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@praiselove84717 жыл бұрын
The Middle born children got roasted bruh
@ren-w6 жыл бұрын
Gee thanks.
@dayanagonzalez43436 жыл бұрын
Way to let that down gently...
@mykiea51565 жыл бұрын
Praise Love hahahahaha yep lol I’m middle kid and I’m the only one of my brother and sisters who have a degree, I’m very intelligent etc but I am into fantasy stuff etc but damn lol 😂
@mykiea51565 жыл бұрын
Felix Williams I know right
@lorie87335 жыл бұрын
Thanks alot
@TrueSunara5 жыл бұрын
So researchers hate middle children by leaving them out of most of the research. I see a trend. 😂
@maem74624 жыл бұрын
Right. When I saw that I was thinking sarcastically I am glad that my family forgetting about me goes all the way back to this research
@-Higanbana-3 жыл бұрын
As a first born and big sister of 4 siblings I say that what I see in this video is true Because the first one gets nothing by nothing I mean like objects we let you choose first and we get the last thing because we don't care anymore the last one... I don't have to explain them it's because they are the last one but the middle one is correct they are more social then the first and last one which is good because they have more friends. if you say "but the middle one must respect the first one and is responsible for what the last one does" is also true but not in this way. They tell you to respect the first one because they are also responsible for what YOU AND the last child do. And you are responsible for the last one just because to learn respect, to learn what the first one is going through *THAT'S THE TRUTH HERE*
@johnshafer72143 жыл бұрын
I'm the middle child who has an older brother who is irresponsible but was given the benefit of the doubt and he kept making mistakes. Instead of fixing their mistakes on my older brother they took it out on me and over fix things on me. Then they babied my Youngest sibling because she is the baby and saw only great potential.
@mayven15563 жыл бұрын
@Snow Crystal Did you listen to same the same video or did you write this comment for another video.
@librachic54372 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂
@ur-local-lesbian-comrade6 жыл бұрын
Great. So middle children are doomed for unhappiness. Explains my life now.
@ptato30106 жыл бұрын
Exactly
@MrTrevers996 жыл бұрын
LPS_Angel _Daschund Same boat brother 🤘
@Yasmine-yw1em6 жыл бұрын
LPS_Angel _Daschund my life!
@tommi20615 жыл бұрын
They said middle children were the most creative, not seeing the issue???
@hre2stay5 жыл бұрын
I'll a middle child too but I'm the most intelligent muhahaha
@trinitybrooks67144 жыл бұрын
Something you forgot about middle children: Always gets In trouble for things that aren't their faults
@wow_a_raccoon4 жыл бұрын
*I relate to that on a spiritual level.* also, we are ignored a LOT :/
@lesliesaldana-.-4 жыл бұрын
I’m older and I get blamed a lot too ;-;
@kzmakoo4 жыл бұрын
yes everytime
@Ash-ff2sk3 жыл бұрын
Same
@Pristina.3 жыл бұрын
Well im oldest between me and my brother. So i get blamed A LOT, but i have some debate skill and i also have courage to confront justice to my parents, strangely my mom proud of my debating skill lmao
@MedicEne7 жыл бұрын
Any other first borns out there ?
@chloeparker24947 жыл бұрын
MedicEne iii
@cutie100477 жыл бұрын
Oldest child right here 🙂
@MedicEne7 жыл бұрын
Do you guys agree with the video in regards to yourselves :)
@d1zzytrickster2057 жыл бұрын
me and yes
@IMVUDressUp7 жыл бұрын
MedicEne heyyy
@ikarenn84607 жыл бұрын
I'm always being compared to my older sister. My mother always says things like "Your sister ALWAYS got A's, while you only gets C's." or "Your sister draws better than you" (My profile picture is one of her drawings she made for me) I could be happier if my mother didn't do this to me ALL THE TIME. I don't blame my sister, i love her by the way, and I understand that it's my mother's fault, since my sister didn't choose to be the first. Sorry if I misspelled something, english is not my first language.
@VMilky-dt6kr7 жыл бұрын
I'm sorry your mother acts like that :( I just want to let you know that even if other will compare you to your sister, you are your own person, not her. Do what you want to make yourself happy and no one else!
@orionwalker54627 жыл бұрын
nobodys drawing skills should be compared to that masterpiece. no parents should even give a crap if you're not a good drawer..
@ikarenn84607 жыл бұрын
My mother just isn't a good mother. At least my dad is great. I love him.
@kamilee41237 жыл бұрын
Your mom sounds like a bit of a jerk. I don't seem to see my parents doing that with my younger brother, but if they did I'd be sure to say something about it.
@ikarenn84607 жыл бұрын
Kami Lee She doesn't sound like a bit of a jerk, she IS a jerk. My sister always defends me, but my mom always argues and when my side is wining she says "Ugh, Stop whining, I'm tired."
@ptato30106 жыл бұрын
Older: 1 insult Middle: ALL INSULT Younger: NO INSULT (probably because you did it off of the parents, and they dont see the whole truth) Only: ....
@boredmoodlet36115 жыл бұрын
ObsidianPotato what was the insult on the older one??
@leeyamohammed24384 жыл бұрын
I'm the youngest I get bullied by all family members :')
@schwester65234 жыл бұрын
Funny, i get the most insult while being the youngest
@metsie95864 жыл бұрын
i am the youngest and i am getting much insult...
@lovelydolltime80064 жыл бұрын
Only children get worshipped by those who have siblings. And no, we are not lonely, as we learn to be without other people for a longer period of time.
@ptato30106 жыл бұрын
Something you should add to middle child: Gets caught in the middle (oops just made a bad joke) of events that they didnt cause in any way. The middle child also gets scholded at by their parents.
@sambishop23145 жыл бұрын
Everyone but the youngest gets scolded and everyone gets caught in the middle of an argument between the other two at some point thats just part of having siblings lol
@buzzybees79463 жыл бұрын
I have very sensitive ears and want to cry when i get yelled at and my parents are good parents but they get mad when i don’t turn in two assignments and i have to be peacemaker when my little brother with autism and my teenage older get mad at each other. I am very quiet and loud at home sometimes but i am mainly quiet and keep to myself and i was once embarrassed about something happening and was talking to me and she yelled it out and i want to hide in my bed with a good texture blanket.
