7 Hidden Signs of Borderline Personality Disorder
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Күн бұрынBorderline personality disorder (BPD) is a type of personality disorder that affects about 1-3% of the population. People with BPD struggle with self-image, and their behavior and view of others can change quickly as they battle waves of sadness, anger, or anxiety. According to the National Institute of Mental Health, BPD may be linked to traumatic events, brain chemistry, and family history, but these factors aren’t always present in people with the disorder.
Hidden, or quiet, BPD occurs when symptoms of BPD are present, but internalized (Healthline, 2020). Because symptoms of hidden BPD are not displayed outwardly, it can be difficult for someone without BPD to understand that a friend, partner, or family member’s actions are due to borderline personality disorder and not a toxic personality or a different mental disorder like anxiety.
Disclaimer: Do not use this video as a self-diagnosis. But If you see yourself with these symptoms, it's best to consult a professional.
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Writer: Carley Swanson-Garro
Script Editor: Rida Batool
Script Manager: Kelly Soong
VO: Amanda Silvera
Animator: Minh Nguyen
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References:
Berenson, K.R., Gregory, W.E., Glaser, E., Romirowsky, A., Rafaeli, E., Yang, X. & Downey, G. (2016). Impulsivity, rejection sensitivity, and reactions to stressors in borderline personality disorder. Cognitive Therapy & Research 40, 510-521. DOI:10.1007/s10608-015-9752-y.
Healthline (2020, May 28). All about quiet BPD (borderline personality disorder). Retrieved 9 July from www.healthline.com/health/qui....
International Society for the Study of Dissociation and Trauma (n.d.). Dissociation FAQs. Retrieved 9 July www.isst-d.org/resources/diss....
Mayo Clinic (n.d.). Borderline personality disorder. Retrieved 9 July from www.mayoclinic.org/diseases-c....
National Institute of Mental Health (2017, Dec.). Borderline personality disorder. Retrieved 9 July from www.nimh.nih.gov/health/topic....
Vansteelandt, K., Houben, M., Claes, L., Berens, A., Sleuwaegen, E., & Kuppens, P. (2020). Self-criticism and dependency predict affective variability in borderline personality disorder: An ecological momentary assessment study. Personality Disorders: Theory, Research, and Treatment, 11(4), 270-279. DOI: 10.1037/per0000374.
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@Psych2go 3 жыл бұрын
If you suffer from BPD, do you identify with these? Can you help promote this video to spread more awareness on BPD if you feel we did a good job describing it.
@piedondon8726 3 жыл бұрын
Yes will do! Also love your vids! It's entertaining and helpful :)
@sachznaa 3 жыл бұрын
Hi
@Psych2go 3 жыл бұрын
@@piedondon8726 Thank you! :)
@Psych2go 3 жыл бұрын
@@sachznaa Hello!
@piedondon8726 3 жыл бұрын
@@Psych2go didn't know that you would notice me but ok-
@lizard6631 3 жыл бұрын
"get diagnosed by a mental health professional." my family's financial status says no.
@melissa.5020 3 жыл бұрын
self diagnosis is perfectly ok as long as you do a bunch of research!
@lizard6631 3 жыл бұрын
@@melissa.5020 cool but that ends with self diagnosis. still can't afford therapy and can't actually get the help that is needed :(
@alexcantdrawhands9671 3 жыл бұрын
living in a country with good healthcare, this seems so wild, like;;; why the fuck should ppl go bankrupt because of their health? therapy is literally as good as free for me
@kendsplaining 3 жыл бұрын
@@alexcantdrawhands9671 oh my friend. oh.
@ellagage1256 3 жыл бұрын
Mmm this is a big mood
@badwolfchelsea 3 жыл бұрын
Getting help is unfortunately more difficult than everyone seems to think it is. Edit: I was not just specifically referring to getting help for BPD. It's hard to get help for EVERY mental illness.
@ghostytrish 3 жыл бұрын
I know right, I tried getting therapy once and I just couldn’t go. It was too much for me.
@AriettaTheWild17 3 жыл бұрын
Yup. The system goes well this sounds like it would be hard to treat and require a specialist... DENIED! They might as well have told me to go off myself since apparently we’re just worthless garbage since we didn’t tell anyone that we were being sexually abused from forever, until they got caught grooming the next victim when we were starting to get close to puberty. Then couldn’t go trough with going to the police. Have you ever been brainwashed to the point where you don’t even know if reality is real or not? Where it’s all too much and you aren’t you anymore, you’re fragmented now? Then you’d understand. I want to die, unfortunately the other don’t agree and still think there’s still hope. Tick tock tick tock, counting time until the inevitable death.
@ivealwaysbeenswimming9030 3 жыл бұрын
Getting therapy is practically useless at times for me and only scratches the surface because I consciously and unconsciously deny myself of my problems or minimize them to the point that I’m not really doing anything different than talking to someone I trust about a few basic problems I’ve faced throughout the week or smth.
@AriettaTheWild17 3 жыл бұрын
•KemiEmi• The problem is trusting someone enough that you feel safe enough to talk about these things but then your brain is like “hey remember all those reasons why you have trust issues? Because I do and here’s the list!” So how are you doing? Did anything happen? Oh... well, there’s nothing special going on really... 😓 😬 I’m fine 🙂 just a few minor things really 🤔
@heidikoch2625 3 жыл бұрын
Why's that?
@rc48 Жыл бұрын
I lost my younger brother, my only sibling to undiagnosed BPD this year. After losing him, it became like a mission of my life to find out what went wrong and that’s when I came across something called BPD. When I learnt about the symptoms, I was devastated. Devastated because my brother exhibited all the said symptoms and yet we could not figure out what was happening to him. Knowledge and awareness about different brain disorders should be made mandatory in schools so we do not lose our loved ones
@chaoticconjuring Жыл бұрын
I am so sorry for your loss. I hope you and your family are able to find some comfort in your memories with him.
@rhoadestraveled Жыл бұрын
It would also help people understand us so we don’t have to burrow further and further away from people and isolate ourselves.
@lesgolamola 11 ай бұрын
God be with you .
@HowsYourFaceFeel 11 ай бұрын
Sorry to hear that.
@coconutorange7609 10 ай бұрын
Do not blame yourself,he chose that ,but agree we should learn and know how to support our kids and our self some families are just hell or an ignorants I have depression non of my family's understanding me they think Im lying
@nightfall4315 Жыл бұрын
My mom has BPD and it was one of the reasons my parents fought and split pretty early. I got over that at some point but I'm starting to think I might've inherited it but I'm scared to get diagnosed honestly I wanted to get diagnosed for depression and anxiety before to get help but I learned how to deal with it better so I didn't go but I'm realizing some things now and I'm pretty sure it's more than that
@Iratechromosome Жыл бұрын
@Nightfall Hey man! As someone who also has a BPD parent I can say that I also have and had bpd symptoms, just know that a lot of these are learned and CAN be reversed! It takes therapy but it can happen! :D good luck bruv!
@aryansigrid Жыл бұрын
Side note: If you're diagnosed with BPD remember, it is not your Moms fault nor your's or anybody else's it's a health condition just like cancer etc. Unconditional Love and Understanding is the best and only way to deal with things. Also, instead of thinking of the Problem how about thinking of the Solutions! It is what one does with "challenging" news that really matters, whether there are bad days, good days always out-weigh bad one's, hands down!! Stay strong & look after thy self, self-sooth and treat others the way you'd like to be treated. 🥰
@Melitron Жыл бұрын
Hey! My mom also has BPD. I got diagnosed with chronic depression and anxiety disorder and have some BPD traits too. Don't be scared to be diagnosed. At least you already have the awareness! Which is the most important part in order to heal. Also, don't be scared of meds, I know they sound extreme but in my case, they have helped a lot and I feel so much better. I don't feel the internal void anymore. Anyway, hope you find peace and healing in your own terms 🤍.
@mikethecollector Жыл бұрын
Its highly likely its childhood trauma from having a parent with bpd. Go seek help anyway. It's very common to have the same symptoms described in this video from being raised by a parent with bpd so don't be scared.
@H7X Жыл бұрын
Yeah it's happend to me too, but my father had BPD, schizophrenia, and was a sociopath.
@basham1107 3 жыл бұрын
I’m afraid that my parents would just tell me that I’m being irrational. So I can never tell them about my mental problems.
@iskamag 3 жыл бұрын
same here
@karl4286 3 жыл бұрын
I feel you
@riverbanzachamploo9725 3 жыл бұрын
yeah mine too
@Diamondesignsempires 3 жыл бұрын
Well hope you get better! Remember we're on your side!
@libbygallovitch5095 3 жыл бұрын
I feel that
@mikaisno4599 3 жыл бұрын
Me : hey I’ve been worried about a lot of things and I- Mom : just don’t worry
@holylindgren3293 3 жыл бұрын
welp I GueSs it GoNe now ThaNKs MoM
@sync_mxlly5610 3 жыл бұрын
Awww I’m sorry your parents cut you offf like that :(
@mikaisno4599 3 жыл бұрын
Sync_Mxlly nah it’s fine
@suicidalsleeper6115 3 жыл бұрын
“I keep getting thoughts that people judge me no matter what I do, I’ve been so anxious. I hate it-“ Mom: Its your own fault, you chose to feel that way. 🧍♀️
@millietorres720 3 жыл бұрын
gosh you have it same here
@sage-om2yb Жыл бұрын
I have been researching bpd for the last year, because strongly suspect I have it, I experience all the symptoms, and I am suffering, and keeping it all in is killing me. I am now reaching out for help, and I am hoping to enter a diagnosis process with a licensed mental health professional, to find out what the hell is wrong with me, and how I can have a better quality of life in the future.
@oliviajean4980 Жыл бұрын
Honestly, I’m not one to self diagnose. But watching this makes a lot of sense to why I’m acting the way I am. Been struggling with major depression and anxiety for years. But lately I have been very angry with my family members even if it wasn’t even something to be angry about! Making Christmas cookies with my sister and I didn’t follow the directions the proper way. She told me I didn’t do it right and this sense of anger took over me. It was almost like I wasn’t in control of what I was saying. I was just… angry. Ended up destroying my room and punched holes in the wall. Felt a great sense of guilt afterwards. And felt that my family would be better off without me. I felt like 5 different emotions within a span of 10 minutes. I don’t want to be like this. I don’t know why I am like this. It hurts my loved ones. They just think I’m straight up mean. I know it’s something much deeper inside me. I just need help but can’t talk to anyone about it, because I hate opening up like that.
