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I found myself in a similar situation about 3 years ago. I think I made the best decision by staying with her. Beautiful women with traditional values and low body count are extremely rare, and next to impossible to replace. If having kids is going to be part of your life's journey. Then I don't think it's a bad call to hold on to a woman who checks all the right boxes. The trick is identifying these women, and being aware things could change in the future.

Her feelings will change much more

Just focus on YOUR needs! Her ”feelings” will make your life harder or miserable.

Women feelings are like a constant moving target…..good luck trying to reason with them 🙄

You find a winner. You keep em. It’s a needle in a needle stack out there

Great advice. The man doesn’t know what he’s got, till he looses it.

Good answer. I was afraid you would say otherwise. This lady sounds like a keeper.

To be fair to both of you, just lay down the facts. You're in the pivotal position of your career, which you need to focus on and push through. Having a kid and family will slow you down, and you may lose focus on your goals. Just be upfront with her about your goals and where you want to be in the next 5 to 10 years, and if she's down for the ride, great, but if not then no hard feelings and just be respectful that you don't want to waste her time if your paths don't align. Simple enough, but just remember, brother, no one is coming to save you if you fail. Just remember that, my friend.

What are the odds that we can have a video about an average person making $70 k yearly, a person that does not make it rain, somebody that is not a .0001% person. All his clients make 3 billion yearly, but this is not reality.

I agree with you Ritch and most commenters here. If she checks enough boxes and is genuine then be content. I walked away from my high school sweetheart because I was selfish and figured I could have a good time and find another one who would be like the last. It didn't work, besides being a bad picker, most of them are broken people with baggage and an inability to pair bond. Decades later I still haven't found that one that comes close to the one I left.

He needs to keep her, she sounds like a one in a million..

For the first time, I am quite impressed with the answer and advice that he is offering. I guess he is not as shallow as I thought

He sounds like he has a good thing. I’m happy for him and think he should stick with her. The grass is greener where you water it.

Most people only want 1 or 2 kids. Women should ideally have their last child by the age of 35, the start of geriatric pregnancy. Let's say she has a kid at 33 and another at 35. If she's 27, you could wait to have kids for about 6 years. I would keep her but wait to have kids. A good woman is hard to find.

It's a difficult question, but that was the perfect answer. 100% agree.

Imaginary dude it seems! If he is real his life is a math book. I am little older than Rich had the wives, Lambo , 911 Porsche now have 2 hotels . Living solo glad I went through the phases. Life grateful!!!

She sounds like a good woman and there are a lot of 304's out there. If you can't commit to her and her clock is ticking, then let her go. She deserves a chance with someone else.

I left a good girl for options. It was a mistake.

Wise advise.

I felt this 😂 I’m 26 years old with a 23 yr old who’s submissive as hell & wants kids soon cooks and cleans.. I want variety as well but don’t want to hurt her she’s amazing

Women to sleep with-dime a dozen. Keeper to start a family and life with-priceless. Totally agree with Rich’s balanced advice. Not an easy decision.

Keep her...Good women are so hard to find.

Have a baby, girls like her are rare. If you are as successful as you describe you've got the resources

Your relationship advice is spot on. Same type of advice I got from my Great Grandfather, Grandpa, and Dad, but more blue collar from them. I'm 40, happily married for 10 years.

Either way, i think he should be honest with her that he doesn't want kids at the moment. Not because "it's the right thing to do", or "to communicate" but because a guy with solid frame is his own judge and isn't worried about upsetting others. If she is really invested in him as her best option, then she will most likely go with it, even though she may not be crazy about putting off having children. And if not, well, she was never his, it was just his turn.

“If I was 35 and she was 25…” That’s your answer right there, bro.

Truth is, you can't have it all. Some things have to be sacrificed for others...🤷🏽‍♂️

Great question and answer by Rich.

Rich is giving good solid advice here.

Men: Should I hurt her? Women: How do I hurt him more?

LONG LIVE GONZALO LIRA!!!

REMEMBER A Bird in hand is worth two in the bush. Hard to find/replace what you already have down the road. Relationships are all about compromise, to an extent, they have their ups and downs, what you need to understand is that should you walk away from someone as you describe, is that it would be considered a FAILURE on your part. Relationships, good ones, take work. You can do what you want, and still have her. Her "feelings" should take a back seat, as they will always change.

