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9 Things A Sociopath Would Say

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Psych2Go

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Have you ever talked to a sociopath? According to the Fifth Edition of the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders (or DSM-5), sociopathy is a category of antisocial personality disorder. A sociopath is someone with interior, social, and pathological impairments to their personality. Sociopaths will say anything to get their way, even if that means bending the truth and manipulation. Do you suspect you may be dealing with a sociopath right now? In this video, we present to you some of the things a sociopath would say to help you understand what really goes through their minds.
As a disclaimer, we want to note that these phrases alone don’t define a sociopath. Language is just a small piece of a larger puzzle. In other words, you may hear a friend or partner use phrases from this list, but that doesn’t necessarily make him or her a sociopath.
Writer: Tristan Reed
Script Manager: Kelly Soong
VO: Lily Hu
Animator: Zuzia
KZfaq Manager: Cindy Cheong
American Psychiatric Association: Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders: Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders, Fifth Edition. Arlington, VA: American Psychiatric Association, 2013.
Eddy, B. (2018). How to Spot a Sociopath in 3 Steps. Psychology Today.
Hare R. D. (1993). Without Conscience: The Disturbing World of the Psychopaths Among Us. New York, NY: Guilford Press
Johnson, S. A. (2019). Understanding the violent personality: antisocial personality disorder, psychopathy & sociopathy. Forensic Research & Criminology International Journal, 7(2), 76-88.
Lilienfeld S. et al. (2014). Correlates of psychopathic personality traits in everyday life: results from a large community survey. Frontiers in Psychology, 5, 740.
Perry, C. (2015). The ‘dark traits’ of sociopathic leaders. Australian Universities’ Review, 51(1), 17-25.

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@solarwolf678
@solarwolf678 3 жыл бұрын
"A sociopath would say anything to get their way, even bending the truth" So pretty much every among us player I seen
@FutureFendiFsnista
@FutureFendiFsnista 3 жыл бұрын
Lmao 😂😂😂😂😂
@fakedamien
@fakedamien 3 жыл бұрын
OH SHI-
@Eg-yf3lu
@Eg-yf3lu 3 жыл бұрын
Thats Disguise toast then
@calzoone_
@calzoone_ 3 жыл бұрын
thats corpse lol
@akitosloverreal7266
@akitosloverreal7266 3 жыл бұрын
Y u p -
@serpentgoat6875
@serpentgoat6875 3 жыл бұрын
This made me curious: how would a relationship between two sociopaths look like?
@gabrielarocha492
@gabrielarocha492 3 жыл бұрын
Would it even come to exist? From what I got, sociopaths tend to control their partners in order to create an hierarchy based on shame/guilt... I think it doesn't seem too attractive for a sociopath to have an "equal" fighting for space.
@seth9577
@seth9577 3 жыл бұрын
@@gabrielarocha492 there are politics who are couple. I think that would be fun
@satanswife2546
@satanswife2546 3 жыл бұрын
I sometimes wonder that too, I don't think i ever met sociopath couple
@Desolationist
@Desolationist 3 жыл бұрын
Hahahaha.. hell. (Learned how to not be so sociopathic, and what to look out for.)
@gnarthdarkanen7464
@gnarthdarkanen7464 3 жыл бұрын
Watch a few episodes of House, particularly just after his original team were being replaced... There's a character who he nicknames "Cutt-throat Bitch". She's so nicknamed in the sub-text of the show, because she's actually psychologically his equal... SO to answer your question, it would likely resemble "Gregory House & Cutt-throat Bitch... Power Couple"... ...and me steering WELL clear of that shrapnel! Good luck, everybody else! ;o)
@differentcloth2829
@differentcloth2829 3 жыл бұрын
It's weird how everyones ex is a sociopath.
@aoi69420
@aoi69420 3 жыл бұрын
wait people have ex's?
@apathique6000
@apathique6000 3 жыл бұрын
if everyone’s ex is a sociopath, and if you have an ex, you’re technically a sociopath to someone
@pescuezoee
@pescuezoee 3 жыл бұрын
@@aoi69420 sadly, yEs
@vaishnavikatakdhond2337
@vaishnavikatakdhond2337 3 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂
@MisterJohnDoe
@MisterJohnDoe 3 жыл бұрын
Of course that’s what they would say.
@NightReaper58
@NightReaper58 3 жыл бұрын
Being a sociopath means not being able to empathise with others- it does NOT make us unfeeling monsters who can't feel pain. But with how the media portrays us- no one believes us and thinks of us as abusive monsters.
@Adam-du8be
@Adam-du8be 3 жыл бұрын
But i am an abusive monster wot
@masuooo4452
@masuooo4452 3 жыл бұрын
And sociopath isnt even a medical term anymore
@happydragon1611
@happydragon1611 3 жыл бұрын
Sometimes I'm accidently a Sociopath
@felixmaxwell2279
@felixmaxwell2279 3 жыл бұрын
@@happydragon1611 Everyone has their moments, but sociopathy is a developed personality disorder and not an "accidental" behavior sometimes.
@deynish97
@deynish97 3 жыл бұрын
As someone with ASPD (what some would label sociopathy), I've never said any of these phrases to anyone. "Sociopathy" is when certain emotions are lacking or muted, having other emotions that may be percieved as "warped" or "unhealthy", and not every "sociopath" is narcissistic. It doesn't mean that we are monsters, but that's all the media makes us out to be, something to be vilified and scared of. I'm super over being portrayed like this. It means that as soon as I feel close enough to someone to divulge my diagnosis, all of a sudden they think I've just been manipulating them, or that I want something from them. And it's like no, what I wanted was human companionship, that's literally the only thing I wanted. It doesn't matter what I say at that point though because obviously I'll say anything to make them stay, and then I'm alone again. Finding people who accept me for all of who I am is difficult, especially when I know that I can sometimes (okay a lot of times) be a difficult person to be around, it's such a draining process that sometimes I feel it isn't worth it anymore. (Sorry about the rant, I guess I just needed to vent.)
@vAqeii
@vAqeii 3 жыл бұрын
Thing 1: They would tell you that they don’t care that your Minecraft pet has died
@cass1099
@cass1099 3 жыл бұрын
NOT BOK BOK THE WOLF!!!!
@yunishinoya9935
@yunishinoya9935 3 жыл бұрын
Put the on the right sock then the right shoe rather than socks than shoes
@Eireguy_
@Eireguy_ 3 жыл бұрын
Thats A Pychopath silly
@thursdayplurbonym-boyporri8921
@thursdayplurbonym-boyporri8921 3 жыл бұрын
69th like ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)
@yunishinoya9935
@yunishinoya9935 3 жыл бұрын
@@thursdayplurbonym-boyporri8921 love your pfp
@thelegitpotato1248
@thelegitpotato1248 3 жыл бұрын
No. 2: You’re the most amazing person I’ve ever met. Me who just made a minute - long video for my sad friend about how awesome they are: *breathing intensifies*
@rydohg
@rydohg 3 жыл бұрын
that's really sweet and not sociopathic because you meant it.
@cats11111
@cats11111 3 жыл бұрын
@@rydohg your right :D
@Ada-on8yy
@Ada-on8yy 3 жыл бұрын
Nah, if you have antisocial personality disorder, and if you weren't getting treatment, you wouldn't even believe you were a sociopath.
@tenshiangelina
@tenshiangelina 3 жыл бұрын
It's a friend going through a bad moment, you are showing empathy, something sociopaths don't know. Problem is when this sounds exaggerated or when they just met you.
@thelegitpotato1248
@thelegitpotato1248 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks guys
@su0gamer815
@su0gamer815 3 жыл бұрын
Fun fact: there are also sociopaths that aren't assholes
@geardog3665
@geardog3665 3 жыл бұрын
True
@nerothewateruser8030
@nerothewateruser8030 3 жыл бұрын
Good luck convincing the media about it tho :l
@imtootired7623
@imtootired7623 3 жыл бұрын
Wait- HOW? Like I'm genuinely asking
@r3nnn._
@r3nnn._ 3 жыл бұрын
yea, i have some sociopathic traits and can’t feel empathy but i still care about things
@crazydazie4437
@crazydazie4437 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you
@blackninjagaming6151
@blackninjagaming6151 3 жыл бұрын
So your telling me sociopaths have cute little leaves on their heads? *SARCASM*
@iforgoree
@iforgoree 3 жыл бұрын
One of my friends have a cute little leaf on their head, they're a sociopath 😱 /s Edit: i made a spelling mistake
@blackninjagaming6151
@blackninjagaming6151 3 жыл бұрын
@@iforgoree wait are you fr?
