Thank you for your continuous support! I can’t and don’t want to talk about the pain that my family has inflicted. It’s so terrible. And then the smear campaign that I can’t fight against. I hope that one day the truth will be known. But for now I’m free for the most part. I don’t really think about it anymore. Out of sight, out of mind!

You know what used to riddle me for ages ? They try hard to run you off, chase you away, refuse, abandon, reject, fight, argue and beating the dead horse over and over. To the point that no one in their right mind should even want to stay. But they still sometimes act or pretend like they want you to stay.

I just went through their version of an attempt to re-bait me onto their hook! Then I stumbled upon this video! Seems like Life has a way of helping us along the way! Please keep making these videos! They help! God bless 🙏

Thank you for continuing to highlight this area, both as support for us scapegoats but also us therapists.

My mum likes to use her death as a point. I could never understand why I had such extreme anxiety as a child over my mum's health and mortality but what I've realised is my mum will regularly have a "health crisis", will use her death or will hold the risk of suicide over you during times of conflict. That or she will threaten to leave. As a child we finally found her hiding in a field during a conflict with my highly enabling dad. now she will just scream "do you want me to leave?" I cut contact with her 6 months ago.

Yes, yes, tick, tick , tick✅️

No there’s nothing they can’t blame on you, and when they pass it’ll be your fault too😂 Another informative video❤

Imagine having a bullet proof vest and have their bullets pop off you

Very insightful as always but please can you sort out your sound. It sounds like your microphone is too far away from you making the audio distant & "echo-ey."

Hi Chess. Everything you shared has been my experience unfortunately. Now I am waiting for the ripple effect. I’ve decided to talk with a lawyer to remove me from POA responsibilities for my parents. I don’t know what their response will be. I will be reaching out to you again soon. Thank you so much for your courage and compassion. ❤

Tactic number 8 (at 12.42 describes exactly what my father did to me straight after my mother's death over 13 years ago. 😮‍💨

How odd. I was just thinking "let's see if chess made another video, it's been a couple of weeks since her last one". And behold, she uploaded one a hour ago... Hahaha, funny how your mind plays tricks on you with peculiar coincidences.