A Unbearable Mess | Kim's Rude Awakening S1 Ep9

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3 жыл бұрын

From the remote control to the family cat, the Alexander-Bapties have lost track of everything inside their home… And when it comes to managing the mayhem, Mom is on her own. No one takes responsibility for their stuff… And no one lifts a finger to help out. With a home-based business, busy family schedule, and overwhelming backlog of laundry and collectibles, the mess has become unbearable for all. That’s where domestic diplomats - Kim Woodburn and Mike Chalut - come in. Determined to clean up the mess, they vow to set the family straight, teach Dad and the kids to pitch in, and restore the house to working condition… But can they get the family to work as a team and take responsibility for themselves?
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@A107S 3 жыл бұрын

It’s honestly the mom and dads responsibility to TEACH their kids responsibility. The kids don’t just know how to be tidy on their own. They need to be shown and then the parents need to be consistent to hold the whole family accountable. My oldest son is 6 and can clean better then most adult men. No excuses parents.

@daelincameron7572 3 жыл бұрын

the sheer DISRESPECT. poor mom

@katr9923 2 жыл бұрын

Wow! My mom had me doing laundry and taught me to iron when I was ten! Doing dishes, vacuuming, we were taught it all and expected to chip in. No allowance either. Our allowance was a roof over our. heads and three meals a day!

@florjose8461 2 жыл бұрын

My son is 6 and he can vacuum, he sometimes even vacuums after his baby sister when she makes a mess

@carolannpacificadam1944 10 ай бұрын

Exactly 💯. We had to keep house. My mom was mentally ill and we had the chores split amongst us all I'm grateful .

@ladybuglee001 3 жыл бұрын

The daughter laughingly says "I'm Lazy" that is nothing to be proud of!!

@ashleyj7011 2 жыл бұрын

So true

@lexiandalixa6640 3 жыл бұрын

This mom looks physically and emotionally drained

@nata3467 2 ай бұрын

the father is a hoarder

@samanthaabreu782 3 жыл бұрын

When your wife starts to dream about a place of her own, man, you are asking for divorce, this woman will not live like this anymore.

@Jane5720 3 жыл бұрын

That's the first thing that I thought of when this KZfaq started

@jackie6903 3 жыл бұрын

But she is not innocent either. She has been in a leadership parenting role and is responsible. I don't buy her victim role.

@ethankorbin894 3 жыл бұрын

not sure if you guys gives a damn but if you guys are stoned like me during the covid times then you can stream all of the latest series on InstaFlixxer. Have been binge watching with my brother recently :)

@kyriegary1355 3 жыл бұрын

@Ethan Korbin yup, been using InstaFlixxer for years myself =)

@dianebushby2510 3 жыл бұрын

@@jackie6903 She has been in the leadership role by herself...there is another parent in that household who would rather focus on his stuff than his wife, kids or home!!!

@lusimyer 3 жыл бұрын

The mum when she imitated the father sleeping!! Hahaha 😂😂😂

@seraphale 2 жыл бұрын

"This you" 😴😴😴

@nic8430B 3 жыл бұрын

Mum seems like a gorgeous human being, just overwhelmed and downtrodden. I really need to show this to my daughter, she's 15 and she thinks as the parent I should be doing everything and anything, the difference is I don't have a husband and she doesn't have siblings.

@viviennejordan215 2 жыл бұрын

Go on Strike Mom, as in doing things that Your daughter should be doing for Herself. Do Your own sorting, and let Her see the Results.

@robbrien8506 2 жыл бұрын

The father's smiling and nodding his head in agreement but you know inside he's saying: "Nope, Nope, Nope".

@poodlegirl55 3 жыл бұрын

I predict Mom will have her own apartment soon.

@McChrister 2 жыл бұрын

😱😂😂

@katehenry2718 2 жыл бұрын

No one is required to live with lazy messy demanding people. Gather your things. Hire a van. Move out. No divorce required.

@alison2984 2 жыл бұрын

@@katehenry2718 I agree I wouldn't stay with a man with this much clutter that doesn't help sort it out .... I'm a minimalist and have mild ocd so I wouldn't be able to cope with a house like this x

@madhatter909 2 жыл бұрын

we need a follow up

@user-gr1th4tm7k 2 жыл бұрын

My mom taught me how to keep house clean since I started walking. I do not imagine her reminding me to make my bed when I was 15.

@Ergmermerg 3 жыл бұрын

The key to a clean home is recognizing when you have too much stuff.

