You can't always blame someone. Sometimes we are with the wrong person at the wrong time and place. Everyone has characteristics, good and bad. We should accept everyone as they are, not try to change them. The fact that you broke up is not the reason that you are bad and not enough, you just didn't find the right person. Sometimes even after a breakup, you realize how much you depend on each other, and this breakup was necessary to realize this. Be sure if he\she is the same person in your life, he\she will come back. If not, it is true that it is hard and you may not forget it for a long time, but know that this is not the end of the road. You just didn't find the right person for you.

I’m still madly in love with my sons mother and it’s been almost 3 years and I’ve NEVER even been on a date or ANYTHING at ALL!! I’ve never loved someone the way I love her! Yes I had my flaws but my heart was tru and pure STILL IS!! I pray I have my family back one day 😥

They say time heals all wounds... sometimes, years later, you still wonder why and then you deal with that pain again. Beautiful message ❤ today I choose to say goodbye, to forgive and to accept I have to and are able to get unstuck and live life to the fullest... what's left of it. Blessings ya'll 🤗

After being single for 6 years and then run across this it hits really deep and touches alot. I question alot things that happen an still think about things

I've not forgotten the person but I don't ever want to send a VoiceMail to someone that would never do the same for me. As much as I can appreciate the creation of this video. I honestly would never make myself this vulnerable to someone. I think it's much better to just hold onto the memories, don't focus on them. I know it will hurt on some days. You may find yourself getting very angry randomly. You may find yourself blaming yourself sometimes. You may even find yourself being aggressive. Just know that it's much better to move on from them. Don't keep them around. They hurt you once, they will do it again. Even if they tell you they won't- They will. After listening to this VoiceMail, I feel like the girl is being far too open with how she feels after a breakup. I honestly wouldn't write, record, do anything for someone that's mistreated me in such a way. Don't forget, we are all different. We are all Beautiful each to our own. It matters what you think about yourself. I really don't want to say anything mean towards this VoiceMail but part of me really doesn't see the point in sending this to anyone. You can do it if you wish to but I promise you they are not worth your effort. They are not worth your voice. In-fact, by doing this, you are giving them what they wanted at the same time. They get to have their cake and eat it too. They now have a long voice recording of you that they can rather keep or make fun of. They may even send it to their friends. Honestly, truthfully, just move on. It's not easy, it's easier said than done. Especially if it's your first ever relationship. It's time to *Move On...*

The line of "like every other voicemail in my head this isn't coming out the way I want it to" yet these words put it perfectly

Wow this hurt. I felt every single word . But I no longer place blame or wait for answers . I had to let all the dreams of us , go . Had to turn to God for help in understanding 🙏 and healing. ❤️

A divorce or separation can sometimes feel like grieving a death.After a while unanswered text and calls you get used to and start to understand,no reason for that last conversation.Especially realizing they wouldn’t do the same but can easily always point the finger for your faults and never look at what they did to hurt you. Might sound harsh but just keeping focused on the man above,18 years became the past so quickly

7 years together and 2 and 1/2 years apart now and I still think about us everyday. The thought of us ever splitting up never crossed my mind a single time, I just thought that whatever problems we were having or would ever go through that we would always stay together no matter what. I guess when you truly see yourself with another person forever and never second guess it, when that person just up and leaves, you never truly stop thinking about them. Most people will say it gets easier with time but in my case it's just been another day without them in my life and another day for my mind to wonder.

I used this for my fight!!! Loyalty over royalty and I’m so glad the world knows

This made me cry as I am going through a heartbreak that I thought I was over but I can't get her out of my heart. I gave it my all and she left and said I don't know why I'm leaving but it's a lot and I can't handle that right now. Then she ghosted me and went back to her narcissist ex husband.