@slecna.rottrova
@slecna.rottrova 3 жыл бұрын
pikmin?!
@Not_blue_000
@Not_blue_000 3 жыл бұрын
🌱
@shibeinugamingmythicalcrea6439
@shibeinugamingmythicalcrea6439 3 жыл бұрын
@@iforgoree my friend has a potato on their head 🥔
@galaxionart9338
@galaxionart9338 3 жыл бұрын
Psych2Go: Just because someone in your life say these things doesn’t mean they’re a sociopath! Comments: My friend says this a lot time to cut contact lol
@Psych2go
@Psych2go 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks for noticing the disclaimer!
@user-lv6hl7ml2r
@user-lv6hl7ml2r 3 жыл бұрын
@@Psych2go Yess finnaly my first ever reply on a youtuber!!
@rfitzcarter2477
@rfitzcarter2477 3 жыл бұрын
@Galaxion Art There was a disclaimer that it doesn't mean that everyone who says these things are a sociopath! Or were you too much in a hurry to find fault and devalue the maker of the video to even hear her say it in the video and also to read it in the Disclaimer under the video? You missed both..........that says a lot about you
@applevori
@applevori 3 жыл бұрын
@@rfitzcarter2477 Galaxion Art noticed it. He just made an allusion about the people who doesn't notice it and keep tginking the people around them may be sociopaths.
@user-tf3eq5bk6g
@user-tf3eq5bk6g Жыл бұрын
If they are cutting contact with you to avoid having an important conversation or to acknowledge your feelings it's so they don't have to take responsibility and it's called ghosting or gaslighting. If it's more persistent it's called stonewalling and it's a form of psychological manipulation and mental and emotional abuse and gaslighting is done to confuse or cause someone to doubt their own sense of reality. Narcissists and psychopaths do this.
@MoPoppins
@MoPoppins 3 жыл бұрын
9 things a sociopath might say: 1) “No one is ever going to love you the way I do.” 2) “You’re the most amazing person I’ve ever met.” 3) “Don’t be so sensitive.” 4) “You’ll never survive without me.” 5) “You make me a better person.” 6) “You’re the only one who understands me.” 7) “You’re so needy.” 8) “I don’t have time for this.” 9) “You owe me.”
@clarisun
@clarisun 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you! :)
@brookigutz
@brookigutz 3 жыл бұрын
I am a sociopath lol. I told my ex he was the most amazing person i ever met and stuff. I- LMAO I AM ONE-
@josebuenrostro5639
@josebuenrostro5639 3 жыл бұрын
The last one Is the most dangerous... Because he thinks "persons aré just objects that can breath" :/
@faradillahas8199
@faradillahas8199 3 жыл бұрын
No. 8 Always hurts me a lot >:"(
@faradillahas8199
@faradillahas8199 3 жыл бұрын
Boi: *giving hope, sweet talks, and all Also him: "me? Giving false hope? Don't be so sensitive" >:"(
@runko4793
@runko4793 3 жыл бұрын
9: you owe me So literally every anime character in the world
@lanoface6049
@lanoface6049 3 жыл бұрын
I'm an anime character?
@runko4793
@runko4793 3 жыл бұрын
@@lanoface6049 :0
@thechillonee5533
@thechillonee5533 3 жыл бұрын
Lmao
@leiv1448
@leiv1448 3 жыл бұрын
You owe me a fall, Sherlock.
@vwerlg9954
@vwerlg9954 3 жыл бұрын
@@lanoface6049 but not the main character
@omransaeed1988
@omransaeed1988 3 жыл бұрын
3 Things A Sociopath Would Say: - I use Discord light theme. - Twitter is a good app. - Fortnite is better than Minecraft.
@AlfizzlFoShizzl
@AlfizzlFoShizzl 3 жыл бұрын
No, I don't have friends to have a discord with, I hate most everything on twitter, and Fortnight is boring where as Minecraft is whatever I want it to be.
@The145Hunter
@The145Hunter 3 жыл бұрын
3 things a clown would do - use a hytale pfp - edit his comment - use false accusations to create a "funny" comment
@The145Hunter
@The145Hunter 3 жыл бұрын
@@stars_FLAC Who?
@theworldsmostinterestingma7592
@theworldsmostinterestingma7592 3 жыл бұрын
Foh lol minecraft sucks.
@woot3478
@woot3478 3 жыл бұрын
*psychopath
@RoseyStoleYourToast
@RoseyStoleYourToast 3 жыл бұрын
Fun fact: You have walked past a serial killer at least once.
@melon1590
@melon1590 3 жыл бұрын
I don't know if that's a fun fact 🤔
@GaySatanicClowns
@GaySatanicClowns 3 жыл бұрын
Mirrors are everywhere, bro.
@dominicrkent
@dominicrkent 3 жыл бұрын
@@that_weeb4509 cringe af
@Papaya.girly481
@Papaya.girly481 3 жыл бұрын
Everyday in the mirror.....i mean wut.
@TX20
@TX20 3 жыл бұрын
Yay, because getting stabbed is fun...
@channelforthingsimquestion8333
@channelforthingsimquestion8333 3 жыл бұрын
I’m a sociopath, and I’m fully aware of that. Trust me on one thing, I wouldn’t willingly choose to be a sociopath. I hate when anyone labels sociopaths as evil or terrible people. Like, I never willingly chose to be like this. Just am. And yeah, I realize it can be fixed (I think? Probably?).
@danieltracz1800
@danieltracz1800 3 жыл бұрын
Actually we are not genticly created like psychopaths,but we created a self defense mechanism who allows us to live in this world otherwise i would be dead,its preatty confusing to meet same person,im not diagnosed as one but i was emotionally abused and psychologist says that you have lots of those beahaviors,but as i said thats my self defense mechanism
@badkarma2377
@badkarma2377 3 жыл бұрын
exactly! I don't want to act like i do it just happens! Glad somone agrees with me
@danieltracz1800
@danieltracz1800 3 жыл бұрын
@@badkarma2377 its kinda hipocrissy beacause its hapened to us beacause of them.
@Soaxee
@Soaxee 3 жыл бұрын
Same thing with me
@psychicbyinternet
@psychicbyinternet 3 жыл бұрын
Does this "I didn't choose this" thing come off as gaslighting to anyone else? Like, your victims didn't choose to be hurt by you, either.
@crossingpaths
@crossingpaths 3 жыл бұрын
These videos have helped me heal more than all the years I've spent in therapy. My ex is a narcissistic sociopath. And a seriously dangerous one. I'm so grateful for videos like these that I can put a name to my experience. It helps me heal knowing there's a term and I that I wasn't crazy, cause he sure made me feel like I was.
@aidentoons
@aidentoons 3 жыл бұрын
You should look at these instagram.com/p/COZItyHJyfV/ instagram.com/p/COqcsLDjv2R/ instagram.com/p/CPGMTdMjZo2/ kzfaq.info/get/bejne/i7GnnaeT0Mrde2Q.html instagram.com/p/CMZW6a4FHZ5/
@aleksasltu5656
@aleksasltu5656 3 жыл бұрын
That's too bad
@artscraftsgaming7169
@artscraftsgaming7169 3 жыл бұрын
My father is one, and my mom follows him because she grew up with physical abuse and can’t see the mental, she thinks since there is barely any arguing and how quiet our family is that there is no problem and my older sister and I are the ones pointing fingers when there isn’t anything there. (My older sister and I are the only ones who see the mental abuse.)
