A Conversation on Old Fashioned Marriage

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@Glizzynator
@Glizzynator Жыл бұрын
I am a 16 year old boy who grew up mostly without a father. Seeing this makes me very happy and I can’t wait to be a father. God bless you and your family.
@cathleensmith4717
@cathleensmith4717 Жыл бұрын
Please wait until the time is right.
@shween8683
@shween8683 Жыл бұрын
Make sure the woman is right! Getting kids is a huge responsibility, and a lot of people aren't ready for the sacrifices that have to be made, it would be wise to share that responsibility with a woman who you KNOW is going to do right by you. Overall just don't rush it, these things come with time and wisdom.
@vbressner
@vbressner Жыл бұрын
Take time and grow into being good at being a man and being a good man. Your wife and children REQUIRE that from you.
@brianm7109
@brianm7109 Жыл бұрын
You'll never be a father because you are unlovable
@mr.albert2847
@mr.albert2847 Жыл бұрын
You’re a young man.
@Jimmy2time
@Jimmy2time Жыл бұрын
“ stop trying to change your spouse , change your self “ powerful
@jayspeed999
@jayspeed999 8 ай бұрын
He calls her "Momma" as a sign of respect. That's a real man right there.
@dejavu666wampas9
@dejavu666wampas9 Жыл бұрын
You can tell these two really have been married for 30+ years. They tell stories together, and finish each other’s sentences. They are in tune. From a guy who’s been happily married for 52 years.
@janaprocella8268
@janaprocella8268 Жыл бұрын
Yep only a guy who is brave and has the courage to make a good it's a multitasking position and it's not for the spoiled hearted man it is not for selfish guy. Being a good wife is not for a spoiled girl... It's a mutual admiration society.. willing to carry each other's water..!?
@ProStreetNaranjaa
@ProStreetNaranjaa 10 ай бұрын
Wow, that’s awesome! I hope someday to be able to say the last part of your sentence. It gets harder and harder as time moves on, but I’m trying to find that woman!
@earthrider23
@earthrider23 2 ай бұрын
Weird nickname for someone "who's been happily married for 52 years"
@dejavu666wampas9
@dejavu666wampas9 2 ай бұрын
@@earthrider23 - Interesting. Exactly which part is weird to you?
@earthrider23
@earthrider23 2 ай бұрын
@@dejavu666wampas9 The number of the beast, and the name of a weird "animal"
@gvillejeep
@gvillejeep 7 ай бұрын
@13:26 "Women weren't created to do everything a man can do, women were created to everything a man can't do" That is really powerful, thank you for that perspective.
@marcomolini9338
@marcomolini9338 Жыл бұрын
Mama looks GREAT for having 7 kids! Both of you deserve medals! 👍
@alexmaracinaru
@alexmaracinaru Жыл бұрын
She looks great, period. :D
@trentenwashington1194
@trentenwashington1194 Жыл бұрын
@@alexmaracinaru lets not do this
@TerriBingham
@TerriBingham Жыл бұрын
She is quite beautiful.
@ladyagnescampbell96
@ladyagnescampbell96 Жыл бұрын
What do women who have seven children typically look like?
@trentenwashington1194
@trentenwashington1194 Жыл бұрын
@ladyagnescampbell whales
@goatrancher9kinder
@goatrancher9kinder 5 ай бұрын
Old fashioned man here, married to an old fashioned woman for just over 40 years, nine wonderful children. Everything you both said is true. So, you celebrated 100k subscribers just one year ago, and now I see that has grown to 880k. Congratulations! I think it is because people seek real wisdom, no games.
@eleanorrigby1629
@eleanorrigby1629 Жыл бұрын
❤️ I'm a 25 year old girl, getting married to a man who is as described in the video. When I decided I wanted to get married, I couldn't help but look internally and think, "I need to be the woman who my ideal man would find attractive and who would want to marry me." I have a long way to go, but thinking of my ideal man lit a fire under me that made me choose to be a better person and to be more lady-like and have self-respect. A real man wants a girl who respects herself. My fiancé and I met organically, thank God, in college. We were friends for 7 years before either of us thought romantically of the other. We decided to give it a shot, 3 months later, we decided we would get married. I can't wait to be his wife, make his meals, make a comfy home, be the mother to his children. He makes me want to be a better person, I trust him with my life. He is a good man, and he says what he means and means what he says. We are very different people, but our values and morals are in line. I have so much peace in my heart in the decision to marry him that I know this is the right thing. I am clear-headed, and my future looks sunny. Sorrow will come, but I know he and I can weather storms. We have already done so separately and together. Thanks for the video.
@ayowhat6139
@ayowhat6139 Жыл бұрын
BRUHHHHHH THIS GAVE ME GOOSE PUMPS WTF
@deepakgusain9561
@deepakgusain9561 Жыл бұрын
Best of luck to you and your family
@WayOfHaQodesh
@WayOfHaQodesh Жыл бұрын
YAH bless you and your family.
@Daniel-jm5ov
@Daniel-jm5ov Жыл бұрын
What a beautiful comment God bless :)
@chamade166
@chamade166 Жыл бұрын
Good luck, you'll need it. Best to have your own goals and achievements to strive for, not depends on and derive your sense of self worth from another person. Then again, some women truly are happy just being slippers. Just like some people are happy discussing horse manure and the Bible, while other go into Hegelian dialectics etc.
@infinitypoker6383
@infinitypoker6383 Жыл бұрын
This is the kind of guy who stops and helps a young girl change her tire and doesn’t even make her feel uncomfortable…love this guy
@codyrockarano5220
@codyrockarano5220 Жыл бұрын
@@thejamnasium6447 Yeah I realize that. They aren't going to be good wives. Discernment is a big red flag, or lack thereof.
@billtalent1
@billtalent1 Жыл бұрын
@@thejamnasium6447 That is an insane exaggeration. In the US alone there is over 20 million girls from ages 15 to 24. To make a statement about millions of people when you've only witnessed the behavior of thousands is extremely ignorant.
@garylivingston9052
@garylivingston9052 Жыл бұрын
@@thejamnasium6447 I totally agree, they are living in a social media fantasy world where everything is done with your phone.Everything.
@thatkajunguy8029
@thatkajunguy8029 Жыл бұрын
@@justinofboulder if I see someone in need of help I will usually offer, if they turn down my assistance then I bid they good luck and I go on my way. Now normally I don't get rejected for my assistance but I live in the deep southeast of Louisiana and although crazy radicalism is present here it's very much in the minority....
@darlenegriffith6186
@darlenegriffith6186 Жыл бұрын
@@thatkajunguy8029 I learned how to change tires myself. You know why? There's a lot of crazy people out there. Women are more likely to be the victims of violence than men. Sometimes for your own safety, you need to learn to take care of things yourself.
@TMats100
@TMats100 Жыл бұрын
My wife and I met on an Arizona guest ranch. I was a wrangler, she was a waitress. Our first date was Christmas Eve to midnight mass. We’ve been married 39 years, have two kids and three grandkids. Best wishes for continued health and happiness.
@Kra-ri6fd
@Kra-ri6fd Жыл бұрын
That sounds like a Hallmark Christmas movie ❤
@TMats100
@TMats100 Жыл бұрын
@@Kra-ri6fd kinda does, doesn’t it 😉
@fotisvon9943
@fotisvon9943 Жыл бұрын
now that's the dream
@PicklesFiona
@PicklesFiona Жыл бұрын
First date is midnights mass! That’s so beautiful ❤
@TMats100
@TMats100 Жыл бұрын
@Hyper Sane, might be! I actually do a bit of writing. It’s been an interesting life and horses have been an integral part of it.