Life’s saddest part we all mess up no matter how we love them.There are times you let the stress and depression lead you to do stupid things;things you may regret in the near future. Just hold on , move on and pray you get over it

This gave me a sence of relief. I felt this way freshly out of a 4year relationship. I never was balzy enough to do something so brave. But now I know I can

Love is painful...I don't play with peoples feelings or sell out my ex for a little cash or bitter revenge. Sometimes it's no one's fault. Sometimes it's mine...sometimes it's yours....sometimes the world comes between people and it's no one's fault. I just want everyone I've ever loved to know it was real...at least at the time. I forgive you and myself. Miss your face

Amen sister, love this SO MUCH, literally explains everything EXACTLY!!

Real love does not hurt it doesnt lie or cheat. Real love begins and it DOESNT END....It is kept alive by your soul that has deep unabiding loyalty under all conditions....Real love withstands all things ...it does not age. There beauty never fades....It is a deep uncondtion that few are capable of. I was with a man near a decade. My love for him never faded it was as strong n stronger year after year...and I can say 100% I never ever wanted thought cared or ever even for a mico second looked at another man. My heart my mind my body was his. I was his girl and i was proud and felt blessed to love and be so attracted to him. Our plan by his very own mind n voice was to spend the rest of our lives together....He said this at least 10x a month for near 10 years....I believed him. But yes but....there was something radically wrong n i never knew what it was....i tried to find out but i really hoped it was ??? Just me.... Well it wasnt It was him His words were meaningless The relationship was an utter lie He had an ENTIRE LIFE FOR 7 8 YEARS BEHIND MY BACK. When i questioned him? I was deemed insane or crazy controlling non trusting I believed it was? Me I wasnt insane or crazy or jealous or non trusting... I was right My heart was right My gut was right My intuition was right And My MY LOVE FOR HIM WAS RIGHT IT WAS REAL TRUE UNABIDING EVERY WORD I SAID WAS TRUE WHEN I SAID I LOVE YOU When i made love to him? It was? Love real love He betrayed me He was an imposter And When i got close to his truth? Well........ I found out What? Hate truly is. I found out what ? His REAL LOVE N TRUTH WAS... NOW? Iknow what real FEAR is Now i know? What real love ? ISNT.... STILL???? I DO BELIEVE IN LOVE... BECAUSE MY LOVE WAS??? REAL TRUE and forever I know that God will place a man in my life before i leave this world... That CAN love Real love I know i just know there is someone who can love Just like i love I love hard I fell hard But I do i do still.... Believe in love

I think your vulnerability is so beautiful baby keep on ...this is part of your healing and your journey. Keep on shining...your himanity is a beacon of hope for the other lost and lonely souls out there.

This makes me feel a lot of emotions at one time and I can't explain it...

"Things went wrong in both of our lives, and then you got stuck with me, and you needed a reason, a reason to hate me" I know it wasn't all in that order, in the lyrics, but I felt that in my soul 😢 I feel like now, not an ex, he's sick of me and he's just looking for a reason to dislike me and push me away, and I love him so damn much 😞

To my ex... that legit vm is raw and honest. but after 3 years of trying to forget about what we had ... if we ever had anything real? that vm just reminded me of a time i did that with all my heart and soul but i never got a reply or a call back... it was the hardest thing i ever had to do on my own. after finally breathing only bcz of jesus christ, i can finally say i have been in love and experienced what it is to fall in love and not work out. If i ever get a chance to see you i will just hug you and kiss you and tell you i love you with all my heart forever and ever. something i didnt get to say. but moving on I wish the best for you in this life. to everyone who had loved and lost remember everything is on GODS timing and plan for us. Bless you all and wishing you all happiness and love.

Thank you for sharing this voicemail. I’m still wondering why my Partner plans mean for things I’ve done in the past and she continues to. That hurts a lot it hurts me a lot. Thank you relate to this message a lot because it’s what I’m going through at the present time don’t wanna break up but it sure feels like she broke up with me. And I get blamed every time I asked question try to talk communicate just to talk if it’s okay, I feel very alone. It almost feels like purposely saying push me out of her life. It almost feels like it’s over. 😢

This brought tears to my eyes. WHEN YOU ARE IN LOVE, IT JUST ISN'T EASY!

Ive heard this and ahhhhh.. it still shatters my heart

love the chasing cars piano on the instrumental, but love the emotion behind this.