@acyam82903 жыл бұрын
Both of my younger siblings blame everything on me, so normally I get scolded.
@whoami45343 жыл бұрын
I am the eldest but this is the most relatable statement-
@acedelta122 жыл бұрын
"gets scolded at by their parents" *YOU FUCKING THINK?!*
@chariskainx54477 жыл бұрын
does not describe my family,maybe we're an exception.
@Psych2go7 жыл бұрын
Yes, so birth orders don't capture all family dynamics. Did you want to share a bit about yours?
@chariskainx54477 жыл бұрын
Feels as well bad to say this,but the last one doesn't match my little brother either.He's not much of an altruistic person.He's very chaotic and seems cold...
@chariskainx54477 жыл бұрын
the first one is pretty accurate though.Psych2Go
@waffal667 жыл бұрын
same here
@xxdarkmidnightrosexx7 жыл бұрын
Chariskain same
@syjjessica86017 жыл бұрын
I'm a middle child, and I'm not like that, I always get to be blame at everything, even if you're not involve in a fight between the first and last born child.
@rraveboy94317 жыл бұрын
sy jjessica Same here
@Diana-qj6jl6 жыл бұрын
sy jjessica same sometimes
@brittanylee31486 жыл бұрын
:l the feels... I hear it from them.
@ur-local-lesbian-comrade6 жыл бұрын
Me too, except my older sibling is 13 years older than me so I sort of have both middle and first born qualities. But strangely, none match. I'm still blamed for everything though when it's my younger siblings fault. Guess I'm doomed for unhappiness.
@wetowl4796 жыл бұрын
I often get punished for no reason and i get punished the most cause my siblings complain about me almost everyday
@ModestbyOC4 жыл бұрын
I am a middle child and I do not fit the description stated in the video, for the record. I am sure I’m not alone.
@maya_lemonade96415 жыл бұрын
Me: huh I wonder what this video says about middle children? I bet it'll match me perfectly! Video: * absolutely roasts middle children* Me: MIDDLE CHILDREN DON'T GET JUSTICE IN THIS WORLD!
@pixelatednova70524 жыл бұрын
I know it is awful being middle child
@Ash-ff2sk3 жыл бұрын
@I love Angelique not really for me its the opposite im not that close to the firstborn ;-;
@saitamaonepunch41403 жыл бұрын
@I love Angelique I'm a last born and I get snitched on by the oldest
@lucicbonne96373 жыл бұрын
Disagree, the middle child in my fam is the fave lmao
@yourlocalshakespearewannabe2 жыл бұрын
same as youngest children
@Psych2go7 жыл бұрын
Just curious, but how many of you are the only child? How's life for you?
@REDVELVETWOUND7 жыл бұрын
Psych2Go i'm an only child and life is going pretty well
@nanda4837 жыл бұрын
I am the only child! I love it!
@itsbulimickitty17297 жыл бұрын
only child, abused by mother and neglected by father soooo going pretty well i guess?
@haileejinri7 жыл бұрын
Psych2Go Being an only child has its pros and cons. Pros include me getting all my parents affection and attention + resources. And cons include loneliness (which I experience often).
@misakimei7387 жыл бұрын
is good
@emiliaross22447 жыл бұрын
Geez, now I feel stupid. Middle children didn't get very much praise here, did they?
@nalanix30587 жыл бұрын
im last child and now im called dumb in this video when im allready deppressed about baing last kid
@fakepianist3917 жыл бұрын
I'm first child and I'm supposed to live up to taking leadership and having the best grades, I hate it
@rraveboy94317 жыл бұрын
Stone Henge Everybody hates us, I guess
@LittleR0b1n6 жыл бұрын
Well we can get away with a lot of things. Like when we are little steal candy that your parents said not to touch. Because of not much attention, but if you do it too often they will expect you.
@crispmaclean57326 жыл бұрын
I'm a middle child and all the things they said were true wowie
@raihapoutu55907 жыл бұрын
The girl talking in the video: we will explore the positive findings.... *waits to find out that the middle child (yes I'm one of them) has nothing positive at all me: well isn't that just positive...😑😑
@Ash-ff2sk3 жыл бұрын
ikr
@tokensharma37384 жыл бұрын
I am the first born. I am the one suffering from depression whose parents love her younger brother more and I always feel unwanted.
@bearbear95363 жыл бұрын
I do wonder if it will be different when it comes to only 2 siblings
@bearbear95363 жыл бұрын
Oops, sorry, I forgot to ask, It only you and one other sibling right?
@tokensharma37383 жыл бұрын
@@bearbear9536 I have only one sibling. It means that we are two.
@bearbear95363 жыл бұрын
Token Sharma Oh I see I will give you a virtual hug 🤗 Why? Because you deserve it, and you are loved by many (sorry that it’s weird coming from a complete stranger)
@tokensharma37383 жыл бұрын
@@bearbear9536 Thank you so much. 😭
@gracedellolio20557 жыл бұрын
"According to their parents..." 😂😂😂😂 I am not about to trust any of those statements.
@psychadellicsweater83114 жыл бұрын
Same. Parents always pull such bullshit.
@jimjamthejammer49297 жыл бұрын
I'm an only child and instead of being spoiled I've become self reliant. With no one to depend on you learn to do everything yourself. I wonder if I would be the same if I had a sister or brother.
@portercarr71976 жыл бұрын
Leonard Durecki That's the opposite for this one kid in my class that's an obnoxious fuck. He's 13 years old and doesn't know how to cook scrambled eggs. Or do anything for himself his mom just does everything. And if he forgets *his* homework he just blames it on her. I mostly just wanted to rant about that. Bye.
@Ek70R6 жыл бұрын
Yea it happens to me as well, i am an only child and I have learned to do everything myself. And I have grow to be very independent of my parents or anybody, I enjoy my time alone and can perfectly be fine by myself. I also question if it would have been different with siblings...
