I know...I hope she is getting actual therapy instead of this show

probably he got to stalker stage already, one day he will rape her if this continue ,so scary........

Oh sweet home Alabama is that man gonna rape his own sister?!

WhErE's Da RiCe?!?! IKR i feel so scared

@Loli Pop ikr😂😂

for me it's more like a whole year 😂😂😂

Me:Doesn’t even answer my phone calls even before I moved

The realness

Your brother is aware you are there. Trust me. Brothers care about you, just show it indirectly - that is by acting like ur invisible. TRUST ME I do it to my siblings too😂😂

It never does

Rachel E. - agreed, whenever there’s a person causing the concern, they never learn anything, they just say that they’ll make things better because it’s on television

@@remiung they just laugh about everything.

Don't they have professionals at the back?

Same...

Yes.

That's exactly what I was thinking. It's like talking to a school counselor. Censored.

It does. After the episode.

It does backstage.

@@Reaper-ok8rl Really ?

kairin _ I almost threw up in my mouth when I saw that part

I think it is so cute 😆

kairin _ me to..me to 😂😂😁

my brother cant even say that to me lmaoooooooooo. that guy is just so weird.

kairin _ i screamed on my pillow

I can assure you that it's true. I don't talk with my brother for a long time and we live in the same house 😂😂😂

Lol I just saw this at the part of the video

Thats so true XD me and my brother live in the same house but we barely talk to each other

Same here

Me and my bro live in the same house but we always use our phones so we less communicate with each other 😂

😂😂😂

lmao 😂😂

Same here

I felt this

@Maria Gonzalez lmao same

They would have ended up shooting the entire neighbourhood

“ladies and gentlemen..... we got him.”

in the US, the male homo sapiens is a hunted species

@@enfpflower5751 definitely lmao

*SEND HIM TO THE RANCH*

L U M A T I C ikr, her mother seems trying to protect her, to keep her away from her brother. This brother really needs help.

V Nick I mean, if the mother didn't think it was a big deal I could understand it as if it wasn't... but telling the daughter to move with her to protect her from the brother makes me think something big must have happened for her to do such thing..

That says it all! He can try to manipulate ppl into believing that he's not in love with his sister, but who would ever admit to that? Noone. His actions speaks louder than his words. I hope the sister breaks free from him, you can see how worried their mother is

Same feel bad for the girl but why she accepts his calls? I don't have a great relationship with my one of my family members so I just forward their calls to my voicemail they would text me a lot so I just put it on MUTE. My life is soo much more stress free and if I don't wanna see someone I just tell them to not go over to my house. And if I wanna lock the doors close the door shut the door I do so. This girl needs to put her foot down. She's basically an enabler to her brothers weird fetish and over obsession.

we're lucky to have grown in a western country where society promotes individual happiness over chaining yourself to allow another person's happiness. in china and korea, there's SUCH a bad stigma over not being a "perfect family", they feel OBLIGATED to suffer bullshit so people will say she's "caring" and a "good sister". it's bullshit. she needs to be FIRM with him, she needs to realise he's emotionally manipulating her and stop feeling guilty for HIS SICK TWISTED MIND.

AGAGAGAGAHHAA

Lmfao 😂😂😂😂 projectile vomited

It gets better later on

But I do agree with what you say they jump back and forth

@@paulajurczak3542 explain how it gets better because I'm not gonna watch this show. every time I try to it rubs me the wrong way and makes me feel Korea still hasn't progressed to deal with serious topics, at least generally as a nation.

@@ggundercover3681 The episodes I've watched haven't been so bad. I mean from my perspective it's mostly like trying to give the people with the problems a platform and at least feel like their problem is legitimate, and in that respect it seems generally successful. The hosts help them talk it out and it probably gives the guests more progress than if they just kept things the way they were (never contacted the show etc). They try their best at forming a solution but of course they only have a short period of time. Sometimes they do make jokes that can seem insensitive. But I guess they're just trying to keep a light-hearted atmosphere (most of the jokes aren't bad). Either way watch it or don't watch it whichever you want; I'm just providing my opinion. ~:~

@@ggundercover3681 u be talking like hosts from ur country r better💀 ofc they did some mistakes, but u can't expect everyone to react a certain way in a situation all of the time.

