A Surprising Way to Make Him Chase You | Dating Advice for Women by Mat Boggs

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Mat Boggs

Mat Boggs

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Mat Boggs shares dating advice for women and a surprising way to make your man pursue you.
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VIDEOS ABOUT COMMUNICATION WITH MEN (Communication Advice)
3 Things You Can Say To Make Him Feel Like a Man
• 3 Things You Can Say t...
5 Things Never to Say When Fighting (How To Communicate)
• 5 Things to "Never" Sa...
What to Say When a "Vanisher" Comes Back
• What to Say When a "Va...
VIDEOS ABOUT DATING ADVICE
7 (FALSE!) Reasons You're Still Single
• 7 (False!) Reasons You...
Funny First Date Story! Gotta hear this?
• Funny First Date Story...
What NOT to do on a First Date (Strange But True)
• What NOT to Do on a FI...
VIDEOS ABOUT UNDERSTANDING MEN
Why he acts interested, then disappears?(The inside answer most don't know)
• Why He Acts Interested...
Scared of getting hurt again? Use this mindset?
• Scared of Getting Hurt...
When Should You Sleep With Him?
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VIDEOS ABOUT WHAT MEN WANT / HOW TO TELL IF HE LIKES YOU
The Kind of Confidence Men Find Sexy
• The Kind of Confidence...
5 Unusual Signs Your Man is into You!
• 5 Unusual Signs Your M...
How to tell if he is emotionally available
• How to Tell If He Is E...
VIDEOS ABOUT CONFIDENCE AND SELF-WORTH
3 Affirmations to Attract Love
• 3 Affirmations to Attr...
3 Ways to Create More Self-Love
• 3 Ways to Create More ...
Uncool is the New Cool (5 ?Uncool? Things I Do)
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Mat Boggs Bio:
As a sought-after dating and relationship coach for women and international speaker, Mat Boggs has helped thousands of women understand men, improve their relationships, and attract the relationship they want.
As the best-selling author of Project Everlasting, and creator of Cracking The Man Code, Mat Boggs? dating and relationship advice has been featured on national media including The Today Show, CNN, Headline News, Oprah and Friends, and many more.
Mat's Mission: To increase love in the world, one heart at a time.
As a dating coach for women, Mat believes that your history does not determine your destiny, and that you are more powerful than any circumstance you are facing. The relationship dream in your heart really can become the life you love living!
Mat Boggs highly acclaimed relationship programs have served women around the world in all age groups from 20yrs old to over 70yrs old.
If you’re interested in receiving help attracting love or improving your relationship click here: www.crackingthemancode.com/coa...
Directed and Editing By: Alexis Garcia
Written By: Mathew Boggs
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@matboggs
@matboggs Жыл бұрын
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@summysauceasmr
@summysauceasmr 4 жыл бұрын
don't get distracted by chemistry, build the connection. Take your time!!
@patsummer135
@patsummer135 2 жыл бұрын
Perfectly said 😥 that's my problem, that's what I have to change 🤦🏻‍♀️
@FlamingCockatiel
@FlamingCockatiel 11 ай бұрын
Good advice, but I don't know how to follow it.
@CrystalDatingCoach
@CrystalDatingCoach 4 жыл бұрын
Stop texting. Stop calling. Stop being always available! You stop chasing him...if he's really interested. He'll start chasing you.
@AngelSanchez-sn6jg
@AngelSanchez-sn6jg 4 жыл бұрын
Ok 👌
@ashy1111
@ashy1111 3 жыл бұрын
So true i have to start that😇
@thecrazysarecomin
@thecrazysarecomin 3 жыл бұрын
Or we just think , meh she ain't interested or is playing games which pings red flags , so we move on , hang out with our buddies, concentrate with work and carry on with life .
@n2organic
@n2organic 3 жыл бұрын
There’s a balance. What I find fun in a budding relationship is reciprocal enthusiasm. When two people are openly and unabashedly interested in each other. There’s no need for playing games when this kind of synergy exists. Holding back like this suggests, will only have a bad result and is indicative of immaturity. On the other hand, I do think men enjoy being the pursuers so at some point allowing him to “chase” but responding positively to his advances raises good energy!
