Luigio aww

Just kick her off your house. That anxiety BITCH! 😂

Ericka Sagun she’s like the cat that came back! God wish it was that easy lol.

kaidanariko oh fudge! I'm sorry guys! I shouldn't say that to you. How insensitive of me! I'm sorry guys. I hope you have someone by your side that understands you more than I am. OMG! I'm sorry again

Luigio Dude, that's deep

Take my upvote with love, you dork.

"Man why don't I have a girlfriend yet" Female who takes and interest in me "hi!" me "please no, i didnt ask for this go away"

>.> Relatable

Exactly me :(

Just means you’re definitely not ready for a relationship I’m the same way as of now at least

or let other people break yours. I'm an introvert as well and the very last time I met someone I wanted to trust, they broke me, so badly. Either way, I think it's cool to be single or anything as long as you are comfortable with it : D

@@Jaakei You’re kinda lucky you’re single. I know this guy who likes me, but i don’t know if i like him back, like love him. I don’t want to break his heart:(

And I’m not ready to face the bullsh… like FR…

Hi Tia 👀

@@ingridryen6700 Don't force yourself, my friend was going through this with me as well and I felt bad for feeling like I was forcing her into loving me back, so don't be afraid to be honest, it should hurt them less than lying

Exactly my point too!

And if you ar all alone in your life how the fuck are you gonna love yourself?

Hello hope you don't mind but can we be friends

I know especially if you ain't never been in a relationship.

@@mr.ditkovich6379 well I mean it shouldn't be hard building some level of connection. You don't have to instantly be in a relationship but starting off as say an acquaintance shouldn't hurt. Right? I'm assuming your talking about lack of romance and not lack of relationships in general.

Manyayaya ;p very much thanks (:

Thank you!

Hitting me hard w #5 even though I've never had a girlfriend lmao. Just feelings for someone

Thank you 🙏

Well I’m not ready yet I’m in a relationship I’m 10 0-0

yea,thats pretty spot on

I’m gonna be single for life!

Everyone hates you........ 😿😿

Well you got that second one right 😪

That is literally my life, thank god I'm not the only one!!

can we be friends?

Wow

hey daddy 😂😂😂

Woaaahhh that's so wow @Jay Lookie

Awww...

Youre so damn right

@jacobruddach9283 feellike someone. AmyJoMurry need love ❤️ and yes Detaing Good Friendships can be just as good as having a partner

@Jacob Ruddach same

It's better to be alone than to wish you were.

honestly

OwO What the Fuck is This maybe it’s because you’re ugly

@@jacobvalerio5290 or maybe they're too cute people get nervous to ask them out huh.

Rthea Margarette no one takes a joke nowadays smh

RIGHTTTT😂😂😂

Nope, i’m ready for a relationship.

Thank u so much ! ❤️

Thanks!

Yup, that last one hit like a train...

I m n o t r e a d y The 7th one fked me up

bruh it zucks 😂

Can relate. I never fall in love with someone because I have really high expectations

✨ Friendship ✨

it can take a while. Find someone you connect with.

i had a laugh! thanks ^^

teshin this is me 😂😂😂😂😂

i think i need you

Same as me 😂

Oh hi fellow Infj

It's easier to tell others than do so yourself

eraZure true true

The most sensible comment of this century by far.

Hahahaha

damn that hit me

TRUE DOE

you and me both buddy rip

Same here but that's OK I have myself

Kamikaze Warrior Productions same man ;D

I don't think anyone is really ready though. Think about it, will you start a relationship when *all* of your problems are completely solved? Hell no, we have trouble from the moment we are born until the moment we die. When you meet someone you like, you just go for it, and whatever you have going on in your life, deal with it simultaneously, but don't let the fear of "not being ready" stop you from learning and becoming a better person; and relationships are a great way to do that. Have a great day!

And that's alright, you just keep on keeping on.

Same here bro I feel you though man.

That is so me

Number 7 PSA that means a therapist xxx

That's sign #2 my friend

@@thisisacrappyusername892. Feel. someone. AmyJoMurry friendschip partner, Dateing good 👍. such. a good friends. They are to amazing couple. every. ❤ in relationships. together all Love ❤️.

