A Simple Game To Never Run Out Of Things To Say In Conversation

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How To Never Run Out Of Things To Say In Conversation
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We’ve all been there - you’re in conversation, things are humming along nicely and then out of nowhere the awkward silence rears it’s head. At just that moment, your mind goes completely blank, you don’t know what to say and you can sense the other person’s eyes wandering as they look for someone else to talk to.
That scenario sucks so here are 5 tips to make sure you never run out of things to say in conversation
0:20 Play Reminds Me of
0:54 Ask open-ended questions
1:40 Use revival questions
2:37 Make a complimentary cold read
3:00 Flip the script and let them be the one to talk
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@ziimbo3957 4 жыл бұрын

Flirting with the bartender: “you come here often?”

@user10842 4 жыл бұрын

😂

@rpeshbhujade3974 4 жыл бұрын

😂😂😂

@skullj2872 4 жыл бұрын

Bro, why.

@claudizero6964 4 жыл бұрын

I swear, if she’s that type of cool girl, she’ll laugh and that’s the spot where you want to be! Now order a se+ on the beach and she’ll be all yours 😏

@mitsuracer87 4 жыл бұрын

"You, come here often."

@nachocabo4221 4 жыл бұрын

-So, how do you like Toronto? -I've never mentioned Toronto... - ... Why?

@streamepiphany9932 3 жыл бұрын

Underrated comment lmao

@robertkruse6035 3 жыл бұрын

only he spelled it toranto

@koen6468 3 жыл бұрын

Lol

@Kevessi 3 жыл бұрын

Lmao

@haoyuanjin8280 2 жыл бұрын

Why what? Erm… You remind me of Toronto…

@FonchoVidal Ай бұрын

- Whats are you doing? - Drinking - Why? - Because I want to forget - What? - The shame I feel for drinking (Awkward silence) - This reminds me of that time I was in Toranto

@Kayoloz 10 күн бұрын

Family guy ahh conversation

@cheezit4080 10 күн бұрын

Little prince

@Dr.Discombobulated 2 жыл бұрын

One of the best feelings is when you're so close to someone that even the awkward silences aren't awkward anymore and you're just enjoying one another's company.

@imusingmymomsandroid2375 Жыл бұрын

Bro I feel that.. I'd love my date to be just like me, to enjoy and embrace the silence, exchanging smiles and eye contact, that kinda something

@user-dy1vf7lu3i Жыл бұрын

Nice name

@gameseeker6307 Жыл бұрын

🗿🗿 2 bros being bros in silent peace

@ada5851 Жыл бұрын

It's so rare. If you meet someone that vibes with you like that never let them go, whether they're a lover or a friend.

@callasan1681 Жыл бұрын

pulp fiction

@DanielVoyles 4 жыл бұрын

"I see you have a big mouth, do you like to talk a lot?"

@jared4575 3 жыл бұрын

😂

@xavierblitz5647 3 жыл бұрын

Toronto?

@topeque6993 3 жыл бұрын

@@xavierblitz5647 Why

@thebombspayloadisexposed 3 жыл бұрын

@@topeque6993 that reminds me of...

@2layIa 3 жыл бұрын

Why?

@Gigatless 4 жыл бұрын

Me: How old are you? Her: 21 Me: *Why*

@fiorenzacavallini6730 4 жыл бұрын

lol

@brianwalendy3735 4 жыл бұрын

Because I drink the blood of babies, of course

@nopeq7993 4 жыл бұрын

Well, I was born at an early age and I've been alive ever since.

@ragnasheen8950 4 жыл бұрын

Her: Because I was born at a very young age.

@ShadowZone1996 4 жыл бұрын

Have a date in an hour. I’m using this as a pick-up line for sure dude lmao

@kookiesjams595 Жыл бұрын

1. Say ‘this reminds me of..’ 2. Ask open ended questions. 3. Ask ‘why?’ 3. Use revival questions - like ‘How do you guys know each other?’ 5. Ask them about their future plans 6. Compliment them 7. Allow the other person to move the conversation by maintaining eye contact, or repeat the last words they said to encourage them to continue

@afiqhalib7232 Жыл бұрын

Thank you,this reminds me about that radom guy who used to give these

@not_jared9404 Жыл бұрын

Cool...So how do you like Toronto

@ArrowMaster_ Жыл бұрын

Why?

@lm-oi1ke Жыл бұрын

8. Ask them where is point no. 4.

@gamertardguardian1299 Жыл бұрын

What are your future plans?

@jamesq7954 Жыл бұрын

Me: "as an introvert, I've had a lot of experience with awkward silence." Therapist: "and what have you learned?" Me: "How to weaponize it against my enemies." Therapist: ...... Me: .... "So how do you know Toronto?"

@Twowheelsandadream4 Жыл бұрын

There is something wrong with my mind… TheRapist is how I read Therapist.

@drumerdude2661 Жыл бұрын

I lived there once but I had to get out there u know because of the dream killing and the boring silence and the bloody hippies smoking weed

@idrinkwater1124 Жыл бұрын

@@Twowheelsandadream4 💀💀

@lilyoda4208 Жыл бұрын

@@Twowheelsandadream4 nawh same

@cloudfinraptor Жыл бұрын

To pack even more tips into there: *So why do you know Toranto?*

@camryn9597 4 жыл бұрын

me at his house- “so do you come here often?”

@FBWUniverseMode 3 жыл бұрын

That is a nice way to talk to a thief he'd peacefully leave.

@Xinyannya 3 жыл бұрын

@@FBWUniverseMode"and that's how me and your mom met son"

@mistertrueromance 3 жыл бұрын

Maybe we should just be friends Mind: She's insane, just distance yourself, man.

