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@niccole.m4 жыл бұрын
When I was younger, I did some of these things. I wore red, straightened my hair, wore makeup etc only to discover the men that were attracted to me only wanted sex. Now that I am in my late 30's, I decided I was just going to be me. No longer was I going to change myself for a man. I'm still single and that's okay because I realised that if a man was going to fall in love with me, it was going to be because of me. To be honest, no matter how confident, funny or how big your heart is, if men don't see you as "their" type, they look the other way. They don't even bother getting to know you. Why should a woman change her entire appearance to attract a man, then have to keep up that fake appearance to keep him happy. I can straighten my hair but if it rains, or I sweat....it gets curly again. Eventually he's going to see your true appearance.
@samtula59463 жыл бұрын
True none of the previous videos I watched mentioned men having types and they only go for that certain type and it’s really true.. experienced this many times where I was into guys and they only wanted a certain type that I wasn’t. Also, why straight hair? Curly hair is gorgeous... a lot of women have been doing that wavy hair trend for years now with a curling iron
@jiliciar.14233 жыл бұрын
@@jaythenihilist4689 Thanks for sharing the real truth.
@msbosslady60543 жыл бұрын
Amen!!!
@AShMR_4 жыл бұрын
Personality is key. I don't care how drop dead gorgeous you are, how straight or white your teeth, or long your hair. If you have a horrible personality (mean, petty, condescending, etc.) you are not attractive. All of these are great to know, but confidence and personality always end up being the real winners for a happier and healthier relationship.
@datingcoachryanpatrick4 жыл бұрын
Thank you for saying this! I was hoping that this message hopefully came through in the video! 😀
@LisaGemini4 жыл бұрын
Do a video about how to acquire more confidence. That could be super helpful.
@datingcoachryanpatrick4 жыл бұрын
@@LisaGemini I like it! Thanks for the suggestion, Lisa!
@zerofuks4164 жыл бұрын
Beautiful people don’t have to be associated with ugly personalities either. Dated not the best looking guy (nerd) which turned out to be a douche on the inside as well.
@diegoalejandrogarciasanche79304 жыл бұрын
Winner of a video, I've been looking for "dress to attract women" for a while now, and I think this has helped. Ever heard of - Weyrayden Qiyvelyn Framework - (do a search on google ) ? Ive heard some extraordinary things about it and my mate got excellent results with it.
@hp80873 жыл бұрын
I did all of these when I was younger... Didn't get anyone. When I started to embrace my plain-jane beauty, and lead by personality, somebody fell head over heels for me.
@afankhalil64674 жыл бұрын
I wore a red shirt my crush told that I look beautiful today
@datingcoachryanpatrick4 жыл бұрын
I'm so glad he noticed it, Afan! 😄
@afankhalil64674 жыл бұрын
Ryan Patrick thanks and can u please tell me what to do so I’m in a relationship with this guys and I just moved to somewhere I will be here for like 6 more months and then I will move back to my hometown but i don’t know how to keep him interested while I’m away from him😭 please reply
@datingcoachryanpatrick4 жыл бұрын
@@afankhalil6467 6 months isn't too bad. At least you were able to create a bit of a foundation with him before you leave. If you can, try and have at least one visit with him per month. This would be a short-term LDR, so he will know that you are planning on returning to your area at a very specific time to manage his expectations 😉
@Hadria77774 жыл бұрын
@Stacy Caruso I just wear a red pair of shoes, belt or even just a chunky red bracelet. I'm not a huge fan of red but always get complements just wearing a pop of it. Hope that helps
@buffy22573 жыл бұрын
🥰🥰
@victoriamundae25704 жыл бұрын
Boddddyyy Languagggeee. I use it all the time. Even job interviews. At work. Out in the world. It’s one of the strongest tools in a woman’s arsenal. 😉
@datingcoachryanpatrick4 жыл бұрын
No doubt Victoria! 🙌🏼
@Be1smaht3 жыл бұрын
What do you do
@raymondderrick76322 жыл бұрын
Beautiful lady how are you doing?
@Hadria77774 жыл бұрын
I don't care what some study said ladies you are ALL BEAUTIFUL just the way you are. Stay healthy and strong, see the love and light in others and treat everybody with respect. You don't have to change your appearance to find love
@Hadria77773 жыл бұрын
@@EnoI539 absolutely correct
@kristencreates13164 жыл бұрын
I really like how you approach all the subjects on your channel with care, humor, and positivity.
@judithbraun48544 жыл бұрын
My Ex Husband always wanted me to change when I occasionally wore red. Maybe he was afraid?