@bluberri I completely understand where you're coming from! I want a partner too but I know I have to wait for God's timing. Hope your dream comes true soon!

Same feeling here bro I feel like that all the time.

Same feeling trust me I know how you feel 😭

i feel this exactly

Omg same 😩

*Benny* *21* Mood

Perhaps you are not ready for a relationship, but in Soviet Russia relationship is not ready for you. Sorry, could not resist

Yess😩

Me

Mood

it's nice, isn't it? if only we weren't mortal...

unfortunately only people who've been in a relationship can/would say that.

😘😘😘

your profile pic says the opposite ╮(─▽─)╭

@@goji5887 I've never been a relationship and I'm single and happy. not sure why but I am :)

Me too 😞

@@michaelromig9007 same

Same! We probably just haven't chosen our partners wisely yet. Work in progress!

I just want to be a whore lol

We Humans are never satisfied with what we have, always desiring something else that we miss. Relationships or freedom being single. Grass is always greener.... I can totally relate

TheDangerWolf the same here

Who has two thumbs and struggles with loneliness ? This guy

✋me too

Me 😅

Sabre Wolf O SHIT DUDE I HAVENT BEEN ON THERE IN LIKE A YEAR???? MAYBE TWO????? WHATS YOUR USER

What's the point in not trying

Once you're done with uni, you have to work. Who cares if you're ready or not? You have to have a family. My dad is the example why you should't make a kid in your 40's.

XD

You will be old when you think you're ready,even worse you might be even more fucked up than you were now.

But the wise

this is so accurate in my case lol

Same

Lol quartile got us looking for real ones

INDEED HAHAHAHA

Same 😔👊

Me too but I have been in shitty relationships and I am just scared people won't respect my boundaries. Take your time when getting to know someone. That is a good basis.

Hi I am single please contact me

@@catherinedubrovna7756 nah bro, I chucked up like 8 time, I just had a crush and asked her out 💀, I'm just realizing that you have to spend months or weeks trying to get to know them

@@catherinedubrovna7756 wtf that's so long tho, for a relationship that may not last even that long in high-school

@@swordtai5635 bruh it sounds like you never really got to know her. You are correct, that is wasting time. You need someone who reciprocates.

Yep!

1-having a lot of money, successful job 2-being strong emotionally, not being hurt or depressed at all 3-being and feeling very positive or open, accepting anyone with lower standards. 4-not caring or scared of losing anyone. Not being needy or attached to anyone or anything. Well idk if all these are true, I never even been in a relationship but I know these.

Nobody Reads My Comments Pretty good =D

Well (1) you don't need to have lots of money or have a successful job to be in a relationship. It is necessary to have a job so you can stand off your feet and pay bills. But it should not be a necessity that you are rich to be in one. My boyfriend works at a job he plans to quit soon and I'm starting out on my art career but we work out just fine. Money should never be the glue that hold two people together. (2) Not true either. Actually, being in a relationship requires you to be vulnerable. When you mess up, you should be humble enough to say sorry. And sometimes hurt can be long-term. I am currently suffering anxiety right now but it's something my boyfriend and I battle together. Whenever I get an anxiety attack, I go to him to help me overcome it, not because I want him to solve it. He knows methods to help me and inspire me overcome anxiety. (3) Having too high standards is not good but so is having low standards or none at all. My one standard for a guy when I was single was the he's gentle and slow to anger and that is it. When I got to know my now-boyfriend and then-crush, I discovered he is those things and more. Don't lower your standards just to have a relationship. Having principles in life is what's gonna make you a strong person. (4) Debunked again. When you're in love, you're more than terrified to lose the one you love. Life is unpredictable and death is no discriminator and that is scary. You need to be able to communicate your fears to your partner and battle it together and overcome them. It still scares me that I could lose my boyfriend so quickly. But I have to remind myself to stay in the present and enjoy my time with him and make the most of our time together as I can. As to being needy, that's a different issue especially if your partner has mental health problems. You are a team and you should help them battle it. Clingy-ness is another story. That's the lack of trust and respect. You shouldn't be in a relationship if you won't let your partner be themselves and be okay with them hanging out with other people. And I say this because I've been in a relationship for a year. Your partner will never be perfect and neither can you. It's either you accept that you both can't be but you can always strive to be the best versions of yourselves together or you can stay alone, trying to find a perfect partner or tire yourself out to try to be perfect when you can never be.