@sianmom878
@sianmom878 2 жыл бұрын
I understand you very well. I just separated myself from person like that
@lenorjohnson319
@lenorjohnson319 9 ай бұрын
That's the wrost a narcissist socipath
@Vaelistyne
@Vaelistyne 3 жыл бұрын
As someone with ASPD, I can relate to a lot of these things but sometimes people with ASPD often don't realize what their doing Is wrong and manipulative. Yes, it's actually possible to accidentally gaslight someone or not realize when you're being insensitive. I don't like how we're represented in this video because it's a lot more than just negative traits. We're not entirely bad people and we can't help this. We can just try and learn from mistakes. I've embarrassingly done all of these and it's not on purpose. When I was younger I was fully unaware of how harsh and insensitive I was being till people pointed it out and was later diagnosed with ASPD. My rude humor and lack of self awareness is where my ASPD plays a role that isn't exactly fun when trying to make friends who don't understand why you're like this. Because of my ASPD, my whole life has been a horrible rollercoaster trying to make friends and understand how others feel. I have yet to go through therapy for this and I find it hard to maintain even relationships especially since I can't hold friendships.
@watertank505
@watertank505 3 жыл бұрын
honestly man i feel bad for ya hope u get better with time take care and donr give up dude
@kamthefemboi
@kamthefemboi 3 жыл бұрын
*hugs you* I feel really bad for you and if possible I would love to be your friend 😄
@Vaelistyne
@Vaelistyne 3 жыл бұрын
@@kamthefemboi Aw, that's so sweet. I can get really mean sometimes though and my humor really isn't the best thing to be around. If you wanna talk though, I'm free a majority of my time. Aeryynn.n#5327 is my Kord.
@deynish97
@deynish97 3 жыл бұрын
I have ASPD as well and while I've never said any of the above phrases I have definitely been told that I can be insensitive (brutally honest and sometimes unfeeling is absolutely how some would have described me when I was younger), and same with the manipulation. When I was younger I didn't realize what I was doing could be percieved as "mean", even now when I'm older (and go to therapy) I still have a hard time differentiating between "right and wrong". If you're looking for a friend who will understand you completely and won't judge you for being who you are, I certain need more friends too. Let me know how I can contact you, if you're interested. I'd absolutely be willing to talk.
@reapvkz1
@reapvkz1 3 жыл бұрын
@@deynish97 Being self-aware already gives us an advantage. I am a Sociopath with some Psychopath and Narc patterns, but being aware helps me a lot.
@zoiknliqht8520
@zoiknliqht8520 3 жыл бұрын
*me looking for something that my parents would say*
@Endmoonyearsago
@Endmoonyearsago 3 жыл бұрын
Lol
@Nixzria
@Nixzria 3 жыл бұрын
that hit different,,
@heyyy7713
@heyyy7713 3 жыл бұрын
Lmaoooo sammeeee 🤣🤣😭🤣
@Me-rb8cl
@Me-rb8cl 3 жыл бұрын
Literally my mom
@v1s54l8
@v1s54l8 3 жыл бұрын
0_0
@QuietlyMagnetic
@QuietlyMagnetic 3 жыл бұрын
"It even has a watermark" ― Patrick Bateman Or was he a psychopath?
@gegeenblink
@gegeenblink 3 жыл бұрын
He's the American Psycho. He said it himself :p
@livtheolive5718
@livtheolive5718 3 жыл бұрын
I think he really was a psychopath but we don’t know if all of his murders were real. I myself think they aren’t realistic at all
@whenthewhen3686
@whenthewhen3686 3 жыл бұрын
Patrick Bateman was psychotic, not psychopathic
@livtheolive5718
@livtheolive5718 3 жыл бұрын
@@whenthewhen3686 probably both
@Elozero250
@Elozero250 3 жыл бұрын
I got to return some videotapes
@librabearxox7470
@librabearxox7470 3 жыл бұрын
You forgot "I'm not a phycopath, I'm a sociopath, they're different."
@felixmaxwell2279
@felixmaxwell2279 3 жыл бұрын
A psychopath is someone who inherits the disorder genetically and has more severe symptoms, a sociopath is someone who develops their disorder due to severe psychological trauma.
@BumbleBliss
@BumbleBliss 3 жыл бұрын
@@felixmaxwell2279 Do they not do the same thing? Hurt people and not being able to feel empathy towards it? As well as not caring to care? 🤷🏾‍♀️
@felixmaxwell2279
@felixmaxwell2279 3 жыл бұрын
@@BumbleBlissWith every mental illness or disorder there are branches of it that include different types of symptoms that all sit under the same diagnostic umbrella. Psychopaths inherit ASPD genetically, and are biology incapable of experiencing regular love along with having an even harder time experiencing what we know as empathy or remorse. They're often harder to treat because they don't easily recognize that they are different, or that their disorder is any kind of problem. A sociopath inherits the disorder from extreme psychological trauma and can experience love the exact same as an individual without ASPD. They have an easier time than psychopaths when it comes to empathy and remorse, and are more likely to figure out due to their surroundings that there is something "wrong with them." Since psychopaths have their symptoms more severe, a charismatic personality shields their actual personality as it is their only way of successfully interacting with others. But with sociopaths, they often have to teach themselves how to "behave like a normal person" since that charismatic personality does not come as second nature to them, that's why learning psychology is of such benefit to people with ASPD. So no, they're not the same. Even if people refuse to acknowledge people who have ASPD as people with feelings, I won't stop defending the disorder and correcting misinformation.
@leiv1448
@leiv1448 3 жыл бұрын
*I am not a psychopath, I am a sociopath. Do your research.*
@felixmaxwell2279
@felixmaxwell2279 3 жыл бұрын
@@leiv1448 Yea if you click in the replies I decided to take the time to educate them, since this disorder effects me and it hurts to see that no one cares to acknowledge us as regular human beings
@aishwaryasrivastava5751
@aishwaryasrivastava5751 3 жыл бұрын
Whenever I doubted my sociopath ex boyfriend's intentions he said to me - "you overthink a lot".
@chelseamiracle128
@chelseamiracle128 3 жыл бұрын
Heard this very early on. lol now I know it's because I seemed to think things through much more thoroughly than he was used to, and he was afraid I would figure him out.
@lenny7773
@lenny7773 2 жыл бұрын
Nothing is ever your fault, is it?
@justkimmying
@justkimmying 3 жыл бұрын
my ex, dating him for 10 months gave me severe anxiety for a year A sociopath is like a leech who will suck the life out of you.
@jennyl7422
@jennyl7422 3 жыл бұрын
Yes so true.. Ive been with my ex for 9 years and had 2 relapses during the relationship.. in the last few months I got stuck in freeze mode.. (fight/flight/ freeze) and had no energy to do anything anymore.. he literally sucked all of the life out of me.. so glad I dont live there anymore..
@rechanted1291
@rechanted1291 3 жыл бұрын
..
@moraelity
@moraelity 3 жыл бұрын
Sociopathy is just the mental disorder of not being able to feel certain emotions as it relates to emotional bonds, which they cannot form. They’re not all “leaches”, nor is every sociopath a manipulator (like this entire video suggests)
@v1s54l8
@v1s54l8 3 жыл бұрын
Well...yeah...hope ur doing better now
@AntoZeus
@AntoZeus 3 жыл бұрын
Yeah I had one a Male straight so called friend, always using and always wanting my woman their everywhere that's why I'm back to being a lone wolf to many headers outside even my mailman is bat shite crazy.
@antheia__
@antheia__ 3 жыл бұрын
Lol literally everyone on twitter says "I don't have time for this" when you disagree with them Edit: wow thanks for the likes
@chromberries7329
@chromberries7329 3 жыл бұрын
And the classic, "I have a life to tend to." Sure, buddy. Whatever.
@ethereal5322
@ethereal5322 3 жыл бұрын
I dont have time for this
@beyourself4996
@beyourself4996 3 жыл бұрын
I dint like being in somes those days expect yt.:)
@Ps-qd4us
@Ps-qd4us 3 жыл бұрын
Put them in rice
@zayna4406
@zayna4406 3 жыл бұрын
pack it up nagito komaeda
@iheartcal1519
@iheartcal1519 3 жыл бұрын
"a sociopath will say anything to get their way, even bending the truth" me: *intense breathing and sweating* no
@metra8604
@metra8604 3 жыл бұрын
well everyone wants their way, don't they?
@aidentoons
@aidentoons 3 жыл бұрын
These aren't real anyway instagram.com/p/COZItyHJyfV/ instagram.com/p/COqcsLDjv2R/ instagram.com/p/CPGMTdMjZo2/ kzfaq.info/get/bejne/i7GnnaeT0Mrde2Q.html
@NightReaper58
@NightReaper58 3 жыл бұрын
As a sociopath this is offensive QAQ Not ALL of us want to become serial killers or abusive lovers okay?