@uttkarshkumar6897 3 жыл бұрын

That will Bring more Awkwardness

@2trekkers777 3 жыл бұрын

Why

@sovereignty7897 4 жыл бұрын

Me flirting in class - "So which school are you from?"

@Kuza01 4 жыл бұрын

Why?

@mandystop1077 4 жыл бұрын

@@Kuza01 Just Asking

@AlexandruRadu96 4 жыл бұрын

@@mandystop1077 how do you like Toronto?

@advancedtheories1332 4 жыл бұрын

@@AlexandruRadu96 Toronto? isn't that a city? that reminds me of where I'm from. which is kind of like a city but much smaller.

@dragonicbladex7574 4 жыл бұрын

@@AlexandruRadu96 yes

@tetrabirac779 Жыл бұрын

My dad, who is really great at socializing, taught me one rule: Try asking your conversation partner questions about he/she. Not only will it lead to new conversation topics like they mentioned in the video, it also gives you time to think about how to follow up after they finish. As an introvert, this works greatly for me.

@caramelese8520 Жыл бұрын

Till the person says I'm good you?

@tetrabirac779 Жыл бұрын

@@caramelese8520 usually it does not continue like that, but if it does thennn bruh it's gonna be awkward silence again

@jadenpina3989 Жыл бұрын

@@caramelese8520 after that talk about something that happened to you recently that might continue the conversation (in a good way obviously)

@ahleenah Жыл бұрын

Ohh I got the same tip! He even used it on me without me realizing and after I finished talking he said “see” Stuck with me since then and as a shy introvert, has helped me a lot

@as8kay Жыл бұрын

Please gimme some more tips like this I really die during a conversation have nothing to ask or say and the conversation ends right there with awkward silence from both sides

@jordwright507 Жыл бұрын

It's amazing the wit and humour in this comment section, from people who are here because they believe they struggle to hold a conversation!!

@PatoValdes18 4 жыл бұрын

me in an airplane: “so, where you going?”

@shotgun_daddy-1089 4 жыл бұрын

On a plane

@panlis6243 4 жыл бұрын

@@joaquin991 to Toronto?

@flymb3358 4 жыл бұрын

I did do that once actually

@MrDoon-ez5qm 4 жыл бұрын

somehow that's what I get ask all the time

@vmillio7564 4 жыл бұрын

Is this directed at someone or just a question out of nowhere hoping someone replies?

@blacklarry998 4 жыл бұрын

*me flirting at a funeral "So, do you come here often?"

@nicktokar2459 4 жыл бұрын

Who you trying to flirt with at a funeral?

@blacklarry998 4 жыл бұрын

@@nicktokar2459 the widow

@Xelexment 4 жыл бұрын

That funeral comment made cry bc my grandma died not to long ago and now im sad

@kaysas9686 4 жыл бұрын

@@Xelexment why? Did you flirt with someone there?

@terrencesora1174 4 жыл бұрын

@@Xelexment Why...

@elizabethwest5949 Жыл бұрын

I always say, “you too” at the wrong times. Usually it’s at the end of a conversation. Like to someone working at a movie theater and they say, “enjoy the movie”, and I say, “you too”. Or when the doctor ends with, “make sure you take your medicine”, and I’m just like, yea, “you too”.

@ahhwe-any7434 Жыл бұрын

1st person: hryd today Me: I'm ok 🤔🤷🏻‍♀️ 2nd person 1 sec later: hryd today Me: pretty great, & you? Most ppl: idrc Me: yeah me either Response back sometimes: nothing. Maybe just an acknowledgement Replys to Greetings: hi (that's not what they asked) I c u I c u 2 Ok cool Cool Bye K bye

@mouplayerbr Жыл бұрын

- Happy birthday to you ☺ - u2 😊 - 🤨 - 😰

@skillatar4572 Жыл бұрын

Imagine the doctor telling you to remember to take your medication and your just like, “yeah you too” as if they are crazy or something or you think they need help lol, it just sounds aggressive to say “you too” back to a doctor about taking medication lol

@scarlet7960 Жыл бұрын

Btw if this ever happens, just laugh it off. Like seriously, sometimes embracing the fact you can't talk changes the mood from awkward to goofy. People don't realize it but good conversations are more about feeling comfortable then being charismatic

@megamaser Жыл бұрын

You too

@JetBlackJester Жыл бұрын

I tried that complimentary cold read technique at a work event - "What do you like to do for fun" and "You look like you're pretty into fitness" after introducing myself. The woman (a complete stranger) thought I was flirting with her and I ended up in a disciplinary with HR for inappropriate behaviour. Be very careful who you use this advice with.

@danny.ray101 Жыл бұрын

"It seems you were hitting on that female coworker. What are your thoughts?" "Don't worry, I have learned the lesson. So you all look like you enjoy eating a lot?"

@JetBlackJester Жыл бұрын

@@danny.ray101 Not really. I had been talking shop all day and was looking for common ground. If it hadn't been a networking event and I wasn't already supposed to chat to people I didn't know I might have seen it that way.

@danny.ray101 Жыл бұрын

@@JetBlackJester Then it's even more ridiculous...

@abodieqwerty4678 Жыл бұрын

Don't trust women.

@theinacircleoftheancientpu492 Жыл бұрын

@JetBlackJester I think that talking about fitness to a woman brings up different connotations than if you talk about fitness to a man, quite simply because a man talking to a woman about her body is considered flirting or at least borderline usually, while guys are not as sensitive on the topic. That said, at a setting where people are supposed to interact, and given the information I am aware of, I feel like she could have cut you a little more slack and tried to guage your intentions before coming to a conclusion. In summary, I believe all parties involved could have done better, its just a little unfortunate that the learning experience for you was rather awkward.