@CrystalDatingCoach
@CrystalDatingCoach 3 жыл бұрын
@@n2organic Yes and No. Enthusiasm OK... To much is a BIG TURN Off. Calling and Texting every time you think of them. Makes you look Desperate.
@nafisaabdi4698
@nafisaabdi4698 4 жыл бұрын
1.THE INCITING ACCIDENT 2.A CALL TO FREEDOM 3.BAND TOGETHER 4.COURAGEOUS ACTION
@jennyjen3985
@jennyjen3985 2 жыл бұрын
1.The inciting incident *
@briana14333
@briana14333 4 жыл бұрын
I think it's lovely that when you prioritize yourself, your man prioritizes you. This was great. Thank you!
@LOADING...o.o.o
@LOADING...o.o.o 4 жыл бұрын
Now I only take advice from people who are married. Like this channel. He is doing everything right and I should listen to him.
@n2organic
@n2organic 3 жыл бұрын
I love this guy. I admit I was skeptical when I saw the title and almost didn’t watch, but I’m glad I did. Nurturing oneself is a beautiful way to approach being ready for a man in ones life--to give yourself what you want from him and be the person you’re looking for.
@chewyyyl
@chewyyyl Жыл бұрын
Ĺ8ìòoooll
@nsotara
@nsotara 4 жыл бұрын
I want a loving, caring , exciting relationship where me and my partner are connecting at a deeper level of understanding😊 and there is warmth, love, sunshine and all the good things in life❤️
@nuramirah9848
@nuramirah9848 4 жыл бұрын
I agree to this 100% Finally someone said it! I was too afraid to admit all of this because I thought I was wrong and was gonna lose the man that wants me. Thank you for giving me hope as well as motivation! 👍🏽
@ireneluvharry
@ireneluvharry 3 жыл бұрын
I always use “ self love “ coz loving yourself is not selfish at all. Its really about knowing your value and worth as a woman. And we should never apologize for having high standards in love because the right man or the man who really wants to be in your life will rise up to meet those standards" 💯he have to prove himself that he is the missing piece of me then his indeed my person .
@ElizabethLawson4MORE
@ElizabethLawson4MORE 4 жыл бұрын
I have made quantum leaps forward recently and want to continue in that realm of finding my Voice. Vulnerability, confidence, compassion. Just being me and having fun. I have a man. My story involves the death of my husband of 37 years, my grieving, and now this move forward into a new and expressively freer relationship. To me, I have learned over the years with my precious husband that what is most important is sexual intimacy and that is linked closely to personal intimacy. I am discovering, as in a journey, in my new relationship how to carry ME, who I am, authentically and vulnerably. A whole new world!!
@maryhixon1164
@maryhixon1164 4 жыл бұрын
I need to stop being so 'nice', soft and worrying about hurting his feelings.
@jammyjay917
@jammyjay917 4 жыл бұрын
Same..... Self love, do what makes you happy.
@natalied6923
@natalied6923 3 жыл бұрын
The interesting thing is, you rob him of the opportunity to do it for himself, turning into a mommy no mentally normal guy feels attraction towards! So live and LET LIVE!
@jasprerph
@jasprerph 3 жыл бұрын
I would say be kind and considerate BUT make yourself a priority first. Take care of yourself first and then do nice things for him if you can. Don't sacrifice for a man that you just met.
@suzieburnette1677
@suzieburnette1677 3 жыл бұрын
I have the very same problem...
@CrystalDatingCoach
@CrystalDatingCoach 3 жыл бұрын
He needs to be worrying about yours. Your the Prize!
@deliapasqualini970
@deliapasqualini970 4 жыл бұрын
I do love this encouragement. Love yourself first. Thank you❤️
@aleinalister3661
@aleinalister3661 4 жыл бұрын
Matt, you have no idea how much I needed to hear Meredith's story and your advice... Thank you!
