This isn’t funny. She’s in a toxic relationship and they’re all just playing it off just because he’s handsome. Theres a fine line between being protective and controlling.

This show should have a doctor or a lawyer to help the guests. Someone who specializes on human behavior or health. These issues would not be fixed by a bunch of entertainers and comedians only.

He’s cheating. He stays out all night and can’t trust her to go to the corner store? The people who accuse the most, are the people who are guilty.

Petition for an update about this woman's story. Who's with me?

The only advice she needs is how to get away from him tbh. This is all textbook abusive behaviour - cutting her off from social support, controlling where she goes & who she meets, constantly accusing her of things she doesn't do, no regard for her privacy or her needs. And then crying/begging when she does try to leave. It's terrifying. Maybe he can change but she doesn't need to be the one to stay and fix him. Run.

Girl you in danger. This relationship has murder suicide written all over it.

This show always made me upset because they would always be passive with the people who really needed advice. One episode a child was truly having mental health issues because of her mom. Ofc they made it seem like the daughter was lacking. I felt sorry for the child because she came on the show for help...

This isn't about trust, it's about control. If he's doing this 3 months in, he'll be beating her before a year. She needs to RUN FAST

Just because he's handsome doesn't make any of his behaviors okay! He's equally as disturbing and creepy as any other guy behaving this way

Okay, you're telling me...he's unemployed, overprotective, inconsiderate, has the relationship skills of a 15 year old, and obsessive? Why is she married to him? She literally is so sweet and is very hard working. She needs someone that actually gets things done and trusts her. I bet he pressured her to marry him to if it was only after 6 months of dating.

his gaze was blank, and he had no expression at all make me cringe the way he looks at people, talks to people, and other, he just look like Richard Ramirez🤐😨

their reactions would be much different if the husband was ugly…

I get the feeling that this goes way deeper than this show is portraying it. The way she recoiled just to avoid being touched by another man but instantly looked comfortable sat between two women had my alarm bells ringing, it isn't a natural way to behave and honestly im not surprised. There's something about her husband that looks so unsettling to me, even if I didn't know what his personality was like i'd still avoid this guy, he just makes me so uncomfortable.

After she mentioned that she immigrated from China and is here alone, I'm even more worried for her. It's easy for her husband to abuse her, because she's isolated. She can't easily ask family and friends for help, and she may not know very well how to ask for help from the authorities if he does something creepier or violent, because the laws may be different than in China. Maybe her immigration status grants here fewer rights than Korean citizens. He might have picked her to be his wife exactly because she's more vulnerable than most Korean girls.

아니 어떻게 스타킹이 찢어진 걸 보고 저런 생각을 하지.. 진짜 으스스하고 무섭다...

공감능력제로.능력제로. 자존감제로.마인드컨트럴제로.책임감제로.. 눈빛이 쎄함. 여자분은 몸조심하셔야할텐데. ..

This looks like one of those bad relationships from a webtoon that people think is really cute at first because «awwe he’s broken and handsome» but then they realise its really unhealthy

the husband is manipulative and mentally abusive. the wife needs to either seek professional help for him or leave him and get a restraining order. this is really serious and made me really sad for her.

2:22 this is so sad.. she got scared.. there might be more things behind the scenes we don't know, I don't trust that guy at all

아무 표정이 없어...많은 결핍이 보여 걱정스러워. 무서울정도... 큰일이다.. 제발 별일 없기를

"I thought he was an actor!" ... "I thought he was a wild horse." LMAO 😂😂

The woman with the short hair seems to be the only one reacting appropriately to this! I love her for that btw, who is she?!

불안해요 예뻐가지구… 저말에 저 아내는 계속 또 스스로 구속되게 만드는거다 심리전에 완전 놀아나는거

이런 남자는 이혼 해도 무섭다 ㄷㄷ

The husband's obsession is scary. He looks like the type that would go overboard and kill her and himself in a fit of jealousy. She is also pointing out some embarrassing things abut him and I feel like something terrible is going to happen with them.

I really feel for some of the people that submit their concerns on "Hello Counselor." These are real issues that need to be addressed by legit counselors and specialists. A show hosted by comedians and entertainers is not going to solve these deep issues.