@TheSariasama4 жыл бұрын
I'll not damage my hair with hair iron to get attention 😏😏 my hair is naturally curly
@datingcoachryanpatrick4 жыл бұрын
Work that curly hair, Saria! It's *confidence* that is king in attraction! 🙌🏼
@amberwren4 жыл бұрын
It's the next big thing, literally. But really, curly hair is coming back in fashion. Watch this space 😉
@gabriellehorton39284 жыл бұрын
I have loved all of your videos but this was a big miss for me. BIG. Obviously info like having white teeth and accentuating and hourglass frame is totally fine but come on....quoting a “study” from Zoosk? Telling women to straighten their hair from some tiny “study’s”. Based on what? For someone who claims to be accredited in phycology this is so ignorant. 🙄 You really need to check your mansplaining in this video. It’s not your place to tell women to straighten their hair and damage it all in the hopes of making a man attracted to you? Sooooo much NO. I’m sure your motives are good, but that doesn’t excuse the ignorance.
@datingcoachryanpatrick4 жыл бұрын
@@gabriellehorton3928 Hey Gabrielle, thanks for checking out my content! I appreciate your feedback about his video, but I can't help but take issue with a few things you said as I put a *tremendous* amount of time and preparation into ALL of my videos. First off, this video is about the science and psychology of attraction. We're literally talking about science here. So you may call my pointing out that having straight and white teeth and accentuating the hourglass figure as "mansplaining," but when in reality, science has got my back on this one. You may not like the things I'm saying, but to call it mansplaining is just simply silly. Believe me, I'd be *the first* to hear about mansplaining from my wife, and she watches ALL of my vids before they're released. I'm very conscious about my tone. And yes, Zoosk had a sample size of over 2,000 men! That's statistically significant! Zoosk has plenty of professionals that run these studies and surveys, because if they're done poorly, that's their reputation on the line! They've had a really good track record with these things in the past, you should know. Your comments also negate the fact I cited other "academic" studies, but are they just mansplaining to women too? And I never told any woman she *had* to do anything. So thank you for your feedback, but I'm not going to roll over here when my intentions were, in fact, solid and I know I'm putting out good information 🙂
@gabriellehorton39284 жыл бұрын
Allow me to rectify something I believe you may have misunderstood. In my initial comment I used the hourglass figure and white teeth examples as “totally fine”. Meaning, I agree with you and you are 100% correct there. Those are absolutely indisputable facts. I think If you re-read my comment you will understand that. :) My issue is with you selecting one study from one source to declare a standard of what hair type is preferred by most men and then suggesting women ALTER themselves accordingly. . It’s not responsible to make such claims, as several studies with similar parameters should be reviewed and cross examined before arriving at such conclusions and making such statements. In my opinion, that just good sense..... I understand why you don’t see a problem with this, and I applaud you for your concern and monitoring your tone and including your wife. That’s great. Like I said in my comment; I assumed you were coming from a good place. However, good intentions can still have negative consequences and it is important to learn when presented with the opportunity to do so. Women of color with textured hair and women (like myself) with curly hair have had different experiences than those that do not, and it’s not possible for your wife to speak for all women. Did you know it was ILLEGAL for African Americans to grow their hair naturally from their head in this country at one time? People were actually arrested for this. Do you know that people have actually asked me to my face if I was poor because they saw that I didn’t fit into an orange county mold and didn’t have straight blonde hair? Did you know manipulative and controlling men tell women “ohhhh you’d be so pretty IF you just straightened your hair and changed the color?” Did you know that women spend thousands of dollars a year to achieve something they will never have and end up destroying their natural hair by processing? (Personally it took me two years of looking like a drowned 🐀 to get my curls back) I said that you were mansplaining because you’re speaking on and giving advice on a sensitive issue without, in my opinion, being very educated on that issue. Which is a fair criticism of a page such as this.
@LaHoraMusical4 жыл бұрын
Comment/Question: I KNOW for a fact that the color red works and specially the Straight hair; I did a test and changed my profile dating picture with a red dress and silky straight hair: I am not exaggerating my messages went from 5 a week to 10+ a day HOWEVER I was attracted a lot of superficial guys who had a 6 packs and looked way to perfect. I have natural curly hair. I want a guy to want me for me, the real me. Isn’t it deceiving to have the pictures of your profile with straight hair and show up on the date with straight hair and dated for a while go back to curly hair? I used to keep my hair straight before but it takes me 3 hours to do and even more work to keep it up. And what did it for me to keep my hair naturally curly for good was when my 3 years old told me: “Mommy, I wish I had pretty straight hair like you”. That broke my hair and I don’t have straight hair and YES I used to attract more guys but what kind of guys! And I want a guy to like me for me, not my looks.