Nobody Reads My Comments Not really. My fiance and I were both broke and dealt with emotional issues when we met and got together.

m h m m e

Hoshi Hikaru the profile picture omg-

@@PolarrSlushie, yes, I know.

Well shit then...

Hoshi Hikaru that profile pic though

That's the right attitude 🔥🔥🔥

I don't ask guys out cus I'm afraid they are not gay

Yeah before letting my feelings guard me for someone.. before having a crush on someone..I rethink of the things that happened to me...and just try to avoid that guy... because I think I still need to more mature and grown up for a perfect relationship

@@krieger7368 Don't fear little things like that. Learn how to take rejection. It sucks.

Most of the answers here and the comment itself seems like a horrible idea on how to handle love xd

Sadayo Kumbera that’s exactly how I felt once I divorced the ex.

You to ex: thotus begonus

Lmao I think you might be better off without them 😂😂

*dramatic gasp* is that Park Jimin I see????? Are you an ARMY!!!!????!!!

XD you really deserve someone who will love you unconditionally but also give you that space every human needs

i love isabelle from animal crossing xdd

when you really are cringe, your name isn't lying... the fuck with shooting school

Guilty as charged 🤗

Chloe Price

Be good if they could make them easy to distinguish male and female.

Graveyard i guess ryt?

@@prasannaupadhyay4983 yup

1 word

Jordan Valle *dies by anxiety*

So me!

Yoop, that-a-me.

ImPr1mal Me...

IamAndrey Mbao wait what do you mean by feel? Im assuming your not talking about litturally feeling eachother XDDD

Bannana Train! :DDD she means that her feelings for the ones she has interest are stronger, but they dont feel it that way, while the ones that have interesst in her, she does not have the same feelings for them. Kind of a dead end thing huh?

IamAndrey Mbao Wise words from a wise man. Relate to this a lot

True life.....thats the situation I always end up with

I'm stealing this quote lol

Omg

I don’t understand what she meant by it :( Either ways I’m sorry

I don't have a video.. but actually a song that might help you ❤❤ kzfaq.info/get/bejne/pZiIiNmlztPLZZs.html Do Listen & let me know your thoughts 😊

Cherry pops agreed. They gotta stop posting about them everyday..

Cherry pops yes please

Cherry pops love you icon

the most annoying of them all

@TrishaPaytas

THIS IS TRUEEE

Yup dis is sooooo relatable

Why is this me xD

So meeeeee HAHAHAHAHA

Miss Lyntheena so fucking relatable

シanna meeee 😪😪

Meeee and im scared because the relationship I have with this boy is moving to fast

Thats sooooooo meeeeeeeeeee

Bro that's so true

I feel you and I'm depending whether I should tell him I like him and that I don't know if I'm ready for a relationship yet

Thats how I feel. I'm 13 and I NEVER been in a relationship. But then there was this one girl that rejected me lol. Maybe being around people isn't my thing perhaps?

Sadly, that is not how life works. How do you think successful people succeed? Because they gave up when they failed once? There will be heartache, I tell you. But when you find someone who genuinely makes you happy and want to make happy, it's all worth it. Being rejected doesn't mean you're not important. It just means you still have to grow as a person and you need to build yourself more before you're ready to get into a relationship.

APPLEPRETZNO _ don't think that being around people isn't your thing just because ONE girl rejected when you were like what 13? That's way too young for a relationship to even happen so don't worry, you're fine

APPLEPRETZNO _ I’m 20 And I’ve only had two official relationships. Sure, I’ve been in the talking stage with many girls where it either didn’t work out on my side or there’s before we started dating, but to get down over one girl, especially at that age, is not worth it. Life’s full of girls and if one won’t give you their time and effort, another will. I like to think “the one you want is probably not the one you need.”

You die once in a game so you never play it again? Play. Again! Get better, overcome and learn. You can do this.

