and as a feminine gay person you'd think he would understand that was messed up from the start, lord😪🤦🏾‍♂️

Apologize for ignoring marcus

@@p0shiee844 No he had every right to be annoyed. Marcus didn't even realise what he did wrong until he heard about how terrible things had been for Romario growing up. You don't need to know someone's traumatic past to understand you should never out someone. As a gay guy I hoped he'd know that only you have the right to share your own information. I felt like he was projecting his own struggles with trust and not realising that not being honest about cheating is veery different from withholding that you're trans for a bit.

@@sickeninglysweetlikehoney9917 agree, when your cheating you are fooling someone and betraying them, i dont think romario is doing that, hes actually just being himself and he would have opened up when hes ready

He shouldve said im sorry you feel so insecure with yourself that you felt the need to out me.

You saw it like that? Idk honestly, he believably looks like a real man to me frfr 😭

He saying it like you couldn’t even notice he was a trans he looks like a male as in is transition was good

He isn't transphobic and he is the most woke person in the household. He knows that cis and trans people exist but most importantly he knows that non-binary and all of that shit ain't real and that's why I love him. He is so smart.. Only thing I didn't like about him was when he outed that trans guy but otherwise he was the best

@@zelpazz You have a terrible standard for what woke is.

To be honest, he IS damn near unclockable. I get you shouldn't judge a trans person by their looks. I thought that was a compliment though. Lol

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As a trans person myself I agree sometimes it's about safety and feeling comfortable enough and ready way before sex.

The way Romario comforted Marcus, ugh >_< the white tears got me hydrated. Romario was the bigger person in this situation.

As someone who was outed that escalated to bullying this broke my heart and left me in tears

And I don't think that the other guy understood that someone from the bar could have overheard his saying that and killed remario

Lol this is exactly what I was thinking about

I kinda think Jeffree maybe transgender. Not sure.

THISNSHWJHKWHW

fig&plum kitties Jeffree isn’t transgender. Or if he is he isn’t out yet. Pretty sure he isn’t trans though

Yeah a snake

Yeah I know like he might not understand everything but he wants everyone to be happy

I love that Tom is the one person that I thought was gonna be the biggest problem and he turned out to be one of the sweetest with Marcus being the snake 😂👌

@@Zer0TheGhost I knew Marcus was gonna be problem off the bat because he was like so closed off on gender and made comments in the beginning

Ok, all it takes for a straight man to be wildly liked is just not being a dick, he might get a bit too much praise there... Or maybe we're just so used to straight men being dicks, that anyone acting slightly different makes us applaud it...

Martin, the majority of oppressors are straight men. If you don't reward the small improvements in society you arent going to see much improvement. Things happen slowly, and actually, when straight men on TV speak like this, it validates it for other straight men too. It only has positive effects and here you are, being negative. This is a you problem.

Girl

@@chosenstrong9539 oh wow, that was sooo funny. I cant believe someone could come up with such a unique and new thing to say. /s

@@PastaWaterIV ;)

I feel the exact same way though. The only thing I’ve ever wanted is to be a cis man, just a regular guy without all the baggage of being trans, but I will can’t have that and never will. It fucking sucks, and I’m still somewhat in denial about it because if I ever fully accept it, I don’t think I’d have any will to live left. I’m fucking exhausted.

@@twentyoneeilishes5313 cool username and profile picture!

this !!!!!

Himbo,,,

Sadly this is a real think and not just him

Marcus was the only one who protected the girls rights to not be lied to in the 'safe' house. It doesn't matter if Romario used drugs or lied, consent is about knowledge, Romario was in the middle of a rape and the only one that protected the girl was Marcus. Romario went through a lot of pain as a child because she didn't know the truth (her mother loved her). Hopefully she learns from this experience. No relationship can start as a lie. There is no telling how she would have felt about Romario if they had started as friends that were honest with each other. She said she still sees a good looking man. But she also still sees a liar. Romario blew it on his own.

@@rmdlgarcia I agree that transgender people should disclose their identity before they jump into a relationship or have sex. However, saying he was raping her is just a ridiculous statement as he did not have sex with her, and iirc they didn't even kiss. I do get the girl's reaction though and she shouldn't have felt like she overreacted. Marcus still wasn't in a position to out Romario though. Also, why are you talking about Marcus and Romario when this comment is about Tom

and had the nerve to ask for an apology

Dont forget he called him a dick first lol

He's the type of transphobic guy in the LGBTQ that people are talking about. But it made me so mad that some people were protecting him because wtf he legit outed Romario. What is Romario was in danger and he just made him scared because now people know who he is

THEY SNUGGLES DURING TRUTG OR DARE AND I WAS SO HAPPY 😭😭

Years later, she's a single mother.

