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As an italian I will always know where to place my hands: using them to emphasise every single word I am saying 😅😂

Yes my husband asked me once : why are you allways standing and looking around when were invited over to family or friends ? He said you should take a seat and take up some space literally Why do you make yourself so small ? Gosh it was life changing

Slowing down, for me, is a challenge since I was told to hurry my entire life by my dad. And, since I was in the Army. But, I'm going to make a conscious effort to try it!

I like your new content lately! It makes me feels like it's ok to level up if you don't have money. Cause it's about attitude, mindset and be the best version of yourself. Please continue making this kind of video :)

Posture helps not only confidence, but body structure. Several years ago, I saw a doctor for shoulder pain, and he had me correct my poor posture. I not only feel better, but look better too!

Anna, my life is so different because of you! I was just at a summit of world leaders in blockchain, dressed and acting perfectly and confidently. So many opportunities opened up to me. It's all 100% natural now, but I learned each piece one by one!!! ❤ I did notice that most of the women there (we are a male dominated industry) were looking amazing as well! Not over dressed, underdressed, all very classy, confident, friendly and fitting in perfectly. Thank you!!! I was victim of extreme child abuse and not fit for any social interaction or society. I had to learn everything as an adult.

Anna, you're getting prettier day by day. I'm so happy to see the glow on your face❤

It's surprising, but really and truly, people naturally equate slow speed with elegance. I've discovered this through kind feedback people have given me directly. (I'm nearly a sloth. 😊) But here's a clear example you may have seen yourself: There's a scene in The Tourist where Angelina Jolie has to walk a distance through Venice without dialog. She explained that the director made her re-do the scene multiple times, telling her to slow down more and more, because he wanted her to project an elegant demeanor. She said that she found this very difficult, as she's naturally someone who moves quickly. In reality, the final take wasn't that slow. It just looks unhurried.

These videos are hilarious, entertaining and informative at the same time. This is officially my favorite KZfaq channel ❤️

Body language speaks volumes!!! I am naturally more introverted, but I consciously try to combat that by standing up straight and making eye contact with people rather than being a wallflower - it can get a little tiring being "on" so often, but it's necessary for my job and the payoff has been well worth it: I have increased my network by simply being more open to conversation and meeting more people.

LOVE the information and your sense of humor is hilarious!!! Thank you, Anna! You made my morning! My coffee even tasted better.☕

ya know, I am a bellydancer and have even my smile in my muslce memory. Learning to be confident and expressive was quite a lot of practice for me. Now I am very confident (even ehen I am not) and its LIFE changing!

Hey being yourself and doing what comes natural to you is REAL CONFIDENCE!

I’m only getting ads from shein this year on Anna’s videos 😂 makes me laugh cause this the last brand most of us elegant ladies would buy from!

I can never be "invisible," because I'm 6'1" tall. So, from young I learned to stand straight and became a model.

I feel so called out with the excessive nodding 😭 I knowww I do that, especially at my job. Thank you Anna 💖 Going to work on it.

This is a great video. Yes, there's a knack to it, being too nice & easy going can make people wrongly think you're a doormat.

Amazing video !!! :) For me, I also gained a bit more confidence when I finally worked on the things that made me insecure. :)

"The agreement" is so perfectly explained. I see a lot of people doing this. Great tips Anna!

I love you and your content. I have known you for almost four years and your content still is high quality. ❤ always proud of you

as always im just here to say I LOVE YOU ANNA! our queen of the social media content!

I like this new Anna content. It feels youthful, fun (as always), natural and of great quality. I feel like a friend or sister is giving me advice instead of an influencer. Thanks, Anna 👌

I’m loving this new style of videos! ❤

I love this kind of content!

Thank you Anna, am glad that we are back to the basics and even better.❤

Great job! Well done!

Thank you for the tips.

Yeah, yeah, also good point about desperate and searching eye contact. Thank you so much Anna❤

This video is soooo helpful!! Thank you!!!

Great topic!

Anna, you just read my mind, I was thinking about looking for body language information! You are the best teacher ever 💐!

Great video. Thank you

Thank you Anna as usual!!! Sometimes I experienced the "making myself smaller", specially in posture, only in specific circumstances, but out of fear of others mainly, not because I feel I am less.