@_username 3 жыл бұрын

“The weather nice today huh?” "Thanks, you too"

@mikolajk2372 3 жыл бұрын

I’m dead 😂

@jellymatsuryuka6853 3 жыл бұрын

Well someone could be called Carl Weathers somewhere

@jenniperkins4260 3 жыл бұрын

Hahahaha

@luchinazo 3 жыл бұрын

y-you too

@brookie_pooh 3 жыл бұрын

Relatable

@oppelo5981 3 жыл бұрын

“Do you like Toronto?” “Yes” *awkward silence* “How do you like Toronto?” 😌 “It’s good.” *awkward silence*

@fl3tched 3 жыл бұрын

Why

@nil4897 3 жыл бұрын

So much for an open-ended question lol

@cartanfan-youtube 3 жыл бұрын

That’s when you ask then what they like about it

@roscoe4943 3 жыл бұрын

Yes

@mg-lb3tm 3 жыл бұрын

i’m from toronto and i can confirm it is good

@willandrews8577 Жыл бұрын

I've never wanted to meet someone who's been to Toronto this much in my life.

@oljenka88 3 ай бұрын

Most important thing imo - make yourself genuinely interested in the person. A lot of the conversation will just fall into place by itself instead of trying to come up with the next best thing to say 🙂 This helped me so much in life

@Ramenko1 Күн бұрын

this. ☝️

@Ramenko1 Күн бұрын

This! ☝️

@clutch_zone72 4 жыл бұрын

Awkward silence: Why and Toronto: I'm about to end this man's whole career

@adr_x1114 4 жыл бұрын

Lmao 💀

@ezdor8877 4 жыл бұрын

Why dpes this only have 66 likes. Lmaoo

@santaclaus3077 3 жыл бұрын

Hahahaha

@n-3262 3 жыл бұрын

I woke my sister up laughing at this😂😂😂

@agathawiebe6339 3 жыл бұрын

Bahahaha 😂😂😂

@carageak 4 жыл бұрын

Me with my girlfriend at their place meeting her family: So how do you all know each other?

@m.m7732 4 жыл бұрын

Lookl

@NiceEyeballs 3 жыл бұрын

lolololol

@kaylamuller441 3 жыл бұрын

bwahhahaa i would probably do this and not notice

@danamoldovan9135 3 жыл бұрын

😄😄

@icannotcomeupwithanything4609 3 жыл бұрын

I dying man. 🤣

@monaebreak561 23 күн бұрын

People who you can just be silent with are the best!!! ❤

@seaweedcat4267 Жыл бұрын

What I've found is that people looove to talk about themselves! If you want to keep the conversation going, act like everything they say is the most interesting thing you've ever heard and you want to hear every single detail. You study commerce? What do you do? What job would you pursue in the future? What are the assignments like? Your parents made you study it, what do your parents do? What would you rather be studying instead, why? Every single piece of detail is a prompt that you can keep building on. And most of all, remember that the other person is a human being too! Chances are they want to keep the conversation going too and they'll want to cooperate with you. While trying to come up with ways to keep it going, remember to actually listen to what the other party is saying as well!

@siphons5737 Күн бұрын

That's the only thing I know how to do, keep a conversation alive ? Yeah, start one, might need to call help on that one.

@rainyclouds7631 4 жыл бұрын

“you look like you would be great with kids“ “Oh actually not really“ “well I had the impression because you look like my mom“

@rei-pq8vx 3 жыл бұрын

"why?"

@levince9315 3 жыл бұрын

“toronto?!”

@margaritagonzalezbenegas1040 3 жыл бұрын

This reminds me of..

@jajangmyeon0618 3 жыл бұрын

HAHAHAHAHA

@gabelbuddy_4941 3 жыл бұрын

Underrated comment lmao 😂

@jobless5866 3 жыл бұрын

Them: How old are you? Me: Toronto Them: That’s not an age Me: Why?

@jonathanSpg 3 жыл бұрын

That’s technically a conversation

@jonathanSpg 3 жыл бұрын

Why

@jacobharris5894 3 жыл бұрын

Lmao

@laavanya2335 3 жыл бұрын

😂😂😂

@1minutequickvideos-169 3 жыл бұрын

the perfect conversation killer doesn't exi

@Wheredidigetthismuffin Жыл бұрын

The more I see videos like this, the more I understand that I just have anxiety. I follow this script, I don't do anything incredibly weird. But my mind puts everything under a microscope. And sometimes I just got to accept that I just don't vibe with everyone. Some conversations just arent going to be great.

@LucianoBAF Жыл бұрын

1. Open ended questions (how do you like ?) 2. Ask about their motivativations with a simple "Why?" (Why did you decide to get into ?) 3. When the conversation stalls, use revival questions: - "How you guys know one other?" - "What's your story?". The person might give options on what specifically, then you can read which option was mentioned in a more excited tone of voice - "What are your plans to the future?" 4. Complimentary cold read (you look like you are pretty into ) 5. In a cold silence, deep breath and keep easy eye contact. Alternatively, repeat the last words they've said

@Prizm44 Жыл бұрын

Jesus Christ, does anyone else want to write yet another comment stating the exact same thing that was in the video?

@xhvsh 14 күн бұрын

how do you like toronto?

@Judoka008 5 жыл бұрын

Person: "So where are you from?" Me: "Why?" ..............*awkward silence* Me: "That reminds me of all the other awkward social interactions".

