he can’t tho

I love u really i am alone 😍😍💑💑❤❤❤❤🌷🌷

@@MuhammadImran-ln4fz cool?

@@l4truelaw859 he CAN be & he IS in fact, a man.

@@jennarush9731 i am really seriouse plese 😍😍😍💑💑💑💑🌷🌷

The fem gay dudes tend to love to create drama.

Ray03595 *cough* James Charles *cough*

@@consumy1841 you mean jeffree star

Right?? He pissed me off so increcibly much! That is none of his business and every outing should be on that persobs terms and not some dickhead who thinks he has to butt in!

Cis white gay men always try to play up their gayness like it washes them of the privelages of being a cis man.

Typical all about me entitlement

Lol i gagged at that most of us have been cheated on it doesmt give you any right to know someone's birth sex

@@Maddysublime Yes because if I am religious and it's against same sex then if you trans you have the right to tell me or end the relationship

@@kaceynembhard225 they arent in a relationship they just met each other they are basically strangers

I wud agree with you if he didn't make physical contact with the grl. He took away her right to choose when he did that. And since Romario is all about the right to have that choice he should of understood that

He’s a gem !!

golden retriever vibes

Its all about Just respecting eachother as human, we are just all humans. And indeed, Tom sets a real example of this concept ☀️

@@lj4644 and yet, no one respected the fact the girl was violated through intimacy by deception.

IKR I thought that was so ironically charming that the one society would normally pin as the "phobic" of the bunch was the one giving out hugs and cheering people up.

ikkk!!! he seems very nice

@@aubreyarchives That's lowkey just another form of bias.

@@aubreyarchives having a bias means being prejudiced.

Howie

YES BABY THANK YOU!!!!! SAY IT LOUDER FOR THE PEOPLE IN THE BACK.

I see the explanation is only owed to the person's romantic/sexual partner. Everyone else - why does it matter?

I think you were fully educated and deserve an award for that. I meant that in the least sarcastic way possible😊

Just curious if you wish to describe yourselves in a manner that isn't chosen for you why do you guys insist calling people like me cis without our approval for that term?

@@megnemo6403 You are either cis or you are not. If you identify with the gender assigned at birth that makes you cisgender. It's just an adjective/noun, the definition of that. Just like you call a bald person bald and a painter a painter. Except in this case it does need approval in the sense you may not feel cis. but if you think you fit the description (identify with the gender assigned at birth) then that's just what you are. It's not a term invented out of nowhere to separate, it's not an insult.. it's just a noun/adjective. I'm short and that's just how I'm being described, I didn't get to choose my natural height nore do I have a choice in being described that way cause that's just what I am. I don't know if it made it clearer for you

@Wake No. honestly there's a lot more wrong with the girl and her views on trans people than him wanting to keep his trans identity to himself until he's ready to disclose it. a lot of trans people don't disclose the fact that they're trans in the beginning of dating someone because when people find out they might not want to date them altogether simply because they're trans. saying that he should've told her that he's trans before they kissed implies that he's not really a man and that him being trans means that she's not straight. it also implies that if you don't tell someone you're trans that you're a liar or trying to trick the person which is not the case.

Maybe she didn't like the idea of dating someone with a genitalia she's doesn't fancy.

Markus is so ignorant about the rest of the community! He's the kind of people within the community that say "ace people are not LGBT+" or "nON biNaRy iS a hYPe"!!

and then he had the gall to say "ive done nothing" and the romario had just gotten violent towards him out of nowhere when all he did was shout at Marcus to stay away from him.

I feel like the others gossiping about it is not much better either.

I think Tom was open-minded from the start, he just got less ignorant on the topic

His justification is incredibly narcissistic

same :*( poor romario!

Yeah, it was really none of his business. That was between both of them... Besides, its not like they were saving themselves for marriage and Marion was tricking her or something, she can still back out if shes just not into that which is fine. Its sad that they didn't give him the benefit of the doubt and instead assumed that they never had that conversation in private. Also, I don't think it was the blonde girls place to go around telling people either.. shes literally outing Marion behind his back to a bunch of strangers. Why? Marion didn't deserve to treated like that. I guess I wonder that if I was romantically interested in a trans-man without knowing he was trans and it was getting more serious - like about to be intimate, date, etc - I'd want to know that he was trans. Its worrisome if they never had that conversationn too; I have read about trans people not saying anything about it and then getting attacked. Its scary. Idk I hope its not offensive to say that because trans men are men. I'm not trying to be rude or anything so I'm open to hear others opinions, especially from those that are trans. My question is, should trans people discolse it to their partner and if I suspet someone I love did not, is it on me to say something? Who should I talk about it to first? What if its not a loved one but just a stranger? Would I be messed up to let it play out? Would you hurt someone by outing them or you hurt someone for NOT outing them? As a woman, its not uncommon to get attacked for saying no so I'm careful when rejecting someone. I wish I didnt have to treat men like theyre babies but I'd just want to protect myself first.