조선족이라니까 도망갈까봐 그러는것두 있나보다 본방때도 보고 고구마 백개먹은 기분였는데 또 다시 보는내내 한숨밖에 안나온다 남자분도 주위에친구가 없을듯싶네 많이 부족한 사람이네

For people who keep saying that she needs to leave him, it’s not that easy to just get up and walk away from an abusive relationship/partner. A few things could happen if she decided to just leave/or try to: -He could make her feel guilty and win her back because she might love him too much to understand that the relationship isn’t right -He is abusing her physically, and threatening her that if she leaves he would do things to her etc. -He won’t leave her alone even if things end, like the stalking will continue. She’s married to him so filing for divorce is a long process and you never know what will happen during that time. These are a few things that are important to note when it comes to an abusive relationship. So no, it’s never easy to leave one. You have to take it into her perspective too, she scared of saying the truth about everything. She seemed nervous about being around guys and she flinched too. His face and expression shows that if she said anything he would clearly beat her or hurt her. His expression was so cold too, no emotion, just nothing. She looked scared by this. Hopefully she’s doing okay now but with these circumstances and how everything looked like during the questioning, she doesn’t seem safe. She needs help from law enforcement or family, anyone really. She could get seriously hurt, mentally and physically. On another note he seems like a serial killer. He’s possessive with her and is binding her to him. He shows no emotion and he seems dull. Also in the beginning when she was helped off the slide he gave her the “You better not cross that line” face. Like if she even touched or went near another guy she would be killed. That is very very concerning. I would like an update but it’s been a few years so now I’m even more worried.

Watching these older episodes stresses me out because is this girl even ok now? His body language throughout the entire episode, side-eyeing everyone, talking through basically clenched teeth, tongue in cheek showing annoyance, etc. It all screams that he was furious with her for making him come on TV and talk about him being emotional abusive towards her. I honestly hope that she left him because who knows what he might've done to her further down the line.

They seem to forgive him too much because of his appearance and his claims of loving his wife. If he truly loved her, he wouldn't be doing what he's been doing. He attached to her and it seems like he needs her more than she needs him. He's very emotionally manipulative and abusive, someone needs to help her out because all of her possible escapes have been blocked by this madman

this is exactly how my dad acts with my mom. it’s so extreme that he even suspects his OWN BROTHERS are flirting with my mother. but the thing that angers me the most is that he always, always manipulates my mom into thinking she’s the one who’s flirting around with other men. i really want to work soon so i can take my mom, myself, and my siblings away from him. he’s just a bastard that uses my mom. the saddest part is that my mom believes she can’t leave him because he might kill himself (because he threatened to do so in the past) and never let me and my siblings see her again if she leaves. i know he’s just doing it to keep her by his side.

Am i the only one who thinks that the husband doesn't look that handsome?

This guy needs professional help, he is kind of psycho. And it's written all over his face that he doesn't want to change, not at all. He just said it for the show. There is something seriously scary in this guy! The girl should have run away from him when she first find out his real persona. He will surely use their baby to attach her more to himself and imprison her. This case is much more serious than how they handle it. I wish all the best for the girl and her baby! :(

at first he'll spy on u, deleting everything, the next thing u know he started hit you, the at the end he's gonna kill u. RUN GIRL, U BETTER RUN FAR AWAY FROM THAT GUY.

저런남자 만나봤는데,, 결국 남자의 화려한 사생활로 헤어졌다ㅜㅜ 나는 구속하고 집에 일찍 들어가라 친구도 만나지마라 하면서 집에 일찍 들여보내놓고 지는 친구들이랑 밤새 여자들이랑 놀고... 그게 날 구속하는 이유 였지. 지가 신나게 노니까 나도 혹시 그럴까봐

How is deleting her male contacts understable? Trust in a relationship is soo important,, without it, it won't workout Hopefully they get their thing back together

GIRL. RUN.

WRONG!!! The husband is suspicious and insecure of the wife cheating because he is cheating / cheated on her so he lacks the respect for himself and her because of his decisions. he's taking his insecurities out on her.

내가 볼때 남편 밖에서 분명 뻘짓 하고다닌다. 본인이 그러니까 와이프도 그러고 다닐까봐 의심하는거지. 뭐 눈에는 뭐만 보인다고 하잖아~

어리숙한 여자하나 심어두고 하고 싶은대로 하고 사는 사람일뿐. 여자가 빨리 정신차리고 도만가는 방법뿐.

I hate how the hosts try to justify things for him?? Like this is emotional abuse it's insane this isn't entertainment it's a serious issue they should deal with more professionally

It's crazy how this show takes such a real issue and turns it into something so cartoonish. I feel like I'm watching a My Little Pony version of Maury it's so ridiculous and outlandish. Like she's talking about how abusive he is and then pastel pink bubbly letters will come up and say "oh no!" or something. And then after reading that letter they made her slide down in the neon flashing slide into a ball pool. Like what is this???

