9 Year Old Helps Family Pay Off Debt - Til Debt Do Us Part 110

9 Year Old Helps Family Pay Off Debt - Til Debt Do Us Part 110 - No Laughing Matter

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Nell and Darrell have $60 thousand dollars in personal debt, which is no laughing matter. But Darrell refuses to let this stress him out and constantly jokes about their situation to avoid reality. That leaves Nell suffering through sleepless nights alone. And it’s starting to take its toll on their 9 year-old daughter who has offered up her piggybank to help in tough times. When the numbers are crunched, is bankruptcy the only option for this couple?

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@mariayelruh 2 жыл бұрын

He's upset at her squirrelly $100 a month... when he's cashing $1,500 a month!

@candice523 Жыл бұрын

Right. Some people do too much.

@juliemoore6957 Жыл бұрын

I'd like to know what he was spending all that cash on!

@prudencek7087 Жыл бұрын

@@juliemoore6957 I'm wondering the same thing.🤨🤔

@spaceballs44 Жыл бұрын

Julie Moore, he probably spends his money on porn or on his mistress. She probably gets questioned about where her money goes by the husband.

@NanaPapa123 Жыл бұрын

Exactly!

@purpurina5663 Жыл бұрын

Buddy could play a psychopath in a movie without much effort 😬

@cvelasquez8041 10 ай бұрын

"Have the lambs stopped screaming?"

@dancechica 5 ай бұрын

@@cvelasquez8041Yes! His voice is spot on

@Me-mb1ex 4 жыл бұрын

Gayle blowing up the wife’s runaway fund.😂

@verolly31 2 жыл бұрын

🤣🤣🤣

@Burlykim13 2 жыл бұрын

Blowing up the reason she felt the need to have one…

@alb7727 Жыл бұрын

🤣🤣🤣🤣

@barbaras676 Жыл бұрын

I suffered financial abuse while married and was never able to have my own money. When I decided to leave him I started “hiding” money to have a cushion for expenses. Peace of mind-that’s when I was finally able to start saving (after paying off $55k in bills)

@Mimi-cq4bg 4 жыл бұрын

The stink he causes over the wife having her own account, causes me to wonder just how controlling he is in other areas of their life.

@CaliKiwi- Жыл бұрын

A warning sign for sure!!

@ayela562 Жыл бұрын

Those huge cash transactions in his private account too! I bet it was prostitutes. He was so creepy.

@flakathy890 Жыл бұрын

What stink? Don't forget he'd just found out she had been hiding money from him. Maybe he was afraid she'd hide more money and not tell him about it.

@jacobtimothyvlog3628 Жыл бұрын

My partner maxed up my credit I didn’t know , both of my credit cards I was so mad about it and my partner opened more credit cards , keep promising me after 5 years we will be fine he was hiding all the credit cards debts after 7 years we had $85,000 credit card debts I didn’t know. I found out he was cheating too lots of women and lied about it I was so Mad and my partner doesn’t want me to save money how ridiculous is that. Every time I make money my partner will empty my bank account quickly will just give me $700 a month so frustrating sometimes I don’t feel like working anymore 😂 now we are consumer debt free, because we give up our home equity to paid it all. Thank you Jesus but my partner still continues using credit cards all the time so annoying.

@pattimartin859 Жыл бұрын

There's a difference in spending and saving. She clearly is afraid of no money to live on. He has his account and openly takes whatever CASH HE WANTS. He wants his alcohol figured into the budget. I didn't see her ask for anything. I'll bet $$ he went back and opened his own account again.

@decluttering-queen1898 2 жыл бұрын

His face when Gail says Nell can open her own bank account. Was just class 😂😂 don't think he liked that idea.