@Lord_common_sense Жыл бұрын
I hate seing people saying "i know" or "i hunderstand what u sufer" but here this time its me who say it because ye i'm also kinda like that Can't be emotionaly stable and an danger to myself But i can't do anything to me because if i bleed i start going crazy (hemophobic) do that's keep me from doing it But ye all of that to say that i relate to what you say Even more when its with depresion.. hunfortunatly
@nana8135 9 ай бұрын
I get it, but we all need to talk it out. Trust me
@oliviajean4980 9 ай бұрын
@@nana8135 definitely. I was recently discharged from the hospital. I can say getting help changes a lot.
@notyourcutiekocho 8 ай бұрын
I just know smth wrong with me But i dont think its smth like this Im sure i can overcome it Or atleast i hope.
@codeswift27 7 ай бұрын
> I felt like 5 different emotions within a span of 10 minutes Literally same. Whenever I get stressed or something, it goes from feeling frustrated/irritable -> feeling sad -> feeling guilty/angry at myself -> feeling sad again all in such a short timespan. Though it's kind of surprising since I've never really considered myself the kind of person to get angry much, but I realized that's because I usually direct most of my anger and hatred towards myself. And that's prolly also why half the time I end up being toxic to other people without even realizing it because I tend to do things like withdraw and ghost when I'm upset, but I underestimate how that affects other people because I figure that no one will care yet I also want people to care. Sorry for the rant, I just feel like ranting lol
@rosywinx 3 жыл бұрын
when a yt channel cares more about your mental well-being than your own family does
@krecza 3 жыл бұрын
There's something incredibly wrong about that and needs to be fixed.
@concealer3850 3 жыл бұрын
@@krecza Most of the families in the world also doesn't care about their kid's mental health, therefore since its the MOST of them, it is considered normal.
@hi-kt8jj 3 жыл бұрын
@@krecza my parents don't give 2 shits about my mental health... i've tried opening up to them about my anxiety last year (which i'm still struggling with). to summarize in a sentence, because if i explained everything we'd be here for days, my parents asked me why i was getting bad grades, and i said i have a lot of anxiety and i can't focus, and they said to get rid of it and i shouldn't have it, and they were still trying to figure out my problem with school when i handed my problem over to them. at this point i have more than anxiety, i just can't get professional help. so once i move out (i'm 16 right now) i'll get medical help asap.
@batmanvengace 3 жыл бұрын
(:
@santinamanno854 3 жыл бұрын
❤
@Angel-wg2vd 3 жыл бұрын
It’s so sad when you can’t even talk about your problems to your parents bc their answer is always just don’t worry or just don’t be sad
@mj-fc3ci 3 жыл бұрын
exactly! When I try to politely explain it to them and ask for help they always say JUST DONT BE SAD
@kateissues 3 жыл бұрын
Like oh yes I totally chose to be sad.
@finnwolfhards4lifer998 3 жыл бұрын
yehhh
@seeya3705 3 жыл бұрын
@@kateissues my mom says “you have teen depression I have depression” I got so mad Is like teens can’t have depression that’s why I hide my opinions and feelings to myself
@kateissues 3 жыл бұрын
@@seeya3705 exactly then parents are like why do you hide things from me
@tearypoppy 9 ай бұрын
I really appreciated the ending part about how BPD affects everyone differently and not everyone has the same symptoms, all symptoms, or experience them in the same way/same amount of time/intensity as others. That's been one of the hardest things for me to come to terms with since my diagnosis. I keep comparing myself to others with BPD and I think to myself "Oh... I'm not 1:1 with this description/experience...I don't have this, my doctor is a quack and I'm just sensitive and need to get a grip." So hearing that really made me feel validated. Thank you.
@edwardzhou8590 5 ай бұрын
i think an amazing part of BPD is it’s correlation with sensitivity. it sucks that we as highly sensitive people self criticize the most while taking on the pain of the world, but an amazing part of it is having the resilience to still move forward. us doubting the validity of our condition goes to show how invalidated we’ve been, but we are resilient ❤️
@theinsane833 21 сағат бұрын
This plus my reoccurring thought that my issues shouldn’t be other people’s problems and their for I shouldn’t let them deal with them, really really puts me off getting checked for anything, I love being self aware.
@BrownGeorge-pw2xo 3 ай бұрын
I'm a veteran, was actually addicted to alcohol. I suffered severe depression and mental disorder. Got diagnosed with BPD. Not until my wife recommended me to psilocybin mushrooms treatment. Psilocybin treatment saved my life honestly. 8 years totally clean. Never thought I would be saying this about mushrooms.
@NetaZjdb 3 ай бұрын
Congrats on your recovery. Most persons never realizes psilocybin can be used as a miracle medication to save lives. Years back i wrote an entire essay about psychedelics. they saved you from death bud, lets be honest here.
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@FrankMorrison-vu2kc 3 ай бұрын
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@Edennnn926 3 ай бұрын
Dude! People like you give me so much hope. I am about 2 years clean now and I feel like mushrooms are turning my life around. I was feeling so lost and nothing has been working for my severe depression up until a couple years ago. but not since I started with the mushrooms for just some few days back then. Kudos to you for being clean that long! So happy to see people like me doing well in the future regardless of what society makes it seem sometimes. For me shrooms are remedy not a vice.
@JacksonSmith-wc8oo 3 ай бұрын
How do I reach out to him? Is he on insta
@gurmail6615 3 жыл бұрын
I randomly found this channel and started watching it everyday
@DrizellaArandelle 3 жыл бұрын
me too
@EmziiMood 3 жыл бұрын
Get ready to be awakened *-*
@SilverDragon.222 3 жыл бұрын
Same here, and started recommending it 2 close friends as well ❤️🙏🏽
@addib.8665 3 жыл бұрын
This is about to be me
@glitchy777 3 жыл бұрын
lol same
@IM-uh5tk 3 жыл бұрын
1- Mood swings 2- Low self-esteem 3- Internalised anger 4- Fear of rejection 5- Unstable relationships 6- Impulsive decisions 7- Disassociation
@carolleslie2673 3 жыл бұрын
Unfortunately I have EUPD and bipolar. Confused!! I just don’t know who I am the more I try to understand myself the more confused I get. I don’t know which bits or the bipolar and which or the EUPD. There used to be a tv series years ago called Soap, at the beginning they would give you the story so far and the narrator would say.......Confused?.....you soon will be.
@anachronismboy 3 жыл бұрын
@The Angry Introverted Scotsman okay so there are these inventions called commas and full stops
@anachronismboy 3 жыл бұрын
@The Angry Introverted Scotsman idk abt you but I couldn't read your first message even though I tried. I could not decipher that shit
@anachronismboy 3 жыл бұрын
@The Angry Introverted Scotsman ....I'm in College Preperatory English, I just wasnt trained to read jumbles of atrocious run on sentences. I have astigmatism, my eyes shake rapidly when I try to focus on garbage paragraphs like yours.
@canandwillfindyou 3 жыл бұрын
@The Angry Introverted Scotsman ok so commas aka *,* are put to separate one part from another. For example: _I like apples, carrots, youtube, and drawing._ Each sentence ends with a period aka *.* For example: _I can cook meat balls._ And how you are to write it in a list thing: _A. I like apples. B. I like to read. C. I can cook_ And one last thing I'm going to tell you is parentheses aka *"("* and *")"* These can be used in a sentence as: _I like to eat apples (with peanut butter or caramel), I like to watch youtube (mainly minecraft and among us), and I like to cook meat balls (sometimes with rice or spaghetti depends on my mood)._ Hope this helps!
@j.stonehouse5004 2 жыл бұрын
I was diagnosed with BPD. Years of therapy helped me notice when I'm over stimulated, or when I'm about to go into a depressive mood; which helps me prepare myself and my partner.
@mazelina4096 2 жыл бұрын
I saw this video like a month ago, ever since then ive told my therapist. We are currently in the process of a diagnosis, and ever since I've brought it up I feel like I can finally understand myself more. So thank you for this video
@notdeadbuthappy5614 Жыл бұрын
can i just ask ?were you diagnosed with BPD ?
@userm180 Жыл бұрын
happy for you!!
@mazelina4096 Жыл бұрын
@@notdeadbuthappy5614 yes in the end i was!
@prostark8445 Жыл бұрын
How did you bring it up to your therapist? I don’t wanna sound like I’m self-diagnosing for attention or something but I feel like I can relate so much to the symptoms of bpd.
@MsCnote1984 Жыл бұрын
@@prostark8445, same here. I feel like this is exactly what I have. I've been diagnosed with PTSD but I feel like this is the most accurate description of my behavior, thoughts, and feelings.
@barbaral.7221 2 жыл бұрын
A video about BPD that doesn’t call us demons or abusive? Impossible
@sassylittleprophet 2 жыл бұрын
Seriously though. So many times I click on videos on BPD and I swear 99.5% of the comments are from people saying "my ex was abusive and they had BPD." And I'm just like, "oh...sorry" as if I personally had anything to do with their situation.
@jenynz5334 2 жыл бұрын
I just watched a video about the four types of bpd. Unfortunately the psycho bunny boilers gave us all a bad name.
@overvampservant 2 жыл бұрын
People say that about us? They can go jump in a fire 🔥
@plarnston 2 жыл бұрын
it's really validating. when i was diagnosed i burst out crying because "i dont want to be a bad person"
@Windermed 2 жыл бұрын
I may not have BPD but i feel bad for you guys who constantly get called horrible or abusive for something that you have that isn’t your fault. I hope that you guys can feel better.
@chlanders1729 2 жыл бұрын
I’ve been dealing with clInically diagnosed BPD/Bipolar disorder for about a decade now. It took a long time with many different medicines, psychiatrists and therapists, hospitalizations, and growth opportunities to get where I am now. The best advice I can give is to be honest with yourself and others, acknowledge and express your emotions, find useful coping strategies and use them, don’t be afraid to ask for and receive help (you are not a burden), and schedule time for yourself. Also, realize that any medicine or care you get won’t “fix” your disorder or make it go away, only help lessen the symptoms, so it is not an end-all be-all. Keep fighting the good fight peeps
@jokesonyou222 Жыл бұрын
Same
@userm180 Жыл бұрын
thanks for the advice
@isleep5914 2 жыл бұрын
I finally found a therapist who specializes in BPD. I’ve never been so relieved and felt more heard in my life.