@hirutnegash5819
@hirutnegash5819 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you Mat for confirming my actions. I did all that you said. I am in a total bliss with this person at this moment; of course to early to predict but definitely I am at peace with the decision I made. Decision of choosing the man of my dreams
@stormstringfellow3928
@stormstringfellow3928 4 жыл бұрын
Matt. I’ve been following you for years. I used to watch your videos all the time. I’m in love now yet he is so insecure. He brings out a side to me I never knew I had. Love is wonderful and your advice is amazing, yet men have issues too and I wish they had a friend like you.
@swinxfee
@swinxfee 3 жыл бұрын
How has it been going?
@briannedanielle
@briannedanielle 4 жыл бұрын
Love this, you really nailed it! I needed to hear this today, right now.
@sarah-junenadeau8215
@sarah-junenadeau8215 4 жыл бұрын
This was an amazing video! Thank you🥰and music in background makes it so much fun I like it!
@amydeleon3387
@amydeleon3387 4 жыл бұрын
Hooray for Meredith! What a fantastic example! Great advising for reminders that we forget over time. Isn't it amazing the level of low treatment we (men & women) are willing to put up with? My courageous action is to be single for a while & work on myself more! I'd love to end/stop the insane perceived need of ppl to be BUSY all the time so that they could truly enjoy & cherish their time together.
@Michelle7.17
@Michelle7.17 4 жыл бұрын
Matt, I think that this has been your best video/advice so far! Excellent job!!👍🏼
@sea2sky
@sea2sky 4 жыл бұрын
I noticed while watching this video, I'm slowly transitioning between chasing to be chased. I'm starting to project who I am, but I still have times where I want to become somebody else to please certain men. Really thinking about it, I have noticed some men chasing me, and I'm letting go of men that I chased after. It's really quite the vulnerable moment. Although I have always wanted men to chase me, I sort of find it scary? Emotional growth - the most sought after yet scary development.
@anavanana1
@anavanana1 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this advice ! It’s worth gold !!! 💜
@c.b.2321
@c.b.2321 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much from a woman (58 years young) in Northern Germany :-))
@terrierichards6738
@terrierichards6738 4 жыл бұрын
Matthew you’re so inspiring. !Do you have this boyish sweetness about you. Very unique. Love for people. Thank you for your Encouraging videos that make impact in our lives
@clairexxx0405
@clairexxx0405 4 жыл бұрын
I so do those things you said.... I’ve been shielding for 4 months it’s knocked my confidence .... my revolution would be to stop over caring about people who don’t show care back.... But it’s a HUGE ask, like learning a whole new way to be?! 😳Thanks Matt have a fantabulous 4th of July 🤗
@clairexxx0405
@clairexxx0405 4 жыл бұрын
@Steve H Thank you so much for your support and I know your right, I think having being in a abusive relationship effects how you think of yourself and losing my Beautiful little boy impacted that greatly as grief does, thanks again 🤗 x
@richardrivas3294
@richardrivas3294 3 жыл бұрын
When you believe that you deserve a good guy, that’s when you will attract him.Your brain will filter out the trash
@nabilarahim5911
@nabilarahim5911 5 ай бұрын
I love this view into your garden with these beautiful red flowers in the background...had to listen a second time😂
@earthangel6116
@earthangel6116 4 жыл бұрын
Can you do advice videos for single mothers? I just feel that when a woman has a child it changes the rules of the dating game and makes it that nore challenging.
@rebeccaeichornerdiakoff9883
@rebeccaeichornerdiakoff9883 4 жыл бұрын
Agreed! Please! 🤗
@shelleysanders9666
@shelleysanders9666 4 жыл бұрын
I agree: the relationship advisors on Toutube don't give specofic advice for single parents (nor the older age group of age 50+ daters)..