@zaharakhan4254
@zaharakhan4254 3 жыл бұрын
Yeah, I was thinking this. I don't have ASPD but clearly using these stereotypes isn't helping those stereotypes? They could've just said manipulative because I can empathize with the fact living with your disorder must have it's difficulties.
@justlevi3203
@justlevi3203 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you! I feel the same way...
@reapvkz1
@reapvkz1 3 жыл бұрын
Yup, another ASPD here. I use some of these phrases, but I highly mean them. I try to be the best boyfriend to my partner since she is the only person I feel empathy for. But as usual, we Sociopaths/Psychopaths are dangerous demons according to the media. This shit is tiring.
@reapvkz1
@reapvkz1 3 жыл бұрын
@SHARIFAH RAINA BINTI SYED AZHAR Moe Then you have a very biased opinion about we ASPD. I hope you were kidding when you said that I should be a killer just because of my disorder. We are individuals and we make choices. The fact that some of us killed, abused or so, doesn't make us all the same.
@horns4265
@horns4265 3 жыл бұрын
@SHARIFAH RAINA BINTI SYED AZHAR Moe dude I don’t care please shut up
@tkill1984
@tkill1984 3 жыл бұрын
This list is like a "manipulation for dummies" instructional video. Anyone can manipulate someone using these extremely common phrases. However, it doesn't mean you have ASPD. Also, if a psychopath/sociopath was manipulating you and they are cogent enough in their reasoning, you probably wouldn't be aware of what they were doing anyway.
@youropinionsareshitandsoar1954
@youropinionsareshitandsoar1954 3 жыл бұрын
True but if you pay attention to their actions instead of their words it would be easy to spot
@tristancarter4618
@tristancarter4618 3 жыл бұрын
@@youropinionsareshitandsoar1954 Maybe in moment you don't realize but if you see this and reflect you will see the trends
@asternii
@asternii 3 жыл бұрын
i feel like it's a kinda covert thing. not all of them manipulate & even when they do it's subtle, sometimes gradual, hard to spot. there are the attention - drawing ones tho .. which seem to be everyone's common ex lmao
@tracygill8653
@tracygill8653 2 жыл бұрын
Anyone can manipulate a person
@pastelpanta2966
@pastelpanta2966 2 жыл бұрын
@@tracygill8653 Yes, sociopaths are just stigmatized
@RecreationalUseOnly
@RecreationalUseOnly 3 жыл бұрын
Some of these phrases are in every Disney movie, romantic movie, and love song ever. And that is scary.
@chromberries7329
@chromberries7329 3 жыл бұрын
Some of these sentences are perfectly fine. For example, "you make me a better person" or even "I don't have time for this." It depends on the context, and even if someone has said all of these things, that doesn't make them a sociopath.
@FruityHachi
@FruityHachi 3 жыл бұрын
it depends on intentions, whether they’re used in a good faith or whether they’re used to manipulate the person to be controlling and possessive of them problem is that most movies portray toxic relationships, which make these phrases dangerous
@MayHugger
@MayHugger 3 жыл бұрын
They're pretty common phrases.
@sophiesleeps12
@sophiesleeps12 3 жыл бұрын
@@chromberries7329 exactly. Or "you're the only one who understands me" or "you're the most amazing person I've ever met"
@arcanawho5636
@arcanawho5636 3 жыл бұрын
1. No one is ever going to love you the way I do 2. You’re the most amazing person I’ve ever met 3. Don’t be so sensitive 4. You’ll never survive without me 5. You make me a better person 6. You’re the only one who understands me 7. You’re so needy 8. I don’t have time for this 9. You owe me
@Function.displayName
@Function.displayName 3 жыл бұрын
"You're the most amazing prson I've ever met." Ive said this as a compliment, not as a way to start controling someone, but, it was a good compliment.
@kaanbasaran9112
@kaanbasaran9112 3 жыл бұрын
nice pp
@Function.displayName
@Function.displayName 3 жыл бұрын
@@kaanbasaran9112 its not a male lmao
@kevincairo8917
@kevincairo8917 3 жыл бұрын
@@Function.displayName they might mean pfp lol
@kaanbasaran9112
@kaanbasaran9112 3 жыл бұрын
@@Function.displayName ı know pp means Profile Picture my boı/gurl
@aidentoons
@aidentoons 3 жыл бұрын
Sociopaths don't have to control people though instagram.com/p/COZItyHJyfV/ instagram.com/p/COqcsLDjv2R/ instagram.com/p/CPGMTdMjZo2/ kzfaq.info/get/bejne/i7GnnaeT0Mrde2Q.html
@AquariumAA69
@AquariumAA69 3 жыл бұрын
Wow I said the second one to my best friend. She has the worse self esteem and doesn't think highly of herself so I told her that she's one of the most amazing person I ever met to try and make her happy and feel better about herself.
@mokari9268
@mokari9268 3 жыл бұрын
If you meant it genuinely its fine, its only sociopathic if you have ulterior motives like feeling like she owes you for you kindness.
@satanswife2546
@satanswife2546 3 жыл бұрын
As they said in the vid, compliment is fine
@PierrePrinc
@PierrePrinc 3 жыл бұрын
How could you
@valflirt1393
@valflirt1393 3 жыл бұрын
was gonna sleep but this was important !
@monishkasingh8614
@monishkasingh8614 3 жыл бұрын
Indeed
@JungkookJeon-he8sk
@JungkookJeon-he8sk 3 жыл бұрын
Same.
@amoluvsu
@amoluvsu 3 жыл бұрын
mhm
@flow4700
@flow4700 3 жыл бұрын
Ahem
@miaestella6572
@miaestella6572 3 жыл бұрын
anyways, have a good rest!
@Puppy45
@Puppy45 3 жыл бұрын
I have one friend that is a sociopath. He’s kind, but yet he does tease/ bother me in ways I don’t like.
@superluigidummy
@superluigidummy 3 жыл бұрын
Alternative title: Things Greg Heffley says every day.
@nialldarroch8258
@nialldarroch8258 3 жыл бұрын
true
@aidentoons
@aidentoons 3 жыл бұрын
Uhhh instagram.com/p/COZItyHJyfV/ instagram.com/p/COqcsLDjv2R/ instagram.com/p/CPGMTdMjZo2/ kzfaq.info/get/bejne/i7GnnaeT0Mrde2Q.html
@alixiam_
@alixiam_ 3 жыл бұрын
Anyone else seen the “da vinky” in the book
@rayjones658
@rayjones658 3 жыл бұрын
LMAOOOOOO
@jatziberoja04
@jatziberoja04 3 жыл бұрын
i hated more that "Da binchi"
@nicoleonfeels
@nicoleonfeels 3 жыл бұрын
Pay attention to how others make you feel & make time for those that make you feel worthy, appreciated, and help you along your path.
@strategoscastaneda9095
@strategoscastaneda9095 3 жыл бұрын
Awesome! Thanks!
@lenovovo
@lenovovo 3 жыл бұрын
Great advice Nicole
@susie5254
@susie5254 3 жыл бұрын
You seem very young to have already figured this out. When I speak with young women who are dating, I always tell them: think about how you feel about YOURSELF when you're with this person.
@cormacb2326
@cormacb2326 3 жыл бұрын
Okay, so I should try my best to make people worthy and appreciated and help them so I can then subetly milk them dry for personal gain. Thanks for the help.
@HeartOfTheSource
@HeartOfTheSource Жыл бұрын
Great insight! I'd like to add one more word into your phrase here if I may? I would say I'd add in "constantly". Pay close attention to how the person in question makes you feel constantly. Noticed that there's a smart a$$ in the comments that pointed out how they'd use these traits you mentioned in a manipulative narcissistic scheme. Smh. What we are to look for in order to avoid getting caught in their trap of atrocities is the consistency. And for no predetermined length of time in particular just until you feel satisfied that this person is actually representing who he/ she really is as far as character wise. Because 1st Red flag you see otherwise will definitely lead to 50 other abusive red flags waving at you fairly soon after if you continue to allow the person access to you and to your life.
@cristi37
@cristi37 3 жыл бұрын
“I don’t have time for this” But time is an illusion, so how can you have something that doesn’t exist, HMMMMMMMMMMM?!!!!!!