@@markfoster1520 oh that's really interesting i didn't know that

Wait what? When? I mean which time stamp :( I can't find it

Srsly. What’s their @ 😭🤍

I'm so happy that she gained more confidence throughout this experience

*Same*

and she looks just like her mom!

@@Lee-bw5bn I was just gonna say that!

I know she's so amazing

I totally agree I was a bit disappointed. Otherwise the series was awesome though!

Noah PR yeah I agree!

Gali Nussbaum Are they going to continue the series?

Potato KZfaq I don’t know! Good question though, I hope they do!

They owed him that birthday redo...

You don’t have to apologize for something you didn’t do, it wasn’t white cis people it was Marcus.

You don't need to apologise for other white cis gay people, but I appreciate the gesture

Straight black male here. The whole outing made me want to cry man, like you can clearly see that they are not yet comfortable or haven't figured it all out yet. Now Marcus has taken away that important time and journey. I had to stop for a week before watching this episode just so I can stop being that angry.

You can’t apologize for another human being

As a white cis wizard I apologize for all white cis wizards who fought at the side of Voldemort ;)

Yeah, love Tom. He acknowledges that he doesn’t really understand stuff and asks questions and isn’t mean. He just seems like such a sweetheart 💜

I don't think anyone (except a very small portion of the trans community) will judge him for having dating preferences. The dude is such a wholesome cutie btw.

It happens tho... Some people still think it's transphobic.

I completely understand him ✨ I'm a lesbian and I can totally imagine dating a trans woman (she's a woman after all 💗), but I can't imagine having romantic interactions with someone when it comes to opposite sex genitalia... Not because I find it weird or something, just because I'm not attracted to it, if you get what I mean ☀️ It's nothing against them^^

@@mikaelastefkova Yeah, I get what you mean. I'm non-binary. And, I don't care what genitalia or if they look like a "man", "woman", or "non-binary" and that includes intersex people, kind of like Brooke(she's actually my type, I'm kinda envious of her looks, not gonna lie). The only thing that I really care about is who they are as a person, and while I don't have any genital preference, I do prefer my partners to be on the bigger side like my body is. I've never once in my life been attracted to skinny people. Like, I can't imagine myself with a skinny person. I tried dating a skinny person, but it just didn't work out. They cheated on me, but they're missing out :) I didn't feel anything. However, Jack Black and Melissa McCarthy? I'd love them even if they did some gender bending(I'm aware this term might be offensive, and I do not mean to offend). I'm a non-binary amab. I don't want bottom surgery, but I want hormones and top surgery. Everybody is allowed to have genital preference. I just happen to have a body size preference. I'd probably only wanna date a trans/non-binary person because they have a connection and understanding of what it's like to be in a world where conforming is the only thing that seems to matter in society, and that they can empathize with me on a deeper level that a cisgender person never could.

Same

Yes 🤩

Honestly I wouldn’t mind being on that as a transgender woman I think it would be kind of cool to educate people because I’m also a disability advocate as well

Me too mate... she had me going 😍😋🔥 as well...

Yes me too😁🔥

Yass 😍😍

Yup. 😌

Howie had me going 😍😍😍😍 she's drop dead gorgeous.

exactly! marcus wanted romario to speak for himself after they fought, yet wouldn’t let him speak for himself when it came to his own gender identity? i’m disgusted by his behavior, and romario doesn’t owe him ANYTHING

No way! He shouldn't stick his nose in ANYONE'S business!!!! Are you good?!

@@schnitzelberry I do believe it was a typo.

Romario was kissing with the girl that does not share the same idea a bout sexuality. So he kinda went overboard with the manipulations. I just have hard time understanding how nobody judges Romario. Marcus was not the on gossiping about his scars. And what he did was 100% right telling that girl what is going on. You need to recheck your thinking. I am not saying that Marcus is perfect. But Romario is guilty as well.