@marshmellow_melmel6 жыл бұрын
I'm quite spoiled as an only child but I am similar to you as I try to be independent.
@bluemew326 жыл бұрын
I was an only child and my parents cared more about themselves than me. Only children also can be the subject for parents to be more controlling if one is unlucky to be born to an abusive family. It's even worse because you don't have siblings to rely on.
@ur-local-lesbian-comrade6 жыл бұрын
As the middle child of three siblings, I've become the scapegoat for everyone. Trust me, siblings aren't as great as they're cracked up to be. Being an only child would be nice, and I would be happier.
Lanny this video wack, I’m last born and I’m antisocial, an asshole and I would never rat out my bros.
@psychadellicsweater83114 жыл бұрын
@@Anon-rt3fx True. I'm the first born/oldest but I'm never overachieving, being smart, or leading anyone. I'm just an idiot who gives up too easily.
@mmelonffelon3 жыл бұрын
My older sister was the snitch...
@animefreaknalu44973 жыл бұрын
@@Anon-rt3fx same im the oldest this doesnt describe me at all
@heatherdeeney91153 жыл бұрын
I'm last born I'd never rat out anyone
@sleepycouy37644 жыл бұрын
My brother, last born This video : *Last born children are mostly perfect* Me : Oh hell naw he's a total demon
@lesliesaldana-.-4 жыл бұрын
My lil bro too, he snitches on everyone 😂
@sleepycouy37644 жыл бұрын
@@lesliesaldana-.- yep
@animefreaknalu44973 жыл бұрын
My little brother too hes mischevious but still most loved one
@olivia._.l76593 жыл бұрын
lol I agree I'm the youngest and my sister sees me as a demon. I can see why
@ArtisticAnanya3 жыл бұрын
@@lesliesaldana-.- My deepest condolences to fellow oldest sibling (cries)
@catalinap66457 жыл бұрын
00:00 - 00:47 intro 00:48 - 01:51 first-born children 01:50 - 02:35 middle-born children 02:36 - 03:03 last-born children 03:11 - 03:40 only children 03:41 - 04:04 outro & stuff
@tawanakombora_194 жыл бұрын
Thanks
@Edward-jk8jq7 жыл бұрын
Well of course the first born is more intelligent since he has more school classes and more experience in life.
@banannapotato25957 жыл бұрын
Pablo Escobar is dis a troll
@pleaseendme82467 жыл бұрын
Pablo Escobar Well comparing how they do in class. If they are both given a math test on their level than the younger can get better grades. If you give a first grader a 7th grade math test they aren't going to do well. If you give a 9th grader a 7th grade test they'll do better. But first graders aren't doing the same work as the ninth graders are they? Or are you just a troll?
@heavenlyyou41067 жыл бұрын
or she....
@accioklisseshere7 жыл бұрын
But the group of participant who took the test is likely to be around the same age group ??? I am sure they considered age in their research brother
@Edward-jk8jq7 жыл бұрын
How do you know?
@kzmakoo4 жыл бұрын
im a middle born who gets ignored everyday
@chillstudy82236 жыл бұрын
I feel offended
@mtp65725 жыл бұрын
No one cares.
@chillstudy82234 жыл бұрын
@@mtp6572 shut up irrelevant chap get some help
@chillstudy82234 жыл бұрын
@Brethor um well i re watched the video because why not and that's when i saw his irrelevant af comment so i had t let him no that he is not needed her. There are almost 8 billion ppl on this planet and not one asked for his input so he gotta face the truth and if not... Thank you next.
@ArnethProductions4 жыл бұрын
lol
@chillstudy82234 жыл бұрын
@@ArnethProductions yh
@massiex18727 жыл бұрын
"First born children are more agreeable than neurotic" I don't think so *points at myself*
@Mysikrysa4 жыл бұрын
I´m a firstborn child and I was a scapegoat in my family, so I´m like the opposite of what was said in the video. It must be cultural thing.
@Itrashcant7 жыл бұрын
Stop roasting us middle born children, we don't appreciate it. Seriously though, was there NOTHING positive you could have said?
@latodesade7 жыл бұрын
Messy Trash I know right! I literally ONLY watched this video because nobody talks about the middle children, and at the beginning of the video she said that she would be talking about 'positive' qualities, but what the hell!
@nneowmeow7 жыл бұрын
L Lawliet I got kind of mad at that because it is mostly downsides, and non of them matched me and my friend who is also a middle child.
@alyssa93377 жыл бұрын
L Lawliet thought so too
@nuke11877 жыл бұрын
I think they were pretty neutral
@sugarystar57887 жыл бұрын
I don't get why everybody hates us!
@CamdenMatsumoto5 жыл бұрын
I’m a middle child and this literally couldn’t be more far off😂I’m the one who makes the good grades😂
@an.carlos57633 жыл бұрын
Same tho
@abangakwaku37543 жыл бұрын
Yh me too
@adamkaldeway47943 жыл бұрын
Same with my sister
@katieburke29023 жыл бұрын
Same here...never go any praise for it either...oh well...♡
@lazerray99483 жыл бұрын
Samee
@fireinthehole_7274 жыл бұрын
First born: Oh its ok, it was a one time thing. Middle born: We'll see you as this negative thing, and that negative thing cause you did it once. Last born: Same as first born
@violetvisionz73307 жыл бұрын
Birth order is so inaccurate
@cupcakepiethepokemontraine17987 жыл бұрын
I'm last born and I use fancy words( I say this everyday at my job) we have to organize the books sequentially so it will be easier for the consumer to find it.
@sorryiamawkward81687 жыл бұрын
I'm a first born child and I don't think it is true either I am terrible at math and science, I am always nervous, and when I was younger I took speech classes because I couldn't speak very well. The middle child is true to the 3rd older child in my family. The 2nd older sibling is always compared to me because he doesn't try at all. The youngest sibling doesn't listen to anyone in my family, is super rude and mean doesn't exactly try and gets mad easily.
