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Any woman as well as any guy who is 100% faithful, honest and is willing to communicate then they are most likely a keeper

She not only describes a good couple but demonstrates it.

Very good video Leah. Instead of always looking for the negatives or red flags appreciate the young women who has excellent qualities. If you find a Filipina with these excellent qualities you better put a ring on it . 💍

Thank you for your honesty. I so appreciate the humble ways that are so missing in western society.

You're making some very good points. The problem is that most of these Filipinas who are "interested" in a foreigner are really desperate to find one, often for reasons other than money. That's why they will agree to sex at a very early stage. They are afraid the foreigner will move on if she says "no". I also fear that Filipinas with a high body count will not admit that. They will all say that they slept with 2 or 3 men before, even if they are into prostitution.

I can tell that you are a very good and mature young woman. You are very beautiful and your husband is a blessed man.

What a wonderful video. Leah. You always speak intelligently and mature lady. You always speak with honesty which makes you such a perfect. Person. You have met the right husband. And it shows. Every time we watch your videos.

Strong work ethic. No dishonesty. Reliable and keeps her word. Has control of her negative emotions, especially anger. No voice raising during arguments, silent treatment or other forms of emotional immaturity or abuse.

Hi Leah thankyou for the green flags because almost everybody comes with the red flags.

Great topic choice Leah ! Hope all is well with you, your husband and family. Be blessed .

Very solid advice, Leah.

Great video !!

Excellent video Leah! Very informative!

A well thought out video 👏🏻👏🏻

Love the video! Thanks for giving advice to us about girls from your country, because there are differences in our cultures… good job!

Very informative video Leah. Salamat po

appreciate your kind and so truth words, good one

Thanks for sharing. I love the culture. Hopefully some day I will be able to visit.

Great job !

Awesome vid Very informative.

You made very good points. And you are correct that it is a good sign that she will not sleep with you right away. She should wait and you both get to know each other. And build the relationship for success. Rushing into a relationship it not good. If she is worth spending the rest of your life with she is worth waiting for. And being honest she should know you really want to be with her and that person is not our for a few months of fun and would then move on. And we know that happens often to many Filipina.

Awesome video 👌

I can see you put a lot of effort into your videos. Keep up the great work. Cheers from max.

Thank you very informative

Sound advice🎉

Hi Leah! Good to see you.. This is a vey nice video as always. Thank You for the tips.

Hey, your videos are very informative and genuine God bless you work.

Thank u for good advice. God bless

Thanks for the info! As someone who's corresponding with a Filipina online, this is good to know.

You make some very good points and analogies thank you for the video and the topic I hope all is well God bless and take care of y'all ❤

Glad to see a more positive video

hallo leah,another nice informative video for us ,that is consittering to maybie try the Philipines as our last "stay in life" I relly think you was totaly right with all the green flags,and if im thinking about my own knogle about the Philipines-the kultur/the People/the food etc -My only source is looking at different video vlogs in you tube,the one that knows how to share in a intelligent way,with the viever of that chanel. So just keep up the good work ,and i do know that your channel will grow. Regarding my own exspirience I have been on a dating site -of and on for about 2 years:When I desitet that i would go to the Philipines this year. But i havent had the luck ,to be abel to go to that next stage,Just one thing "I will never say Im in a relationship with a woman I havent spend time with in real life. But reall if im listening to all -lets say your green flags - All that i have been writing with ,wasent the right one. But im still looking forward to my first ever trip to the Philipiens ,to meet ist lovly people/try there food/and see the kultur and the stunning natur as well . And if I get super lucky _ who know ,I maybie will run it to the perfect mach. Blessing to all of you . Remeber to always smile on that journey true life. All good karma as well . From the Music man in Danmark

Hi Leah from USA, Thank You for sharing this topic❤

Thank you for all the great information, it was also a great video. 🙂👍👍👍🙏

What you're saying is is that she is conservative and respectful and cautious.

Refreshing to see a woman that practices what they preach. God bless

Thank you for your insight 🙏

Very wise advice❤❤❤

Pea, another great video, and your humor cracks me up 😅😅😅

Very informative video Leah😊

Thanks for the video. No body count is the best kind of woman.

These green flags could be said of any woman, not just a Filipina.

Thank you

She has self respect

Some thoughts: -> Good relationship with parents - this is good and also might prevent problems with her family later, but on the other hand, people cant do anything about their origins and upbringing, knowing that from myself. I would not say good relationship. Lets say, she dont have to have a good relationship with the parts of the family that is toxic for her - but it would be good if she already grown up so much to cut this part of the family off. Or if she is in the progress to do so, at least take the offer of the man to live somewhere else, far away from them. What I want to say, its good if you have a good family structure around your girl, but if not, its not her fault and also doesnt say anything about her, especially when she realized it already herself. But on the other hand, about the girls past - I would be interested in a video on how to find out the most important things about a girls past, that could severly affect the relationship or myself. Like for example, can I query somewhere if she is married / seperated? Because if she is seperated, the ex could bring her and me into big trouble, legally and there were even cases with violence from the ex against the new foreigner friend or his ex and the court decided it was okay to do so.