@cristi37
@cristi37 3 жыл бұрын
@Ivy true
@slimyduck2140
@slimyduck2140 3 жыл бұрын
@Ivy But how can you use the words "have" or "have not" if the thing that you are talking about don't exist HMMMMMMM?!!
@cristi37
@cristi37 3 жыл бұрын
@Ivy lets all just hope he isn’t being stalked by tony the clock XD
@trisyates2912
@trisyates2912 3 жыл бұрын
Wow! My wife uses every single one of these phrases on a daily basis. When I call her out for being controlling she says it's my fault I feel that way, not hers. I can't blame her for being honest about how she feels, it's me being insecure that makes her insults hurt my feelings.
@TheSandwichmann
@TheSandwichmann 3 жыл бұрын
Unfortunately, I am unable to eat a good sandwich today :(. But just because I can’t have one, doesn’t mean you can’t! I hope you all get to eat an amazing sandwich today on my behalf!
@oofedultra
@oofedultra 3 жыл бұрын
this is sad guys, f in chat right mow :[
@dat_lxstghxst
@dat_lxstghxst 3 жыл бұрын
@@oofedultra F 😔
@xobeleny
@xobeleny 3 жыл бұрын
@@oofedultra F
@theQueen.
@theQueen. 3 жыл бұрын
F :(
@RNN2006
@RNN2006 3 жыл бұрын
Nah,pizza is better
@awesomhudsstudios6089
@awesomhudsstudios6089 3 жыл бұрын
Alternate Title: How To Be Greg Heffley
@annathegirlboss4886
@annathegirlboss4886 3 жыл бұрын
I used to feel better about myself by thinking his life was worse than mine
@ashhshsh
@ashhshsh 3 жыл бұрын
@@annathegirlboss4886 s a m e
@hellothere10yearsago97
@hellothere10yearsago97 3 жыл бұрын
I mean, he does say "you owe me" a lot
@consoleguy647
@consoleguy647 3 жыл бұрын
I want to like, but there’s 69.
@professionaldumbo5609
@professionaldumbo5609 3 жыл бұрын
I guess you aren't wrong
@sashakorytnikova4591
@sashakorytnikova4591 3 жыл бұрын
No, I'm not scared of being alone, *I'm scared of NOT being alone*
@motasmabumoghli915
@motasmabumoghli915 3 жыл бұрын
When you have a relationship with a sociopath it's a nightmare...
@trashgamedev5730
@trashgamedev5730 3 жыл бұрын
@Becausepeopledotoomuch_ Have you been diagnosed?
@trashgamedev5730
@trashgamedev5730 3 жыл бұрын
@Becausepeopledotoomuch_ I don't know. You said you were a sociopath. Are you diagnosed?
@trashgamedev5730
@trashgamedev5730 3 жыл бұрын
@Becausepeopledotoomuch_ Why is this? You shouldn't care. You're a diagnosed sociopath, right?
@trashgamedev5730
@trashgamedev5730 3 жыл бұрын
@Becausepeopledotoomuch_ So, how did you become a sociopath?
@trashgamedev5730
@trashgamedev5730 3 жыл бұрын
@Becausepeopledotoomuch_ Ok. Can you feel empathy or love somebody
@_ray401
@_ray401 3 жыл бұрын
Wow, a lot of people are sure Time traveling in this video
@oofedultra
@oofedultra 3 жыл бұрын
@@Angel-bl3zb early access
@tiredhellhound5229
@tiredhellhound5229 3 жыл бұрын
How °^°
@Pancakeboii
@Pancakeboii 3 жыл бұрын
They probably have ko-fi or patron
@angela_angela7601
@angela_angela7601 3 жыл бұрын
IT SCARES ME
@softglow9
@softglow9 3 жыл бұрын
Omg
@gwilson1841
@gwilson1841 3 жыл бұрын
me: * minecraft house explodes * sociopath: oh...just rebuild ur minecraft house me: ........... ur a sociopath
@Endmoonyearsago
@Endmoonyearsago 3 жыл бұрын
Agreement
@StarPuppetBoy
@StarPuppetBoy 3 жыл бұрын
I kinda Agree with the sociopath that u can just rebuild ur house :P but I think its dramatic if u host a funeral for ur minecraft house
@Shinobu-is-a-girlboss
@Shinobu-is-a-girlboss 3 жыл бұрын
Lol
@StarPuppetBoy
@StarPuppetBoy 3 жыл бұрын
@Naomi Yappa XD
@gwilson1841
@gwilson1841 3 жыл бұрын
@Naomi Yappa :(
@Yors.truely
@Yors.truely Жыл бұрын
I’m a high functioning sociopath, (and I also have therapy) so I haven’t actually said all of these, but, I will say I have said, “you owe me this.” Many many times😂
@vivv_cc
@vivv_cc 3 жыл бұрын
Ur basically discribing everybody at my school- Not my friends tho.. thank god- 😱😳✨
@casan0va50
@casan0va50 3 жыл бұрын
One of my closest friends is a sociopath, and I've been helping him, he's defiantly improved; but this information is very accurate. It's taken a while for him to come as far as he has, and I'm really proud of him (and yes, he was diagnosed by a doctor, don't worry I'm not just assuming) He used to say a lot of hurtful things to get his way, and even deny being a socio path; but after years of helping him he now admits that he is (hate saying it) a sociopath, and he now shows more emotion for others, he also has started to be less hurtful, and I'm really happy at how far he's come (it obviously wasn't easy, but I stayed with him and continued to help no-matter what he did or said) This goes to show that it's not impossible, it's just very, very, *very* hard... but I'm glad that I helped-- and still am-- it hasn't been easy for either of us, but I'm so happy with how he's been doing, and I've even talked him into getting a therapist to help a little more since I'm not a therapist and I can only o so much. So just keep fighting, because you can get better, it may not be easy or fast, but you can get there...
@kikithepupper6774
@kikithepupper6774 2 жыл бұрын
Run... He's not improving internally or anything. It's just he's just now good at hiding the sides that is socially inappropriate. That is all. Therapist can't do Jack for sociopaths. It only helps sociopaths learn how to manipulate people and learn them
@jeshan0659
@jeshan0659 Жыл бұрын
Why would you hate saying it yourself that he is a sociopath?
@flamefierce998
@flamefierce998 3 жыл бұрын
Me: stares at the person who uses some of these words Also me: sweats profusely as I stare into the mirror
@yummydragon8533
@yummydragon8533 3 жыл бұрын
Psych 2 Go, LITERALLY made a disclaimer "Just because you or someone you know says these things, doesn't make you a sociopath" great you didn't pay attention to the disclaimer
@Typlos1on
@Typlos1on 3 жыл бұрын
@@yummydragon8533 bro it's a joke
@mikuyu7421
@mikuyu7421 3 жыл бұрын
@@yummydragon8533it’s a joke chill, btw I know u are just copying and pasting this on a lot of different comments because u said it twice on one
@elifmermer8570
@elifmermer8570 3 жыл бұрын
Sociopath: You'll never survive without me. Me: wtf bro, mind your own business. What a jerk!
@trashgamedev5730
@trashgamedev5730 3 жыл бұрын
Not all sociopaths are bad, a lot of them are aware of what they are doing and stop themselves.
@Pink_pr1ncess
@Pink_pr1ncess 3 жыл бұрын
@@trashgamedev5730 They stop themselves because their reputation will be ruined. Sociopaths are all about power and control and when they are about to do something that’ll ruin their chances of getting there, they’ll stop. My ex stepdad for example would verbally and physically abuse me when my mother wasn’t around but he would apologize, gaslight, and love bomb me with gifts because he knew that would tell my mom. Needless to say he’s in prison for life for assaulting and attempting to murder two young women, I really wish people would understand the severity of ASPD and how sociopaths really act when the public isn’t watching.