Awe man, this is heartbreaking. I've felt this, sooooo similar. Somehow why isn't our business.... somehow we have to believe that there's a different future out there for us that we can't even imagine or fathom how wonderful it will be. Somehow we just have to love ourselves and hand over the reins to something bigger than us and not human. God it's hard though. It's so confusing and seems so unjust. Another person shouldn't have the power to destroy us and yet we fall in and give the ammunition for them to....each time, different face, same mistake.

this is exactly how i feel i felt every word it felt like me saying this all the empty promises and hurt and i still went back over and over again for the to just leave.

So sad...I can relate. Even if there was an answer being the one left behind cuts deep and sometimes having no answer is the answer. Although the only thing definite in life is change...we should all be a little more considerate of how we leave or exit any type of relationship with loved ones and or friends. There is always a nicer or decent way to soften the blow...

oh, i'm crying with pain although I thought I'm mature enough to forget and move on, your words are very nice and deep to listen up. I hope he will find this video and voices to get those words i'd like to say to him too. Wish those ears meet at and link to hearts here.

That's true, things don't just crash and burn. But there's nothing the other can do about it , when you ended things in a messy way .

This is soooo beautifully said... sad but soooo true ❤

I'm just glad I had you in my life. And I thank God I was able to love you. Love always Kim I will never forget you.

There's always 2 sides of every story & we interpret things differently.

How accurately true, the questions that dwell in your mind and most will never know cause we don’t know how to approach

Love is & can be pain, I felt every word of this voicemail..

They say time heals...well I've gotten stronger, and grown mentally, emotionally and spiritually, but...I still have a yearning to be with her...even after half a year...GOD bless u kat❤😊

Nothing is a very long word that describes what's in it it also has inertia in it ❤️

Its been 9years since we broke up and i forgive him already but the pain seems like forever in my heart...😢😢😢

Baby u know I love u and everyday I hope I can see u and just hold u again and have what we had back. My heart hurts for you.

Sometimes it gonna be a divine separation done by God

I wish I left a voicemail to my ex like this

never ever will people understand ...or try they will forever submit via utube..The worse part is you will never realize what Storm occured....but its all understandable. It will all work out.🫶🏾 Wishing everyone the Best in Life🦋🙏🏽

You CAN'T go FORWARD..... If YOU CONTINUE GOING BACK..❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

This hit more about my dad then it did for an ex my dad was in and out of my life and when I was old enough he only saw me as a friend and it's been 3 years since I have heard from him and this just hit more and got me thinking about how we used to be and how I thought it was a father daughter relationship but the day that hit me the most and when he said he didn't have kids

I'm 33yrs. Young, I've had so much pain in my life already. I don't date because of it. .

This Speaks Volumes 💯

Yes I do still remember those days

Oh my gosh I can’t😭😭I had my first love in year4 ik it was a really young age,but like we were just so in love and so into each other but then we broke up after a few months and this was in 2018 and still, to this day I still miss him and still have feelings for him and ik for a fact that he doesn’t love me anymore and has already moved on. I moved on as well but then my recent relationship didn’t go well and I just kinda went back to my first love. I don’t know what to do and every single time we see each other we act like strangers and it hurts when we just walk past each other acting like nothing happened in the past. He was honestly the best boyfriend I ever had. My recent one was just like him but my first love was the best. I miss him…a lot😭😭 not a single day goes past that I don’t think about him and things we did together like memories y’know? I still want to know what it would’ve been like if we didn’t break up.😭😭😭

This is deep...if you have true feelings you'll understand

This was beautiful very well spoke and very true I miss her every day I do how ever wonder if she misses me as well :/ 10 years and now I have to call her a memory messes me up but I hope she's happy

Amazing!! Beautiful art!

This finally broke me.

This is exactly how me and my ex went omg it's so sad and I don't want anyone to go through this pain.