@davisholman8149 Жыл бұрын

Too bad! I choked on my coffee when he acted appalled over her saving $100 when he was spending almost $1,500. WTH??? 😡

@decluttering-queen1898 Жыл бұрын

Mind boggles . Thank god I don't live like that. I'm no millionaire. try my best . live by my means

@debbieframpton3857 2 жыл бұрын

I don't blame the wife for stashing money at sounds like the only money they are able to save and what is he doing with all of his

@matthewhale2531 3 жыл бұрын

The mother has such a genuine love for her daughter and it bleeds through the screen.... :( such a cutie

@djsemira1 3 жыл бұрын

Holy shit he spends a shit ton of cash without her knowing.. looks fishy...

@spaceballs44 Жыл бұрын

He spends his money on his mistress.

@nataliefontane Жыл бұрын

@@spaceballs44 He is too creepy to attract a mistress.

@chynamama8336 Жыл бұрын

Buying tutes (get it?)

@TijaunaK Жыл бұрын

A sex worker probably.

@kunya16 3 ай бұрын

Prostitutes, a mistress, happy ending salons. That's where the cash is going.

@RCKMSCKM Жыл бұрын

She definitely needs her own account. The way he questioned Gail when she said she needs her own account was *definitely* a red flag. Then when he tried to validate needing money for his alcohol habit was another sign to get the heck out of dodge. He's the type that could take money out and buy beer and try to justify it.

@spf_500 Жыл бұрын

It's giving 90 day fiance before it was a show lol He probably pulled an "Ed" and had her thinking he was way more well off then he was

@crazyjo2197 2 жыл бұрын

Run lady run! You'll be liable for half the $600k debt he's running up on his own 🙄 happy she's saving an emergency fund for herself, he's super manipulative, abusive and selfish. He's more worried about his alcohol and "entertainment" than their family's food for the month! Where is he spending that much cash? Sus. Love the daughter, she's astronomically more financially conscious than her dad; wanting to save her money.

@juliemoore6957 Жыл бұрын

I agree!

@myyt3824 Жыл бұрын

LADIES JUST BECAUSE HE DOESNT HIT YOU DOESNT MEAN HES NOT ABUSING YOU!!!!!

@zaheerahshareef8131 Жыл бұрын

Exactly

@laminage 10 ай бұрын

@@zaheerahshareef8131 Word! My Sister was with a guy who was a Grade A Narcist. He came from a Family where his Father was an alcoholic and he also is the rescuer for his siblings everytime they get into trouble. When she bought anything he would get upset and question her. He was a cheapskate because he grew up with so little and he's scared to spend. She broke up with him but she's done very well for herself.

@dancechica 5 ай бұрын

Amen to that. My ex never hit me but it took years to undo all the emotional damage

@kdon752012 3 ай бұрын

Yes, financial abuse is a real thing.

@yveqeshy Жыл бұрын

People who laugh like him while talking about serious matters are often trying to conceal their anger

@Its_like_the_T-Rex Жыл бұрын

Holy... The financial abuse to this poor woman. This guy was surprized that she had a secret savings account because he's scared she's going to leave him... Talk about control!

@janebaker4912 6 жыл бұрын

That daughter is so darn cute!

@angelawallace6317 2 жыл бұрын

I would not trust him with a joint account

@expertpanda513 2 жыл бұрын

I hope the wife run for the hills, the lock on his face when Gail said the wife should open her own account , he gives me creepy vibes

@3TXSisters Жыл бұрын

Creepy was what I thought, too!

@lucydawson1344 Жыл бұрын

Same! I’m wondering if she was a ‘mail order bride’ sort of thing as he’s very creepy indeed and Was no doubt after someone to control. Of course I could be wrong but she really could’ve done so much better than him. I hope he got out as she deserves so much better!

@biddy745 4 жыл бұрын

He reminds me of Milton, Office Space “I believe you have my stapler”

@dbentleyto95 4 жыл бұрын

Ha, ha, spot on!

@tam2046 2 жыл бұрын

Lmao love that movie .

@girlvscassette 2 ай бұрын

I said the same thing! “I wanted a mai tai” lol

@embee5557 17 сағат бұрын

Bahaha

@spaceballs44 4 жыл бұрын

He wants control of the money that’s clear to me. Another Josh Powell!

@nicolelewis7843 Жыл бұрын

She was smart to have her own money set aside. He’s lousy with money.