@tracijarrett
@tracijarrett Жыл бұрын
Marriage is hard, very hard. My husband and I are coming up on 25 years married (28 together) and we’ve been through sickness, infertility (that thankfully was resolved) many job changes, moving, family issues, and so much more. Divorced has crossed our lips but we worked through it. It took looking inward at ourselves when things were bad. Love, respect, patience, forgiveness, and introspection, and communication is so important to a good marriage. He once told me that even if we divorced he’d continue to take of me (and the kids of course). He’s a good man and deep down I’ve always known it.
@Ddboyz465
@Ddboyz465 Жыл бұрын
Bless you and your husband
@jamesdriskill5784
@jamesdriskill5784 9 ай бұрын
Wow your story is very similar to ours. We have hurt each other in many ways, thought about walking out. Still working through some resentments but decided nothing was worth throwing away 26 years.
@eoh6708
@eoh6708 8 ай бұрын
Marriage is hard? Try being a libshit singleton.
@EastCoastFishnHunt
@EastCoastFishnHunt 7 ай бұрын
God Bless you ma'am!! that's the way it should be... unconditional love and work at it every day.. :-)
@wingdwolf56
@wingdwolf56 Жыл бұрын
Oh my goodness!! I’m 6 years older than my wife! I was head chef and manager of a restaurant and hired my future wife. It WAS love at first sight for me. Now, 40 years later, still love at every sight!
@Alpinewild444
@Alpinewild444 Жыл бұрын
and lucky wife
@studybug2010
@studybug2010 Жыл бұрын
"Love at every sight"....!! Incredible!! I envy you dude!! thanks for reaffirming real love still exists!!..ps...you should be writing!...just saying...
@wingdwolf56
@wingdwolf56 Жыл бұрын
@@studybug2010 Thanks…writing?
@studybug2010
@studybug2010 Жыл бұрын
@@wingdwolf56 yes as in poetry, memoir, love story fictions or otherwise...to publish. Hopefully you are at least journaling....lol
@Marionpm1
@Marionpm1 Жыл бұрын
Many beloved blessings 🙌 to each other.
@dynastye.n.t.2095
@dynastye.n.t.2095 Жыл бұрын
As a Man in his 30s that comes from a Mexican American background and grew up mostly around gangs and farm workers in Northern California. To listen to this conversation and completely agree with everything is refreshing. A Man is a Man. Regardless of cultural differences. Protector, provider and stands firm in the pursuit of whats good.
@CaptainGrat75
@CaptainGrat75 Жыл бұрын
@DYNASTY E.N.T. Explain what a man is that encompasses all men. It is completely cultural. People 200 years ago had a completely different view of what a man was compared to today. This idea that men have always had a certain role to play as well as women is a form of white-washing that doesn’t hold up with reality.
@guadalupelomeli6463
@guadalupelomeli6463 Жыл бұрын
It's another kind of vibe It reminded mi of my family in Mexico ❤️ I love all countries
@dynastye.n.t.2095
@dynastye.n.t.2095 Жыл бұрын
@@msr1116 I'm sorry to say this but your experience with 7 or 8 Latinas can hardly stand as a stereotype for latin Men or relationships. Thats like me saying because most of the white people who live in olivehurst California are meth addicts, that means white people have a problem with drugs. I know first hand that the vast majority of true healthy latino especially Mexican homes have a beautiful marriage with the same morals as any true Christian home. Of any race. Your comment was offensive and ignorant. But I don't hold any ill will. God bless.
@kuddybeef777
@kuddybeef777 Жыл бұрын
Praise the Lord
@michaelabdella4872
@michaelabdella4872 Жыл бұрын
@@dynastye.n.t.2095 only someone looking to be offended would be offended by his comment. Relax.
@vngas7
@vngas7 6 ай бұрын
I see both of you talking about your lives together and I'm like "man, I want to have that." God bless you both.
@unicornrecords3691
@unicornrecords3691 8 ай бұрын
I've never had a father so now I think of you as my KZfaq dad. Thanks Dad.
@CruWiT
@CruWiT Жыл бұрын
Greetings from Turkey.💗 As a foreign living in a very distant geography, what the western media told us about traditional American people like you was generally conveyed as redneck, racist, bigot, belligerent, enemy of civilization and America's biggest problem. I watched a few of your videos and realized that it was mistranslated to the rest of the world, and my respect for people like you has grown even more. My view is that you are a peaceful person who is fully committed to his family and values, but you are brave and fearless individuals who will never hesitate to defend themselves against attacks on you, your family and your values like a cowboy. I guess the prejudice of the Westerners stems from your brave, strong and seated personality. Also, despite the fact that your wife has given birth to 7 children and raised them successfully, she looks very young, healthy and strong. There is a proverb in the Turks "Working iron does not rust." you and your wife are like living proof of this proverb.😄
@ryanmora3334
@ryanmora3334 Жыл бұрын
Wow this is a really interesting comment thank you for sharing. :) Much Love
@dorianculver3145
@dorianculver3145 Жыл бұрын
Very well said. Thank you for sharing
@annasimons389
@annasimons389 Жыл бұрын
the liberal left is nuts in this country... that's why you have the impression you do about americans. they are truly satan's aid.
@DaniCalifornia44
@DaniCalifornia44 Жыл бұрын
I fully approve your comment despite I am a Hungarian living on land that your nation had occupied for more than 150 years. Crazy right? People need to invest some effort to learn about the other. Cool man!
@mariusrtx6386
@mariusrtx6386 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing
@mjulia92
@mjulia92 Жыл бұрын
In old fashion tradition, when things break, we were taught to fix them. Today, when things break, we are taught to replace them. We’re seeing this pattern of behavior embed itself into how we handle our friendships and relationships. I discovered Dry Creek on accident, but boy am I glad I did. Honored to be part of the first 100k subscribers and will surely be here to celebrate the next 100k. You are wonderful Dwayne, and Mama too! Thank you both for sharing your wisdom.
@TrevorEmahizer
@TrevorEmahizer Жыл бұрын
That is probably the most spot on explanation I've ever heard!
@FreedomForKashmir
@FreedomForKashmir Жыл бұрын
This is very deep and is one of the very rare words of wisdom
@j.grimes4420
@j.grimes4420 Жыл бұрын
@@ez-g3090 No, it was the middle class that caused our problems. Very selfish people. Regardless, pretty sure wanting your own bank account is not what's causing our problems.
@Ives1776
@Ives1776 Жыл бұрын
Recently my ex left me because our relationship was no longer desirable. I wanted to patch it up and she switched me with another guy. You’re not wrong with the assessment that the replacement mentality is all too common now.
@MH3GL
@MH3GL Жыл бұрын
It's not just in our relationships with people... But also the things we use in our everyday lives.
@nature.nurture.nirvana
@nature.nurture.nirvana Жыл бұрын
I am a stay at home Momma of a 9 month old and a wife to a husband with a heart of gold and hard working hands- he works his tail off for me to stay home with our babe and eventually homeschool - I’m eternally grateful to him. Our values reflect yours identically. The traditional life is a dying concept and stumbling across your page, especially this video, has revived my faith in knowing there are others out there like us! Something about this chat just calmed my soul in this chaotic world. Thank you🙏🏼
@yazankassoua1825
@yazankassoua1825 Жыл бұрын
I am a 33 years old syrian, who migrated to Europe at a young age because of war. After being away from my family for very long time, watching all your videos and especially this one, I feel I still belong. Family is the source of the society and you people are a wonderful example to look up to.
@tatianahawaii13
@tatianahawaii13 Жыл бұрын
Hugs
@leonstenutz6003
@leonstenutz6003 Жыл бұрын
Blessings from Bolivia. Peace & love.