@LouiseSantiano
@LouiseSantiano 4 жыл бұрын
Hugs momma
@foxerrr7864
@foxerrr7864 4 жыл бұрын
Yessss
@rowenaramsaran6568
@rowenaramsaran6568 3 жыл бұрын
Hey Sis, find a way to mention that you have a child, in the first convo or day. You & your child/children are a package deal. They can't have one without the other. Some may run, & although that doesn't feel good, Know that it filters the candidates that are not for you are your kids. Someone may really like you but 1)not be prepared to deal with the nuances that comes with dating someone with kids 2)being with a partner with children that are not his may not be part of what he wants for his life (nothing wrong with this, his goals are valuable to him). Sometimes hearing that the person you're interested in has kids may take you by suprise but if there is a mutual interest, budding and great chemistry there, you'd want to study the person & would become genuinely interested in the well-being of the person's kids. Gradually becoming emotionally invested in them as individuals instead of only the fact that they're your kids. Eg. E🌻 & N🎸 meet, discover a mutual attraction & chemistry. N mentions having a kid. Took E by suprise but N wasn't ashamed of or trying to hide his kid to draw E in (he doesn't know if that's a deal breaker with her or not). E wasn't expecting that but appreciates N was honest from early about such an important subject. He in fact earns a bit if her respect for being honest. E has never been in that situation before but decide to get to know him better. They develop a friendship & E learns about both N & his daughter. In fact, begins to study N & his daughter (through listening attentively & asking questions). Friendship, mutual attraction & chemistry deepens, grows into something more. E appreciates, respects & treats N & his kid as a Team. Respect, appreciation, admiration, & love develops on both sides. E becomes emotionally invested in N's daughter. N is extra careful not to jump the gun & introduce E too soon to his daughter. E understands & respects that timing is delicate & crucial, so she doesn't push him. When N reads his daughter & the timing, realizes they're ready, then introduces E to his daughter. Going in, E protects their peace of mind... and especially her own. Realizes that daughter may not even like her(because E is not her mom), but N loves her (E) & she (E) is willing to invest in a relationship with his daughter. How that works, depends on the adults. It's not easy & honestly, it's not for everyone. Trust your intuition, Momma. Let him earn a place in your life but don't treat him as though as long as he is willing to invest & whatever he is willing to invest is the cost of admission, so to speak. If he is still interested in you, as a person, when he is told you have kids, then appreciate him for it. This is just one perspective from someone who doesnt have kids but deeply values a person who was honest that he has a kid. It's not a deal breaker for everyone. Know your worth, Momma & be willing to walk away if dating a single mom is not what he wants for his life. He wasn't right for you & there is someone who is. Develop a friendship for a while to learn what he is really like beyond his words... you get to see his true attitudes & perspectives.
@leakieling7613
@leakieling7613 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much! That’s just what I needed to hear!
@asmashamim9878
@asmashamim9878 3 жыл бұрын
Hi Mathew I love your way of talking your sense of humour and your informative videos, well done!
@KB-hf3ym
@KB-hf3ym 3 жыл бұрын
My ok’d moms advice is this: “The FIRST time YOU CALL HIM You’ve LOST HIM”
@KB-hf3ym
@KB-hf3ym 3 жыл бұрын
Old
@richardrivas3294
@richardrivas3294 3 жыл бұрын
When you believe that you deserve a good guy, that’s when you will attract him.Your brain will filter out the trash
@ThingsILove2266
@ThingsILove2266 3 жыл бұрын
Exactly- don’t deny a man the hunt
@richardrivas3294
@richardrivas3294 3 жыл бұрын
@@ThingsILove2266 very correct miss!! Where are you from?!
@CrystalDatingCoach
@CrystalDatingCoach 3 жыл бұрын
Mom is right! Your the Prize...let him TRY to Win you!