@QuestionEverythingButWHY 3 жыл бұрын
“Trust yourself. You’ve survived a lot, and you’ll survive whatever is coming.” ― Robert Tew
@Psych2go 3 жыл бұрын
Great quote!
@northernlights9533 3 жыл бұрын
Yeah IM PROUD THAT I SURVIVED A THOUSAND NEEDLES GETTING JAMMED INTO MY BODY AND ALMOST DYING OF A SEVERE ASTHMA AND CHOKING ON MY OWN BLOOD
@aquaffinity 3 жыл бұрын
Northern lights - Geez dude
@reshmaadhikari131 3 жыл бұрын
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@undeadgamingyt9681 3 жыл бұрын
One thing we won't survive and that's death.
@4sm4e 3 жыл бұрын
me after watching this video: wtf i might have bpd. my brain: nah its not that deep bro. ur being dramatic get over it.
@user-xq4mp5dm9f 3 жыл бұрын
Same
@nobodyspecial5355 3 жыл бұрын
@@saniajunaid8016 same
@sarasnicks9246 3 жыл бұрын
Same..
@imacastaway543 3 жыл бұрын
Same
@peperokk 3 жыл бұрын
Daria?
@uncle-nice6556 2 ай бұрын
looking at the good effects of psilocybin mushrooms on depression I had a test, the effects of just one dose of psilocybin mushroom gave me an amazing healing..
@elmerhernandez3780 2 ай бұрын
Let's be adults about this. These are no longer 'shrooms. These are no longer party drugs for young people," "Psilocybin mushrooms are nonaddictive, life-changing substance..
@kristahutchinson6519 2 ай бұрын
You can get out of habits easier after a mushroom trip and get a different routine going, I couldnt even finish a cigarette afterwards because it almost made me throw up with how horrible it tasted.
@thrickthooter4403 2 ай бұрын
Hello! It appears I have interests, I want to get some.. where do you get from?
@elmerhernandez3780 2 ай бұрын
dr.rinehartshrooms
@elmerhernandez3780 2 ай бұрын
𝕴𝖓𝖘𝖙𝖆𝖌𝖗𝖆𝖒
@ShiyueDuan 9 ай бұрын
I was diagnosed with BPD a very long time ago, but drawing and writing keeps me calm. Thank you for spreading awareness on BPD. you are amazing : )
@crystalgreen6027 7 ай бұрын
Okay, this says that you didn't have BPD in the first place.
@softsunlightnaiad 3 жыл бұрын
I always blame myself, I cut off people, I am being rude, I feel like someone is controlling my brain. I don't wanna be rude. But I am When I said I cut off people, I meant that I make them dislike me, and leave me.
@rebeccanobody7486 3 жыл бұрын
You and me both 👊🏾
@mint_snow5197 3 жыл бұрын
Me everytime. I feel like someone is controlling me and when I tried to stop it, it just makes it worse.
@BellalovesMarla1 3 жыл бұрын
Same... And when they still like me I can't believe it. So I try harder to push them away 👍
@aimeekathleen3789 3 жыл бұрын
EXACLTY SAME
@roshanbishwakarma7162 3 жыл бұрын
me to
@rrshs8370 3 жыл бұрын
I just friggin love how all the little characters have cute tiny plants on their heads :D
@sunnythehedgehog5026 2 жыл бұрын
I think it is creepy.
@420epicchickennugget7 2 жыл бұрын
@@sunnythehedgehog5026 LMAO
@elora6516 2 жыл бұрын
YEEE
@hufturbul9083 2 жыл бұрын
Yaaaaah fortnite someone said you never miss a shot prove it
@bananaraki 2 жыл бұрын
Plantheads!!!
@Hannah.hanan05 Жыл бұрын
Y'all can think whatever you want of me but I find her voice so sweet and relaxing that sometimes I watch her videos to sleep 😭😭😭😭
@dirtyejection5229 2 жыл бұрын
For 7 years I thought I just had uncontrollable anxiety. So many doctors and so many medications to try and get a handle on it. However, after a few visits with a psychiatrist I was diagnosed with BPD. I had never even considered this. At first I was angry and rejected the diagnosis. However, over time I was able to accept the issues I have and am working with mental health therapists. This video hits all the symptoms right on the nose. Thank you for making this video
@leeisoffline 2 жыл бұрын
i really relate to this. im getting a psychological evaluation soon and im really nervous but idk why… im pretty sure its bpd but idk yet. how do you cope with having bpd? im literally barely a teenager and im really worried.
@dirtyejection5229 2 жыл бұрын
@@leeisoffline trust the therapy. It will take time but the payoff is worth it. Being a teenager isn't necessarily a bad thing! You will probably pick things up in therapy faster! You can do it
@kayleybishop6497 3 жыл бұрын
“plz reach out to a professional” yeah sure first i have to convince my narcissistic parents they aren’t perfect and i’m not just looking for attention 🤪🥳
@cataxy5697 3 жыл бұрын
bruh im in the same situation. and my mom (the only one of my parents i live with) has the audacity to say that im mentally perfect and fine while shes the mentally broken one. as soon as im 18 im gonna move out and instantly try at least to get mental help.
@idontknowmyname1339 3 жыл бұрын
@@cataxy5697 same...but I only suffer with depression and anxiety...and the more I stay home the worse my mind gets
@moka_dotz3149 3 жыл бұрын
@@cataxy5697 same situation except my parents are in a on and off relationship and whenever I bring it up they’ll say that I’m happy and I’m not sad and I’m just looking for attention when it stresses me out so bad I pull out my hair I don’t even get sleep
@dominusbalial835 3 жыл бұрын
Seek them out on your own, I'm in canada so it might be different but theres a variety of ways to seek out mental health. School wellness centers could be a good bet or a wellness center in general. A hospital could set you up as well. Which is what happened to me. I was severely depressed and suicidal and i got assigned to a therapist that assigned me to another one that treated me with cognitive behaviour therapy and it really helped. If you want to discuss further and need some direction to getting mental help leave a comment and I'll try to get back to you.
@sheilahiggins378 3 жыл бұрын
I cant talk to people because I'm afraid they'll think I'm looking for attention....or else I share to much
@papei.taisii 3 жыл бұрын
Me having BPD: **exists** Parents: You're a teen. Wait until it's over...
@lilialovee1396 3 жыл бұрын
I show every sign of having bpd and have been researching on it for a while, when I talked to my mom about the disorder she just yelled at me, told me I’m just a teen and that it’s a faze 😀🤚
@jackieapplegate940 3 жыл бұрын
that’s exactly what my psychiatrist said, i have every single sign and she says, i’m still a teen so therefore i don’t have it, and that if i did have it, i wouldn’t be able to tell i had it, like what??? like i get my psychiatrist is a professional but what the hell?
@lilialovee1396 3 жыл бұрын
@@jackieapplegate940 omg what?? I’ll never understand people who say things like that, untreated bpd is terrible and can get worse the longer it stays that way. I’m sorry that happened :/
@yumakuga9885 3 жыл бұрын
Ahh damn bro fvck same, like they'll say things "when your older" like okay bish who knows if i did tommorow when i can do it when I get older
@kam-lw4ez 3 жыл бұрын
BPD doesn't get diagnosed until you're 18 so your psychiatrist isn't wrong
@BBbalistia Жыл бұрын
I’ve always felt there’s something wrong with me, lots of diagnoses didn’t fit much but this one is so relatable. I resonate so much with this, the self hate and self destructiveness is so true, sometimes I get so mad or sad I lash out and it can come out of no where, I often keep anger inside and then lash out after awhile, I’ve always been so terrified of rejection and social anxiety that it’s prevented me from leaving my home, I often change my feelings about a person changing between positive perceptions and negative, I am not super impulsive because I am very structured but I often dissociate. I don’t know if it’s really that because I am still slightly conscious but I feel like I am watching myself. I hope I can get a diagnosis but I would have to talk to my mom regarding mental health and that’s impossible for me.
@athiravalath8376 Жыл бұрын
This summer I was diagnosed with BPD after a major depressive episode. It was scary and almost bewildering to receive that diagnosis after being diagnosed with major depression for 7 years. Having this new diagnosis though makes a lot more sense and lead to my psychiatric team and I to find ways to help myself. So far, we are doing DBT therapy and we may delve into addressing trauma. It's nice to see a better portrayal of BPD compared to what I heard and learned prior to my diagnosis. I'm studying biology and psychology and I had a professor completely shit on people with BPD.
@sarahbannister7824 Жыл бұрын
🥱
@sarahbannister7824 Жыл бұрын
Was it caused by using fake profiles to talk cos u can’t talk as u by any chance lol
@SamuelSamuelSamuel1 3 жыл бұрын
My sister has BPD, and I’m here to help understand her disorder :)
@shayjohnson9337 3 жыл бұрын
Thankyou, from her, me and every other borderline who feels misunderstood by society xx❤️
@iruthayarajmuthiah8597 3 жыл бұрын
I'm very proud of you even if I don't know you.
@astrobeyondtheworld 3 жыл бұрын
Free Palestine
@ItsActuallySaturn 3 жыл бұрын
Then you really are the best sibling ever.
@peril. 3 жыл бұрын
Ily
@muhammadyasinkajee4099 3 жыл бұрын
At this point youtube is trying to tell me something.
@dev5136 3 жыл бұрын
;-; ikr
@millietorres720 3 жыл бұрын
same here but I have two things
@rahmahassaf2275 3 жыл бұрын
Do you need help?
@ashmoon8780 3 жыл бұрын
Right lol
@sofiezee7764 3 жыл бұрын
FR it’s offensive
@christinedge7627 Жыл бұрын
Welp, this is officially the first video where I relate to all the points. Quick question: can BPD look like autism? I’ve suspected I’m on the spectrum for some time, but it’s been slow going getting me to a therapist because of my budget.
@martha5259 Жыл бұрын
yes yes and yes
@ToyotaCorolla-en2mv Жыл бұрын
Yes it can. There's also apparently been some studies that point to a link between undiagnosed autism and BPD but there's not a ton of research about it so at the moment it's just a theory, though looking into it is absolutely still valuable if you have the time.
