"When fans fight, I don't know which side to be on," Multifandom mood.

" I think liking 9 groups is too much " **laughs in stanning 1029381919282 groups**

EXO always teach exol to be humble. "If you're not good at studying, don't even think about liking me. Exo may seem like the most important thing in the world to you right now, but in a few years, you'll regret it. Focus more on your studies than us and meet us again proudly in the future. " -Kai "Don't buy many albums,just buy padding coat instead " -Baekhyun If u r a real-aeri,you'll know it. Baby!Just try to be balance your kpopper life and personal life. This is the solution that every mature-exol used.

I wish EXO were there so they could give her life advices. EXO always tells their fans to study, go to school and buy food and things for themselves rather than spending it on their albums or merchs.

Mother: “She doesn’t sleep. Sometimes she’ll be up until 2 or 3 in the morning watching them” Me: *I’m TOTALLY not doing the exact same thing right now*

"She's a loner at school " please understand her issue So kpop groups calms her down I understand

EXO is literally my inspiration to study, I can never forget them insisting us to study and work hard. People need to make idols as a strength rather than a weakness. This could also be the greatest gift you give them.

Being a die hard fan is fine, stanning 9 groups is fine. But you need to balance your fangirling/fanboying life and your real life...Its okay to watch their videos, but there should be a limit. Spend time with your family and friends too before its too late. Its okay to buy albums, you can buy a whole album factory if its your own earned money but please be a little considerate if you are spending your parents money because they work so hard everyday to earn it and provide for your living. Please respect and be kind to your parents and elders, their hearts hurt watching you disobeying and being rude to them for petty reasons, and my heart hurts for those parents.

*her in the future* her BF: do you love me? her: of course! her BF: more then your idol groups? her: *know your limits*

"Don't buy our albums Eri-ah. Just buy padded jacket." -Baekhyun "Eri-ah,buy our albums just ones. One person,one albums. Got it? Ne~" -Sehun

I came here because I saw D.O but then😭❤️✊

she should listen clearly what exo oppa say and must follow it. suho: it ia imp to be an successful adult; so we have to study D.O: stay calm and walk slowly so you do not miss any information. xiumin: keep your surrounding and yourself clean. chen: do not regret you own choices baekhyun: try to be a mood maker and to be on first place kai: do ultimate what you started. chanyeol: do not sit untill you get what you want. Try again and again sehun: take care of your health and look AND DO NOT TAKE THESE HYUNGS TOO MUCH SERIOUSLY BUT HEAR THEM lay: stay forward and ask if didn't understood. ot9 i miss you, sarangae

Am i stupid or did they miss the whole point of everything the girl just said? She’s not sad and gloomy BECAUSE of idol groups, she’s sad and gloomy because she’s in a bad place and idol groups help her out, she’s just gone too far. its definitely more of a concern about the family and her school life, and less about the idol groups honestly.

She lashes out on her family because she’s in the midst of dealing with her stress, she’s facing a battle by herself and she finds comfort in her idols. She pushes people away and scold them because the people who’ve made her feel better are very valuable to her, she feels that her idols are the one who understands what she’s going through. I hope this is resolved by now though

I saw D.O i read 9 idols I clicked at the speed of My LOVE FOR EXO

This is actually a serious topic how young generation obsessed for their idols. There is nothing wrong to be a fan but there is a limit in everything.

THE TITLE SOUNDS LIKE THE MAJORITY OF INTERNATIONAL KPOP FANS HAHA

I think it's a concern that she spends $200-300 a month on those groups .That's up to $3600/year. That's a lot of money for a 9th grader.

Even as a Korean, I never understood Korean fanculture of wanting to date or marry the celebrity you like. they are there to make my days feel better and I am there for them to support them as good people how I can, but my life is mine and their life is theirs, and i don’t expect anything more than this. I wish Korea would stop normalizing such fanatical tendencies, because a singer does not equal your doll.

EXO’s member always say “You’ll regret” when fan tell them about not studying just to watch them. They said “If i told you dont truant, wont you? But if you still being truant, you will regret a lot” D.O. said: “I wont let myself be blindfolded by familiar things to end with losing precious things” And many many things they have said, i hope that EXO-L will never forget that. Kpop’s fan need to balance between idols and your real life!

The problem is how she treats her family, not how many groups she likes. I mean i aslo like many groups but im still treating my family good

The girl suggested her mother to listen nosedive by chen and dynamic Duo which is a song about depression and struggles. She wants her mother to feel her struggle through that song. I feel so bad for her I hope she finds happiness

I can understand her. EXO became my depression reliever when i have no one to hold on to. Idols can really help thier fans become more energetic and lively.