@charamos4593
@charamos4593 4 жыл бұрын
Hi matt can u make a video where you can advice people who's in LDR to stay connected and strong despite of this pandemic
@runningbike7060
@runningbike7060 4 жыл бұрын
Mat, I loved your Revolutionary Plan! Have always enjoyed your videos and insight. I am also a big believer in listening to your gut. The gut is never wrong, and has protected me from harm. When dating, it is critical to listen! I hope all enjoy the day! ☺️
@thepatriciaway8169
@thepatriciaway8169 4 жыл бұрын
Thanks Matt for the awesome tips. Just realized I need to stop chasing the version of myself I want and BE that Confident high value woman that I am. My revolutionary is I want to create is to allow my man to chase and pursue me like he already does😄
@Ash-hb5ty
@Ash-hb5ty 4 жыл бұрын
Wow recently I’ve had an Epiphany about needing to love myself first so I can set my standards and find a relationship I can actually be happy in. Then I see this video in my recommended 💕
@faithm9284
@faithm9284 3 жыл бұрын
Confirmation. ; )
@CrystalDatingCoach
@CrystalDatingCoach 3 жыл бұрын
If you don't love yourself...you can't expect others too.
@Kylojulie89
@Kylojulie89 4 жыл бұрын
I’m so annoyed I just found you!!! I’m binge watching your videos your incredible and just helped me through a really messed up connection. Thank you so much you gained a follower 🙏🏼❤️🙏🏼❤️🙏🏼
@SandraHernandez-cl1if
@SandraHernandez-cl1if 3 жыл бұрын
Do you really need help to restore your relationship permanently?
@carolynbowman2099
@carolynbowman2099 3 жыл бұрын
Most definitely. Thank you!
@kimfrederick7710
@kimfrederick7710 4 жыл бұрын
I love your stories they are so helpful and they show your enthusiasm for your work! Thank you, I truly enjoy listening to your videos
@richardrivas3294
@richardrivas3294 3 жыл бұрын
When you believe that you deserve a good guy, that’s when you will attract him.Your brain will filter out the trash
@monikndrea
@monikndrea 3 жыл бұрын
Nice! I like your videos, thank you for sharing.
@gigi121
@gigi121 4 жыл бұрын
Great video! Very well-articulated
@marianw4280
@marianw4280 3 жыл бұрын
Oh this is exactly the affirmation I needed at this moment, Mat.
@nabilarahim5911
@nabilarahim5911 5 ай бұрын
Man, I love these red flowers in the background. Please give my regards to the person that ist taking such good care of the plants. Great job! ❤
@MadenNik
@MadenNik 4 жыл бұрын
What an advice man... thankyou and hats off to you matt!! 💘💘🌹🌹
@madisondurrenberger4147
@madisondurrenberger4147 4 жыл бұрын
I’d love to end the silence and no contact and be able to jump forth to the talking stage and hanging out going on little dates getting to know eachother again !
@coly4ever
@coly4ever 3 жыл бұрын
I’ve been wanting to say something but I’ve been afraid of seemed angry or needy, but this video motivated me to speak my mind.
@danielagreene5338
@danielagreene5338 3 жыл бұрын
Oooh, 😮 this helped sooo much! Thank you! 🙏
@maidavale1675
@maidavale1675 4 жыл бұрын
I met the love of my life on a dating site as well. I have met him once before lockdown. After that its all virtual. But this really helps us to know ourselves better into a deeper level. Strong bond was developed. When meeting friends with social distancjng allowed we dated but 2 meters away as well. But that makes us feel of chasing each other. I think the most important thing in a relationship or meeting someone on a date or in a site no pretensions. Just be yourself. Dont step into the level where you should do this so they will like you. Me i showed who really i am. Being you is you for them to accept no matter who we are.
@ryanarket9082
@ryanarket9082 2 жыл бұрын
May you please suggest this dating sites, I need a faithful husband
@janettedonayre5501
@janettedonayre5501 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you Matt your advices did help me so much in my life .
@vasilikitsekou5170
@vasilikitsekou5170 4 жыл бұрын
Greatreminder. Repetition is the mother of knowledge.reprograme our subconscious! Thanks Mathew.
@taniaioannou6507
@taniaioannou6507 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you! Happy fourth of July!
@LouiseLanguage
@LouiseLanguage 2 жыл бұрын
Literally so glad I found this channel
@jasprerph
@jasprerph 3 жыл бұрын
This is an eternal truth of life . If we want our life to change, WE need to change our thoughts and behaviors.