I honestly think the part when she mentioned he was upset at her for closing her bedroom door creeped me out the most. I'm not saying that none of the other things were beyond creepy, because they were, but not letting her close her bedroom door? Should she change in front of him then? Is she not allowed to have privacy? (Even married couples get some sort of privacy!) Seriously, the way he acts with her (especially the comment "who is she talking to on the phone for an hour?") is like a jealous boyfriend trying to control his girl. It's....just not right on any level!

when he left his girlfriend in a date to give his sister a help that she didn't even need, we knew he's a delusional creep

imagine if she didn't. things may end up differently

Yeah, i’m agree with that…

yep totally 💯

Goji Berry IT WAS A JOKE

ms bread seola It wasnt funny to her . Did you see her facial expression? Not funny at all.

yeah it's not funny at all, they're just rude

It's how Koreans 'talk', they mean, she *could* skip a meal to lose some weight (as in if she wanted to)

keroppi That comment was still uncalled for and irrelevant to the issue at hand. If I was her, I don't need to be reminded of my weight as I try to bring up an uncomfortable issue about my brother crossing boundaries

yeaa he's the only sane one there who is clearly not okay with that & seems uncomfortable the entire show because boi knows something is sus about this "older brother obsession".

You judge the person in the video without knowing the context correctly.

@@user-xh7si6qx8o FYI I watched the video and then commented about it besides what I said is true so idk what's with your issue here , the older brother clearly doens't understand the difference between obsession and taking care of her sister in a good way where it's not toxic. If he knew that already her sister wouldn't have to write a letter to this show lol 🙄💁‍♀️. It seems like you're the one here who didn't understand the context and can't comprehend the naked truth , pls get some braincells to understand things properly 🤦💁‍♀️

@@mirani2571 아오 그냥 저기 있는 연예인들 진행 맥락 1도 모른다면 가만히 있어 외국인이면서 말이 많아

@@user-xh7si6qx8oumm seems like you're stupid. i'm talking about the guy not the celebrity lol where's your mind at. first read my comment properly and then reply to me , your lack of understanding is the cause of your own arguments and also me being a foreigner doesn't mean that i can't talk about things like these lmaoo you sound like a boomer ngl, please for god's sake, get a Life

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Ive lived in Korea for awhile now and thats just Korea...

Right?? Im korean and that is a norm. And i hate it. But no one actually realize.

yeah I dont see why they would cut up the sister for her weight when the brother looks bigger then her to be honest

True. I’ve been watching this show for a while now and they always comment about women’s body-_- kinda rrruudeee

this show keeps popping up in my recommendations and *oh my god* i have a much bigger problem with this show than just that

Not only this show. Koreans in general think it's okay to say these things n they think it's funny smh

Eventhough it’s wrong, they see it as looking after the person. To them it’s the equivalent of saying “stop smoking”

It's miss translated. It was actually kind of like an idiom that would be better translated as "skipping a meal could be called a diet". Korean doesn't use pronouns much like Japanese or many other languages so translators take liberty in adding them. That's what happened here and I think it was wrong as It didn't seem direct at her.

It's not really the show. That's one of the more unfortunate aspects of Korean culture. They don't usually say stuff like that with malice. They're trying to "help you improve" yourself. But it is awkward. I worked there and just got used to it and brushed it off, but I understand that's harder for others.

This show in general is just useless and have the wrong approach to a serious problem, none of these people are qualified to really help their guests, their purpose is to make an interesting content out of someone's misery. It ain't right.

Lol yes

Underrated

LOL obv we need Dr. Phil

Dr Phil is not helpful either 🤦🏻‍♀️

We need someone like Gordon Ramsay on this show wtf

Ur right this is actually disgusting, he might have those thoughts though

What if one day he lowkey raped her i feel like he did

Doubt it idk he's just like a dad like a single dad or something

No one here watched till the end

I watched the whole thing but still think he might have this kind of feeling for her. Something like oedipus complex maybe?? Idk, it's just too weird

Ikr i feel bad for her and uh.. the brother is fucking weirdly obsessed eith his sister.

Omg every time they bring in a new situation i start crying for her.

Y'all over estimating this. If you were told by ur parents to take care of your sister at such a young age, you would live up to the promise, and sometimes you always act like that. Sitting on his lap is probably what he done when they were younger. You could say he hasn't yet grown up, but yea, he did take it too far; making her feel imprisoned.