@hansitorsnes5020 5 жыл бұрын

Pure gold

@RhinoGamin 5 жыл бұрын

The funny thing is that could actually be a really hilarious conversation😂

@amyh1755 5 жыл бұрын

I'm screaming laughing at this

@Zgtsu 5 жыл бұрын

you cant hear me right now but im clapping

@tuyuu2191 5 жыл бұрын

@@Zgtsu 😂😂

@saadanwar9559 5 жыл бұрын

Me meeting my friend standing with his father Me:So how do you guys know each other?

@xerx_is_bored 5 жыл бұрын

dead😂😂

@itspurelypassionate 5 жыл бұрын

Saad Anwar 😂😂😂

@frankievaldez6816 5 жыл бұрын

I have done that one before

@saadanwar9559 5 жыл бұрын

@@frankievaldez6816 what was their resonse?😂

@francescorotolo1947 5 жыл бұрын

😂😂

@DrownedInGames Жыл бұрын

I have a friend who asks questions like the ones from this video when trying to hold conversations, and now I think he got the conversation ideas from this video.

@joanna4500 Жыл бұрын

ask them how they like toronto and see what they do

@DrownedInGames Жыл бұрын

@@joanna4500 I'll do that sometime hahah

@sniper6081 Жыл бұрын

I was wondering why this video was recommended to me until I saw the comments section. It all makes sense now.

@Aubjordan 4 жыл бұрын

“I had a good time yesterday at the party.” “So you had a good time yesterday?” “Um yeah like I just said... “Why?” “...Because I went to the party...”

3 жыл бұрын

so anyways, how do you like toronto?

@AlexanderMacleod 3 жыл бұрын

😂

@novelle.27 3 жыл бұрын

What’s your story?

@animerequiem7041 3 жыл бұрын

@Doggo 😂😂😂

@laavanya2335 3 жыл бұрын

😂😂😂😂

@oblobbles 3 жыл бұрын

A depressed person:"sometimes I just feel like this world would be better without me" .... Me: "so what are ur plans for the future?"

@DeadeyeToya 3 жыл бұрын

You know the word future reminds me of a state that is my destiny to behold my actions a period of time following the moment of speaking or writing; time regarded as still to come.

@thinginground5179 3 жыл бұрын

"I wanna kill myself" Me: "Toronto"

@meowww7557 3 жыл бұрын

why?

@jimsclub8080 3 жыл бұрын

Why would be better ;)

@iiCounted2134 3 жыл бұрын

damn that went dark quick lmfaoo

@fa5rani Жыл бұрын

One thing I learned through my conversations, "some people are boring" don't push it, it they are exciting or excited in you, you'll never stop talking.

@deli_bread Жыл бұрын

I just like to ask completely random questions out of the blue. I don't mean stuff like "Where'd you get your shirt from?" or something. I mean questions like "Is soup a drink?" or "Do you pour cereal or milk first?" since those types of questions usually lead to a debate, or just an interesting conversation. Also yes, both of those questions were food related. Food is always a good conversation topic, since most everyone enjoys food (or at least has an opinion on it). Some other good questions to ask are hypotheticals. I like these since they're pretty interesting, and if you run out of them it's really easy to just make one up. Ex: "Would you rather fight 10 5 year olds or 2 20 year olds?" or "Would you eat a gallon of mayonnaise for 10,000 dollars?" You can also elaborate on the question, or change it slightly depending on their answer, like instead of "Would you eat a gallon of mayonnaise for 10,000 dollars?" it'd be "Would you eat a gallon of mayonnaise for 3.5 dollars?" Sorry for the long comment, and thanks to anyone who read all the way through! Hoped this helped!

@R9naldo Жыл бұрын

How to get friendzoned in just one interaction

@CosmicRando Жыл бұрын

@@R9naldoyeah 💀

@hazelmint6671 Жыл бұрын

My cousin always asks us these kinds of questions lol! Its usually very crazy so we roll our eyes each time he starts with a 'would u rather...' 🤣🤣 Questions like, 'would u rather, marry/date a person who is shockingly ugly, (he also includes some kind of abnormality, like he has unstoppable diarrhea) but he has the best personality (factually) and loves u dearly , or would u rather marry someone who is impossibly gorgeous and rich but has the shittiest personality.. This is tame actually, compared to some of his other ones 😂🤣🤣

@pinkroses135 Жыл бұрын

😂 love that approach! Not too personal yet allows someone to display their personality and go into other subjects.

@levince9315 4 жыл бұрын

*The gods have given us this outstanding comment section.*

@m.m7732 4 жыл бұрын

Yess

@ironforged2329 3 жыл бұрын

More than we could ever wish for.

@arzu3587 3 жыл бұрын

So what's Ur story

@yoiamparthu7887 3 жыл бұрын

*Why?*

@theonlygrizzy9769 3 жыл бұрын

God tier comment section

@_tronk_2529 5 жыл бұрын

Bold of you to assume that I engage in conversation.

@treblinka9530 5 жыл бұрын

James Hickok I have aids :)

@sus3509 5 жыл бұрын

Swear bro I ain’t never starting a convo

@stevesbonesai 5 жыл бұрын

@@treblinka9530 so.., what do you enjoy most about having aids?

@bl8d5uck3r 5 жыл бұрын

noo i feel bad for liking your comment and making the number iLlUmInAtI

@VisionVaultArchive 5 жыл бұрын

@@bl8d5uck3r dw i changed it :)

@dbliss741 Жыл бұрын

There’s nothing cooler than curating a vibe where you sit confidently with a dash of aloofness during those “awkward silences”

@Mo-. Жыл бұрын

I do that practically all the time by accident bc of not often starting convos (unless with already established friends)

@megamaser Жыл бұрын

I disagree. I've been practicing this my entire life because I enjoy silence. But it hasn't made me "cool" or curate any kind of vibe that anyone else notices. Mainly it makes me forgettable, which is good. I don't want boring people to remember me, only the ones worth talking to.