'I'm always by myself when I'm at school' Big relate.

we don't replace oppa we collect them .

this is literally depression though???? she doesnt eat, doesnt shower, is sad and stressed because of her situation in school... this is so much deeper and concerning than being a crazy fan wtf!!!!!

I don't know about other groups , but if you are an EXO-l , you should study hard or work hard for what you want to do in your life , thats what EXO taught us , and they even don't tell us to buy their albums , because they know not everyone can buy every album of theirs so they tell us to buy something good to eat or some warm clothes to wear. And thats why I stan them. Most of the EXO-ls do the same , we chase our dreams and grow with our precious boys. Don't you agree EXO-ls ?

I was like her then but EXO helps me to stand by my own. They help me to conquered my anxieties. And I'm really hoping to see them in future and yes I was Grade 7 when I'm starting to know them and now I'm second year college taking education and yeah this is one of my dream to see them and thanks them for helping me...🥰😳

The real concern is she does not know who is 2PM....

Is this mild depression? -doesn’t eat -lack of hygiene -doesn’t come out of room -using something as a coping mechanism (K-pop) -irritability EDIT: Also while reading the reply’s, I just want to say, please don’t diagnose yourself with depression with just a comment I made. If you think you have depression, and if you can, please ask for a professional. This comment I made was just a prediction of a bigger problem that she has than what they say as “died heart” fan. Please don’t diagnose yourself over a youtube comment I made, if you really think you have depression PLEASE get a real diagnose from a professional. I will be certain to ya’ll that I AM NOT A PROFESSIONAL ANY WAY SHAPE OF FORM.

MEANWHILE EXO ALWAYS TELLS US TO STUDY HARD😂

Stanning a lot of group is not a problem, the problem is when you become like her. Forgetting family birthday date, being rude and angry for just a simple reason

if stanning 9 groups or more is a 'concern' then i think we should ALL be on this show ✨

I legit cried when she said she’s always alone at school cause I relate to that so much. It hurts so bad when you’re all alone

2:07 Me: laughs in EXO-L, NCTzen, STAY, and 99+ others

This girl probably stans Stray Kids now, I think she would like skz's songs.

“I hope idol won’t get a refrigerator advertise.” BTS: Car advertise

"when fans fight, i don't know who to side" -every multifandom

I wish they call exo so that she will be given some advice.

I just stan EXO from 2014-2021😂😂😂😂😂

I'm a huge fan of many groups that I can't even count and I don't use money on them because I'm too broke :')

sHe'S a FaN oF nInE gRoUPs _me in the background:_ *coughs* amateur. I'm a fan of 50+

I remember a fan commented in Sehun and Chanyeol's live. She said, "I am watching you while reviewing for my exams". The two immediately reacted and said, "You have to study first" and they even bluntly said, "Go offline. Now.". And even waited for that fan to disappear from the viewers. They spent some time waiting for her repeatedly saying, "Pls log out". ❣️

Man: When a child is a die-hard fan of something, she can relieve stress through that Me: Thank you

“Sometimes she’ll be up until 2 or 3 am” Me: hiiii.... its 6 am now.. i feel great🙃😂

i stan more than 10 groups but im still sane

I guess all the kpop stans can agree how big of an issue is this. We all have struggles to deal with and hardships we've been through each day. These idols just happen to appear in our life to cheer us up in hard situation. Why we can relate? A fandom is a family, they cherish you and support you. After all we have this kind of bond where we never met each other but have a lot to talk about. We have a lot in common as we stan the same group. So, being a kpop stan can really relieve your stress out. To those who have been in this condition shoul know well. As for me, I'm growing up along with Exo as my ult, forever will be. She might love Exo as much as I am so I know how it feels. When we're so down and have no motivation, we watched their videos to keep our spirit up. They are like a charger for us. Once you get into their fandom, you'll never walk alone. That's why, being a die-hard fan became our choice. And as for stanning more than one group. You can't blame her tho. As an Exo-L, we barely get contents and when they've a comeback SM gave them minimum promotions so we dive into another groups for more contents. Not to mention that I'm also a blink, sone, once, nctzen, army and shawol. It's impossible to stan only one group. Lastly, for the girl. I truly can understand what you're going through. It's not a crime but if you really love those idols, study hard and be a successful person. You surely know how much Exo want their fans to prioritize our studies above all. Be a better version of you. Be a fan that the idols can be proud of. As an Exo-L, remember when Exo said "let's meet when we are both successful" prove how much they want you to be a great person. So that they can proudly tell everyone that you're their fan. Stay strong and study hard. "whenever it gets hard, remember the beautiful us" -Kim Jun Myeon

i only stan exo i do not hear anyone else sometimes famous songs but only 1 or 2 times.