@katekoger1794
@katekoger1794 7 ай бұрын
I really appreciate all your videos! The help, the insight, the encouragement, it's incredibly assuring when I'm feeling lost or confused. Single or dating I'm trying to learn and open my heart, trusting that what's right for me will find me. Keep being amazing Mat!
@phyllismontoroula6454
@phyllismontoroula6454 4 жыл бұрын
I was being myself standing up to someone was picking on another person that's what made him love me
@rebeccanewbaker7839
@rebeccanewbaker7839 3 жыл бұрын
Wow, I’ve heard this concept before, but the way you said it awakened some parts that I didn’t realize have needed love and attention. Maybe my guy will rise up to love those essential areas or maybe another man will be manifested... i feel grateful for your time love and energy in researching and sharing such important keys to love in ways that are easier to hear 🙏😍
@almamonta1825
@almamonta1825 3 жыл бұрын
I love all your video Matt :), thank you very much.
@lorettamiller2679
@lorettamiller2679 4 жыл бұрын
I find your methods so soothing.
@heemapandya6141
@heemapandya6141 4 жыл бұрын
Make so much sense ... love listening to you 😍
@milagrinafernandes3001
@milagrinafernandes3001 4 жыл бұрын
Very helpful videos dear, thanks a lot for sharing this video
@mummyolivia3940
@mummyolivia3940 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing such great tips,u have motivated me n helped me shaped my content. I believe if I share this on my channel they will love it. Thanks math
@shatorres123
@shatorres123 4 жыл бұрын
I have been watching you on KZfaq for a long time ! You great 👍🏻
@nellyshivere4267
@nellyshivere4267 4 жыл бұрын
Amen thank you for this new clip 😊😊i feel asif its me.
@twinflameswithtempy7019
@twinflameswithtempy7019 3 жыл бұрын
That’s my line too! If nothing changes nothing changes
@janethiew6849
@janethiew6849 4 жыл бұрын
Good point。Thankyou, sir。
@Shaniceisdivine
@Shaniceisdivine 2 жыл бұрын
I like your choice of words. Easily communicated and comprehensible.
@libbyschaefer7745
@libbyschaefer7745 4 жыл бұрын
love it, thanks Mat!!
@hauntedbyspins
@hauntedbyspins 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you Matt! Its brilliant and beautiful! 🙏🙏🙏
@casdesigncatering912
@casdesigncatering912 4 жыл бұрын
I binge watching your videos and you are amazing i always smile and just be like awww you nailed so many points
@nafisatuumar5579
@nafisatuumar5579 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing am in call for freedom stage now😃
@dmt0430
@dmt0430 2 жыл бұрын
happy to find out I already have entered into the revolution! I had a developmental epiphany and realized I do not want to be in a relationship with those that are difficult to be with and have toxic behaviors. So I’ve reduced back my relating to family who treat me that way.
@amberjones3221
@amberjones3221 2 жыл бұрын
Hi, get anyone you love or (SP) attracted to you. And also get your EX back coming to you begging you for a second chance through the help of Dr Steve, he helped me restore my 5 years broken relationship. Also Dr Steve always keep up with his words, I will advise you seek his help thanks.
@amberjones3221
@amberjones3221 2 жыл бұрын
Message him on Whatsapp
@michelesabini4639
@michelesabini4639 4 жыл бұрын
If nothing changes... nothing changes!! OMG!! I love that so much!! I’ve been following you before you were married. You are always SPOT ON for insight! Had the opportunity to meet you in person at an event and will never forget your hug! One of the BEST hugs I’ve ever received. You are genuine and gifted in your wisdom and caring for people. I admire you and respect you as a person, man, husband and especially as a father! WOW! Wish the world had more men like you in it! Thanks, Mat for being such an inspiration and coach to so many! I’m a happier woman for who I am because of your influence! Happy 4th! Celebrate well!
@natalied6923
@natalied6923 3 жыл бұрын
Nice thought with the chasing! Love that!
@angelawiggins7651
@angelawiggins7651 3 жыл бұрын
You're the best Matt. Thank you.