@AnwesaChaudhury 3 жыл бұрын

The father needs to be evaluated he sounds like a hoarder

@JojoplusBo 2 жыл бұрын

I evaluated him within in minutes… he is a hoarder! May have started out as “ collecting” but lost the grip and became hoarding.

@vandahuman8522 3 жыл бұрын

This is the life of thousands of mothers, a slave to their family.

@lexiandalixa6640 3 жыл бұрын

😥🙋‍♀️

@CAL-zq3dk 3 жыл бұрын

Mostly self inflicted.

@vanderbam2741 3 жыл бұрын

@@CAL-zq3dk no way. This is how society socialises women to be as mothers and wives. Many women are still raised this way. Their labour is being taken advantage of. I am very clear with my spouse that we have equal responsibility for children and household work.

@lisasim 2 жыл бұрын

Millions

@katepausig8562 2 жыл бұрын

She choose to be a mother. Don't feel sorry for mothers.

@katiethomas5889 3 жыл бұрын

You should be able to clean your home IF everyone also does their part. You re not their maid.

@KC-ve8qz 3 жыл бұрын

She’s 15 and doesn’t know how to use the washer?! Poor momma did this to herself. As soon as my kids could reach the washer they started helping. Happy they have a clear home now☀️

@lorabetht9206 3 жыл бұрын

I agree ☝️ my 3 teenagers do all their own laundry and clean their rooms (it’s not always to my standards but I know that they will be able to care for themselves in the future 😉)

@KC-ve8qz 3 жыл бұрын

@@lorabetht9206 exactly! That’s what parenting (to me) is all about. Their success in the world after we part ways. All kids need life skills and laundry is near the top on that list.

@oreobenavidez953 3 жыл бұрын

When my kids were young and I told them to pick up their toys and if they didn't it would be in the trash so pick up after themselves

@martzenvandenbroek 2 жыл бұрын

That washer is sooo old-fashioned! Hahahaha!

@katiethomas5889 2 жыл бұрын

@@lorabetht9206 I was doing my laundry as a teen and keeping my bedroom fairly clean.

@gill77771 2 жыл бұрын

My mom and dad worked... Mom taught me laundry, cleaning etc when I was in primary school.

@madhatter909 2 жыл бұрын

i was cooking my dad's dinner at 15 while my mom was at work. I did all the laundry. Got dropped off at the Laundromat and picked up when done. I could go on and on. It's the mother's fault for not teaching her anything when she was little.

@harriethunter8910 3 жыл бұрын

Love Kim. She is amazing. A no nonsense Lady. Loved her other show with Aggie McKenzie in England.

@lesley9989 2 жыл бұрын

She's great

@seraphale 2 жыл бұрын

How Clean is Your House was one of my favourite shows ever. Tough, but very caring.❤

@saniaminh 2 жыл бұрын

My mother would smash me out the window for the word "I'm lazy", glad that my mother was strict. Now, I deal with my Kids and I see it's easier to spoil them and not easy to be a strict parent. I'm still trying to figur out which strategies are the best way to learn the kids to do little chores like put their toys back in baskets or helping me folding their clothes. Those are small steps but necessary.

@jenniferhcsmith-5586 2 жыл бұрын

It's a good start in the right direction.

@tavaramirez668 3 жыл бұрын

They are lucky it was not my mom. The first time your room was a mess you came home from school and every living thing was in the center of the floor in a pile that you had to clean up. The 2nd time almost everything you owned was in the trash. All you had left was necessities and school clothes.

@katieantique7525 3 жыл бұрын

Me too! With my kids, trash bags were my best threat!

@poodlegirl55 3 жыл бұрын

If my Mom had to clean up our stuff she used to put it in garbage bags with a date on them and shove them in the attic. We had to do chores and wait a week to get the bag back.

@lusimyer 3 жыл бұрын

Great mums! 😁

@robynemacdonald5260 3 жыл бұрын

When my kids wouldn't put away their laundry I would dump out all their drawers and tell them now they can fold it all and put it away. That happened twice and they always put their clothes away after that

@katepausig8562 2 жыл бұрын

@@robynemacdonald5260 I still wouldn't have folded it.

@CaptchaNeon 3 жыл бұрын

Irresponsible children clearly raised by irresponsible adults. There’s a rule: when your kid is old enough to tear out things, they’re old enough to clean it up. However, the father clearly wants to be part of the kids and doesn’t want to raise his children properly and clearly that’s a generational fail. The teenage girl would have much more interest in paying attention if you turn off the internet and her cell phone that I know she doesn’t pay for.