@kellylingus Жыл бұрын
additionally, you could be on the spectrum and have bpd or...some other combo or not. I'm happy your trying to get therapy. I would also talk to my Dr as they can get you an official diagnoses, if you want. Good luck
@vvolfzvae Жыл бұрын
Yes, it’s also common for undiagnosed autism to also develop into bpd
@KA-mq4wj Жыл бұрын
BPD can be mistaken for ADHD or CPTSD
@matthewmiller6987 2 жыл бұрын
I personally have been diagnosed w bpd and man all of these hit home your work is so important never stop please
@TheHillbilly8757 3 жыл бұрын
Me: "I guess I have BPD" People: "So, go seek professional help." Me: "I don't have any money for that." People : "Go get a job." Me: "No one wants to hire me because I have a disorder." People: "So, go seek professional help."
@stuti.v3300 3 жыл бұрын
relatable.
@Eireguy_ 3 жыл бұрын
World sucks dosent it
@tarledamanley2832 3 жыл бұрын
How do they know you have a disorder if you haven't been professionally diagnosed?
@booblefobiaoftheshire3628 3 жыл бұрын
Which is why I will never go seek help for BPD, I am positive I have it, but if it got out that I did I would never be able to work in either of my professions.
@lincherde1079 3 жыл бұрын
I don't have money just becouse i'm teen. All what i can do is just sell berries. But people don't pay a lot
@QuestionEverythingButWHY 3 жыл бұрын
“She is a beautiful piece of broken pottery, put back together by her own hands. And a critical world judges her cracks while missing the beauty of how she made herself whole again.” --J.M. Storm
@kittykatrat1474 3 жыл бұрын
aaaaaaaaaaaaa
@QuestionEverythingButWHY 3 жыл бұрын
@@kittykatrat1474 I love this one.
@FliffFloofNormansimp 3 жыл бұрын
grand theft auto series They are trying to make people feel better asshole
@allthefandoms92 3 жыл бұрын
@@carnage2967 im curious how them responding would help anything. What exactly are they supposed to say to you? Aside from what's already been said.
@chrispafrieddreams9118 3 жыл бұрын
Ahhhhh, Pinterest....
@sso.snakey166 Жыл бұрын
Finally you made a good video about BPD. Wasn’t very happy about the precious ones that felt stigmatized but this was pretty accurate as someone with Quiet/discouraged BPD it’s very frustrating when peeps try to put us in a box. Thank you for making a fair video.
@chipperboi645 Жыл бұрын
Once I saw the part of disassociation I felt like maybe some realization hit. I tend to put myself in 3rd person a lot and see myself do things automatically sometimes, almost like I'm on autopilot. I doubt I have BPD but it's something I'll note for future reference.
@sozl5494 3 жыл бұрын
To any teenager knowing they have some kind of mental issue but can’t talk about it because of the fear of being treated as an “edgy teen who fakes mental illness” Please please please get help. I’ve struggled with my mental health since middle school, now I am 23 in college and it gets worse by the day. I regret not getting help earlier because I used to think it’d get better as I grew up, it’s just not the case. There are services online and especially if you are under health insurance, you can get help for free. Please get help so that you can enjoy your later years and develop healthy relationships. Please.
@lauraking206 2 жыл бұрын
okay, i'm a pre-teen girl who shows symptoms of bpd, bipolar, depression, separation anxiety and normal anxiety. i know i at least have depression (50% sure about bipolar, my symptoms of it are the ones in depression + moods swings and easily irratatible) and separation anxiety, but i'm to scared to self diagnose. i'll talk to my doctor when i see her in december.
@brainycatclown2697 2 жыл бұрын
Good person to comment this for others.
@damnnyall 2 жыл бұрын
no but how. how if no one believes u and u cant tell anyone.
@eri1590 2 жыл бұрын
my parents wouldn’t believe me, they don’t believe in mental health even though they know i struggle with self harm. i’ve been suspecting that i have bpd for a year now and i’m too scared to tell them, they think i’m crazy and i just want them to view me as a normal teenager. i don’t think my friends have noticed signs, if so they haven’t said anything to me about it. i want to get help but i can’t. i suspect i have bpd bc i did reasearch and i have almost all the symptoms. i also think i have ADHD, anxiety and depression.
@Little-Sparrow 2 жыл бұрын
Good advice! 💯💯💯 I spent most of my formative years wondering why I didn't think, feel or react how my peers did when in the same situations. My parents just didn't really care tbh, they viewed me as an "awkward, ungrateful and uncooperative little b***tard." (loving parental quote there!) Eventually I got sick of having to always put on a front and feign being ok, I completely estranged myself from the whole lot of them, parents, siblings - everyone! Finally, I'm in therapy with a list of diagnoses as long as my arm, I'm 50 now so truthfully it really is too little too late for me. I created so much misery and destruction trying to not be "a f****ng nutcase" (another loving parental quote) and hid so much, that some ships really did sail long ago. I can never get those years back. Don't get me wrong, other people were not the reason for my mental health, nor were they to blame, but I really wish parents would take the mental wellbeing of their kids as seriously as physical wellbeing. MH is no joking matter, but I now realise my parents were more concerned with how THEY'D be viewed & judged as parents than they were with my awkwardness/ungratefulness blah blah blah! If as a young person you feel you're not being taken seriously, seek basic counselling through school or college initially. Then go from there. Sometimes parents do NOT actually know best, but regardless, please please PLEASE do not ignore MH symptoms. You have a whole long life ahead of you and today is the 1st day of the rest of that life. Statistically 1 in 3 people will suffer from MH issues at some point in their life, that's a shed load of people! Good luck and best wishes to everyone in this kind of predicament, seek help. You matter and you deserve to be happy. (Sorry for the essay btw!)
@sabeensadaf1795 3 жыл бұрын
I love how the professional has a whole tree on his head 😂😂😂😂
@jungkookjeon-hj3bl 3 жыл бұрын
tree of knowledge
@consideratecommentator4284 3 жыл бұрын
@@jungkookjeon-hj3bl Yus.
@Miau770 3 жыл бұрын
@@jungkookjeon-hj3bl yess
@aubreyduncan8459 3 жыл бұрын
I didnt even notice! Lol. Maybe that means being rooted... im constantly in search of my roots😭
@jeons8096 3 жыл бұрын
@@jungkookjeon-hj3bl Hello Army !! 💜
@akornz51 Жыл бұрын
I was diagnosed with BPD. Never even had heard if it. Was angered when I asked what pill to take to fix that and they said its a behavioral problem no pill can fix. I do not like being told I have a behavioral problem especially when I am not aggressive, abusive or acting out. I thought I was misdiagnosed even though the childhood trauma was spot on for it. But then I learned of two types “Classic BPD” and the less common “Quiet BPD” in the video I think you refer to it as Hidden. I am quiet bpd. Im not a danger to you, only myself. And I know right from wrong and avoid doing those things. Me being Asexual helps as I don’t have the romantic issues more people with my disorder have as I prefer to be single.
@sweetnightmares7778 Жыл бұрын
I was diagnosed with BPD around 4 years ago, your videos help me understand a bit about what I've been diagnosed with over the years👌🏼
@demoniccatcomingforyou 3 жыл бұрын
May or may not have BPD The list: 1. Self Hatred/Self Harm 2. Difficulty Regulating Emotions 3. Internalized Anger 4. Fear of Rejection 5. Unstable Relationships 6. Impulsive Decisions 7. Dissociation
@reshmaadhikari131 3 жыл бұрын
kzfaq.info/get/bejne/b5meotBim6rbeKs.html
@ibrahima6578 3 жыл бұрын
I have some of them
@kittykatrat1474 3 жыл бұрын
@@reshmaadhikari131 fucking quick with the links !
@Mothblossom 3 жыл бұрын
I have all but 5
@zoezox 3 жыл бұрын
i have all 7 :(
@alexboy08 3 жыл бұрын
26 yrs old , diagnosed with bpd this year , I always thought that these were normal feelings for everyone , I even was so sure that everone wanted to commit suicide once in a while Little did I know
@fernandav6765 3 жыл бұрын
Hope you are okay
@bordergirl_9689 3 жыл бұрын
Im 18 and got diagnosed with 16... can relate what u wrote. Realised being suicidal isnt normal when i was 13 and thought few years im just depressed.
@lynnxx1744 3 жыл бұрын
oh shit that isn't normal? i've been feeling that since i was 8
@jegks111 3 жыл бұрын
@@lynnxx1744 that's horrifying
@paygebutcher 3 жыл бұрын
no same i thought it was a normal thing
@laimaz6340 10 ай бұрын
Much love and respect for those suffering with this ….praying you receive the help you deserve ❤️
@rj17982 Жыл бұрын
I was shown your channel by a friend a few days ago and just got on adhd medication which has helped a lot. I love your content and it has been helpful understanding myself so I can work on things. My mom and I got in to a really big fight today and I am hoping the videos about bipolar and BPD can help me understand her a bit better. I notice resentment and frustration building and I don't want to make anything worse for either of us and our mental health.
@daughterofvermillionhouse 3 жыл бұрын
*trying not to self-diagnose* After watching the whole vid : _oh no why are all of these feels relatable_
@claudiar972 2 жыл бұрын
Talk to somebody who can tell if u have it
@someonesour 2 жыл бұрын
@@claudiar972 Not everyone can speak to a therapist to diagnose them,,if your underage and parents don’t believe in mental illness,don’t have insurance and can’t afford it,etc.
@hbkoth819 2 жыл бұрын
Yeaah me too. I never connected so much to other types of mental illnesses like to BPD, i know to speak with a Professional Doc makes it more safe, but its difficulty to open the fu*kin mouth...🙁 And like i'm introverted as hell
@Cxoxo4 2 жыл бұрын
@@hbkoth819 same im pretty sure i have this and im very introverted
@fruitytoe 2 жыл бұрын
these symptoms r rly common things 4 ppl even without bpd pls dont self diagnose
@lemon_boy_dom6208 2 жыл бұрын
I have diagnosed bpd and I think relationships are the hardest for me. Like, one day, I'll adore my partner. I would do anything for them and I never want to lose them. But then the next day, I hate them, even if they haven't done anything. Before I was diagnosed, I would act on my hatred and just break up with the person. But now, I just know to wait it out until the feeling passes. It might sound easy, but its not. Hating someone for no reason and at the same time being aware that you hate someone for no reason makes me sick. Anyways, Idk if anyone will see this, but if you do, I hope you have a great day ❤
@06.izzahathirahbintiman34 2 жыл бұрын
i feel u cuz i experienced the same things as u . 😞
@biancamella7486 2 жыл бұрын
Learning to wait out the sudden mood/perception changes and actually "feel them out" is helpful for ANY mental/behavioral/mood disorder! Not just BPD so you're definitely not alone! 28 year old ADHD-er here.