@idonotpost1456
@idonotpost1456 3 жыл бұрын
yknow whats funny, my brother and i sometimes do nice things and then using it for “favors” except he does it better than me, and most of the time i dont give a shit. my brother could be a ceo if it werent for him being a lazy ass
@mariahconklin4150
@mariahconklin4150 2 жыл бұрын
Lol
@nadia-iu3ju
@nadia-iu3ju 3 жыл бұрын
HOW WAS THE VIDEO RELEASED 18 SECONDS AGO AND THE COMMENTS ARE FROM 1 MONTH AGO WHAT IS HAPPENING WHAT ARE Y'ALL UP TO
@myalign6448
@myalign6448 3 жыл бұрын
magic
@Jords250
@Jords250 3 жыл бұрын
Early access it's so simple
@anemari5809
@anemari5809 3 жыл бұрын
Patreon members have early access
@Endmoonyearsago
@Endmoonyearsago 3 жыл бұрын
They’re just time travelers OwO
@nadia-iu3ju
@nadia-iu3ju 3 жыл бұрын
@@anemari5809 ohh aight, didn't know that, thanks
@chlxecxmb5578
@chlxecxmb5578 3 жыл бұрын
This video: *exists* Everyone at my school: hi that’s me! 😃👋
@SiN88m
@SiN88m Жыл бұрын
I find it funny how the youtube algorythm start suggesting me channels and videos specificly targeted at the actuall situation I am in. When I was in a crisis, youtube started recommending meditation channels, and I found one I like. Now I have other questions about my situation, and I get these videos a lot. Which I obviously started to watch. And I can relate to many of these things. So however I got here. Thank you for the content.❤
@starlee7060
@starlee7060 3 жыл бұрын
This Channel has changed my life to a degree I'd say they made me able to continue going. I can identify Manipulation at the second and not to mention enhancing my confusion of who I am and how I can be the one driving my body. Being psychologically aware of why we do things can help reduce the effect it takes on your life and helps put yourself in control.
@atlas3975
@atlas3975 3 жыл бұрын
my friend just sent me this video and straight up said "fuck you" LMAO
@annathegirlboss4886
@annathegirlboss4886 3 жыл бұрын
They aren’t your friend
@temp08
@temp08 3 жыл бұрын
😂
@youjustgotburned3980
@youjustgotburned3980 3 жыл бұрын
You're a sociopath
@atlas3975
@atlas3975 3 жыл бұрын
@@youjustgotburned3980 shit-
@Smokeyxz
@Smokeyxz 3 жыл бұрын
That’s a true friend
@venus_5937
@venus_5937 3 жыл бұрын
"Have You ever talked to a Sociopath?" Me: I Don't Even Know what's a Sociopath (Yes I Am Dumb so Don't Judge me)
@oofedultra
@oofedultra 3 жыл бұрын
lol
@Shahzad-ss1jq
@Shahzad-ss1jq 3 жыл бұрын
Early Access
@shroomesh6456
@shroomesh6456 3 жыл бұрын
I thought sociopath were a term for psychopath for the longest time
@shroomesh6456
@shroomesh6456 3 жыл бұрын
@laurens YT wait what
@kevinv2767
@kevinv2767 3 жыл бұрын
When did you made this comment?
@user-sk4up8wz5b
@user-sk4up8wz5b 3 жыл бұрын
Me: sees "you owe me" Also me: *stares at my brother*
@user-lv6hl7ml2r
@user-lv6hl7ml2r 3 жыл бұрын
My friend: Says that he did all of that Me: Hes FINE
@radiaz121
@radiaz121 3 жыл бұрын
0:34 we really just ignoring the "da vinky" ---> Sociopath
@solarwolf678
@solarwolf678 3 жыл бұрын
I saw it but I don't know what a da vinky is so I didnt think much of it
@ckpradhan321
@ckpradhan321 3 жыл бұрын
Leonardo Da Vinci or Da Vinky
@lisatipping7226
@lisatipping7226 3 жыл бұрын
The Da vinci code
@OhLatte
@OhLatte 3 жыл бұрын
Love how they all have cute leaves on their heads lol
@ugiebid1427
@ugiebid1427 3 жыл бұрын
Same
@woot3478
@woot3478 3 жыл бұрын
they photovores
@woot3478
@woot3478 3 жыл бұрын
they photovores
@D4nkND00bi3
@D4nkND00bi3 3 жыл бұрын
When I say you make me a better person to my best friend. I actually mean it. Im not as closed off as I was before she helped me open up. And I love complimenting her because she truly is beautiful
@sakurablxsh4421
@sakurablxsh4421 3 жыл бұрын
Not me bending the truth so I don’t get attacked by a fake friend-
@kermit-san7063
@kermit-san7063 3 жыл бұрын
me: AYO MOM I FOUND A EXPLAINION TO YOUR LIF-
@soknyyy1536
@soknyyy1536 3 жыл бұрын
Omg djsjrjkfj
@Rimurubearyt
@Rimurubearyt 3 жыл бұрын
Hey mum found a dead body in the trash looks like it came with a belt
@rockyroadtheunimaginable
@rockyroadtheunimaginable 3 жыл бұрын
hey mom can i murder morrowseer 👹
@swetha7455
@swetha7455 3 жыл бұрын
I wish that I could actually show this without getting kicked out of the house lol
@Nobody-hc3fp
@Nobody-hc3fp 3 жыл бұрын
That just fitted right in☠
@roseeqcat
@roseeqcat 3 жыл бұрын
"you're so needy!" Needy: *slaps* "DoNt cAlL mE nEeDy!"
@v1s54l8
@v1s54l8 3 жыл бұрын
Lol-
@limitless7807
@limitless7807 3 жыл бұрын
Needy people never get what they need 💎
@wazd_405
@wazd_405 3 жыл бұрын
BFDI reference. Nice!
@ily2m803
@ily2m803 3 жыл бұрын
This list is like all the things I think but would never have the audacity to say out loud.
@Kitajewel
@Kitajewel 2 жыл бұрын
I’ve said ‘You make me a better person’ but that shvt was genuine. Never have I come across someone who (I felt) genuinely cared for my well-being til then. Felt like I sold my soul for a little piece of heaven, but I’m not complaining
@dailydoseofmedicinee
@dailydoseofmedicinee 3 жыл бұрын
Sociopaths will do anything they can to make you feel like they are the only ones who care about you. This includes making up lies about bad things the people close to you supposedly said.👏
@katalincatchpolenefister8954
@katalincatchpolenefister8954 2 жыл бұрын
Yep and they find out your vulnerability and use it against you
@navydavy
@navydavy 3 жыл бұрын
This is edited. I said "i do most of this, am i a sociopath?! QvQ" and some people here being rude. You know what? im not a sociopath those rude guys are, Thank you 💖 i drink tea btw
@Endmoonyearsago
@Endmoonyearsago 3 жыл бұрын
Uuuuuuuhhh
@navydavy
@navydavy 3 жыл бұрын
@@Endmoonyearsago i have Border Personality Disorder, a ruined childhood and depression. I accept that im mean and manupilative but i cant controll it...i really should go to a therapist but i cant because my parent cant afford the money :( i really know that everyone dislikes me and that really sucks...long story short i have a ruined life :> also i have no friends :D
@julianagalicio5838
@julianagalicio5838 3 жыл бұрын
Me too. I related to the majority of those things, i'm actually concerned lol
@MrMadmaggot
@MrMadmaggot 3 жыл бұрын
Are U impulsive?
@mercury6744
@mercury6744 3 жыл бұрын
@@navydavy wait why can i relate so bad to sometimes being mean and manipulative and not being able to control it-
@Wolfie_Animations_
@Wolfie_Animations_ 3 жыл бұрын
Why do you draw these sociopath so cutely
@othrwrldlysystm
@othrwrldlysystm 3 жыл бұрын
as a sociopath i can confirm, not all of us are jerks, we just don't fit into the world properly. i'm not gonna mentally manipulate you for no reason, at the very least you'd have to have done something bad. all it means is that i don't form connections to people as easily, which hate sometimes too. i feel like i should be crying at something but i don't. it's weird, idk 🤷 but yeah, we're not all gonna try to steal your dog or anything, we're chill -eve
@sophiahalleran8599
@sophiahalleran8599 3 жыл бұрын
I agree with u. I personally don't have this mental illness but I honestly hate it when people put labels on sociopaths.
@varia2354
@varia2354 3 жыл бұрын
Nice scrolling through the comments thinking “Cool, we all agree on at least one thing: Fuck social stigma.”.
@Layless
@Layless 3 жыл бұрын
I'M FINALLY TIME TRAVELER
@bhavya_saini1451
@bhavya_saini1451 3 жыл бұрын
How can you do this plss tell
@honourwhitehill5918
@honourwhitehill5918 3 жыл бұрын
@@bhavya_saini1451 they have early access because they have supported this channel.