@GIChiyo 3 жыл бұрын

I hope she left his controlling ass He not 'being allowed' to have a savings account is a CLEAR sign that he want's her to feel financially trapped so she doesn't leave, she needs to cut and run...

@naturegirl2110 2 жыл бұрын

That's what my ex husband did to me. It was very hard and took years to finally leave him. He's now pissed that repairs are finally getting done on the house without his help.

@nataliefontane Жыл бұрын

It's literally a sign of financial abuse.

@samsamcupcakes6476 4 жыл бұрын

Really? You'd rather close your account than seeing your wife having her own 🤔🤣🤣🤣

@janebaker4912 2 жыл бұрын

🚩🚩🚩🚩

@crazyjo2197 2 жыл бұрын

🚩🚩🚩🚩

@nicoleworkman3142 Жыл бұрын

Right?!...🙃

@nataliefontane Жыл бұрын

And reopen one right after Gail leaves.

@samsamcupcakes6476 Жыл бұрын

@@nataliefontane ✌️😂 The wife is too nice. She could open an account if she wanted to. No need for her husband's authorization 🙄😔

@jessyrobinson2487 Жыл бұрын

If Milton from Office Space was a real person…

@NanaPapa123 Жыл бұрын

Just give the bozo his "ssssttttapler" and send him on his way. Poor women and daughter. The guy is a controlling loser. Sorry, but that's just about the size of it.

@mariayelruh 2 жыл бұрын

He said 77% cut in MY spending really bothered me.

@purpurina5663 Жыл бұрын

Totally -his mask slipped right there

@sarahosborne7477 Жыл бұрын

I think he fears she will leave if she has her own account.

@spaceballs44 Жыл бұрын

And her finding and feeling independent. She shouldn’t stay with him.

@gidumali Жыл бұрын

Agree!😁

@bovnycccoperalover3579 Жыл бұрын

She should. He fights everything. Nell should still have her own account.

@prudencek7087 Жыл бұрын

I would really like to know what this man was spending $1400+ in cash on per month? That's crazy... makes you wonder of there was some secret addiction going on with him.

@spaceballs44 Жыл бұрын

He might be buying escorts.

@nataliefontane Жыл бұрын

Probably his subscription to NAMBLA. This man gives off the creepiest vibes of anyone on this show.

@amazonorchid1321 Жыл бұрын

Wouldn't be surprised if he opened up his own account as soon as the camera crew left.

@pennybean6851 5 жыл бұрын

"Any house that can afford a big screen television set is not poor" - AMEN!

@samsamcupcakes6476 4 жыл бұрын

I don't have a TV, but I'm not poor 😉

@debbieframpton3857 2 жыл бұрын

That big-screen TV may not be paid for

@janebaker4912 2 жыл бұрын

Sometimes a big tv is cheaper than a trip to Disneyland

@dobbysshoes4924 2 жыл бұрын

In the time this was filmed having a big screen TV was a big trend and they were quite expensive

@nancysmith2874 Жыл бұрын

They can’t afford a huge tv

@cdc8875 6 жыл бұрын

She finds bomb hiding places for credit cards!

@lucy2steele Жыл бұрын

I’m not married or in a relationship currently but I’ve always known that if I lived with a partner we would have 3 accounts: 1-fixed expenses, bills, emergency fund & debt 2&3-separate accounts for remaining spending money. That way we can save what we want and spend what we want but the bills are paid

@amacd08 4 жыл бұрын

He aint fooling nobody with that dye job.

@susananderson7473 Жыл бұрын

The Daughter is so adorable and wise. The fact most of that extra cash taken from the account was by him. What is he using it for? Thats a heck of a lot of money. She was wise to take money out and save it. He should get a part time job to help pay off the debt faster, she is already going to be stuck at home with a home salon. I will never be in a serious relationship without my own account. Burned once was enough. I hope she continues to put that money away.

@jasongabson8611 8 ай бұрын

He said that he closed his account and opened a joint account. Doesn't that give him access to her 🤑 money. He will still be controlling her.