@FreedomUninterrupted4 жыл бұрын
I'm glad you came to this conclusion. The information he's giving is only information. This does not mean that anybody should take it to heart and change everything about themselves for this. This only attract the typical majority of men. Just like you say! I have a tightly curled afro and it attracts quite a bit of men on its own. My hair type is the exact opposite of what he's mentioning in the statisticshowever people are attracted to different things for different reasons. This may be the majority and that's okay. The majority of men can like what they wantbut I'm not trying to attract the MAJORITY. I'm trying to attract the ONE for me. I'm going to enjoy my body, continue to wear makeup that plays up my NATURAL FEATURES and dress for my personality and body.
@ginaalzaidi19724 жыл бұрын
Johanny Piñeyro I went from dark brown to blonde and men seemed to like that a whole lot more
@pennylanekane2 жыл бұрын
You’re hair is perfect the way it is. Plus if you catch a man with straight hair, he’ll expect it like that forever
@joythornz4 жыл бұрын
I once wear this red sporty type of hoodie/jacket when I took my dogs out for a walk. I was getting glances/stare from men (even men driving past me) trying to check me out. So I agree that wearing red clothing does not have to be skimpy or provocative to capture attention.
@rbjsculpture2 жыл бұрын
Your Creator loves you and wants an intimate relationship with you. 2 Corinthians 5:17-21
@hawaiigirl80892 жыл бұрын
Red is true!!! I wore a red shirt that was cute on a trip to Hawaii. Was a long sleeve top with hood & gray track pants. The men that smiled, bought me drinks (in coach) & helped me with my luggage! It was amazing
@naram82824 жыл бұрын
Ryan can I borrow the red ‘Subscribe’ pillow in your background when I’m going on a date ?😁
@datingcoachryanpatrick4 жыл бұрын
I suppose I could rent it out hourly! 🤷🏻♂️LOL
@barbieblue33363 жыл бұрын
@@datingcoachryanpatrick cheesy?
@datingcoachryanpatrick3 жыл бұрын
@@barbieblue3336 Definitely not.
@nathalie52384 жыл бұрын
I do all of this.... yeah it attracts lazy men 🙄 damn in the past 2 months I attracted quite a lot of men.... they are so low effort!!! Not one asking for date or just flake... they expect me to chase them, no way!!! I want a man that wants, really wants me
@fraisedesbois72402 жыл бұрын
"long, straight, dark hair" Marilyn Monroe : *am I a joke to you?*
@TeutonicTribe5 ай бұрын
Actually, yeah that was a big problem for her
@Dazzling_Rabbit2744 жыл бұрын
I’m actually about to go on my first date with my crush tonight! 🙂😁
@nataliaimakulata59033 жыл бұрын
Did it go well?
@RMPR074 жыл бұрын
I wear red sometimes, I have wide hips (my waist is not that narrow though), I have long dark hair (straighten with nanokeratin since it’s naturally curly and frizzy), I have normal teeth, I’m introverted first but when I get to know someone I’m more open, still... I don’t know what has happened! My relationships (with men who I knew via apps such as match or tinder 🤦🏻♀️) don’t last much and no man approaches me, not at work and definitely not at gym.
@datingcoachryanpatrick4 жыл бұрын
It might be time to crack out of your shell and start bringing some new energy into your sphere, Reyna! I've got a video next week coming out about this very thing (toward the very end)! When things get stale or you're not getting the results you want in life, it's just a sign it's time to mix things up 😋
@RMPR074 жыл бұрын
Ryan Patrick thank you 🙏🏼
@phugh38784 жыл бұрын
Reyna Pacheco do you get approached like at malls, or grocery stores? Or other random places
@sibzism4 жыл бұрын
@@datingcoachryanpatrick this is great advice, but dont you think maybe some (most) men are just intimidated by her? Honest question and I'd LOVE to see you do a video on this topic please 🙏🏾 Are there signs when men are just being chicken shit? 😂 (title is optional)
@Partycitybaex3 жыл бұрын
Omg same girl 🤦🏻♀️
@starflowermarie863 жыл бұрын
I love the eye-contact practicing thing w the sunglasses. I get so nervous or giddy looking people in the eyes, even if I'm not attracted to them. 😂 I've been workin' on it tho! 💫
@FreedomUninterrupted4 жыл бұрын
So what I'm hearing Ryan say is nowadays ......men want us to look like the Kardashian sisters. LOL 🤣😅😏
@rhiannoncee31273 жыл бұрын
i literally have no waist to hip ratio this is trash and all about looks so far ugh
@FrostyDufour3 жыл бұрын
I have curly hair that's too fine to straighten, boo. But, I've really upped my eye contact and flirting since having to wear a mask. Works really well too!