Him being outed was wack

It's also disrespectful to be intimite with someone without telling them you're trans. And he was(slept with Filo - maybe more).

I don’t think it’s fair though to straight people who like straight people, to be tricked into dating trans people.

Ramario came on a documentary about genders, took his shirt off that shows his scars, gets intimate with someone who knows would have an issue with it, and he's the victim? If you are trans and don't tell the person you are seeing that you are, that's fucked up.

@@Mycenaea Exactly!!

At least the majority of them said that it should happen on its own and they shouldn’t say anything..unlike Markus

people are bringing up the fact that he is trans because they're talking about how he shouldn't have been outed like he was. you sure you finished reading those comments? honest and genuine question

@@mindoongie I don't quite remember this comment well, it's been over a year, but I think I wasn't talking about the comments but about the people in the video? Not sure tho, sorry

@@NC-oz5xi ah I see, thought you were just confused or something.

I think Romario didn’t want to talk to him so saffron was helping. I think but we don’t really know

That whole scene was scripted. All reality tv is scripted a decent amount and that whole hiding his identity was part of it.

I completely agree, but this is also an experiment with LGBTQ+ in center of attention and main subject matter. I understand why they would be shocked based on the fact that he said nothing before when they all opened up. (I do, on the other hand, completely understand and respect his decision and nobody should be outed)

Absolutely! Why is it so uncommon for people in LGBTQ+ to understand that other trans peopl have totally different storys and feelings?!?

Lol....philomena🤣🤣🤣 transphobic but falling for a trans man. But yeah, I wonder why they made such a huge deal of it? If he is passing male? Or presenting only male why are they acting like it's some huge secret?

@Crusty Caleb yeah, but thats his business. They shouldn't have talked about it behind his back and Marcus had no right to out him like that.

It is a show about gender identity/sexual orientation. They all opened up and talked about things that make them uncomfortable and so on. But he lied to everyone saying he is a cis man, that's why they're talking about it, because he lied, when the whole point of this show is to talk about this.

Right or wrong She is actually entitled to her own views and not yours or anyone else's. I'm telling you that as a lesbian woman. People have the right to have their own thoughts and their own beliefs and their own opinions about anything including this issue. People have the right to remain ignorant if they choose to. It's not your place or anyone else's to fix people or "enlighten" anyone.

She said vagina and utérus... The fact that your utérus dont work has nothing to do with that, your still a woman... I swear this days baSic biologie is needed

@@zaudyfelixochoa7688 Yeah, well basic biology didn't teach the fact that someone could be born with an xxy chromosome, and yet she exists in this video. Key word: Basic. Not advanced. Advanced Biology proves you wrong. And, come on, if you're gonna argue, at least spell "you're" correctly. It's "basic" English grammar. Or if you're gonna argue about biology, don't spell it like "biologie". I mean, you misspelled the very thing you're arguing. I say this as someone who graduated with a diploma and actually took basic biology. And English. And Creative Writing. And Environmental science. And watch videos of professors discussing the human body and it's chromosomes and brain. I've heard from cisgender scientists themselves proving the validity of trans people. Also, basic biology didn't teach me about intersex, but I learned they exist. Almost as rare as red hair(and yet red hair is treated as normal and valid). And there's probably over 28+ variations of intersex. Doctors also perform genital corrective surgery on intersex infants to fit into this false binary sex model that society seems so desperate to enforce. Then, intersex people grow up unaware of the surgery that was performed without their consent. Or, people born a boy and suddenly their body changes into a girl. You just don't wanna listen to the facts because you don't like or support it. And, wow, you're really reducing women down to their biology? It's almost as if cisgender toxic men do the same thing to cisgender women? What a hypocrite. Brain scans were done on cisgender women and transgender women, and then the brain scans were compared. Turns out, transgender women's brains looked way more like cisgender women's brains than cis men's brains. But, you wouldn't know that because you're still stuck on "bAsiC bIoLoGy." Oh, and I also happen to be autistic. And one of my autistic traits is obsession, and I am obsessed with the human brain and body and biology. So, I learn everything I can about human biology and variation. You wouldn't be able to look at me and tell that I was autistic. It's because autism isn't physical, it's mental. It can't be cured. Gender identity exists in the brain. Everyone has it. Even transphobes. You couldn't tell by looking at me that I was non-binary. I'm a non-binary male. I also just learned that I have a 0.7% higher estrogen level than typical males. I don't know what caused it... I'll find out soon enough from my physician. I admitted to my biological reality... you didn't expect that, right? Well, duh, we know we'll never be able to change our sex chromosomes(at least with current technology). However, our brain is a biological organ, so to deny my gender identity is to deny biological reality. I'm a non-binary male. So, you really can't use the "Biological reality" argument against me. Also, random fact: Red was considered to be a masculine color and men wore red, but boys weren't men yet so they wore pink, a lighter shade of red. Girls wore blue because blue was considered dainty and feminine. Nowadays, it's the complete opposite. Maybe if you spent less time on that basic biology, you'd learn something for once. And, as an autistic person, I say: Go touch some grass.