Solution: Stan NCT, they're one group and multiple groups at the same time + they keep adding so you won't get bored.

Me: oh it's D.O 😱 *clicked* 😂😂

I think the best thing to do is trying to interact with her about stuff that she likes. If she likes idol then try to interact with them about their idols. A lot of teens would love to talk about what they like to others.

he yo I am also a fan of EXO I am EXO-L since I know EXO my life has changed I can be more excited, I used to be a difficult person to like other people, but when I'm with him I feel there is happiness in my life, enough for me, but happiness together with your parents and siblings is more important so don't ever waste valuable time with your parents and siblings

Am i the only one thinking what would have happend if one of her fav group members were on the show??

“There are many people that is worse than I am” maybe she’s talking abt sasaeng

When Chansung said they were popular 10 years ago, it hurt me for some reason 😂 because I literally grew up with them. 2PM was the last idol group before I stan EXO.

Literally me stanning more than 10 group ahahahha🤣

I'm a simple girl. I see D.O in the thumbnail, I click.

the real issue i think is her passive attitude...introverted bcuz of being mistreated by classmates since young...her devotion for kpop groups is juz a way for her to get away from stress or negative thought...

Idols were formed to be an "inspiration" and NOT as an obsession.

MC: Do you know Chansung? Girl: No, I don't Chansung be like: This happened 'again & again'

The older sister just... fucking gets it. She knows that they've been lacking as a family and that her sis needed love and respect. The girl's family has been ignoring her because she's been ignoring them too, but she just needed someone to reach out and make her feel loved. Especially at that age, kids needs to form social relationships and her situation has made it hard for her. Normally, her family should have encouraged her to go out and make some friends while supporting her and making her feel enough. But they didn't. She's depressed from the lack of good family relationship and lack of social life. She used the idols as her avenue to release her sadness and aggresiveness towards herself and family. When the older sister said that they should've been there for her, I feel so relieved because finally, some one in this show accepted her.

the problem is not with the number of groups she stans, but the way she behaves with her family because of this hobby and the amount of money she spends from the family budget! i stan more than 9 groups yet i can still respect my fam and i earn my money if i want to spend it on something kpop related

Her: *stans 9 groups * *sister takes her to counseling * Me: *stans 14 groups * 👁👄👁 ummm what now?

Kid: *is depressed* Parents: *takes their phone away* This is the worst move a parent can do. You don't just go in there, take their phone and expect them to open up to you and be happy.

I see D.O, I click.

The problem is when it comes to smtown,, beyond concert,, comeback each of them at the same times.. I'm die.. Multifandom irony

When she said that she would introduce SEVENTEEN's Seungkwan, I can assure that she is also learning and getting inspired by these idols. Her problem isn't just a problem of being a fan of 9 idol groups but is more than that. I wish that she really built up her confidence and is happy now.

now bts have a Hyundai ad is she gonna buy a car

I dont understand those who proudly said "i StAn MoRe GrOuPs",y'all watch the full vid or not ? This girl suffer from depression and i can relate so much. By the way,just look at how happy she were while talking about idol group For you all lazy ass,here it is 16:38

i feel her. school is hard, life is hard but EXO is the on that always cheer me up. EXO is the one who always give me encourage to study well so that i can buy their merch and meet them later. EXO itself always tell eri (exol) not to buy their albums but buy some coat and food instead. i just want to say thankyou exo for exist

Looool awww Chansung. FWIW I'm a 2pm stan, I still remember all the fanchants.

*Who else stans over 20 groups?* 😅

When she said “When fans fight I don’t know which side to be on” I felt that I wish fan wars stop it’s so hectic

I love Exo so much 😂😂... Lots of love from India Exo saranghaja 😂...but to be honest Exo motivates a lot to achieve our goals ..they give out kinda good and perseverance vibes... they're really a perfect group

The groups i stan (including girl groups): -BTS -Twice -Seventeen - Treasure -the boyz -cravity -itzy -Blackpink -Mamamoo -EXO -Enhypen - stray kidz - Got 7 - wanna one - Superm - Astro - Red velvet - Pentagon - EXID - Nct - G Friend - txt - ateez - Bigbang - Iz*one - Apink - Winner - Wonder girls - Block b +I land is comin like wadafukkk How i sing their songs oh my my how you like that its the love shot yes or yes i wanna know know know i don't jopping diggin in i want nobody nobody but you fantastic baby hihihi hip i can't type any more im tired HAHHAHAHHA

Kyungsoo is such a great clickbait

i really like the older sister. she saw through right away that the problem wasn't with the groups but that she needed more support. Good older sister!!! overall i like that they didn't make the entire problem about her but encouraging more communication in the family all together!