@jeremyhigdon3657
@jeremyhigdon3657 11 ай бұрын
​@@tatianahawaii13 🤗🌹
@christapsthe3rd780
@christapsthe3rd780 8 ай бұрын
Stay safe brother
@jonesboy69
@jonesboy69 7 ай бұрын
I hope we’ve welcomed you, and treated you like family. I say “we” Europeans as a Brit, who is sad at the state of affairs in the UK.
@chase_h.01
@chase_h.01 Жыл бұрын
As someone who's 26, this is a far cry from how young people meet anymore. Not even by choice, dating apps and social media just has such a stranglehold over dating now.
@vbressner
@vbressner Жыл бұрын
Go where the type of women you want to marry would hang out. Talk to them irl, be real and confident and it will work out.
@mrchihuahuaboy4306
@mrchihuahuaboy4306 Жыл бұрын
@@vbressner where’s that?
@catfromtrigun
@catfromtrigun Жыл бұрын
@@mrchihuahuaboy4306 not behind a phone screen, that’s for sure. You have to go outside, go to places, be engaged in the activity in the place you’re at, and go from there. You decide that. Your life is yours and only yours to live.
@vbressner
@vbressner Жыл бұрын
@@mrchihuahuaboy4306 So, when I was young I dated a girl who straight up could not read. The next girl I dated was not interested in history, truth, or anything deeper than whatever was happening in the pop culture. I determined then and there that I would only meet women at bookstores, libraries, or other vetted spaces. I would then subtly test them to see what they were about. I have been married for close to 20 years to a beautiful, intelligent, and stimulating woman. We met in the Army. The first date we had was to sit together and read old Chinese poetry. She was all about it. I invited her to play pool at a bar and she was just as comfortable. I wasn't wasting time trying to meet someone and then see if we had things in common. All that to say this, get out into the real world and enjoy the things you enjoy. When you have the chance to meet someone there, take it.
@mrchihuahuaboy4306
@mrchihuahuaboy4306 Жыл бұрын
@@vbressner i guess I’m just boring
@Mirrodin82
@Mirrodin82 Жыл бұрын
Nothing beats oldschool values and mentality. You just got a new subscriber
@_sarpa
@_sarpa Жыл бұрын
time beats it. old people die and earth keeps spinning
@uemi6207
@uemi6207 Жыл бұрын
@@_sarpa but oldschool values that have lasted for several generations have lasted that long for a reason
@jacobcarrico1999
@jacobcarrico1999 Жыл бұрын
@@_sarpa Wisdom beats time. Time is an illusion
@Septicshites
@Septicshites Жыл бұрын
@@uemi6207 yeah but they are getting phazed out now
@uemi6207
@uemi6207 Жыл бұрын
@@Septicshites no, they'll come back. Nature only selects the better ideas
@AdrenalineVideos1337
@AdrenalineVideos1337 Жыл бұрын
Thank god you're posting content like this. Humanity is severely confused and I believe people like you two can help us find our way.
@irinadeguzman8772
@irinadeguzman8772 Жыл бұрын
You are great couple !God bless you 🙏🏻🙏🏻🥹I wish you all the best it’s such a outstanding work that you’ve done to keep your family and have a seven children . You gave me a hope that there’s still might be a normal , traditional man out there for me have a family with thank you so much for your beautiful videos ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
@ShinyFlakesShinyFlakes
@ShinyFlakesShinyFlakes 11 ай бұрын
Unfortunately, no. America is overrun now with immigrants, they typically vote liberally, and they don’t agree with American lifestyles like this one
@RathwulvenBushcraft
@RathwulvenBushcraft Жыл бұрын
You're a lucky man. I am a 35 year old guy who thought he had found such a keeper himself three times already, and whenever times got a little tougher those women hit the road. I can't even find words to describe the pain these situations caused, especially in one case where said woman left me just because I experienced a period of grief: Some time ago I had to bury somebody really dear to me and naturally that threw me off the rails for a couple of months. Now picture spending half a decade with a woman you think is different to those thousands of shallow girls lacking commitment and dedication just to see her leave when you needed her the most. All just because to her, the grass she was on had a bunch of brown blades - so better go see if the grass might be greener elsewhere, right? Sometimes I think that my generation is the first generation that lost sight of what truly matters in life: Sticking with the ones you claim to love. I envy people like you two, you strike me as the type of folks who make it work because you truly want to. And I respect you for that, cause that trait makes great people. Thanks for all you shared on here & blessings to you!
@ShinyFlakesShinyFlakes
@ShinyFlakesShinyFlakes 11 ай бұрын
In your age and I agree about the generation. Lot of it has to do with the internetb
@donaldmickunas8552
@donaldmickunas8552 10 ай бұрын
@@ShinyFlakesShinyFlakes I’m 68 years old. I think that we were heading in this direction before the internet was a thing. The internet just sped it up IMO. Anything can be used for good or evil. A knife can save a life or take a life.
@captainplatipus
@captainplatipus 7 ай бұрын
Women don't leave out of the blue just because times get tough for a little, that was already in her heart to do so but she wasn't sure. As time went on, she felt more and more that she wanted to leave, and unfortunately that time landed around the time your loved one passed. She left during that because she didn't want to deepen your connection and break your heart even longer by waiting until you felt a little better. It's better to tear the bandaid off quick. Think about it, would it have been better if she waited to break up with you? Of course, I could be wrong, as I don't know her lol not saying I'm right either though
@Herberberber
@Herberberber 6 ай бұрын
@@captainplatipus typical female apologist
@PNoblesGarage
@PNoblesGarage 5 ай бұрын
Hit the nail on the head. Loneliness will be one of the biggest causes of death because of how we are treating each other and leaving families and not having babies. These generations are just soft, weak and little pussies. Next twenty years are gonna be a rollercoaster.
@carolynthompson2606
@carolynthompson2606 Жыл бұрын
It’s a choice to get married and a choice to stay married!! Love your truthfulness We’ve just celebrated 52 years and still going strong💞
@hankhill3417
@hankhill3417 Жыл бұрын
Be feminine and agreeable
@nonoun9619
@nonoun9619 Жыл бұрын
@@hankhill3417 No, be who you want to be and find someone who agrees.
@Biggoose_
@Biggoose_ Жыл бұрын
@@hankhill3417 Being a lady does by no way mean you don't get a voice, a woman is entitled to any opinion or contribution she may have on a conflict or idea particularly in a relationship. In which case find who is best at what, finances, work or raising kids and communicate which action is best if a woman in a relationship is better at say raising the kids yet is too agreeable then the decision by the man may not be the optimal one. Personally I would suggest being kind and communicative to a your spouse and recognise their strengths and show them yours I hope I don't come off as rude, i have no intention to be, please have a wonderful day :)
@hankhill3417
@hankhill3417 Жыл бұрын
@@Biggoose_ man has the last word in the home
@Biggoose_
@Biggoose_ Жыл бұрын
@@hankhill3417 I'm afraid I disagree
@gtweak7
@gtweak7 Жыл бұрын
I can't still believe, how young and beautiful your wife looks like having raised 7 children. I'm 26 with no girlfriend, I stumbled upon your channel by chance. Maybe, someday, I will experience the blessing of meeting such a cooperative partner. Thank you for the wisdom and knowledge.
@myaomink
@myaomink Жыл бұрын
My jaw dropped. She is stunning. That jawline! 7 kids and she looks like that. As a 45-year-old woman, my hat is off to her. Just goes to show that being married to the right person and being happy keeps you young.
@memes_4_u13
@memes_4_u13 Жыл бұрын
Man work out and all you desire will be yours society bends to beauty
@NSAJ33
@NSAJ33 Жыл бұрын
Yep I know the feeling. 32 and in the same boat. 😂
@luish8056
@luish8056 Жыл бұрын
Best of luck fella, hope you find that special someone.