Skull Razor please don’t try to normalize his attitude, she is almost THIRTY, he does not need to check up on her now that she lives with her mom. this is over caring and it’s even getting creepy, like is talking everyday for an hour on the phone caring? no

@@skullrazor of course i would take care of her. But not to the point where i would take care of her even when werr adultz. I think that something happened to the brother after his mother told him to take good care of his younger sister that would make him qoute on quote 'Obsessed with her'

jaehyun and mark both looked disapprovingly, and im sure doyoung didnt mean anything by it!! ofc theres always the possibility that he did find that actually funny but sometimes when everyone laughs you kinda just... go along, esp on tv

nico ! you can tell the difference between an “uncomfortable, im gonna go along with it laugh” and a genuine “that was funny” laugh. his immediate reaction was a genuine laugh, whereas mark and jaehyun genuinely just didnt find the joke funny or wasn’t comfortable. doyoung seemed very comfortable laughing at it based of his body language. im an nctzen myself so this isnt coming from hate,, just pure disappointment.

Welcome to Korea.

It was mistranslated and they actually didnt make comments about her body

winwin’s elf ear why the fuck are we analyzing laughs my guy it’s not like he directly told her that 💀

I know. That really upset me personally since I also have trouble with self image and weight...

Koreans... so usual. They wouldn’t even care about this if her brother wasnt stopping her from getting married.

Ikr

Same that really annoyed me. I'd be so embarrassed and upset if I was her

it's not what he actually said in korean, the subs are very wrong. they said she can handle herself in a way that was pointed towards the brother, not her.

They should really consider putting an actual therapist in the show

It’s an entertainment show what did u expect

They’re laughing and joking about how gross her older brother is that is probably in love with her .. they’re romanticizing it... if this was in America I’d wouldn’t be s laughing matter .you can tell how uncomfortable she is and they’re all just joking and laughing....

thank u!!

yass

Romiina Swan I'm weak 💀

don't all brothers and sisters do that

miya I have 4 sisters and 1 twin sister... this is exactly how we talk with each other

I also want him to like stay away from me even if he doesn’t do anything now. Like I want him at least 3 meters away from me

same

i bet he has some sort of weird fetish, tbh. and then he tries to justify what he is doing by saying that he's being a good brother. it's so grossssss

it’s called gaslighting

Rude! lol 😂

SAMEEE

Same my bro yells at me or ignores me everytime i try to talk to him. Yesterday, he even threw a bottle water at me coz i cursed at him :(

Your comment reminded of It's Always Sunny when everyone just gangs up on Dee for no reason. 🤣

The world doesn't revolve around americans and their doctors u know. There are plenty of them in korea

@@user-iz1th8nt3x not on this show obviously.

bellagaara1 hell no not ‘Dr’ Phil. They need a real qualified psychiatrist!

Dr. Phil is a fucking nutjob. He would turn this into the girl being in the wrong or something.

doctar pill

Merya L Honestly, if can’t even deal with letting his sister live her own life, I wonder how he’s going to cope if he goes through a break up. If he gets this obsessed, would he end up stalking his ex? I feel like he would.

Obviously, he has problems which he needs to get help for.

Cause he probably did something far than just let her sister on his lap, it's just that she doesn't tell more in depth what's going on just because he is still her brother after all and it would be so embarassing for her brother as well for the aftermath

Merya L I hate it when people say he might have went farther with her. It makes me worried. I don’t know if it’s a cultural thing but in America this is considered strange and not normal. Since even the girls from momoland have brothers and we’re uncomfortable I don’t think it’s cultural. It’s good he cares for her at least but he needs to back off a little please. Hopefully he understands it’s strange and doesn’t continue weird stuff with her.

Merya L i

I picked the right bias

Kaila Llamas-Preciado same

AGH BF MATERIAL

such a prince

yess, arent this is incest

Nothing borderline about it

It’s even more than creepy, it’s disgusting tbh

the host and some(if not most) audience probably acknowledge that its creepy. however they probably had to laugh it off to appeal to home audience as koreans people live is very stressful, a not funny show or stressfull show would not sell.