Yes sir thank you mr. Cooper

Rich agree with your point of view, a lot of wisdom. As an older guy and lived like you have, a good woman as described is very hard to come by.

If she is smart, and it sounds like she is, she has already made plans to move on.

Come on! Two years of demo mode and he bought it! Now give her a child or even two and you are on the hook for the rest of your life, and she receives support without working a single day in her life.

I needed this today

Solid advice.

Thanks mate

As a man, I completely understand the desire for variety, especially if you're capable of it. As men, we know that we have to earn the ability to attract multiple women. Having said that, I believe this need for variety is best suited for single men. I am vehemently against cheating on either side, so I will not criticize women for being "304s" while giving men a pass, even if it is slightly different. Speaking as a man in my early forties who has gone through an ugly divorce in the past and now has four kids, I can tell you for a fact that finding a truly good woman who is loyal, attractive, submissive, and willing to do anything to please you in the bedroom is a rare gem. If you can find that kind of woman, I advise you to forget about this desire for variety because the variety will likely never bring you a woman of that caliber again.

I fucking knew things would start to change!!!! Good job fellas!

Great tips there

If he decides to marry her, he needs a lawyer to create an ironclad prenup. If she refuses to sign, WALK.

Right on

Stay on your purpose and grind!

Sounds like a reasonable good woman brother, keep her around, continue the open dialogue

Good advice

Let me tell you my experience guys. I am 69, and was to married to a beautiful Dutch Christian woman for 39 years, until she died from cancer. She was my 2nd girl out of college. She stuck with me through thick and thin and beautiful babies. She helped make me who I am today. After dating now for 6 years, nobody has come close to her. If you get a good loyal woman, hang on to her. They are as rare as hens teeth..

I am in a similar situation, 29 y.o. with an amazing girl of 5 years same age as me. Only that her and I are building up together financially, and we aren’t on topic of kids yet for that very reason. However, she wishes to live in an affordable home which is a plus, and I have some business ideas I would like to start but I realize that with a house in the future at about 32-34 she might very likely approach me on the topic of kids. All of that might slow me down a bit from doing what I wish I could, or buying that fast toy later than I desire, but if she is as good as the guy that described in the video - than i believe it is worth it to keep her around and address her needs/wants if they make sense. Because women/girls like these are difficult to find today. I am happy to devote some of my effort to mine when she is like that, it’s rare and she deserves to be happy with me too, not just me.

My advice for this is, when doing the nasty, ask her if she feels it. And there ya go. You are showing her your concern for her feelings and most importantly, your needs are being met.

I'm surprised you said that thing about being an old tired dad . If one is pursuing excellence then I would presume physical excellence is part of that regardless of age . I posit that one should strive to be a specimen of a man well into advanced Years.

her feelings aren't real, and you should never take them at face value

I would tell her “if you are ok with the possibility to have kids or not in 10 years, maybe we are compatible”. She will have to choose whether it is more important to have a child now or to keep you close. Most women will only choose to have a child now if they don't believe their partner is that good.

When Rich says “ My brothers, listen to me…” I just stop everything I’m doing and listen the fuck up.

Damn but here's the thing though, you won't get the same woman twice. So he's in a predicament

Quick question Rich. Will you a video response to the Sean P Diddy Combs video? That would make some real good and interesting content

First off, Rich, that line about "most Western women aren't the greatest" and your facial expression led me to clapping out with a belly laugh. That was a great line. Before I get to my opinion, I should point out that one in 36 births now is an autistic child, and divorce rates hit 80% when you have an autistic child. 50% of my father's grandchildren were born autistic. Some doctors are pretreating women to prevent autism and claim rates as way less than 1%. The treatments are often simple but this is going to be a huge thing, a business certain to explode. My brother was in this situation as well as famous investor Jim Rogers in that they needed to see the world first before they could enjoy being a father and after exploring, both went all in. There is a slogan the woman picks the man, and the man picks the time and it is not your time. At 28 years old, you may like your woman and she may be great, but you really do not know what the best is. Every time I found a woman who I thought could not be topped, one would come along and be better. Yes, there were horrible dates in between, but I eventually always found great women/wife material (but not in the West, Rich, LOL). So I think you can do better than what you have now, and it is not your time. Explore the world and get that out of your system. Just know that to find better you should expect many horrible dates in the future, but even with that, I think you need those horrible dates to learn what really are your no go zones. You have no go zones that probably have not come up in your life yet.