@erin1220 Жыл бұрын

@11:51 Did anyone else notice he said 3/5's and pointed to her? That wasn't the deal man!

@SinaAla Жыл бұрын

I was about to comment to correct you, but you’re right! That sketchy mo-fo 😆

@lucyb9320 2 жыл бұрын

LOL he sounds like Old Greg. You can't unhear it haha

@lucydawson1344 Жыл бұрын

Yes!! 😂 Do you love me?! I got a downstairs mix up!

@TijaunaK Жыл бұрын

Men that want "submissive" obedient stay-at-home wives/partners do NOT want her keeping her own money and neither do misogynistic women. It is her saving up for her future in case she has to leave. Men do 👏 not👏 like👏 self-sufficient women.

@katespringsteen8220 2 жыл бұрын

He’s so shady

@elizabethallen4353 Жыл бұрын

Probably not the point, buy oh my goodness Gail's hair is gorgeous. Beautiful curl and shine.

@janebaker4912 6 жыл бұрын

It's bad to fight infront of your kids, but I don't think it's bad say no to your kids. Im not even so sure it's bad for the kid to know they're poor. My parents were poor and it made me a very responsible spender... Well, maybe a bit too money anxious... But I'm a low earner and through hard work paid offy house alone at age 31.

@sarah3796 5 жыл бұрын

Jane Baker you’re so cool Jany

@hkdiva2015 4 жыл бұрын

Which locale do you reside in, if you could totally pay off your house at 31 years old?

@janebaker4912 4 жыл бұрын

@@hkdiva2015 I bought a very small block off land, about 300m square footage. I bought it cash from savings. Then I saved some more, two years later I built. And I saved while it was being built and my small home had a small mortgage. Then i put ever spear cent on the mortgage till it was paid off. A quarter was from inheritance from my dad.

@hannahcarney2250 3 жыл бұрын

@@janebaker4912 poor with inheretence? Doubt you were poor love, but congrats non the less!!

@janebaker4912 3 жыл бұрын

@@hannahcarney2250 my family was poor, my grandparents were very rich. I was pass out at school from no food poor

@roseblahnik3706 2 жыл бұрын

Aaaaahhhh....I'll bet he's got a few secrets of his own ( and it isn't a savings account) that would explain where all his $$$ is going....just saying !!

@elizabethallen4353 Жыл бұрын

💯

@randysavage5710 Жыл бұрын

The smartest thing you can do in any relationship, HAVE A SEPARATE BANK ACCOUNT.

@beautifulrecovery2337 Жыл бұрын

His voice is a mixture of an flds member and Hannibal Lector.

@vanessacaltabiano9775 2 жыл бұрын

Financial abuse💔

@lizatubilleja Жыл бұрын

This episode just made me cry especially when Gail said Aprielle can go back to being a kid. :) Nell is a lovely mom and wife. I hope Nell and Darrell are doing fine now. Having her home business is also fulfilling for her. Love and learned much from this episode. :)

@user-ui1zv8bd4y 3 жыл бұрын

He MUST get more work so she is not the only working both full time plus.

@amymalaba9241 Жыл бұрын

A real tear jerker this one. Gail was gentle with this couple. And they responded so well. The transformation was amazing.

@angelastewart9497 Жыл бұрын

She has the most great full daughter. Beautiful child

@nicoleworkman3142 Жыл бұрын

🙄wow....HE doesn't trust her?!🙄

@mamaroooftwo8351 Жыл бұрын

What a beautiful daughter they have… it’s so hard to say no to your children when children have no choice in financial matters…

@deborahhattel351 Жыл бұрын

This guys voice feels like he is in character 😊 I hope they are doing well.

@lucialuciferion6720 Жыл бұрын

The stapler guy from 'the office' 🤣

@mariahsmom9457 Жыл бұрын

@@lucialuciferion6720 Milton! 😂

@710LENNY 2 жыл бұрын

He worked "overtime" investigating what it would cost to set up a home business? Big of him.