Maybe it's a social norm in korea that you're somewhat rude if you show discust? Therefore it's more polite to smile and laugh? Idk, I feel like culture might be a part of it, or the show just tried to make it funny for the audience.

Zoe Jeneth not just in America

It's considered borderline incest in Korea too. Or were we not just watching the same show? Did you not see how disgusted everyone was?

Weekender Girl yeah America isn't as cultured as Joe zenneth thinks it to be 😂 😂

Anywhere but Korea

Bruh in korea there was a law where ppl with rhe same last name cant marry lmfaoo korea is the last place where u wanna havw incest

Sometimes smiling 😀

As he should

Joy Ortiz The lap sitting wasn't weird though, You guys are dirty minded this isn't like foreign countries where sitting on ones lap is considered weird, because in Asian countries is like having a baby or child on a fathers lap, and that's how the girl was describing it as, her brother treating her like a child at times 😒

RaijinEX the reason it's so strange is because he's not her father, but her older brother, and the fact that she's almost thirty years old.

RaijinEX idk where in asia you live because this kind of treatment is def abnormal

@@TenYasha897 I'm an asian but I don't sit on my brother's lap. that's just so weird and ew.

RaijinEX Why you calling people dirty minded. Even KOREANS in the audience found it wrong that she was still sitting on his lap.

Its okay to talk/joke about weight in korea... It's so annoying so many people in these comments, wants to hate on my culture, well guess what it's normal where I'm from and said out of concern for health

Kyuri First, i'm not trying to hate on your culture at all. Second, yea talking about weight is considered a normal thing in korea but there are other ways to show concern then making jokes about someone who is bigger then the ideal size. Also my comment was not mean't to offend you, I said it because she looked uncomfortable when they started talking about her weight.

it's not that disrespectful to say something like that in korea. If you're going to watch korean shows, you've got to be prepared for a lot of stuff that might trigger western ethical or moral alarm bells. It's really just not that big of a deal.

Kyuri Yeah, it bothers me in these shows but I'm not too angry because it's normal there. But at the same time, understand that you guys also have a high rate of eating disorders and seem to make a joke of that as well. So things like that ring our moral bell. Someone being 55 or 57 kg is generally healthy, unless they're shorter. The West is simply against the "everyone should be under 50 kg" thing, because of things like celebrities who are considered pretty and a preference for fit people. (Muscle mass can make a skinny person weigh a lot.) But I think most people who watch shows like this do have some sense of understanding the idea that these jokes are fine in Korea

@Kyuri just because it’s normal to talk about doesn’t mean it’s not doing harm. The girl was obviously uncomfortable after they said that. As a Korean, I know that it’s not taboo, but it’s a part of our culture that should be progressed - especially in a country where mental health care is essentially nonexistent.

And the little facial hair I think

someone's been reading wattpad........

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A.R.M.Y A.R.M.Y oml😂😂

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I dont think its escalating I think it's something that happened when they were younger and it's just transitioning into a different manifestation of behavior now that shes older

i dont think so at all

@@duvetbyboaa what do you think it is?

@@sibongilegill5278 i dont know its like confusing and hard to explain.I think they should come up with a separate and specific word for this type of behavious XD

I think that the divorce kinda messed him up and he probably didn’t want her to feel the he did, maybe he felt he wouldn’t be protected when they divorced so now he copes by trying to protect his sister even when she doesn’t need it. So it’s very obvious that he is just scared and cares but I do agree that this CAN turn into some else, especially the way she described the stuff he says or does, he sounds a bit manipulative.

My brother literally jst went into my room farted then left like whaat

My brother either ignores me or throw a bottle at me.

ARMY MOCHI I agree, he’s in romantic love with her. He has some serious internal conflict going on with his feelings, that he should really seek help for.

There's love in his eyes.

it's totally like a boyfriend's love but the boyfriend is a delusional control freak and he also have extra power over your life because he's your brother.

Alabama Korea V.1

theres lust in his eyes

Kate Rose you don’t THINK. That was too much and personally, it triggered me.