몇살인지는 모르겠지만 본인 더 젊은 총각시절 이쁘고 본인이 컨트롤안되는 여러 여자 만나보다 상처많이 받고 솔직히 본인의 커리어나 능력은 안되서 또래나 이런저런조건 보는 한국여자는 못 만나겠으니 조선족에 타지에서 외롭고 본인이 컨트롤하기 편한여자 잡아서 급하게 혼인신고하고 잡아두는것같음 근데 결혼후 일은 더 안풀리니 저여자마저도 떠날까봐 집착하는것 같고..솔직히 한마디 더 붙힘 저남자 이상형은 저 아내분 아닐거임

For psych students, this story is an example of a cognitive bias. Really disappointing, I hope someone has an update

"Deleting the numbers is understandable" um no

Hun, he's possessive, controlling and stalks you. He has zero trust for you. He looks dusty. Leave him.

Plz divorce He is not a human being 제발 이혼해요 사람이 아니에요.... 저런 사람만나다가 살해 당해요 저런 정신병자랑 사느니 혼자 사는게 더욱 행복할듯 ㅠㅠ

숨막혀...그냥 자기자신에 자신감이 없어서 여자가 떠날까봐 불안한 거 같은데..

I had a boyfriend who was just like the husband... He became abusive in the end. She really should leave while she can. Possessiveness and manipulation through fear is not Love. She deserves better than that toxic man.

The look her husband gives after the yellow shirt guy holds her hand to help her out, at 2:25...makes even me feel scared for the girl- its dangerous.

He stays out late at night? Maybe theres something the male friends know about him that he doesnt want her to know about. Its suspicious

I’m a much older woman who has experience with this situation,oftentimes a man is cheating when he is this possessive,That was my experience with my first serious boyfriend, and ex-husband of 8 years ,Pay attention ladies .

Literally.. this is an abusive relationship.

low key feel like this concern shouldnt be addressed on a TV show..he's kinda scary.

Girl run before your life becomes an episode of fatal attraction

These hosts took an extremely dangerous situation very lightly. I don’t know why this show does not have a psychologist or a doctor who specialises in human science as part of the hosts. Why is it called hello counsellor when there is no counsellor anywhere?

I love a lot of books (wattpad) about possesive and obssess guys to girls and I love it but in real life, no. I hate obssession a lot. I can't imagine myself standing in the shoe of that girl. I feel bad for her.

Maybe he is so suspicious cause he's cheating on her, so the thought of her cheating on him freaks him out since he already knows his true nature.

저 남자 우울증이나 조울증일 확률 높다고 본다. 더 심하면 조현병까지도 볼 수 있음. 스타킹 찢어진거 가지고 저런 의심하는게 정상은 아님 절대. 남편 눈빛이 텅 비어있고 쎄함. 어린 시절 가정환경이 그리 좋지 못했을 가능성이 높고 자기 연민이 강함. 그 자기연민에 먹혀서 무능력한 자신에도 현실감각이 없고 자신감도 없음. 확실한 건 저건 정신병이고 완치는 쉽지 않음. 저 아내분이 안전이별하길 바랄뿐..

He's creepy... Like kdrama villain type of creepy

that's infatuation not love..... he's so obsessed it's really creepy, I would blast if something like that happened to me

Honestly, the only thought that comes to mind is I fear for her. Monitoring, obsession, cutting her off from her friends, if she stays with him, for all we know he could start becoming violent and abusive. Seriously, fellow WOMEN, listen up. Never marry a man who still plays video games, unemployed (not even trying to get a job, I mean) and is obsessive. If he can't trust you then don't trust him. It's as simple as that. Don't fall for lines like, "because you're so gorgeous I'm scared another man will snatch you up." or "I love you so much I don't want to lose you or you to leave me, I'll die without you." It's called guilt tripping. Never fall for it. It may seem innocent enough, and sweet enough at first but it becomes scarier, more dangerous, and suffocating as time goes on. Most of the time it ends in abuse. Steer clear from these types of men, ladies.

this is a textbook toxic relationship, there should be therapy or a divorce

after he started talking about being “obsessed” alarms bells went off in my head. he seems extremely toxic and manipulative. I think he knows he can manipulate her easier too since she’s alone in Korea with no family. I hope she leaves the relationship as soon as possible and gets away. He ain’t even attractive to me either just creepy...

"he looks like a wild horse" IMSVREAMING

at 21:33 you can tell eunwoo is particularly distressed and like throughout the whole thing it was only him and the woman with short hair who paid attention and didn’t make a lot of jokes about her circumstances. you can tell he’s such a great guy.