@dearcomrade2358 2 жыл бұрын
this made me cry
@danitae9704 2 жыл бұрын
does the hatred or disgust feealings pass?
@CL-je6sv 2 жыл бұрын
Not in a romantic relationship, but I had a very intense crush on a friend for a little bit, like couldn't stop thinking and talking about them, and then a switch flipped and I loathed them. I don't really talk to them anymore either. My family was confused about how fast I went from obsessing over this person to not caring about them, actively disliking them and even avoiding them. Very confusing and disturbing to feel. I'm not diagnosed btw.
@ludicrousmoth8442 10 ай бұрын
I’ve been diagnosed with this and six other mental disorders and no one ever told me why. I think I understand it better now. Thank you.
@ASMinor Жыл бұрын
I have BPD, I am an avid #MentalHealthAwareness advocate and spoken word performer, and I love this so much. I travel the country trying to bring that awareness on stages, in classrooms, hospitals, and on my KZfaq channel, so I get excited when I see other advocates.
@spinning_jenny3280 3 жыл бұрын
One of my favorite things about this channel is the cute animation styles and the calming voice. Very soothing. A quote I like: Talk to yourself like somebody you love 💕
@piedondon8726 3 жыл бұрын
_but the thing is... I'm a circus-_
@Psych2go 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you~
@spinning_jenny3280 3 жыл бұрын
Pie Dondon a circus full of love
@piedondon8726 3 жыл бұрын
@@Psych2go I'm glad you notice your fans :)
@piedondon8726 3 жыл бұрын
@@spinning_jenny3280 _a circus full of jokes_
@dantheman921 3 жыл бұрын
I am afraid of going to a "professional" because every time I have tried they diagnose me with different things and can never seem to agree on what I actually have which makes me feel unhelpable..
@tiffernut2456 3 жыл бұрын
I understand your frustration. You Are Helpable! Explain to whom you may see next how you feel. Explain it causes more harm to your well being to be diagnosed with anything right now. Its most important to sort your thoughts and feelings to feel balanced day to day. It's Okay to tell them you dont want to feel unhelpable and the diagnosing isn't helping! Stay Strong, You Got This!
@justagell4680 3 жыл бұрын
@@user-oq9ks3hc3h wtf?
@isaykimchi9250 3 жыл бұрын
Hi :) I have created a page on Instagram to gather people's stories about their mental health in the hope it would help people feel more understood and not alone in feeling a certain way. I have literally just created it so I was wondering if you'd like to share your story anonymously. The name of the account is lifestories0250. You can send me a message there if you'd like to be part of it. Anyone else is welcome as well. Hope everything goes well with you and you have a good day!😊
@millietorres720 3 жыл бұрын
um I have this and i am deperesed you see what I tried to say
@ishootbishez6974 3 жыл бұрын
Unfortunately BPD is very understudied and many professionals aren’t trained well in order to treat it. Tragic
@lukathedumbass Жыл бұрын
I mean, I know and have known I had it, but I watched this to understand better... And it definitely helped answer a few questions, especially as to why I catch and loose feelings SO quickly, like going from being completely obsessed with someone for a few weeks to losing those feelings or hating that person all together... which is a something I've been wondering about for so long, I had no idea it was tied to my bpd,
@introvertedanonymous8995 Жыл бұрын
Getting help/going to therapy is not that easy as it looks, it's really tough to deal w/ it! And when the therapist herself makes u feel bad about what you're dealing with 🙁 . i'm going to therapy but i hate to talk to the therapist , i'm scared now , feels like i'm the worst person on earth! So i'm gonna lie about being better , and then deal w/ things by myself later whenust this whole therapy thing ends , i just wanted to confess this somewhere that i'm tired of dealing w/ my ment@l illness , hope y'all dont mind .
@_mjsty_ 3 жыл бұрын
BPD is so hard to deal with I can't bear to live with myself most of the times, I feel like I'm in a mental prison that I'll never be able to escape, I'm my worst enemy
@Lazy_Prophet 3 жыл бұрын
I know how you feel 😏
@GinStri 3 жыл бұрын
Right there with you.
@manishmanish-wn3rd 3 жыл бұрын
Yes it's a prison
@shatteredscry 3 жыл бұрын
Definitely with BPD. People misunderstand our intentions and it cages us from expressing our love right.
@sa-le4mj 3 жыл бұрын
yep i feel you
@arc2444 3 жыл бұрын
"The purpose of this video is to create awareness, and should in no case be used to self-diagnose" People: Nah
@augustsmith9553 3 жыл бұрын
Right!?
@amira-eg4qb 3 жыл бұрын
sometimes people don’t have the means to seek professional help so unfortunately self-diagnosing is their only option. As long as they do extensive research
@ghost-zw8rj 3 жыл бұрын
@@amira-eg4qb yes at times self diagnosing is justified but its better to not take meds till your clinically diagnosed and i know thats not easy to do but its better than taking meds for an illness you might end up not having especially with illnesses that are easily misdiagnosed due to the similarities between the symptoms of the illness and other illnesses
@DexDex000 3 жыл бұрын
@@ghost-zw8rj if people don’t have the means to get professionally diagnosed how would they manage to get medication...?
@ghost-zw8rj 3 жыл бұрын
@@DexDex000 sometimes people buy medication after self diagnosing and take them despite not being professionally instructed to take them
@Lily-ur7sp Жыл бұрын
I recently got told by my Psychiatrist that she thinks I may have Bipolar disorder or BPD, and she asked me to research more about it to help me be able to know what I should look out for. I just finished researching about Bipolar disorder and I thought it was pretty close, but then I started researching about BPD and it hits right on the mark. So thank you for making these videos to help inform others, it helps so much! ❤
@truecreator2000 2 жыл бұрын
I have BPD my whole life but never known what it was so thank you for making me learn about what im going through.
@keenanslittlesister4604 3 жыл бұрын
What’s tough about BPD to the outside world is these are symptoms everybody feels at some point or another. But the depth, the intensity, how much it controls your ability to function and have healthy relationships, is not something you could understand unless you have it. And this disconnect makes it so hard to be understood/to understand
@addison1134 3 жыл бұрын
Well said👌
@jadenbandit1204 2 жыл бұрын
Its also very often misdiagnosed or dismissed...
@ocharakau645 2 жыл бұрын
It's hard for the sufferer not understanding why they feel this way, and it's hard for the people who love the sufferer who don't understand why their loved one is on a hair trigger. The going to work image was really poignant to me. A cousin of mine can't work because of her social anxiety, but feels threatened when I am unavailable due to work. It's hard all around.
@jadamensah 2 жыл бұрын
perfectly articulated!!
@dumbdonny4824 2 жыл бұрын
oh my god this. it makes me feel more crazy when i get this kind of response.
@wufflesmcnotadoggo 3 жыл бұрын
P2G: "Don't use this video to self diagnose" Me who's just watching to understand my friend with BPD better: 👍
@MrJoon360 3 жыл бұрын
Sounds like you're a great friend.
@mimisart 3 жыл бұрын
Oh my Gosh, I am so grateful for people like you!! I have BPD, I would love to have people try to understand what it is all about instead of saying the standard stuff like 'You're just so sensitive' or 'Why is everything over the top with you?'
@dariancomsa7204 3 жыл бұрын
I almost started to cry while watching this. I check 6/7 (I didn't have a girlfriend yet)
@tararosabelle7368 3 жыл бұрын
I'm using this to say I think I have it and not self diagnose for sure cause I dont have money to seek help from a professional, I'm a minor and I have family trauma and obv dont want my family to take me cause I hate them :(. But you really sound like a good friend. Your friend is lucky that they have you. I wish I had a friend like you.
@ThePandababy13 3 жыл бұрын
@@tararosabelle7368 Hey, I hope you're well and will get the opportunity to get diagnosed some day! but pls keep in mind that BPD is a personality disorder and most psychiatrists won't diagnose minors with it. It's said the personality isn't fully developed until the age of 18-20. I struggled with the symptoms since I can remember (even in my early childhood), mum went to 15+ psychiatrists with me since I was 6 (now 22), even had to stay at hospitals 4 times, before finally being diagnosed at the age of 18 in my final therapy. It can be a long way and most of the things to help you have to figure out yourself, because BPD is different from person to person. So I wish you that you don't have it, it's a pain in the ass most of the time...
@Hexgirl 2 ай бұрын
I love this channel. Could you do a video about skills for mental illnesses? Like the 6 habits to reduce stress and anxiety!
@liz6038 Жыл бұрын
I was diagnosed with BPD when I was a preteen and diagnosed with bipolar 2 disorder when I was 30. After years of therapy, I'm able to regulate my emotions. I'm currently pursuing a degree to become a mental health and substance use counselor. My main goal is to become a social worker. I'm on medication and still attend therapy sessions, I've come a long way. it's possible to grow and recover from individual experiences.
@w3ird_pers0n88 2 жыл бұрын
This is awful, I don't even have friends anymore, I hardly talk to my parents and I start crying or getting angry about everything. I blame others but more on me. I don't feel like I can be happy in the future, I don't even see a future
@minnolyn 2 жыл бұрын
You’ve got a friend in meee
@vsedits2336 2 жыл бұрын
there are a lot weirdest people in this f*cking world everybody in this f*cking world is weird at some points they can’t change them but i have beleive in my self that i could make myself good so don’t feel that you are alone👉✌️✌️
@V2Ta__ 2 жыл бұрын
It's okay your gonna be okay. And even if your not it's fine. It's completely okay to not be okay. Even I think I might have thoses symptoms but I'm too scared to get help. If you can please do. And like you got a future. Everything will work out. And please dont worry, like I'm just a teen myself and I hope and pray your life gets easier. Sending lots of love dear stranger💗💗
@hufled 2 жыл бұрын
I'm sad, alone and so tired of everything. i don't even know what i want, what my desired life even is. i dont have any plans or thoughts about me in the future and i dont know how to make things better
@F0R4N 2 жыл бұрын
I can relate to you so well. Like I almost cried because of relatability.