@davisholman8149 Жыл бұрын

Such a beta male...gag.🤢

@dragonlover2085 Жыл бұрын

I hope, that Aprielle, who is a young (and i'm absolutely sure intelligent and pretty ) lady now, is doing very well!

@masreya2629 Жыл бұрын

She is. She’s married with 2 cute kids :)

@dragonlover2085 Жыл бұрын

@@masreya2629 Ok, thanks. I'm very happy to hear this.

@emilynicole4918 Жыл бұрын

How's the mom?

@Gemini302001 Жыл бұрын

He is definitely weird. Something is off about that man. The way he was acting about her getting her own account was a red flag.

@ajewachichester882 Жыл бұрын

My favorite story thus far. Kid had me in tears

@sourcehealing82 Жыл бұрын

Everyone should have their own account!! No way I wold merge my Money with this guy.

@sct4040 Жыл бұрын

Need a follow up, please. I hope this couple is doing much better.

@catherineblue5607 3 ай бұрын

What a sweet little girl! Obviously they love her a lot ❤

@momof2momof2 Жыл бұрын

Who does he think he is??? Has his own account and hugely questions why his wife should have one! LOLOLOL What a jerk ! I would never, ever trust him.

@millsykooksy4863 Жыл бұрын

Please leave him for your baby’s sake. That guy creeps me out so much 😢

@yolanda4686 Жыл бұрын

Gail did this woman wrong outing her secret account

@mohsenahmad2171 Жыл бұрын

I’m married to a Filipina. Amazing people, and savage with their remarks. 😂

@kyrstenmarie Жыл бұрын

Nell is so sweet, I hope she’s doing well

@mariayelruh 2 жыл бұрын

I would have asked the husband to handover the cash in his wallet.

@gidumali Жыл бұрын

i still wonder where he spent all the money before they met gail

@sarahsmyth5383 4 жыл бұрын

He sounds like robin williams

@cherylmattinson1753 2 жыл бұрын

My thought as well.

@decluttering-queen1898 2 жыл бұрын

Sure does.

@morganjade2641 Жыл бұрын

I was looking for this comment 👍🏻👍🏻 my thoughts too!

@jenniferbangerter5128 Жыл бұрын

The fact he was so upset with her setting up her own bank account

@dannsherstone1037 Жыл бұрын

This is probably one of the most deceptive episodes I have seen. We were allowed to know what the sad little $100 Nell was stashing away at work was for. But what was Darrell spending over $1,400 cash a month on? No explanation. Men with such a controlling nature are usually the one doing something wrong - very wrong.

@scarletspyder5736 Жыл бұрын

👏👏👏 this is exactly what I'm saying! Why didn't they go into him and have him say what he was spending that money on! And for that matter Gail should've left that secret account a secret. Poor woman just needed a safety net. And how much you want to bet he's gonna open his own separate account again a month later. Ridiculous

@dannsherstone1037 Жыл бұрын

@@scarletspyder5736 Here is hoping, if they are still married as these episodes are very old, that she has opened her own secret account that can easily be hidden in the age of the internet.

@maylynquilana6160 Жыл бұрын

Love this show...Gail had saved another family again..May God bless this woman even more..

@lyndsae77 Жыл бұрын

I’m getting very strong Will Forte vibes from him.

@leslietrivette91 2 жыл бұрын

What's up with his voice? Secret life?

@spaceballs44 Жыл бұрын

Like the BTK serial killer.

@jreinel1966 Жыл бұрын

I don't want to move from red to black,I'm in green with my finances..😇😁😇..!

@spaceballs44 4 жыл бұрын

She hates her husband.

@JehanineMelmoth 2 жыл бұрын

Who wouldn’t?!

@AshleyNicole-ct7gh Жыл бұрын

I hate her husband too.

@barbaras676 Жыл бұрын

Financial abuse IS abuse!!

@79thdriftwood Жыл бұрын

Very beautiful child.