@cats11111
@cats11111 3 жыл бұрын
N I C E
@whysoserious2192
@whysoserious2192 3 жыл бұрын
Wow... Pretty impressive...
@MRPUZZL3Z
@MRPUZZL3Z 3 жыл бұрын
I used to have a friend like this and most of the things mentioned in this video is what she said/did to me, so thank you so much for letting me know about sociopaths.
@hsmaxio4075
@hsmaxio4075 3 жыл бұрын
Being honest I don't like how sociopaths are imaged as the bad guy
@Samuel-kz7ow
@Samuel-kz7ow 3 жыл бұрын
They're doing it unintentionally most of the time.
@izajagieniak4640
@izajagieniak4640 3 жыл бұрын
@@Samuel-kz7ow yeah and they are that way because their environment made them like that
@toolkitbox9215
@toolkitbox9215 3 жыл бұрын
I think my mom is a sociopath and so am I, she sees past me and my facades and I do the same with her, that's why we struggle to coexist. But I don't think all sociopaths are bad people.
@twistedreality997
@twistedreality997 3 жыл бұрын
''no one will love you like i do'' *''yeah, thats the point''*
@raineblackstar3522
@raineblackstar3522 3 жыл бұрын
"Da vinky?" I see that Corpse Husband reference there.
@Psych2go
@Psych2go 3 жыл бұрын
Good catch!
@cutmasterB
@cutmasterB 2 жыл бұрын
I recently broke up with a diagnosed sociopath and let me tell you I couldnt be happier to be out of that emotional and financial whirlwind. I lost so much money and self worth because of how draining it was for me to listen to only their problems and me buying everything
@kikithepupper6774
@kikithepupper6774 2 жыл бұрын
My ex friend was exactly like this.. It hurts. Watching this got me reliving those memories. She was truly a textbook sociopath
@gerrimiller3491
@gerrimiller3491 3 жыл бұрын
Never be around people who are not sincere or never express genuine feelings. If they speak negative all the time...you deserve better than this
@arpitkumar4525
@arpitkumar4525 3 жыл бұрын
I say a couple of these things to myself (I am needy, Don't be sensitive)
@Tiggster-qr8mw
@Tiggster-qr8mw 3 жыл бұрын
Same, kinda.
@gyneve
@gyneve 3 жыл бұрын
Is it to yourself, about yourself?
@arpitkumar4525
@arpitkumar4525 3 жыл бұрын
@@gyneve yes
@Tiggster-qr8mw
@Tiggster-qr8mw 3 жыл бұрын
@@gyneve yes
@Tiggster-qr8mw
@Tiggster-qr8mw 3 жыл бұрын
Basically i’m always telling myself that like if someone is doing something to me that i don’t like, then it’s my fault somehow, becuase it usually is, among other things. Like i know i’m worthless, and that i’m really dumb. Everything that’s wrong with me stems from the fact that I’m incredibly stupid. Basically just a whole bunch of stuff that i kinda just need to hear.
@sharonzimmerman469
@sharonzimmerman469 3 жыл бұрын
What if you think these things? Like, “I’LL never survive without HIM” or “HES the most amazing person in the world”?
@randomnessandchaosgaming6309
@randomnessandchaosgaming6309 3 жыл бұрын
Umm- * -10 Mental Health points *
@rockyroadtheunimaginable
@rockyroadtheunimaginable 3 жыл бұрын
you get a camera and take a picture of HIM
@sridevisridevi7764
@sridevisridevi7764 3 жыл бұрын
This sounds more like a psychopath rather than a sociopath
@zaharabliss106
@zaharabliss106 3 жыл бұрын
I often get susceptible to people who are seemingly potable and have bad lives and I often put up with abuse in too many relationships. This video was helpful at least now I can see some shallow tactics that are huge red flags
@reallifepsych3309
@reallifepsych3309 3 жыл бұрын
I can’t think of sociopath and not think of Jonathan from “The Undoing.” So many diagnoses in that show, someone should do a breakdown.
@reallifepsych3309
@reallifepsych3309 3 жыл бұрын
@bex_l_e yes Jonathan. Just changed it, thanks.
@leonisnothere2083
@leonisnothere2083 3 жыл бұрын
title should be "9 things your dad says"-
@studywithme-z
@studywithme-z 3 жыл бұрын
"And mom" -
@yeehawgacha930
@yeehawgacha930 3 жыл бұрын
r/holup
@stars_eq
@stars_eq 3 жыл бұрын
So my friend always says "I wouldnt suurive without you (me)" and I shower her with complements but I dont think im a sociopath
@asliceofkai5006
@asliceofkai5006 3 жыл бұрын
"You make me a better person." I don't know about this one... I often tell my friends this because they are the inspiration for me to achieve my goals. They keep me accountable, help me start over when I fall, and can celebrate in my successes. I think more often than not, people will mean it when they say that someone else makes them a better person.
@perssaukko6641
@perssaukko6641 3 жыл бұрын
It's about the intentions behind saying that. Sociopaths would say that to people so they can manipulate them into liking them and doing favors for them etc, but we say that to people because we actually think that way.
@asliceofkai5006
@asliceofkai5006 3 жыл бұрын
@@perssaukko6641 okay, I can understand that better. I guess now the hard part is knowing whether a person is authentic when they say it.
@syn2072
@syn2072 Жыл бұрын
@@asliceofkai5006 it's hard if you focus on what people say, always focus on their actions.. Disregard what they say, everyone lies whether to others or themselves
@ItsAnOldCroneLife
@ItsAnOldCroneLife 3 жыл бұрын
My mother was like this. I grew up being told "I owed her" even though she literally only used me as a tool against my dad and terrorized me. She wanted to stop me from ever leaving home (her) by telling me the world was dangerous, and I was safer at home "with her". She got angry when I had a possible scholarship that would take me to a college upstate. She never wanted me to even leave my hometown, because I wouldn't be reachable by her. The woman had children simply to have built-in supply. Unfortunately, trying to get away from her meant I ended up with more narcissistic sociopaths just like her. There are more of these monsters in the world than we realize, and they just float among us. I was conditioned by one to accept the abuses of the others.
@haveagoodmourning
@haveagoodmourning 3 жыл бұрын
Your mom is basically Mother Gothel and I'm so sorry you had to deal with her
@crystalshard5830
@crystalshard5830 3 жыл бұрын
Sounds like my dad :/
@user-oi1yo2yj4b
@user-oi1yo2yj4b 3 жыл бұрын
Monster is a tiny bit of an exaggeration don't you think.
@haveagoodmourning
@haveagoodmourning 3 жыл бұрын
@@user-oi1yo2yj4b did you read the paragrapy
@crystalshard5830
@crystalshard5830 3 жыл бұрын
@@user-oi1yo2yj4b On the contrary, Monster is a bit of an understatement.
@anshikaprabhat6279
@anshikaprabhat6279 3 жыл бұрын
'No one will love you the way I do', something my mom says all the time.
@apidas
@apidas Жыл бұрын
extreme lack of empath is what scares me and the complete disregard of social cues and norms makes them unstoppable
@thearcticfoxd8844
@thearcticfoxd8844 3 жыл бұрын
Ummm. One of my “friends” says all of this to me repeatedly. And I’d feel to bad leaving her
@wootwoot5486
@wootwoot5486 3 жыл бұрын
R U N.
@thesilentdumb5665
@thesilentdumb5665 3 жыл бұрын
Run while you still can. Try not to look back. Or get her a therapist (idk if that will help)
@umusuarioqualquer777
@umusuarioqualquer777 3 жыл бұрын
Run
@michaelkrull3331
@michaelkrull3331 3 жыл бұрын
I was "best friends" with a sociopath from teens to mid thirties. Found out after our friendship ended. No one can make this decision for you, but if your friend is indeed a sociopath, she WILL push you to your limits. There are two things you can do to defend yourself from being preyed on, and you can gauge your friends reaction to them to decide what to do next. 1st work on your self-worth. Sociopaths choose people with low self esteem as their targets, and will try to keep it that way. 2nd demand accountability. DO NOT let this be negotiable. A sociopath will make excuse after excuse leavened with promises to do better, but never ACTUALLY do better. And beware, they will make themselves look like the victim, and are damn good at it. My "friend" was able to not only get out of domestic violence charges, but even managed to reverse them! I wish you the best of luck, and if I may there is one silver lining that will come of this..you will be one hell of a good bullshit detector!