Girl, if you think a random person on a tv show can invalidate your identity, maybe you should work a little on yourself. Nobody is responsible for your feelings but you.

true true but at least they were respectful enough to not tell filomena

@@mindoongie still.

ikr that really bothered me

He outed himself when he took his shirt off. Like... Everyone saw the scars

@@theholeintheground503 I mean, there are other possibilities for why he has those scars, ex. mastectomy.

Hypocrisy within the LGBTQRST....etc. community. I am a lesbian and get so turned off by some of their contradictions: respect me and I´ll think about respecting you is how I see them.

The trans women or anybody else didn’t out him. Marcus did

pretty sure marcus only knew because the women started talking about it to others. They should've minded their own business.

louder for the ones in the back

Periodt

Right they should out themselves

Those are egocentrics and narcisists who do that kind of thing.

Never ever

Very. (Also a lot of people in the comments. 😑)

He was so sweet!!

Accepting

Racist comment!

Marcus is so far out of order, it's crazy. He needs to mind his own damn business.

The transphobia within the community is bad. Especially from the "cookie cutter cis gay men"

And I think they tried to reason it out by giving him the cheating back story.

Not at all surprised tbh

Also when he says he's not confronting him, while he actually IS confronting him and forcing him to answer "honestly" Wtf mate...

Actually the correct term for a female-to-male is a trans male, trans females are the ones not born females, just wanted to let you know :)

He’s a trans man

Sex. That's basically why.

I came out when I was younger and then was immediately faced with boatloads of judgement from inside the LGBTQ+ community so I pretended it was a phase. I am older now, and am revoking out because now I can better control who I want to be friends with.

@@hippodisco1687 If you don't mind me asking, what did you come out as? (I know there are certain groups more ostracized than others, and I'm just curious. Don’t answer if you don't feel comfortable, though.)

He should have been honest with her as soon as they were starting a romance otherwise you are deceiving the other person. You can’t expect people to change what they like

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I agree. Ive tried many times to have a child and when I found out I wasn't able to, it didn't rly bother me because I knew I more than likely didn't want a child. There are people DYING to have children, I just feel I take me (and my body parts) for granted. 😔

Same

Maybe you could be a surrogate? :)

Mari Skarstein Going through all that pain and suffering than giving up what you struggled for isnt for everyone. Only a very select few people can every be that patient and unattached.

S. A. I know :) That’s why i said maybe, I just thought that she might like to concider it 🤷🏻‍♀️

And Tom

I second the motion... And include Tom too

YES!!!

ikr his logic is just fucked up. its not being dishonest if he never lies, and it doesnt even MATTER because it doesnt affect anyone else!!

exactly fuckin'ly bloody true!

Kaydii exactly

I know right !!!

@@amber-dn5jk yall acting like its that guys fault but its the girls fault for spreading it after they agreed to keep it secret and let romario say it himself..

Omg yeees! Imagine a full big brother season with only lgbtq+ people?!?! I would fcking love that! That would be so much fun! 😀

😆😁That season needs to happen and I want to be on it

absolutely. i was so frustrated at how they just couldnt be respectful

shouldn't he be obligated to tell girl he is dating?

@@TheRed4123 exactly

I mean he is when there trying to be Romanticly involved in a person.

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It wasn't a rumor. It was the truth. They are filming a documentary about gender ffs. And Romario knew Filomena likes cismen. Markus did nothing wrong here. If you are seeing someone you have an obligation to tell them they are trans. If Romario wasn't then I'd see your point and agree. But that wasn't the case. He was being deceptive by not telling her.

Omg you're so pretty

Exactly! Hope you are in a better environment now. I totally wouldve lost my shit if somebody would have found out I was trans that way. Congrats for staying strong!

I've noticed people aren't very good at not knowing things. Yet all knowing and understanding starts from the same point, which is "I don't know".

Who was she again?

Brokebebe no.2.5 the black woman with a very strong sense of gender being man or woman

@@keylimetea ahh, thank you!

Brokebebe no.2.5 Yw!!!

Bottom line only females have the ability to give birth.

I know right

I agree that made me so mad but I’d say it is just as hard for trans women when it comes to dating man. A lot of straight men feel gay if they date a trans woman.

all talk about ,,him" but its about the girl god damn. If hes figuring out himself its his thing but never lie to someone in this way like wtf.