@arundhatiarjun99194 жыл бұрын
Yes for the body language video!
@datingcoachryanpatrick4 жыл бұрын
Good to know guys! Thanks for letting me know by liking this and other similar threads 🙂😉
@butterflydiva724 жыл бұрын
Im a plus size woman and have been all of my life from puberty. I never had the confidence to look a man in the eyes or and god forbid they approach me!I was just too shy. Now I'm in my late 40s I am confident and strong. I can even approach a guy. Most every guy I meet tells me that I look fun and my confidence is what they notice from a distance. They love my smile as well and tell me a happy woman is highly attractive to them. It takes some doing and as Ryan said it takes time.
@barbieblue33363 жыл бұрын
Hormones change
@Rubiastraify4 жыл бұрын
Yes, please do a video on body language. This may sound odd/funny, but I use a combination of "tells" to gauge how a man might feel about me. Yes, I look at his body language, but I also trust my gut feelings. For example, recently I tried to express interest (friendly tone of voice/open body language) with a man in whom I was interested. He was giving me mixed signals, so for a time, I couldn't tell if he was just being friendly, or was interested in me. My guts were telling me he was just being friendly. Turns out that he's homosexual, so I have my answer! He *was* just being friendly. And, the tip-off to me were gestures and body language that I've only seen in homosexual men. On other areas - such as attractive qualities in men and attractive body language - to me - yes, physical attraction has a role, but someone's character - not just personality traits - are what pique my interest. I've met drop-dead handsome men that couldn't carry a conversation across the room who turned out to be very unattractive to me, and "so-so" guys who were real charmers in the area of character and knowing how to treat a woman, who were real turn-ons.
@datingcoachryanpatrick4 жыл бұрын
Copy that! I've already got some good ideas cookin' for that body language vid! 🤗I like how you interpret what your gut is telling you, too. It sounds like it's an even mix of interpreting your heart & brain... That's the secret sauce! If you notice a guy keeps coming back, almost unnecessarily, to the point where you tell yourself "Oh... he's back!" Pay close attention to those guys. They'll want to keep talking and will keep plowing forward with the pursuit! When he gets wishy-washy and stops doing things he said he was going to do... NEXT!
@Rubiastraify4 жыл бұрын
@@datingcoachryanpatrick Thanks for your response! Yes, many times it comes down to the quote from Maya Angelou: "When someone tells you who they are, BELIEVE THEM the first time."
@amaliavanable4 жыл бұрын
You are so good Ryan! love the videos and content!!! And the best part is you keep them short and sweet, which really helps with all that we have on our plates. Easy to digest and just enough to not make our heads spin. Thank you!!!
@missanthropy22514 жыл бұрын
Any tips on how to bring out the magnetic personality and mindset? I don’t want to get stuck in another self fulfilling prophecy
@datingcoachryanpatrick4 жыл бұрын
My suggestion would be to find what I call a Personal Stability Zone (or a PSZ, as I'm all about acronyms lol). For me, it was my high school stadium in my hometown on a Sunday afternoon -- super quiet and beautiful. Get quiet and still with yourself about who you are and what you stand for (i.e. what you value the most). This way, you're calling up that side of yourself without any extraneous voices around telling you "you can't have that"(for instance, family members that may not always have your best interests at heart). Finally, make an agreement with yourself that *you're not tied to any certain result* with men moving forward. There are no self-imposed deadlines or other silly things that are going to hinder your growth or make you feel like you're not making progress when you actually are 🙂
@Heather-vg1dh4 жыл бұрын
Great video Ryan . I say do the video on body language .
@carmencruz67244 жыл бұрын
Floral Moral you’re really the first comment bruh😳
@datingcoachryanpatrick4 жыл бұрын
Excellent Floral! I'm brain-storming it now! 💁🏻♂️
@barbieblue33363 жыл бұрын
The point is, to find a guy you like and then attract him with different ways. He is not saying to CHANGE, he is giving you research to pay attention to.
