I’ve been going through this . Loving her keeps me fighting.

This was a totally awesome video. I wish I could have had this information 20 years ago. Love the stuff she puts out you rock Appolonia be blessed 🙌

Thank you for this video. It is helpful to be aware the signs when a relationship is not healthy. The right woman (high quality woman) will not gaslight. Be selective in whom you pick as your partner

Can you make a video about stop putting a girl in the Pedestal because nice guys are doing this.

I know of a woman I personally met a while ago and when I say she is *authentic as it gets* , best believe she's a keeper and always would have your best interest at hand even if you were married, single or in a relationship. Confirmation AP! 👏🏾😘

She Pursued me ... took her on a date she expressed how no one was ever made her nervous that im so sexy kissing hugging i visit her at work kissing hugging told me so much to talk about getting to know each other flirty dirty talk then pulled back ...... i did the same for a day didnt say good night then she texted a bit more i visited her yesterday kissed hugged grabbed she said text me i didn't i want to hang out more. Not another man because she posted a gift i gave her ..... never experienced this. Said shes ao drawn to me. Stsnds me up when she says shes coming by says shes tired or oh tomorrow . Weird

I put her in her place and call it out on it

AMEN.....I have been going through this for years, more years than I care to recall. It becomes a whirlwind of absolute insanity. My occupation was one that required me to remember and document every nuance of details, I am not perfect by any stretch but recalling of chronological events is part of my DNA......Promises and agreements made between us have always been broken, not by me, I journal most if not all events. I've been told consistently that I am the one that is crazy, and when I present absolute proof of her behavior and broken agreements I am then told that my documentation and proof is destructive, petty and childish. From my observations, it definitely is a sign of her projecting the behaviors onto me. I have been made to feel that my wants and needs for intimacy are selfish. And even when I point out that I have not complained for 23 years or gotten angry about it I am still told I am being self centered and selfish. Divorce is her go to threat and I tell her if that is what she truly wants then by all means, do it not just threaten, do it. Fact of the matter is that she is very much aware that her lifestyle comfort would be severely impacted. So, in some strange and twisted way she is content making my and her life as miserable as possible. Starting over at my age would be a tremendous financial burden......I feel trapped. Having an affair is not an option, albeit I have seriously considered it. The depression and hopelessness has definitely taken a toll.......I feel overwhelmed.

Now I think I know what gaslighting is.

I feel this changed my mindset and perspective on talking to or interacting with women, I read it on a forum, I thought the guy hit the nail right on the head. It changed my perspective and mindset on talking to women. A guy was asking for advice on how to get better at talking to women, and people used the word practice "It bothers and annoys, enrages me or pisses me off a lot when people use the word practice, because the way I see it, for women, there is no such thing as practicing talking to men, because women's lives are on autopilot when it comes to talking to men since puberty, due to all of the constant attention they've been getting since then, women are forced to, have no choice but to learn how to talk to men, and they gain it right away by doing nothing since they don't have to open their mouth first" I thought to myself, never truer words have been said or spoken. I thought that was bang-on right there. and i got a response from a dating coach on youtube, which enraged and pissed me off more, while I don't disagree with him, I just don't like how he said the brutal cold harsh fact of how different for men and women when it comes to getting better at talking to and interacting with the opposite sex. It makes sense and I like to believe there is far more advice for guys in the world on how to talk to and interact with girls then there is advice for girls on how to talk to and interact with guys. He said: "Don't worry about what other people don't have to do or why something is easier for them or whatever the comparison may be. Focus on you, where you want to be, what you need to do to get there and then get moving." That pissed me off more when I read that. Another reason why I don't like it is because it feels or seems like the way a guy talks and interacts with people or a guy's social skills, the way he behaves around others, has a much bigger impact on his attractiveness or ability to get a girlfriend then the other way around. As in, the way a girl talks or a girl's social skills doesn't impact her attractiveness or ability to get a boyfriend as much as it does for a guy to get a girlfriend. Men need to focus more on the behavioral aspect than women do when it comes to attracting someone it seems. The main reason why i hate that, is because guys, men, can unfortuneately be labeled creepy or weird in interactions or social situations with women, even if the guy, man, never meant any harm, was never trying to hurt the woman, the reverse isn't true though. The way a man talks or behaves in a conversation or in an interaction between a man and a woman is what makes or breaks attraction, not the other way around. And due to men always having been expected to walk up to women and open our mouth, it makes more sense for the man to need to practice but not the woman. If an interaction or conversation goes poorly or bad between a man and a woman,. It's always the guys fault, it's impossible for a woman to screw up a conversation or interaction with a guy, it seems., as in, make someone feel uncomfortable. Men have to do all the practicing and all the learning, women just have to exist and automatically have dudes lined up wanting to be with them, that doesn't take any training or practice or trial and error or learning

Great video! Just got out of a relationship with a woman with all these traits.

Didn't even know what gaslighting was until I realized most of my marriage my ex-wife was gaslighting me and still continues to do it 4 years after our divorce...can't block her because we have kids together so now I just don't respond or respond with setting further boundaries

so every women

This video helps a lot

I’m saying what if they actually is over reacting like that is a thing is it not? & for the actions don’t match the words my partner suffers bipolar so I been trying to learn about it but on the other hand she constantly thinks I’m gaslighting or manipulating it’s almost as if she just learned the phrases and want to over use the phrases .. ugh 😩

Yep my x girlfriend accused me of cheating and i never cheated .. major gaslighting

I don't know what men might do with other men but there are women who gaslight other women. And they might even have the backing of a landlord!

U ain’t lying bout that gas lighting shit😂😂😂😂

It’s unfortunate that I didn’t have knowledge on this type of content beforehand, would some of these also be inline with a covert narcissist?

The man who married her is the luckiest man walking gods green earth

Big on #6 right now…. Confused asf over here

Watch your videos and learn. Thanks for the tips.

Be selective

I'm going through this at the moment I'm doing courses for my anger management my pdsd add it's just about to break me what do I do

When a woman gaslight u does it mean she is a cheat and if u are married to this kind of woman how do u manage it or do u divorce her

She put the code out fellows to run when u see this shit

👍👍👍👍

The biggest gaslighters I've ever seen & experience are the jehovas witnesses and I'm sure a lot of churches as well... It's a dangerous game for those faint of ♥

I gotten you assume things

😢😮 how about if you don’t like to be alone!

7. 😡

I need her to be self-aware, and confident that I’m her choice! Because the wolves are here! 😅

I don’t want to manipulator play games with her! Because if I can, and I create a paradigm! Then someone might come along and take my price! 🏆🥇

I don’t wanna fight with her! I want to make our friendship strong! 🌈💍🤷🏿‍♂️

How about if I’m 50 years old! And she’s 18 and from Russia! Does culture matter?

🙋🏿‍♂️😞I’m trying not to be a creep

I don’t want to create a back door marriage🤔🧐😳🤟🏿

I don’t wanna fight with her I wanna take her out to the movies! 🎉🎬

I don’t wanna fight with her! I want to buy your candy! 🧃🍭🎂🍩🍬🍯

Gracias chiquita 😌