SAME

Exactly lol

Yup

sameeee

Same

Work on loving yourself man(can search on youtube). Will solve most of your problems. Also, try to do self-talk daily...by using diary or other way. These have helped me a lot, in all aspects of life...not just in this. Sending love, and everything's gonna be completely alright...have a believe on yourself❤

Srishti Thanks man

@@hellonearthiii4671 Anytime budd

and this is why im not going to drink or go out to pubs when i turn 18+. water medicine milk is all ill limit myself to and thats a promise >:(

@@dpmotion_ alcohol is the devil.

Wow

You did.

Matt Murley you see that's where you're wrong I've only watched one second of this video.

goochlands finest still considered pressing and commenting. Technically you did watch it. Also hello!

Elaborate

Plus your partner can help you see things about you from a third person perspective, helping you discover yourself further. You could help each other out.

It only becomes a sign, of course, if u want to focus more on soul searching than dating

Great points from both sides! Yeah soul searching can be really deep or a gradual process with someone special.

She said that it’s bad if you focus so much on finding someone, that you can’t work on yourself.

I'm pretty sure they mean soul searching in terms when you've figured yourself out compaired to someone lost with themselves and choosing a relationship as a solve for it

This is the primary reason I'm not in a relationship.

ayee!! That's so me lmao

Lool!! 😂😂😂

Im not sure this is true, but everyone else says it is

This is my reason hahaha

Crazy Sergon Same :') Which character is it in your case?

@@shoutaaizawa5810 I really like L from death note 😂😂😅 ._.

Crazy Sergon pfft me with bakugo.. 😂😂

Crazy Sergon Aww, that's actually cute :3 He was such a cool character

Karma Akabane and 707.

Same at 23 ╮(─▽─)╭

Norahungary That’s totally ok, though.

Laughs in 28 yo

Laughs in 8 yo

Laughs in 30 year old

Did you know that the days around Valentines Day is when the suicide rate goes high?

NO ONE! BOSSES! THE GARNET! That pretty much shows what kind of society we live in.

Same jfc

Emerald Sadly it’s true. People feel so lonely in the month of love.

White Sardines it's stupid to get sad about shit like this

lol

That's no joke

What ?

the ideal relationship shouldn't be all about money.

i’m #2

Relatable

Same

Now, there is the 💯% truth! Same for me. So let's all continue with #2 and concentrate on our purpose and goals instead of wasting our time with people who don't like us. As long as we are more interested in our purpose than interested in those that don't like us, these people eventually will come (because they are getting ignored by us)....and then we can turn around and reject them, because they were only interested in what we have....they were never interested in us as individuals to begin with. ✊

When you want to like a comment to agree with it but I has 69 liked

Same to me

Same I hurt him so much bc he started hugging me and everything but I could not be in a relationship bc I am 13 and for me that is too young. He was crying while sending audio messages today and idk what to do

Dark Zero Dude, that's awesome.

It actually can be relieving to know that you’re not ready for a relationship.

Idk why but this made me laugh 😂

aliceinwonderland 😂

Introvert in the house too? :)

Psych2Go say you've met 52 girls and more than half of them have lied to you or let you want to believe that you're going to be in a relationship and they turn around and treat you like garbage. I think I'm number one of your seven signs but is that so bad to want mean my parents found it why can't I? Any suggestions?

Haha, same

1. Personal space 2. Personal space 3. Stay out of my personal space 4. Keep away from my personal space 5. Get out of that personal space 6. Personal space

Same

I kinda was in a same mood after a break up recently and just didn't want to even hear the word "love". I'm sure that your cat is lovely and that you are absolutly fine with him ! But if one day you find someone interesting to you, please, don't be scared to start something new. You are lovable and there's good and caring people on this planet still today.

Laura Gadille time is the best cure for everything. Just forget about it and look forward for yourself ! :) Try to focus on your path, dont think about love etc. Sometime, it will come by itself eventually. As i said, time cures everything.

well something i see is girls who get emotionally invested in fuckbys, cause yeah theyre hot. but find a cute ish guy who treats you nice and fights for you, dont fight for him or hes not worth it

eoghan quinn I can agree with that. A problem to find a relationship is also to find each other. Maybe both of them love each other, but are not telling it because of their fear they would lose their friendship and not even talk anymore. Unfortunately...