Hi nice to meet you first time to your channel

Hello

Beautiful

Yes... If we love guy. We have time.. time its very important than money.

To be honest, if you want adorable that means beauty ful children. You need to married a filipina. Treat her the way you want to be treated. What else can it be. 🙏🙏

Leah, I have the best Filipina to be with, from your profile of what to look for, as our LDR, with a future meeting hits 100%. I have a god one, and I am very happy for your video😊

How about writing down your thoughts of doing it before you do a vlog you were stumbling a bit but still doing great well done

Big body count is no go zone.....

You forgot one thing. If your filipina laughs at your bad jokes she probably likes you also.

"You should date us." Nah, I'm good. If you come to the states you'll be just as bad as they are once the tingles are gone.

Those were all good points you made about green flags. The only thing I would add Is finding out how long her past relationships lasted and why they ended. If a girl has constantly had relationships that only lasted a few months it could be a sign she's not mature enough for a long term relationship. On the other hand if you are a guy only looking for a short term relationship she might be a perfect match for you.

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Maybe, the word you are looking for is “chasity.”

Yes,my current girl friend is from Christian Filipina but your still have to watch out from the scammers that's there job steeling.

Leah, you make such great videos. Thank you. I may have missed it but a lot of western men, real men, would love to know what your husband did to be so blessed with such an intelligent, beautiful and traditional Filipina for his wife. There are those of us who want an old fashioned, traditional, low body count Filipina to make a life with. Keep up the amazing videos. Cheers

Can you tell us why you think you had “tempo”? And what stopped you from having it now

Well.. Hmmm Good Points.. Except for the Sex One.. Being a Christian, the Number one Green Flag for me is that the Filipina has Christian Values and Beliefs.. If she sleeps with you on the First or Second Date? She could Sleep with me on the 1st or 2nd date, but no Intercourse, until Marriage would be the Rule. She can show Physical Affection i.e. Love.. this can be Shown, for me Love is different then Sex, i think.. I would not think any Less of her if she chose to Sleep or not Sleep with me on the First couple of Dates.. She might just need some Physical Contact, to just be Held, Kissing, Hugging, and Cuddling, etc.. etc.. So, for me it's a Green Flag either way.. What is her Love Language, I know what mine is. Overall Good point and Topic.. Thanks Leah. JMHO..

Tampo is awesome it gives chance reset without saying something you can't take back. If you want to stop tampo two things will help buy something shiny jewelry 😅 or feed her she is probably hangry

Very good video, Leah seems to have things under control. My concern is with Leah’s sister and her new American boyfriend (Dalton). She’s is married, with 3 kids from previous relationship and now expecting a new baby fathered by Dalton. Being married and dating a foreigner might open Dalton for blackmail/extortion and this will affect Leah and Gary. He mentioned getting an annulment but usually it takes years (and $$$) to get one. Leah, is this a source of concern to your parents ?

Hello beautiful how are you doing today

good advice Leah...let's say fast forward the time, your son is like 25-30 y/o ... how would you advise him to find out what is the body count of his girlfriend or fiancee, or how to spot a non-wife material girl... many women won't say or hide that information, so unless she's a virgin it's hard to spot the body count...

Tampo is NOT a trait or cultural, it is a BEHAVIOR, you choose to behave in an immature childish manner. It is manipulative and abusive behavior, who wants to be in that type of relationship. MATURE ADULTS talk about their problems to resolve them, the longer that takes the worse the problem becomes. Me personally, I would NOT accept tampo, if she wants to give me the silent treatment and not talk to me, she can pack her things and leave permanently and never have to talk to me again. I get wanting to take time to cool down so she doesn't say something she will regret, but while she is I'm sitting there hurting wondering what I did to hurt her, and let's face it, we're guys we will NEVER figure out what the problem that only exists inside her head is. More than likely it is because of her own jealousy and insecurities and had nothing to do with reality, if she just speaks up it can be explained and see that it was completely unnecessary. I would much rather she tell me right out what the problem is, my feelings will heal, but emotional scars may never go away. It's nice to hear the positive things for once. Is it possible for you to clone yourself, then all foreigners could have a down to earth and smart lady like you.

Well get me some numbers then Leah!!!

IF I decide to "get involved" with a Filipina, when I "semi-retire" in Davao City 4/2024 there won't be any sex until I determine if the relationship is "serious", so it could be a while, as I don't believe in "casual sex" and/or getting in so deep (no pun intended) with a woman too soon, as that can bring unintended "consequences".....

I met my my philapina in the philapines after two months dating online. A province girl she would not kiss me, not only because she said she would feel bad about herself but also because I was still married and waiting for my divorce to go through. I though that was special.