Anna, this video is really good one (as are others as well). I really enjoyed it and love how you covered everything in such nice and polite and positive way. And couldn't agree more with you. I like new style of making videos and I love your subtitles (was using automatic from YT). This is example how videos can "grow" Regarding eye contact, I think it is very important to keep it and have learned (in NLP educatios) that there are some types of people who are not comfortable with it while they talk. Since I realised it, I'm giving my best to make a difference between that type of people and the people who are not that type (it's important for a lot of things). Looking forward your next video (regardless the subject, it is just going to be great). Thank you ❤

Thank you for this very helpful video Anna🙏

Great tips and everything she says is true i noticed it for myself! I really have to apply this to my life because the sad reality is that people tend to use you more when you come off as insecure..

This was a really great video. I will try my best to use these tips. Thank you so much ❤

This video is YOUR BEST! So funny!!!

great video as usual!!!

Thanks for the tips. I like the music at the end ❤

Very good and entertaining as well❤️❤️❤️

hi ! thanks, when you smile it's impossible to have a negative thinking !

I hope to see more of this type of video ❤😊

Loved this video Anna !!! I found it extremely helpful and had a few laughs😂 those examples you showed were very funny😂😂😂now I’ve got to stop nodding so much when someone is talking to me 🤦‍♀️I was actually doing this very thing the other day when I was having a conversation with my brother !!😂

Love your videos❤❤❤❤

Just wanna comment that editing is on tops!! The 😂

Awesome I could learn so much from your videos and I will 😊

Your videos get better every time. This is very informative for helping people achieve goals etc🙂

Loved this video! Thanks Anna!

Amazing❤

Love the exit music!

Thanks Anna! A great video with helpful tips once again. I would like to add something to the conversation. In all that I've learnt about etiquette, confident body language and the like, I do wonder where people on the autism spectrum fit into this. I am diagnosed with autism (Asperger's syndrome) and a lot of autistic people stim (fidget like I rock back and forth), can't make eye contact and don't always fit in with what is typically considered "elegant". I am both autistic and I am interested in elegance and it's been tricky for me to find my place in the elegance community and wondered at times if I even belong or if being autistic excludes me from being elegant. I can mask my autism traits for a while to appear confident and elegant but I also know that my confidence has improved greatly since accepting my authentic autistic self and not hiding my autistic traits. I wonder if there are any other neurodivergent ladies who watch Anna's content and wonder how do they fit in with the elegance community while also being quite different?

I love your sense of humor and clever editing! Wonderful job Anna 💕

Anna, those movie clips were hysterical. Thank you for showing those. LOL.

Thanks Anna! I struggled in my early 20s and watching your videos felt like having 1-1 advice from an older sister, who has her life together. Thanks for creating this content! Ps: you always look so lovely

What a gem of a video❤Anna, love you!I have used to excessive noding, now i will be more mindful. Send you lots of love❤

Great video

This is so exhausting. I'm very sure of myself and confident, but some of the things in the video are things I've done, which causes people to read me as being unsure or not confident. People have given me the unsolicited advice of being more confident or not worrying about something, when that's not even my issue. I hate that it has to be so performative and that we all have to do the same things in order to DISPLAY confidence, even if we already are. It's somehow ok to do these things in order to PRETEND to be confident.

Thank you so much for this sharp tips. You make me smiling and nodding from the beginning until the end of the class (I think is eceptabled, right😊) Your lesson is so understandable, thanks again😊

Confidence to me means also to own when you're nervous or insecure.

Loved this video. Such good info with great examples.❤

Such interesting tips, will def try! The slowing down is so true. I have a dog who walks slow and sniffs everything. This has lead me to walk past cafeterias and outdoor seatings in bars/restaurants in a very slow pace. It was so uncomfortable at first, since I normally would pass by quickly. With time, I also told myself to breath, embrace the slow paste and look at the people at the tables. I even let her stop and sniff, even if it means standing still in front of the establishment for a longer period. Now I see it as a wonderful challenge :D

Thank you Anna for this video! It's so helpful ❤️❤️❤️

Thank you for sharing these useful tips. I am an introvert, and had an inferior complex since young. My work requires me to go to business networking session. And of course, I feel uncomfortable. But somehow, I do know what I did, there are people approaching me asking me what makes me look confidence? My inner thoughts was like "What? What did I do?" Ha ha.