Can I ask where you got tht? Cuz when i was listening to it none of the mcs said tht in Korean. Like they was a part tht her brother saying "my sister doesnt eat or cook when she is alone" and the mc was commenting on tht by saying "she doesnt seem to need your care, she can handle things by her self... she is 29..." im not sure who translated the video but the way they translated wasnt good enough

@@estherjykim9088 if u have KZfaq English subtitles I think u can find it

@@estherjykim9088 if they said that why were they laughing I don't see how it's funny

@@toriballa2063 because the way the mc said was to support the lady and to be sacastic towards the brother's act... If you dont find it funny then ill say its a cultural difference.

They are weird

your kpop buddy I read some comments and what you said wasn’t true. I saw a comment from fans who watched many episodes and it actually changed their lives. So don’t assume just because you only watched one episode of this.

@@iSanrio You're just obsessed with Korean culture and don't know the dark side of it, and some is not all.

@@naimaaa5952 If everyone in Korea was as sensitive as you we wouldn't have this awesome show tho

@@MeneTekelUpharsin Lol, if everyone in Korea was as dumb as you then they shouldn't have had police.

@@naimaaa5952 That makes no sense but okay. At least it made you Lol

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I agree. Very scary to think about if he got married and had kids. Ugh.

ugh i can relate

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HAHAHA yes i love jooe omg i love her reactions and everything so much aHH

Same

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agree. as the mother said, he would reprimand her too since she often get sick and undergoes surgery. telling her off to eat more to stay healthy. he has a sister complex and always sees her as a little kid that can't take care of herself. the only weird part is him asking her to sit on his lap.

Are you talking about the fact that the Mother had to move the daughter into her home? I think he be assaulting her real talk

@@molierresignoga the mom sense the danger. Moms instinct always right.

@@charmanderjin2360 yes for sure, I know from first hand experience

fofiax she's not even that big either

Joy Nied I think she’s a normal sized healthy girl. Like are these MC’s so used to seeing girl idols with their carboxy leg shots and paper cup diets? Those aren’t real girls, those are practically manufactured models by their agencies

And one of them clapped so rudeeeeee

fofiax i agree . For me she seems just right!❤️

exactly, so i grew up in the US and im korean, and im not overweight or anything, im 115 pounds and around 5 feet tall so pretty normal, but sometimes my mom will tell me i need to lose weight or my moms friends will say 'you need to lose a few pounds' and same goes with my aunts and uncles (very rarely though),, i think that from my perspective as growing up in america and then looking at korean culture, they really are just obsessed with being extremely skinny. and apparently its natural for weight to come up if you're a little bigger. they were raised that any extra weight is bad and they might not knowingly say it and move on bc of the environment they grew up in but i feel americans are a lot more aware of things thay could potentially hurt someones feelings

That is the only thing i think isnt normal but the rest i think is pretty normal for a protective brother 🤷‍♀️

Ikr🤣🤣

Come! SIT ON MY LAP😤 No i dont want to😕 YOU HURT MY FEELINGS😭😭😭😭

Same with my favorite cousin and I sometimes sit on his lap because he still thinks I am his favorite little cousin but he doesn't behave like the brother in the concern because I am allowed to go out without him calling

@@TheBackupUp lmao-

Bex Gild it's on TV I don't think she will spill everything

same. it feels the situation is too light for it to be this so concerning

Bex Gild like 18+ stuffs? OxO

Abuse?

You clearly don't understand the point of this show, which is to spread awareness about the problems the people have, possibly get them help financially, and motivate the people to get better help. The show itself is good help as it is. It's counselling but also mainstream.

@@wheresmyrooptoff4056 I agree with you so much. I have been a fan of this show for a while like 2-3 years. I ALWAYS see comments with people complaning, but this program has special episodes where they check up on people's situations and many peoples lives DID CHANGE because of this show. ~ This show DOES WORK. And you know how I know that? I've watched so many episodes. I figured it out. •People come on the show in order to sort out their problem, so they ALREADY have the heart to change. Coming out is the first step. •Second is the hosts and guest dig through lots of their past, find the reasons for things. In every episode, either the person with the concern or the person being "told on" finds out something they didn't know. This will change their mindset. •Third, more than that they tell each other stuff and make promises they never have before. This changes their relationship and helps guide a hopefully successful future. •Fourth, to help aid the process, the hosts explain what the person being "told on" did wrong. To some people they are nicer or meaner to depending on the situation. Anyways they try their best to get everyone on the same page. This is something ONLY a third party can do. ~ These people had the courage to let the whole world know of their problem, so why can't they fix it? Every attempt can't be sucessful, but the show has impacted many lives. -.- And like you said. awareness is good too!