Its so obvious he doesn't love her. Its a lie that he says he does all this because he loves her. Someone who loves you trusts you and makes you feel aa comfortable as possible in a relationship and only demands from you what everyone deserves in any relationship - genuine respect, commitment and consistency. Not control over everything you do because they feel insecure.

The people who felt "flattered' when he said "because she's gorgeous" and how the mcs joked around about that... what the freak it isn't funny?? he was being manipulative and you could clearly see how uncomfortable she was. but you're just gonna laugh and let him get away?

She needs to run the hell away! This is only going to get worse. Soon he's not going to let her to see her own family, he's not going to let her wear anything other than what he chooses, he's not going to want her to make any eye contact with men in the street, and probably fight the men who make random eye contact with her. On top of that his immaturity is astounding. I know she wants to stay because he loves her SO much, and people think that's cute, but honestly the situation is extremely dangerous for her. I hope she has someone with some sense telling her the right things she needs to hear, and a support system to help her on her way.

literal textbook abusive relationship

신혼부부인데 신랑이 나가서 잔다는건 이미 사랑이 떠난거임

지금 2020년 2월... 이 부부는 지금 어떻게 되었을까..제발 변화되어 일반적인 가정이 되어있기를 바래봅니다.

Eunwoo looks like a lost child XD I seriously feel bad for the girl, her husband just isn't cut for marriage.

this kind of problem isn't for this kind of show... she should look for actual help from this situation.

예전에 본듯,,어렴풋이 기억난다 저남편얼굴보니까 생기없는 저표정,,, 합의하에 나왔을텐데 아무의욕도없는 저표정,,,,

wont be surprised if he ends up in jail in a few years what a creep

wow, I would rather marry a plain guy than get married with a handsome but delusional man like that

He makes me feel so scared, idk something about him is very unsettling and the fact that he's physically attractive makes it even worse. He's so controlling, I feel like they should've addressed the issue more seriously

아.. 여자가 똥 제대로 밟았네

저 마인드면 정상적인 직업은 어렵고 화류계가 딱 맞는듯

when everything she's saying is signs of domestic violence and she and everyone else has no clue because of society's standards and lack of awareness

I couldn’t be let on this show, I really couldn’t. I’d be yelling and screaming and losing my temper like no other.

This situation screams "If I can't have you then no one will." Has this show even done a follow-up with her? Do they even know if she's still alive?

지금은 안 이랬음 좋겠지만 저때 저 남자분 바람핀다 한표입니다

Watching so many Hello Counselor made me realize how shallow the society is. As long as a person looks pretty, then they can do whatever they want to the people around them. Victims of this type of abuse are taken lightly simply because their significant other is attractive. It's demeaning to everyone if people treat each other purely on looks alone. That's why there're so many concerns that are similar to this, why little girls who haven't even entered high school are getting bullied for their looks and have to turn to surgery. It's annoying and I wish that people could just look underneath a person's appearance for once on this show.

bruhh he's way overprotective

*the woman is so sweet and adorable omg someone give her a huge hug please*

Yall seem to forget handsome/beautiful people can be crazy as hell too💀

Get out of this relationship asap. You don't need a controlling freak bum.

I think the idols on this episode of hello counsellor were the most helpful

I'm praying for the lady's safety, it's been 4 years and I hope she's in a better position now.

이거 심리가 본인이 다른 엄한 행동을 하기 때문에 상대방고 그럴거다라는 불안함에 오히려 더 의심하고 그러는게 있다던데.... 설마...??

this dude has a whole mess of issues omg... she must be with hi because of his looks. i was with a guy just look this and it was the lust and his sweet talking that kept me around for over a year and a half. RUN GIRL!!

This is why you shouldn't get married too soon. I've been with my boyfriend for a year and a half and I still think we need more time together to see if we should get married.

지대신 돈벌어다줄 여자찿아서 결혼한듯 글구 지가 바람을 피는사람이기때문에 자기처럼 그럴까봐 여자를 잡고 의심하는걸수도 있음

I really hope she leaves him. Seriously, they just got married and hes already like this. Now imagine how it will be later on? I feel so bad for her

I really love 'Yandere' personalities in the actual game or stories on wattpad. But in real life, it's just scary. Like this one this, *isn't* love he's a _psycho_

It's creepy that he's physically attractive. His looks make him an even scarier person.

남편: 나는 바람펴도 너는 절대 피지마~ baby☆

I came out from the same situation. I divorced him and never remarried. The stalking and obsession thing are among of the unacceptable behaviour for me. It did ruined my life and gave me a trauma the reason why I chose to be single up to this day.