She's accepted she's not the prize and not the one with leverage. Good for him.

She's on her best behavior still considering his wealth and social circles. Dint get legally bound up with her

I am in my 60s. Women as described by this man are indeed rare, especially as he ages. If a man is lucky, he may meet a few women that he can be happy with. The odds are that great. So if she is a keeper, and it was me, I probably lock her down. Will there be temptations and opportunities? Of course but if we are being honest, those can be acted upon without disrupting the status quo at home. What I have learned is for women, it is more about lifestyle than love. If he can offer her a lifestyle her friends envy, she will probably look the other way with your indiscretions. Depending on where he sees his life, if he wants children down the road, then this type of woman will be beneficial.

Also keep in mind that women are highly motivated to be "a good woman" before marriage and kids. Of course she wants kids with you. Your bank account is stacked. As soon as you knock her up and get married, she lost her motivation and has you hooked and bagged. If she truly loves you, then she can wait for kids. However, Rich is right. Finding a good woman isn't easy. I'm just still skeptical. Women know how to play the long game. In the same breath, the older you get, the more you value the relationships you have in your life and the more you will value family.

Follow your gut, it is generally right

I think this is a topic where Rich's perspective is limited by living in the West. The question came from a guy who is a digital nomad traveling the world, so he has access to much more traditional feminine women in other countries. Dating with an age gap is also much easier as a western guy traveling abroad. In that context, replacing a good woman is not nearly as difficult as Rich made it sound. (My POV as a digital nomad myself)

Focus on your needs. The woman in your life will doggedly try to eliminate any of your focus on your own needs (betasization by 1,000 cuts) and will seek to dominate and control your every thought and action. As soon as she gets your complete compliance to her every emotional whim, she will look for other men who are competent and master of their own life's to secretly spend time with and explore to see if monkey branching over to one of them is possible. When so, she will then leave you broken emotionally, psychologically and financially. Her closest girlfriends, who may have been kind to you, will gleefully encourage her and help her do this. She doesn't just want children, along with them a home will be necessary along with much remodeling ("updating" is their word) to remove the inadequacies she will find and create. He will no longer be able to travel because she will threaten to label him as a poor father figure who is not "there" for his kids. Sharing of accounts and all property will be required to be deemed an upright man in the modern world. MAINTAIN FRAME, ALWAYS MAINTAIN FRAME!! NEVER ALLOW ANY DISRESPECT OF ANY KIND.

Just focus on your life and take your time to find a mate for life is that's what you are after. No hurry.

Classic case of you don't know what you have until you've lost it. We don't get that many chances to find a love in this life.

Well put Rich, if she’s a unicorn, keep her

Advice: If she makes YOU happy, yes. If you must make her happy, no. Think about it if she'd divorce you. If she would leave relationship just because you don't want kids (you can test her and lie), would she still stay with you? Under which conditions would she leave you? Is it ride or die, for rich and poor? Or she would divorce you anyway in 8 years to take half your stuff?

Thanks!

Right on. Good women are HARD to find. Sounds like you see you have one. Unless you have NO intentions of a family/kids what are you concerned about? I know 100 guys who wish they had your story. So many guys either cannot recognize a good thing or don’t get the option. If she’s in your frame, I’d say do what your mind is telling you.

Sounds as a too good of a relationship to ruin for worse. Specialy for this times. People burnout at this jobs to....

Love the 992 Turbo S!

Rich, more rides in the 992 please - love it!

I would say you can ask a fisherman almost about anything.