I do agree to some extent but I do think this show does assist people to address negative situations in their lives.

@@pandaonsteroids5154 Where could I watch the special episodes? I'm getting hooked to this show haha

@@anissamontano9892 Yeah that episode was horrible. instead of admitting people we're being racist they were like "could it be that you're buff? I mean you look really strong, do you work out? you're handsome" and just went off the subject and talked about his looks again every time he tried to bring it back to what he actually came there to talk about.

He must be blind... even if I like him a lot 😬

@@moonpearl4767 you like the brother?

Totally. I have had the same expression for about ten minutes. My face hurts...

Even the title makes me cringe

I’m 44 seconds in and I already see a problem with what he’s doing

I just read the title and cringed

Kimiko Badger is your face okay now?

Trey incest*

@@MoominJeno try Try*

infest = incest fest?

Please refrain from putting Korea in a hole like that. I can say America as a whole are racists pedophiles and full of killers 💁‍♀️ but let's not start.

Yeah, this is normal in Korea. I'm 1st generation Korean-American and visited Korea 3 times.

I think stuff like this comes down to culture. Laughing doesn't mean they find it funny, but it might be something simple as they've grown up with the social rule "it's rude to show discust, just smile instead". Therefore they'll laugh at disturbing stuff. I don't know anything about korea, but I know that every country seem to have its own "thing":p

Rather than being shameless it’s because they refuse to acknowledge the problem. Things like incest, homosexuality are kinda taboo topics that they don’t talk about. Even if they know it exists they’d rather brush it off as a joke.

It would be considered rude to just say that the person is disgusting and should get some help. Instead they just smile and bear the uncomfortable situations and try to make best of it by joking about it. That's how the culture is.

and his porn history, it'll all be incest.

mynameis Desire I don't think they would do this lol

Tht's actually a smart suggestion

He probably has a shrine dedicated to her hidden somewhere 😆

nicole auguste fathers not brothers ....

She does try to tell him sometimes but I'm pretty sure there's more to it. It's TV, we don't know the full story.

ikr, it creeps me out bcs i have this feeling that the brother likes his sister in a romantic way. i mean, look at the way he's treating her

Korea is a different country all together and literally just speaking up to your older brother is really disrespectful

Afreen R EXACTLY like me and my older brother we hug and I give him a kiss on the cheek to greet him and what not that's like the "normal" behavior between brothers I feel like (also I'm 16 turning 17 he's 40 so he's more like a father also so we have a really close relationship) but like despite everything he said I feel like he does have some type of different feelings for his sister and I got more concerned when the mother said she suggested that the girl would move in with her to _protect_ her from her brother like???

Lmao nigga that's not even close to rude, Stop whining about a joke that was literally mistranslated. Why are so many people so sensitive like you?

where's my rooptoff shut up

@@wheresmyrooptoff4056 bitch bc it iant something to joke about

@@wheresmyrooptoff4056 dude...body dismorphia is a thing.

I’m not sure how that’s rude? However perhaps the translation to your language is wrong because the Korean is not rude?

Right. I feel like Korean media does that a lot to make the programs more entertaining/light but it's not always appropriate as you said. Like when she was describing how he scolded her and they put teacher clothes on him making it a joke. I understand wanting people to have a laugh while watching your show, but some situations are not to make jokes out of, the girl was about to cry while saying her experiences.

no its not he just said she looks like she eats well. And its true that shes a bit overweight. Its korean humor.

@@Kubra409 how is she overweight?? she literally looks completely fine. stop defending your oppars lmao

@@lol-tm9mx ikr! No offense but people in korea often make jokes about weight and even here and it isn't funny,it's actually offending😒

Ikr i was shocked

Nop i dont think its more about his look

It's miss translated. Korean doesn't use pronouns and the translator took the liberty of adding one to make it directed at her, which I don't think was right in this case. I think a better translation would be "skipping a meal could be called a diet", more of an idiom than an insult.