@yahdood6015 3 жыл бұрын

[ awkward silence ] Me: [ sees glass of water ] “heh, reminds me of how humans need to stay hydrated”

@Narstar100 3 жыл бұрын

🤣 🤣 🤣

@ivonunes3937 3 жыл бұрын

lmao

@jonaskragt3006 3 жыл бұрын

Lolll

@YungGrpeTurno369 3 жыл бұрын

hahahahaha

@SjonnyBB 3 жыл бұрын

10/10

@alyssa3415 3 жыл бұрын

me: what's your name? them: Emma me: why? them: me: so how do u like Toronto?

@jaymike8611 3 жыл бұрын

So all of them are named emma

@marshayas3494 3 жыл бұрын

Emma: why?

@XORevolveOX 3 жыл бұрын

Her*

@user-ck8pk5kq3x 3 жыл бұрын

that reminds me of Toronto

@____-zk1iq 3 жыл бұрын

Plot Twist: Emma has never even been to Toronto.

@SGWV Жыл бұрын

I love this video solely because of its comments section

@bean2468 Жыл бұрын

This video was so helpful I talked to a woman and she didn’t run away! 10/10 would recommend

@Whydoothercomments 4 жыл бұрын

Me: How old are you? Girl: 19 Me: when I was your age I was 21

@vairiskovels 4 жыл бұрын

why?

@ReaSeBy 4 жыл бұрын

Kovels because 19=10+9=9+10=21

@oliverschaible3189 4 жыл бұрын

@whiskers8771 4 жыл бұрын

XD Old memes

@anouarzizine8272 4 жыл бұрын

This situation is as confusing as king crimson's timeskip

@rohan1748 3 жыл бұрын

Her : So do you like Toronto ? Me : Hey that's my line !! Her : Why? *Awkward Silence*

@babayaga3064 2 жыл бұрын

Man what a hilarious comment section, I wish I cud meet u all and make more jokes about this video, that would be epic! I'm so weak for good humour 😂😂

@missingpatel7349 Жыл бұрын

@@babayaga3064 We are really doing okay in comments section but chances are it will be *severely awkward silence* if we meet in real life.

@ungewohnlich510 Жыл бұрын

Uno reverse :D

@IoannisFragiskos Жыл бұрын

Underrated comment 😂

@muhammadraza2766 Жыл бұрын

😂😂😂😂

@majadinicc Жыл бұрын

seeing that this video has so many views makes me feel less alone. we just all have some problems with social skills but hey, nothing that we can't overcome

@chookers1074 Жыл бұрын

With the right person, you’ll never run out of words

@werixwolf 7 ай бұрын

Bollocks

@d.lastbreath2272 5 жыл бұрын

We all lack social skills , don't we?

@kblc7952 5 жыл бұрын

D. Lastbreath no just had that a few hours ago.. damn that was the most awkward thing. long story short she turned me off with one sentence and then i had to change my sentence i wanted to say and then i left..

@peterg9798 5 жыл бұрын

@@kblc7952 thats what you get for being a oldhead

@kblc7952 5 жыл бұрын

Apree i’m 15 lmao

@peterg9798 5 жыл бұрын

@@kblc7952 you can be 15 and an oldhead tf

@kblc7952 5 жыл бұрын

Apree yeah aight u a oldhead too?

@trevorwhiteboy2649 3 жыл бұрын

PRO TIP: You can’t run out of things to say if you never initiate a conversation

@harsha307 3 жыл бұрын

The other person is just not interested

@ultrablitz9673 3 жыл бұрын

Me after reading this: kalm Me after someone else initiates a conversation: PANIK

@igorbednarski8048 3 жыл бұрын

Big brain stuff

@ETn4606 3 жыл бұрын

Fax

@ashbash8716 3 жыл бұрын

Catch this radio (This is a joke)

@helved807 Жыл бұрын

I've come to learn a bit about this, and it took me a while to understand that it's not only me in a conversation that is struggling, it's both sides, (or in a group, all sides). This made me less worried about the responsibility of the conversation failing falling on me.

@justmechanicthings Жыл бұрын

The open ended questioning was one of my key plays on first and second dates, along with asking what favourite and to elaborate on what makes it so

@pikarizardcharikachu2573 3 жыл бұрын

I can tell from this whole comment section that we are all introverts.

@lilpogchamp4904 3 жыл бұрын

😶

@sauce-ke6202 3 жыл бұрын

*Why* ?

@coldrain4115 3 жыл бұрын

Don't you mean toronto

@pinkcherry9695 3 жыл бұрын

so how was toronto?

@Abdullah-hc7il 3 жыл бұрын

So how do you guys know each other

@anythingbutme6602 4 жыл бұрын

Me: You look like you are really into food! Her: I'm pregnant. Me: ...Why?

@FirstnameLastname-es1ko 4 жыл бұрын

Anything Butme Who the hell says that in the first place?😂 “You look like you are really into food!”

@xapokalypse 4 жыл бұрын

@@FirstnameLastname-es1ko that's why they watch this video! 😂

@aaliyahs.adventures. 4 жыл бұрын

🤣🤣🤣

@itzelneptune 4 жыл бұрын

She allowed herself to get nasty

@benderisgreat95able 4 жыл бұрын

Seriously. Why? Smart people stopped having kids in 2008.

@marcusfarrands9311 Жыл бұрын

short, ad straight to the point, no unessecary buildup or intro, love it

@Isaiah-Hughes Жыл бұрын

"Great weather today!" "Thanks, you too."