As far as # 6 The woman has morals and respects herself if she doesn’t sleep with the man early in the relationship 😊

Question. So as passport bros, should we somehow gently push to see if they want to have sex on the first date, just to see if they won't? I feel like a lot of girls would just give in to that pressure, just because we are high value men. So should we just play it casual, maybe just go for a kiss, and see if they push for more?

Great video and topic! You seem very wise and maybe you can offer a service called "Coffee with Leah" where an expat could hire you to have coffee with their potential Philipina girlfriend before they get too serious and then after that you can give them a thumbs up 👍 or thumbs down 👎 report! 🤣 Just kidding, but you would be good at it! Keep up the great informative content, it really helps.

Cutting off communications (Tampo) is a relationship killer. If you can't talk to each other, you don't have a relationship. Wish you both the best. Take care.

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big body count...oh your talking about Fe Carpentero

Here are my green flags, not just flags but requirements: Low or no body count, willingness and desire to French kiss, willingness and desire for oral, give and receive. Also, she must love animals and not come from a broken family. Yeah, that might be like finding a needle in a haystack but those are my requirements. And I believe I will find a Filipina who meets them

Im not christian can i still sign up sa dating site?

It doesn't your come from a broken family like your father is yelling to your mum and your going to the same, of course as a woman u already know how it feels when your going to do that your partner

Not all Filipina woman are the same

I have a question about "traditional values". Is it a traditional value to have multiple children with multiple men? I have watched many vlogs, such as yours, where the ladies are in this situation but still talk about traditional values. It is hard for a man to wrap his head around, especially if the man never married, and has no children of his own. It appears as very hypocritical.

If it matters the pass of someone you like then the Philippines is not for you. They had a life before you. Are you going to tell about your life. Why have you divorced, how many women have you been with. Why does the pass matter. It's the future that matters. We grow from mistakes.

Yeah this video is women not Filipina women

I have found that a short amount of Tampo is a Filipinas way of showing respect and love. It gives her time to calm down and not say things that she will regret later. Also, westerners who come to the Philippines should leave the western ways at home. They come all the way to the Philippines, and other countries, to get away from the west and its dysfunctional society yet they insist on making locals change their ways rather than trying to assimilate themselves. I’m sick of seeing the younger western “guys” come to the Philippines and treat the Filipinas with disrespect and lie/deceive their way into bed with them. They are ruining the Philippines by bringing the attitudes of the west here. Any woman who sleeps with you in the first 5 dates probably has a high body count and no self respect. To think otherwise shows you are still stuck in the west. I wish the Philippines would deny entry to all single Western men under the age of 40 unless they are here to meet/marry a Filipina they have been in an LDR with. That would help eliminate the “sexpats” and players. Cheers

If she lets you have multiple girlfriends, that’s also a good sign.

Please share...where exactly are good places to meet to chat and build repor online? I keep meeting fakes and catfish

$100k plus banked $2500 per month is all I will have. Not much, but enough, I hope. I lived in Olongapo for 4 years when I was younger My goal is to be happy and love and vacation. I'm retiring and omw to the Philippines March 2025. By the way! Any women not taking money into consideration before choosing a mate is an idiot! Love alone does not pay the bills. :) Matandang Mayaman Madaling Mamatay is smart! Ignore the gossip. Love your man and he will love you. I will want a young beautiful practical woman when I get there. No rush, but to any young woman that is willing to love a handsome 60-year-old guy. Sex for me is not as important as holding hands, kissing, hugging, companionship. I'm older of course. Don't get me wrong, I'm a freak lol, but it's just not my driving force in life anymore lol. :) I just want to be happy and loved not alone. Even if you have children, it is possible. I have children! too, grown up, Texas University graduates, and very successful more than me. A parent’s dream come true. I love them very much and it was my honor to keep and raise them after my divorce. Two boys 2 and 5 years old when my Philippian wife at the time left me. I was an asshole and not attentive enough when I was younger, so I don't blame her for leaving. It is USA and she was beautiful, of course she could find a better guy. But, not staying in touch with your kids for their whole life seems wrong to me. Her loss. Anyways, just don't lie about it if you have children because it's insulting and not fair to the children in my opinion. It's not a deal breaker for me. I love kids. To my future young beautiful woman companion for the rest of my life, I will pay for your education, you will have a life insurance policy on me, and at least while I am alive, you will go places and do things in your country that you would have never dreamed of possible, a vacation for you full time! You will have a maid! And you will be loved! And when I die, you will have income for life.... Matandang Mayaman Madaling Mamatay.. lol IF YOU ARE SMART LOL!!!!! But I must say, I am a little concerned about being poisoned now that it has been mentioned on KZfaq! lol I poison myself enough, I don't need any help! Just saying. :) I am planning Cebu city for my destination. Any other ideas or location suggestions? lol tmi?

Leah please read our message on your email we sent you last week thank you

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