@@luisasventa6749 It's not a lie, he's a person? She fell in love with a person. It shouldn't matter that much to her what's between his legs if she genuinely likes him.

@@mirrors87 Yeah. As a pansexual I always struggle to understand this too. Like, if you fell for the person, then... what does the rest matter? How can that sudden perish based on something that seems so irrelevant to me.

😂😂😂😂

People can have such tunnel vision. Everything that is outside their experience, they fear. You are just as much a woman as any other. 💪

Thought the exact same thing, you're valid!

Exactly wtf

She needs to go back to school to learn her facts.

@Mina Guobadia lol i haven’t had a period since i was 16 and i’m almost 21 because of my birth control so have i just been not gendered this whole time 😂

@Eric Gregory no bi is liking female and male bi are all genders like nonobianary.

I agree I was brought up in a strict religion to believe one thing but when I got older I started to have my own beliefs and opinions. You don’t have stay the way you were raised.

But it does make you believe that that religion is not true (it is an ilusion)

No but you were brought up on being tolerant and to accept all religions. They weren’t brought up being tolerant and accepting of others people choices regarding sexual orientation and gender choice. That’s the difference. Back in the days people were more stern about their opinions. People nowadays are brought up being overall more tolerant.

And here I am, hating all religions, because people often use religion as an excuse to hurt others D:

@@enricomahoney6617 not agreeing with a certain ideology does not make you a hater of the people who follow that ideology

Such a sad situation. Romario needs some counseling as being honest with someone before you kiss them should be a priority not an afterthought. It’s not fair to the person you’re interested in.

​@@michellebrown5566 lol, what? you're snogging someone, not planning a life together. even with sex: the only things people are obligated to tell you is their health status as it might impact you. you aren't entitled to know their religion, race, country of origin, age, original hair color, what they look like without makeup, if they have had plastic surgery, or what gender they were assigned at birth. if that shit matters to you, ASK. IMO, it's prudent for trans people (if they choose) to keep their status to themselves until they know the person they're dating better: then they can choose to leave, or to come out to their partner. Of course it's a tricky thing to time, just like telling someone that you have mental health issues isn't something that's necessary or appropriate on the first date, but eventually needs to come out.

@@mydietisfruitsnuttandseed9817 i see it both ways. I mean,I WOULDNT be upset if he didnt tell me right away. Some ppl need time, i get that. But i mean obviously he would have to tell his partner sooner or later. But, its a tricky situation all we can do is be patient with the person and try understanding. Not throwing him under the bus and embarrassing him. So i agree with u, but again its so tricky because unfortunately there are ppl who are homophobic or just so straight they would freak out!🙄 again i woulda made out even more lol but to each there own!! Sending love!!

@Maxx B. and that such a respectable response!! Thats so much better than ignoring that these ppl exists, and understanding is key! YOU ARE AWSOME!!

@@michellebrown5566 ya. But it was just a kiss. I mean being in that house, if it was me, i woulda asked..but i wouldnt have cared is he was trans or not. But i understand some ppl WONT date a trans, but it was just a smooch. If it would have been more, and or he lied to that girl...it could have been completely different. These are my opinions btw, i in no way am saying these are facts or everyone should think like this. This is what i have learned from reading and watching stuff. Im not trans, iam bisexual..but everyone is entitled to there own opinion. Some are just crappy, lol. Sending love and good vibes ur way honey!! Thx for ur reply! ❤💚💜💙🧡🌈

Yes :/ as a Bisexual I agree

Yeeeesss

i do really think the principal sexuality should be bisexual lmao

Most people are bisexual.

@@kattyk6370 1. I don't see how this is relevant to my comment. 2. I'd really like a source on this, because I smell subjective bogus.

He is not a queen, he is just a clown

A gossip clown exactly

He’ll never be a queen if you act like that

Yeah let's care more about persons and what them sexe or gender

And even those who have one arent alwags able to have kids

Well, they are still women, even though they have a birth defect.

My cousin was born without ovaries and she’s still a woman. Not every woman has the same parts

some women are born without a uterus yes, that doesn't make the trans dude male lmao

True, however she won't bcuz she's too busy freaking out about her gender bcuz she kissed a trans man. What a same! Why do you think the LGBTQ motto is "LOVE IS LOVE"?

lol, straight girls don't fall in love with lesbians anymore than straight men fall in love with gay men. Also, I doubt that Tim could have fallen for Campbell after, what, like a day of knowing her? Probably you're seeing curiousity.

Lmao so true...

If you fall in love with her you are not straight anymore

@@mydietisfruitsnuttandseed9817 falling in love at first sight exists..... Its called being horny

@DarthYuYevon so what are gay men who insist that they can turn out straight men? men's right activists? lol. not every stupid thing women say comes from feminism. now if you want to blame TERFs' brand of feminism for the stupid shit they say all the time, I can't argue.