@phantomshtter
@phantomshtter Жыл бұрын
There are far better pursuits to spend your time, money and energy on my man. These olden day forever marriages are a thing of the past. The women of today are not his wife, your mother or your grandmother. They have been lied to, mislead, distorted and corrupted beyond marriage material. The values, morals, principles and scruples of yesteryear and the sanctity of marriage are dissolved unfortunately. Marriage is a joke these days and you a target in the sights of modern feemales my friend. They're out for blood and playing for keeps now.
@lordjack567
@lordjack567 Жыл бұрын
If at any point you loved each other enough to get married, then you have the capacity to love each other enough to stay married. My wife and I have had our ups and downs, but never once has the thought of divorce crossed my mind. There have been days when I just couldn’t stand her because of something she did, but more often than not that is the fault in my own character, not hers. It’s something I need to fix, and our arguments are things we need to fix together. And we do; every single time. Marriage is a perfect union, even if the people are imperfect.
@heinrichloewen3891
@heinrichloewen3891 Жыл бұрын
I am a 32 year old man, married for 12 years, we have 7 children, I just know that listening too these old timers, is always an inspiration, because they have already it all, so it’s just so encouraging. Thank you for your teaching, it makes me miss my grandpa😊
@steveedward7572
@steveedward7572 Жыл бұрын
This is a good channel.
@donaldmickunas8552
@donaldmickunas8552 10 ай бұрын
These two are the epitome of the traditional parents and Grandparents full of experience and life wisdom who freely share them with those who will listen and learn. I’m 68 years old and these two fill my heart with joy. God bless them both and their family.
@brettandersen
@brettandersen Жыл бұрын
As a 36 year old man who's been single most of his life, let me tell you: There is 100% a loving partner out there who is made for you. But as a man, you have to go get her. For the longest time I thought I would never find me a girl worth keeping. I'd had many relationships with wonderful women but I never once, truly, fell in love with any of them. After being single the last 6 years and getting to know myself better, I developed a confidence in the man I am. There's many things I don't like about myself, but I worked at finding peace and comfort in my own skin. That gave me the confidence to message a girl I've always admired. A girl who wasn't just attractive, she also made me laugh and she was so easy to be around. I told her that I truly believe I'm the man that is destined for her. She responded in disbelief. The entire time we'd known each other, she'd always thought of me too. From that moment on, we've never once found ourselves being anything but our truest, most genuine selves around each other. It is passionate love in its truest form. Gents, never underestimate the power of boldly and confidently telling a woman that you have passionate, loving feelings for them. You must be a gentleman about it, but still, say it boldly and say it with confidence. She's out there.
@thomassmestead2801
@thomassmestead2801 Жыл бұрын
I'm not a wrangler, just a broken down, ol' mountain man, living in a rural area in the Western Cascades. I try as much as possible to live in the old ways of the West, where I was born and raised. At nearly 70, I still tend my one acre, garden, hunt, fish, and cut my own wood to feed my 'iron monster' in the fall, winter, and early spring. I appreciate the good old fashioned common sense that I have heard on your channel, so I decided to become a subscriber. As far as men and women goes, I have had much younger women describe me as a " man's man", but I prefer the bachelor's life, to marriage. Tried it, and widowed.
@phantomshtter
@phantomshtter Жыл бұрын
Wise man. You are comfortable with yourself, that means you're good company so no one else required.👍🏻 Women only complicate and distort a free spirited man's life in my experience.
@PumpkinSpicePretzels
@PumpkinSpicePretzels Жыл бұрын
@@phantomshtter Both of you sound like man's men, like, in the sense that maybe a man would be better for you to be with than a woman.
@Sweet_T4u
@Sweet_T4u Жыл бұрын
Wow I’m sorry for your loss. You must of loved your wife with all your heart. Thank you for sharing
@jarthegiraffe3303
@jarthegiraffe3303 Жыл бұрын
You have my respect sir. I'm a city boy born and raised but I'm working to earn some old fashioned self-sufficiency. It was years before I ever even chopped firewood, but when I did I realized I was missing a very important skill and outlook on life.
@phantomshtter
@phantomshtter Жыл бұрын
@@scy77a I wasn't talking about for him. Read it again short bus then respect DEEZ NUTS.
@feelingbetternaturally1099
@feelingbetternaturally1099 Жыл бұрын
I was a stay at home mother. It took me years to accept this was my job and it was enough. Thank you for sharing your wisdom.
@r.m5883
@r.m5883 Жыл бұрын
❤️❤️❤️❤️
@aggiesart6
@aggiesart6 Жыл бұрын
@crusher1980
@crusher1980 Жыл бұрын
Feminism was heavily supported by Rockefellers, why ? Because they couldnt tax women when they stayed home. Also it meant that children were now raised by the Government, and more workforce means more competition so thats better for corporations. The most important thing is to raise your children because thats the society of tomorrow. Control children (singers and actors also play a part as false idols to children and society), control society. I dont really want to get into it but just quick, we are ruled by the occult and the occult worships God as a woman like in the Roman-Catholic church which is behind the NWO (to be precise the female part of the devil. Lucifer can be male, female or both - Trans worship (Ying/Yang, male/female combined into one)) If interested because I dont want to write pages here look up Spencer Smith and the 3 part series "The Third Adam" or at least the 3rd part "Rise of the divine feminine" and it will explain alot. watch?v=_f8fotz5GUo God bless.
@justintime8793
@justintime8793 Жыл бұрын
I have been married for 33 years and raised a boy and a girl with my loving wife. It is the most important job in my book. I did not want my kids in daycare and I was able to provide enough money so we did not have to. The tough part for me though was when they grew up and left the home.
@Ddboyz465
@Ddboyz465 Жыл бұрын
A good man, good husband and father will appreciate a traditional good mother. They understand that without a great woman, a house can't be called a home.
@graceoverall
@graceoverall 7 ай бұрын
I'm seeing this one year later and you already have 8 TIMES more subscribers!!! Your channel has obviously exploded, which means there's a great hunger for this kind of content. Congrats, and thanks for all you do.
@princesskatie
@princesskatie Жыл бұрын
Ever since I was pregnant with our first son my husband has called me "mom" or "mama" and I've called him "dad" or "daddy" and we still call each other that 21 years later. Although we still use our names from time to time, too.
@personalitymanager1580
@personalitymanager1580 Жыл бұрын
My husband and I were married when I was 70 and he was 76. We had a few glitches but when I determined to accept the way HE showed love, and stopped judging the marriage by the lack of what seemed like the ideal Husband should be, it became wonderful .And what was great, he in turn started more what I liked. Has he couldn't drive and had to slow down somewhat, I always tried to make him feel needed and wanted. He was a real man, in my eyes, and I emphasized that as much as I could. He just passed over a few months ago and I miss him so much!
@jadamills4082
@jadamills4082 Жыл бұрын
I'm so sorry for your loss. I know you miss him so much, but remember those great times together. I was divorced at 29 & have never met the right person, but I raised my son & was happy. I'm 58 now & still alone. I have excepted the way it is & I'm happy & content with my fur babies. So I'm not really alone , I have my pets. God bless you, always.
@anoodono1841
@anoodono1841 Жыл бұрын
U were lucky t hve him as long as u did
@GEO_________________________24
@GEO_________________________24 Жыл бұрын
Great balance of masculine and feminine energy. As a couple.