They kept laughing and making jokes about the situation she was describing and then made fun of her appearance like tf?

avi Same omg

How about, talk to him

Yeah, about what a creep he is

the girl in the video tried talking to her brother too and did it help? no, she felt guilty.

avi I’m talking about if that was you, you said if your brother acted like that

Yeah it is, but unfortunately that's how Asians are. Weight isn't considered a sensitive topic so people joke about it openly a lot. It's offensive to us Americans, but I don't know if Koreans get offended. I'm sure many do get offended, but there's probably also many people who are just used to it so they learn not to be too offended. But yeah it's unnecessary, and as a Chinese American, I get annoyed every time my family mentions my weight. -.-

it was so rude, regardless of what the 'standards' are in Asia. she's in front of all these people she doesn't know sharing her concern and the host made that unnecessary comment to get a few laughs in.

khaye claire, I agree it was rude, but that's from our viewpoint. In Korea it's not seen as a "disgusting" remark as it would be seen in America. It's not as severe. These days I'm sure you've heard the term "roasting" someone. It's very much like that. Like yes, it's a jab at her weight, but they don't take it as seriously as we would. Just cultural differences. Just like how in America, cursing at each other while arguing is pretty normal, but this segment shows how seriously Koreans take cursing. It's seen as the highest offense to curse at each other even when arguing. Different cultures just have different rankings of severity for certain offenses.

mi☆haru ok

mi☆haru Actually, that's not how asians are. Just because people talk openly about it, it doesn't mean that people don't get hurt.

Project Create lol well that's normal to tease siblings this brother beyond weird...

i used to call my little sister son😂

Project Create I drew your profile picture lol 😂

my friend has her younger brother (14 years younger) as 100% her son, but then again she sort of did raised him, but is not in any way weird. This just gave a weird vibe..

Well my little bro and me don't even talk all day. Only if we want to order food. Or when we fight for no reason, which I am sure we all done that. But this dude is to close. Like it made feel uncomfortable.The mom probably knew he was doing inappropriate stuff so she made her daughter move with her. 😓😖😱😳😵

Westerners at it again... Its okay to talk/joke about weight in other countries. Don't try to change a culture you don't belong to. You're not going to like a culture for everything it has, but you need to respect it if you want to delve into it. If they want to be progressive and sensitive about jokes, let the citizens of Korea decide. If she was anorexic and someone said they are checking in on their sister every day to see if she ate too much and the counselors joked that "trust me she's not eating enough if anything she could eat more" to prove a point, none of you would care.

Thank you for your opinion to be honest I'm from eastern too and I always get suffer from my friends or co-worker or some one just want to make joke about my weigh yes they laugh they happy and what can I do? just pretend to smile and keep feeling sad in side why? because our country always think that is just a joke! if I tell them is not fun so what happend? they will blame me that is my fault that I'm too serius about this because is just a joke! please tell me why we shouldn't change this culture? or I'm wrong that I'm being fat?

I just saw a bunch of westerners commenting the same stuff. In Korea we all talk this way whether we are fat, skinny, ugly, pretty. I've been fat and had people do the same but it's just joke. And I'm saying we should change our culture ourselves if we don't like something, not the American kpop fans who are constantly not understanding that other countries are different from them and that they should respect other people's cultural difference. I'm not skinny so it's commented on but I know my friends here in Korea will also say the same thing when a girl is too skinny. Like how I love American but I can't stand all the girls with their boobs out in public and videos considered funny of kids disrespecting adults, but you don't see me commenting on American music videos and tv shows for girls to stop showing boobs and for them to stop find disrespect funny, telling them they ae wrong for talking/living a certain way.

Yeah sure, Korea has a different culture and all that, but people everywhere can struggle with weight. Just because it is okay to joke about it in Korea does not mean it should be. Saying directly to people that they should skip a meal or two, even it is a joke, is unnecessary. It is a big issue in Korea that everyone needs to be perfect, in school, in their jobs, and at home, and the fact that it is okay for other people to comment on one's weight and appearance is not helping that. You say that you do not find kids disrespecting adults funny, but it seems like you find it funny to disrespect others. So what is the difference between you and those kids?

you said all in my head. and I would say that all thing call bully!

OK BUT IM CRINGING SO HARD AT THIS CONCERN WHAT THE ACTUAL FUCK IS UP WITH THE BROTHER

Lol my thoughts exactly

nomoredickpics You mean a whole... SNACC 🙄😂

right 😭

Glad i'm not the only one who noticed