@greeneyesgemini9750
@greeneyesgemini9750 4 жыл бұрын
I love this encouragement, Even though I already do this & have too many men chasing after me almost every where I go, & I'm not even that beautiful, well, I don't think I am.. my honey disagrees, though. & I never act on those other chasers.
@almaengberg313
@almaengberg313 4 жыл бұрын
Great video. I did have a big "fed up" moment myself recently, and I can see how important what he says is. I did start trying to date all kinda different men and giving them more of a chance. I guess the other steps are still ahead though! I would love to date more and meet more quality men that could be into my kinda lifestyle. I am trying to give myself options and not do my usual mistake, to put everything on one man that i have a thing for.
@LemansSunset350
@LemansSunset350 4 жыл бұрын
You sound exactly like me lol
@donnacummins6904
@donnacummins6904 4 жыл бұрын
I ended up hurt by a guy I was pursuing. I was told he was shy and was continuing this pursuit. I felt he liked me. I turned away guys who like me because I didn't want him to stop talking to me and he seemed jealous if I did spend time with others Kept waiting for the date. Never happened. Last time I saw him, he instead was pursuing a young attractive blonde. I put my life on hold. Should never had done.
@Rachel_PureBold
@Rachel_PureBold 4 жыл бұрын
Thanks Matt. I have a long-term on-off friend / boyfriend. Currently we are apart because of social distancing. We are very different and maybe not entirely suited but we do have quite a deep emotional bond. I I do believe he loves me in his own way and does not have another partner, but I don't think he wants to step up and be a proper boyfriend. He always talks about really intense serious subjects so that I can't easily change the conversation on to something as mundane as what I want from my relationship! When I do raise the subject he will give me an ambiguous reassurance and then get off back onto some subject to do with politics, economics or the arts.
@nitakalisingh9445
@nitakalisingh9445 2 жыл бұрын
Well said!!! Soms voelt het alsof je je perspectief kwijtraakt.Maar als je dan wat beter kijkt,zie je dat zich juist op zulke momenten nieuwe mogelijkheden openbaren.Om te groeien heb je af en toe een periode van reflectie nodig,zodat je nieuwe kansen ziet die je anders nooit had opgemerkt of zelfs helemaal niet voor mogelijk had geacht.OP NAAR EEN NIEUW HOOFDSTUK.
@bucefam
@bucefam 2 жыл бұрын
I'm a hopeless romantic, I don't connect with many people. It has to be a deep connection beyond looks, or physical. The problem is, I see the good in people and overlook their issues, ignore the red flags, and because I'm a people pleaser, I need more boundaries! I need to stop accepting bad behavior because I see potential. Sometimes I feel like my mission in life is to love the unlovable. Ugg
@beverlypatterson2550
@beverlypatterson2550 Жыл бұрын
Wonderful advice ❤
@jendelaney5335
@jendelaney5335 4 жыл бұрын
Finding this video is my inciting incident, time for change thank you Matt 😊
@spreadthegospel6667
@spreadthegospel6667 2 жыл бұрын
Awesome video Matt! Time for change👍🏽
@maryamzizi2023
@maryamzizi2023 4 жыл бұрын
Great video Mathew😊😊
@anabella4296
@anabella4296 4 жыл бұрын
Happy 4th day to all Americans! Coming from a windy and cloudy UK.💚
@portia547
@portia547 4 жыл бұрын
This was so insightful. 😄
@terricornett5706
@terricornett5706 3 жыл бұрын
You are an absolute gift.
@melanieholstra4397
@melanieholstra4397 3 жыл бұрын
You are awesome!! So glad I found you!