@Cyb0rgLP7 жыл бұрын
I thought longer about this and my thesis is that many of these things are because of how your parents treated you. Many who were last born, probably weren't treated like one, but often you can find similar tendencies in families and this is on what this is based on.
@Mr879157 жыл бұрын
I'm a last child and im nothing like that lol
@missquprison7 жыл бұрын
this video nowhere says that you must be like that...
@Mr879157 жыл бұрын
missquprison I know but it i was surprise how the last child in this video is a polar opposite of me but it might be due to the fact im a twin
@yourtypicalwannabewitch44867 жыл бұрын
Rebecca RAM I'm also the last child and this vid is pretty accurate for me 😂
@joyousstarparty97687 жыл бұрын
+Rebecca RAM I'm way too evil too LOL
@quisslequassle4047 жыл бұрын
Rebecca RAM I'm a last child who is known as a liar, who breaks rules, stays away from people and when being a jerk. I think I am pretty much the opposite.
@Theoriginalstarkittnd934 жыл бұрын
“First born children have better leadership skills” I’m a first born, but if me and my younger brother looked the same age, everyone would think he’s older. ;-;
@lesliesaldana-.-4 жыл бұрын
Me too my 1-year younger sis looks older than me ;
@Theoriginalstarkittnd934 жыл бұрын
I feel ya, my younger brother is taller than me ;w;
@mollypeters1235 жыл бұрын
Okay so... Oldest are more smart, over achieving,smart, gets there point across all the time Middle doomed, depressed, rude, and fail in life (just so u no imma middle child) Youngest get what they want, charming, better, listened to
@user-je7dk4mq1o5 жыл бұрын
Thats true for our family, im the middle-born and im always left out and beaten up.
@creativeusername36504 жыл бұрын
Hah I wished people gave a damn about what I say
@psychadellicsweater83114 жыл бұрын
I usually like Psych-2-go's videos, but this one was just full of bullshit, imo.
@mtsmsp48214 жыл бұрын
I am a second child by birth, maltreated and beaten by parents, graduated valedictorian, ran for magna cum laude, very religious very conscientious, supported my siblings to finish school both financial and moral, and now this video is telling me otherwise ☹
@elene89613 жыл бұрын
So I'm depressed... that's about it. This was so wrong, middle child here.
@latodesade7 жыл бұрын
And there is NOTHING positive about middle children?
@SevensMarkedSeven5 жыл бұрын
AVKon ikr I am a middle
@kevinmarius28065 жыл бұрын
There probably is atleast one thing,she just didnt mention it
@curseofsasuke5 жыл бұрын
Yeah, but she forgot to say it. Typifying of how parents treat middle children too...
@darkgamer33105 жыл бұрын
Ikr, #moreresearch
@darkgamer33105 жыл бұрын
@@amandawolfe4097 bish
@comradefreedom82757 жыл бұрын
Only child. I lived a rather spoiled which is somewhat rewarding, but not great in the long run, and sheltered, which was frustrating.
@EEE-kg3vy6 жыл бұрын
Kevin Goeltz i could relate
@yuihimeko70025 жыл бұрын
I thought I was the only one.
@cafeteriacat8695 жыл бұрын
Kevin Goeltz tbh thats relatable
@angrykitteh95895 жыл бұрын
You're lucky...
@wendyberrios59575 жыл бұрын
Besides being spoiled materially, my experience was mostly negative. As the only one, I developed anxiety because I had unattainable expectations placed on me to succeed, I was treated as a pet more than a child because my parents didn’t have a frame of reference for parenting children, my parents were extremely protective of me so they wouldn’t let me hang out with just anyone, leading to me becoming socially stunted and unable to make friends or even behave normally in social situations. Sure us only kids get “spoiled” (I put spoiled in quotations because... like how are we not? We’re the only kid they’ve got), but rarely do we come out as well as children with siblings. It’s no fun being “spoiled” when you’re in a room full of toys and no one to play with. The envy needs to stop. There’s nothing to envy.
@cassandraargamosa41634 жыл бұрын
First sibling: Gets complimented and be prideful. Middle child(me): Gets compared to two siblings and gets insulted ( •-• ) Youngest sibling: Gets complimented and gets to be the trusted one. (secretly blames me for something I didn't do) Only Child: Gets all the happiness but can be either independent or dependent on how they grow. So does that mean that middle children are born to be having less attention? 🤔 Then that explains why my life sucks.
@Mysikrysa4 жыл бұрын
It must be a cultural thing because the oldest children are the scapegoats blamed for everything in many families. I´m firstborn child and I´m the opposite of what was in the video.
@amiyeet-29764 жыл бұрын
I can relate. Also: Me ( gets ignored my whole life ) : introverted, anti social My parents: WhY aRe YOu LIkE ThIS?
@Jessi-eo8sv4 жыл бұрын
I'm introverted and don't talk a lot my sister is my exact opposite 😂
@LoydAvenheart7 жыл бұрын
Last born, I think it's a load of rubbish, correlation does not mean causation unless proven. And my family is very different, the middle child is actually super religious.
@michaelo18787 жыл бұрын
Lloyd Nix correlation is usually put in these kind of studies and it's not saying you must be like that
@LoydAvenheart7 жыл бұрын
Ugo ugo-okonkwo Possibility for a high statically probability.
@LoydAvenheart7 жыл бұрын
TheAA Gaming You can be what ever you want to be, don't let random people on the internet decide that.
@eucalyptusdreadlord15527 жыл бұрын
Lloyd Nix Then are you saying to us that your exception defines the majority pattern that occurs? Then, will you tell me, because Stephen Hawking exists, that most people can't walk and have 150 IQ, and that the statistics that say most people can walk, speak, and have 100 IQ are rubbish? I assume, if you even do respond, it'll unfortunately be real rubbish. Please prove me wrong. exagto knotmiiu an neck
@LoydAvenheart7 жыл бұрын
Eucalyptus Dreadlord No, I'm just saying until backed up by fact correlation does not equal causation. ;Stastics101
@yvonnejacobs43767 жыл бұрын
I'm like the most achieving and less impulsive of my siblings and I'm the middle
@meckyoof83436 жыл бұрын
Same...except for that achieving part because I kinda gave up at school a little bit...