@TheAshley9697
@TheAshley9697 Жыл бұрын
Absolutely
@squirrelcovers6340
@squirrelcovers6340 Жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂
@user-ev3qv1yf2d
@user-ev3qv1yf2d Жыл бұрын
Strictly as a couple
@groovies9
@groovies9 Жыл бұрын
My husband and I also discussed how we saw a marriage relationship, how we each saw our roles and goals. What our ideas were as far as money and budgets. Most importantly, how we saw our roles, responsibilities and disciplining as parents. 31 years later, ups and downs, still 100 percent committed. It brings a tear to my eye at all the folks gathered "around your fire". I am seeing a huge shift in just the last year. I feel such Hope for our collective futures. Thank you for your contributions❣️
@jessecollins5072
@jessecollins5072 Жыл бұрын
As a licensed psychotherapist who specializes in couples counseling, I agree with you 💯. Respect is the foundation of love for another, and you both modeled that in this video. Thank you for showing how it's done. God bless you.
@derektaylor7854
@derektaylor7854 Жыл бұрын
My wife and I married at 21 and were 36 now with 4 kids. My wife stays home with the kids and homeschools. We strive to hold on to the same principles and values you guys do. Thank you for your content. You’re an inspiration to many. Much needed in today’s world.
@leev1498
@leev1498 Жыл бұрын
The way she looks at you when you speak is a look of respect and admiration and you can see she's actually interested in your opinions. In my view, that's such an important indicator of a good woman, and a very rare quality these days. You found yourself a gooden. Many blessings to you two and yours.
@shauna7946
@shauna7946 Жыл бұрын
Agreed. That's respect & love in my book.
@madame4883
@madame4883 Жыл бұрын
I have to agree, It has to be difficult to not follow and admire a man like him. He seems to have true leadership, he doesn’t try hard like many men do nowadays. It comes easily!
@DurieHumberJrDC
@DurieHumberJrDC Жыл бұрын
I agree- you guys; if you meet an attractive woman who is a poor listener- get the f… away- run! It’s called narcissism. And it will never last
@tropicaoptica
@tropicaoptica Жыл бұрын
I think it's a reflection of a good man. Woman don't just just respect and admire men who have not earned it. So many men these days are entitled, or are not experienced enough or grown up enough yet, and are looking for validation from a woman only his mother should have given him when he was a child.
@BonBon770
@BonBon770 Жыл бұрын
Amen
@bobvb
@bobvb Жыл бұрын
I see the key to a successful marriage is two people who will work to make that marriage work and NOT keep divorce in the back of their mind. Divorce has gotten so common and easy today. My wife and I have been married for 52 years. We work together to make the marriage work. Nothing said here goes against that. My father died when I was 13, so I did not see a lot of what a father should be. But I did have a grandfather along with a grandmother and my mother as role models. Keep in mind why you get married and why you got married and work for that.
@WayOfHaQodesh
@WayOfHaQodesh Жыл бұрын
"Stop tryin to change your spouse, change yourself." - Some true pearls of wisdom found in this beautiful couple. Thank you for all that you do, both of you. HalleluYAH
@me2cute2c
@me2cute2c Жыл бұрын
Being a mother IS a full time job. That’s a life worth living for me. It’s stressful but I wouldn’t change it for the world.
@DrPhilGoode
@DrPhilGoode Жыл бұрын
Everything should be a means to support our number 1 job which is our offspring. They owe us nothing. And we owe them every fighting chance we can give ‘em. I have a father who will give me very little monetary inheritance when he goes. He decided to give me a different kind of inheritance while he is living.
@jayc342009
@jayc342009 Жыл бұрын
shame that mothers now have to take on 2 full time jobs now
@guadalupelomeli6463
@guadalupelomeli6463 Жыл бұрын
I love being a mother truly the best gift of all
@DrPhilGoode
@DrPhilGoode Жыл бұрын
@@guadalupelomeli6463 umm….I think you have the wrong number. Should probably tell your man how thrilled you are with the gift….not us.
@Nasserist1969
@Nasserist1969 Жыл бұрын
Thank God there are still women like you around
@576Trent
@576Trent Жыл бұрын
I’m a 27 year old man. It feels so good hearing y’all talk and knowing there’s some levelheadedness and wisdom in this upside down world. Y’all’s page is a good and comfortable place for me where I learn a lot and I really appreciate y’all. 👏🏽
@ivoryviking
@ivoryviking Жыл бұрын
Just stumbled on your vids. Watched like 5 in a row before was spending too much time on device. Thank you so very much for this. Too many of us fatherless men have yearned for this kind of lessons and spoken so well and clear. Again very thankful for what your doing.
@mustlearnmore4884
@mustlearnmore4884 Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for these videos, they're fantastic. I only just discovered this channel today, and I've been on a binge whilst working in the garden. Lots of great advice and inspiration 🙏🏽🔥💪🏽
@herrickkimball
@herrickkimball Жыл бұрын
A good marriage is much like two work horses hitched together. Pulling together, in the same direction, helping each other to achieve a shared goal. This has been my experience for 42 years now. I appreciate your conversation here.
@ronheiland6250
@ronheiland6250 Жыл бұрын
My ex wife was raised to believe that I'm the work horse or rather the actual plow. And didn't have to do anything. 25 years wasted. I tried to make what your talking about happen, but she wouldn't. I should have left a long time ago, but I made a vow. She left for a guy half our age and left me to raise the children. Thank you feminists. Thanks alot.
@bostarbird5282
@bostarbird5282 Жыл бұрын
Marriage isn't 50/50 it's 100/100. Great video and hope to see more of momma. Looking forward to hearing more about your stories. Thanks for what you guys do.
@spookgriffith2892
@spookgriffith2892 Жыл бұрын
At 72 it is hard to believe I have never heard it put like that and I KNOW that you are 100% right. I see no way a marriage could fail if a couple love each other enough to marry and both put 100% in to it.
@groovies9
@groovies9 Жыл бұрын
100🎯
@zrex8911
@zrex8911 Жыл бұрын
''We've been closer to divorce than anybody around us knows or will ever know but it's like you wake up the next morning and you're like no we're not quitting we're going to sit down and hammer this out and we're going to put in the work and we'll do what needs to be done and what you have to do is. I have to look at myself and say what am i contributing to this conflict that i can change, not what is she doing to make this marriage hard. I can't change her, stop trying to change your spouse. Change yourself. And a lot of times, eventually your spouse will see the change that you're making and maybe they'll meet you halfway and try to change themselves. But too many times trying to fix a marriage that's on the rocks is us trying to fix what we see in our spouse that's causing the trouble. Well it's a two-way street.'' Gold sir!
@glassofbrandy79
@glassofbrandy79 Жыл бұрын
My husband and I watched this and we just loved it! Keep sharing your advice and values. It’s a wonderful thing to see. God bless y’all!
@jonwithouttheh
@jonwithouttheh Жыл бұрын
Being in my mid-20's, it is refreshing to hear your story. I have thoroughly enjoyed this channel for some time, and I thank the both of you for all you have taught me, even if it is just a reminder. A lot you have shared is similar to what my Dad has taught me. I think a lot of people also rush into relationships (long term) without knowing what they are looking for.
@MrFredstt
@MrFredstt Жыл бұрын
So true. Makes you think about how so many young people have never even seen a long lasting marriage like this. It's a sad thing to look around and see the majority of teens/early 20s are interested in nothing but casual sex and wouldn't even know how to find a long lasting relationship.