Your cat is adorable ! And you’ll find someone eventually

well my friend told me i need a girlfriend and all of the sudden this video popped up lol

This video popped up when I thought about it.

Google has access to the mic on your phone. Their algorithm records what you say in the presence of your phone and scans it for keywords. They can then target and tailor ads more accurately to you. Facebook does it too, scanning your privates messages, posts, comments etc. And Amazon. That's how they make money - advertising. We aren't the customer, we are the product. Advertisers are the customer, and Corps like Google or Facebook want to sell their Ads as efficiently as possible so they harvest data on us to learn as much as they can about what makes us tick so they predict what we want and target us with the appropriate ads. It's not literally somebody reading your private messages or eavesdropping on your conversations because it's just a computer program, but it's not far off.

Case in point. I've just gone through a break up 4 weeks into the Coronavirus lockdown, and my mental health has taken a blow. My internet searches, social media activity, and even the things I mutter to myself in private (I think out loud a lot) all reflect that, and suddenly I'm getting spammed with adverts for dating sites and Online Therapists. This is how Modern social media works.

@@Edithae they do listen dont be fooled but yeah get what ur saying

I hate myself

D.raz me too we have a child now

doomboy71426 orange turtle2017 😮......

What a pain in the ass it must be

ashton._. plankton I can relate so much

Literallly me omgggggg

ashton._. plankton Relatable

Well if you don't feel ready just be honest with them. That you're not ready for a relationship right now an just need to focus on yourself first. Before considering being committed in a relationship.

idk

relatable question right there

work hard to improve yourself so you get some qualities to love

Then your definitely not ready for a relationship

Thats where i come in No im not a therapist I relate to this

I'm the same way... I just get super anxious about being lovey dovey with someone in public :/ I think a lot of people are like that though

Cherry pops you don't have to have a romantic relationship, I'm not a touchy person either. Don't let them tell you what you have to do, its your choice

I'm in an LDR relationship and I can tell you that is not the case. People who are in a relationship for the sake of having a bf or gf do PDA because they want to flaunt an show off and are pretty arrogant people. But sometimes, people display affection because it's genuine. Their partner might be scared or worried about an event or going on a ride in a theme park, they might need to calm down from being so excited, or they're just happy. Don't judge couples just because they look happy. Too much PDA is bad but a little smooch is no harm either. And since I am in an LDR, I am usually by myself. It's not weird. If you feel weird for being alone while you're in a relationship, that's not healthy and you are overthinking. You need to be able to have your own identity while being committed to someone. And, yes. Relationships are work. But if it's someone you genuinely love, it's worth it.

The first time I've ever been on a relationship, is both me and her have dedicated ourselves hiding our relationship. Just letting necessary people to know it. Family and our own wingman or wingwoman. And yeah, 6 people or less only know about it. Just because of that alone, we weren't focused on other's opinion, we were happy with each other being ourselves in the process, we were always focused on each other's problems or success for the day without having misconceptions from anybody else's. In short, our relationship was simple, and we avoided things that would cause major problems initially. We broke up a long time ago, but we really did enjoy each other's company. We grew up ourselves in the process haha.

Saaaamee. It took me 4 months to tell my parents I'm in a relationship and a month to tell people close to me.

I agree on both points. Someone once told me that when a person wants to start a relationship with someone who is working on themselves and is honest about those issues - it's that person's decision to make. It's not wrong to let that connection happen out of fear your problems will hurt them, or they don't really know what they're getting into. You can let people make their own choices. ..I felt that was particularly wise advice.

I disagree about someone being able to take anothers wall down. You put the wall up, only you can take it down. Theres no perfect person who is going to come along and bring the walls down... once you get further into the relationship and start to see the imperfections of the person you'll end up hurting them.

I love your profile picture! I'm bisexual so

LOVE your profile!💖💜💙

@@ayajadayel9260 IKR! I'm bisexual and I love that profile

insta gram Same, I personally think being in an intimate relationship would be a waste of time.