@mr.s0meb0dy995 жыл бұрын
Yvonne Jacobs Lol definitely same
@evil_patrick70735 жыл бұрын
I love how the video says the last born is more obedient when I’m the rebel of the family
@maya_lemonade96415 жыл бұрын
Same here!
@sofia-hf2vn5 жыл бұрын
Same
@vpriamo10904 жыл бұрын
This is in my house First born:loved Second born:complimented and loved Last born(me):just here
@emilia68045 жыл бұрын
I feel like in the long run the middle child becomes the most successful, still unnoticed, but they also became the best liers.
@saltyskittlezz66747 жыл бұрын
Im middle child, half the time people dont give a FUCK about me so I tend to daydream and think of unrealistic things or ideas of what to draw or do. Anyone else second child? also is it just me or the middle kid is always the most forgotten
@latodesade7 жыл бұрын
Nyla Draws Me too :(.
@rraveboy94317 жыл бұрын
Nyla Draws I'm a middle child too. I actually know some good sides! We are more down to earth, not in constant need of attention, more creative, not bossy, etc! I don't understand why nobody likes us....
@michellecawthon45656 жыл бұрын
Nyla Draws I agree I'm the middle too Sometimes I feel invisible :(
@meckyoof83436 жыл бұрын
Most of the stuff shown in the video don't apply to me. I do tend to day dream and I am not very religious but my siblings aren't either.
@tmarie2u2797 жыл бұрын
3:25 So being spoiled makes you happy?? Reallly?? Never would have guessed.
@slushieplushie14966 жыл бұрын
We all now that the older kid always get the most respect and the younger kid always gets the most attention and the middle child......Poor us ;(
@koven70435 жыл бұрын
Oh. How nice. Me, the 2nd child out of 4, am doomed for sadness and being a dissapointment.
@thatnoobie20427 жыл бұрын
im the middle child
@titia62886 жыл бұрын
ThatNoobie Same
@idkfineienteredaname21046 жыл бұрын
ThatNoobie Same and most of the things she said is how I am
@ren-w6 жыл бұрын
Me too.
@Gr_d5 жыл бұрын
ThatNoobie as of I
@eireneannful7 жыл бұрын
Actually first born who have more than 2 or 3 siblings are people who are serious when it come to things.They are caring and basically they shoo off other younger ones if they do things wrong in wrong way.They are more matured or become matured compared to their peers due to the responsibilities and there experiences.They are more patient too.
@selkiecat16 жыл бұрын
We have the same name, :p *spuds*
@satanismiscancer75896 жыл бұрын
Even as an adult, you still keep those qualities and values.
@a.s.37196 жыл бұрын
*looks at her older sister* I wish that was true in my situation too.
@mothknight70506 жыл бұрын
I think that's true, for I am first born, but I am not patient.
@sawdahrahman8373 жыл бұрын
*Me a first born:* Leadership- smtg I don’t have Less sociable- CHECK!! Achiever- (yh no that’ll nvr happen ) Intelligent- that’s smtg I’ll nvr have
@hithere99804 жыл бұрын
Two firstborn in my fam: Not much of leaders, but still outroverted Middleborn: Achieved way too much, way too self-aware Me and my sister, lastborn: Yelled at more than the other siblings, rebellious, introverted, depressed,
@celigalaxii7 жыл бұрын
I'm the first of my mother and father together, 2nd child of my mothers, and 3rd child of my fathers. Does that make me all three?
@celigalaxii7 жыл бұрын
I carry traits from all three types. First, middle and last.
@jennifferdiaz26017 жыл бұрын
CJ TheNerd I was the only child for 8 years, middle child of my mum and dad, and oldest just from my dad😂😂 I can sorta relate
@Khast_exe7 жыл бұрын
CJ TheNerd Illuminati confirmed
@bonslydapokemon28387 жыл бұрын
Ha ha that's funny..my brother, smarter than me..good joke.
@Angel-vi3dc6 жыл бұрын
Only children where you at?
@mxwitcher4 жыл бұрын
@I love Angelique what?
@nurfarhah62154 жыл бұрын
as a middle child im always the one who clean up the mess my siblings did :')
@hydrofrolicwildflower33934 жыл бұрын
thats sounds like an older child thing JEEZ
@Mystiqxe7 жыл бұрын
I'm middle child and the description of the middle child was the complete opposite of me... (except for the fantasizing part). Hmm let's see, for the youngest child huh? Seems like they get the most attention in the family, while I'm just left in the corner even if I beat them with grades... Are middle children always left alone?
@mobashsherahossain81035 жыл бұрын
Yes they are..
@boredmoodlet36115 жыл бұрын
Mystique Melody it’s not always like that I’m the last born and my parents constantly tell me that I need to be like my amazing brother they tell me to be as smart as him (even tho I get higher grades) and as social as him and all those other stuff
@angrykitteh95895 жыл бұрын
*inhales *YES*
@Gr_d5 жыл бұрын
Yes, yes we arw
@gachadragon75255 жыл бұрын
oOF that's me (I'm the younger twin and have a little bro so i guess it counts)
@ElleW4157 жыл бұрын
being an only child is The Dream
@Psych2go7 жыл бұрын
What do you see as the perks?
@jlh98867 жыл бұрын
Psych2Go Always getting new clothes and not wearing hand-me-downs. You get your own room. You don't have to share your stuff. You get ALL of your parents' attention. I was also the only Grandchild on my Mom's side for 9 years, and that was the sweetest ride of all!!!!!!! 😃😃😃
@ElleW4157 жыл бұрын
not having siblings
@meianne91587 жыл бұрын
Having a sibling is 'The Dream' -an only child
@ruetube7 жыл бұрын
It's not that great. It gets lonely and not all only children get loads of attention and money and stuff (unfortunately) :P
@milkisspop4 жыл бұрын
Whoop none of this applied to my siblings and me 😂
@starlingswallow3 жыл бұрын
I'm a middle child and I'm the most spiritual of my older and younger brothers. (Me and my other middle brother are more spiritual) and we are both definitely very creative and imaginative ☺️
@katierowland80817 жыл бұрын
What about twins? Fellow twins, where you at?