@keishabethke7534 3 жыл бұрын

Sitting here, watching Cleaning shows, looking around at the mess in MY home 😂 (Irony)

@lesleyhubble2976 3 жыл бұрын

😂 same here

@katmontgomery7699 3 жыл бұрын

Ditto kiddo! Lol 😆

@viviennejordan215 2 жыл бұрын

I've had an Amazing day! Stated doing stuff. My health means i can't always do stuff, but 2dy, am feeling Good, so went with it! Watched another cleaning channel, which I hadn't watched for a long time, then this series came up, Loving it!

@viviennejordan215 2 жыл бұрын

This series is So Inspiring!

@1toshi32 3 жыл бұрын

If you don't teach them how to do things, they really don't know how to clean up after themselves. When you have such a big mess, you really don't know where to start. I do think the little guy might have tried but gave up after not knowing how to tidy up. So daunting when you have so much to go through.

@lesleyhubble2976 3 жыл бұрын

The husband seems a lazy hoarder

@earnold1896 3 жыл бұрын

He is a hoarder.

@gailsgig 2 жыл бұрын

When my son was small he had to pick up his toys and clean his room. I asked two days. Day three I put a box in the room. I said pick it up, or I will put it in the box one day. If it’s not put away, I will give the box to Good WILL. THEN IT WAS REALLY GIVEN AWAY. Give his clothes and toys away once, and they were put away after that.

@swordchild0013 2 жыл бұрын

To all who keeps saying it’s self inflicted - likely is she tried and dad never backed her up - eventually it is just easier to deal with it in your own

@happilysmpl 2 жыл бұрын

This poor Mom was so tired and she had given up long back and accepted the horror! I feel sorry for her ...

@amandahudson431 3 жыл бұрын

That small drawer will not hold all the school things.😅

@neversaw 3 жыл бұрын

The English woman's face when he fell into the drums hahahah

@teresah.6696 2 жыл бұрын

That pink and blue bin organizer is unnecessary in that small entryway plus its the wrong colors your eyes go straight to it.

@Jane5720 3 жыл бұрын

At the opening of this KZfaq I love the dog's reaction it was funny

@alextay416 3 жыл бұрын

I would have divorced him

@Leo9z 3 жыл бұрын

Teaching 15 years how to vacum or take rubbish out. Wtf I did this since like I was 6 without lessons. 😳

@cindysabin8612 2 жыл бұрын

I luv your show you both are excellent Kim and Mike pa

@pepelota74 3 жыл бұрын

I bet you $100 that clean house was a mess again in a month.

@robbrien8506 2 жыл бұрын

They should do a several months later revisit on each home like they did on their other show: How Clean is Your House. That told the true story of how effective the cleans were, and unfortunately, most of the time the effects often only lasted a little while. In most cases, it's one key person that causes most of the issues. In this case, the husband is the main problem here, or at least the source of it.

@JojoplusBo 2 жыл бұрын

@@robbrien8506 …you’re right, the husband has “ issues”… he’s a hoarder!

@Belle737 3 ай бұрын

Watching these while scanning math work sheets so I can resell and get the workbooks out of the house 😅

@monicakimsey5664 3 жыл бұрын

I LOVE Kim & Mike together! Also get LOTS of inspiration from these vids!

@sophiajoyceferry7150 3 жыл бұрын

@northman1069 3 жыл бұрын

This series is directed in a really different and attractive way compared to other similar programs

@daliamartinez8967 2 жыл бұрын

I find it amusing that mike doesn’t have perfectly manicured nails. The close up of the timer showed some jagged edges. Lol

@godblessamerica3247 3 жыл бұрын

Does anyone else suspect that the husband may be a hoarder ?

@JojoplusBo 2 жыл бұрын

YESSSSSSS! 😆

@donnashelley3939 2 жыл бұрын

The husband is a hoarder. He also takes no responsibility for anything. That means the mother gets no support from the so-called man she married.

@Chings001 3 жыл бұрын

She's 15 and with a smile says 'I'm lazy' .... as an African mom, I'm cringing

@samantham5374 3 жыл бұрын

As a Zimbabwean 16 year old, I’m cringing too, don’t worry!

@lusimyer 3 жыл бұрын

Hahaha All the African mums watching would be having a heart attack!! Lol 😝

@jaanajaana5771 3 жыл бұрын

How do African mom's teach girls to be tidy ??? What's the secret

@HRwoeking 3 жыл бұрын

As a HUMAN I’m cringing.

