Thank you for your continuous support! I can’t and don’t want to talk about the pain that my family has inflicted. It’s so terrible. And then the smear campaign that I can’t fight against. I hope that one day the truth will be known. But for now I’m free for the most part. I don’t really think about it anymore. Out of sight, out of mind!
@thescapegoatclub4 ай бұрын
I'm glad you are doing better now. Keep up the healing and thank you so much for your kind comment!
@LSMH528Hz3 ай бұрын
You know what used to riddle me for ages ? They try hard to run you off, chase you away, refuse, abandon, reject, fight, argue and beating the dead horse over and over. To the point that no one in their right mind should even want to stay. But they still sometimes act or pretend like they want you to stay.
@thescapegoatclub3 ай бұрын
so true!!!
@lilianfowler7988Ай бұрын
That is called the dance. They get really angry when you change the music. When you stop they have lost control. It is okay. Just go on. Respect is a two way street and they travel their one way.
@davidgregg68603 ай бұрын
I just went through their version of an attempt to re-bait me onto their hook! Then I stumbled upon this video! Seems like Life has a way of helping us along the way! Please keep making these videos! They help! God bless 🙏
@thescapegoatclub3 ай бұрын
I’m so glad they help (but sorry you need them). Hang in there. It gets easier.
@limolnar4 ай бұрын
Thank you for continuing to highlight this area, both as support for us scapegoats but also us therapists.
@thescapegoatclub4 ай бұрын
Thank you for being here and doing the valuable work you do.
@chloeslater72316 күн бұрын
My mum likes to use her death as a point. I could never understand why I had such extreme anxiety as a child over my mum's health and mortality but what I've realised is my mum will regularly have a "health crisis", will use her death or will hold the risk of suicide over you during times of conflict. That or she will threaten to leave. As a child we finally found her hiding in a field during a conflict with my highly enabling dad. now she will just scream "do you want me to leave?" I cut contact with her 6 months ago.
@SusanaXpeace2u4 ай бұрын
Yes, yes, tick, tick , tick✅️
@sarahquinlan59104 ай бұрын
No there’s nothing they can’t blame on you, and when they pass it’ll be your fault too😂 Another informative video❤
@thescapegoatclub4 ай бұрын
Right- everything can and often does come back to us! I hope you're doing well!
@hatchet82094 ай бұрын
Imagine having a bullet proof vest and have their bullets pop off you
@hatchet82094 ай бұрын
I usually practice in my head head the boneheaded stuff my mom says and not be affected by it
@LSMH528Hz4 ай бұрын
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@hatchet82094 ай бұрын
Just made a quick phone call with my mom. Short direct and serious tone in my mouth. Noticed she was uncomfortable changing the topic and being firm to control her language. Obviously no phone call back seeing she is nervous. Apparently you have to act like a parent with a serious tone with an emotionally immature parent like that which act like a teenager there.
@hatchet82094 ай бұрын
Apparently you have to defend yourself
@thescapegoatclub3 ай бұрын
I love this imagery! Perfect!!
@rinkydinkron4 ай бұрын
Very insightful as always but please can you sort out your sound. It sounds like your microphone is too far away from you making the audio distant & "echo-ey."
@thescapegoatclub4 ай бұрын
Thanks for the feedback. I thought the sound was better but I'll see if I can adjust it.
@CP-ns2ww4 ай бұрын
Hi Chess. Everything you shared has been my experience unfortunately. Now I am waiting for the ripple effect. I’ve decided to talk with a lawyer to remove me from POA responsibilities for my parents. I don’t know what their response will be. I will be reaching out to you again soon. Thank you so much for your courage and compassion. ❤
@thescapegoatclub4 ай бұрын
Hi CP- hang in there. I know you can survive the ripple effect. Also know it is not a reflection of you, just of people who sadly don't understand healthy boundaries. Take care
@carolineharrold44604 ай бұрын
Tactic number 8 (at 12.42 describes exactly what my father did to me straight after my mother's death over 13 years ago. 😮💨
@thescapegoatclub4 ай бұрын
I'm sorry. I hope you are doing ok.
@LSMH528Hz4 ай бұрын
How odd. I was just thinking "let's see if chess made another video, it's been a couple of weeks since her last one". And behold, she uploaded one a hour ago... Hahaha, funny how your mind plays tricks on you with peculiar coincidences.
@thescapegoatclub4 ай бұрын
And I keep meaning to say that I upload every Saturday. I should remember that in my intro so it's not a guessing game! Thanks for watching :)