@sarahlovesyewww4 жыл бұрын
are you really suggesting to change your hair for a dude. DEAD
@annepro55484 жыл бұрын
Lol,,I guess I'm screwed because I have curly red hair and my hair is my glory. I'm not about to damage my hair with a straightner. Guess there's no point in bothering with a man at all
@illmeeillmee93734 жыл бұрын
oh shut up!! this is a general comment
@manojkumarp14 жыл бұрын
And......I have short straight dark hair....now what?
@raymondderrick76322 жыл бұрын
Beautiful lady how are you doing?
@geofferypmeyers4 жыл бұрын
Perfect, I’ve lost 80 pounds, I have braces, and I have extensions. 🤞🏼
@datingcoachryanpatrick4 жыл бұрын
Sounds like the full package is coming together nicely Sarah! 👍
@geofferypmeyers4 жыл бұрын
Ryan Patrick it’s sad that we have to change all these things about our appearance in order to attract a partner, but if I can change something about myself to improve my life I will. I also don’t want to be forever alone 🥺😂
@amberwren4 жыл бұрын
You're beautiful just as you are. Go you're personal best ✌🏻
@katherinegrace66083 жыл бұрын
It is all LUCK and nothing more. The universe is a random series of accidents.
@hoodbratakajustcass24542 жыл бұрын
I get loads of looks in these super cute red shorts
@annibananni28443 жыл бұрын
Pixie cut. Jaw broken and an implant I have no control over. I’ve never been happier in my life and that energy flows more than when I was 30 and flawless. Usually a big fan, and I’m in healthcare so I get science, but we know so little about the brain that I don’t trust this much at all. FWIW, I’ve never had more compliments in my life than with my pixie cut - confidence is the most attractive. Hands down. Sadly this one leaves me wanting-super surface.
@amberwren4 жыл бұрын
Thanks for doing the Livestream, appreciate you doing that. Hope to be there with my sunglasses on 😎🤩
@datingcoachryanpatrick4 жыл бұрын
Can't wait to rock that Livestream out! 🤙🏼
@amberwren4 жыл бұрын
@@datingcoachryanpatrick woooh! 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
@nikkiblack11834 жыл бұрын
Ryan, you are gift. A body language video with psychology behind it would be amazing
@thomtevungpi22944 жыл бұрын
What about girls with glasses? Are guys less attracted to them?
@autumngrace39153 жыл бұрын
I feel like something like that 100% depends on the guy
@jaythenihilist46893 жыл бұрын
No
@bobross11822 жыл бұрын
Us men got wiserr, we don`t need to be disrespected by narcissistic females, we DO NOT NEED YOU. “Only women, children and dogs are loved unconditionally. A man is only loved under the condition that he provides something.” - Chris Rock
@sarahc5614 жыл бұрын
The eye contact tip is genius!!
@marinaa40603 жыл бұрын
Yessss
@HerLoveJourneyy3 жыл бұрын
Some of these techniques will work so well and so quickly, it’ll almost feel like you have too much power!
@Sharonamy2 жыл бұрын
'clothing and proper posture..' *realises im sitting like smiegel again straightening my back right away* xD
@rosieharborne4 жыл бұрын
I made incredible eye contact with a guy but didnt know how to initiate conversation?
@mjr37774 жыл бұрын
Hi Ryan, I'm a new subscriber and your new fan.. I watch your videos for almost a month now. I love all the content of your video! You nailed it man!!
@DrJenTattoo4 жыл бұрын
Ryan, I really enjoy watching your videos. I had one of the truck drivers at my job yesterday say to me "I think it's adorable when you get annoyed." I guess that's why he always likes to annoy me.
@raymondderrick76322 жыл бұрын
Beautiful lady how are you doing?
@pearlgeneste18904 жыл бұрын
You are so totally funny in this video! The teeth, the sun glasses thing... l adored!
@LeonSKennedy20023 жыл бұрын
I’m just a few seconds into the video and not sure yet if this is what I’m looking for, I just started looking for people to date and have no idea how I let people passing me by on the streets know I’m interested. But reading through the comments I love how you seem to take your time to take care of the concerns of your viewers, which is really wholesome!
@coreyanderson74242 жыл бұрын
I think it's discouraging to know that for whatever reason, men just aren't attracted to me. At least, not around here. When I go to other states, or areas, I seem to attract them way more. But here, in Southern Oregon, it's impossible. I never got asked out. I ended up with a evil Sociopath because I settled when men were just too hard to attract. I saw other women who weren't attractive, per se, who attracted men. I am nice and friendly, honest (but not rude or inappropriate, etc), patient, and I believe in being kind. I also like to laugh and have a sense of humor. I don't tell mean jokes or obnoxious stuff. I have good hygiene. I have been told that I am beautiful physically by many people even women. But for whatever reason men just don't like me.