It is so fun and at the same time so valuable to watch your videos. Good sense of humour :-*

This was such a cool and useful video. Thanks

I really love the gifs/memes. 😂😂😂😂 So funny. Thank you, ma’am. ❤

Probably your best video so far Anna ! Great tips thank you for sharing this :)

Oh my God number 2 was me 😢 thank you ☺️

Interestingly enough with your point of slowing down, I recall several years back learning it somewhere else, and incorporating it. I walked out of the department store at a slower pace, I walked comfidently with a foot in front of the other in a feminine way and I felt confident in how I presented.. and I got approached by several men because of it! I was stunned, because that never happens to me! So that's my little experience with that there

Anna, you should do a stand-up comedy :-)

Thanks Anna 👍❤

I miss your fashion videos 🤍

8:40 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 omg 😂😂😂😂😂😂 , love the Video. You're great ❤

Through my teacher Anna, I'm learning many things like this video lesson, thanks wonderful stunning woman❤

Amazing video! I thought I knew everything about this topic, but with your video I just learnt that I am making so many mistakes. Thank you 💕

You are my Mentor Anna! Sending you My respect and admiration❤

Always love your videos & suggestions, Anna Darlin❣️. These were great tips!!! One I might add is, “just get over yourself!” and think about others! Try making the other person feel liked/loved/important. It erases self-consciousness. 💖

I rush too much living in Tokyo. Must slow down!!!

Very Comprehensive 👍

Very usefull. People can use it at the boss.

How I love you Anna, thank you very much 💓

Slowing my speech was huge for me to relearn in my 30’s because I was a natural fast talker, since childhood.

Anna, you look absolutely beautiful! Great tips✨

Can you make a video about how to respond and react in different situations in elegant way please. Thank you!

Anna please do a video on how to deal with jealous women in the workplace 🙏

I need this, especially when meeting with the in-laws.

That dramatic reenactment at the beginning 😂

9:11 this is a tough one for my adhd 😂 but I'm learning to control it when I need to! 💪

anna being hilarious and classy 😍

I was always insecure person as my family educated me with many restrictions and many times shout me that I was an unable person that I grow up with many unconfidences... I grow up and I see that nothing become better. I feel so insecure even more than before, like If People judge me. But I think is true as I show so much not confidence, that I just look to others like a real demented. So they speak to me like if are speaking with a girl of 10 years ago. And I feel Im boring as I Don t have pinterest to be honest to what people often speak about it. So is very hard that I can change. I always look below when people speak to me and I feel Im really judged because my body language says negative things.. they always says "smile more" but I cant smile more or I should fake. I feel so insecure because Im really an useless person... so I dont really know, some wounds cant heal... I was too much hurted to act like a confident normal person.. i dont think I can improve, but some little bit I could feel at least look not too much not confident... but Im just faking and when people speak to me, they can see that Im so boring person... I always have to show interest to their things and to what they says , to feel accepted, but if I should express myself they would not listen to me. I always to be me the one that have to accept what they do. Nobody accept me for what I m. So why I have always to do effort myself? If others are not interested in my friendship, then, I dont need them too. Im tired to show fake interest to their discussion and even if I do this, all friends (fake) ends anyway.. so I will stay alone... Im tired to pretend not to be myself.

I don't have a problem with my had down, I'm a petite, always with my head UP. 🤣

I’m pretty sure I do all except one and that is I’m always in Hurry in every thing! Everything I do is in Hurry 😞

Ma'am you are my true inspiration. You helped me a lot to transform myself.I want to tell you that you are doing great job and no matter what haters say about you ,just keep going and always shine❤.Love from India❤

3:40 my mind trying to focus when doing small talk

Could you please create a video showcasing a fine jewelry collection, including watches? Feel free to share your preference between Rolex and Cartier 😍

Your fun side is very charming! 🌸

I can't stop fidgeting, I need to hide that I have tremor in hands (it's new). So showing fidgeting to strangers is better than showing shaking hands

I love your videos! may I know where you bought the gray shirt?😀🤍