@portercarr71976 жыл бұрын
katie anne Being a twin seems horrible
@marhunt81926 жыл бұрын
heyyyyy :)
@marhunt81926 жыл бұрын
Porter Carr why? It like I was born with a best friend for life. It might sound bad sharing a birthday but we just have different party's. And we are fraternal twins so it's not like a parents ever made us dress the same
@kitkatgamer14796 жыл бұрын
Hey!!!
@daniellebennett63586 жыл бұрын
Ayyyy ello infernal twin here how may i help ya?
@13vatra7 жыл бұрын
I'm the last born of five. Some of it fits me. I tend to be pretty caring, but I'm not very sociable. I'm pretty rebellious.
@meckyoof83436 жыл бұрын
I'm the middle-born of 5. XD I do also tend to be caring. I'm not very sociable either. I do my best to follow the rules because it feels bad to get in trouble. Whenever I do something and get in trouble it sticks with me for a long time. Something I did in 4th grade still sticks with me in 7th grade.
@connierasmussen34916 жыл бұрын
me too, this video doesn't apply to everyone.
@now51subsyallsubmeforwhat6 жыл бұрын
Vatra I'm not very sociable too..and I'm the last child
@shadpierre74165 жыл бұрын
Vatra I'm lastborn and im rebellious, I think she got it wrong first born are obedient.
@shadpierre74165 жыл бұрын
Mecky Oof we last born are known to break rules.
@nataliafarel13394 жыл бұрын
The disclaimer is exactly what makes this channel my favorite in psychology, being honest with the nature of the results and the sources is exactly the way that media should be
@gunpaanimations82932 жыл бұрын
While being the only child also sucks because you will always feel lonely while you are growing up because you have no sibling to play , spend , compete with.
@phoebewooster66247 жыл бұрын
Ok, i have not watched the video yet so don't flame me if I'm completely off. I am a first-born and honestly I really like taking charge, and i think that's because first-borns are more independent and a take charge person because when another sibling is born, the parents give more attention to the baby than you. Also, there's a likely chance that the older sibling had to take care of the younger sibling at some point, giving the older sibling a sense of domination. Last-borns, i think, are more used to following directions and going with the flow, since their older sibling has probably told them what to do many times. i think middle children can see the world more clearly and honestly than others because they have both a sense of dominance and listening. I think middle children are the best kind of people when they grow up because they're very down to earth. pls dont flame i haven't watched the video yet this was just on my mind when i saw this topic
@erikacloverleaf88297 жыл бұрын
I agree with you, for me i was in some part of my life the youngest in the family, then for 2-3 years i was the middle child, and after that the oldest which i felt around my 15-16 year of life, so somehow i went thru all stages and i think i'm carrying some of the traits from all of them.
@phoebewooster66247 жыл бұрын
How interesting
@anotherhetalian84997 жыл бұрын
agree
@purrecioustabby6307 жыл бұрын
Phoebe Wooster That was so smart to write before the video could give you a bias, gaah I wish I thought of that! 😣
@alyssa93377 жыл бұрын
middle born here ✋✋ well said
@iksmu16497 жыл бұрын
lies my little brother (i have 3 siblings) is rude and lies all the time and has anger issues
@kayarii78656 жыл бұрын
Hayle Harris, it was a generalization. That does not mean they will be 100% accurate all the time. But it means *most* families are like this
@fairyliquid97456 жыл бұрын
i'm the first born and got the worst grades and the middle child for higher and then the youngest got the highest and i think that's more like realistic because our parents learnt how to help us through each child and because i was first they would have known the least.
@ArthasHastingsMenethil6 жыл бұрын
almost same thing for Only Child, everyone said Only Child get better grade but guess what I get it very badly and also Only child has more responsiblity than First Born
@ThatOneGuy-fi5su6 жыл бұрын
Fairy Liquid pretty much describes my family
@grace-hm9ij6 жыл бұрын
Only child literally has no responsibilities you freaking idiot.
@sambishop23145 жыл бұрын
Im the first born and i get the best grades because my siblings were the main focus all the time making it seem like i had to do way better in order to gain attention (which i dont get) from my parents which actually leaves me worse off than before because now when i happen to get bad grades its way more noticeable, but your point also makes sense
@depressedstranger30315 жыл бұрын
The oldest is my brother and iam the youngest but we are always close but i like my middle sister more and my other middle brother we fight a lot!!
@Shadowcat1077 жыл бұрын
I'm the baby of the family
@hermykalzoon26307 жыл бұрын
saaame
@Shadowcat1077 жыл бұрын
Sondre sjølie :)
@matilde_57 жыл бұрын
SAME HERE DOODLE DUDE
@nneowmeow7 жыл бұрын
Shadowcat107 your profile picture added on to the comment.
@melissadavis8097 жыл бұрын
I'm my dad's oldest child and my mum's middle (of 5). we haven't all be raised together like a normal sibling group and I don't think I really fit into any of these...
@haechan_dream33736 жыл бұрын
Melissa davis same
@abs-re6yp4 жыл бұрын
I can relate. I am my moms 2nd child, my dads first, but i live with my mom as an only child. Me and my sibling weren’t raised together. My mom had my sister at a young age, meaning she had to give her up for adoption
Awesome video! The videos from this channel are always amazing. Thought provoking and innovative! Keep up the good work! I felt kind of bad for the middle children because the narrator did say they were only gonna focus on the positive aspects but what was mentioned about middle children didn't really seem super positive. Some people say that middle children get ignored the most and forgotten sometimes... I wonder if that is true in most cases and if that is what makes them less ambitious as the survey described. That would be unfortunate.
