True none of the previous videos I watched mentioned men having types and they only go for that certain type and it’s really true.. experienced this many times where I was into guys and they only wanted a certain type that I wasn’t. Also, why straight hair? Curly hair is gorgeous... a lot of women have been doing that wavy hair trend for years now with a curling iron

@@jaythenihilist4689 Thanks for sharing the real truth.

Amen!!!

Thank you for saying this! I was hoping that this message hopefully came through in the video! 😀

Do a video about how to acquire more confidence. That could be super helpful.

@@LisaGemini I like it! Thanks for the suggestion, Lisa!

Beautiful people don’t have to be associated with ugly personalities either. Dated not the best looking guy (nerd) which turned out to be a douche on the inside as well.

Winner of a video, I've been looking for "dress to attract women" for a while now, and I think this has helped. Ever heard of - Weyrayden Qiyvelyn Framework - (do a search on google ) ? Ive heard some extraordinary things about it and my mate got excellent results with it.

I'm so glad he noticed it, Afan! 😄

Ryan Patrick thanks and can u please tell me what to do so I’m in a relationship with this guys and I just moved to somewhere I will be here for like 6 more months and then I will move back to my hometown but i don’t know how to keep him interested while I’m away from him😭 please reply

@@afankhalil6467 6 months isn't too bad. At least you were able to create a bit of a foundation with him before you leave. If you can, try and have at least one visit with him per month. This would be a short-term LDR, so he will know that you are planning on returning to your area at a very specific time to manage his expectations 😉

@Stacy Caruso I just wear a red pair of shoes, belt or even just a chunky red bracelet. I'm not a huge fan of red but always get complements just wearing a pop of it. Hope that helps

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No doubt Victoria! 🙌🏼

What do you do

Beautiful lady how are you doing?

@@EnoI539 absolutely correct

Work that curly hair, Saria! It's *confidence* that is king in attraction! 🙌🏼

It's the next big thing, literally. But really, curly hair is coming back in fashion. Watch this space 😉

I have loved all of your videos but this was a big miss for me. BIG. Obviously info like having white teeth and accentuating and hourglass frame is totally fine but come on....quoting a “study” from Zoosk? Telling women to straighten their hair from some tiny “study’s”. Based on what? For someone who claims to be accredited in phycology this is so ignorant. 🙄 You really need to check your mansplaining in this video. It’s not your place to tell women to straighten their hair and damage it all in the hopes of making a man attracted to you? Sooooo much NO. I’m sure your motives are good, but that doesn’t excuse the ignorance.

@@gabriellehorton3928 Hey Gabrielle, thanks for checking out my content! I appreciate your feedback about his video, but I can't help but take issue with a few things you said as I put a *tremendous* amount of time and preparation into ALL of my videos. First off, this video is about the science and psychology of attraction. We're literally talking about science here. So you may call my pointing out that having straight and white teeth and accentuating the hourglass figure as "mansplaining," but when in reality, science has got my back on this one. You may not like the things I'm saying, but to call it mansplaining is just simply silly. Believe me, I'd be *the first* to hear about mansplaining from my wife, and she watches ALL of my vids before they're released. I'm very conscious about my tone. And yes, Zoosk had a sample size of over 2,000 men! That's statistically significant! Zoosk has plenty of professionals that run these studies and surveys, because if they're done poorly, that's their reputation on the line! They've had a really good track record with these things in the past, you should know. Your comments also negate the fact I cited other "academic" studies, but are they just mansplaining to women too? And I never told any woman she *had* to do anything. So thank you for your feedback, but I'm not going to roll over here when my intentions were, in fact, solid and I know I'm putting out good information 🙂