@qwertyjeffers Жыл бұрын
Times have changed unfortunately, but I'm definitely that guy that doesn't look. it's not they don't find you attractive, they are actually giving you respect because let's be honest, for a men to just stare at a girl can get you into a lot of trouble in 2022.
@arjieguangco93464 жыл бұрын
Your wife is blessed to have you in her life! And same goes around for sure. The most realistic and straightforward advice i've heard. Thank you for this video 😊 Good luck and more vidoes! 😂
@jacquelinef71744 жыл бұрын
Men seem to love the color YELLOW. Their eyes seems to be drawn to it more than red, imo 💛💛💛
@cunhokim72994 жыл бұрын
cant wait for the next week post :P
@datingcoachryanpatrick4 жыл бұрын
Me neither Cunho! 🙌🏼
@lindseyfarrow14784 жыл бұрын
It will be similar to Stepford Wives, we'll all be wearing red with long dark straight hair and then the blokes will probably go off with short haired blondes or curly haired red heads as they won't be able to tell us apart
@donnalangley1174 жыл бұрын
Lol great answer... Loved it.
@raymondderrick76322 жыл бұрын
@@donnalangley117 Beautiful lady how are you doing?
@cookiesarelikecream2 жыл бұрын
You do realize there’s different races out there besides whiten people right? A black woman with dark hair looks nothing like an Asian woman with dark hair and she will look nothing like a white woman with dark hair. Having dark hair and occasionally wearing red lipstick isn’t going to make you a clone of someone else.
@lindseyfarrow14782 жыл бұрын
@@cookiesarelikecream My comment wasn't meant to be serious and of course I know there are different races 🙄
@cookiesarelikecream2 жыл бұрын
@@lindseyfarrow1478 my bad then I misinterpreted
@lorienymmaglangit98944 жыл бұрын
Love this so much Ryan thanks sharing I really love science and psycology so this me help so much
@freespirit38184 жыл бұрын
Love the tip about the sun glasses. I live in Spain so should be easy to practice as we have many sun days.
@naram82824 жыл бұрын
That was a clean joke Ryan btw🙂 Love your content 😃 Stay fantastic !!!
@datingcoachryanpatrick4 жыл бұрын
You rock Narine! Thank you so much! 🙂
@rexyfatandsexy76173 жыл бұрын
I love how respectful you are 💝
@amberwren4 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂 I'm 55 this year, with very curly hair, highly sensitive, quirky, lost some back teeth from an accident, with specs, so... I should go grab my Nun's habit then? LOL I do like wearing the colour red & am very opinionated. There's something! 😉 (honestly I've not had issues attracting guys, just need help choosing the right one!). Being an ambivert makes it a lil tricky. I like my own company but love being with a partner too. If I had confidence before watching this, God help me now! Hahaha (truely, as a Christian woman, I'm ok, my faith comes first and it will for the right guy, if he exists, too ☺️). My blind friends like me & my voice {that's not a joke} and I love my career in sharing the Gospel and teaching Christian Meditation online, which gives a lot of love to so many and fills my heart with joy. That's pretty great 😍🥰
@datingcoachryanpatrick4 жыл бұрын
LOL nun's habit! You certainly sound like you're well-grounded and guided by the best energy around, so as long as you listen to it, the boys be linin' up! 🕺🏼🕺🏼🕺🏼😄
@amberwren4 жыл бұрын
@@datingcoachryanpatrick 💃Yup! Thanks Ryan ☺️✨ Bless 🙏🏻🕊️
@amberwren4 жыл бұрын
@@dorothykozlowski5124 we must know different Nuns. The Christian's I know are beautiful people. I assess people by character, integrity, and merit. I don't discriminate based on a type or group of people. I'm a Christian minister. We're human. So we're not perfect. Jesus is. Please show respect for everyone here and yourself ✌🏻🕊️ God bless
@amberwren4 жыл бұрын
@@dorothykozlowski5124 I'm sorry you're hurting. I am disabled too but we still have purpose. It's the anniversary of my Mum's birthday today, she died just over a year ago. Grief hurts. Grieve and heal knowing you're not alone. I'll pray for your peace of spirit. Take good self care
@sibzism4 жыл бұрын
I LOVE your channel!! ❤❤🙏🏾 thank you 😊 its actually really unique as well!
