I forget. My keyboard is pissing me off. God really trying me cos I’m fwu. It’s so easy to fwu so he tryna up the difficulty by making my keyboard lagg and me watching it type out just pissing me off eagerly wanting to get this to you as fast as I can.

@mike_datzmag1c21 Жыл бұрын

You're looking Real good Sam...would be a joy building with a Woman as beautiful and wise as you. You're a vibe

@williemcqueen4468 Жыл бұрын

Still look beautiful Samantha

@LoveSamanthaLee Жыл бұрын

Thanks Willie

@IHateStupidity Жыл бұрын

U gon stop calling me family too That’s weird man

@Blaknificent Жыл бұрын

Can I do a trial date run with you just to make sure I’m on point? ✍🏾😊

@LoveSamanthaLee Жыл бұрын

Lol good one

@dumbass3770 Жыл бұрын

You can't blame him for trying lol 😅😂

@QUNYC7 Жыл бұрын

Chameleons...

@IHateStupidity Жыл бұрын

😪 *me imagining my ex dying off because I chose to love you* she’s so gorgeous 😪

@IHateStupidity Жыл бұрын

God damn that can be looked at bad. It’s just a reality not a wish.

@IHateStupidity Жыл бұрын

I be damned if somebody fw my man’s I know what type time he on

@IHateStupidity Жыл бұрын

What was I just supposed to say “hey, I’m successful.”. Man accept the brag my guy. Am I picking up what ur putting down 🕵🏽‍♂️ Wait I typed.. picking.. it had the detective emoji.. I was like ???? So I backspace till it appears. Pi? How tf I get a detective typing “Pi”. R u ok fam. Private investigator. 🤦🏽 🤯

@z34lgod Жыл бұрын

I really don't take relationship advice from women nowadays because you guys literally do not know what you want.

@slowmotionperformance2744 Жыл бұрын

Stay single fellas

@TimberWulfIsHere Жыл бұрын

Wow she actually makes her own content.

@IHateStupidity Жыл бұрын

U FEELLL ME?!?!

@donnajeffreys8252 Жыл бұрын

Talking about exes too , major turn off !!

@IHateStupidity Жыл бұрын

Don’t hold back lol. Fyd. Just gon let me be potentially righteous or you gon come see for yourself.

@guyblew1733 Жыл бұрын

Never done any of that!

@IHateStupidity Жыл бұрын

OH YEAH. Your full name lol, and broken down. 😂 never felt that way 😪 It’s just cute, completely adorable, and fitting. First to last. I already know tha middle name is something beautiful/cute/feminine.. like 99% sure if you don’t end up a Beltrice/Beatrice/Agnes or something but I mean.. Noah Fence.

@IHateStupidity Жыл бұрын

Mf middle name sound like a dark/ghost type Pokémon.

@IHateStupidity Жыл бұрын

Sike nah don’t do that read the fine print for crying out loud smh You got young old nigga syndrome 2

@kidrickhenderson4373 Жыл бұрын

Clever little tree frog!❤

@LoveSamanthaLee Жыл бұрын

Lol

@sidchase9244 Жыл бұрын

Why are you on your phone on a date. I make it my business to suggest phones are off the table while we're at dinner. If we can not conversate, then we can't date....

@JahsunKindredSound Жыл бұрын

LUV ALONE RASTAFORI

@IHateStupidity Жыл бұрын

Ahem. *cough* I’m tryn be a young nick cannon.

@ifixeditmyself1926 Жыл бұрын

💯💯💯💯

@viktem.7719 Жыл бұрын

Your eyes are so beautiful.

@jelanihall4255 Жыл бұрын

Ok women do the exact same thing...so why we making this one just about guys when it's a people thing?

@IHateStupidity Жыл бұрын

Lol you look good.

@jasonthomas0221 Жыл бұрын

You know I wouldn’t mind a date with this woman because I know she would be very good company especially for conversation witch I value the most and of course I am becoming more content these days which makes me more at peace with everything going on.