@zacadoole1 3 жыл бұрын

If someone asked me "so what's your story?" I'd break into a cold sweat

@thefork4416 3 жыл бұрын

why

@loot3647 3 жыл бұрын

@@thefork4416 toronto

@AvaRose06 3 жыл бұрын

this reminds me of the time I got -cold- feet and ran out on my wedding. … so what’s Toronto like?

@linasbubble 2 жыл бұрын

@@loot3647 PAHAHAHA YALL LEAVE. IM CRYING

@dinowattz 2 жыл бұрын

@@linasbubble why?

@pasteltheunicorn3899 3 жыл бұрын

“So...tell me a bit about yourself” My mom at the dinner table: “..what?” *pointing to vase on table*“This reminds me of a vase I have at home” “????”

@omid1442 3 жыл бұрын

Why?

@TracyMing 3 жыл бұрын

toronto

@gregorbugri717 3 жыл бұрын

😂😂😂

@tofferooni4972 3 жыл бұрын

I love these comments

@TracyMing 3 жыл бұрын

@@tofferooni4972 why?

@kyettterry 9 сағат бұрын

Yall I'm fourteen and I just spent like four hours with my girlfriend saying almost nothing to her I needed this thank you

@Skeletone56 Жыл бұрын

With this, I was able to bring back a conversation with my grandparents at dinner. This was very helpful, thank you.

@hamza3065 4 жыл бұрын

Laughed my lungs out!! This comment section is on fire!!

@ryoo1234 4 жыл бұрын

why?

@katiecook9774 4 жыл бұрын

Ryo Hilmi how do you like Toronto?

@user-ef5nd3ho3n 3 жыл бұрын

ikr😂😂😂

@robertremy9067 3 жыл бұрын

😂😂😂😂😂

@Mohammad-Almemari 3 жыл бұрын

😂😂

@augustuscaesar5076 4 жыл бұрын

Her: I had a fight with my sister Me: How do you two know one another? Her:..... She's my sister Me: *why?*

@IsaiahReitanFilm 4 жыл бұрын

Augustus Caesar her: because we’re related Me: because you’re related?

@KingLoof 4 жыл бұрын

@@IsaiahReitanFilm Me: Actually that reminds me of a friend who, just recently, got into a fight with her sister

@hankiedave 4 жыл бұрын

@@IsaiahReitanFilm Her: uh..yes Me: *_why?_*

@user-dc4yr2ev5h 4 жыл бұрын

Augustus Caesar Well her parents did the big f*ck twice.

@AdmiralBonetoPick 4 жыл бұрын

Her: Toronto

@thijsbruijn3512 Жыл бұрын

Toronto saving every conversation

@andresf.3472 Жыл бұрын

The one that always help is remember about “FORD”: Family Occupation Recreation Dreams. Also using open statements questions like why, how, when, where instead of closing ones.

@brunotheexpert8230 4 жыл бұрын

Teacher : Where is your homework ? Me: At home , and yours? Teacher : what? Me: why? Teacher : *confused* Me: So what do you do for living?

@ashleyw5579 4 жыл бұрын

Bruno The Expert thank you for making me actually lol 😂😂

@ernarjandos1031 3 жыл бұрын

Thats just “how to escape homework”

@jeamychun 3 жыл бұрын

This made me laugh 😂😂😂

@swoop155 3 жыл бұрын

Omg this was awesome hahahaha

@user-sl1ry6op7m 3 жыл бұрын

😂😂😂😂

@haironyourscreen4848 4 жыл бұрын

Me: hi Her: hello Me: tell me your story Her: I was born in Switzerland... Me: so how do you like Toronto? Her: I said Switzerland Me: you said Switzerland? Her: yes Me: Why?

@masud_1 4 жыл бұрын

i thought there was a hair on my screen, Lol

@moural1133 4 жыл бұрын

@@masud_1 ibwas blowing it the whole time until i read ur comment😂

@ananya1541 4 жыл бұрын

I literally thought there was hair on my screen and was blowing on it the whole time until i saw your username lol

@sarahB06 4 жыл бұрын

oH lol I tHoUghT tHEre wAs A hAiR On mY ScReEN

@therebelartisteofficial 4 жыл бұрын

😂

@donna-elizabeth Жыл бұрын

It's all about the weather in the end. If you run out of things to say, the weather talk saves the situation...it always leads on to other subjects that spring from how the weather is affecting you, your plans ahead etc. Well known thing in the UK 🤣

@ronvavra Жыл бұрын

My wife and I had dinner with people we see occasionally. Not real close. The other couple are very outgoing and talkative but we came to one of those grinding halts where everybody just sits there wishing they were not there. Then the host asked "read any good books lately". We were off and running. It was brilliant.

@ltv9784 3 жыл бұрын

I tried to make my crush laugh by extra saying “Why” “Toronto” etc. But she just watched me awkwardly. Then I remembered that not everyone knows this comment section.

@jenniperkins4260 3 жыл бұрын

Hahaga

@Sam-ih9pi 3 жыл бұрын

@@jenniperkins4260 hahaga

@lukesmith8896 3 жыл бұрын

@@jenniperkins4260 hahaga

@hazyhope._. 3 жыл бұрын

@@jenniperkins4260 hahaga

@someoneyoumayknow5637 3 жыл бұрын

@@jenniperkins4260 hahaga

@socklips7655 4 жыл бұрын

1. Maintain an unblinking stare 2. Randomly and substantially change the tone of your voice. 3. Respond to all of their responses with "As was foretold in the prophecy"

@martinprince7773 4 жыл бұрын

Socklips and then follow up with “Bring me the child!”