@evieaddy9580 3 жыл бұрын

@@jaanajaana5771 whipping

@keishaskelton9923 2 жыл бұрын

Omg these two are hilarious 🤣🤣🤣

@saranzm2977 2 жыл бұрын

I love Kim! She is my favorite!

@alisonshanahan9529 3 жыл бұрын

Kids should have been picking up their stuff from when they were babies, they are spoilt.

@maryriehm4752 3 жыл бұрын

Kim's barking up the wrong tree. Rubbing his leg.

@danskdna8550 2 жыл бұрын

Obviously, which is why it wouldn't have been funny if he were straight.

@peggypeggy4137 2 жыл бұрын

@@danskdna8550 Or 30 years older !!

@barbc7698 2 жыл бұрын

It's just part of the Schtick- they play sort of characters on their show.

@meridianx9020 3 жыл бұрын

What works is to tell them, I'm clearing up on X day. Anything on the floor, etc, is getting thrown out!

@misstati-tatianna1627 2 жыл бұрын

My dad did this 😒 it worked but I left my ring with my name on it on the floor that was my fault 🤦‍♀️

@helvyrah 3 жыл бұрын

i love Kim so much! i started calling people 'my love' because of her. lol thanks for your attention :)

@cassandraknight8804 3 жыл бұрын

A lovely episode 👍

@carolannpacificadam1944 10 ай бұрын

Lmfao Kim is such a trip!!

@robbrien8506 2 жыл бұрын

Agree with everything except the freezer. First, it wasn't full, and second, that's what freezers are for- to store things long term and save money when you stock up and buy perishables on sale. A must for many families on a budget.

@hollywarehouse7938 3 жыл бұрын

Happy WIFE, HAPPY LIFE❤️

@charlielanguellholt3877 3 жыл бұрын

Hello how are you doing 👋👋👋

@katepausig8562 2 жыл бұрын

Horrible saying.

@amelahmed1152 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you

@suziestar7778 3 жыл бұрын

So good!

@nancymills1884 3 жыл бұрын

My house is a disaster. And it frustrates me to the max. I ended up with all my Dad’s stuff, plus my own creative stuff.

@chilichickSantaFe 3 жыл бұрын

I just gathered a box of mementos to give to the thrift shop fr others to enjoy. those moment in inanimate object weigh me down. It's a start but the kitchen looks good. Moving on!

@kathleen7849 3 жыл бұрын

Do it bit by bit. I am nearly at the end of decluttering my parents stuff after 4 years. I just think, other people might enjoy and need these things. So much better now, can breathe and move around.

@nancymills1884 3 жыл бұрын

@@kathleen7849 I‘inherited’ my Dad and Mom’s stuff after 50 years of marriage.Then all of Dad’s stuff after he had a stroke. Right now it looks like he may have to live with me for awhile. So I’m going through stuff. Facebook Marketplace has become my best friend!

@godblessamerica3247 3 жыл бұрын

You'll have to up your priorities and keep only the most important of your dad's items.

@lorabetht9206 3 жыл бұрын

@@nancymills1884 I’m a professional pet portrait artist and like to do “projects” myself around the house... I have to limit myself to only a couple projects until they are finished ✅ creative minds can be unorganized sometimes 😉 I take it one room at a time. I also inherited all of my grandparents stuff since I was the only grandchild. I had to keep the most sentimental things while letting most go.

@janelai 2 жыл бұрын

Wow their house is beautiful.. 😍❤️

@catherinebullock9748 3 жыл бұрын

I'd find a large black garbage bag and go to work! If they had less to manage they would have less to pick up.

@stratfordbaby Жыл бұрын

If the daughter is 15 and the mother moved into the house 17 years before then the husband obviously moved in with her into the house by himself after the marriage.

@gittenielsen95 3 жыл бұрын

They are so lucky they aren't my family.

@charlielanguellholt3877 3 жыл бұрын

Hello how are you doing 👋👋👋👋😀

@SaffronHammer 2 жыл бұрын

I could not live like that. Bye-bye, partner. I am moving to a place I can keep livable.

@mylist0song 3 жыл бұрын

I feel for Heather, it is the same in my home...

@nancyskilton162 2 жыл бұрын

First things parents need to do is to get rid of all the electronics. Only to be returned when chores are done!

@1vansalva1 3 жыл бұрын

Awesom improvement

@helvyrah 3 жыл бұрын

i love the mom's voice (your random comment of the day lol)

@aakanshasharma2300 2 жыл бұрын

People loose inspiration to do such things when some professionals come and teach them it’s a big change and good change for them

@justsayin3647 3 жыл бұрын

Who, in their right mind, would even think about searching for that teenagers jersey?