Have kids, you won’t regret it. I wish I had before 30

Hope strategists

Problem is we’re pushing overly selfish narratives…..its really not whats best for “you” at the end of lonely folks days overly selfish = unhappiness/loneliness

She is a keeper. Considering how hard to find a decent girl in the west i would keep her.

another thing to think about with respect to age at fatherhood is sperm quality - as you get older your sperm suffers damage and gets lower quality especially if you drink and smoke, odds of producing a down syndrome or autistic baby go up substantially. this can be somewhat offset by marrying a younger woman, but not entirely.

No rush for kids anymore...I was a mediocre dad, and never got my projects exactly where I wanted. Ended up having to be brutally honest and tell myself I never really wanted kids...the you significant other can't deal with that, the move on.

Ok so I’m at a crossed roads, known this girl 6 years, together for half of that, we broke up in January because she wanted kids and I didn’t (not yet, my business wasn’t financially stable enough). We are both 35, my business has taken off I have enough money and pipeline of work to be comfortable and raise a kid. I do love this girl she would be a great mother. Only down side is she had a slight promiscuous past 15 years ago. However she has been loyal and showing me I’m her best for 6 years now. I’m conflicted but I’m ready to have kids. Should I get back with her and put a baby inside?

Leave her. Womens ability at chameleon is frightening. My mate taught a chick for 7 years until she got her black belt and started dating him. She quit karate as soon as they dated. She said..i never liked karate, i just did it to get to you... 7 fkng years she did what she hated to get to him. 7 years......

If she thinks you are her best option, she will stay with you! 🤷

Sacrifice for a woman and you'll lose twice.

Unfortunately, our brains are designed to think in the moment. It's evolution. Someday we will be able to evolve to think in all three areas at the same time, past, present, and future. Without a past, you have no future. Without good present situational awareness, you also have no future. Perfection is an illusion. There are no guarenteed promises of success for choices made. Life can be a roll of the dice. You are responsibile to do your best to improve your odds when making critical decisions. Mistakes can also be tools for learning. If this chick is so awesome, tie the knot but absolutely get a pre-nup and cover your bases. Life is like chess. Sometimes when you lose you win. Sometimes when you win you lose. Life is short and tomorrow is not even a guarentee. Entrepreneurships are awesome but will never truly satisfy all human needs. Needs change over time. Time is priceless and short, but additional time can never purchased. Think your way through your decisions. Competely emotionalizing your decisions usually ends in tragety. Being and acting like a robot is not good either. The key to life is knowing when to balance.

If I made $1 million profit a year, I would not give two shites about any woman. But that’s me your results may vary. Remember your words, you said, I focused on myself in order to build this business online. You answered your own question.

Been there incredible women are few and far between.

Your car is loud today !!!!!!

East test for our young man: if she just got some outfits, some wigs, some good roleplay? If that’s not enough for variety, then you don’t really love her.

Two years is DEFINITELY NOT enough time to determine whether you’re going to risk your entire net worth on.

Essentially, dude has to choose between enjoying multiple partners or keeping a quality woman. Either way, he's making a sacrifice. The most important thing is to be honest with himself about what he wants in life and own whichever decision he makes to avoid resentment and regret. If his girl is everything dude claims she is, he might have no idea how lucky he is. Enjoying multiple sexual partners might seem appealing from a distance, but that gold could lose its luster real fast once he starts spending time with typical western women.

When I use to be on dating sites and apps, I would see women post that they’re “looking for a man that can keep up” That meaning in bedroom? Keep up with her bills? Keep up with her kids? Just curious..

If you don’t want kids don’t let her pull you into it. There will be others

Have you ever saw Rich Cooper with hot girl? EVER??? 😊😅😅😂😂😂😂😂😂

R U N N N ! ! !

Great advice. Better a good girl at your age. Then a ou promiscuous girl with a huge body count, and these days that is the norm

If there's any doubt there's doubt... Making a decision to marry and have kids should be an obvious one. Being with someone 2 1/2 years is not a long time and you shouldn't feel pressurised. Put yourself first for a while and reassess in the future. Also if you do have kids / marriage and then stray she'll take you to the cleaners.

She sounds like a good girl but he wabts a little strange on the side. Get some strange. Just dont catch feelings or have full on affiar. The girl seems good and will be hard to replace. She will stick around if he doesnt make her look bad

This SAME guy said never to get oneitus and that men have an abundance of options.