@00wolfQUEEN 4 жыл бұрын

I love you guys

@willrogers9932 4 жыл бұрын

@@martinprince7773 bonus points if you point to a pregnant lady

@lunacyrus2274 4 жыл бұрын

I’m so glad I had your advice

@Ryan-rv5em 4 жыл бұрын

LMFAOO

@cultless699 Жыл бұрын

Ayy this was a GREAT video. It was very friendly and positive, not making you feel awkward imagining saying these things because you also brang out some arguments with them. Also, very important is, for someone with ADD like me, and with poor memory too, this video was very short and to the point and you even made a recap at the end to remember easily. I mean, first off, it’s important to always be yourself but this video really help out people with social anxiety. Thank you, I will use this in my future conversations!❤

@iansarmiento23 2 жыл бұрын

This is great... For 1 on 1 conversations. I've got a friend who won't shut up in a group conversation and won't let anyone have a word in and he'll eventually change the subject.

@f.b.iagent3971 4 жыл бұрын

Me, talking to my cousin at her mum’s funeral Me: this reminds me of that time my aunt died

@bingbong5786 4 жыл бұрын

John McKenvil r/woooooosh

@Zangetsu_ 4 жыл бұрын

John McKenvil LMAO

@fade2008 4 жыл бұрын

@John McKenvil But you didn't give any signs that u understood. Sooo how do you like Toronto

@MushisCow 4 жыл бұрын

@@fade2008 *_Why?_*

@fade2008 4 жыл бұрын

@@MushisCow ummmm *_Nice weather, huh?_*

@audreythorpe6962 3 жыл бұрын

My fav question to ask when convo goes quiet is “how do u think chairs would work if our Knees bent backwards” I’ve had some wild convos from it

@harambe8302 3 жыл бұрын

That question is so random lol

@fercam4792 3 жыл бұрын

Lmaoo

@rustyshackleford3917 3 жыл бұрын

You’re a saint Audrey

@tomjones6277 3 жыл бұрын

Having read this comment yesterday and asked this question today I can confirm the results are legendary

@edsonq.valencia1802 3 жыл бұрын

Or something like "have you ever asked yourself if hippos think that rhinos are unicorns?"

@SG003 Жыл бұрын

I'm quite introverted and I'm more of a listener than talker so I'm good with people who talks a lot.

@averyward2116 Жыл бұрын

I feel like as long as you're a good and kind person you can just say the first things that come to mind

@airyballoon 4 жыл бұрын

*at a bar* Me: you look like you come here often Her: What, I look like an alcoholic?? Me: what’s your story Her: I don’t have a drinking problem! Me: Tell me why

@nelmae6026 3 жыл бұрын

*Her, starts to get drunk and proceeds to loosen up:* ain't nothin but a heartache

@ej_matthewsart 3 жыл бұрын

@@nelmae6026 glad I wasn't the only person who though BSB lol

@sarahgebhardt404 3 жыл бұрын

🎵Ain't nothing but a heartache🎵

@fiipknife3830 3 жыл бұрын

@@sarahgebhardt404 TELL ME WHY

@sarahgebhardt404 3 жыл бұрын

@@fiipknife3830 ain't nothin' but a mistake

@reallynoname 2 жыл бұрын

I told my first date „You look like you enjoy McDonalds quite a lot!“ She really opened up, even raised her voice. It brought so much energy to the conversation.

@mitch1488 2 жыл бұрын

😂😂bruh lol

@alishamedlock4904 2 жыл бұрын

😩😂

@shiningnights 2 жыл бұрын

you really down bad 😭

@charlesm2627 Жыл бұрын

🤣

@EchelonPandora Жыл бұрын

Man this made me smile so hard XD

@zxkredo Жыл бұрын

Also learning not to be akward in silence is great too. You don't need to be talking all the time. Very helpful video anyways! Sometimes you just wanna talk but don't find common ground.

@AstraalSolace Жыл бұрын

I like how some of these tips are the things that annoy me the most when people do them to me lol

@rottencheeseballs2496 4 жыл бұрын

Me: So what’s your story? Her: What do you mean by that? Me: ... Why? Her: *leaves* Me: sits to rewatch this video and take notes

@pragyanatri7942 4 жыл бұрын

Great!

@LadiiBlues14 3 жыл бұрын

😂😂😂😂😂

@erfanfekri7156 3 жыл бұрын

😂😂😂

@amethystspeaker6919 3 жыл бұрын

🤣🤣🤣

@belieall9974 3 жыл бұрын

practice makes perfect 👌🏻

@LegitSarchie 3 жыл бұрын

Teacher: where’s your homework? Me: *takes deep breath whilst maintaining eye contact* Teacher: what are you doing? Me: so why did you decide to be a teacher? Teacher: excuse me? *awkward silence* Me: How do you like Toronto?

@no-fc9tp 3 жыл бұрын

teacher: asks for homework* student: “but why?

@salmanallam2012 3 жыл бұрын

AYEEEE sarchie is heree 😍🤣

@mayarchithung4683 3 жыл бұрын

RIP bro😂

@ahegde1004 3 жыл бұрын

Epic 👌🏻

@LegitSarchie 3 жыл бұрын

@@salmanallam2012 you watch the my videos?😂

@katlibby83 Жыл бұрын

I’ve been using your tips at job interviews and they’re working great! Thank you!

@matthewclark7952 Жыл бұрын

Good tips, I shall definitely give this a go. I suffer badly from social anxiety disorder but I’m trying to improve the whole time.