@ShinyOctopus Жыл бұрын
TYSM 😍😍🥰🥰
@hayaamir35383 жыл бұрын
Sir please help I love a guy but he has already a girlfriend 😭😭😭😭
@sunnycieli4 жыл бұрын
The right person will appreciate a woman’s hot messy curls when he realises that it’s real with her authentic personality to boot! All good points besides that survey you recalled ;) - Don’t change to attract anyone. Be yourself and the right person will come. Peace love and light.
@VioletEMeyer4 жыл бұрын
the best thing about the sunglasses is that if a guy is staring at you, you can tell right away.
@datingcoachryanpatrick4 жыл бұрын
Yup yup
@christinewatson19893 жыл бұрын
This is very interesting. I hate styling my natural hair and heat damaging it so I like to wear a variety of wigs. I've found that when I wear the longer, straight dark ones I get WAYYYY more looks and comments from rando men.
@ritvikkorrapati56673 жыл бұрын
I can’t wait to pull new guys
@roxanekeeley-monet93524 жыл бұрын
Yes please Ryan! I'd love a more comprehensive Body Language Video. Thank you. Roxy -UK
@rulezer0withak4 жыл бұрын
*Don't judge me please*I know I look like a "dumb blonde"...it's not difficult to gain attention visually from most men...but I think it surprises guys when they find out i'm smart, funny, have a good job and am independent. Is this ever a turn off for guys? I have questioned it a few times after things fizzle out with a guy. I know you'll say if this is happening he's not for me- which is true...but how does a woman display these attributes without coming across like they don't want or need a man in her life?
@Be1smaht3 жыл бұрын
I’m a curly short gurl....we coming for you. Hahaha I’m kidding
@lieunguyen93104 жыл бұрын
I’m enjoy watching your video, you’re really funny Ryan . I’m appreciated you being here on you tube.
@raymondderrick76322 жыл бұрын
Beautiful lady how are you doing?
@gracemwangi80752 жыл бұрын
OMG! Your advice is priceless. I love all your videos..Keep it up please..
@melnev4 жыл бұрын
I was really enjoying your videos until you made the comment about straight, long, dark hair. I’d love to read this survey you speak of and see how inaccurate its “science” is. Quite frankly, I wouldn’t want to attract a man by straightening my hair in an effort to please him. I’ve done this in the past, and only got attention from men I wasn’t interested in or those who were shallow - I mean, if they really care that much about your hair being silky smooth, tell them to look elsewhere as there are plenty of men who would be more than happy to tell you to leave your hair as is. I should also add that when I stopped straightening my hair and started wearing my hair naturally, I got so many comments from people saying things like, “omg, you straighten your hair? For what? I LOVE your curls, you look better with curly hair.” And these comments came from both men and women. Of course, some people inevitably prefer straight hair, but that doesn’t mean you have to change your hair to find the man “you deserve”. I’m really not even sure where you were going with the straight hair comment. Lol. Do what makes you happy ladies, and good thing the natural hair movement is in full effect. Burning your hair with tools to be someone you’re not is not worth the time or effort! I can tell you first hand! You will actually attract genuine people the more genuine you are with your true self. It’s about what you radiate from within and if you’re sitting there hating your natural hair and straightening it for hours on end, you should know that you’re not going to find someone who can love you the way you want them to because you don’t love or respect yourself. Sure, I still straighten my hair because I get bored, but not to the the effect of how much I used to because it isn’t worth it to me. Do what makes you happy and feel most confident. Confidence is key.
@carmieintegrativenutrition95912 жыл бұрын
My problem is not attracting men, I can't seem to be attracted to men because they're not up to my standards of honest truth sincerity and free spirited
@charlottebronze67214 жыл бұрын
Yes! make a body language video!
@datingcoachryanpatrick4 жыл бұрын
Roger that! 👍
@linamike1724 жыл бұрын
RED is my boyfriend's favorite color I have an hourglass figure I have long hair WOW I'm blessed 😇
@ashleyjohnson99713 жыл бұрын
You just made my day by saying this looks really trippy 😂😂 but in all seriousness I am going to use the sunglasses trick because I need to work on eye contact I struggled with that for a while
@gildastigliano79364 жыл бұрын
my EUM is colorblind, sadly...red can't work---NEXT step!
@lovelee93154 жыл бұрын
Yes.. we want that video
@blackpinkbtstreasure3 жыл бұрын
Just saw your videos. I love it! Thank you!
@wtovell2514 жыл бұрын
Yes, please do a body language video...about men and women's body language. Thank you so much :)
@Mitsubachicats3 жыл бұрын
In case you are still wanting to know if a body language video is wanted: YES, please. Or, please let me know the title of same. Thanks so much. 🍯🐝🐈⬛🐈
@tiffanyriley3541 Жыл бұрын
I’m going to wear my hair naturally the way it is! Kinky, curly Afro puff. Idc about what men think. I am me.