Samee

But maybe just a few experiences of it would make life feel a bit more complete since you might die regretting not trying it

insta gram not worth it. loving yourself and your goals will take you MUCH farther!

Being in a typical relationship that is generally portrayed by society does sound exhausting yeah. Good thing you don't actually have to adhere to those standards at all

Omg me right now

Me too

Rubberducky 171 That’s me and my crush doesn’t even fucking know me and lives in another country. And I’m a damn virgin, ah fuck my life!!

SAME

Yay I’m finally not alone! I just got asked out today! Probably me in a couple months when she breaks up with me. “Why is my life so depressing”

Do you have a script? :)

Would you say she's the female Morgan Freeman?

"And now is when she realised she fucked up"

Mine would be a horror story

You don't need to be ready for dating. You literally said that you didn't even try it. Only experience can make you better. Try it. If it fails, don't give up. Try again! You learned new things you didn't know before. Don't give up before you even started!! :)

Relatable

same....

Same here bro

_AntiSocial . Cloud i know exactly how u feel. People all over the internet just say go ahead and try it. Theres no risk. If it doesnt work out, thats fine! You need to practice being ina relationship

Ez same. The thought alone freaks me out

Ez me too! And speaking of being intimate, I think I'm not ready for sex too. So, that's why I'm single 😂

i guess i'm not the only coward 😏😏

Yes, you're not alone! 😂✌✌✌

Ez Same

Yeah! Very relatable!

it doesn't work that way,i think there are players or fake men and also real people out there and you should find some one appropriate and then trust him instead of trusting and the first place and giving him you'r heart

Yes, a decent response to an inaccurate video thank the Lord!👏👏👏

I'm scared that I might become a baby daddy. Females ne using pressure to get the D then blame us.

@@c0c0nutbeans weirdo

DuchessSparrow Agree :"D sometimes I feel bad towards them who loves me

Tell me about it, that's the reason why my past relationships failed

Same though

I lost friends this way. They jumped the gun and would ask me out. I freak out, say no and would stop talking to them.

agree

namika aihara life is shit,good luck with it

that's basically the definition of my love life, but i low key day dream that it'll happen sooner or later and if not then oh well guess I'll just be Batman because....you know its Batman

i also have like a deep fear that i can never keep my end of the bargain...like you know they say cheating is a choice or something similar but you ever know and another is a fear that something stupid happens and we just can't be ( it's happened like a couple times now so sadly to say im used to it ) funny how i discuss this here and not with my friends or anyone else

NEONclusterForce well its easier to discuss it here isnt it?

+Henri Kivila in a weird way yea

You are a woman... you can be in a relationship whenever you want... stop complaining.

@@userk2876 that's wrong😂

​@@userk2876 Both men and women can have troubled love lives. It's not about gender, but rather about how they are as a person, and the people surrounding them. If a relationship can form effortlessly, it is most often because of mutual feelings of lust or infatuation towards one another, which is reliant on physical attraction. It takes time and dedication to be able to establish a meaningful connection towards somebody, and to both be physically and emotionally attracted to them.

@@userk2876 how so? Do you really think it depends on the gender of a person??

@@yamiavatar2662 Yes, of course finding the right person is hard for both. But if a woman wants intimacy she can get it very easy no matter how she looks. There are always a bunch of men who will be interested in her. You can do an online dating experiment if you want or just ask below average men an women. Take a photo of a fat ugly guy and a fat ugly Woman. Guess who gets more messages? I could have misunderstood her, Im assuming she means sex with love life.

Hell yeah cats

Yep I also miss my gf for this very reason, I miss someone to just hold hands and hug and just being close to

I know exactly what you mean 😣

Sounds nice

Life is cruel and humans have emotions = worst combination. Thats why I am still single.

I just found that comfort being in their presence but we just lost each other😢it sucks how Fate & destiny sometimes work...right love at the wrong time I guess...I just hope we'll found each other again someday, I really loved him and always will...

SAME I just started to realize it after all these years

It’s because I watch to much anime.

@@sarahbear5601 same boi And because I listen a lot of ASMR role play these day (but it make me fell happy for a moments)

We are like the same person

Multi Fandom Life is Hard same