@@itsarsa262 Absolutely not, my friend. Romario doesn't seem to like thinking about when he was a girl and only wanted to be known as a boy. That is perfectly fine. If he felt uncomfortable and would rather forget being a girl, then he has all right to keep it a secret. Marcus has absolutely no right sharing a secret that isn't his. Point blank. There is no defending that. He did something he shouldn't and was and is getting crap about it. The secret was not his and was not given to him. It's a secret for a reason.

he was crying because he felt ashamed and sorry, he felt bad

It's understandable Romario didn't want to tell his background story, but it was wrong for him to try to pursuit a romantic relationship with Philomena knowing the way she thinks yet still hiding essential information to actually construct a trustworthy relationship. It felt even misogynistic. I understand Romario has endured trauma and abandonment as a child by his own mother, but that doesn't give him the right to deceive his love interests.

Lmao😂😂😂

damn i’m still waiting for mine 😤

@@raylol4291 it will come trust me

We do 😛

honestly I'm a straight woman, but howie was dropdead gorgeous.

Shiva Shakti Marcus 100% should have handled the situation more thoughtfully, and should have though about the ramifications. However, I don’t think that automatically makes him a narcissist. But, once again that in no way excuses his actions.

@@knomesarecooliguess5928 Everything he said was about how it affected him, there wasn't any consideration for Romario...if not a narcissist extremely self involved.

Jefree Star*

@@knomesarecooliguess5928 Text book narcissist AND who made that queen the honest-police? lol

How are people so quick to judge?! Are you psychologists? "Text book narcissist?" That's not a call you can make based on someone's behavior in *one scenario*. I'm not defending his behavior but you don't know what was going on in his head. Being stuck in your own drama sometimes is HUMAN- so all you know for certain is that he's a "text book" human being. He seemed to connect to the situation and didn't know where to draw the line between his personal experiences, and another person's decisions. I can see why it bothered him, though- it bothers me that he kissed her without telling her, too! He had good reasons to express concern about dishonesty, but then it should have been left in Romario's hands to decide. Please don't just label others!

Facts

The sad thing is that, he isn't a one time case, unfortunately that is a lot os prejudice of the gay against trans people.

It really is beautiful. That is the way all parents should be, doing what they believe is the best for their child. My parents were the most loving people you could ever meet. They were always there to encourage and assist me with the things that I became interested in. Well with one exception, my being a transgender woman, which was really quite a new thing for most people in the mid to late 1960s. Maybe they did know something about it because I can remember my mother saying once that I was a good looking boy, but that I wouldn't make a very attractive woman. Anyways they did their best to dissuade me, knowing that I would have a horrible life at that time in history if I were to start living as a woman. They did that out of their love for me, and their wanting the best for me. I think that if we were doing it all today that they would do just what Charlie's parents have done.

PERIOD!!!!

Especially given the context of the show. It's not like Romario is being super secret about it or he wouldn't be willing to be filmed on a show specifically about these topics. Marcus is just a self entitled knob.

This. 👏

YOU’RE RIGHT AND YOU SHOULD SAY IT. Being gay doesn’t make you the king of oppression. They have so much privilege and can be just as transphobic and racist as straight white men if not worse, because they feel like they have a free pass and can hide behind other’s homophobia

Not sure what other cis white gay men have to do with Marcus being a dick? Like not everyone with the same random identity labels acts the same. His identities have nothing to do with his actions, except for him being cis (and not understanding some things about being trans). I assume you're one of those people who sees everything through the lens of identity politics, and if so you're part of the problem

We need more episode

Dan was the bald one right? They had such a warm chill vibe going on (also, totally cute)

@@KarlSnarks no Dan had short black hair with bangs

That's the one I am interested in the most

Did Filamina deserve what she got, then?

This was beautifully said ! @ObsidianNyx

Well idk if they can right now since covid-19

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What I liked more about it is that you can really see the more conservative participants grow in terms of openness and just trying to come to terms with something that they've never had to deal with before and even defied their views in some way. It's lovely!

I loved everyone except 2 people haha- id love to see an American version and id love to be on an American version 🤩

gretbones teehee whos the other person you disliked? I’m assuming Markus is one of them. Is the other one Filomena?