@thearcticfoxd8844
@thearcticfoxd8844 3 жыл бұрын
@@michaelkrull3331 tysm!! I was literally having a panic attack and she brought up he had math grade.
@arayna20
@arayna20 3 жыл бұрын
I was watching this, wondering if my "friend" who saw me having an anxiety attack (I hadn't told anyone) and used that against me was a sociopath. I am now sure of it
@cdorothy444
@cdorothy444 3 жыл бұрын
Well that isn’t a good friend.
@goofball2228
@goofball2228 2 жыл бұрын
And I was wondering if my “friend” who always lies and Manipulates me and is egotistic is a sociopath.
@magicalplace3788
@magicalplace3788 3 жыл бұрын
Someone my mother and father knew had managed to make his wife believe that she's sick and made her take pills. Over time she took more and more pills and felt worse and worse and then died just so he would take all her money. He did it twice and he had one wife who didn't die which is how he was caught and sentenced to 2 murders and one attempted murder. I'm not sure if he was a sociopath or a psychopath or what, but all his life he just lived according to his plan and was lying on a daily basis. And he actually managed to convince his wives that he loved them and that they're actually sick when they weren't.
@matthewgates7680
@matthewgates7680 3 жыл бұрын
Just expressing gratitude that you explained that just because people use these phrases, does not mean they are one. I've had several ex's label me as a narcissist, sociopath, or psychopath and use these videos as their evidence. Literally saying "I've heard you say this and that's why you're a sociopath/psychopath/narcissist." I'm not saying I am/am not any of the following, simply stating that, just as stated in the video, that these phrases alone should be used as a warning flags to further observe the behavior of someone else, and only mental health professionals are ones capable of making these judgements.
@lini2611
@lini2611 3 жыл бұрын
I'm a diagnosed sociopath and tbh I do say things like this very often. I don't spend much time on the Internet but I enjoy watching your videos
@chaniisa__5176
@chaniisa__5176 3 жыл бұрын
I guess I have a little break up to do soon then because I'm dealing with a person just like that who disregards my feelingz even though they claim they love and care about me but actions speaks loudest.🥺💯 thank you for this
@bunille
@bunille 3 жыл бұрын
0:32
@CatStars.
@CatStars. 3 жыл бұрын
Everyone at the end: oh I'll play this video next. Me: I like the way the little guys dance. So wholesome!
@gothiclilac
@gothiclilac 3 жыл бұрын
When I was in 8th grade a girl was my "best friend". We would do everything together. She would always tell me I was pretty and how ugly and depressed she was. Eventually I realized I was getting ignored by her. I didnt know what was up because we where "besties". Over time she started calling me ugly. I eventually became depressed. Turns out she was spreading all my entrusted secrets with all my other "friends". Those "friends" of mine would tell rumors and lies about me to everyone and laugh at me behind my back. I eventually got out of that toxic situation and am so grateful to have much better, happier, mental health. Thank you for reading my story
@lalitmohanray9724
@lalitmohanray9724 3 жыл бұрын
Hi! I'm you but from the future! (Don't mind me, I'm just writing it for myself)
@MercenaryFox
@MercenaryFox 3 жыл бұрын
weirdo
@oofedultra
@oofedultra 3 жыл бұрын
@@MercenaryFox no
@Endmoonyearsago
@Endmoonyearsago 3 жыл бұрын
Time traveler!!! How!!!!
@thesevendeadlysins8461
@thesevendeadlysins8461 3 жыл бұрын
Damn cAn YoU teLL mE hoW do U dO thAt?
@korimcentire2346
@korimcentire2346 3 жыл бұрын
As an Empath I have attracted many Sociopaths and honestly when it comes down to it, they are simply unable to care, and given enough time will slip up and be exposed. That being said, please my lovely beautiful fellow Human beings please watch out for them. Be safe. Love ya Guys. 💖
@scothart9385
@scothart9385 20 күн бұрын
I am a fool
@snookiisworld
@snookiisworld 3 жыл бұрын
me: acts this way towards my bff and obsesses over her also me: YOUR FRIKKEN MINE OK
@kal6796
@kal6796 3 жыл бұрын
Here's a story about the time I was with a sociopath best friend She wasnt different from me at all, every time she does stuff that were mentioned in this video she says it while intending to be nice not mean,if it doesn't go her way she'll break every one down and she really thinks the world evolves around her, she did so much good stuff to me but was never nice to anyone and just straight up bullied everyone, she was also pretty much toxic, after she left me in fact she started sending false rumors about me to my class since we were in different classes but thankfully my friends knew it was just a whole misunderstanding, try to talk to her and she'll immediately think she's the queen or straight up act like she's the "second you" yes, she did have good deeds but I wouldn't try and be friends with her again. She would always change everything about me to be like her even when I felt uncomfortable and tell me "you will look so good" And after she's done she would say "what could u have done without me" while giggling and I don't find it wholesome anymore, she lies about EVERYTHING just so she could get exactly what she wishes for, and everyone at my school knows the lies she said cause some popular girls spread them and if someone tried to talk to her and "leaked" those lies she would be in a bad condition right now, she made me fight with my best friend that I spent my entire life with and distanced me from everyone, she also made me dye my hair with her on my birthday, and not a week after she changed the color and was like "im sorry I just didn't like it" now I ruined my curls and I'm stuck with blonde but I said it was all fine Just be aware she might not be an actual sociopath but people like this do exist
@soobtonin_
@soobtonin_ 3 жыл бұрын
While watching this video- I slowly realized that perhaps my best friend was a sociopath- she’s always had trouble connecting with other people for private reasons and she’d always say things like she was lucky to have me and compliments which would make me feel good about myself but at some times it felt like she was overdoing it. We recently stopped talking and I’ve been so emotional ever since but then I sat down and realized that she was making my life and depression much worse- it honestly felt like I was always doing what she wanted and not what I wanted. I’d go out of my way to check on her and talk to her even though I didn’t have the strength or intention to do so. When I finally realized that this isn’t what I wanted from her because she did in fact so everything listed in this video- and I began to feel worrisome. I am not so sure if my ex best friend was is a sociopath, but it would explain a lot of things. She used to be a kind and supportive friend but then it slowly became toxic and all about her. I’m honestly relieved she’s gone now But sometimes it still feels like she’s here watching over me despite her being an online friend as well- I didn’t list all the things she did because you already have, I guess I’m shocked that I’m barely realizing that I potentially had a sociopath as a best friend. I’m still a bit heart broken but slowly healing :]
@soobtonin_
@soobtonin_ 3 жыл бұрын
The one thing that really sent a bell off is when me and my cousin had gotten into a sort of “argument” and she was helping us make amends- according to my cousin, she told her that we owe her one because and that if it wasn’t for her stepping in, we would’ve still be having this argument. I didn’t like the sound of that one bit. It changed my perspective of her a lot that day-
@kal6796
@kal6796 3 жыл бұрын
@@soobtonin_ literally the same as mine- I'm very glad u left her, like she would make u feel bad about ur self but u would think ur happy, I don't know what's it about them but I'm really happy u left or it would've been so much toxic, and I really hate it when they go like "don't talk to them they're the wrong ones" when the person u had a fight with didn't even do anything so basically pulling u away from everyone
@soobtonin_
@soobtonin_ 3 жыл бұрын
@@kal6796 yeah- I realized that she was pulling me away from all my other friends- and she admitted that she’s jealous of all the friends I have- she has a social problem which makes sense of why she doesn’t have so many “friends” but I have a feeling she envied me for a lot of reasons which I personally wouldn’t envy about myself- if you can, you should also stop hanging out with that girl. I’m relieved that I left her and I’m sorry you had to go through this as well ( I love you pfp of Bang Chan btw :] )
@kal6796
@kal6796 3 жыл бұрын
@@soobtonin_ at least we're both fine now and that's all what matters! We really made it out of a toxic friend ship we should feel so proud omg (also thank u I literally live for this photo
@stroossom5096
@stroossom5096 3 жыл бұрын
"do you know someone?" me: refuses to accept that i may or may not list all these things
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