@emmalund1211 3 жыл бұрын
i feel like i have bpd. im scared to talk to anyone about it. i don’t want to seem like i want attention but i’ve been thinking about it a lot and i think it might be the problem. im scared im going to ruin relationships if i don’t get help though:(
@vishmifernando6816 3 жыл бұрын
I have been there too. I was scared but then i couldn't control myself anymore and I talked with my parents. I cried a lot . They understood me . We went to a psychiatrist. And he gave me medicines. Don't be scared. Talk to your parents or go to a doctor. You're strong. Believe me. Because I'm someone like you. Don't wait until it get worse. You deserve to be happy. I love you ♡♡ . I can understand how you feel right now. You can do this. ( sorry for my bad English)
@kriskeilman8124 3 жыл бұрын
Hey, Emma, I think, and I'm not alone in this, that it is actually a characteristic of most human beings to need the attention (pretty often AND regularly) of the people we care about. Attention is not just something that kids ask for, either by "misbehavior" or rebellion - it is needed by people of ALL ages. The thing is, the way many people AND MOST Americans are raised is to believe that asking for what you need is somehow BAD. (It may be a "left-over" from our Puritanical roots, which originally came from our forebears in the New England region of the country and also around New York.) What I'm getting at here is that it ISN'T wrong or bad to need and/or to ask for attention. You can make this go more easily if you think in advance what your areas of worry or concern are AND what sort of attention is most likely to help you with them. Some people are a lot more willing to help a worried or concerned person when they have SOME IDEA (from you) of WHAT they will be asked to do to help. Now, all of this shouldn't be discouraging. It is really only to say that the ease with which you can ASK for help and the LIKELIHOOD that you'll find family members or friends (you know: whoever you ask) who are willing (i.e., not afraid) to talk with you to help you ARE BOTH INCREASED if you can spend some quiet time thinking about what exactly is bothering you and what you might need to open up to another person about your feelings. Don't despair, please, because in almost every case you WILL be able to find someone to talk with, either friend or family or a person in the counseling profession One last thing, Emma: You mentioned that you were scared you might ruin relationships because of your possible BPD. If you tell the people who are in these relationships with you that you are having some personal worries (tell as little or as much as you think is wise, but DO share something) and ask them remember this and "cut you a little slack," because you value your relationship with them and want to protect it from any misunderstandings. This should help, too, at this difficult time. Good luck to you, Emma, and good wishes from me to you. I have a feeling from your comment that you will be able to BEGIN to find what you need. It IS, after all, a continuous process for ALL OF US. keep safe and healthy, emma! kris k.
@kriskeilman8124 3 жыл бұрын
@@vishmifernando6816: I just wanted to say, Vishmi, that I really admire you. Your response to Emma was so loving and understanding, and you shared some of your experience with her, showing that relationships CAN remain positive and she CAN move forward toward feeling better Brava to you, Vishmi! p.s.: your English sounded very good, and well studied, to me. kris k.
@quackity7672 3 жыл бұрын
I think so too myself, i'm terrified of telling my parents about it cause I knoe they'll take away things I cherish so much. I cry myself every night not knowing why, I want to reach out and get help but I can't..
@lizziedownen4204 3 жыл бұрын
I felt the same way
@forgottenartform Жыл бұрын
Having a watch through your vids on BPD are helping me get more informed on my illness, after a psychiatrist has finally referred me for treatment a decade after the first diagnosis then ignoring it in favour of medicating me for my type 2 bipolar
@b_r_o_o_k_l_y_n9753 9 ай бұрын
I got diagnosed with bpd and sides of bipolar a week ago This video makes me blame myself less for all of these hidden feelings and it makes me understand sertain situations more that accurt to me Thankyou so much❤❤
@Ineedthetlousellie 3 жыл бұрын
Me: mum I’m depressed I need help (meanwhile actually having bpd) Mum: you’re possessed let’s pray
@notgonnalie1846 3 жыл бұрын
she might be right
@Ineedthetlousellie 3 жыл бұрын
@@notgonnalie1846 haha😐
@Awwwtheskrunkly 3 жыл бұрын
@@notgonnalie1846 got the whole gang laughing 😐
@peril. 3 жыл бұрын
@@notgonnalie1846 damn bro I ordered a laugh on amazon. the order got thrown in a lake during delivery😐
@butterfliesglowx9425 3 жыл бұрын
Did you get your depression diagonesd
@itsfroztiitoo 2 жыл бұрын
1:21 1. Self Hatred/Self Harm 1:50 2. Difficulty Regulating Emotions 2:31 3. Internalized Anger 3:01 4. Fear of Rejection 3:27 5. Unstable Relationship 3:58 6. Impulsive Decisions 4:30 7. Disassociation
@xMoonTessa 2 жыл бұрын
tysm :)
@mamameme4887 2 жыл бұрын
@Hopespeak4ever as calmly as you can, insist on getting an expert‘s opinion. You can tell her that if you (like she thinks) don‘t have these symptoms, she has nothing to worry about, and seeing a psychologist or psychiatrist will only confirm that and put your concerns at rest. Don‘t let too much time pass before seeking help. A similar thing happened to me with depression, and it hurt me tremendously. I grew up, left home, and sought help; I‘m doing better now. However, there was damage done that is very hard to correct and best avoided.
@itsfroztiitoo 2 жыл бұрын
@Hopespeak4ever me too but Im getting a hint or an idea that Im maybe a narcissist.
@soupertastic Жыл бұрын
@phillip abney I'm so sorry, I feel the same way, sometimes even to eradicate myself. However, I know I've learnt empathy, people are good too and sometimes just situations need ignorance. So we are all together in this. Let's learn more about ourselves, forgive ourselves and improve ourselves. I'm fighting BPD and depression right now. I'm with you busy. You're good, you matter and you're valuable. Even if you don't love yourself, everyone needs you, cause how you showed your struggle will help others to work on it in their own ways.
@yooniverse7313 Жыл бұрын
@@itsfroztiitoo I don't really like myself so probably not one of them.
@bryanrusso6640 6 ай бұрын
I have a BPD diagnosis but it's a combination with PTSD and repetitive depression, that makes it a bit more confusing at times. This year was crazy, in January I started with therapy 2 months straight day and night, since that time many things changed. I'm 23 and I just recently learned who I am and that me and my feelings are the complete opposite of what my mind always told me, what my parents always told me... All the things I learned cause my parents litteraly hated my personality, my look and especially my emotions... I always thought the brutal things I had to go trough were normal or better I even started to not trust my own memories... And now I'm standing here with a will to life, a will to just be myself and I'm still in the process of learning how to deal with all that trauma but I'm really proud about who I got to be in just one year... I can and will do this and become my best self ✨
@pierremercier4724 Жыл бұрын
A very good friend of mine has a BPD disorder. At first, I didn't know why he reacted so intensely to some stressors a lot of people can handle more or less easily. Then, some of our common friends told me about his mental problem. So, I can manage more easily, now, his overreactions. And your insightful video helps me a lot to identify the main signs of this personality disorder. Thank you so much. 👍👍👍👍👍
@mommywithnokidsss 3 жыл бұрын
I got diagnosed officially with BPD 2 years ago now, and honestly.... it didn’t feel like a life sentence. It felt like THANK GOD THINGS FINALLY MAKE SENSE IN MY LIFE AND IM NOT IN THE UNKNOWN ANYMORE!!!
@lilo5437 3 жыл бұрын
Exactly! I finally got diagnosed last year. 15 years ago I already knew I had it, but no one believed me and I couldn’t find a good and helpful psychologist. I really wanted a professional to diagnose me, so I’d have it on paper. Last year I finally found a wonderful psychologist and I got the diagnosis. It was such a relief even though I always knew I had it. Therapy has been really helpful! I hope you’re doing well ❤️
@aunyaebledsoe9535 3 жыл бұрын
@@lilo5437 how’d you know you had it like what were your symptoms ? What were you going through ?
@amberdifazio4921 3 жыл бұрын
@@aunyaebledsoe9535 rewatch the video.
@ellenhofrath 2 жыл бұрын
I've got my diagnosis with 56. Before I was told to be depressed. The right diagnisimade me dance. Suddenly everything in my history felt in place.
@aunyaebledsoe9535 2 жыл бұрын
@@lilo5437 in those 15 years did you ever have to be hospitalized?
@proximacentauri4943 2 жыл бұрын
One of my best friends has BPD and it used to be a very hard and challenging friendship throughout our youth becaus she wasn´t diagnosed with it. Her actions and reactions to me were often so irrational to me, it sometimes felt like being slapped right in the face for no reason at all. Nevertheless, we never let go of each other and when she finaly got diagnosed i almost cried because i finaly got an explanation for all those things that happened this whole time. She also apologised to me for the hurtful things, she did back then. We´re still friends until today, talk about her disorder very openly and are there for each other in difficult times.
@jennifercave896 2 жыл бұрын
Good for you, you trusted your heart
@userm180 Жыл бұрын
proud of you both
@prostark8445 Жыл бұрын
I wish I had a friend like you lol
@Testing-123 Жыл бұрын
Do you think your friend would have benefitted by being diagnosed earlier in life? Thanks for the comment
@proximacentauri4943 Жыл бұрын
@@Testing-123 Definitely! I guess most People with any kind of mental illness or personality disorder would agree to that. Even with physical illnesses: once you know, whats "wrong" with you, you can start working on it. In the case of my friend, you can tell your friends and family what the reason for your behaviour was in all these years and relationships may start to heal. Naming a problem is the first step to start communicating about it properly.
@night.terras Жыл бұрын
i'm just gonna point out that your voice is so soothing and relaxing. You sound like an angel.
@readumineko 11 ай бұрын
I have BPD and something that i feel i needed to hear when i was just diagnosed with it or when i was undiagnosed is: You can love and be loved without this disorder getting in the way, you can be a loving and good person, people can love you the way you are. BDP is one of those disorders with so much prejudice. It is hard, going through it and getting to a controlled point. There will be always better and worst days, but therapy helps, a good therapist helps. I know it's not as easy to get good quality therapy, but keep trying, don't give up and push through those intrusive thoughts about yourself. You deserve it, you can do it and you have a place in this world. Look for help of any kind. Life can be worth living and fighting for.
@Noel_Wood 3 жыл бұрын
me in the corner thinking that this was all normal: 😰
@Phoenix-cg3hq 3 жыл бұрын
stop self diagnosing please, and get help if you need it :)
@Noel_Wood 3 жыл бұрын
@@Phoenix-cg3hq wdym "self-diagnosing" i didn't self diagnose anything and I do get help, please consider others before speaking or claiming absurd things.