If they did do an American version I can only imagine that it would ether be super chill and everyone would be cool and accepting or it would be drama filled

Part 2 Yes Time 3:55PM Fri 6/26/20

She’s gorgeous too🥵

Gender fluid person* not girl

@@aniyahwilliams4562 gender fluid refers to the gender. Girl refers to the biological sex

@@rinlila6974 yea thats not right lol shes not a girl whatsoever because of her genitals. thats the point of the show

@@rinlila6974 come on bro, seriously? Your so wrong

There are 3 nb , 3 trans women , 1 trans man , 1 lesbian , 1 gay man , 1 straight woman and 1 straight man ,, chile

@@waitaseq8833 ik but basically all the screen time went to the trans women and the trans guy

@@waitaseq8833 there where 2 straight men, and they probably mean that the non-binary ppl didn't get as much screen time as the others and for a show like this it did a very bad job at showing what non-binary is/means even tho that was it was for, this show was for educating but how could you learn if they didn't let the NB speak on camera

@@waitaseq8833 What does Chile has to do with this? And there's 2 trans women and 1 intersex person who identifies as a trans woman.

It's also dangerous to not be honest with your love interest. That could end in tragedy.

I think thats why he trans..

When he said he forgave his mom, I cried so hard!

I was left when I was 6, then people would say I didn't have a mother. I moved in with her when I was 9, when I immigrated.

Nowaynoway this is a good point! I just want to add that it could be possible that Romario didn’t want to be labeled as trans, because like they said at the end labels can be decisive. Meaning that, he recognized that he is a man that was born as a woman, but just wanted to be referred to as Romario. I hope that one day well live in a world where there won’t be labels, or at least live in a world with inclusive labels.

Fact that you say is like that feels like you are taking it personally. Romario manipulated girl that does not share the same opinion about sexuality. What Romario did was not just a bout him. Romario's insecurity does not make it right for what he did.

@@itsarsa262 imo the "experiment" lasted a week which usually is not the amount of time it takes to get comfortable enough with someone, especially given his background... If he really liked her I understand why he would want to see how things go before opening up ... If he had let things go further without telling her then I think I would share your opinion, but it was less than a WEEK. Also I think that what I found infuriating was Marcus' entitled attitude and then trying to play the victim But again it is my perspective and I think it is interesting hearing how you perceived it

@@sandyae92 I mean i agree with you completely it does take long time to get comfortable with some one. To even say something like that. But does is make it ok manipulating some one in to kissing with you? Just because he's insecurity i mean girls said it he self she felt misled. And it she said it nicest way possible. I mean she was not judging him maybe because of environment she was in or maybe she just really feel this way. But no matter what is shitty thing to do. I think you are over empathizing with Romario. Marcus did tell after the kiss, i feet that's the reason he told. But that was not the care he did it for the wrong reason. I don't think doing it was so wrong. And he should have given Romario chance to come out clean by telling him if he does not tell her he will.

@@itsarsa262 romario was not manipulating her. They kissed. They are full grown adults and its just a kiss. It is their business and especially Romarios to tell her. Given his statements that he doesnt hide being trans he would have told her. But you need a quiet private place for a conversation like this and there was hardls the time

@@jamesthezemnian753 He didn't tell her he was trans knowing she'd have an issue with it. That is deception. They were also filming a doc about gender identity and he took his shirt off which showed his scars. What did Romario expect? He knew if he told her from the get go she would have rejected him, and rightfully so. That's why he got so mad at Markus. Cuz now he couldn't keep getting away with it. You can't start a relationship on a lie. There's a reason they don't talk anymore.

I thought that as well, this was a show to spread awareness and educate ppl but then just not include non-binary ppl? do you know how many ppl who don't know what NB is and this show did a terrible job to show what it is/means cause they barely got any screen time.

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@@MuhammadImran-ln4fz ???

@@chosenstrong9539 hi how are u ??

@@MuhammadImran-ln4fz I'm good, how r u?

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Ikr ...he was so nicee

@@lefishe3721 right! Tom is so sweet to everyone and he wants to understand them more...we stan 🙂

Sounds like gay men and women can't be dangerous, we are though, be warned XD Yeah, Tom was such a wholesome cutie. Also, the bald gender-fluid guy had a good vibe going on as well, even though they didn't get much screen time (like the other two non-binary people)

I understand about Markus but how are the others no better?

I think the others were confused, but they definitely played a part in outing him as well. However, I think Markus knew that Filomena didn’t know much about the trans community and so it affected Romario and Filomenas relationship even more than it did with the other people in the house( but that’s just my take on what happened ). Also, I’m not completely sure is this is true, but when Romario revealed his scars in front of some people on the beach, maybe that was his form of seeing if they would accept him??)