@victorecheverria1104 Жыл бұрын

7 signs 🚩☝️

@michaeljohnson9113 Жыл бұрын

Don't stress or try to OVER - impress ......... Say it with your chest - yet digress .......... That's the advice I give men for first dates 😑. Second, if you can't see the words "Queen" "Royalty" "Intellect" "Spiritually Grounded" or "Healer" in Samantha ............. YOU PROBABLY WOULD do some low - vibrational 📳 ish like asking for sex on the 1st Date 😒🖐️ 😤😤😤😤😤

@IHateStupidity Жыл бұрын

I was tryna leave u alone But u cute And ur active ass saying some things I got answers for And it’s a vibe if u will

@IHateStupidity Жыл бұрын

A little bombarded. But cute.

@IHateStupidity Жыл бұрын

Who cares about a plan. 😤 That has to be thought out. Effort is the only road to success… tmk. Effort involved in planning… And if there is no plan why aren’t you suggesting it be devised or brainstorming self or trying to together. “When it fall right in your lap you be ready to get up.” Indecisiveness.. 🤷🏽 About what. Generalized. I mean there’s a scale on the issue of indecisiveness. (Fucked that spelling btw) Cos I could think hey I’m indecisive on………………….. what to eat. Obviously probably not a problem lol. What could you mean. Feelings about you? 🤔🤷🏽 Personal emotion?

@geraldzwane4745 Жыл бұрын

Jou so fine sis, where is jou afro buetifuel hair❤🤷🏿‍♂️🤲🏾🤎🤲🏾💪🏾

@larrypeeples-yk1rg Жыл бұрын

❤ God bless 🙏🎉 have a great day Samantha 🌷🙏 I love you ❤️

@LoveSamanthaLee Жыл бұрын

Thanks Larry

@larrypeeples-yk1rg Жыл бұрын

@@LoveSamanthaLee always

@johnpoteat6691 Жыл бұрын

Plus women do it all the time the difference is women ask questions that will hopefully make a man divulge information about himself men are just straight forward and most women including you don't like that cause it tends to make bs conversation you fake want to have cut a few words women will talk all day about themselves and expect men to pay attention when you can just get to the point 😂😂😂❤❤

@KKoje 11 ай бұрын

Dating in the first place!!! Don't date. Meet the woman. Get to know the woman as a person. Make sure she can't remember the first time you go out as a "date". Don't lead with your pecker. That's a stinky move. Be available but patient and circumspect! Listen carefully about who she is. Not who she says she is but who she is. See past her body. Look at her soul. Feel her natural being. How do you feel in her presence? If you're comfortable and she is comfortable let her open like a blossom. Know when she is ready and respond when she is ready.

@MayanK_Ultra Жыл бұрын

😂😂😂 this just shows the type of guys that you give a chance just want you for sex. Good luck out there and remember DONT SETTLE FOR LESS 😂😂

@johnpoteat6691 Жыл бұрын

Umm excuse me but the first date is an interview not for a job but definitely for a role in someone life

@loyaltohisthrone7696 Жыл бұрын

Is something wrong w my volume? Shhhhssh! 👇🏾 ☎️

@Lordlovesamericanfreedom865 Жыл бұрын

Thank goodness I don't do none of these 😂😂😂

@LoveSamanthaLee Жыл бұрын

☺️❤️

@Lordlovesamericanfreedom865 Жыл бұрын

@@LoveSamanthaLee if you want to go on a date with me you better hurry I'm uncovering some Evil in my family I'm going to let you know I would never kill myself if I get killed

@Lordlovesamericanfreedom865 Жыл бұрын

@@LoveSamanthaLee it was my family

@IHateStupidity Жыл бұрын

No such thing as a mistake on the first date. Just a first date. 🤷🏽 Well idk.. I only heard one thing lol. 😪 I must be a young old nigga fr.

@doityourselfqueen Жыл бұрын

Omg please make videos on #3 & #6 more often. Men are seriously over doing it dis cussing work and money. It's a date kille for the first few dates. And never making time to court is another.😢