@TeutonicTribe5 ай бұрын
“I don’t care what men think.” … watches all the ‘how to attract men’ vids…
@vickiweber47184 жыл бұрын
I can never get my hair stick straight plus I prefer the red I color it.
@datingcoachryanpatrick4 жыл бұрын
Rock that red hair, Vicki! That's the magic color of attraction after all! 😄
@mmc42144 жыл бұрын
I was born a Ginger (red hair) but am finding men do not appreciate it like I think they could or should. It seems fake red hair is more popular. Kinda sad for us, we are the real deal.
@raymondderrick76322 жыл бұрын
Beautiful lady how are you doing?
@6maria942 жыл бұрын
Lol I wanted to wear a red shirt at a first date last time and I went with something else so that he didn't find me too provocative 😂 Failed at #1
@bnb05102 жыл бұрын
Great! I hate wearing red!
@kayde51042 жыл бұрын
I don’t even try any of these things except to have my hair grow longer it’s short but I’ve been managing it well enough to make it progress and get better cause I felt as if it needed a serious upgrade which is working out well cause it’s in a healing process thanks to Cantu’s leave in conditioner argan oil look women just enjoy the single life n as for me obviously I love getting to know guys I just never press the I love u button unless we both clicked rlly well in the meantime imma go find sum Cheetos later ya’ll T.T
@isoldel.4 жыл бұрын
Haha, omg the liner lisp is a true struggle!
@datingcoachryanpatrick4 жыл бұрын
Been a year and I still can't get my speech right LOL with them in! Fortunately, we're now on the retainer version of the aligners, and you wear those only during sleep hours. The new aligners they have are 100% during sleep, so my wife and I missed that boat! That would have saved me a little embarrassment 😂😂
@yolandapai-ge75214 жыл бұрын
Bravo! Even though you’re giving away Major Secrets it will still require a charismatic dainty objective to topple that list. 😅 I am adopting this list as my New 2020 outline. Great content this was Superb! 😎😘
@datingcoachryanpatrick4 жыл бұрын
Thanks very much Yolanda! Yes, both science and psychology have a powerful voice (not to mention the numbers!) when it comes to how attraction really works 😁
@raymondderrick76322 жыл бұрын
Beautiful lady how are you doing?
@normaramirez8864 жыл бұрын
Is it possible to intimidate men by being to confident?
@nunya2573 жыл бұрын
Great advice about the sunglasses! It’s all good advice.
@joyceunderwood75344 жыл бұрын
Good job, Ryan
@joshbraithers68462 жыл бұрын
Thanks! this really helped me!
@jocelynnmpelaez79134 жыл бұрын
Definitely do the body language video. By the way great job ], great teacher
@npkrn67644 жыл бұрын
In my 40s I too had to fix my smile again. I opted for actual braces BUT they were lingual braces (attached behind teeth). I had them on for two years and no one knew (unless I told them) and I consider it some of the best $$$ I ever spent! I looked at Smile Direct and Invisalign, but no way I could handle the not drinking any liquids without taking it out! I'm always sipping tea all day. Plus...people CAN see those supposedly "invisible" devices.
@starqueenlotus37552 жыл бұрын
Oh god. I better be myself than manipulate any man to make him attract to me
@tayotaewalred29424 жыл бұрын
Your No, No Text had me laughing hard, it was great, thanks goodness i have never used any.of your No, Nos, however, i am a bit chatting from time to time. Love your posts, Wado, Ryan.
@raymondderrick76322 жыл бұрын
Beautiful lady how are you doing?
@ludwigvanbeethoven38963 жыл бұрын
Binge watching 10 videos of Ryan landed me here😃
@lamiaalb4 жыл бұрын
I think we should always try different styles, so we can surprise a man
@mayahnussbaum4 жыл бұрын
aha! my hair is three feet long, straight, and black
@datingcoachryanpatrick4 жыл бұрын
Dream-like according to the men in these surveys! 😄
@UniversoSpiritualUnido3 жыл бұрын
so funny loved the ad I'm getting smile
@bethnewhart15784 жыл бұрын
Please do a video on where I can meet guys! Exclude dating apps and bars.
@laragardner16754 жыл бұрын
Yes, detailed body language video
@wildblackberry91644 жыл бұрын
Thanks Ryan, absolutely do a video on body language! :)