@wawis231
@wawis231 Жыл бұрын
@@MrFredstt wow that's some very one dimensional young ppl you've encountered. I personally think it's a lot on which circle or bubble you are in and there are plenty of young people that do no think like that about dating. R u from a big city? I imagine it gets hard there
@MrFredstt
@MrFredstt Жыл бұрын
@@wawis231 Yeah I'm from a big city so I guess that's the reason. Maybe it's different in more rural areas
@maxcorder2211
@maxcorder2211 Жыл бұрын
When I clicked on your notification and saw you both sitting there together, I thought this lady was someone other than Mama, and the real Mama was where she she normally was, behind the camera. And she is not only a lovely lady, but you’re right, Duane, she sure does look young enough to be your daughter.
@pietponger4074
@pietponger4074 Жыл бұрын
Exactly what happened to me
@pietponger4074
@pietponger4074 Жыл бұрын
Beautifull lady
@baregil
@baregil 6 ай бұрын
Nice to meet Momma, thanks for presenting her, she's lovely; you definitively are a role model, thanks for sharing.
@bigviking0001
@bigviking0001 10 ай бұрын
Congratulations on the 100,000!! I am 66 years old and have been through a lot and what you are saying really rings a bell. Over the years I have had some big times and done some amazing things, but at night when my thoughts are mine alone, I can remember the things I left undone. I don't kick myself, but simply pray that a situation might arise where I can finish. That is my bucket list, like Deanna finishing school just so she could put it behind. Thanks for sharing!!
@zc4905
@zc4905 Жыл бұрын
I’m a grown man, but had to stop at 2:20 to have a cry. That intro with you both was so genuine, the look on her face during those compliments could melt any cold heart. Sending much love from the farm in upstate New York. ❤️🇺🇸
@BJFilbin
@BJFilbin Жыл бұрын
I have always said if a hubby just gave a wife a pat on the head everyday, small or large, notice a new hairdo, good dinner, notices a new blouse she will shine and pay back ten foil. Hubby and I were best friends and married for 65 years and he wouldn't pass until we had our 65th. Ann., then he passed 3 years ago and my life has changed without my love and best friend.
@thevitrectomee5275
@thevitrectomee5275 Жыл бұрын
@@BJFilbinI think you meant 'pay back tin foil'
@PaladinMika
@PaladinMika Жыл бұрын
"women were not created to do everything that man can do, women were created to do everything a man can not" this sounds amazing
@MsOaktree11
@MsOaktree11 Жыл бұрын
That really struck me too
@karajeanbriggs9312
@karajeanbriggs9312 Жыл бұрын
It's sad many people don't seem to take pride in that anymore. Gives me hope for our country's future seeing the comments on here🌻
@JonMB357
@JonMB357 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for the encouragement, It’s a pleasure having the opportunity to learn from you two.
@NiinaSKlove
@NiinaSKlove Жыл бұрын
What you’re saying is based on logic, grounded love and wisdom. I’m glad you speak up and share your wisdom with those who are willing to listen. I wish you a wonderful New Year!
@owlman166
@owlman166 Жыл бұрын
Just got married in May to a woman 6 yrs older than me, I'm 30, almost 31. She's the most amazing, beautiful, and responsible woman I've ever met. We've already had a few tiffs, but like you guys we made a vow to never get divorced, and we work thru stuff as they come. We're both Christians, and I highly recommend trusting in Jesus. He's made a huge impact on both our lives for the better and changed them in so many incredible ways. :)
@brahminsoup
@brahminsoup Жыл бұрын
Congrats man! My girlfriend is 7 years older. I never found a life partner from any of the younger women I dated. We find balance and stability in each other where neither of us found in anyone else before.
@jj-eo7bj
@jj-eo7bj Жыл бұрын
Better off not getting married if she truly wants to be with you she would be there with out the official marriage ,,,keep the state and the divorce cooperation out of your life
@justmeandmy
@justmeandmy Жыл бұрын
@@jj-eo7bj This doesn't work for christians, you're not wrong about the risks of being married, but Christians respect God more than the state. Additionally common law marriage undermines your point in many places.
@jj-eo7bj
@jj-eo7bj Жыл бұрын
@@justmeandmy good luck ...they are Christian when it suits their needs, not safe to even cohabitate w them ..cant trust them no more
@xreediculousx
@xreediculousx Жыл бұрын
Hey buddy, my fiance is 6 years older than me. I am 29. I truly believe that God sent her to me as an angel. I am so blessed and I also want to say CONGRATULATIONS to you two. Wishing y'all happiness and strength.
@ScaledCreations
@ScaledCreations Жыл бұрын
"...communication, you should be friends, you should like each other, not just love each other..." This is absolute truth. You absolutely nailed the roadmap to a long term, quality relationship. "Stop trying to change your spouse, change yourself." Again, so much truth in coming from this conversation. Amazing to hear a couple speaking about deep morals and values.
@ha103844
@ha103844 Жыл бұрын
Absolutely love seeing this content! Your family is an inspiration and I hope more and more people see that! 🙏🙏🙏 God bless you and keep posting these beautiful videos!
@ViolinViolaMasterclass
@ViolinViolaMasterclass Жыл бұрын
Oh my goodness the way you described her and the term “momma” that brought tears to my eyes!! Awww
@janicemeintz667
@janicemeintz667 Жыл бұрын
It’s was so nice to see you guys today. And am so happy for you. My husband and I were married for 31 years. He passed 2 years ago, this year. We were best friends. It got us through difficult times. He really was a amazing man. He taught me so much. A kid at heart. Everyday I thank God that He gave me Dan. And now when I think of him. I see him fishing with his dad and brother in heaven. Given each other crap - big smiles on their faces. It fills my heart with happiness for him.
@perugino25
@perugino25 Жыл бұрын
this is the kind of conversation two matures persons have done throughout their lives. my respect to both of you.
@CamperVan-K
@CamperVan-K Жыл бұрын
You are evidence that people are yearning for 'old fashioned' values... keep it up. You're changing the world! Thank you for being around.
@RobertMorcroft
@RobertMorcroft 11 ай бұрын
Sitting down watching this with my fiancé. We love you two and thank you for all the wisdom & stories. Very glad your channel is reaching and helping so many people.
@adamw4469
@adamw4469 Жыл бұрын
What an absolute beauty and no doubt a once in a lifetime partner and friend. Here's to many more years together you two.
@maryopel8305
@maryopel8305 Жыл бұрын
We just celebrated our 37th wedding anniversary. I love being the woman, Mommy and wife. He holds the door for me, compliments me, my sons hold the door (always have and do so for all women & elderly). I appreciate my hubby and sons helping Mom lift, carry and move things. They spoil me. I am a head strong, educated woman and was the family disciplinarian. Now we are grandparents and our roles are still the same. I’m still a Grizzly Bear when it comes to my cubs but a teddy bear otherwise.
@wocookie2277
@wocookie2277 5 ай бұрын
This channel is golden. If you’re intentions are too help young people, you are spot on. I’ve been married for 30 years too, and as a veteran, I’ve put my wife through hell moving her all over the country and disappearing for many months at a time. I met her at work and it was love at first site. She didn’t take crap and stood on her own. Like riding a green horse, we’ve both changed to become a team. You’re words are true, if you can’t respect each other, you’re not worth a hill of beans.
@johnmacri7440
@johnmacri7440 7 ай бұрын
America needs more of this. You have a silky smooth way of tackling tough subjects and delivering common sense. You are an inspiration
@matthewketron1041
@matthewketron1041 Жыл бұрын
This is great! My wife and I have 9 kids together. Unusual these days. Your common sense and wisdom is in demand today you deserve your subscribers.