Allow me to rectify something I believe you may have misunderstood. In my initial comment I used the hourglass figure and white teeth examples as “totally fine”. Meaning, I agree with you and you are 100% correct there. Those are absolutely indisputable facts. I think If you re-read my comment you will understand that. :) My issue is with you selecting one study from one source to declare a standard of what hair type is preferred by most men and then suggesting women ALTER themselves accordingly. . It’s not responsible to make such claims, as several studies with similar parameters should be reviewed and cross examined before arriving at such conclusions and making such statements. In my opinion, that just good sense..... I understand why you don’t see a problem with this, and I applaud you for your concern and monitoring your tone and including your wife. That’s great. Like I said in my comment; I assumed you were coming from a good place. However, good intentions can still have negative consequences and it is important to learn when presented with the opportunity to do so. Women of color with textured hair and women (like myself) with curly hair have had different experiences than those that do not, and it’s not possible for your wife to speak for all women. Did you know it was ILLEGAL for African Americans to grow their hair naturally from their head in this country at one time? People were actually arrested for this. Do you know that people have actually asked me to my face if I was poor because they saw that I didn’t fit into an orange county mold and didn’t have straight blonde hair? Did you know manipulative and controlling men tell women “ohhhh you’d be so pretty IF you just straightened your hair and changed the color?” Did you know that women spend thousands of dollars a year to achieve something they will never have and end up destroying their natural hair by processing? (Personally it took me two years of looking like a drowned 🐀 to get my curls back) I said that you were mansplaining because you’re speaking on and giving advice on a sensitive issue without, in my opinion, being very educated on that issue. Which is a fair criticism of a page such as this.

I'm glad you came to this conclusion. The information he's giving is only information. This does not mean that anybody should take it to heart and change everything about themselves for this. This only attract the typical majority of men. Just like you say! I have a tightly curled afro and it attracts quite a bit of men on its own. My hair type is the exact opposite of what he's mentioning in the statisticshowever people are attracted to different things for different reasons. This may be the majority and that's okay. The majority of men can like what they wantbut I'm not trying to attract the MAJORITY. I'm trying to attract the ONE for me. I'm going to enjoy my body, continue to wear makeup that plays up my NATURAL FEATURES and dress for my personality and body.

Johanny Piñeyro I went from dark brown to blonde and men seemed to like that a whole lot more

You’re hair is perfect the way it is. Plus if you catch a man with straight hair, he’ll expect it like that forever

I suppose I could rent it out hourly! 🤷🏻‍♂️LOL

@@datingcoachryanpatrick cheesy?

@@barbieblue3336 Definitely not.

Actually, yeah that was a big problem for her

Did it go well?

It might be time to crack out of your shell and start bringing some new energy into your sphere, Reyna! I've got a video next week coming out about this very thing (toward the very end)! When things get stale or you're not getting the results you want in life, it's just a sign it's time to mix things up 😋

Ryan Patrick thank you 🙏🏼

Reyna Pacheco do you get approached like at malls, or grocery stores? Or other random places

@@datingcoachryanpatrick this is great advice, but dont you think maybe some (most) men are just intimidated by her? Honest question and I'd LOVE to see you do a video on this topic please 🙏🏾 Are there signs when men are just being chicken shit? 😂 (title is optional)

Omg same girl 🤦🏻‍♀️

i literally have no waist to hip ratio this is trash and all about looks so far ugh

Good to know guys! Thanks for letting me know by liking this and other similar threads 🙂😉

Hormones change

Copy that! I've already got some good ideas cookin' for that body language vid! 🤗I like how you interpret what your gut is telling you, too. It sounds like it's an even mix of interpreting your heart & brain... That's the secret sauce! If you notice a guy keeps coming back, almost unnecessarily, to the point where you tell yourself "Oh... he's back!" Pay close attention to those guys. They'll want to keep talking and will keep plowing forward with the pursuit! When he gets wishy-washy and stops doing things he said he was going to do... NEXT!

@@datingcoachryanpatrick Thanks for your response! Yes, many times it comes down to the quote from Maya Angelou: "When someone tells you who they are, BELIEVE THEM the first time."