@anachronismboy 3 жыл бұрын
@@Phoenix-cg3hq they didnt say anything like "I have bpd" they just said they thought all or some of these symptoms were normal things that happened to everybody
@hanaremn4193 3 жыл бұрын
@@Phoenix-cg3hq how are they self diagnosing?😂
@pureevilecho150 3 жыл бұрын
@@hanaremn4193 they’re not. Phoenix is dumb
@axcystan_1884 3 жыл бұрын
1:20 Self hatred/self harm 1:50 Difficulty regulating emotions 2:30 Internalized anger 3:02 Fear of rejection 3:27 Unstable relationships 4:00 Impulsive decisions 4:30 Disassociation Watch full video for full info🙂
@iamkevib9718 3 жыл бұрын
Nice nice nice
@APoliticalConfusionAndMess 3 жыл бұрын
I can relate to a LOT of these except disassociation...
@reshmaadhikari131 3 жыл бұрын
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@APoliticalConfusionAndMess 3 жыл бұрын
@@reshmaadhikari131 Delete this.
@Psych2go 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks for putting this together! :)
@user-kz7ft6dp2u 2 ай бұрын
I love those animations. It feels like everything is right in the PsychToGo world, even if the people there face troubles. It's really sweet and soothing
@shadowwolf6720 Жыл бұрын
The intense mood swings are so real for me..I could go from being blinded by absolute rage or feeling like I'm spinning and sick with anxiety so quick. I cry when I'm angry, I people please all the time, and I'm terrified I'm not the person I think I am. I live in such a toxic household that no one understands, but I'm so glad videos like these help me understand myself.
@faa1412 Жыл бұрын
Do you wonder if your toxic household created your BPD?
@shadowwolf6720 Жыл бұрын
@A Matt I really do think so honestly. I've never seen a family be as dysfunctional as mine for sure. It was difficult growing up and still is, but now I'm working on myself more than ever
@AyeshaShaSha 3 жыл бұрын
As someone with ADHD can I just say I find your little animations extremely helpful for my concentration. Your voice is SO relaxing but if I was just hearing it alone I would either fall asleep or switch off because my brain gets so easily distracted. But your animations are so cute and friendly it makes me want to see the next one, but also helps me visualise what you're saying, as I'm a visual learner. It seems quite a lot of these symptoms cross over into ADHD as well.... but that last one is definitely something I go through but didn't realise the term for it. Looks like I need another trip to the doctor to further try to understand what's going on with me... Thanks so much for these videos, they are so well done!
@Elizabeth-vr8cb 3 жыл бұрын
How did you find out you had ADHD? Did you display signs that you researched before going to the doctor? Or did you just go to the doctor about your mental health? I’m really struggling because I don’t know what’s wrong with me and I’ve questioned if it was ADHD or BPD but I’ve yet to go to a doctor (of course I will but I need to know what signs I have first so that I can explain what’s going on). Do you think you could tell me what kind of signs you have so that I can establish if I identify with them? I completely understand if not, but thank you anyway :)
@milliejay1451 3 жыл бұрын
@@Elizabeth-vr8cb before I was diagnosed with BPD, I had to do an ADHD test. They ask you more specific questions about your work and concentration and things like that. BPD is actually rarer than people think. It only affects 1% of the population and if you’re under the age of 18 you’re unlikely to be diagnosed with BPD as your personality hasn’t set in yet. It’s a lifelong disorder but you can manage symptoms better. Unfortunately, I can’t afford therapy and medication is hard to get because (an actual doctors quote here) “you’re only a woman, it’s just your hormones”
@Elizabeth-vr8cb 3 жыл бұрын
@@milliejay1451 wow I had no idea it was that rare. I definitely wasn’t self diagnosing but I’ve gone through a lot of trauma and have had an ED since I was about 9 so I’m struggling a lot while in recovery etc anyway. I definitely think I need to look to seeing a doctor about depression/anxiety/other trauma related mental health problems, though I am worried about it because last time they just belittled me for being so young and in turn, made it worse, so I definitely understand your troubles with ignorant doctors. How should I go about seeing a mental health professional? And will they eventually decide where my mental health is for themselves or will I have to try and explain what I think may be my problem? (Obviously I’m not a mental health professional so I don’t actually have any idea 😂)
@AyeshaShaSha 3 жыл бұрын
@@Elizabeth-vr8cb Hello! I can recommend a channel called *How To ADHD* , there are SO many videos on there but there is definitely one in particular which outlines some of the tell tale signs of ADHD. Basically my husband was actually the one who noticed my behaviour and thought that was what I could have, then when I sent to a specialist it turned out I was a pretty textbook case. For me, my ADHD is hyperactive and inattentive combined. I'm incredibly easily distracted, hyperfocus only on things that interest me to the point where hours and hours can go by and I don't realise, but can't focus on something that doesn't give me any sort of dopamine... e.g mundane tasks, reading long paragraphs of texts (though funnily enough I can write them, but that's probably because my hyperactive brain is trying to spew out as much information as possible and doesn't QUITE know when to stop🤣🤣), watching something that isn't the most interesting. I struggle to process what's being said to me quickly, or what I've read. I often have to go over things again and again and even then it sometimes still doesn't sink in because my brain has already darted off onto something else. I am very easily overwhelmed by tasks, take on too much, have an acute inability to regulate my emotions... going from 0 to 100 real fast. I have a humongous issue with rejection of any kind, and have lost many friends because of these and more symptoms. It's been a constant struggle all my life, yet was only diagnosed 2 years ago. Another great channel is *ADHD Management*. Check both of those out. Even though I've laid out SOME of my symptoms, please don't compare yourself to me. See if you relate, yes, but get yourself checked by a professional. I really hope you find the help you need... it was a breath of fresh air getting diagnosed xxx
@Elizabeth-vr8cb 3 жыл бұрын
@@AyeshaShaSha I relate to these signs so much! It’s relief to know that I’m at least experiencing things that other people have to deal with as well 😅 thanks for recommending that channel, I’ll definitely check it out. I really want to get a diagnosis (even if it’s not ADHD) but I’m very nervous to even go to/be around doctors because of past experiences. The sooner the better though ig. Did it take you long to get a diagnosis? And is there any kind of treatment or medication or anything? ( I know that I may not even have it but if I do, I’d like to know what to expect at the doctors) ty!! :D
@kyuurio8530 3 жыл бұрын
i just want somebody to talk to but my emotions change so much i don’t think a therapist would think there’s anything wrong with me.
@starlightparades 3 жыл бұрын
if you feel like there’s something wrong, please go talk to a therapist! it’s your emotions, and you understand yourself better than anyone else! if you do think you have a disorder, then you probably do. the only way to find out for sure, though, is to talk to a professional! good luck, you can do this! if you ever need to talk to someone, ill be right here!! keep going!
@perceptiveprof 3 жыл бұрын
Just because your emotions do not swing, does not mean something is "wrong" . Emotions are not 'right' or 'wrong' they just are. If you are struggling with relationships with others or feel 'disconnected' from your emotions, that is just as much of a reason to chat with someone as if you have emotions that roller-coaster. It helps just to talk it out with a neutral person who can help you gain perspective.
@alyssakotler1541 3 жыл бұрын
I feel the exact same way
@dummieface7690 3 жыл бұрын
This actually happened to me :( I have awful mood swings and coincidentally when I went into (most) of our sessions I was happy and wanted to talk about how amazing I felt in the moment! She never ASKED about things, so I never told her. My advice is: if you get a therapist tell them about your mood swings! Tell them anything they should know about!
@Eireguy_ 3 жыл бұрын
I never told anyone bout my probs for 1 Year Haha its gotten very bad now Im gonna do that gain
@matnels277 Жыл бұрын
Just got diagnosed with this at almost 40 years old along with adhd and ptsd. Had to go stay in a hospital for a month. If I didn't go in I feel like I would of never found out, it's hard to do on the outside. Ive also quit marajuana and alcohol, 7 weeks and counting. I wasn't enjoying it and was pretty much self medicating for 20 years. I gave up. Now I feel better than I ever have, I'm clear minded, happy and determined to stay sober until the day I die. Never give up on yourself and keep fighting the fight, there is light at the end of the tunnel, just keep running towards it and never look back.
@eatnoodlesoup1241 Жыл бұрын
I have no idea what to do. I have never felt so called out and related to a video ever. Everything you said are exactly the problems im facing right now...
@QuestionEverythingButWHY 3 жыл бұрын
“Today's tears water tomorrow's gardens.” ― Matshona Dhliwayo
@reshmaadhikari131 3 жыл бұрын
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@ruchamansukh1203 3 жыл бұрын
😭😭 This is my new fav quote thanku♥️
@treznopresto4878 3 жыл бұрын
Oh hello, i want to ask you something, is there a something that make you always make quotes like this? Just asking
@FriendlyGhost19 3 жыл бұрын
"today's tears will be tomorrow's swimming pool" -my soul
@QuestionEverythingButWHY 3 жыл бұрын
@@treznopresto4878 Sorry I couldn't get you. Could you elaborate?
@bonnie4372 2 жыл бұрын
As a child I was always told I'm being irrational, overemotional, belittled, etc. It got to the point where I wasn't sure how much of what I was feeling is real It still messes with me a lot I'm very thankful to have a partner who loves me despite my issues. He is always considerate and helps me get through my episodes. I feel so lucky to have someone so understanding and kind
@voydheart9144 2 жыл бұрын
My wife is the same, I'm glad your partner loves you enough to help you through those episodes, they are difficult for all involved. Have a wonderful day
@SD-ym1rt 2 жыл бұрын
This makes me happy good luck to you both x
@jolyenslik944 Жыл бұрын
Cherish them
@oathkeeperthebrony8316 Жыл бұрын
I’m glad that you do now, but you ok from that though?
@oathkeeperthebrony8316 Жыл бұрын
@SmokeyJungleFrog Oh…I’m sorry to hear that, but you ok…?