@A_To_The_O
@A_To_The_O Жыл бұрын
9 kids? 🤯 Congrats to that! A rarity indeed in todays society
@theawfulgamer2247
@theawfulgamer2247 Жыл бұрын
pure curiosity what do you do for work
@matthewketron1041
@matthewketron1041 Жыл бұрын
@@theawfulgamer2247 master mechanic/millright
@dante1109
@dante1109 Жыл бұрын
@@matthewketron1041 I never ever comment. But your struck me. Could I ask you how old are you, and how difficult is to raise 9 children
@matthewketron1041
@matthewketron1041 Жыл бұрын
@@dante1109 36. It's full time but enjoyable. By the time the 4th or 5th comes along the older ones help out so really can't have them fast enough to be overwhelmed. Past couple of years food cost has really increased and that is definitely noticable.
@susansimmons3740
@susansimmons3740 Жыл бұрын
My husband and I recently celebrated 34 years of marriage. You both are correct, it's a marathon - not a sprint! We've stayed together through thick and thin because we love each other and we took a vow. Plus, we're just too darn stubborn!
@ceresuziel5089
@ceresuziel5089 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for your words, I recently found your channel and am so grateful. More than anything thank you for not shaming people for getting divorced, I tried my hardest, and I loved until I broke myself to keep going until I had no health left I had to say enough and I am trying to cope with that. Thank you for not shaming that. I had to leave the one person I love more than anything in the world, I lost any chance I had to have children of my own, it hurts and I am very lost. I didn't know that rock bottom had a basement but hearing your words made me feel grateful, I might not be happy but at least someone was. I am happy for you both.
@christianniemeijer97
@christianniemeijer97 Жыл бұрын
Hi, Dwayne. First off, thanks for your lovely messages and the consistent work you put in every week for the viewers of this channel! Listening to you reminds me of my dad who passed away recently. He died in his sleep at age 66.I am grateful to have had a good relationship with him. He loved my mother, and all of his children and grand children. The moment he died, he left a big gaping hole in the community. There were so many people at the funeral that there weren't enough places to seat everyone. For me, my dad was the perfect example of what it means to be a man. It means to have a strong character, to be responsible and dependable. As a doctor he worked for the Royal Netherlands Army and the Navy and rose to the rank of commander (Kapitein-luitenant ter zee). He has saved countless lives in Rwanda, Bosnia, Afghanistan, Iraq, Somalia and many more. One time when he was on a mission in Somalia, the navy vessel he was stationed on, had arrested an enemy vessel. He was asked to captain this vessel, which was in fact a pirate ship, back to the harbor. My dad was a super hero, and he will always be a super hero in my eyes. The way he remained composed, strong of character, loving and dependable, even after he has seen some of the worst things humanity has to offer. This is the mark of a true man. I hope to one day be a fraction of the man he was. Rest in peace, papa
@brookeb1753
@brookeb1753 Жыл бұрын
My boyfriend (who is absolutely my life partner) and I speak about roles, this day and age, and our future often, and it always breaks my heart how people treat women, mothers, and wives - especially those who stay at home. I don’t yearn to be an 80 hour a week lawyer or surgeon or CEO (like I used to tell myself I HAD to be). I want to be a mommy and a wife and a homemaker. I take it damn seriously and want to give my 100% focus and attention to my role. It comes very very naturally to me and suits me well and there is zero shame in that. I also work in womens health - I’m a personal trainer and pre/post natal trainer, it is vital the way we treat mamas, babies, and women without shame and doubt for whatever their choices are. Anyway that’s my two scents. Loved this video!
@summerstapleton5787
@summerstapleton5787 Жыл бұрын
Stay-at-home Momma myself! I had a hard time letting go of the idea of worldly accomplishments at first, even though raising children was something I wanted dearly. I met a wonderful man who was willing to provide the opportunity for me to be home with our kids, so I dropped the fantasy of "making an impact" on the world at large and have since discovered the joy in *being the world* to my family. It certainly is not the ideal that we have been sold, but being here myself, I personally think this IS the ideal for most women - they are just being shamed out of their deepest desires.
@HeavyMetal-jy4vj
@HeavyMetal-jy4vj Жыл бұрын
All those jobs..let me say they are horsepucky. Here is the thing with Doctor. You will take care of as many evil as good people. You might save a persons life who then goes on to molest 3 kids. Save a lawyer who bankrupts your town. Its all just a job. The money is good but it takes 10 years to pay the stupid loans. Take children though. Their entire life is in YOUR hands. You can have all the power to know down deep you supported them until they became good prosperous people. YOU did that. It could have been some other mother and the children were terrible and immoral but it was YOU so your efforts were never wasted. You might feel even as a Doctor or Nurse some form of meaninglessness. People will never listen to you, always get fatter and more unhealthy, just beg for drugs. With children its ALL soul, its all hopefully a big reward that pays you off later. Like when they are taking care of you in your old age. I think mother is the best job you can do as long as father is not an idiot and supports you to the fullest. I think doctor is very overrated but I mean I dunno CEO/Senator might be worth being childless for the millions of bucks but you'll never know that you'll be one unless you know you're in that Elite of Society Lane. Also it helps having kids when you run for Senate because it makes you look more normal and trustworthy so. Go off Queen :D
@woutertron
@woutertron Жыл бұрын
Although I understand it might not always come across that way, feminism at its core is about not pressuring women or men to conform to anyone else's idea of what a woman or man should be. If you feel being a homemaker is your calling, then you should be allowed to do that without anyone (alleged feminist or otherwise) telling you it's wrong. Just like the woman who would rather work and not have children should be allowed to do that.
@summerstapleton5787
@summerstapleton5787 Жыл бұрын
@@woutertron Which wave are you referring to exactly? This potential fourth wave we are seeing? Feminism has really never been about redefining "man" or "woman". It started as an equal rights movement that lost it's way during the sexual revolution and has since devolved into a flat, self-righteous and self-aggrandizing hedonistic ideology of screeching harpies.
@janelleg597
@janelleg597 Жыл бұрын
@@woutertron modern feminism is nothing like classical
@Cwgrlup
@Cwgrlup Жыл бұрын
Wow. Mama is a beauty. I hope I look as good as her after 30 years of marriage. She looks so young.
@2dCause.2dTop
@2dCause.2dTop Жыл бұрын
You guys are just awesome!! Thanks for all the hope and leadership you keep pumping into us aspiring singles...trying to do things right.. May God continue to bless your marriage and children and the many more fruitful years to come!!
@jennamarie7147
@jennamarie7147 Жыл бұрын
So much wisdom here. My favorite thing about this is that you two, clearly, communicate very well with each other. I also really appreciate how you both respect each other and other people. That is really refreshing in this day and age.
@spiritualru2364
@spiritualru2364 Жыл бұрын
Probably one of the greatest talks on gender roles. I also like the conversation on the reality of marriage. This was a treat for us all. Thank you guys so much for taking the time to do this video
@tracer0017
@tracer0017 Жыл бұрын
Especially in todays warped society. My wife agreed when she saw this vid with me.
@emmy5237
@emmy5237 Жыл бұрын
I’m so happy that society progresses and your standards aren’t placed on young people✨
@Fiox789
@Fiox789 Жыл бұрын
@Marqi Mauricio I think it is, we just have traditions that are incompatible with some people and that's fine.
@Wheatthin21
@Wheatthin21 Жыл бұрын
@@Fiox789 VERY well said
@Lulu_Lime
@Lulu_Lime Жыл бұрын
@Marqi Mauricio "I don't like this so it must be wrong" Yeah the world is changing, so what. You're stuck in the past.
@bluecrystalwolfqueen9268
@bluecrystalwolfqueen9268 Жыл бұрын
I know I'm late to the comments, but I wanted to thank both of you for this video. Coming from a family where my mother was abusive and my parents had a disastrous marriage, it's a comfort to see a couple this committed, that has traditional values, and where the woman actually wanted to be a mother and love her children from the get go. It gives me hope that maybe not everything is lost and there are still good people out there.