@user-yd8gr7jd7j3 жыл бұрын
I'm a only child i get a lot of compliments from my parents and other relatives, but other people treat me like garbage because they tend to think that i'm spoiled because i'm a only child, so yeah, it's great being the only child when you're at home or in your relatives' house since u get a lot of compliments, but when you're at school being a only child will make you feel TERRIBLE--
@pandaeweb22907 жыл бұрын
when you're the 2nd child out of 4. goddammit, sooo imma lean towards a mix of first and middle.
@youraveragefnfplayer55903 жыл бұрын
YESSS
@Fanofgaara1007 жыл бұрын
video: how bith order affects your life video: *spends half the video talking about first-borns*
@lalajean4522 жыл бұрын
My brother is on the middle , for some reasons im really proud and encourage him drawing and sculpting while others well they say good things but a little encouragement . I will hear my mom says like " Youre drawing again " or " Youre sculpting again thats what you do every day" . Mostly my brother will show me first his masterpieaces before to others .
@GissellaR4 жыл бұрын
wow i tried to see if my siblings fit into these and i realized i don’t know them at all. when we grow older we’re definitely gonna be those siblings that don’t talk at all..
@fluffybuns_pasquel92767 жыл бұрын
my brother who is last born is the complete opposite of what was described
@boop66017 жыл бұрын
FluFFyBuns_Pasquel My last born brother gets into the most trouble. When they said obedient I sat there like "...What?"
@rraveboy94317 жыл бұрын
FluFFyBuns_Pasquel Lel when they said "Obedient" Wtf--- that is not true at all They tend to not listen At ALL
@idktbh27997 жыл бұрын
omg I'm a middle child and all of it is literally how I am
@xDipsex157 жыл бұрын
Nabeeha Tirmizi same xD
@Monicat037 жыл бұрын
I don't know if im the middle child. I'm the second one of four. And I happen to carry traits of both middle and first child.
@britneycampbell49457 жыл бұрын
I'm the middle and I am nothing like this except I fantasize A LOT
@max_payne957 жыл бұрын
middle children is more intelligent than the first and the last.
@nneowmeow7 жыл бұрын
Nabeeha Tirmizi I am the middle child and this was so inaccurate for me..
@k_rinabeena6 жыл бұрын
You may have noticed how short the middle child part was compared to the other 2 that's just another key item of a middle born: being forgotten
@ayshii52265 жыл бұрын
. . . I'm just an only child ._.
@Hx_jamie4 жыл бұрын
Good for you
@dumbdoomer18337 жыл бұрын
I'm the middle child and yes true 😜 about the fantasy thing but the rest isn't... 😐
@dp29897 жыл бұрын
Seana Wilson It was all true for me! (Middle child)
@laurastleger-harris89987 жыл бұрын
middle child too, I'm the smart one. ny elder brother is a dumb ass and kid sister was sickly
@rubyrogers88797 жыл бұрын
Jamo Wilson Same I am 100% agree with you
@sherryp4877 жыл бұрын
Jamo Wilson I wish the part about my achievements wasn't true lol I'm really stupid compared to my sister and maybe even my brother
@jennybunny52827 жыл бұрын
Water same
@massivemansbiggestplan7 жыл бұрын
first fits me well, I am a first born! I think age between children should be accounted for, something like that would probably produce more findings
@ashleycofield20267 жыл бұрын
Yay! Another first born. Question: When you tell people you're the oldest sibling, do they go, "Oh, so you must be mean to your siblings."?
@fakepianist3917 жыл бұрын
oh, well it doesn't fit me at all yet I'm first born I wonder why
@boop66017 жыл бұрын
Dark Link I'm first born and most of it fits except the leadership one, most of the time. I am mean to my siblings but no one asks cause I am see as quiet and shy around people I don't know well. (I'm a loud mouth around friends)
@cutebunny2297 жыл бұрын
It don't really fits me because I don't think I'm intelligent and I'm really bad bad at math. I think the only one that fits me is independent
@alicelinzheng65435 жыл бұрын
I'm a first born. And when the middle child said, "it can't be that bad" I was lotterappy smacking a for head so many times. Lol
@h.cschannel6 жыл бұрын
huh! i'm the third child in a family with 4 kids. some people consider this the middle child and in certain ways i am, while my mom says i'm the 2nd first born, and in more ways i am. interesting.
@451brit7 жыл бұрын
yeah no this is not right at all with my family lmao
@nalanix30587 жыл бұрын
same
@nataliehartman47037 жыл бұрын
Haha there are six kids in our family and this isn't true for any of us....
@IrdinaInani7 жыл бұрын
Natalie Hartman Me too! six siblings hahaha ^^
@BlueEyedKairi6 жыл бұрын
Being an only child can be great, cause you dont have someone to constantly be in your way or annoy you at home (no siblings). The downside is that you dont really learn any social skills or at least have less. It can also make your parents more anxious, and if they were caucious before, they will become the worst Helikopter parent duo you could ever think of. I grew up having my parents do everything for me and being given stuff all the time, but i never learned how to do things on my own and became an anxious mess. Now that im an adult they suddenly switched to "you have to do it all alone" and left me in the dark. Youre totally dependent on your parents all the time and there is no one to be there for you or take your side in a fight because your parents have to stick together against the horrible person they created. Im happy I didnt have to deal with siblings, but know that as an only child youll be on youre one, once youre an adult and when you fight with your parents and youll have a much harder time dealing with the harsh world out there.
@ClearlyCry7 жыл бұрын
Lol, the first born child in my family is my brother. He is really autistic, he can't even speak, and he is 16. I still love him, with all my heart! I am the third child btw, and my sister is the second. If you did read this. May you speak life, ( joy, complement each other,love one another, and forgive one another.) and please remember, you are a priceless artifact. Sorry for the rant! love typing hehe!
@S0larsweets7 жыл бұрын
where My middle children at?
@kiinganna18645 жыл бұрын
paige Me :(
@itzroses80653 жыл бұрын
Me being the first child:Being yelled at always getting scolded have higher grades always being pressured and compared My younger sister:do whatever she wants without being yelled, scolded etc...