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Also, they're both so gorgeous (I'm totally crushing on the dad), wonder Charlie turned out so pretty.

Yes, agree with that... HE was the one to out Romario without him giving his consent to do so and the guy was the one expecting an apology ? He looks like the type of person who likes to give himself some kind of self-importance by creating dramas.

Ali Sha, What struck a chord with me was when Marcus (the one who did the outing) said that he was only speaking the truth. This reminded me of my best friend, a cis woman, because she too believes in telling the total truth and let the chips fall where they may. I don't condone Marcus, but his trying to always be truthful is probably a result of his being lied to by his unfaithful partner. He shouldn't have pushed for the apology though, especially after he told Romerio to say his peace and not accepting that. The whole situation was sad. :(

i don't know if you're the person in your pfp but if yes you're both litteraly so gorgeous

Damian Yes thank you. My fiancée is on the left and I’m on the right..

Agreed. Though, would like to add this applies to any transperson, so transgender men are men too, regardless of being post op or not.

So strange!!! 😆🤣 maybe he doesn't want long hair because its to girly for him?

and the sideburns! the rat tail i can rationalize but the sideburns just seem so random, yet it works for him... somehow

YES!! Such beautiful fluid movements attractive!!!

I feel like the capability was there but haha😅 just needed good choreography

I mean it's really up to her what she wants to be referred to as. She's said she's trans multiple times so I'd assume that's what she wants to identify as. Some people that are intersex prefer not to be called trans and some do! It's really up to her :)!

She is intersex. But she identify as trans...

@@Noa...... in a way she is both

In public no transgender is safe where I live. But for those who are ignorant and don't want to be educated who are usually cis male or cis female , transgender is the easiest concept for them to grasp. They believe that it is impossible for an intersex human to exist. I am intersex in that I have estrogen and testosterone. I was altered at birth. I have had 7 successful, but complicated pregnancies. I wish I was still intact and am more male. I do feel more male and live as a male. I just cannot afford and insurance denies transitioning so I live my life as positive as I can. So yes Brooke is intersex. But, intersex is the crack the lgbt community does not want to accept. Remember also that sexuality and gender are two different issues.

Intersex is not a gender, it is a genetical condition. She was assign male at birth and developed female secundary sexual features during puberty and then identifying herself as a woman, therefore she is transgender.

Quite a few straight guys I have been friends or friendly with had a similar warm and chill vibe like that going on.

She's an intersex person and that's much more intersex. She identifies as trans woman and that we must respect, but being intersex is much more interesting.

Perhaps Brooke just wants to be labeled as a transgender woman.

She is intersex but sense she grew up thinking she was born fully male (even going to an all boys school) she also indentifies with transgender.

June Novae close. People with XXY chromosomes are biologically male, just with a chromosome disorder. The extra X adds feminine qualities, but does not make a person to be both sexes or in between. So, no, she is transgender, because she started out male. It is pretty much unheard of for someone to be not mostly one sex or another, and biologically non-binary.

She's both.

She’s both... having an extra sex chromosome is called intersex. However...she transitioned naturally (hence the term trans) often, intersex individuals go on hormones or undergo procedures to counteract what naturally happens to people who are intersex during puberty. Some individuals who are intersex don’t always have both sex characteristics present (it could be internal or purely hormonal ) however she does. She identifies as a trans woman bc she has zero intentions of altering her physical body and that’s really truly who she is if that’s who she says she is (: hope this clears it up a bit.

Honestly.

Punching someone in the face is violence. Outing someone is damaging.

Hilarious

Campbell was a freaking riot, looovvvved her! 💖

Am single 😍😍😍😍❤❤❤❤❤🌷🌷

As you should

Samee

Yesss I really enjoyed this but I wish it was longer and had parts and the time to give everyone their own focus Saffron is such a cool name and their hair was so coollll

Maybe they werent that interesting and didnt give so much drama

@@nathitaxo Kinda sucks this whole thing was just drama either way I'd have loved to see more of the nb folks

Maybe they didn't have much to say lol, since they seemed a bit more introverted

OMG YEEEEEEEEES

So fucking fine!!!!!

Lmao

I'm crushing on Tom, Charlie's dad, and the bald genderfluid person at the same time. I have a problem XD

Do you have their Instagram? I would like to see what has been of all of em.

Hi 😍😍😍😍❤❤