@katee67
@katee67 Жыл бұрын
I grew up the same way as you. It took me a while to recover my femininity because my mother made me think it was an awful thing to be a wife & mother. What a shame and how wrong she was. With God's help I've (mostly) healed and I'm a wife & mother now with a great life and a family where I belong and have support. I pray that you find healing ❤ and find that special someone to build your family with ❤
@Humanumikey
@Humanumikey 10 ай бұрын
You keep doing what you guys do, simple one take vids, life advice, etc and you guys you’ll have a million subs in no time. Bless you two 🙏 You’re good people.. the world needs more of you!
@shauna7946
@shauna7946 Жыл бұрын
lLove how you talked it out prior to getting married. I wanted to be a wife & mother as well. There was so much pressure from outside forces for me to want to get a job. I felt blessed to be able to enjoy every second of my childrens' childhood. Even then, there were still family members that wanted me to get a 'real' job when I was already doing a job that would mean more to me than anything else I had done in my life. When my children were almost grown, my father became sick with dementia. I had the priviledge of caring for my Dad for 6 yrs. We lived together for 9 yrs. Family members who had not seen my Dad in years were quick to offer their opinion noting that I should get a 'real' job and my Dad should be put in an 'oldfolks' home. I have made many mistakes in my life, but caring for my children & my father are decisions I am proud of & choices I very much wanted to make. I have never doubted my decisions in this regard. I have often felt isolated & minimized for making these choices. I am so happy to see a woman who wanted what I wanted, & still want.
@wesharrington5937
@wesharrington5937 3 ай бұрын
I did the same for my father after receiving a phone talking to my parents and my Dad telling me that he had congestive heart Failure. I told my parents to move back to Hawaii , and I would have them live with me , built a full on addition to my home at the time. So they had a nice comfortable place. I looked after them until they both passed away 7--8 years ago. And I was the Black sheep of the family and I was the one that ended up taking care of Mom & Dad. But I was lucky they were both good loving parents. I miss them both greatly.
@seanwiley558
@seanwiley558 Жыл бұрын
My wife and I have been together for 13 years. She had a rough upbringing and me in the Navy Seabees, I had my way of things. Watching this video is like my wife and I. The Navy Chaplin said even if your mad with each other, always sleep in the same bed. When we get up in the morning we say I Love You and we'll talk later. It has helped us immensely. Great Video!
@melc172
@melc172 Жыл бұрын
The lack of what this couple has, is why this country is in the shape it is. They are a breath of fresh air. A much needed breath of fresh air. Bless you forever.
@freyaqueen507
@freyaqueen507 Жыл бұрын
I love watching your videos. My husband and I have been together for 27 years. Y'all are a blessing
@rachelmartinez5077
@rachelmartinez5077 Жыл бұрын
I just discovered and subscribed to your channel. You are a beautiful couple and a great example of what a marriage can be. My son has been married for 35 years to a wonderful woman and they also have had their challenges but always found a way to work through them. Keep on inspiring people through your videos. God bless the both of you.
@ambrosekane2941
@ambrosekane2941 Жыл бұрын
This couple is somewhat rare these days, and they approached their marriage with great maturity and level-headedness. One of the important ones was clarifying each other's roles before marriage, including assessing each other's gifts and talents as well as discussing child rearing. Again, all of it BEFORE marriage. If more couples worked out their differences, roles and expectations before getting married, there would likely not have been as many divorces as we've seen here in the U.S. Marriage is not a 50/50 proposal, but one that is 100/100. It requires all of the person, and it is servant in nature too. Thus, when both persons love, serve and are committed to each other, their marriage will be a glorious one. Granted, there will still be problems at times, differences, and arguments, but the likelihood of divorce is minimal at best. And yet it's astonishing how in probably the most important decision couples will ever make - namely, marriage - there is little preparation, discussion, and planning among most couples as to their roles, expectations, and of first ironing out any religious, political, and philosophical differences before walking down the aisle.
@asgrey22
@asgrey22 Жыл бұрын
This is nice to hear. My wife and I homeschool, have done home births, and she stays home and manages everything. Many people don't understand why we do things that way and it's great to hear your story and see the success you've had. Very encouraging in a world that thinks traditional roles and values are so absurd.
@jaimhaas5170
@jaimhaas5170 Жыл бұрын
See how easy the conversation flows with these two? Superb!
@EscapeToTheOzarks
@EscapeToTheOzarks Жыл бұрын
This sounds like a conversation all of my grandparents and parents could have had. They all worked together and succeeded together. Thank you for sharing your success story. Anything worth having is worth working for.
@tombryan1
@tombryan1 Жыл бұрын
You guys have a great and respectful way of describing marriage without offending anyone with different wants and needs. Thats not easy to do.
@takejoy3082
@takejoy3082 Жыл бұрын
My mom (1942) are dad (1927) were 15 years apart. It was the best thing for me, learning from two different generations. I thank God everyday for this blessing.
@Hikehags
@Hikehags Жыл бұрын
You two are fabulous, an a fine example of what so many people are missing. A solid foundation.
@kellyhofmann3678
@kellyhofmann3678 Жыл бұрын
You two are very inspirational! I have four children two of my sons are in their twenties now but I raised them in upstate New York splitting wood doing chores working family businesses with me. I love listening to your experience. I also forward your videos to my sons because like I tell them you never stop learning. God bless the two of you!
@jonathanbrown8838
@jonathanbrown8838 Жыл бұрын
It's so refreshing to see normal, sane people in today's messed up culture.
@carlmarc3877
@carlmarc3877 Жыл бұрын
Fellas We must listen close to what he said starting at 07:17 “This is a girl who can hang” “This is a girl that could keep up with me” This type of women is what we need. She’s strong, faithful, respectful, beautiful, charming, and you can tell she absolutely loves this guy. Yeah I’m sure they’ve had tough times but the amount of ‘trust’ she displayed on the first date with him is all a man needs to make a crucial executive decision ‘She’s the one’ And ladies listen to what she said at 09:04 “He has the qualities that I NEEDED” -that’s the sauce, this dude wasn’t rich, wasn’t the tallest man on earth but she adored his energy and cherished his energy thus that was her specific missing puzzle piece Dude I am a loyal subscriber now. I can learn a lot from you my internet mentor 🙏🏾 -central FL
@apet9859
@apet9859 Жыл бұрын
You two are lovely and a comfort to this world, thank you for making this channel amazing and so helpful. Bless your hearts and be well for the rest of your common lives. Much love from Germany*
@bryansilby2159
@bryansilby2159 Жыл бұрын
Lovely video. I'm an old dude wishing that I had seen your videos when I was a young fella. I've just found you guys, subscribed to both channels. I've messaged my son recommending both channels to him and his wife. Keep up the good work! Love what you are doing.
@StaticYonder
@StaticYonder Жыл бұрын
Always a pleasure to see a video from you Dewayne, but also, congratulations on 100,000 subscribers! Very nice to see your wife on video, you guys are great
@joshgillming6387
@joshgillming6387 Жыл бұрын
Being different from your spouse is a benefit. Your strengths complement their weaknesses, and vice versa. My wife and I have been married 21 years today, and we are both as different as day and night. It has helped us raise our two sons (17 & 14) into growing men. Thank you for this wholesome content.
@YaelReadOmniREADY
@YaelReadOmniREADY Жыл бұрын
THANK YOU, THIS IS DEEPLY APPRECIATED... MAY *Ü* BOTH AND YOUR FAMILY CONTINUE TO BATHE IN GREAT FREQUENCY...
@ventus.pd89
@ventus.pd89 10 ай бұрын
Thank you for your time, I really appreciate you both I am from Europe and I learn so much watching this channel
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