@itzroses80653 жыл бұрын
@@wolfykid7427 yeah when me and my sister have the same grade i am the one always grounded
@itzroses80653 жыл бұрын
@@wolfykid7427 same
@TepiLizard4 жыл бұрын
"First-borns get higher test scores because they're more intelligent or more motivated." (paraphrasing) Or... maybe it's just that we have higher expectations on us to be perfect than those placed on our younger siblings? Failure was not an option for me, and yes, a "B" counted as a failure. My three younger brothers? So long as they passed, they were fine.
@amusedabsurdity72967 жыл бұрын
Uhh, when was the Chinese study on only children done? And who funded it? Because, you know it could have been more of a propaganda tool. But also, even if it wasn't, if they only surveyed Chinese families, then the data would be skewed. So either way there's got to be a better study on the effects of being an only child.
@misscasualty7 жыл бұрын
Last children didn't get as much as the first two, how cliche! Described my siblings pretty well but not the last borns at all.
@fakepianist3917 жыл бұрын
in my family the last born (my little sister) gets way more because I'm older and I'm supposed to be more responsible than her but I'm not
@nneowmeow7 жыл бұрын
Fractal Universe I actually think that the middle child is mostly inaccurate because it was just down sides of being a middle child. (This is just my opinion sorry if you don't agree!! If I made any typos please correct me.)
@neuron_star6 жыл бұрын
This was so relatable! I am the oldest child in my family. I have a little brother. I realize that I am a better leader and better at verbal skills than my brother. And I know plenty of only children, and they do seem more pampered than others. I also know a kid who's the oldest of 6, and he does seem more intelligent and more of a leader than his siblings.
@gregv81644 жыл бұрын
As the last of five kids, I never really developed an identity of my own, always 'her brother' or 'his brother'. I was and always have been the quietest and most self conscious with nobody looking up to me, never truly knowing my purpose in life.
@jayhamlet45577 жыл бұрын
lol when your family has 4 kids XD
@McDonaldsHimeko7 жыл бұрын
When you're an sad and lonely only child ;-;
@ruthkimani27786 жыл бұрын
Edgelord McEvanescence At The Disco lucky! I got 5 siblings and I wish I was the only child! And sis and bro don't read this 😂 😂😂
@Me-fv7iv6 жыл бұрын
When you’re a child with two idiot older brothers and two stepsisters.
@ur-local-lesbian-comrade6 жыл бұрын
I'm a middle child and I get so ignored. I only have three siblings but one is 13 years older and lives at home, and the other is a year younger and plays sports so all the money is spent keeping my older sis out of trouble and my younger sis playing softball. I'm just here like,"okay. Guess I don't matter. I'll go upstairs now."
@ptato30106 жыл бұрын
Reynn Amalie OMG THE ONLY CHILD IS THE BEST PLACE YOU CAN BE IN
@matthewwong15525 жыл бұрын
My younger brother : screws up Dad : why didn't you look after him well?
@pariss52946 жыл бұрын
Ok so my family's complicated but i have 6 siblings but only one of them is not a half sibling and i grew up with mostly him because the rest were living with their father in a different state so would my older siblings still count in this or would the one I'm living with count as the oldest? (I'm the youngest)
@asta_of_sloth7 жыл бұрын
I'm a first born and I do have good marks and I'm not very sociable, but I don't know if I'm a good leader. I think I'm more of a big sister, who looks after the others, that everyone is ok and everyone follows the rules, especially at school, because I'm at least a year older than almost everyone.
@boop66017 жыл бұрын
Sarana 99 For the leadership one I'm not much of a leader unless it's like a school project that I know what to do on and working with people that I am comfortable talking freely with.
@asta_of_sloth7 жыл бұрын
Group projects at school work better with friends for me (a.k.a. people I'm comfortable with), too and I try to lead the project in the "right" direction and split the work among us equally. If I don't know the persons, I barely say a word.
@spinboost7 жыл бұрын
I'm the 5th child out of 7 children. but sometimes I do wish I was the only child, it must be awesome to get all that attention! Lol now I sound greedy
@turntheswitchoff82597 жыл бұрын
Spin Boost Be glad you have siblings, while I at least get love from my mother and father it is crushingly lonely. If you want to live like an only child be ready to entertain yourself. I like your profile picture by the way.
@spinboost7 жыл бұрын
Turn The Switch OFF aw thanks hehe. Maybe you can make your friends sort of like siblings so you don't feel too lonely, if you are allowed to invite them over often that is :)
@turntheswitchoff82597 жыл бұрын
Spin Boost Thanks, and I do have someone like that and I'm glad that I do. I hope you have a great rest of the day!
@marshmellow_melmel6 жыл бұрын
It's not paradise on the other end of the spectrum bud. I've always wanted sibling, and people should appreciate the family they have.
@mothknight70506 жыл бұрын
MelMelLovesRandomness You know what sucks about having a sibling though? When you expected to be an only child and already taught yourself how to be independent, and entertain yourself without other kids. Then when your sibling is born, your age gap is too wide for you to understand each other. You end up pushing away your sibling, because you are used to being independent. You get angry, because you are not used to having someone follow you around and talk non stop. Or at least that's my case. I love my little sister but man.
@toxictracks10386 жыл бұрын
I'm a first born child and my grades are bad, when i speak people consider it back talk just because I'm defending myself with reason for things I was blamed for that I did not do. Along that I lack conference and empathy. I was push right back down when I get up, and anyone that I try to help just ignore me and I just stopped caring and I don't know how to react when people do come to me for help.
@ohshanana23974 жыл бұрын
My parents basically make me act like the 3rd parent. My little sister calls me mama. And she said her first words to me.ive had to hold her so much that my left arm clicks when I hold things
@MrWild-hj5ec7 жыл бұрын
What about if you have half siblings because my siblings came in and out of my life?
@shilohp33897 жыл бұрын
Mr. Wild I am the same, I would identify myself as only child mainly, bcuz I don't see my siblings that much.
@thefutureisqueer38997 жыл бұрын
Mr. Wild I know what you mean. Just pick the one closest to you I guess.