@SaffronHammer 2 жыл бұрын

Is there a channel out there called "More Than Human" ?

@user-rm5ze2ux9z 3 жыл бұрын

Beautiful bravooo from Creesse 🇬🇷🙋♥️♥️♥️🇬🇷✈️💞👍🇬🇷🇬🇷✈️

@Kimberly-cn8ro Жыл бұрын

I love their house 🏠

@cathtf7957 2 жыл бұрын

It comes down to failure to parent. Everybody seems afraid of father.....

@mollyalathman619 3 жыл бұрын

They're drinking tea in the middle of this mess I don't know is that funny or am I laughing because of the mental breakdown I'm having because of this mess 😭😭😭🤣🤣🤣🤣😂

@msinvincible2000 2 жыл бұрын

Lady, divorce that man, he's not worth you. And discipline the cildren, some tough love is always a good thing

@happi_ness5042 3 жыл бұрын

This could be me and my family 🙈 it's not easy without Kim, but we are getting there 🤣

@wendypennell9432 2 жыл бұрын

They call it a store because that’s where things are stored not in your house

@annewollstein3511 3 жыл бұрын

Why are they all smiling, is it because they get money for exaggerating on television?

@charlielanguellholt3877 3 жыл бұрын

Hello how are you doing 👋👋👋

@nata3467 2 ай бұрын

I am seeing a trend- everyone thinks mom should do it all. absolutely absurd. My son knew from early on, keep tidy and put stuff away or you are telling me it is junk - so donated or in trash

@Mimi-ln2ic 2 жыл бұрын

Leave 'em all! 😎🥃

@denisegill1549 3 жыл бұрын

That family looks soooo tired

@smallie210 3 жыл бұрын

When was this filmed? Kim is more harsh and stern in this compared to How Clean is your House?

@marinalondon7399 2 жыл бұрын

they need only one rule. What is not on place goes to bin :DDDDDDDD

@lisbetsoda4874 2 жыл бұрын

I don't get how they keep bringing stuff into that place. That would have been one way the mother might have been able to put her foot down + at least with the kids. The father is a problem, though.

@bindasbudiya1443 2 жыл бұрын

I would have divorced that man..

@martzenvandenbroek 2 жыл бұрын

That washing machine🥳medieval!!!!

@Kimberly-cn8ro Жыл бұрын

I was 8 when I was doing laundry 🧺 and cleaning I'd be embarrassed 😳

@carmendebattista8060 3 жыл бұрын

Looks much better but for how long?? Will be the same in a few weeks time.

@1toshi32 3 жыл бұрын

I don't think so. Once it's tidy, you tend to want to keep it that way and I think the mom will do her part to keep them at it. I would make the friend a regular visitor and get her to get on top of them. She's tough lol.

@christinesandywell9123 3 жыл бұрын

There is no way I would not put up with a family like that I am a clean and my son is the same my daughter let’s go and she gets up and cleans and cleans they have been made them do the things as to me it is normal. I would move house on my own god bless you

@priscillajones4994 3 жыл бұрын

And I thought my house was messy...yikes

@rebeccahiggins2369 2 жыл бұрын

💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗

@sophiegolden 3 жыл бұрын

Wow, how it's stupid to not enjoy beautiful carpet, kilim, decorations, paintings etc... They made great, I hope for a long time...

@bp8538 3 жыл бұрын

Kim reminds me of Cruella Deville

@rsh1408 3 жыл бұрын

Love🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰💕💞💓💗❤🧡

@dawncawthra3519 2 жыл бұрын

Sorry but seems like mom had never taken the time to teach her kids how to clean and put things where they belong. Seems like moms the only one who knows where things are. Her personality is why they treat her the way they do. Shes an enabler acting like a victim.

@CamilaGomes-hb8xg 2 жыл бұрын

The thing is that if you keep doing thkngs or complains about your kids work all the time, then you will have to do everythjng forever. Parents think that kids will start doing chores out of pity once they become older, or will start doing it just because. That's such of a lie. Kids have to be taught, have to be demanded and have to learn respect. The father clearly doesn't respect anything, and the mom gives in too much, making everything for the children. Let them suffer a bit, fhs.

@lusimyer 3 жыл бұрын

"Expired Dec 06" 😦😟😯 ..( Sure thats not so long ago!!) ☹