*Eventually, you will start to feel after several heartbreaks-* "I just want to stop playing games with people. Even when I'm not the one playing the games. I'm just sick of being left behind / having someone that I thought was perfect for me, only to find that they lied to me" - At some point in your lives, you will start to feel like ENOUGH IS ENOUGH. During this time, this is when you will do everything in your power to make sure that the next person you allow yourself to fall in love with deeply is someone that you can actually TRUST. And you will make it clear to this person that you've been through enough already. You will explain why it means so much to you and why you wish for this current relationship to last forever. Because you just want to live a life like society tells you to. You look at your parents / guardians / etc. You look up to them (possibly) or maybe it's just the couples around you in public. You want that, you want to experience days like they are experiencing with someone fun, adventurous, exciting, and makes you feel loved and appreciated. With the way society is these days, that isn't going to become any easier. There was always great risks when it comes to dating someone- centuries ago- modern days included. It's just now that technology has advanced so much- We are starting to see the division between Humans & AI. Because the next Race/Species - whatever you wish to call it- It's looking to be A.I- Unless something comes before that. My point is that A.I could outlive us all and let's be real- It definitely will. What makes this future even more terrifying to a degree is that Humans could possibly find a way to live on forever. Which is completely immortal. It's breaking the code- going against logic- going against science- Etc. Anyway, I've delved far too deep into this.

Man that really says a lot that is so true

Its emotional and heartfelt beautiful piano ❤️❤️😮‍💨

I just wanted to love her for longer but I guess I wasn't the one she wanted in the end and that's okay.. it's what I need to accept. - Strangers With Memories ❤️‍🩹

It always so tiring getting hurt by people I loved, it makes me feel so pointless yet I still remember that day when I laughed because I was losing the person I loved the most just left and I become more heartless since nobody understands what I actually been thru just to be kind and put a mask

Sounds so much like my voice, how uncanny is that and gave me goosebumps but all the same I can relate to this and what I needed to tell my ex .

This hit me really hard. I'm trying to let him go but i love him so much. The more i try to push away from him the more i wanna talk to him. Dumb i know but he's the best and it's the most toxic relationship ever, so it should be easy to let him go. That's what you think, it's hard ok? I love you Jeremiah ❤ and i always will. Thank you for this video it made me realize so much

Man that literally explains how I feel about my ex

It always takes 2 people who are in love from the bottom of your heart and soul and more you can not fix what God has undone just pick up your feet and move on love is so precious and deep inside of us you want it or not you choose to leave and do your own thing life goes on and when God is fixing two people together stand back because things can get real ugly if anyone interferes with gods work he will never stop fixing people for whom they belong together that's a fact I have seen it with my own eyes and it will get ugly by God himself. That's what everyone needs to realize from God

I felt this. Going through the same.

So relatable!😢

Awe tears are falling. This is so good but so sad

This hits me hard. Being used and tossed out after fed so much fake intentions just to fill a void of another guy who you betrayed me with after saying you loved me then left me. He lingered around an wanted it was your reasoning for breaking a genuine person who would never do that to you bc of both our past trauma in relationships. Then to string me along like a option belittling my self worth and confidence knowing I'm 6 months sober off amphetamines and yet you just kept sending mixed signals as your kids were already attached to me an I was them. You built me up with full intentions to show me rock bottom again. Yet you don't know I lapsed because of you. You don't know what you did to me mentally nor do you care. Cause a sorry makes it all better as you grow distant to be w him cutting me off slowly till I force no contact as you wanna still be friends and I can't be just friends as just a text from you makes my mind race. You poisoned me into accepting the pain and suffering just to be a part of your life that has caused me to lose my sense of purpose for prosperity and happiness but you wouldn't understand because your the victim here and your fabricated trauma you preach is just your reflection of what you do to achieve your worth like its a game to get what you can while you can until you've been caught in your Fantasy world. You should of left me alone with uncertain intentions while juggling emotions for me and another. Yet I was warned and blindly proceeded. I was hoping they were wrong as we we instantly clicked. You made me feel lucky and blessed. Now all I feel is regret and humiliated that I allowed you to have control over everything I was and how you dissected my being till I was nothing but a burden to you to be discarded. I still care months later crave to hear from you but I don't reach out. Deleted our conversations the memories that were nothing more than a script you preformed. I miss the kids as I dont have any. I'm still stuck but I'm out of the dark with solitude and strength to continue to cancel any attempts to lure me back down the path to your entertainment. I hope nothing negative on you as your day will come and maybe you will hold yourself accountable for all the pain you have caused onto others. I pray for your kids to not take after you and be something you failed to give them. I wish you would leave me alone yet I'd rather be your victim than you choose a new victim to prey on. I hope to unlove you someday 🙏 hope to be mentally grounded without infiltration on my peace. Dating has ended for me after you. But it is just as much my fault staying as it is yours. I'm trauma bonded to you now and it makes me sick to think that I can't get away from being there for you and the kids. Pathetic