@faolan_renard Жыл бұрын
So I was finally diagnosed with BPD in 2020. After getting out of the military in 2019 there was a LOT of screaming and rages with my parents. Now I also deal with ADHD, so more behavioral stuff since I was young, not to mention when I was a toddler my dad got divorced from my biological mother, but I've been past the divorce stuff. I can safely say that I deal with a lot of the topics discussed. I have always had a negative self image and self harm was pretty late in life. I have a very hard time with emotional regulation. My anger has been kinda both inward and outward. I also am terrified of being rejected and change who I am to get people to like me only for it to backfire. I don't know about romantic relationships since I'm not fully experienced despite being a divorcee, I love people but it just doesn't click the way I think it should. I also have a problem with impulsive decisions, mostly in spending but after my bills are paid. I'm not sure about disassociation but I do get hyperfixated because of my ADHD. I can safely say my diagnosis is not because of childhood trauma. My birth mom has a lot of issues and my mind is just weird
@RikaMiarunua Жыл бұрын
I told my councelor and therapist about your channel and now she suggests for people to check it out. I have spent years and years learning and managing my issues, learning new ways to implement tricks and tools I was taught. I find that bpd is also very hard for people to spot but many also struggle to handle themselves when faced with situations they have no influence over and it involves them. I also account for this. Please any one that struggles with questions do not dismiss the option of counselling! it took me over 8 different kinds of councilors and therapists before I found my current one that I have been with for over 20 years now. always go into sessions be it individual or group with an open mind on things. Remember to think how could I take this and help myself or how it could be something to help another. Learning how to manage your mind and figure out how to manage yourself threw interaction settings will take time, and patience, and honestly quite a bit of self reminders like Maybe it is the situation and not just what interaction happened. Sure people may look at you like your nuts when you tell them how things make you feel. Yet then you have just taken the first step to creating a working understanding between those interacting. Stay strong, Know you are loved, and always believe in yourself ALWAYS. You have a choice, thus a chance to change things when you reach out for help, better understanding, and it is not cheating, but merely a use of resources!^^ Thank you Psyc team for all the epic loves. Happy times, fun moments, and more joy to you and all out there! "The best way to influence or change the world as a whole starts with one thing. You infecting it and everyone you know with one thing, posativeness. Remind others of what we all seek and need the most. joy, love, companionship, understanding, community, honesty, the list goes on. If you do thing over time this will spread and grow, with or with out you. It instills a question for them to change their life and ways of thinking. WHY? "Why do I care? Because I do." "Why are you doing (X)? Because I understand what it is like." "Why can I still be (x) way? Because I know how hard it is, and I never stop growing, learning, or changing my perceptions of the world. Just like you can. I hope that you can Join me one day."
@literallydie 26 күн бұрын
Underrated comment
@catatorrejon2160 2 жыл бұрын
The worst part is when you 'wake up' from the explosive anger, see what you did impulsively and think "i really wish not to be like this" it's very hurtful. Edit: Love the comments, it's so good to feel like I'm not alone and that my struggles can be treated if i approach them correctly. Love you all, you're not alone 🖤
@nat3299 2 жыл бұрын
This happens a lot with my parents and I don’t want to be mean to them
@Julia-yk6lj 2 жыл бұрын
exactly
@justhades113 2 жыл бұрын
@@Julia-yk6lj word 👊
@user-uu2vf2mo9v 2 жыл бұрын
@Rimsha Mohammed ...being aware and knowing the problem - watching videos to improve- brings you one step ahead on solving this. Am sure they don't hate you and the best c'd be to address your concern in a calm moment, so for you to find a solution together. Calming exercises are excellent. Try to find some breathing or calming meditation, it will do wonders. Wishing you VERY well.
@breadination2180 2 жыл бұрын
Yup, most of my arguments are with my mum, now she thinks I hate her
@chronic_daydreamer 3 жыл бұрын
I don’t wanna self-diagnose, but this sounds so much like my own experience.
@Psych2go 3 жыл бұрын
I see. Thanks for sharing! How many of these signs did you resonate with?
@chronic_daydreamer 3 жыл бұрын
Psych2Go Internalized symptoms that occasionally escape or produce a deep depressive state. Suicidal thoughts. Feeling like I’m a bad person despite striving to be the best I can be. Can’t hate others. Hate and blame myself instead. Deathly afraid of rejection as a teenager. People I considered friends all eventually leaving me because I crawl into my own hole. Binge eating. Awful dissociation. Rarely in tune with my body. Makes me wonder if I’ve developed BPD to cope with my childhood.
@wesleymartin1373 3 жыл бұрын
Psych2go I resonated with all 7 sings do you think I should find a specialist?
@wesleymartin1373 3 жыл бұрын
Psych2Go ?
@TheSlimecast 3 жыл бұрын
@@wesleymartin1373 yes, you should
@Elisa-1618 Ай бұрын
I have emerging bpd, and sent to DBT. since I’m under 18. BPD runs hard in my family, and the disorder is judged so much, I’m so glad it’s coming to light now.
@kanestewart6691 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you, thank you so much for spreading awareness about this disorder.
@abigailrose7164 3 жыл бұрын
I suffer from gad, (generalized anxiety disorder), severe to moderate depression, bipolar disorder, bpd and ptsd (diagnosed by a professional) I’m working my way up to a more physically and mentally healthy life. If I can do it you can too, we got this. Just a reminder for today is that I’m proud of you, grab a snack or meal, make sure to drink water and take care of yourself. You’re loved and you are enough, don’t let those thoughts convince you other wise. You got this.
@monikamahantagoswami9831 3 жыл бұрын
:)
@user-youdontknowme 3 жыл бұрын
TTTTT.TTTTT
@user-youdontknowme 3 жыл бұрын
I hope you heal soon. And tysm
@joelcruz5326 3 жыл бұрын
I'm grateful I found this comment T-T
@jessicawood421 3 жыл бұрын
Whoa, we’re diagnoses twins! For real, I have the exact same: GAD, Depression, Bipolar Disorder, BPD, and PTSD... all of which were diagnosed by a professional. And I declare, like your lovely self, that if I can do it you can too xoxox
@kael5707 2 жыл бұрын
I’m not diagnosed but I definitely relate to a lot of things in this video. Especially about the relationship aspect, literally no matter how good you’ve been to me at a certain point my mind will decide it doesn’t trust you and that I should distance myself from you. And it hurts cause I feel like I don’t love the person anymore even though at the same time I know I do.
@kael5707 2 жыл бұрын
Also with the thing where other people are able to function normally without getting upset when someone disagrees, I have a very hard time controlling those situations and often have breakdowns- so yeah like this perfectly describes me
@SweetyWilson167 Жыл бұрын
You may have disorganised attachment style. What you have said about your relationship thoughts it is the same with disorganised attachment style. I suggest you to search on that topic too, to understand your problems.
@shysea3402 Жыл бұрын
Thanks for posting this comment. It describes me 100%. Also, I will look up the disorganized attachment disorder. Thanks for info, too.
@Lenny_o.0 6 ай бұрын
Me too😢
@Southghost5997 4 ай бұрын
Sucks to be you
@humpadumpathump5918 Жыл бұрын
This has been very helpful. I know someone exactly like this with at least 5 out of 7 symptoms. I'll have to share this with her therapist.
@Ducky_Fox Ай бұрын
POV: you have like every symptom for multiple mental disorders but they also mix up together and your brain is too overwhelmed and tired to do anything about it and you dissociate every 5 seconds so you can’t think about anything while also thinking about everything at the same time and your brain is a giant mix of something
@kelda2608 3 жыл бұрын
I either have this or some *really* bad anger swings, like, sometimes I have to lock myself in a room and sit there curled up and shaking from anger so I don't break anything or accidentally hurt myself. Edit: thank you for the kind replies, I really appreciate all of you ❤️❤️
@BlairyBlair222 3 жыл бұрын
Music helps with my anger
@putrirasya4057 3 жыл бұрын
yep its me tho i nearly cut myself bc im so angry with my lil bro and idk why i just lock myself in my room and crying for hours
@angelacavon4073 3 жыл бұрын
Yeah...I already did hurt myself, it just made me angrier. I wanna go to the highest mountain and scream as loud as possible 👌
@stephaniejarman9321 3 жыл бұрын
That actually sounds more like intermittent explosive behavior. My son suffers from it. It's hard to watch him.
@delaneyvena145 3 жыл бұрын
Me: *has been curling up and shutting down to stop myself from hurting myself or breaking things my entire life*
@albinask7629 2 жыл бұрын
I have been diagnosed with BPD. BPD is so complex to talk about when you are not speaking to a person that also has it. More often the feelings are so overwhelming that you cant even describe what you are feeling, it can be a mix of so many different kinds of feelings. Anxiety mixed with anger and disgust just for an example, for me that has been how i’ve behaved in deep relationships with girlfriends, uncontrollable feelings that are so foggy and not logic at all, something gets triggered, a thought comes up, a fake scenario is made and last the fake scenario becomes a reality, not in the mind but in your feelings, fake shit can feel so real its absolutely fcked up. I guess its kind of a self-defense mech? Go through feelings before they happen or ever will happen? Although in the end of the day to make things easier you have to be in absolute self-control over your feelings, and also have done therapy to become aware of every aspect of behavior you have. You are not born with BPD, call it a personality disorder but to be honest its more of a in-learned behavior, I never asked for this but here I am, taking responsibility for my own healing even though I didnt cause it, thanks.
@melaniepritchardsuccesscoa3839 Жыл бұрын
Respect 💛
@crowoverr 5 ай бұрын
I only recently have been diagnosed with BPD, and everything makes more sense. I remember randomly lashing out at my friends, then after realizing I shouldn't do that, in later years, I internalized the anger, and that led to self-destructive behavior. I get easily triggered in the abandonment aspect, and I dissociate for hours, days sometimes. It's tiring, and I didn't realize what was happening until my therapist told me to look into BPD. I still feel bad for what I did to one of my friends. They told me I was toxic. They left me for a while, and I was crushed. I didn't know I was hurting them. And as they left, I had only one friend left, triggering the abandonment part of what I now know to be BPD. I still feel horrible, to this day, for the pain I caused them. We're friends again, but I still can't forget that summer. Anyhow, I also struggle with identity disturbance and self-esteem. It's painful but I'm working on it in therapy. To anyone else who struggles, know you are never alone. People are here for you, even if you don't think they are. I wish someone had told me that when I considered ending it all, but I got through it. And so can you.
@SallyShorten 4 ай бұрын
The viel has been lifted. I am still here
@basicotakus3071 Жыл бұрын
I don't know if I am a teenager with too much freetime or actually suffering of BPD but yes. Thanks for the video. I love all of you, take care.
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