@maxscot4236
@maxscot4236 3 жыл бұрын
Hello I can recomend you to someone that helped me get my ex back recently he can also help you just as he did mine too
@maxscot4236
@maxscot4236 3 жыл бұрын
Text him on WhatsApp and
@maxscot4236
@maxscot4236 3 жыл бұрын
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@rosalysmartinez2153
@rosalysmartinez2153 2 жыл бұрын
Great video! 💯
@tontonmestandingtall9289
@tontonmestandingtall9289 2 жыл бұрын
Hair looks awesome Matt and that blue shirt is great color on you
@mirembeleahaisha
@mirembeleahaisha 4 жыл бұрын
I need a revolution for sure. Thanks Matt
@ericafletcher8416
@ericafletcher8416 3 жыл бұрын
He's speaking so much sense here. Don't be the version of you you think they'll like best, just be yourself. It explains so much about why I have spent so much of my life single. I wasn't being myself. It's a form of betrayal of yourself really, and only leads to poor self respect. Be you, be honest, be kind, be respectful. It's how to filter out the wrong'uns.
@SandraHernandez-cl1if
@SandraHernandez-cl1if 3 жыл бұрын
I know of a man who's capable of fixing broken 💔 relationships without delay...
@SandraHernandez-cl1if
@SandraHernandez-cl1if 3 жыл бұрын
Contact him now on WhatsApp...
@SandraHernandez-cl1if
@SandraHernandez-cl1if 3 жыл бұрын
+ 1 5 3 0 7 3 9 1 3 3 3___,,
@shalhevetengelson5850
@shalhevetengelson5850 3 жыл бұрын
I love the revolution metaphor!!
@purplemoon8637
@purplemoon8637 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks Mat!
@natureuniverse867
@natureuniverse867 4 жыл бұрын
You are amazing and honest love that ❤
@zenaidacariaga4324
@zenaidacariaga4324 4 жыл бұрын
Love your advice 👍😉
@anetaneykova1
@anetaneykova1 4 жыл бұрын
I have a great relationship 3 years now because 1. I listened and followed yours and Adam Le Dolce's advies 2 I still listen follow your advices 3. I met an amazing man. Thank you 🥰🥰🥰
@DG-on9dz
@DG-on9dz 4 жыл бұрын
Did you get married or are you still gf?
@anetaneykova1
@anetaneykova1 4 жыл бұрын
@@DG-on9dz we both don't want to get ofissialy married. We live together, we enjoy our relationship, we travel every week, we have respect for each other's ME time. But having a successful relationship takes work,efforts and understanding. 🥰🥰🥰 besides getting married doesn't mean HAPPILY EVER AFTER. It depends on you both how you will make your every day relationship. Regards 🥰🥰
@nerisaednalino
@nerisaednalino 3 жыл бұрын
thank u for the tips sir
@valentinanocross8677
@valentinanocross8677 2 жыл бұрын
Kudos Matt. This is already happening and he's pulled back and I don't know what will happen. But I am meeting a lot of. Others along the way and new wonderful men showing up as I see my value more the matching is better
@Jooney91
@Jooney91 4 жыл бұрын
Nice video. What you describe in step 2 and 4 I call "a good girl syndrome". I was so guilty of this and even after my revolution I sometimes forget and do that again. And again and again a reaction from universe is that things go wrong, everytime. We women are taught to be caring and sharing, but nobody tells you that you should do that on your own terms, and especially nurture yourself in a first place. Be your own source of love, wisdom and happiness, because otherwise you cannot care and share. Empty bowl cannot feed anyone. 😉
@tainahollo8567
@tainahollo8567 2 жыл бұрын
I love this revolution aspect! 😀
@wildwoman4911
@wildwoman4911 4 жыл бұрын
Matthew, I love your points about revolution! I get it! Thank you! What a great template! I can use this for myself, in my spiritual guidance to others journey, and it will serve to help me in my providing guidance to women business gleam in my eye. P.S. I learned about what facilities paradigm shifts from reading Marilyn Ferguson's "The Aquarian Conspiracy"...just another word for revolution. If you haven't read it, I'd bet you'd love it...warning...it was slow reading until I got it...once, I did...it changed me.
@priyanshisinghchundawat9787
@priyanshisinghchundawat9787 3 жыл бұрын
I feel really blessed that I I subscribed your channel uncle.......................... love from India 😍😍😍😍 thanku so much ur making me more better day by day
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