@Zwervar_ 4 жыл бұрын

Barber: "So what do you do for work?" Me: "I'm a cashier, what about you?" *awkward silence*

@d9095 4 жыл бұрын

lmaoo

@amirtamang4210 4 жыл бұрын

😭😭😭

@kristiteneqexhi5833 4 жыл бұрын

Gold

@panlis6243 4 жыл бұрын

I actually did this once. Most akward 10 minutes of my life

@FlikkieFloekieFlakkie 4 жыл бұрын

omg yeah I've actually been there... ooff

@unacuentadeyoutube13 3 жыл бұрын

- This place reminds me of my grandma's death. - Maybe that's because it's my mum's funeral. - How did she die? - I don't want to talk about it, please. - Ok. How did you meet each other? *Akward silence* - How's your mum doing?

@penglu364 3 жыл бұрын

🤣🤣

@frossknight3209 3 жыл бұрын

This one's underrated

@kylewadley5031 3 жыл бұрын

That sounds like something that Oversimplified would write for his videos😂

@Lucas-gx8ic 3 жыл бұрын

Ouch 😂

@rhitoja1 2 жыл бұрын

I'd love to like thus comment vut really dont wanna ruin the fine like counts 420

@vatos3367 Жыл бұрын

Whenever I have a silence with someone I ask him whether he/she wants to talk or enjoy the environment. When they wanna talk I‘ll ask which topic he/she wants to discuss. You‘ll build easily a conversation again. If he/she chooses the other option it’s not awkward anymore. Besides they will start a convo again about how happy they are/like the environment/ you know when….etc

@mohsenjan4540 Жыл бұрын

that was great. thanks for your precious channel. I really appreciate it. many many thanks.

@aurilio5633 4 жыл бұрын

Me: *Looks at flower* Also me: Woah, That flower reminds me of flowers.

@panlis6243 4 жыл бұрын

Why?

@tania2299 4 жыл бұрын

Bahahah

@Josuh 4 жыл бұрын

h o w d o y o u l i k e t o r o n t o ?

@preciousoh705 4 жыл бұрын

Does it look like it would be great with kids?

@thefamoustoilet4632 3 жыл бұрын

@@preciousoh705 LOL

@whim_tv 4 жыл бұрын

"how do you like Toronto" "I've never been there" "why?" "because I live in another country" "this reminds me of the time I didn't have anything to say"

@puthtikmony4071 4 жыл бұрын

Haha😂

@16ounceproductions 4 жыл бұрын

💀💀💀

@skie6282 3 жыл бұрын

That reminds me that i live in a different country lol

@robertkruse6035 3 жыл бұрын

except he misspelled toranto

@Noctifern 3 жыл бұрын

Toranto lmao

@angelogabriel2316 Жыл бұрын

what a fantastic video! i have some problems about talking to other people, i think acctually that it is the bigest problem i have, so with this video i learned some things new im will try next time i see someone. THANK YOU

@LifeIsGood1992 Жыл бұрын

This is the no BS content that is helping us in real life 🙏👌

@jaimieomalla8676 3 жыл бұрын

I haven't laughed/cried this hard in ages. Love this comment section

@yazdanahmed7790 3 жыл бұрын

Made my day!

@Leo-kd1xy 3 жыл бұрын

Mine too!

@daliblue_ 3 жыл бұрын

Same!!

@itsmanasK 3 жыл бұрын

What's your age?

@alishaikh3663 3 жыл бұрын

Same, this comment section is hilarious..

@Ant-jt7ur 5 жыл бұрын

friend: i got an A in my maths exam me:why?

@NoblestStrive 5 жыл бұрын

Why did you decide to get an A?

@Choo-choo-chookcha 5 жыл бұрын

friend: i got an A in my maths exam you: So how do you like Toranto?

@justinchoi6334 5 жыл бұрын

Her: I hung out with my family and i really enjoyed it me: *getting comfortable with silence* me: so you enjoyed yourself?

@jeffrenjr 5 жыл бұрын

Friend: *I got an A in Maths* Me: *How do you guys know each other?*

@AnnaMarianne 5 жыл бұрын

Actually... that wouldn't be too bad a question. "How did you get an A?" That opens up lots of possibilities to start talking about studying, school, how he other one has felt in the past weeks, personal habits, things the other one is or isn't interested in, etc.

@AbsurdShark Жыл бұрын

Thank you, i tried the mentioned tips, and my cat reacted nicely.

@jonny_sm884 Жыл бұрын

I'd really like to learn something here... BUT I CAN'T STOP VIBING TO EXURB1AS MUSIC!!

@deusvult3103 4 жыл бұрын

Girl sitting alone on the bench. Me: Hi She: Hi Me: So how do you guys know each other ?

@amirtamang4210 4 жыл бұрын

🤣🤣🤣🤣

@f.b.iagent3971 4 жыл бұрын

That one was on you, if you had replied “why” then you guys would have had a better conversation

@deusvult3103 4 жыл бұрын

@@f.b.iagent3971 hahahah you are right FBI...I'm gonna remember it for the next time. Thank you ✌

@izzys1035 4 жыл бұрын

😂😂😂

@OldVids_ 4 жыл бұрын

*runs away*

@Anny-me9ny 4 жыл бұрын

“So how do you like Toronto?” “ I don’t” “Well that’s *N I c E*

@MrMastermeier 4 жыл бұрын

How do you like Toronto? Yes it’s Nice

@davidkamski5286 4 жыл бұрын

Annnddd we're back to square 1 lol

@dee8163 4 жыл бұрын

"i don't" "Is it the traffic or crowd? I've heard it can get crowded?" (I'm learning so much from this channel)

@madmisskelly 4 жыл бұрын

I always laugh and add "well at least you're honest!"

@kblc7952 4 жыл бұрын

*WHY?*

@Anonymous-ev3rl Жыл бұрын

I usually try to convince myself to stay calm like I'm comfortable in the silence and then the other person becomes comfortable as well. It usually helps if there's somewhere I can look off to like the sea or people walking by