Time doesn’t heal wounds, it makes them worse….The one who got away.

I love this! Wish I could send this to my ex, what's the point now? we both moved on so many things wanted to say. Fast forward to something's not meant to be 😭💔

Some of this song makes me think of someone I was seeing that committed suicide….so raw, so deep, And so heartbreaking

Yes I always do!There is always time to fix things and make it right!

God gave us all a voice. If you don't speak up or let the person know.. ... faith over fear .

Great song

I just wanted to say that this is 100 deep and heart breaking cause there is alot of ppl out here that has had there heart ripped out of their chest and stomped on by there significant other while in a relationship like ive been done not only once but twice by the one I was with one of them had an affair while we were married and the other one just cheated on me and I was willing to spend the rest of my life with them i treated them with the most up respect and love and passion anyone could show they didnt have to work or anything they didn't want to do i made sure everything was taking care of and end return i got my heart destroyed and my trust is very hard to put out because of that

I felt this after she told me " part of her has detached away from me 😢" that's when I knew she has gone

❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤. This song is what I went through with my ex. What we had was wonderful. I know you still love me. I do to. I pray for him and his family always. He was to young for me

always will love him and hope she looks after him for me

This was everything..... woooowww...that voicemail spoke volumes🤔🤔

I'm full of questions too . We both are full of questions.

To my ex person, it was nice talking to you, when we were on good terms. I'm just sick of constantly being hurt by you , when i don't even deserve that kind of treatment. Take Care because i'm sick of this freaking apple phone.

Felt this one. My love is real. But I cant change what happened. I was humiliated for it. 😢😢 life goes on for me. I wake up, and get on with life. Anyone out there feel the same? Sometimes I wonder...

❤❤❤❤❤ heartbreaking. Ive wondered and thought the same things still do even tho i try not to

This so me right now.. wow words real ❤

Anyone who records your pain alone in your room, you just don't post them? I hope you heal soon♥️

I will always be happy for you , because i know i 'm not were you wanna be . And that's okay with me .

I’m in this situation just like this…. This hit really hard ….

You weren't pretending at all. You knew exactly what you were doing and i just closed up completely.

I take my life seriously. I'm serious about my work, my place at home and my relationship when i'm involved in one

Everyone is someone ♥️ x

You only grow, when you stick together and don't leave. And it wasn't a mistake at all because when you repeatedly do something that's a habit not a mistake.

I think we both lost, I know we did…. ❤❤❤

I thought this was a song and now i am in tears

The way I relate to this 😭

I feel this, trauma bonds are real.

These made me cry 😢am stuck my mind said goodbye but am still here can’t walk away

Yes , i do wonder were it would be , if we never ended. We could have been living together happily ever after and married by now. Because i felt at one point in our lives, we have so much in common and compatible . It's just we both shut down and we don't know how to deal with being hurt. And we both get stubborn , and we both get quite, and we both don't communicate. Neither of us , don't handle our emotions of being hurt very well.

This hits home 😢

That's why, communication is very important, so there can be understanding. Without communication, we have nothing at all .

I am back and forth with a man who started out with verbal abuse then hands on then now strangled me tell I passed out so to hear this I say don't chase someone you have to fix yourself first before you chase someone I want more then anything to go back to this man after what he did to me but I am fighting myself from going back

Why does this hit so hard😔💔

I felt this.

This hit .