My suggestion would be to find what I call a Personal Stability Zone (or a PSZ, as I'm all about acronyms lol). For me, it was my high school stadium in my hometown on a Sunday afternoon -- super quiet and beautiful. Get quiet and still with yourself about who you are and what you stand for (i.e. what you value the most). This way, you're calling up that side of yourself without any extraneous voices around telling you "you can't have that"(for instance, family members that may not always have your best interests at heart). Finally, make an agreement with yourself that *you're not tied to any certain result* with men moving forward. There are no self-imposed deadlines or other silly things that are going to hinder your growth or make you feel like you're not making progress when you actually are 🙂

Floral Moral you’re really the first comment bruh😳

Excellent Floral! I'm brain-storming it now! 💁🏻‍♂️

Lol,,I guess I'm screwed because I have curly red hair and my hair is my glory. I'm not about to damage my hair with a straightner. Guess there's no point in bothering with a man at all

oh shut up!! this is a general comment

And......I have short straight dark hair....now what?

Beautiful lady how are you doing?

Sounds like the full package is coming together nicely Sarah! 👍

Ryan Patrick it’s sad that we have to change all these things about our appearance in order to attract a partner, but if I can change something about myself to improve my life I will. I also don’t want to be forever alone 🥺😂

You're beautiful just as you are. Go you're personal best ✌🏻

Can't wait to rock that Livestream out! 🤙🏼

@@datingcoachryanpatrick woooh! 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

I feel like something like that 100% depends on the guy

No

Yessss

Beautiful lady how are you doing?

Times have changed unfortunately, but I'm definitely that guy that doesn't look. it's not they don't find you attractive, they are actually giving you respect because let's be honest, for a men to just stare at a girl can get you into a lot of trouble in 2022.

Me neither Cunho! 🙌🏼

Lol great answer... Loved it.

@@donnalangley117 Beautiful lady how are you doing?

You do realize there’s different races out there besides whiten people right? A black woman with dark hair looks nothing like an Asian woman with dark hair and she will look nothing like a white woman with dark hair. Having dark hair and occasionally wearing red lipstick isn’t going to make you a clone of someone else.

@@cookiesarelikecream My comment wasn't meant to be serious and of course I know there are different races 🙄

@@lindseyfarrow1478 my bad then I misinterpreted

You rock Narine! Thank you so much! 🙂

LOL nun's habit! You certainly sound like you're well-grounded and guided by the best energy around, so as long as you listen to it, the boys be linin' up! 🕺🏼🕺🏼🕺🏼😄

@@datingcoachryanpatrick 💃Yup! Thanks Ryan ☺️✨ Bless 🙏🏻🕊️

@@dorothykozlowski5124 we must know different Nuns. The Christian's I know are beautiful people. I assess people by character, integrity, and merit. I don't discriminate based on a type or group of people. I'm a Christian minister. We're human. So we're not perfect. Jesus is. Please show respect for everyone here and yourself ✌🏻🕊️ God bless

@@dorothykozlowski5124 I'm sorry you're hurting. I am disabled too but we still have purpose. It's the anniversary of my Mum's birthday today, she died just over a year ago. Grief hurts. Grieve and heal knowing you're not alone. I'll pray for your peace of spirit. Take good self care

Yup yup

Beautiful lady how are you doing?

Roger that! 👍

“I don’t care what men think.” … watches all the ‘how to attract men’ vids…

Rock that red hair, Vicki! That's the magic color of attraction after all! 😄

I was born a Ginger (red hair) but am finding men do not appreciate it like I think they could or should. It seems fake red hair is more popular. Kinda sad for us, we are the real deal.

Beautiful lady how are you doing?

Been a year and I still can't get my speech right LOL with them in! Fortunately, we're now on the retainer version of the aligners, and you wear those only during sleep hours. The new aligners they have are 100% during sleep, so my wife and I missed that boat! That would have saved me a little embarrassment 😂😂

Thanks very much Yolanda! Yes, both science and psychology have a powerful voice (not to mention the numbers!) when it comes to how attraction really works 😁

Beautiful lady how are you doing?

Beautiful lady how are you doing?

Dream-like according to the men in these surveys! 😄

BOOM! Done! 💥🙌🏼