I got comfort from idol groups when I am all alone at home doing everything alone, and I'm having my dinner alone just to think that someone is there

the fact they asked if she know chansung breaks my heart.

To me it seems like her eldest sister is the only one who understands her -.- She's not doing well socially and tries to make up for a lack of connections she has with 'real' people by obsessing over idols. Spending so much time on idols is drawing her further away from social life and family to the point where she's scared of being hurt by everyone and *she feels like she can't trust anyone but her idols.* It's a devil's cycle. And both she and the family should work hard to break it together!

Why is everyone in the comments saying how many groups they like? The issue was that she was so ostracised and bullied at school she developed an unhealthy obsession with idols. She lashed out at her family, wouldn’t leave her room, stopped going to school and spent massive amounts of money. They didn’t even ask her stop stop liking groups, just to try going to school and trust her family. Did any of you watch the video?

I click as soon as I see d.o ❤️Our Exo teach us how to be humble ❤️

you can clearly tell she most likely has depression. this is exactly how i felt like, i found comfort in things and would lash out at my family, i would isolate myself and not taking showers for long periods of time or eat. after a while my mom took me for a checkup and ended up getting diagnosed with depression and anxiety. the girl is clearly going through something, but at the same time she has an unhealthy obsession which is not ok either.

Exo's songs is more of about "Hope" so it really encourage me when I feel down! Thank you EXO.

*It's a way she copes with depression and anxiety. This isn't just a light subject regarding how many groups she stans, it's WHY she decided to close herself and become obsessed with these idols. I think what really convinced me was when she recommended Nosedive. If you guys know the lyrics, you'd know what I'm talking about. I hope she finds a way to interact with others and find happiness from other things.*

I understand how the girl feels, I was and still am into kpop and anime because those things help me escape from reality, I was not well-treated at school and hated going so much, I hated studying too and just wanted everything to be over! My dad wasn't understanding of that sadly but luckily my mom was, she bought me albums and mangas, and even listened to kpop songs and watched anime with me sometimes. She encouraged me to keep going and moving forward and promised me that she'll let me do whatever I want after I finish my high school education. My mom's presence and understanding made me feel so much better! But thanks to my hobbies, I discovered that I have more artistic skills and got into an art school after my hardships, now I'm happy and feel like I've found my path! It's totally normal for a teenager to act that way, both her and her family must make efforts to talk things out and be loving towards each other!!

see stanning 9 groups is not too much its the comfort they give us now stop judging her

When I saw the part about how she was always being avoided by her classmates, I started tearing up as well because, although I don't know how it feels to be hated on by everyone, I could feel her pain. Nobody deserves to be ostracized by others, it's sad.

me : *stan 10 groups* also me : 0 album , 0 lightstick , 43 posters , 20+ polaroids .

When u fall in love with kpop, make sure to balance ur life Don't spend too much money if u don't have much of money

The real concern is not because she stan 9 groups, it's because she's a *hardcore* stan and is *addicted* to them. If you stan over 10 or 20 groups but you *don't* know *everything about them* , it's not a concern.

i was about to cry when she said that the idols helped her get through the tough times in school. I can relate to her. Whenever i try to tell MY parents that kpop idols help me get through the tough stuff at school, they just scoff.

Chansung's face when she said she don't know him...poor maknae😅

If Stanning 9 groups is a concern , then my whole family will send a concern for loving all the kpop groups

"When fans fight, I don't know which side to be on," - girl I can totally relate 😢

Just the fact that she recommended Nosedive to her mom, shows how hurt and sad she is inside. She clearly feels rejected and lonely. Nosedive is probably a song she can relate to and helps her get through the hardships she is facing. Her “problem” is much deeper than stanning 9 groups. She needs the help and support of her family

If I'm being honest, I actually relate to this girl a lot. She is in a bad place and isn't taking care of herself because she is bullied and feels unloved. Idol groups are like her little escape. They make her smile and laugh, which is really important for someone going through something like this. I feel that the main concern in the video isnt the fact that she likes 9 groups, but that she needs help loving herself and people around her to support her. Just from the video, She seems like an amazing Person and I hope she gets the love and kindness she deserves 💜💜

I cry while watching this. I also listen to kpop songs whenever I feel sad and I hated to go to school too because I was always alone.

If you're exo-l thn study hard eriya ❤

the problem is not about stanning an idol group, the problem is she give up study so that she can learn about idol group, and she spent most of her mom money to buy album.