@Frugal_fitchic Жыл бұрын

Hello Clarice … it’s so good to see you again 😅

@jenjones90 8 ай бұрын

He never said Hello Clarice 😅

@bovnycccoperalover3579 3 ай бұрын

Nell is smart, sweet and determined. Darryl gives me the creeps but then I remind myself that that's the voice he was born Aprile is so cute and it's hard to believe she's close to 30 near. I hope the parents are doing well and Darryl learned his lesson because next time Nell will leave him.

@josephhicks6989 Жыл бұрын

Why is it that people feel they deserved nice things? If you don't make enough don't buy it,.

@jordanerzsebet2727 Жыл бұрын

The dad is real life Old Gregg.

@kibblenbits Жыл бұрын

My guess is she was a 'mail order' bride (I think this because she's so much better looking than him and he doesn't have the money or personality to equal the playing field) and, as many of these women find out, they end up with controlling, socially inept men who are not the provider they were lead to believe After being in his country for years, she has much higher expectations then she had at first, as a lot of them do, and has realized that she can leave and live on her own terms without having to go back to her country, or put up with him. I see his fixation with booze as a problem and hope she continues to hide money away for her and her daughter, as my guess is she's going to need it.

@tia.the.mockingbird Жыл бұрын

This was a scary one. I hope Nell and her daughter got away from this guy.

@natashaleeandfam9268 Жыл бұрын

Wow he would rather close his then let her have an account

@yfsgom Жыл бұрын

So this is where ricky smiley got his character, lil Daryl, from 😂😂

@susanjohnson6860 2 жыл бұрын

She has nice hair...

@girlgalen4588 4 жыл бұрын

He is a jerk.

@kingdedede9576 Жыл бұрын

Buddy a weirdo 😂

@LS-xq5nf 7 ай бұрын

I sincerely hope that Nell left this controlling loser and that she and her daughter are doing well now.

@linneab8317 Жыл бұрын

I think he has an addiction. . . gambling, porn or drugs.

@kindrakinyon8559 Жыл бұрын

I think our current Democratic-led government needs Gail Vaz-Oxlade!

@brandishantel5889 Ай бұрын

You know after the taping he went out and opened a new account.

@ruthirwin8222 Жыл бұрын

I cant stand his laugh its so forced...but Nell is great..

@nancysmith2874 Жыл бұрын

Where did they spend the money

@robinh7267 6 ай бұрын

I feel like he is paying for working girls.

@liveyourlife7367 Жыл бұрын

She is better off without him..smh

@juditharsenault2131 Жыл бұрын

Could he be a drug addict? Usually there's something like that going on when someone needs cash all the time.

@Frugal_fitchic Жыл бұрын

No, he doesn’t look like a drug addict but I bet it has something to do with either porn or gambling

@lyndamcleod2242 Жыл бұрын

This despicable man wants his own money so his wife doesn’t know what he’s spending!Dodgy DodgyDodgy!!! They are on a tight budget,but he still wants booze? Get on board for goodness sake!

@susananderson7473 Жыл бұрын

Did his brother say her husband was taking her money?

@flakathy890 Жыл бұрын

Oh my word. People watch a 20-minute show that has been edited and think they know everything about the people involved. 🙄

@veronicaarellano-hernandez2209 2 жыл бұрын

Wowser

@musicgirl999 2 жыл бұрын

I wonder how old Abrielle is now?

@bovnycccoperalover3579 Жыл бұрын

If it was 2005, about 26.

@boonewsmith Жыл бұрын

Holy smokes 😅

@BoriPR82 3 жыл бұрын

I dont believe a married couple should have seperate accounts. He needs to grow up

@tianachet713 3 жыл бұрын

I’m keeping my own but we can definitely have a joint

@debbieframpton3857 2 жыл бұрын

Sounds like the wife was smart having her own account

@dobbysshoes4924 2 жыл бұрын

I think it’s fine to have separate accounts as long as you have a joint account for your expenses and savings It’s only a problem if the separate accounts are secret

@SinaAla Жыл бұрын

@@dobbysshoes4924 Agree. Nothing wrong with separate accounts. There is something wrong with deception

@spaceballs44 Жыл бұрын

My spouse and I have separate accounts.